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Title: Why do married people.....
Post by: Red Hook on September 21, 2010, 04:28:17 AM
Why do married people feel the need to tell the world that they love their spouse?

talk to any married person and within a few sentences they will profess their love for their spouse.

umm..doesn't the fact thaty you married them tells us all that we need to know about your affection for them?

I am bringing this to light because there is a guy on my Facebook friends list like clock work will post a comment like "I love my wife she is best wife a man can ask for".
And ofcourse the flock of sheep chime in "ah, so cute, he is a good man".

reassurance? didn't spending thousands and holding a ceremony already tell the world that

Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: wes on September 21, 2010, 04:41:04 AM
 ;D
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Cyttorak on September 21, 2010, 04:52:28 AM
http://www.seductiontuition.com/unknown/truth-about-women.html
 :o 8)
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on September 21, 2010, 05:22:39 AM
He's trying to tell himself that, and make sense of the situation he's in.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: newmom on September 21, 2010, 05:24:34 AM
He's trying to tell himself that, and make sense of the situation he's in.

that or making himself feel less guilty for cheating
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: BIG ACH on September 21, 2010, 05:38:26 AM

I love my wife!  Marrying her was the greatest decision I ever made!   ;D
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Red Hook on September 21, 2010, 05:42:37 AM
I love my wife!  Marrying her was the greatest decision I ever made!   ;D

I think that your wife is special also, she always goes the extra mile ;)
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: StanZoLOL on September 21, 2010, 05:44:21 AM
He's trying to tell himself that, and make sense of the situation he's in.

This.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Howard on September 21, 2010, 05:52:09 AM
Why do married people feel the need to tell the world that they love their spouse?

talk to any married person and within a few sentences they will profess their love for their spouse.

umm..doesn't the fact thaty you married them tells us all that we need to know about your affection for them?

I am bringing this to light because there is a guy on my Facebook friends list like clock work will post a comment like "I love my wife she is best wife a man can ask for".
And ofcourse the flock of sheep chime in "ah, so cute, he is a good man".

reassurance? didn't spending thousands and holding a ceremony already tell the world that


The only status update Facebook should allow is on your bowel movements.
Example: My wife can't take a dump, update her bowel status to constipated
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: FREAKgeek on September 21, 2010, 05:55:08 AM
http://www.seductiontuition.com/unknown/truth-about-women.html
 :o 8)


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I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place.

which getbigger wrote that?
 ;D
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: dov on September 21, 2010, 06:20:29 AM
Weak minded people fall victim to societies pressures/expectations of marriage, 2.5 children, etc and have to constantly reassure themselves of the bullshit they've gotten themselves into. They do this by "tricking" themselves. Pathetic
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Butterbean on September 21, 2010, 06:22:56 AM

which getbigger wrote that?
 ;D

Pumpster or suckmymuscle?
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: HTexan on September 21, 2010, 06:23:45 AM
Because they do.   ;D
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: dov on September 21, 2010, 06:25:13 AM
DaddyWaddy
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Howard on September 21, 2010, 06:25:40 AM
Weak minded people fall victim to societies pressures/expectations of marriage, 2.5 children, etc and have to constantly reassure themselves of the bullshit they've gotten themselves into. They do this by "tricking" themselves. Pathetic
I now LIVE with my 3rd ex wife ( we got divorced). No kids and an easy to maintain townhouse with small backyard.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: BIG ACH on September 21, 2010, 07:07:07 AM
Weak minded people fall victim to societies pressures/expectations of marriage, 2.5 children, etc and have to constantly reassure themselves of the bullshit they've gotten themselves into. They do this by "tricking" themselves. Pathetic

LOL at 2.5 children!!!!! hahahaha  Did that last one not make it all the way out?  ;D
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Tito24 on September 21, 2010, 07:10:40 AM
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Stark on September 21, 2010, 07:20:24 AM
I don't do that... actually I don't see the point in doing that at all, for me getting married and loving sombody goes hand
in hand, anybody who married for the sake of getting married or to get the nagging girlfriend of his back (there are plenty of
these mental giants out there) are people that I don't want to have around me in the first place.

Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: UPINTHEMGUTS on September 21, 2010, 07:54:04 AM
Going to be a lot of unhappy, lonely old men in due time on this thread......Nothing wrong about professing your love to a significant other. It's all about being happy in life. Obviously, not eveyone feels the same about this subject. Whatever floats your boat.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: youandme on September 21, 2010, 08:42:35 AM
just let him post that stuff....then in a few weeks he will be talking about divorce.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: David M on September 21, 2010, 08:44:18 AM
just let him post that stuff....then in a few weeks he will be talking about divorce.

true this
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: jtsunami on September 21, 2010, 11:25:50 AM
Going to be a lot of unhappy, lonely old men in due time on this thread......Nothing wrong about professing your love to a significant other. It's all about being happy in life. Obviously, not eveyone feels the same about this subject. Whatever floats your boat.

this isn't the point, it is societies norms that force some men who are weak to conform and get married have a reg house, kids all that shit, when in reality they really don't want that, they feel so pressured to do that because that is what society tells you to do.  You can just as easily have no kids, live with your partner and be completely fulfilled, no marriage, no kids nonsense and no crazy responsibility.

Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: wes on September 21, 2010, 11:32:37 AM
I now LIVE with my 3rd ex wife ( we got divorced). No kids and an easy to maintain townhouse with small backyard.
You`re getting juiced like an orange Howard!!  :)
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Croatch on September 21, 2010, 01:45:03 PM
Why do married people feel the need to tell the world that they love their spouse?

talk to any married person and within a few sentences they will profess their love for their spouse.

umm..doesn't the fact thaty you married them tells us all that we need to know about your affection for them?

I am bringing this to light because there is a guy on my Facebook friends list like clock work will post a comment like "I love my wife she is best wife a man can ask for".
And ofcourse the flock of sheep chime in "ah, so cute, he is a good man".

reassurance? didn't spending thousands and holding a ceremony already tell the world that
Very strange.  Almost like someone saying, "life's good".  Yeah, no shit buddy.
It's one thing to tell a buddy how your relationship is going and another to profess your love for girl to some random douche.
Guess what, single people could give a shit how your relationship is going...believe me.  Much like how your kids are doing.  Nobody cares, that's why their YOUR kids, for you to care about them.
Woosh!
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: jtsunami on September 21, 2010, 02:03:16 PM
Very strange.  Almost like someone saying, "life's good".  Yeah, no shit buddy.
It's one thing to tell a buddy how your relationship is going and another to profess your love for girl to some random douche.
Guess what, single people could give a shit how your relationship is going...believe me.  Much like how your kids are doing.  Nobody cares, that's why their YOUR kids, for you to care about them.
Woosh!

x2, married people are mostly miserable and wish they were single.  Very small percentage actually are happy.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Nails on September 21, 2010, 02:26:31 PM
Tax Deductions, and to have a mistress on the side
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: heavyNbasic on September 21, 2010, 02:36:19 PM
Why do married people feel the need to tell the world that they love their spouse?

talk to any married person and within a few sentences they will profess their love for their spouse.

umm..doesn't the fact thaty you married them tells us all that we need to know about your affection for them?

I am bringing this to light because there is a guy on my Facebook friends list like clock work will post a comment like "I love my wife she is best wife a man can ask for".
And ofcourse the flock of sheep chime in "ah, so cute, he is a good man".

reassurance? didn't spending thousands and holding a ceremony already tell the world that

Ummmm...


Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Red Hook on September 21, 2010, 04:20:08 PM
Going to be a lot of unhappy, lonely old men in due time on this thread......Nothing wrong about professing your love to a significant other. It's all about being happy in life. Obviously, not eveyone feels the same about this subject. Whatever floats your boat.


umm....what is the highest form of professing your love, isn't that getting married?  what else does he need to say?
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Lundgren on September 21, 2010, 04:28:58 PM
LOL at 2.5 children!!!!! hahahaha  Did that last one not make it all the way out?  ;D
It means one of the child is from outside the marriage. It prevents people from double counting step kids.

People proclaim their love just like some men proclaim there conquest, or acheivements.
People that act like married people are misserable are imature. Or there to self centered to understanding the concept of sharing their life with another person. I don't think marriage is always the way the go but living a self centered life is the most trivial thing you can do.

Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: jtsunami on September 21, 2010, 05:05:45 PM
It means one of the child is from outside the marriage. It prevents people from double counting step kids.

People proclaim their love just like some men proclaim there conquest, or acheivements.
People that act like married people are misserable are imature. Or there to self centered to understanding the concept of sharing their life with another person. I don't think marriage is always the way the go but living a self centered life is the most trivial thing you can do.



but why does it matter ?  If you live a marriage typical life or a unmarried life, everybody is dead in the end rotting with the dirt, once your gone who gives a shit.

Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Pet shop boys on September 21, 2010, 08:51:47 PM
Its called Love .....dont try to figure it out

Next question.


Wooossshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: HTexan on September 21, 2010, 08:53:12 PM
but why does it matter ?  If you live a marriage typical life or a unmarried life, everybody is dead in the end rotting with the dirt, once your gone who gives a shit.


He talking about family tree here.
Title: Re: Why do married people.....
Post by: Howard on September 21, 2010, 08:57:05 PM
this isn't the point, it is societies norms that force some men who are weak to conform and get married have a reg house, kids all that shit, when in reality they really don't want that, they feel so pressured to do that because that is what society tells you to do.  You can just as easily have no kids, live with your partner and be completely fulfilled, no marriage, no kids nonsense and no crazy responsibility.


Yup, you got it exactly right, seriously.
I am LIVING with my ex wife now ( 3rd ex wife ,long story).
It is having kids that causes the biggest stress, thus I never had any nor plan to.