Don't Choose the Girl, let the Girl choose you! - balight

[Quickerblade]

Yes. I'm a typical "cute" guy, i could never get the women who are in to the big hairy lumberjack type. Its all marketing. You have to know your own "Unique selling proposition" and find your own target group. Naturally if you just want to find true love, forget this bullshit. But if you want to fuck a lot, then its a useful principle - don't choose the girls, let they choose you! You will fuck much more this way.

This right here is the answer for me.
Very good post Balight.

[io856]

To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.

[Quickerblade]

To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.

Its getting like that, you now have girls picking up guys..i hear girls all the time "did you pick up last night"

[Parker]

To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.

The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female

[balight]

To some extent...

Thats a very new era thought where gender roles have been blurred.

Two hundred years ago simply parents choosed your partner, almost every marriage was arranged.  So this "men choose women" era was just a very brief period.

Its getting like that, you now have girls picking up guys..i hear girls all the time "did you pick up last night"

No, you didn't get my point. They give you a sign, and you have to be very cautious to catch those signs. Then you pick them up. But after all she choose you at the beginning.

  I don't say that we should completely give up to to initiate, but its easier to hit on girls, who certainly like your type. Its like marketing: you think you choose Coca-Cola's new energy drink, but in reality Coca-Cola targeted you with their new product. Be the new product, and comunicate your USP.

[ManBearPig...]

The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female

yep x 1000, fucking homos everywhere.

[Parker]

yep x 1000, fucking homos everywhere.

I saw this commercial for Old Navy's skinny jeans for women...and I was like "hold up", because they have skinny jeans for men, and of course the new trend or fad for men is skinny jeans. So they have men wearing the same thing as women, and dudes don't realize it. What's next, men in tights? Men in spandex leggings with the stirrup heel?

[tbombz]

i would like to point out that constantly talking about "how to get women" can be counter productive for alot of guys who need the advice the most. parker was right on in his commments yesterday abotu alienation and seperating yourself from the woman by always thinking about "how to attract her"..

stop thinking about this stuff..   just have fun, laugh, smile, share your thoughts(as long as they arent negative, ignorant, or insecure)...   

[balight]

I saw this commercial for Old Navy's skinny jeans for women...and I was like "hold up", because they have skinny jeans for men, and of course the new trend or fad for men is skinny jeans. So they have men wearing the same thing as women, and dudes don't realize it. What's next, men in tights? Men in spandex leggings with the stirrup heel?

Men in Spandex? Just open a Flex from the 90's...

[Parker]

Men in Spandex? Just open a Flex from the 90's...

True, especially that black and white singlet that Flex W used to wear. But I guess I mean the spandx women are wearing now. Imagine some guy wearing that with a sports coat...

And thanks tbombz...

[balight]

True, especially that black and white singlet that Flex W used to wear. But I guess I mean the spandx women are wearing now. Imagine some guy wearing that with a sports coat...

And thanks tbombz...

I guess oldschool heavy metal singers used to wear something like that, with leather coats

[#1 Klaus fan]

The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female

Yes, it's hurting the society that now women have the guts to go after the man they want to be with, and not settle for the best that comes their way.

[Parker]

Yes, it's hurting the society that now women have the guts to go after the man they want to be with, and not settle for the best that comes their way.

You didn't get it did you? Men wearing skinny jeans, emo haircuts, more men acting like women, effeminate behavior by men being applauded, typical male traits being frowned upon. Women picking weak men to marry, but yet complaining that those men act like women.
Go to any female dominated board and you have Rona of questions as to why men are acting more like women. Also, women priding themselves in being "bitches", and women increasingly saying "I hit that...", excuse me, you don't hit anything, because you don't have anything to hit with...

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...

[dj181]

Wise post Parker, and speaking about fellas wearing skinny jeans, I spotted what I thought was some anorexic bubble @ss female (which is my ideal type, in fact) but lo and behold, as I got closer to "her" I found out that it was just some small and skinny bubble @ssed dude :0 BRUTAL!

[balight]

You didn't get it did you? Men wearing skinny jeans, emo haircuts, more men acting like women, effeminate behavior by men being applauded, typical male traits being frowned upon. Women picking weak men to marry, but yet complaining that those men act like women.
Go to any female dominated board and you have Rona of questions as to why men are acting more like women. Also, women priding themselves in being "bitches", and women increasingly saying "I hit that...", excuse me, you don't hit anything, because you don't have anything to hit with...

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...

    I guess this thread got sidetracked. My whole concept wasn't about let girls hit on you. Its about dont just choose a girl that you like, first try to figure out, which one likes your type, and then hit on her.  Always go in the direction of the weakest resistance

[chaos]

The bitchification of the American male and the masculinization  of the American female

X2

Allowing a woman the right to choose is as Beta as it gets.

[Parker]

    I guess this thread got sidetracked. My whole concept wasn't about let girls hit on you. Its about dont just choose a girl that you like, first try to figure out, which one likes your type, and then hit on her.  Always go in the direction of the weakest resistance

Main man, I understand what you saying...

Damn, I'm listening to Maxwell's "Lonely's the Only Company (I&II)", and I could really, really expound on some shit...but to take up this thread with a 1,000 word post wouldn't be right.

[tbombz]

what if all the girls give me signals, and i just cant make up my mind ??


 lol jk..



 (not about all the girls giving me signals, but because my mind is already made up..   

[che]

 

[bodybuilder1234]

i would like to point out that constantly talking about "how to get women" can be counter productive for alot of guys who need the advice the most. parker was right on in his commments yesterday abotu alienation and seperating yourself from the woman by always thinking about "how to attract her"..

stop thinking about this stuff..   just have fun, laugh, smile, share your thoughts(as long as they arent negative, ignorant, or insecure)...   

this is good advice

[KevinP85]

You didn't get it did you? Men wearing skinny jeans, emo haircuts, more men acting like women, effeminate behavior by men being applauded, typical male traits being frowned upon. Women picking weak men to marry, but yet complaining that those men act like women.
Go to any female dominated board and you have Rona of questions as to why men are acting more like women. Also, women priding themselves in being "bitches", and women increasingly saying "I hit that...", excuse me, you don't hit anything, because you don't have anything to hit with...

And the natural order is women pick the men, but the men must prove that they are worthy, which is of course talking to her, wooing her. By a woman going after the man, that creates an imbalance, it creates weaker men, and the man takes on a feminine role.

Think it out first...

Good one Parker, taking notes for myself

[Quickerblade]

Have you ever been out and you see a girl looking at you, checking you out, you can tell by body language if a girl is interested, when shes talking to u and she touches your hand breifly.

the ones i see showing interest/body language are the ones i go for.

[Master Blaster]

Never take "No" for an answer. Men who puss out and at the first time she says "you're scaring me, take me home" are the true beta male spagetti arm tarzans.

[balight]

Never take "No" for an answer. Men who puss out and at the first time she says "you're scaring me, take me home" are the true beta male spagetti arm tarzans.

If you just want to have a good fuck its stupid to fight for a girl. There are plenty of them, just go for the easier shot. Johnynoname wrote a very good article about this in his Q&A thread. If you're looking for a long term relationship, true love etc. then fight for the most beautiful/talented/intelligent one... but thats an other story.

[Quickerblade]

True love lol, i cant stand the sight of the same girl for more then 2 weeks, i can meet a "10" but when i smell her breathe and its off or i notice some weird habit she has I'm out of there...I cannot do commitment