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Title: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 12, 2010, 06:09:57 PM
Yes. I'm a typical "cute" guy, i could never get the women who are in to the big hairy lumberjack type. Its all marketing. You have to know your own "Unique selling proposition" and find your own target group. Naturally if you just want to find true love, forget this bullshit. But if you want to fuck a lot, then its a useful principle - don't choose the girls, let they choose you! You will fuck much more this way.

This right here is the answer for me.
Very good post Balight.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: io856 on June 12, 2010, 06:12:25 PM
To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 12, 2010, 06:24:25 PM
To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.

Its getting like that, you now have girls picking up guys..i hear girls all the time "did you pick up last night"

Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 12, 2010, 06:32:53 PM
To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.
The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 12, 2010, 06:37:14 PM
To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.

Two hundred years ago simply parents choosed your partner, almost every marriage was arranged.  So this "men choose women" era was just a very brief period.

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Its getting like that, you now have girls picking up guys..i hear girls all the time "did you pick up last night"

No, you didn't get my point. They give you a sign, and you have to be very cautious to catch those signs. Then you pick them up. But after all she choose you at the beginning.

  I don't say that we should completely give up to to initiate, but its easier to hit on girls, who certainly like your type. Its like marketing: you think you choose Coca-Cola's new energy drink, but in reality Coca-Cola targeted you with their new product. Be the new product, and comunicate your USP.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: ManBearPig... on June 12, 2010, 06:38:57 PM
The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female

yep x 1000, fucking homos everywhere.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 12, 2010, 06:50:42 PM
yep x 1000, fucking homos everywhere.
I saw this commercial for Old Navy's skinny jeans for women...and I was like "hold up", because they have skinny jeans for men, and of course the new trend or fad for men is skinny jeans. So they have men wearing the same thing as women, and dudes don't realize it. What's next, men in tights? Men in spandex leggings with the stirrup heel?
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: tbombz on June 12, 2010, 06:56:01 PM
i would like to point out that constantly talking about "how to get women" can be counter productive for alot of guys who need the advice the most. parker was right on in his commments yesterday abotu alienation and seperating yourself from the woman by always thinking about "how to attract her"..

stop thinking about this stuff..   just have fun, laugh, smile, share your thoughts(as long as they arent negative, ignorant, or insecure)...   

Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 12, 2010, 07:04:51 PM
I saw this commercial for Old Navy's skinny jeans for women...and I was like "hold up", because they have skinny jeans for men, and of course the new trend or fad for men is skinny jeans. So they have men wearing the same thing as women, and dudes don't realize it. What's next, men in tights? Men in spandex leggings with the stirrup heel?

Men in Spandex? Just open a Flex from the 90's...
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 12, 2010, 07:14:25 PM
Men in Spandex? Just open a Flex from the 90's...
True, especially that black and white singlet that Flex W used to wear. But I guess I mean the spandx women are wearing now. Imagine some guy wearing that with a sports coat...

And thanks tbombz...
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 12, 2010, 08:12:35 PM
True, especially that black and white singlet that Flex W used to wear. But I guess I mean the spandx women are wearing now. Imagine some guy wearing that with a sports coat...

And thanks tbombz...

I guess oldschool heavy metal singers used to wear something like that, with leather coats :D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on June 13, 2010, 07:31:36 AM
The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female

Yes, it's hurting the society that now women have the guts to go after the man they want to be with, and not settle for the best that comes their way.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 13, 2010, 08:41:52 AM
Yes, it's hurting the society that now women have the guts to go after the man they want to be with, and not settle for the best that comes their way.
You didn't get it did you? Men wearing skinny jeans, emo haircuts, more men acting like women, effeminate behavior by men being applauded, typical male traits being frowned upon. Women picking weak men to marry, but yet complaining that those men act like women.
Go to any female dominated board and you have Rona of questions as to why men are acting more like women. Also, women priding themselves in being "bitches", and women increasingly saying "I hit that...", excuse me, you don't hit anything, because you don't have anything to hit with...

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: dj181 on June 13, 2010, 09:02:08 AM
Wise post Parker, and speaking about fellas wearing skinny jeans, I spotted what I thought was some anorexic bubble @ss female (which is my ideal type, in fact) but lo and behold, as I got closer to "her" I found out that it was just some small and skinny bubble @ssed dude :0 BRUTAL!
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 09:19:15 AM
You didn't get it did you? Men wearing skinny jeans, emo haircuts, more men acting like women, effeminate behavior by men being applauded, typical male traits being frowned upon. Women picking weak men to marry, but yet complaining that those men act like women.
Go to any female dominated board and you have Rona of questions as to why men are acting more like women. Also, women priding themselves in being "bitches", and women increasingly saying "I hit that...", excuse me, you don't hit anything, because you don't have anything to hit with...

