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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: drkaje on May 16, 2010, 08:20:41 AM
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Was talking to DGF about this last night and our opinions were pretty different, LOL!
Basically her sister is (i'll be nice) difficult and despite being very hot can't find anyone to date.
GF thinks that means put yourself on some dating sites and see if there are any bites. As if a bigger selection will solve the issue. It's easier to imply dateless people "just haven't found Mr/Ms right" than admit they just haven't been the right person. By right I specifically mean consistently relating to oneself in a good way and being approachable.
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"put yourself out there" well might work...
a larger population sampling might mean she could get a bite where the guy is willing to put up with more shit...
on the flip side...she might have to aim lower to find such a guy
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Yeah, I think put yourself out there means let a larger population know you are available.
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Yeah, I think put yourself out there means let a larger population know you are available.
Thanks,
I was pretty certain women and men interpret that phrase differently.
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I was pretty certain women and men interpret that phrase differently.
ONLY if you aren't aware that you might....
if you are, you r liable to catch yer mistake you r about to make and correct you mistake for gender....ie..make the observation gender neutral to the best of your abilities
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ONLY if you aren't aware that you might....
if you are, you r liable to catch yer mistake you r about to make and correct you mistake for gender....ie..make the observation gender neutral to the best of your abilities
Few things are gender neutral.
More my amusement at how differently people can interpret the same advice than a mistake. Her sister would never ask me for advice because I tend to be direct. Expanding the search area or lowering standards are both easier than working on yourself.
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Few things are gender neutral.
by design most things aren't...but sometimes its necessary to find the gender neutral path instead of just blindly scumbing to gender biased instincts...thats what the general population does...why sink that low
More my amusement at how differently people can interpret the same advice than a mistake. Her sister would never ask me for advice because I tend to be direct. Expanding the search area or lowering standards are both easier than working on yourself.
i said...she might have to aim lower....and in your first post , you didn't exactly seem to have a high opinion of her so i didn't go the "she should work on herself" route...cause again, inferring from your opinion of her..she is probably incapable of changing herself
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by design most things aren't...but sometimes its necessary to find the gender neutral path instead of just blindly scumbing to gender biased instincts...thats what the general population does...why sink that low
i said...she might have to aim lower....and in your first post , you didn't exactly seem to have a high opinion of her so i didn't go the "she should work on herself" route...cause again, inferring from your opinion of her..she is probably incapable of changing herself
She's very nice, just one of those chicks most decent guys would run out of patience with long before figuring it out. :)
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She's very nice, just one of those chicks most decent guys would run out of patience with long before figuring it out. :)
why ???
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why ???
Odd sense of humor, very guarded, sarcastic when uncomfortable, not approachable, trusts no one, and never remembers to smile.
She'd be married in ten minutes if mute, LOL! :)
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Odd sense of humor, very guarded, sarcastic when uncomfortable, not approachable, trusts no one, and never remembers to smile.
She'd be married in ten minutes if mute, LOL! :)
well none of the characteristics you mentioned are terminal to say the least...she's prolly just very shy...
she needs a dose of self esteem and she'd be fine....maybe going out on a buncha dates (without sleeping with anyone) would bring her out!
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well none of the characteristics you mentioned are terminal to say the least...she's prolly just very shy...
she needs a dose of self esteem and she'd be fine....maybe going out on a buncha dates (without sleeping with anyone) would bring her out!
Maybe getting laid a lot will relax her, LOL!
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Maybe getting laid a lot will relax her, LOL!
lol well i hope she has enough of a self esteem not to
at least in my opinion
the more sex with random people you have, the more you lose the ability to commit to one person..
but thats me
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Odd sense of humor, very guarded, sarcastic when uncomfortable, not approachable, trusts no one, and never remembers to smile.
She'd be married in ten minutes if mute, LOL! :)
it should be against the law for some people to speak...
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it should be against the law for some people to speak...
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A lot of them just can't/won't help it, LOL!
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Maybe getting laid a lot will relax her, LOL!
i'll do it. got any pics?
lol
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I have this hot blonde female friend who always is dating Mr. Wrong on the pretext of getting married. She is 6 yrs younger than me, and she is intelligent, nice , but too eager to get married. She met some guy on Eharmony, after breaking up with her current boyfriend of almost a yr (she was 5 yrs older than the ex). She seems too needy, too eager.
She looks like Chloe Sullivan from Smallville. She put herself out there, but hasn't focused on the fact that she is a very needy woman, who is trying to match her older sister, who just got married.
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Odd sense of humor, very guarded, sarcastic when uncomfortable, not approachable, trusts no one, and never remembers to smile.
She'd be married in ten minutes if mute, LOL! :)
For a second I could have sworn you were talking about me, ...then I realized you were talking about someoone who wants to be married. :D
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For a second I could have sworn you were talking about me, ...then I realized you were talking about someoone who wants to be married. :D
I wouldn't mention Judi and the ability to shut up (or not get in the last word) in the same sentence without gratuitous smileys. :) :) :)
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would she be ok with a freshly shaven fat guy?
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lol well i hope she has enough of a self esteem not to
at least in my opinion
the more sex with random people you have, the more you lose the ability to commit to one person..
but thats me
I concur :)
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I concur :)
my stummy hurts >:(
thats a cross between stomach and tummy.....
....i'm innovative like that :D
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Toxy,
A woman with only a cooter to feel esteem of self over is dealing with far bigger issues.
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Toxy,
A woman with only a cooter to feel esteem of self over is dealing with far bigger issues.
totally agree!
on a side note...damn my atomach hurts and i'm teaching....another 3 hrs to go >:(