Girlfriend Material or just a FUCK?

[Danimal77]

Alright boys, what do you think?

I'm on Plentyoffish... Been single for half a year. Thought I'd give it a go again and see what's out there. Get me a new honey. Anyways, here's the situation. Been corresponding with this girl for a week and a half now. She's not in town for much longer. She wanted to meet up for sex. She is fucking hot. Well, it finally happened tonight. She came over. We had a bottle of wine. We're making out (so she's obviously attracted). She takes off her sweater. Feel her up, etc.. Then shortly after she says she has to go. Seemed legit, because the last subway was coming. Thing, is I'm pissed, because she false represented herself. She barely gave anything up. She said how about she comes over again on Sunday (she is leaving on Monday for good). NOW, here is the risk involved. I have another girl who actually seems to be girlfriend material who wants to meet me for an ice cream on Sunday night. We have a set date for that night and seeing it's the first date, it looks bad to cancel. I may blow my chances with her, BUT, if I go and see her, I'm blowing my chances of fucking this hot girl who is leaving on Monday.

So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?

Discuss.

[Hulkotron]

Danimal please post pics of the POF whore.

I say re-schedule the ice cream date, if she's really into you she won't care.

[TEsticles]

im sure with a little re arrangement of times, u could see doth of them......but fucking the skank comes first, and if the other is gf mateial, she wont  mind doing sunday  (day) ice cream............

[Tapeworm]

Dump the one who monopolized your evening with the promise of sex and then left you blue balled.  She had her chance and blew it.

[swoody]

Fuck the skank and re-schedule the "girlfriend material".  Quality women (girlfriend material) are very scarce these days due to most of them being materialistic and childish.  If the "girlfriend material" one isn't now, she will be later when she's got you by your balls in a "relationship".  Then the self-entitlement starts creeping in and the nut vice tightens... pretty soon she'll be bitching about money over a tub of ice cream while you are staring longingly at your nuts, which will then be in a pickling jar on the top shelf of her vanity.  Just a fuck = win/win.  

If you re-schedule the girlfriend material date it will make her think your a busy dude and aren't putting your life on hold for her.  It will actually make you look good if you re-schedule and take her out another time. As long as you don't cancel too often or 24 hrs before your golden.  

If you feel like the skank isn't gonna put out when she rolls over, dangle a carrot of some sort.  Make her work for it a little at the first part of the night.  Women won't put out if they feel like they are putting too much on the table too soon.

[Danimal77]

Dump the one who monopolized your evening with the promise of sex and then left you blue balled.  She had her chance and blew it.

You know, I fucking agree with this, but man, she's a fine piece of ass. She's like if she gets started now, she won't be able to stop and she doesn't want to miss her last bus/subway. Damn, I said I was willing to pay for her cab ride home and she refused, making sort of an empty promise to do this again and the right way on Sunday? I was pissed, but tried not to show it too much, but man, it's been a long time since a pussy toyed with me like that...

Then I have this other girlfriend material girl, who is a full fledged commercial lawyer who is really looking forward to seeing me on Sunday night. She's a catch and a half herself, but, the bitch from tonight, was someone I just want to crack open on the kitchen counter and destroy...

What would suck is if I accept to see the skank on Sunday and she cancels on me, the flake that she is.

[Voice of Doom]

Tell the hottie that you've got another date on Sunday and you'll call her when you're free.  Play it like you're not interested and she'll be drooling from her panties to give it up.  Right now she knows you want it bad and that gives her power.  If she knows she's being blown off for another girl...you win.

[Danimal77]

Danimal please post pics of the POF whore.

I say re-schedule the ice cream date, if she's really into you she won't care.

First 2 are the POF WHORE, the last one is the girlfriend material one..

[Danimal77]

Tell the hottie that you've got another date on Sunday and you'll call her when you're free.  Play it like you're not interested and she'll be drooling from her panties to give it up.  Right now she knows you want it bad and that gives her power.  If she knows she's being blown off for another girl...you win.

Bro, like I said, she's GONE on Monday for good. She's not from here. She's been here on business for 2 weeks and is leaving on Monday. The GF material girl (who is hot in her own right) is really looking forward to seeing me on Sunday (she asked ME out) and if I say no, I'm sure she's getting her fair share of guys knocking down on her door too. She's the one in the bikini on the beach.

[James Blunt]

The first one looks like nothin to fret over missing out on. Go with the girlfriend material.

[Croatch]

Looks like 3 - 10s













































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[Danimal77]

The first one looks like nothin to fret over missing out on. Go with the girlfriend material.