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...

    I guess this thread got sidetracked. My whole concept wasn't about let girls hit on you. Its about dont just choose a girl that you like, first try to figure out, which one likes your type, and then hit on her.  Always go in the direction of the weakest resistance :)
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: chaos on June 13, 2010, 09:53:07 AM
The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female
X2

Allowing a woman the right to choose is as Beta as it gets.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 13, 2010, 10:26:24 AM
    I guess this thread got sidetracked. My whole concept wasn't about let girls hit on you. Its about dont just choose a girl that you like, first try to figure out, which one likes your type, and then hit on her.  Always go in the direction of the weakest resistance :)
Main man, I understand what you saying...

Damn, I'm listening to Maxwell's "Lonely's the Only Company (I&II)", and I could really, really expound on some shit...but to take up this thread with a 1,000 word post wouldn't be right.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: tbombz on June 13, 2010, 12:51:40 PM
what if all the girls give me signals, and i just cant make up my mind ??


 lol jk..



 (not about all the girls giving me signals, but because my mind is already made up..  ;)  :P
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: che on June 13, 2010, 01:19:40 PM
 :o :o :o
(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_GuZj-KgF0fQ/Skou36T2TPI/AAAAAAAAABU/EBEIqSQUdmc/s320/serena_williams_on_grass.jpg)

(http://reasonforliberty.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/serena-williams.jpg)


Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: bodybuilder1234 on June 13, 2010, 01:21:57 PM
i would like to point out that constantly talking about "how to get women" can be counter productive for alot of guys who need the advice the most. parker was right on in his commments yesterday abotu alienation and seperating yourself from the woman by always thinking about "how to attract her"..

stop thinking about this stuff..   just have fun, laugh, smile, share your thoughts(as long as they arent negative, ignorant, or insecure)...   



this is good advice
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: KevinP85 on June 13, 2010, 01:24:55 PM
You didn't get it did you? Men wearing skinny jeans, emo haircuts, more men acting like women, effeminate behavior by men being applauded, typical male traits being frowned upon. Women picking weak men to marry, but yet complaining that those men act like women.
Go to any female dominated board and you have Rona of questions as to why men are acting more like women. Also, women priding themselves in being "bitches", and women increasingly saying "I hit that...", excuse me, you don't hit anything, because you don't have anything to hit with...

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...


Good one Parker, taking notes for myself ;D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 13, 2010, 03:29:11 PM
Have you ever been out and you see a girl looking at you, checking you out, you can tell by body language if a girl is interested, when shes talking to u and she touches your hand breifly.

the ones i see showing interest/body language are the ones i go for.

Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Master Blaster on June 13, 2010, 04:08:19 PM
Never take "No" for an answer. Men who puss out and at the first time she says "you're scaring me, take me home" are the true beta male spagetti arm tarzans.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 04:38:41 PM
Never take "No" for an answer. Men who puss out and at the first time she says "you're scaring me, take me home" are the true beta male spagetti arm tarzans.

If you just want to have a good fuck its stupid to fight for a girl. There are plenty of them, just go for the easier shot. Johnynoname wrote a very good article about this in his Q&A thread. If you're looking for a long term relationship, true love etc. then fight for the most beautiful/talented/intelligent one... but thats an other story.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 13, 2010, 04:42:38 PM
True love lol, i cant stand the sight of the same girl for more then 2 weeks, i can meet a "10" but when i smell her breathe and its off or i notice some weird habit she has I'm out of there...I cannot do commitment
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 04:56:46 PM
True love lol, i cant stand the sight of the same girl for more then 2 weeks, i can meet a "10" but when i smell her breathe and its off or i notice some weird habit she has I'm out of there...I cannot do commitment

Its easier to focus on other aspects of your life if you have a solid relationship. But its sometimes boring. Your choice :D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 13, 2010, 05:13:40 PM
Its easier to focus on other aspects of your life if you have a solid relationship. But its sometimes boring. Your choice :D

Everyone is different i guess, some people NEED someone in there life to validate them.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 13, 2010, 05:33:30 PM
Everyone is different i guess, some people NEED someone in there life to validate them.
And that is the reason why many women get into relationships with men that they cannot stand or men who abuse them. They need that person to validate them, that someone wants them, that needs them, when in fact, it is they who need them. And one of the reasons why women chose careers over men or families or school, getting tons of degrees, because they need that validation that they are something, letting the career, job, or degrees define them.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 05:38:27 PM
And that is the reason why many women get into relationships with men that they cannot stand or men who abuse them. They need that person to validate them, that someone wants them, that needs them, when in fact, it is they who need them. And one of the reasons why women chose careers over men or families or school, getting tons of degrees, because they need that validation that they are something, letting the career, job, or degrees define them.

