Girlfriend Material or just a FUCK?

[Croatch]

No shit..... Fuck your mind, leave you with blue balls and empty your bank account.

I love the stories about how the wife gets half, etc.  Any fool who gets married, deserves to be played like a tool.
It's a financial agreement, nothing more.  Even homos can get married.  Means absolutely nothing.

Or when I hear about some guy paying for xyz for his girl, I think...what a fool...ahah  If a girl is into, you don't need to buy her anything too lavish.  Lay the pipe right, she'll be back...the end.

[Danimal77]

I don;t know much about that girl but from that photo she looks like a striaght up hoe that's hunting for dick. She couldn't get any game from you because you couldn't just drop the game on her. Seems like you think too much before you just go for it. If your kissing in your own place or hers, it should be over right there. However you managed to not get some is crazy .That must have been harder to do than actually getting it. That silver dress may as well be a want ad for a wild fuck.

Yeah, that's exactly it. I should have treated her like the whore she wanted to be (in her email she said she wanted to fuck me when she came over). I ended treating her like a "date" in my apartment. Drinking the bottle of wine slowly and asking her about her family and her dreams, when in fact, I should have busted a move as soon as she got up to my apartment. Most girls love it when you talk to them first. This girl I guess wanted one thing. When she realized that wasn't happening RIGHT AWAY, she didn't want it anymore... I kind of don't think she'll be coming back to my place on Sunday. It was like a missed opportunity and now it's just awkward. I'm pissed because she left my place without giving me SHIT and she's probably thinking I'm looking for a relationship and she's definitely not looking for that....

Makes me not want to cancel on the REAL date girl on Sunday.

[Danimal77]

I love the stories about how the wife gets half, etc.  Any fool who gets married, deserves to be played like a tool.
It's a financial agreement, nothing more.  Even homos can get married.  Means absolutely nothing.

Or when I hear about some guy paying for xyz for his girl, I think...what a fool...ahah  If a girl is into, you don't need to buy her anything too lavish.  Lay the pipe right, she'll be back...the end.

Very true. My ex took me to Vegas on her bank account. Flew me there first class. Paid for my entire week at the Rio. Saw some of the best shows and I never dropped a dime. Never had to. Hell, I didn't even own a car. Many girls will do this for you. The ones you meet from the get go who say what will you do for me, are the ones to avoid at all costs.

[James Blunt]

Yeah, that's exactly it. I should have treated her like the whore she wanted to be (in her email she said she wanted to fuck me when she came over). I ended treating her like a "date" in my apartment. Drinking the bottle of wine slowly and asking her about her family and her dreams, when in fact, I should have busted a move as soon as she got up to my apartment. Most girls love it when you talk to them first. This girl I guess wanted one thing. When she realized that wasn't happening RIGHT AWAY, she didn't want it anymore... I kind of don't think she'll be coming back to my place on Sunday. It was like a missed opportunity and now it's just awkward. I'm pissed because she left my place without giving me SHIT and she's probably thinking I'm looking for a relationship and she's definitely not looking for that....

Makes me not want to cancel on the REAL date girl on Sunday.

Forget about what you should have done and move on to what you should do now. Move in on option 2. No sense in harping on a bad experience.

I think the Hank Rearden memory approach should be applied here. "Memories are like pointless indulgences" lol.

[Danimal77]

Forget about what you should have done and move on to what you should do now. Move in on option 2. No sense in harping on a bad experience.

I think the Hank Rearden memory approach should be applied here. "Memories are like pointless indulgences" lol.

Yeah, but what if she asks me if I still want her to come over on Sunday? Do I last minute ditch the option 2 for her, if she decides she wants to come over for some nookie?

[James Blunt]

Yeah, but what if she asks me if I still want her to come over on Sunday? Do I last minute ditch the option 2 for her, if she decides she wants to come over for some nookie?

You're speaking like pussy only come's along every few years. It's great but not so great one should ask so many questions. Especially when one is still in the midst. lol. Take the second option.

[Danimal77]

You're speaking like pussy only come's along every few years. It's great but not so great one should ask so many questions. Especially when one is still in the midst. lol. Take the second option.

Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?

[Croatch]

Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?

I don't care how hot a bitch is, I don't bend over backward to nail anything.  For $300, you can get yourself a decent whore...why go through hoops for some pussy.  I know guys do, but I'd rather spank it to a 10 for free, than be chump to bang an 8.  That's just me though..haha

[James Blunt]

Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?

I think you need to smoke some marijuana and have a mental seminar on your life. You've got a great deal of uncertainty goin on. I think one of the few times pressure is felt is when someone feels below someone. Sort of like asking a boss for a raise. Be confident. They're just women. High class low class whatever class. They're all human and love to fuck. Drop the pressure. Be confident. You're putting it on a pedestal.

[Parker]

Very true. My ex took me to Vegas on her bank account. Flew me there first class. Paid for my entire week at the Rio. Saw some of the best shows and I never dropped a dime. Never had to. Hell, I didn't even own a car. Many girls will do this for you. The ones you meet from the get go who say what will you do for me, are the ones to avoid at all costs.

Why is she you ex?

[Bobby]

Why would she take the last sub home, if you're gonna have sex, ie spending the night....reason for leaving is something else

Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?

some "grade a"s are complete crazies, not worth it...all this time wasted, you could have banged plenty of 6-7s by now.

[Danimal77]

Why is she you ex?

I ask myself that very same question every day. Best girl I ever had and not just because of the money, trips, clothes and restaurants, but because she was quality. When a man is given THAT much, he can take it for granted and I suppose I did. Now she's with some younger French guy, who is shorter than her, has an unkept beard and doesn't even have a job. Saddens me to even think she went for THAT after me... Settling is a bitch.

