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....okay, this thread was actually supposed to be posted by Grant but i will, gladly take his place ;D
WARNING- THIS ISN'T A "SYSTEM"...but it works
WARNING2- I know how annoying it is when some "mac-daddy" posts how to get ladies online...but then again- i'm pretty annoying
anyway, there is alot of the conventional dating shit- you know, always listen, make eye contact yada yada yada. But, what i will provide you is some supplementary shit that works for me
Easy Come, Easy Go- Fact of the matter is there are SO many hot to moderately hot girls out there that if one dumps you (or you dump one) there is always another one available. Why cry over spilled milk when there is another one on the way. The "Easy Come, Easy Go" theory lends it self to almost all of the proceding principles I will list
Be Bold- don't be afraid to say what you want. Forget about "So, what do you think about the weather". Go for the kill (sometimes)- "How you doing Gorgeous?". Now, you need to use "Boldness" with some tact- you want to be bold but you don't want to pull out your cock and show it to a bitch at the club. However, "EC,EG" lends itself here as well because so what if a girl gets offended- there is ALWAYS another one on the way. Also, being bold means not following that gay ass "don't call a girl until 3 day after you get her number" rule. Be bold and call whenever you want. And, if she doesn't like it, fuck her- remember, Easy come, easy go
"Camera"- whenever you are talking to a girl, pretend that you are being shot for a tv show. How do you want the viewer to see you as you talk to the girl? what do you want your body language to project? Basically, how do you want to play up to "the camera".
Don't Apologize- seriously, you're a bold man and you believe in "EC,EG" so don't apologize for your actions and true feelings. "You're offended by the fact that I said that you're sexy cuz it's politically correct? Fuck you". Do what you want and don't be some over sensitve sissy boy. I know that this is ironic coming from a guy with a "Emo" hairstyle
The movie experience- girls like it when George Clooney flirts with a girl and does stuff that "only happens in movies". So, why not and try and give her that George Clooney experience. This is kind of a extension of "Boldness". See how George flirts with the bank teller in that movie with Jennifer lopez ( i forgot the name of it). Do shit like that. See girls get that crap programmed in there head to the point that it would trigger a favorable response in real life. Fact of the matter is that Hollywood has planted the seed in girls heads- it's up to you to cultivate it.
here is my present to you, bitches.
If anything you should take away from the above, it's definitely the "Easy Come, Easy Go" theory- you become invincible when you embrace it. Invincible to the point that there is no such thing as this phenomenon known as "Heartbreak". Heartbreak?! who gives a shit- there is always another girl on the way
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mods- this thread got double posted- delete one of them- thanks
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Great advice and totally correct...now if I wasnt married...
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Great advice and totally correct...now if I wasnt married...
yeah same here
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Good post JNN, Being bold is how i do it
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LOL Sounds like something that kid Zyxx would say. The principles are solid. There are less blustery ways of doing it though. If you can do it and separate arrogance from true confidence, you're good to go anytime, everytime.
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Spot on JNN, I'm usually a pretty nice guy, but I remember a few times when I was a complete d!ckhead and just didn't care what the girl thought about me and these few times that I did this the girl wanted my number and wanted me to contact her. WTF? If I was the girl, I would have either slapped me in the face, and just walked away from me.
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Spot on JNN, I'm usually a pretty nice guy, but I remember a few times when I was a complete d!ckhead and just didn't care what the girl thought about me and these few times that I did this the girl wanted my number and wanted me to contact her. WTF? If I was the girl, I would have either slapped me in the face, and just walked away from me.
Post up that pic of you and that hottie again Dj.
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JNN: Will the regular use of a rabbit style vibrator desensitize a woman or was I just having an off night?
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Resounding Applause for JNN, I shall sleep soundly today over you know who.
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JNN: Will the regular use of a rabbit style vibrator desensitize a woman or was I just having an off night?
off night
girls never get tired of their toys
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JNN: Will the regular use of a rabbit style vibrator desensitize a woman or was I just having an off night?
I am not JNN, but in my experiences, absolutely.
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Who gives a sh!t if she gets off, just stick yo thing in her tight little poopchute and be done with it ;)
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Be Bold? how bold?
how about talking as if you know you two are going to be having sex at some point? in a joking way... ;D
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I am not JNN, but in my experiences, absolutely.
She had a bit to drink too, but I'm a patient man and was on very familiar ground, so a bit of an ego blow. :(
It's been a few months since I shagged her. She confessed she's using this thing 4x a week, which to me translates as 'I took out a personal loan to cover the battery costs.'