So at the end, they can try ANYTHING, and you will still say, they're doing it for some pitiful validation? :D Poor women, they really cant fit your expectations :D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 13, 2010, 05:42:14 PM
And that is the reason why many women get into relationships with men that they cannot stand or men who abuse them. They need that person to validate them, that someone wants them, that needs them, when in fact, it is they who need them. And one of the reasons why women chose careers over men or families or school, getting tons of degrees, because they need that validation that they are something, letting the career, job, or degrees define them.

In Australia there are not many of these, ALMOST every girl i have spoken to whether at work or in a social setting are willing to get married and have a kid just so they dont have to work anymore..No joke.

I remember giving advice to a 21 yr old about how to advance in her particular career, she replied "What for, i dont care about a career, im going to get married and have kids" that was 9yrs ago, i still have some contact with her, shes a alcoholic and a whore that lives with her parents..
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Master Blaster on June 13, 2010, 05:44:49 PM
In Australia there are not many of these, ALMOST every girl i have spoken to whether at work or in a social setting are willing to get married and have a kid just so they dont have to work anymore..No joke.

I remember giving advice to a 21 yr old about how to advance in her particular career, she replied "What for, i dont care about a career, im going to get married and have kids" that was 9yrs ago, i still have some contact with her, shes a alcoholic and a whore that lives with her parents..


Anal or oral contact?
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Quickerblade on June 13, 2010, 05:47:47 PM
Anal or oral contact?

It was oral contact for a while, the last time was 5 years ago...she wasnt that good, i had to jerk off to cum
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Vince B on June 13, 2010, 05:56:15 PM
With the attitude of many here is it any wonder that the women behave like they do and avoid you?

Finding that special person is never easy. Some never find her. You might meet several but never get that interest returned. That is typical of what happens in your twenties.
At that age if you have to think about what to do or ask advice you are not going to be doing so well in the romance department.

If you want to have fun then go with whoever likes you a lot. If you persist in chasing the so-called hot women you are competing with others for them and chances are slim. If you go for a gal who fancies you it makes all the difference in the world. When you have experience being with women and know how to please them you will do better in the future with others. Confidence can accumulate and that can make you more attractive to women in general. Women do like to compete for the perceived best guy. That is why showing up at a party with a hot woman is a good idea. Obviously you have to get that date first.

When you think about it most guys are too afraid of being rejected to ask really beautiful women out. You assume they have someone else or that they wouldn't be interested. Sometimes asking for a date can be rewarding.  
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 06:17:37 PM
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If you want to have fun then go with whoever likes you a lot. If you persist in chasing the so-called hot women you are competing with others for them and chances are slim. If you go for a gal who fancies you it makes all the difference in the world. When you have experience being with women and know how to please them you will do better in the future with others. Confidence can accumulate and that can make you more attractive to women in general. Women do like to compete for the perceived best guy. That is why showing up at a party with a hot woman is a good idea. Obviously you have to get that date first.

Darn, you put it together so much better than me. I will never fully master your fuckin language :( But at least in Indonesia even my english will be superior :D:D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: ~UN_$ung~ on June 13, 2010, 06:26:31 PM
most girls dont really approach guys, so how is a girl going to CHOOSE you.  i mean, i know getbig is full of millionaire studs......but if there are any normal guys here, like myself, other then drunk skanks in bars or something of that ilk.......how many girls, quality girls that you would be in a relationship with, have ever actually APPROACHED your.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Shockwave on June 13, 2010, 06:37:39 PM
most girls dont really approach guys, so how is a girl going to CHOOSE you.  i mean, i know getbig is full of millionaire studs......but if there are any normal guys here, like myself, other then drunk skanks in bars or something of that ilk.......how many girls, quality girls that you would be in a relationship with, have ever actually APPROACHED your.
I think they mean, that she makes it obvious she likes you, you know, stares, smiles, eye contact, basically asking you to come talk to her with her body language.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: ~UN_$ung~ on June 13, 2010, 06:42:31 PM
I think they mean, that she makes it obvious she likes you, you know, stares, smiles, eye contact, basically asking you to come talk to her with her body language.

i got ya, perhaps i misinterpreted it a little bit
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 06:45:41 PM
most girls dont really approach guys, so how is a girl going to CHOOSE you.  i mean, i know getbig is full of millionaire studs......but if there are any normal guys here, like myself, other then drunk skanks in bars or something of that ilk.......how many girls, quality girls that you would be in a relationship with, have ever actually APPROACHED your.

