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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: tone loc on August 06, 2010, 10:19:11 PM
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Why a man would say he wants a whole life with you and then take it all back a day later? :'(
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a. drunk when he said it
b. Found out something about you that scares him
c. the other girl he "really" likes started to succumb to his advances
d. he might be gay
e. although he enjoys the sex he doesn't see himself with you for the rest of his life
f. dump the douchbag for someone else who doesn't play head games
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Sadly, they always want more. And that's not just men, it's people in general...
Did you give him a wonderful time, like 100%? Were you too good to be true, wonderful and beautiful?
Yes, you were. But they always want more. Next time I suggest you just give 99% and maybe they'll come back... (joke!)
Hope you'll get over it tone loc. Obviously he was playing you, but you don't know that at the time, do you?
My theory is that if you give them your perfect everything, they'll get up the following morning and go roaming for something even better. Which obviously they don't find, then they regret their actions.
And you'll get over it, you will. Don't go back to him though, leave him wanting more.
It's something to do with the male ego, which none of us will ever come close to comprehending.
xL
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It's something to do with the male ego, which none of us will ever come close to comprehending.
xL
Linda, SPOT ON chickie.
ToneLoc, sorry to hear that. Not sure if this happend to a friend of yours or yourself, stinks for sure
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dicks are dicks for whatever reason i know it seems like it would make it easier to know why but the reason wont be meaningful and will only make you look at a part of yourself that doesnt need to be examined in the first place more than likely...tone not to be mean but chances are he was a dick before this happend and you either missed it or dismissed it...
the only thing you can control is what you do, so next time if this was the case try to make sure the guy is who they say they are.
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dicks are dicks for whatever reason i know it seems like it would make it easier to know why but the reason wont be meaningful and will only make you look at a part of yourself that doesnt need to be examined in the first place more than likely...tone not to be mean but chances are he was a dick before this happend and you either missed it or dismissed it...
the only thing you can control is what you do, so next time if this was the case try to make sure the guy is who they say they are.
Pretty true. Now don't get me wrong a lot of women do or have done stupid things as well but why do dicks do this
Dicks will be dicks...haha love that one
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they just go looking for another even more perfect thing to stick it in...
xL
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they just go looking for another even more perfect hole to stick it in...
xL
Exactly linda
I wanted to post something like that
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Exactly linda
I wanted to post something like that
Oooops, you quoted me before I edited myself!
It's about my ego theory: it's a hunting gathering survival of the fittest thing? I know I'll never understand it
xxxLinda
ps: didya see the horrid rude response you and I got on the Ron Board?
Takes all types, but wow, more than 50% here are, it seems, wankers ! They fuck threads up !!!
This thread is about some dreamer who promises the earth and beyond to tone loc then goes out to buy a newspaper and doesn't come back, no?
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i dont know the whole story so i cant do what everybody else in this thread is doing and say "its always the mans fault"..........
bench
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Pretty true. Now don't get me wrong a lot of women do or have done stupid things as well but why do dicks do this
Dicks will be dicks...haha love that one
LOL who knows why they do it and like linda said and others have pointed out its not only men that play games women are notorious for doing such things as well...
point is that chances are you didnt qualify the person enough man or woman, ppl dont in general pull a 180 in personality overnight so that means that often times ppl either overlook things or purposely dismiss them in order to give the person the benefit of the doubt or the idea of the relationship the benefit of the doubt.
if you really didnt do anything tone and only you will know the truth of that than what does it matter why he did it? wont change the situation and will only force you to look at a part of yourself that doesnt need to be examined...
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i dont know the whole story so i cant do what everybody else in this thread is doing and say "its always the mans fault"..........
bench
Um re read mine and lindas post
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ppl dont in general pull a 180 in personality overnight
so give tone loc a break and don't give her grief, we're doing sympathy here on the girly board.
She said the guy said he'd gladly spend the rest of his life by her side then went and fucked off. He did that 180 degree thing... sometimes peeps do that, & it's obviously his loss.
xL
............ Was that a nasty unprovoked attack i made? In this our safe place?