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She had a bit to drink too, but I'm a patient man and was on very familiar ground, so a bit of an ego blow. :(
It's been a few months since I shagged her. She confessed she's using this thing 4x a week, which to me translates as 'I took out a personal loan to cover the battery costs.'
Incorporate it with your (and hers) "sessions". A lot of women don't want a man or the man that they are seeing, see them use their "toys". If you show that it's okay, you get some freaky-deaky fun, and she will be a lot more relaxed, even recommend some to her like the Lelo Lorus...
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Easy Come, Easy Go- Fact of the matter is there are SO many hot to moderately hot girls out there that if one dumps you (or you dump one) there is always another one available. Why cry over spilled milk when there is another one on the way. The "Easy Come, Easy Go" theory lends it self to almost all of the proceding principles I will list
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nothing 'easy' about it...lol of course there are millions of other hot women out there. problem is, 90% are attached at any given time, and for the tiny window that they are available, they have guys around them like flies on shit all trying to gain her favor.
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problem is, 90% are attached at any given time, and for the tiny window that they are available, they have guys around them like flies on shit all trying to gain her favor.
valid point however i think that we all assume that hot chicks are taken.
Fact of the matter is that one should embrace "being bold" and make a pass at "the hot chick who is supposedly with a man already". If she is with someone- no big deal- easy com, easy go
Also, remember the term "cheating" exists for a reason- because "cheating" happens....people cheat- remember that
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....okay, this thread was actually supposed to be posted by Grant but i will, gladly take his place ;D
WARNING- THIS ISN'T A "SYSTEM"...but it works
WARNING2- I know how annoying it is when some "mac-daddy" posts how to get ladies online...but then again- i'm pretty annoying
anyway, there is alot of the conventional dating shit- you know, always listen, make eye contact yada yada yada. But, what i will provide you is some supplementary shit that works for me
Easy Come, Easy Go- Fact of the matter is there are SO many hot to moderately hot girls out there that if one dumps you (or you dump one) there is always another one available. Why cry over spilled milk when there is another one on the way. The "Easy Come, Easy Go" theory lends it self to almost all of the proceding principles I will list
Be Bold- don't be afraid to say what you want. Forget about "So, what do you think about the weather". Go for the kill (sometimes)- "How you doing Gorgeous?". Now, you need to use "Boldness" with some tact- you want to be bold but you don't want to pull out your cock and show it to a bitch at the club. However, "EC,EG" lends itself here as well because so what if a girl gets offended- there is ALWAYS another one on the way. Also, being bold means not following that gay ass "don't call a girl until 3 day after you get her number" rule. Be bold and call whenever you want. And, if she doesn't like it, fuck her- remember, Easy come, easy go
"Camera"- whenever you are talking to a girl, pretend that you are being shot for a tv show. How do you want the viewer to see you as you talk to the girl? what do you want your body language to project? Basically, how do you want to play up to "the camera".
Don't Apologize- seriously, you're a bold man and you believe in "EC,EG" so don't apologize for your actions and true feelings. "You're offended by the fact that I said that you're sexy cuz it's politically correct? Fuck you". Do what you want and don't be some over sensitve sissy boy. I know that this is ironic coming from a guy with a "Emo" hairstyle
The movie experience- girls like it when George Clooney flirts with a girl and does stuff that "only happens in movies". So, why not and try and give her that George Clooney experience. This is kind of a extension of "Boldness". See how George flirts with the bank teller in that movie with Jennifer lopez ( i forgot the name of it). Do shit like that. See girls get that crap programmed in there head to the point that it would trigger a favorable response in real life. Fact of the matter is that Hollywood has planted the seed in girls heads- it's up to you to cultivate it.
here is my present to you, bitches.
If anything you should take away from the above, it's definitely the "Easy Come, Easy Go" theory- you become invincible when you embrace it. Invincible to the point that there is no such thing as this phenomenon known as "Heartbreak". Heartbreak?! who gives a shit- there is always another girl on the way
QFT
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QFT
che endorsement= everything
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Great points dude, all the true Vets of the game can agree with these!
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JNN, your "johns" are going to be disappointed if they see you dispensing advice on dating women..... :o
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jnn
(http://www.cakecreate.co.uk/upload/pic/8390922.jpg)
definitely not apart of jay-z's mile high club.
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I would suggest a few more points: 1. Don't be over complimentary. 2. Be more self-absorbed and don't give them too much attention.