You just jumped over the "marketing" part of the original principle. You have to constantly show your Unique selling proposition - if you're a good communicator talk, if you're big like a house and have striated glutes drop off your pants etc. But always do this thing of stuff, for the girl that looks intrested in them and you. If you're rich find the girl who is checking out the  car keys and so on.

Well, if you cant find out which girl is intrested in you then:

a, you must be very ugly, and no one is intrested in you. Become rich and :

(http://i47.tinypic.com/350v3ms.jpg)

b, you have no EQ at all, and just unable to read even basic human reactions. Get some "body language for dummies" books.
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Post by: pluck on June 13, 2010, 06:52:58 PM
Bullshit. Go to any bar full of singles & see who gets more pussy... The guy who approaches women or the guy who looks good & tries to get picked up.

The vast majority of women are insecure & won't approach men.
Only women who approach men are HUGE sluts or 40+ cougars.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 06:59:22 PM
Bullshit. Go to any bar full of singles & see who gets more pussy... The guy who approaches women or the guy who looks good & tries to get picked up.

The vast majority of women are insecure & won't approach men.
Only women who approach men are HUGE sluts or 40+ cougars.

I give up. Its most be to difficult to understand, or my English sucks more than i thought.

YOU DO APPROACHE THEM, YOU JUST WATCH OUT FOR THE SIGNALS, AND GO FOR THE EASY PREYS. EASY DOESNET EQUAL "NOT HOT" IN THIS THEORY. EASY = LIKES YOUR TYPE.
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Post by: Shockwave on June 13, 2010, 07:16:55 PM
I give up. Its most be to difficult to understand, or my English sucks more than i thought.

YOU DO APPROACHE THEM, YOU JUST WATCH OUT FOR THE SIGNALS, AND GO FOR THE EASY PREYS. EASY DOESNET EQUAL "NOT HOT" IN THIS THEORY. EASY = LIKES YOUR TYPE.

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I think they mean, that she makes it obvious she likes you, you know, stares, smiles, eye contact, basically asking you to come talk to her with her body language.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: pluck on June 13, 2010, 07:34:29 PM
I give up. Its most be to difficult to understand, or my English sucks more than i thought.

YOU DO APPROACHE THEM, YOU JUST WATCH OUT FOR THE SIGNALS, AND GO FOR THE EASY PREYS. EASY DOESNET EQUAL "NOT HOT" IN THIS THEORY. EASY = LIKES YOUR TYPE.

so are you some sort of rocket scientist?

This is obvious advice.
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: balight on June 13, 2010, 07:36:35 PM


Yep you got it.


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so are you some sort of rocket scientist?

This is obvious advice.

Nope... I would have never made a topic for this shit, Quickerblade found it such a wise advice:D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: pluck on June 13, 2010, 07:45:02 PM
Oi
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Earl1972 on June 13, 2010, 07:48:29 PM

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...

gotta disagree with you here, wouldn't trying to prove that you are "worthy" be putting her on a pedestal?

it's time chicks start pulling their own weight, and stop waiting for prince charming to show up when they aren't even cinderella

there are tons of chicks that think even giving a guy a simple smile is too much work, he should just "have the balls" to chase her ::)


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Post by: tbombz on June 13, 2010, 07:50:24 PM
:o :o :o
(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_GuZj-KgF0fQ/Skou36T2TPI/AAAAAAAAABU/EBEIqSQUdmc/s320/serena_williams_on_grass.jpg)

(http://reasonforliberty.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/serena-williams.jpg)


my woman has more ass  :P  ;)
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: che on June 13, 2010, 07:55:05 PM
my woman has more ass  :P  ;)
Bullshit ,prove it (white thong please  :P)
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Post by: Vince B on June 13, 2010, 08:00:49 PM
The two impossible things to most Getbiggers is how to get big naturally and how to score with hot women. The shortcut to muscles might be drugs but there isn't any shortcut to being successful with women.