OOOps.....with realism and mad love,
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Thanks for the love. It was just so strange. I mean our time line was correct. I waited to tell him i loved him bc i was scared it would freak him out and then he said it.
two months later he told me he wanted the whole 9 yards, for me to move in with him, marry him, and have babies with him. he actually said, "lets be young parents." the next day it was like eeeeek! nevermind!
love is a bitch
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Um re read mine and lindas post
exactly prooving my point.....people refuse to believe that a woman could have anything to do with relationship problems....oh well, i guess womens low self esteem needs a scape goat.....and a man will always be it...
bench
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tone darling?
are you really young? think you are. so get ready, they all say that: Hey Baby We'll make beautiful babies.
Often that's at the same time they're telling you they don't like condoms, they're too small, don't fit, they're allergic to latex or some such lie?
Save yourself for someone better. And take care xL
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im not that young. 20s. but you're right. i just thought he was the one. so when he said it too i thought i was getting what i want. it doesn't hurt that he was the best sex i ever had. damn.
i have strong self esteem 'bench'
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im not that young. 20s. he was the best sex i ever had. damn.
just look forward to all the better sex you'll get next !
xL
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im not that young. 20s. but you're right. i just thought he was the one. so when he said it too i thought i was getting what i want. it doesn't hurt that he was the best sex i ever had. damn.
i have strong self esteem 'bench'
Wow Tone, Sorry to hear this happened to you. I know iit's hard to recognize at the moment,
...but his 180 reversal did you a big favour. better to find out now he has feet of clay, than 5 yrs down the road after you've married him and pumped out a few babies. Sounds to me like the prospect of responsibillity scared him off. Better he be scared now than later. And now you have room in your life for a real man who can be the type of man you deserve.
PS: There's soothing comfort to be derived from a flannel onesie and a huge tub of Haagen Daaz. ;)
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so give tone loc a break and don't give her grief, we're doing sympathy here on the girly board.
She said the guy said he'd gladly spend the rest of his life by her side then went and fucked off. He did that 180 degree thing... sometimes peeps do that, & it's obviously his loss.
xL
ps :always ignore bench, he's 360% mad and probably on really nasty drugs. Only a very sad bloke would post on a girly board that we're all anti-men and then admit he can't be assed to read the thread. Was that a nasty unprovoked attack i made? In this our safe place?
OOOps.....with realism and mad love,
Im not being mean or at least Im not trying to be im just trying to be as real as possible...sorry ppl dont just pull a 180 im not saying its her fault im just giving her a heads up for down the road..
you see this...THIS WAS A SIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that either got dismissed or got overlooked...
two months later he told me he wanted the whole 9 yards, for me to move in with him, marry him, and have babies with him. he actually said, "lets be young parents." the next day it was like eeeeek! nevermind!
and you wouldnt disagree with me and then say this if you didnt somewhat agree...
they all say that: Hey Baby We'll make beautiful babies.
Often that's at the same time they're telling you they don't like condoms, they're too small, don't fit, they're allergic to latex or some such lie?
Save yourself for someone better. And take care xL
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ahem....
I'm available
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Dina? Ron? STella? Laura Lee? The Beast?
please please please you just gotta ban or simply delete these unsophisticates?
With mad love, humour and extreme politeness,
Yours truly, xLinda
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Dina? Ron? STella? Laura Lee? The Beast?
please please please you just gotta ban or simply delete these unsophisticates?
With mad love, humour and extreme politeness,
Yours truly, xLinda
If you're referring to me, I am extremely sophisticated...and I was only joking since Tone Loc devoted an entire thread about her bikini wax. You're probably so used to the typical heavily tattooed, goatee wearing, crew cutted gym rat, that you would never appreciate a fortune 400 , well dressed, perfect physiqued guy like myself. I am intelligent, articulate, wealthy and women that have some class or sophistication are extremely attracted to me. Why on earth should I be banned from here? If anything, women on here should be desperately putting together a strategy to garner a bit of my attention.....unless they're content to keep dating the same losers over and over.
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If you're referring to me, I am extremely sophisticated...and I was only joking since Tone Loc devoted an entire thread about her bikini wax. You're probably so used to the typical heavily tattooed, goatee wearing, crew cutted gym rat, that you would never appreciate a fortune 400 , well dressed, perfect physiqued guy like myself. I am intelligent, articulate, wealthy and women that have some class or sophistication are extremely attracted to me. Why on earth should I be banned from here? If anything, women on here should be desperately putting together a strategy to garner a bit of my attention.....unless they're content to keep dating the same losers over and over.