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I would suggest a few more points: 1. Don't be over complimentary. 2. Be more self-absorbed and don't give them too much attention.
good ones-
i'll be honest- i think I haven't held true to the "don't be over complimentary" principle
it's against my nature cuz i'm a "dick"
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what about the "negative" hit?
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JNN, do you peacock?
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JNN is a generous man, sharing his vast knowledge here
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what about the "negative" hit?
Negative hits in reality show just low the guy's self esteem is. You don't be negative about the the woman...in fact, I think men who do negative hits on women, are future or former abusers...because that's actually where it all starts. "you're not all that...", "Please, like he'd want you", "Girl, why don't you get your nose fixed, before you act like you are the shit", so on and so forth...
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JNN, do you peacock?
What the hell does that even mean?? Is that a Goodrum term?
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JNN, do you peacock?
what is this?
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It's a term that douchebag "Mystery" uses. I read some of that shit and I laugh.
I remember owning some little turd who was defending that nonsense tooth and nail
JNN pretty much has it right..."act as if you don't give a fuck".. that's about it.
Couple of other "tips"
Be good looking
Have some money in your pocket
Don't act like a dick
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It's a term that douchebag "Mystery" uses. I read some of that shit and I laugh.
I remember owning some little turd who was defending that nonsense tooth and nail
JNN pretty much has it right..."act as if you don't give a fuck".. that's about it.
Couple of other "tips"
Be good looking
Have some money in your pocket
Don't act like a dick
no wonder i didn't know what that term is- i never watched that dumb show
btw, the "Be Good Looking" principle that my friend Groink brought up is very true and it also has a amazing effect on the "Easy come, Easy Go" principle
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Johnny no name is like a god amongst mortal's slaying women left and right giving advice to us, thank you.
jt
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He knows his shit , when it comes to dating advice JNN is a legend .
PS:Kids ,listen to what the man says .
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Dont worry about "negatives" and "peacock" , only a true loser will think these work, to tell a girl, "your hair looks shit tonight" is fucken stupid, you think that will get her wet??
Dont believe the hype.
What works is being somewhat attractive, or dressing nice, for fucks sake you guys posts on a bodybuilding site, so you must care about ur appearance.
if your bulking up for more muscle then stop that shit immediately, you become a loser in the minds of a girl, they may look at you, but there looking at you in disgust (and dont give me this shit about " I dont do bodybuilding for girls" if you dont thats fine, hope you enjoy getting gawked at and felt up by other guys" if your lean muscly thats what gets the pussy wet, if you want to be like yates etc be prepared to jerk off for the rest of ur loser life.
Appearance, what colour is your teeth? get that organised asap...if not for girls, do it for yourself.
your selling your image, so dress well and be well groomed..
Dont be a dick to ladies when you meet them, be polite, smile , engage all her friends, dont follow her around the bar, club, party etc
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Men tend to get real eager, after some dates i dont even kiss the girl goodbye, i just say "ok, have a good night"
she is used to guys trying to be all over her, she will be thinking " whats wrong with me", i will call her in a week and she will be thrilled i did, and do what i have to do then
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Dont worry about "negatives" and "peacock" , only a true loser will think these work, to tell a girl, "your hair looks shit tonight" is fucken stupid, you think that will get her wet??
Dont believe the hype.
What works is being somewhat attractive, or dressing nice, for fucks sake you guys posts on a bodybuilding site, so you must care about ur appearance.
if your bulking up for more muscle then stop that shit immediately, you become a loser in the minds of a girl, they may look at you, but there looking at you in disgust (and dont give me this shit about " I dont do bodybuilding for girls" if you dont thats fine, hope you enjoy getting gawked at and felt up by other guys" if your lean muscly thats what gets the pussy wet, if you want to be like yates etc be prepared to jerk off for the rest of ur loser life.
Appearance, what colour is your teeth? get that organised asap...if not for girls, do it for yourself.
your selling your image, so dress well and be well groomed..
Dont be a dick to ladies when you meet them, be polite, smile , engage all her friends, dont follow her around the bar, club, party etc
your being awefully generalizing there quicker!!!! hahaha... your right for 99% of guys who want to be a "bodybuilder" and wear bodybuilding.com and muscle tech t shirts carrying around tupperware and all trhat shit...
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heres some advice from tbombz:
Women love getting fucked.
Women love getting fucked.
Women love getting fucked.
thats all.. now go be happy and when a chick gets you hard ask her to hang out with you sometime and then tap that shit once your in an appropriate setting
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your being awefully generalizing there quicker!!!! hahaha... your right for 99% of guys who want to be a "bodybuilder" and wear bodybuilding.com and muscle tech t shirts carrying around tupperware and all trhat shit...