This is my 3rd option for early/mid next week. This one is HIGH CLASS...

[Danimal77]

Whore 1 and Whore 2 are the same girl Croatch. She's the one who gave me blew balls tonight.










































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[JOHN MATRIX]

girls wil fuck your mind, end thread.

[Danimal77]

girls wil fuck your mind, end thread.

No shit..... Fuck your mind, leave you with blue balls and empty your bank account.

[Kwon]

No shit..... Fuck your mind, leave you with blue balls and empty your bank account.

That's it.

And we still never learn, do we?

[Danimal77]

That's it.

And we still never learn, do we?

Nope, we keep going back for more torture. Is getting pussy, or the promise of it really worth all this effort and headache?

[Kwon]

Nope, we keep going back for more torture. Is getting pussy, or the promise of it really worth all this effort and headache?

Depends on your age-group.

Sometimes we just want to find the one to settle down with/start a family with etc.

[Danimal77]

Depends on your age-group.

Sometimes we just want to find the one to settle down with/start a family with etc.

I'm 32 and I'm looking for what you just mentioned. Thing is, this one wild girl who gave me the promise of a wild and crazy night tonight and did not deliver threw me for a loop. I thought no girl could have that power over my hormones anymore. This is why men have affairs and then end up having their loving wife leave them. All because of women like the one who came over tonight and left me fucking hanging. It's 4:00am right now and I still can't get this shit off my mind.

[Kwon]

I'm 32 and I'm looking for what you just mentioned. Thing is, this one wild girl who gave me the promise of a wild and crazy night tonight and did not deliver threw me for a loop. I thought no girl could have that power over my hormones anymore. This is why men have affairs and then end up having their loving wife leave them. All because of women like the one who came over tonight and left me fucking hanging. It's 4:00am right now and I still can't get this shit off my mind.

If you seek a wife / someone that's there for the long haul, you shouldn't worry about that girl, she didn't even deliver!

Why worry? Go for the real material instead.

[Danimal77]

If you seek a wife / someone that's there for the long haul, you shouldn't worry about that girl, she didn't even deliver!

Why worry? Go for the real material instead.

Words of wisdom my friend.

[pedro01]

Cancel the date with the ice-cream chick. Cancelling a date makes you appear less desperate and will work for you in the middle of the week when you finally call her to re-arrange. Also - don't take any chick for an ice cream, that's setting yourself up for something platonic.

Have the first chick round but for heavens sake, stop fucking about and give her what she wants this time.

I bet the poor gal sat around for hours dropping hints before finally ripping off her sweater.

Take control, dude.

[Danimal77]

Cancel the date with the ice-cream chick. Cancelling a date makes you appear less desperate and will work for you in the middle of the week when you finally call her to re-arrange. Also - don't take any chick for an ice cream, that's setting yourself up for something platonic.

Have the first chick round but for heavens sake, stop fucking about and give her what she wants this time.

I bet the poor gal sat around for hours dropping hints before finally ripping off her sweater.

Take control, dude.

Yeah, but when I finally busted the move on her, she seemed all frigid and acted like she wasn't in the mood and said she had to get going. I tried to be the nice guy and get to know her before taking her to bed, but I guess all that ended up doing was making her not be in the mood for sex. No fucking clue, but canceling on the ice cream chick (her idea), could backfire on me. When women have that many options, if you blow them off (even once), they are on to the next guy.

[JOHN MATRIX]

I'm 32 and I'm looking for what you just mentioned. Thing is, this one wild girl who gave me the promise of a wild and crazy night tonight and did not deliver threw me for a loop. I thought no girl could have that power over my hormones anymore. This is why men have affairs and then end up having their loving wife leave them. All because of women like the one who came over tonight and left me fucking hanging. It's 4:00am right now and I still can't get this shit off my mind.

dont even mess with that shit. the biggest mistake i ever made was leaving a genuine relationship to pursue some lust-ful hot peice of ass, turned out we didnt even really like each other, and never did more than mess around, lasted all of 2 weeks, and by doing so i lost someone who-while not as 'hot', was so much better for me...this is the kind of shit you regret forever..

[James Blunt]

I don;t know much about that girl but from that photo she looks like a striaght up hoe that's hunting for dick. She couldn't get any game from you because you couldn't just drop the game on her. Seems like you think too much before you just go for it. If your kissing in your own place or hers, it should be over right there. However you managed to not get some is crazy .That must have been harder to do than actually getting it. That silver dress may as well be a want ad for a wild fuck.