Pics or it's not true, ...especially with a name like Lord of the Roidz, reminding us of someone with all the class, polish, and sophistication
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Pics or it's not true, ...especially with a name like Lord of the Roidz, reminding us of someone with all the class, polish, and sophistication of a billy mimnaugh
LOL fat chance this gimmick has been running around for months now...im thinking daddy waddy is on the other end of this...
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im not that young. 20s. but you're right. i just thought he was the one. so when he said it too i thought i was getting what i want. it doesn't hurt that he was the best sex i ever had. damn.
i have strong self esteem 'bench'
AHEMN...
still available
lol
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Why a man would say he wants a whole life with you and then take it all back a day later? :'(
he got laid didn't he(i surely hope not for your sake)? ....and if he did...the guy that REALLY wants to spend his whole life with you in the future will change his mind if you tell him about THIS particular guy....
i'm one of those guys....
faithful guys that r successful and decent looking WILL NEVER settle for a girl that has allowed herself to be played.......EVER...we know we deserve better and get it...
i know it flies in the face of " o i dont believe in double standards " sorta women....those women make great cat ladies past 40
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im not sure what you mean toxi.
i think he is scared of his real feelings and ran away from them
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im not sure what you mean toxi.
i think he is scared of his real feelings and ran away from them
LOL not to be mean tone but it sounds like youre still holding out hope that he will "come to his senses"
like I said dicks are dicks doesnt matter why, you need to move on and realize youre better off without someone like that in your life...
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im not sure what you mean toxi.
maybe i ws mistaken...what i meant ws...i hope he didn't get to have you by telling you he loved you
i think he is scared of his real feelings and ran away from them
good bye and good riddance then right!
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oh no no no. we were long past having each other. over a year in, in fact. it was an appropriate timeline.
i felt like he reached the pinnacle and then got freaked out.
i really feel like hes the one. and this is killing me!
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oh no no no. we were long past having each other. over a year in, in fact. it was an appropriate timeline.
i felt like he reached the pinnacle and then got freaked out.
i really feel like hes the one. and this is killing me!
Sorry you are going through this, tone :(
But would "the one" act so flighty/strange? If he is capable of changing completely in this regard in one day, wouldn't you always be wondering when he might flake again?
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Sorry you are going through this, tone :(
But would "the one" act so flighty/strange? If he is capable of changing completely in this regard in one day, wouldn't you always be wondering when he might flake again?
or what else he might do?
again youre better off without that drama in your life tone
I would rather be by myself than put up with stuff like that, tone do you not realize that you a better than that and dont deserve that bs?
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or what else he might do?
again youre better off without that drama in your life tone
I would rather be by myself than put up with stuff like that, tone do you not realize that you a better than that and dont deserve that bs?
Seems stressful to be waiting for the next shoe to drop
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i really feel like hes the one. and this is killing me!
u r wrong about him being the one...and as proof i'll quote a man much better than i ever will be...and i answer you "without fear of infamy" (dante's inferno)
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds.
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests and is not shaken:
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
Love’s not time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom,
If this be error, and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
~William Shakespeare
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oh no no no. we were long past having each other. over a year in, in fact. it was an appropriate timeline.
i felt like he reached the pinnacle and then got freaked out.
i really feel like hes the one. and this is killing me!
been there. the feeling sucks. And it still does actually. howeveryou have to realize that it may never happen again with that person and you have to try and move on. It can be a slow and sh*tty process.
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I helps to hump a body pillow too.
by the way, my middle name is body pillow...
just sayin'
;D
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I helps to hump a body pillow too.
by the way, my middle name is body pillow...
just sayin'
;D
LMAO no offense but youre like a little puppy, but you really have to appreciate the effort ;D
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LMAO no offense but youre like a little puppy, but you really have to appreciate the effort ;D
;D
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;D
awwwwwwww that is a cute doggie. Almost as cute as the pouty lip
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i don't play fair
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i don't play fair
I see that :-\
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;D
Chic magnet ;D
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=344876.0;attach=380131;image)
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:D
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PLAYING FAIR SUCKS, LOL
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ass hole has a new girl friend. hope he catches an STD.
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ass hole has a new girl friend. hope he catches an STD.
well...if you want some revenge, i know this guy named Migs.....
bench
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ass hole has a new girl friend. hope he catches an STD.
sorry to hear that...DOUCHEBAG..probab ly is originally from DOUCHEBAGISTAN
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did someone call?