By successful I mean getting your share or what you want. Some guys are content with one girlfriend. They are to be envied. A simple life will follow.

For those like Quickerblade who is unsatiable = he hasn't found the right girl yet because when he has he will hang onto her like a leech!....well, things are not so easy. Some guys seem to be lucky and score a lot.

If you were to analyze why they succeed it may not be luck at all. Some guys just instinctively know how women think. These guys are never without a gal. Gay guys resonate with women, too, so might be good to

get advice from. However, the bottom line is nobody really knows what is in the minds of women and what it is that they want. You can do everything right and have a soulmate and get dumped! That stings and

there is no cure except about ten years of suffering. No matter how old or experienced you will still be baffled by the female of our species. That is good in a way because the difference probably keeps the interest.

Use your brain and that is about your best asset. Having big muscles isn't always an asset but shouldn't be a handicap. Women dislike egotistical men. Smart guys talk about them or they are knowledgeable about lots of

things.  
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: Parker on June 13, 2010, 08:23:57 PM
my woman has more ass  :P  ;)
Nope, tbombz, Serena is 5'11 and probably has legs bigger than yours, and she has hella ass, her ass is no Joke! Your girl can't compete in that dept...

Earl, unfortunately, Mother Nature set out to give women the right to pick who is worthy to fertilize their eggs. This goes for almost all insects and vertebrate species. A peeper frog with the best song gets to fertilize more eggs, a bower bird with a better and bluer "bower" gets the female.
Human females have a certain number of eggs, men basically can produce sperm every 75 days I believe. So, a woman must chose who to mate with...
I agree about the Cinderella, those fairy tales have effed women up, particularly in the time frame of their setting, women were political pawns, and most royalty were ugly, especially the women. Just look at Marie Antoinette, it was the common folk that had the looks, they weren't as inbred. 
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Post by: che on June 13, 2010, 08:26:05 PM
The two impossible things to most Getbiggers is how to get big naturally and how to score with hot women. The shortcut to muscles might be drugs but there isn't any shortcut to being successful with women.

Why are you giving advice about these two subjects,  when you weren't natural and your wife is ugly as fuck  ???.
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Post by: Anabol on June 13, 2010, 09:05:40 PM
my woman has more ass  :P  ;)

She will suck you into her hole, at the time you enter her. That's scare shit  ;D
Negroid woman got deep and width vagina's, while white man got not much dick to deal with it. That is science, man  ;D
Title: Re: Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight
Post by: KevinP85 on June 14, 2010, 12:20:56 AM
The two impossible things to most Getbiggers is how to get big naturally and how to score with hot women. The shortcut to muscles might be drugs but there isn't any shortcut to being successful with women.

By successful I mean getting your share or what you want. Some guys are content with one girlfriend. They are to be envied. A simple life will follow.

For those like Quickerblade who is unsatiable = he hasn't found the right girl yet because when he has he will hang onto her like a leech!....well, things are not so easy. Some guys seem to be lucky and score a lot.

If you were to analyze why they succeed it may not be luck at all. Some guys just instinctively know how women think. These guys are never without a gal. Gay guys resonate with women, too, so might be good to

get advice from. However, the bottom line is nobody really knows what is in the minds of women and what it is that they want. You can do everything right and have a soulmate and get dumped! That stings and

there is no cure except about ten years of suffering. No matter how old or experienced you will still be baffled by the female of our species. That is good in a way because the difference probably keeps the interest.

Use your brain and that is about your best asset. Having big muscles isn't always an asset but shouldn't be a handicap. Women dislike egotistical men. Smart guys talk about them or they are knowledgeable about lots of

things.  


Really?? Didn't think this was possible, atleast not to me. However, I am understanding how my girl is slowly, but surely hahaha.
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Post by: dj181 on June 14, 2010, 01:51:13 AM
Hey anabol, if that's true what you say, that why not just stick it into her other hole, that's my fav place to be anyways ;)
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Post by: balight on June 14, 2010, 05:15:56 AM
Hey anabol, if that's true what you say, that why not just stick it into her other hole, that's my fav place to be anyways ;)

Black men are better in that too. They cant see shit stains on their dick when they pull it out. Helps to keep the  intimacy :D
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Post by: io856 on June 14, 2010, 05:16:44 AM
Heres a few tips:

Don't take anything Basile has written in this thread as valuable information

A woman more often than not wants attention

A beautiful woman can often have low self esteem because their worth is solely based on their looks... see above tip...
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Post by: dj181 on June 14, 2010, 05:28:57 AM
Spot on post io856! The gorgeous ones are usually the most insecure and they need their huge@ss egos to be constantly fed.
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Post by: balight on June 14, 2010, 05:46:24 AM
Spot on post io856! The gorgeous ones are usually the most insecure and they need their huge@ss egos to be constantly fed.