Its for guys that hit roids and get as big as possible for the sake of getting pussy, it wont happen, they will get more attention from males, while the "Twink" is surrounded by the hottie and her friends.
Fuck it, if you want to be big and huge go for it, i support you, but i want to help out with getbigger social lives.
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your being awefully generalizing there quicker!!!! hahaha... your right for 99% of guys who want to be a "bodybuilder" and wear bodybuilding.com and muscle tech t shirts carrying around tupperware and all trhat shit...
Its for guys that hit roids and get as big as possible for the sake of getting pussy, it wont happen, they will get more attention from males, while the "Twink" is surrounded by the hottie and her friends.
Fuck it, if you want to be big and huge go for it, i support you, but i want to help out with getbigger social lives.
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Peacocking, negative hits are all for losers who, basically have been stonewalled by women their wholes lives, either because of looks or personality or attitude. So, hey are basically looking at a number. Kinda like if you do 10 reps of curls...to us 10 reps is up and down,full, to them it's 10 reps period-partials, cheating, jerking, anything, as long as they get to 10.
They actually embody the Karma of loneliness. If you make things all about you, then there is only you, and if there is only you, then you are lonely.
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Peacocking, negative hits are all for losers who, basically have been stonewalled by women their wholes lives, either because of looks or personality or attitude. So, hey are basically looking at a number. Kinda like if you do 10 reps of curls...to us 10 reps is up and down,full, to them it's 10 reps period-partials, cheating, jerking, anything, as long as they get to 10.
They actually embody the Karma of loneliness. If you make things all about you, then there is only you, and if there is only you, then you are lonely.
agreed. good post sir.
for me its the mindset.
I dont go out and say to myself "I hope i get pussy 2nite"
I think to myself "Girls hate being single and alone, QB is the cure" and you know what it works..Try it, change your mindset,
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Its for guys that hit roids and get as big as possible for the sake of getting pussy, it wont happen, they will get more attention from males, while the "Twink" is surrounded by the hottie and her friends.
Fuck it, if you want to be big and huge go for it, i support you, but i want to help out with getbigger social lives.
i just started working again this week. i teach swim lessons. me and about 20 other kids around my age. some a little younger, like 16-22 is the ages. 75% of my fellow teachers are girls. ones with tight young bodies that wanted a summer job where theyc ould wear a swimsuit.
theres a few dudes who work there that are cut up. most are average.
muscles can be a turn off if the guy is obsessive about them, always talking about them, or it appears that he cares or trys to much for them.
but when your like me, and you dont really ever bring up working out or being big.. never flex or walk around like im a bigshot or tough guy..
well you already know what happens :)
im the guy girls talk about for years after they met me..
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agreed. good post sir.
for me its the mindset.
I dont go out and say to myself "I hope i get pussy 2nite"
I think to myself "Girls hate being single and alone, QB is the cure" and you know what it works..Try it, change your mindset,
Thanks, see what you are saying is the opposite of what those others do. When you are trying to get or squalling for attention from another person, you are viewing them as separate from you, which means one is coming from a point of alienation. In your way, and JNN as well, you are not alienating yourself from women. When you alienate yourself, you view the person as a target, a thing, and therefore it becomes mechanical, point A to point B, when one looks at it like that, one becomes bitter. Hence, negative hits...
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If you are trying to meet a potential girlfriend then you should be a good and decent guy, but if you just want a quick hook-up it's better to be a d!ck. I have a real hard time playing the @sshole coz I'm a pretty cool fella, but a few of my buds are real @ssholes and they usually do make the instant hook-up.
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Dont worry about "negatives" and "peacock" , only a true loser will think these work, to tell a girl, "your hair looks shit tonight" is fucken stupid, you think that will get her wet??
mystery never advised anything this harsh, a neg is knocking a cocky girl that is used to getting everything she wants off her pedestal in a subtle way, not in an overly mean way
the peacock thing is just to make you stand out in a crowd, i think it's supposed to be an ice breaker too
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mystery never advised anything this harsh, a neg is knocking a cocky girl that is used to getting everything she wants off her pedestal in a subtle way, not in an overly mean way
the peacock thing is just to make you stand out in a crowd, i think it's supposed to be an ice breaker too
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Chicks who act cocky, usually are masking their own insecurities. As has been stated before, from women and men, most hot women who get what they want or or are treated a certain way, tend in reality to believe they don't really deserve it...now, take some cocky, stuck up hot chick sitting by herself, obviously she wants somebody to engage her, just not some loser who compliments her every 5 secs. Chances are very likely she wants a dude who is cock sure of himself, and thar he could roll on her at any given minute....