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Why a man would say he wants a whole life with you and then take it all back a day later? :'(
ass hole has a new girl friend. hope he catches an STD.
All in less than 20 days? Hmmmm
dicks are dicks for whatever reason i know it seems like it would make it easier to know why but the reason wont be meaningful and will only make you look at a part of yourself that doesnt need to be examined in the first place more than likely...tone not to be mean but chances are he was a dick before this happend and you either missed it or dismissed it...
the only thing you can control is what you do, so next time if this was the case try to make sure the guy is who they say they are.
point is that chances are you didnt qualify the person enough man or woman, ppl dont in general pull a 180 in personality overnight so that means that often times ppl either overlook things or purposely dismiss them in order to give the person the benefit of the doubt or the idea of the relationship the benefit of the doubt.
Im not being mean or at least Im not trying to be im just trying to be as real as possible...sorry ppl dont just pull a 180 im not saying its her fault im just giving her a heads up for down the road..
you see this...THIS WAS A SIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that either got dismissed or got overlooked...and you wouldnt disagree with me and then say this if you didnt somewhat agree...
Tony has hit on very key points.
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All in less than 20 days? Hmmmm
Tony has hit on very key points.
LOL not to be mean tone but it sounds like youre still holding out hope that he will "come to his senses"
you know whats weird is that my personal life i see these things but still fail to react to them :-[ ahhh the hopeless romantic doomed to be screwed (no homo) LOL
Im getting better though...tone whats weird is that hopefully you will be a better more well rounded person who is honetly more trusting in response to this and hopefully the person you end up with is a better person b/c of similar experiences that he has gone through(not hitting on you :D)
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its okay. i could use being hit on.
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its okay. i could use being hit on.
Ahem...
Did you fart? Because you blew me away
You must be in a wrong place - the Miss Universe contest is over there.
Was that an earthquake or did u just rock my world?
I may not be a genie but I can make your dreams come true
Are you a magnet cuz im attracted to you
Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
I wish you were DSL so I could get high-speed access.
I know its not Christmas, but Santa's lap is always ready.
Baby your like a student and I am like a math book, you solve all my
problems
"Why does it feel like the most beautiful girl in the world is in this
room?"
Can I take a picture of you, so I can show Santa just what I want for
Christmas.
Do you have any raisins? No? How about a date?
I was blinded by your beauty so I'm going to need your name and number for insurance reasons.
I'm sorry, were you talking to me? Her: No. Well then, please start.
I know I dont have a chance, but I just wanted to hear an angel talk.
Roses are red, violets are blue, how would you like it if I came home with you?
Hey I just realized this, but you look alot like my next girlfriend.
Are your legs tired, because you've been running through my mind all day long.
Are you lost? Because heaven's a long way from here.
POOF! (What are u doing?) I'm here, where are your other two wishes?
I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away.
Girl, you better have a license, cuz you are driving me crazy!
If you were the new burger at McDonalds you would be the Mcgorgeous!
Do you have the time? (she gives you the time) No, the time to write my number down .
Let's make like a fabric softener and snuggle.
Are you an interior decorator? When I saw you the room became beautiful.
Hello, I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.
Is that top felt? [No] Would you like it to be?
Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?
Is your last name Gillete cause your the best a man can get.
Are you a parking ticket? (What?) You got fine written all over you.
I'm invisible. (Really?) Can you see me? (Yes) How about tomorrow night?
You can fall off a building, you can fall out a tree, but baby, the best way to fall is in love with me.
I have never had a dream come true until the day that I met you.
You look life my first wife! (how many have you had?) none.
Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?
I'm addicted to yes, and I'm allergic to no. So what's it gonna be?
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together.
Turn to the girl sitting next to you at the bar and say... "I'm not really this tall....I'm sitting on my wallet."
This is a test of the emergency pickup line service. Beeeeeeeeeep. If you had been any less beautiful, you would have just heard a bad pickup line.
If this bar is a meat market, you must be the prime rib.
I know I'm not a grocery item but I can tell when you're checking me out.
If beauty were sunlight, you'd shine from a million light-years away.
Do you mind if I hang out here until its safe back where I farted.
Life without you would be like a broken pencil...pointless.
Your body is a wonderland and i want to be Alice.