[Danimal77]

Why would she take the last sub home, if you're gonna have sex, ie spending the night....reason for leaving is something else

some "grade a"s are complete crazies, not worth it...all this time wasted, you could have banged plenty of 6-7s by now.

Trust me man, it was a B.S. fucking excuse on her part. I went to go kiss her and she grabs her watch to see what time it is. I'm like WTF? She's like I'm just checking. I don't want to start something I can't finish. I need to catch the last subway. I'm like why do you have to go back home? She's like I'm getting tired and I'm really in the mood. This girl kept me waiting for 10 days and when she finally comes, she shows up 2 hours late and then tries to pull this shit on me. I back off and look pissed and she said you can come back and kiss me. I do, but then she's acting frigid and that was that. She said it's not happening tonight. She's the one who contacted ME and asked me if I wanted to have sex...

Anyways, fuck that for now... I have to get some fucking sleep. Thanks for all the advice guys.

Later.

[newmom]

I ask myself that very same question every day. Best girl I ever had and not just because of the money, trips, clothes and restaurants, but because she was quality. When a man is given THAT much, he can take it for granted and I suppose I did. Now she's with some younger French guy, who is shorter than her, has an unkept beard and doesn't even have a job. Saddens me to even think she went for THAT after me... Settling is a bitch.

Danimal, i really think the girl that is the leaving for good, dont bother. If you are truely looking to settle down or for quality relationship, stick with the lawyer. Not because she is a lawyer but I doubt she is into playing games. Most women do.
Alot of men do take advantage of the good ones, not sure why that is. They always seem the grass is greener on the other side.

Why does it bother you she is with this other person. Because she is giving him material things and probably treating him like gold or that he is probably uglier than you (not saying either one of you are ugly).

[Croatch]

Why would she take the last sub home, if you're gonna have sex, ie spending the night....reason for leaving is something else

some "grade a"s are complete crazies, not worth it...all this time wasted, you could have banged plenty of 6-7s by now.

Picture going through life having every guy you know, trying to bang you since 14.  Must warp your perception on things.  It's funny to see the length some guy will go to, just to bang some girl who looks great, but may be a complete girl....which will usually be the case.  This one girl I knew had 3 or 4 different guys give her roses on Valentine's day...haha, what chumps.  On top of it, she banged who she wanted anyway, regardless of the gifts and was an ungrateful female.  The most effort I put in, is dinner...that's about it...and I'm just ROLLIN in the pussy. haha
It's just not worth the hassle really.  If a girl is into, there shouldn't be huge effort involved.  If she needs all that, why even bother?  Remember, if she's real hot, just means she's had more dick in her than a porn star.  Chances are, she'll just lay there like a dead fish.  Don't waste your time, low effort, go for 4's.

[drkaje]

I vote for the whore.

[no one]

Alright boys, what do you think?

I'm on Plentyoffish... Been single for half a year. Thought I'd give it a go again and see what's out there. Get me a new honey. Anyways, here's the situation. Been corresponding with this girl for a week and a half now. She's not in town for much longer. She wanted to meet up for sex. She is fucking hot. Well, it finally happened tonight. She came over. We had a bottle of wine. We're making out (so she's obviously attracted). She takes off her sweater. Feel her up, etc.. Then shortly after she says she has to go. Seemed legit, because the last subway was coming. Thing, is I'm pissed, because she false represented herself. She barely gave anything up. She said how about she comes over again on Sunday (she is leaving on Monday for good). NOW, here is the risk involved. I have another girl who actually seems to be girlfriend material who wants to meet me for an ice cream on Sunday night. We have a set date for that night and seeing it's the first date, it looks bad to cancel. I may blow my chances with her, BUT, if I go and see her, I'm blowing my chances of fucking this hot girl who is leaving on Monday.

So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?

Discuss.

shes a tart. tell her to fuck off. any broad who was going to fuck you would have done so that nite.

[Flexb]

You won't lose the other girl by blowing her off, she'll only like you more. But I would do what's right and if you want that other as your girl then blow the other one off

[dyslexic]

I just...


take them both out for ice cream and make em' lick it off eachothers titties.

[Pollux]

So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?

The chance was already blown when the skank came over. Everything was set in stone and STILL nothing happened.  If I were you I wouldn't risk the skank coming over again. Don't be played like a fiddle and go for the girlfriend material.  

[just_a_pilgrim]

Danimal77 not you're fault bro, you did what you thought worked, you didn't realise how much of a slut she was and that you should have hit it right away. You can't read everyone's mind.

Blow her off, go with the other one. If the slut wants it she will contact you.


Oh yeh Croatch is on fucking fire in this thread 

[SF1900]

Don't blow the gf material one off. The other one had her chance and missed it.

[Option D]

WTF..Where are the pics

[Mr Nobody]

Don't blow the gf material one off. The other one had her chance and missed it.

Yes there is the answer.

[pedro01]

Yeah, but when I finally busted the move on her, she seemed all frigid and acted like she wasn't in the mood and said she had to get going. I tried to be the nice guy and get to know her before taking her to bed, but I guess all that ended up doing was making her not be in the mood for sex. No fucking clue, but canceling on the ice cream chick (her idea), could backfire on me. When women have that many options, if you blow them off (even once), they are on to the next guy.

That's your problem right there.

You are putting them on a pedestal - what's all this "women have so many options" crap ?

The way I see it - I have many options and any chick that lands me (OK - landed me - I have 2 kids) is very lucky indeed.

50% of the population are women. The human race is reproducing at a parabolic rate. Therefore, the rest of the world is not having trouble hooking up.

It's just you !