*mind you, I am no guru, playa, pimp, etc. Just a thinker...
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mystery never advised anything this harsh, a neg is knocking a cocky girl that is used to getting everything she wants off her pedestal in a subtle way, not in an overly mean way
the peacock thing is just to make you stand out in a crowd, i think it's supposed to be an ice breaker too
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The best way to do this is just not to give her the attention she craves, she will go absolutely insane, because 9 out of 10 guys are drooling over her, dropping her compliments and buying her shit and you're the guy that's oblivious to her, they go crazy trying to figure out how/why you're not paying her the attention the other doormats are.
And in the end that's what they are to her, but you're the challenge and that's what gets her interested.
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I'm with Che....very good post Johnny.
wow- i got thumbs up from che and grant....I think christmas came early for me this year :)
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be in a good mood
be positive
be humorous
be confident
be honest
be patient!!
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I'm still trying to figure out if this is advice for picking up some nameless shank or for finding a soulmate. "Be honest, be patient" LOL Not to some female that you are only looking to only achieve some sexual release and gratification from :>
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I'm still trying to figure out if this is advice for picking up some nameless shank or for finding a soulmate. "Be honest, be patient" LOL Not to some female that you are only looking to only achieve some sexual release and gratification from :>
Her (obviously showing cleavage): " I like your chest!"
You: "Thanks, (a lil smirk) But I like yours more." (said in a cool, sly way)
You were honest, and chances are she would smile, you got a opening...now make that______pop.
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Her: I like your work. Good job!
Me: I like your tits. Show them to me.
Her: GTFO!
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Her: I like your work. Good job!
Me: I like your tits. Show them to me.
Her: GTFO!
See, sometimes it not just what say, it's how you say it...delivery and wording mean everything...
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ugghhhhhh this thread sucks
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Peacocking, I heard that indian guy on Parks and Rec using it......that dude is alright.
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I'm The Cock of The Walk, baby.
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I think its pathetic that guys like that mystery douche even have a career. Are othere guys out there that are that desperate ?? That they think they are going to "trick" women into liking them. If you are an ugly sap with no personality just accept the fact that you will wind up with an ugly woman and stop trying to be something you are not. Woman must watch that show and laugh their asses off
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I think its pathetic that guys like that mystery douche even have a career. Are othere guys out there that are that desperate ?? That they think they are going to "trick" women into liking them. If you are an ugly sap with no personality just accept the fact that you will wind up with an ugly woman and stop trying to be something you are not. Woman must watch that show and laugh their asses off
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I think its pathetic that guys like that mystery douche even have a career. Are othere guys out there that are that desperate ?? That they think they are going to "trick" women into liking them. If you are an ugly sap with no personality just accept the fact that you will wind up with an ugly woman and stop trying to be something you are not. Woman must watch that show and laugh their asses off
Groink,
i'm not agreeing with you again on this thread cuz you're my friend- i'm agreeing with you cuz you are 1000 percent right
what's worse is that ,from what i understand, he is teaching a "system"
Mating (which dating is-lets face it) is something that is organic and individual- there is no "Step 1,2,3,4". Even in my initial post i said that what i post is not a "system"
fact of the matter is that you have to get out there and see what works for you
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If you are an ugly sap with no personality just accept the fact that you will wind up with an ugly woman and stop trying to be something you are not.
it's not pretending to be something you aren't, not every guy is naturally a talkative and likable guy
"being yourself" is what you do when you've always found success, guys that fail with women need to change while most keep doing the same failed approach (or no approach at all due to shyness), that doesn't mean becoming a fraud, it's evolving and changing for the better
mystery helps guys learn from mistakes and their experience, on his tv show they videotaped them approach women and he would critique everything from what they said to their body language, most people don't realize how bad their body language is until somebody critiques them
if you can improve a jump shot or a lagging bodypart, why can't you improve your ability to talk to women?
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I don't know about that "just be yourself" advice. What if you have no personality or you're a douche? I remember when my nephew was around 15 he asked for some advice. He said his mom (my sister) told him to just "be himself." I told him I thought that was a big mistake. My nephew at the time pretty much had a personality of a cold toilet seat. Just nothing going on. I wasn't so cold as to tell him that but I did tell him that since "being himself" wasn't exactly working out he should try to be somebody else. Just like anything in life, watch and observe those that are successful and try to emulate them. I also told him he should start lifting weights because it's always a plus to be strong in this world. It wouldn't hurt if he learned how to fight either, especially at his age. Also, I told him if you want advice about women never, ever ask a woman. I didn't learn that until I was in my mid to late 20s.