I'm like chocolate pudding, I look like crap but im as sweet as can be.
Can I have directions? ["To where?"] To your heart.
Are you an alien? because you just abducted my heart.
Did you fart, 'cause you blow me away!
I hope there's a fireman around, cause you're smokin'!
If you were a booger I'd pick you first.
Excuse me, I think you have something in your eye. Nope, it's just a sparkle.
You've been a bad girl/boy. Go to my room.
If beauty were time, you'd be an eternity.
Do you know karate? 'Cause your body is really kickin'.
Are you as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside?
Like the sheets on your bed I want cover you with love.
Do you have a Bandaid? Because I just scraped my knee falling for you.
Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.
I hope your day is as radiant as your smile.
You make me melt like hot fudge on a sundae.
You know what? Your eyes are the same color as my Porsche.
Are you an alien?, because you just abducted my heart.
What has 142 teeth and holds back the incredible hulk? My zipper.
I can tell your future, it is you giving me your number.
Hi, I'm Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me.
Giant polar bear (What?) It's an icebreaker. Hi, my name is....
Your so hot when i look at you I get a tan
I must be a snowflake, 'cuz I've fallen for you.
You look so sweet your givin me a toothache.
My love for you is like the universe...neverending!!
If looks could kill you would be a weapon of mass destruction.
You - "Did it hurt". The other person will naturally say "Did what hurt?", You - "When you fell from heaven."
Excuse me, can you empty your pockets? I believe you have stolen my heart.
Do you have a map? Because I just keep getting lost in your eyes!
You say "I bet you $20 I can kiss you without using my lips." She says, "Bet's on." You kiss her then say, "I lost."
You got something on your chest: my eyes
Do you believe in the hereafter? Well, then I guess you know what I'm here after.
I don't know if you're beautiful or not, I haven't gotten past your eyes yet.
What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?
Your eyes are as blue as my toilet water at home.
I'm not drunk, I'm just intoxicated by you.
Do you want to make millions? millions of babies!
The night is young, the moon is bright, and you are here with me tonight.
I wanna bag you like some groceries.
kiss me if I am wrong, but isn't your name (take a guess)...Janice????
Are you from Tennessee? Cause you're the only TEN I see
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its okay. i could use being hit on.
hey sexy...lets see them tits..
bench
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Are you from Tennessee? Cause you're the only TEN I see
WRONG
are you from Memphis, because your're the only TEN I see
Is your body named Visa, because it's everywhere where I wanna be.
Those earrings look good on you but would look better on my nightstand
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WRONG
are you from Memphis, because your're the only TEN I see
Is your body named Visa, because it's everywhere where I wanna be.
Those earrings look good on you but would look better on my nightstand
or
"lets get naked"
or "are you a screamer...cause i need to let my neighbors know"
how about me and you go out to my car, and plow
want to get some dinner, have some sex, and then see where the night takes us?
all of the above are 100% foolproof!!!!
bench
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do you have any spanish in you? Want some?
;D
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do you have any spanish in you? Want some?
;D
there you go....
or you could just slap her ass and wink.....they love that one ;D
or any of these shall work..
Would you like to see my circumcision scar?
* I have a two minute recovery time.
* Didn't I do your sister?
* Are you as good as your mother?
* Is that a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see my-self in your pants.
* F**k me if I am wrong, but isn't your name Gretchen?
* Yo. You'll do.
* Do you have a boyfriend? Well when you want a MAN-friend, come and talk to me!
* Is there a Rainbow, because you're the treasure I've been searching for.
* What is a nice girl like you doing in a dirty mind like mine?
* My place.....Eight o'clock......bring a friend.
* Why don't we go back to my place and do the things I'm going to tell people we did anyway?
* [Look at her shirt label. When they say, "What are you doing?":]
Checking to see if you were made in heaven.
* I love every bone in your body - especially mine.
* Do you want to see something swell?
* If I followed you home, would you keep me?
* Hey babe, wanna get LUCKY!?
* Inheriting eighty million bucks doesn't mean much when you have a
weak heart.
* So....How am I doin'?
* A woman asks, "Excuse me, do you have the time?"
You: "Do you have the energy?"
* What do you say we go back to my room and do some math: Add a bed, subtract our clothes, divide your legs, and multiply.
* Beauty is only a light switch away...
* Hello, I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.
bench