That depends on the actual person. MY sister is 19, looks super hot (178, blond, cute face, slim, huge boobs - typical playboy girl material) and she is clever too. And she is almost uninterested in men. She is just happy learning, having fun with her gfs, etc., doesn't need any validation from men. So what you wrote is just too strong  generalisation.
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Post by: io856 on June 14, 2010, 05:48:53 AM
Spot on post io856! The gorgeous ones are usually the most insecure and they need their huge@ss egos to be constantly fed.
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A beautiful woman can often have low self esteem because their worth is solely based on their looks... see above tip...

The part in bold should have been noted...  ::) btw epic outing of sexual interest in your 19yr old sister

That depends on the actual person. MY sister is 19, looks super hot (178, blond, cute face, slim, huge boobs - typical playboy girl material) and she is clever too. And she is almost uninterested in men. She is just happy learning, having fun with her gfs, etc., doesn't need any validation from men. So what you wrote is just too strong  generalisation.

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Post by: balight on June 14, 2010, 05:59:23 AM
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The part in bold should have been noted...  Roll Eyes btw epic outing of sexual interest in your 19yr old sister

Who did that? Im just proud of her, very good add for the family photos.

BTW. i dont like the playboy cover girl type gals. I like short brunettes with cute baby face, thin waist, and big round ass.

But nice try.

(http://i50.tinypic.com/712p8j.jpg)
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Post by: The_Punisher on June 14, 2010, 06:13:56 AM
Nope, tbombz, Serena is 5'11 and probably has legs bigger than yours, and she has hella ass, her ass is no Joke! Your girl can't compete in that dept...

Earl, unfortunately, Mother Nature set out to give women the right to pick who is worthy to fertilize their eggs. This goes for almost all insects and vertebrate species. A peeper frog with the best song gets to fertilize more eggs, a bower bird with a better and bluer "bower" gets the female.
Human females have a certain number of eggs, men basically can produce sperm every 75 days I believe. So, a woman must chose who to mate with...
I agree about the Cinderella, those fairy tales have effed women up, particularly in the time frame of their setting, women were political pawns, and most royalty were ugly, especially the women. Just look at Marie Antoinette, it was the common folk that had the looks, they weren't as inbred.  


lol.....good analogy. Even the King of the Jungle, The Lion, has to have a Darker Mane (dark hair) for him to attract as many Lioness bitches as possible.....hahahahaha
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Post by: johnnynoname on June 14, 2010, 06:27:51 AM
I'll admit that i didn't read any of this thread

however, judging by the title I will add my two cents:  Men should ALWAYS be proactive in their pursuit of woman...the only exception being cougars cuz those bitches will always pick up a hot young dude
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Post by: Bobby on June 14, 2010, 07:04:04 AM
It was oral contact for a while, the last time was 5 years ago...she wasnt that good, i had to jerk off to cum

i hate it when that happens :D

and then they blame u for it...
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Post by: #1 Klaus fan on June 14, 2010, 10:05:30 PM
Women dislike egotistical men.

Big myth.
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Post by: dj181 on June 15, 2010, 12:46:47 AM
You're right Klaus, it should read... Good-hearted women dislike egotistical men.
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Post by: Gino30 on June 15, 2010, 03:48:56 AM
With the attitude of many here is it any wonder that the women behave like they do and avoid you?

Finding that special person is never easy. Some never find her. You might meet several but never get that interest returned. That is typical of what happens in your twenties.
At that age if you have to think about what to do or ask advice you are not going to be doing so well in the romance department.

If you want to have fun then go with whoever likes you a lot. If you persist in chasing the so-called hot women you are competing with others for them and chances are slim. If you go for a gal who fancies you it makes all the difference in the world. When you have experience being with women and know how to please them you will do better in the future with others. Confidence can accumulate and that can make you more attractive to women in general. Women do like to compete for the perceived best guy. That is why showing up at a party with a hot woman is a good idea. Obviously you have to get that date first.

When you think about it most guys are too afraid of being rejected to ask really beautiful women out. You assume they have someone else or that they wouldn't be interested. Sometimes asking for a date can be rewarding.  

good post Vince....