A personality is an evolving and dynamic trait. As you become more successful you gain more confidence and self-esteem. When you force yourself to speak up even though your natural inclination is to be meek and quiet you transform yourself. When you get more involved in things and put yourself out there you grow and evolved.
Of course his mom was horrified and tore me a new one for telling him to "be someone else." But, WTH, I'm just trying to save lives and make this world a better place. But things worked out for him really good as he got through high school (just graduated) and became quite the Alpha. Became very serious and disciplined in the gym and started training and competing in Jiu-Jitsu. His father's mom and BJ Penn's mom are cousins so my nephew would spend the summers in Hilo to train at Penn's gym. He's going to college in Hilo (because their schools are sooo great -- lol) and will be able to train year round at his school.
Though he has ambitions to be a pro MMA fighter I'm proud to say he's not an MMA douche. I recently read on his facebook where he wrote, "I want to thank TapOut clothing for helping me spot the douche bags immediately." I beamed with pride when I read that.
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ugghhhhhh this thread sucks
Yes, were talking about women here. It's going on 3 pages here. Nice to see some here still like women. But you definitely don't belong on this thread. I'm sure there's a "Best line if you want to suck someone's cock" somewhere on this board.
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I don't know about that "just be yourself" advice. What if you have no personality or you're a douche? I remember when my nephew was around 15 he asked for some advice. He said his mom (my sister) told him to just "be himself." I told him I thought that was a big mistake. My nephew at the time pretty much had a personality of a cold toilet seat. Just nothing going on. I wasn't so cold as to tell him that but I did tell him that since "being himself" wasn't exactly working out he should try to be somebody else. Just like anything in life, watch and observe those that are successful and try to emulate them. I also told him he should start lifting weights because it's always a plus to be strong in this world. It wouldn't hurt if he learned how to fight either, especially at his age. Also, I told him if you want advice about women never, ever ask a woman. I didn't learn that until I was in my mid to late 20s.
A personality is an evolving and dynamic trait. As you become more successful you gain more confidence and self-esteem. When you force yourself to speak up even though your natural inclination is to be meek and quiet you transform yourself. When you get more involved in things and put yourself out there you grow and evolved.
Of course his mom was horrified and tore me a new one for telling him to "be someone else." But, WTH, I'm just trying to save lives and make this world a better place. But things worked out for him really good as he got through high school (just graduated) and became quite the Alpha. Became very serious and disciplined in the gym and started training and competing in Jiu-Jitsu. His father's mom and BJ Penn's mom are cousins so my nephew would spend the summers in Hilo to train at Penn's gym. He's going to college in Hilo (because their schools are sooo great -- lol) and will be able to train year round at his school.
Though he has ambitions to be a pro MMA fighter I'm proud to say he's not an MMA douche. I recently read on his facebook where he wrote, "I want to thank TapOut clothing for helping me spot the douche bags immediately." I beamed with pride when I read that.
this is good advice
....and i'm not just endorsing the above comment solely on pellius' reputation for good information- i read it and totally give it thumbs up
to add, sometimes you have to lie to yourself to believe that you are something you're not
"be yourself" is fine if you can do it
...but if you can't "lie to yourself" till you are who you want to be
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Disagree. Be who you are and if some woman doesn't like it then masturbate. Later on, I mean, not right there.
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Oh and Pellius, something I learned in my late 20s (I have a hard head), never, Never ask women for advice on other women. It's like they don't want to give the secret on how to get into their pants. Ask advice from those who are successful on getting with them.
And Cassanova said it best hundreds of yrs ago, "Just Listen!"
which means, listen to them, to what you are saying, how you say it, and listen to their reaction to it.
But, like a line from Levert, "I ain't no Cassanova, me and Romeo ain't never been friends..."
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Disagree. Be who you are and if some woman doesn't like it then masturbate. Later on, I mean, not right there.
LOL!
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Disagree. Be who you are and if some woman doesn't like it then masturbate. Later on, I mean, not right there.
u can go either way in my opinion (even though I just said you should lie to yourself to be someone else)
however, i have to say that i have lost count of how many times i told girls my name was "Frank Dux" and used my "van damme" accent
btw, i'm not saying that for "comedic effect" either- that accent has ALWAYS worked-i'm not kidding
especially when you look like me (no- not "ugly"). Whenever i put on that accent and tell them i'm from Brazil or Croatia or some shit, the girls automatically play into that fantasy of having sex with antonio banderas or enrique iglesias
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Oh and Pellius, something I learned in my late 20s (I have a hard head), never, Never ask women for advice on other women. It's like they don't want to give the secret on how to get into their pants. Ask advice from those who are successful on getting with them.
And Cassanova said it best hundreds of yrs ago, "Just Listen!"
which means, listen to them, to what you are saying, how you say it, and listen to their reaction to it.
But, like a line from Levert, "I ain't no Cassanova, me and Romeo ain't never been friends..."
What women say they want and what they really want are two different things. Remember, we've all been told by women that they are just looking for a nice guy with a good sense of humor but the sharp guys notice real quick in high school that the guys getting the women were anything but "nice."
And I remember that song by Levert. I actually use to dance to that when I was trying to be romantic. Another example of me not being myself (I'm not the romantic type) and being successful.
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What women say they want and what they really want are two different things. Remember, we've all been told by women that they are just looking for a nice guy with a good sense of humor but the sharp guys notice real quick in high school that the guys getting the women were anything but "nice."
And I remember that song by Levert. I actually use to dance to that when I was trying to be romantic. Another example of me not being myself (I'm not the romantic type) and being successful.
Yeah, I have Smooth Magazine and Show Magazine and these mags feature women like Melyssa Ford, Vanessa Veasley, Khrysti Hill (look them up) and they would talk about their "ideal man", key word is ideal, and you would see the dudes that they deal with (Big_Mal has confirmed that Melyssa is balla-chaser) an you see that who they deal with and what comes out of their mouths are 2 diff things. So how can one have respect for a hypocrite?
Ah, they get what they pay for.
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Her: I like your work. Good job!
Me: I like your tits. Show them to me.
Her: GTFO!
LMAO!!!!!! ;D
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u can go either way in my opinion (even though I just said you should lie to yourself to be someone else)
however, i have to say that i have lost count of how many times i told girls my name was "Frank Dux" and used my "van damme" accent
btw, i'm not saying that for "comedic effect" either- that accent has ALWAYS worked-i'm not kidding
especially when you look like me (no- not "ugly"). Whenever i put on that accent and tell them i'm from Brazil or Croatia or some shit, the girls automatically play into that fantasy of having sex with antonio banderas or enrique iglesias
What happened to "Mirko"?
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I think that you fellas are mixing up long-term mate vs. one night stand. Ladies want this good guy for long-term relations, but when they are horny they want the bad boy. And JNN is playing the bad boy role.
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I think that you fellas are mixing up long-term mate vs. one night stand. Ladies want this good guy for long-term relations, but when they are horny they want the bad boy. And JNN is playing the bad boy role.
I see women in LT relationships with badboys all the time. They post their bails, feed them, clothe them, buy stuff for them, basically they are their mothers...and they complain about them. Basically women today either don't know what they want, or have such low self esteem that they want to play mommy to a man-child. But this is going off on another tangent.
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If we're talking just about hooking up, I'm surprised nobody has mentioned the Wingman Factor.
Here's the truth: most of your buddies are fucking HORRIBLE wingmen. Just make sure you realize this before they cost you your next piece.
What do I mean? You gotta choose carefully who you're going to prowl with; just like the Hottie whose fat n' ugly Nottie is a foil, your choice of wingman must be careful. If you're wondering why your 'friends' aren't helping you get laid, then you gotta get new friends. Or at least just don't try to pick up with them in tow.
I've got some best buds who are fucking nightmares when picking up. You don't wanna be with these guys. At best, they'll ensure you go home alone and at worst, they'll make you look like a fucking idiot. It's true.
The good news is that guys, unlike girls, can BOTH pick up, and one of you doesn't necessarily have to take one for the team!
Honour is what I'm talking about. If your bud is making a move, do the right thing and help him out. If this means shutting the fuck up, then that's what you do. Someone here made a post about 'mimicking' succesful pickup artists...this is one thing I've noticed about buddies of mine who pick up constantly. Mind you, they're better looking than average but still, when they're working on some pussy, they back each other up and most times, one if not all will get laid.
I'm not going to go into detail about what to do, just make sure you ditch a buddy at the first signs of:
1) Using YOU as material to make the target chicks laugh. It's a douchebag move. Not only does it undermine your buddy, but if you're not witty and smart enough to make a girl laugh because you're actually FUNNY, then shut the fuck up. Time and time again I see this happen. If it happens to you, just make note...and don't make the mistake of bringing him along next time.
2) Whining. Girls are fucking repulsed by whiners.
3) Hitting on your target. This is a mixed bag; if your friends is making a better impression on her than you, well...you've only got yourself to blame. Now you're the wingman. Help a brother out; if it becomes a trend though, then bring it up with him. Leave him at home next time. And work on your game.
4) Getting you to do all the work, ie, breaking the ice. Good looking guys tend to do this more often that not; the Alphas, so to speak. Don't cater to a fucking Alpha; you're a team and ya gotta back each other's plays. If you're constantly the guy talking and making the effort, you'll appear weak to women that matter. And then you get to pound the Palmer Twins later.
Ok, so there is ONE rule that almost trumps all others: Do NOT sell your wingman out! If you make fun of your own friends trying to get a piece of ass, you're garbage. Women will wonder why you're hanging out with losers, make the appropriate connection, and now NOBODY is getting laid. So...don't talk shit behind your buddies back. Ever. It's the mark of a fucking loser...and it doesn't work.
That is all.
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Best wingmen of all are women. You have a woman friend, it makes other women comfortable around you and wonder about you. Plus, all women want or are curious about what other women have. Jealousy is bred into them.
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This is true to a point, but not always true. It's tough to approach women with one already in tow, I find. Now, it's helpful if she KNOWS some of these girls you're interested in. Then the jealousy thing works out well; their guard is down, and half your work is done for you.
But as far as going into a club with a chick and expecting the other ladies to openly approach you, I haven't had much luck with that. It's always awkward having to explain who she is, and at worst it keeps away the girls who think she's your girlfriend. Or else she diverts off with some other dude...usually a good thing, I'd rather work alone than with a woman in picking up. I'm just going by my results, however...it could be different for you.
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Even good girls like bad boys (J.James ,S Bullock................)
The biggest problem is that most nice guys are insecure , You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to like yourself. You have to know what you want out of life and be confident.
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "nice guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
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Even good girls like bad boys (J.James ,S Bullock................)
The biggest problem is that most nice guys are insecure , You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to like yourself. You have to know what you want out of life and be confident.
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "nice guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
Quite true, you speakth the truth
and Bic, you are correct as well.
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Parker speaks the truth....go out to a club with a good looking woman and meeting other women is like shooting fish in a barrel. And more often than not you will meet a freak whos into threesomes and shit.
I use to go to clubs with this knockout stripper and we would always get chicks to come home with us. nothing better than two girls sucking your cock at the same time
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I don't know about that "just be yourself" advice. What if you have no personality or you're a douche? I remember when my nephew was around 15 he asked for some advice. He said his mom (my sister) told him to just "be himself." I told him I thought that was a big mistake. My nephew at the time pretty much had a personality of a cold toilet seat. Just nothing going on. I wasn't so cold as to tell him that but I did tell him that since "being himself" wasn't exactly working out he should try to be somebody else. Just like anything in life, watch and observe those that are successful and try to emulate them. I also told him he should start lifting weights because it's always a plus to be strong in this world. It wouldn't hurt if he learned how to fight either, especially at his age. Also, I told him if you want advice about women never, ever ask a woman. I didn't learn that until I was in my mid to late 20s.
A personality is an evolving and dynamic trait. As you become more successful you gain more confidence and self-esteem. When you force yourself to speak up even though your natural inclination is to be meek and quiet you transform yourself. When you get more involved in things and put yourself out there you grow and evolved.
Of course his mom was horrified and tore me a new one for telling him to "be someone else." But, WTH, I'm just trying to save lives and make this world a better place. But things worked out for him really good as he got through high school (just graduated) and became quite the Alpha. Became very serious and disciplined in the gym and started training and competing in Jiu-Jitsu. His father's mom and BJ Penn's mom are cousins so my nephew would spend the summers in Hilo to train at Penn's gym. He's going to college in Hilo (because their schools are sooo great -- lol) and will be able to train year round at his school.
Though he has ambitions to be a pro MMA fighter I'm proud to say he's not an MMA douche. I recently read on his facebook where he wrote, "I want to thank TapOut clothing for helping me spot the douche bags immediately." I beamed with pride when I read that.
excellent post
too many guys with personality issues are told to "be yourself", instead they need to improve the weaknesses that lead them to failure
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What happened to "Mirko"?
i haven't used "Mirko" since early May of 2009