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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
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I feel the same way...One has had Alzheimer's for 15 years and the other is not mentally stable anymore and I avoid them and I;m filled with guilt because I'm too much of a pussy to deal with it...Sad really.
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Enjoy the present, do not worry about the future.
This is not the board to work out such thoughts.
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Sorry to hear that.. We're all dying
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
If she dies..... she dies.
I'm sorry, someone had to!
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So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
Yes, quit being a cunt and go visit her, you greedy self centered asshole.
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i lost my grandmother 2 years ago. saddest day of my life.
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I feel the same way...One has had Alzheimer's for 15 years and the other is not mentally stable anymore and I avoid them and I;m filled with guilt because I'm too much of a pussy to deal with it...Sad really.
Well the thing is my grandmother is extremly smart for here age. She's literally the most with it person in a seniors home of over 300. She raised me more than my parents did between 10-17. She's smart as can be, it's just I hate talking on phones and I'm too far away to visit.
I donno it's wierd I got no remorse for her if she dies, it's just I'm loosing a whole part of my life. When she passes.
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i'll never put my parents in a "home", and no one will ever put me in a "home".
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i'll never put my parents in a "home", and no one will ever put me in a "home".
Stark would come & visit you
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My grandmother is dieing
Don't write the obituary
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i'll never put my parents in a "home", and no one will ever put me in a "home".
Lol my grandmother had severe lung problems, has to be on a ventalator when she sleeps. It's her only health problem. From 2000-2004 I did way more for her than she did for me. It was a huge pain in the ass too. It was like our house was a nursing home etc. So when she went to the home their was a relief on our end. And she was better taken care of. I just accepted that she could die at any time and never thought about it.
For me after high school she stopped being a part of my life. I was too far away only seen her like twice a year. However now I'm starting to think about how much a part of my life she was before 2004. I don't get sad about her not being around in the future, I get said at how much she was around in the past.
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i lost my grandmother 2 years ago. saddest day of my life.
If it's any consolation, things will only get worse. :'(
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I'm sure you can fit calling her into your busy schedule of flunking out of community college, masturbation, posting 10 hours a day, and eating bologna sandwiches.
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If it's any consolation, things will only get worse. :'(
Fuck that you can only lose your parents and grandparents, everyone else, you don't need besides siblings and children, and your wife, Just make sure you die first :D.
Anyhow are we all sick fucks, how can I only talk twice a year to someone that pretty much raised me. And she seems so foreign to me now even though she hasn't changed I'm the one that's changed.
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I'm sure you can fit calling her into your busy schedule of flunking out of community college, masturbation, posting 10 hours a day, and eating bologna sandwiches.
:D :D
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I'm sure you can fit calling her into your busy schedule of flunking out of community college, masturbation, posting 10 hours a day, and eating bologna sandwiches.
lol
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My moms dad and my dads mom died before I was born. Your grandma is 82, shes lived life.
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
What country do you come from and how old are you?
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i live with my grandparents all my life
if they die i will be very sad... very very sad
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
Nobody gives a shit about your grandmother, and apparently you don't either by your actions of letting her stay in a home.
She is dying and you are worried about how YOU will feel.
You're a fuck-ing piece of scum
Hope this helps.
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Our base instinct, as Humans, is always our most animalistic. Animals (which we are) don't really know what "regret" is.
The notion of "regret" is probably something Humans picked up during the Renaissance or some other faggy time period
What i'm trying to say is that "regret" and "sorrow" are just "made up" and we are just animals who are emotionless and just want to fuck and eat
hopefully, that will make you feel better
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look, Human beings have existed for thousands upon thousands of years.
Our base instinct is always our most animalistic. Animals (which we are) don't really know what "regret" is.
The notion of "regret" is probably something Humans picked up during the Renaissance or some other faggy time period
What i'm trying to say is that "regret" and "sorrow" are just "made up" and we are just animals who are emotionless and just want to fuck and eat
hopefully, that will make you feel better
but thatÄs not true and that seperates us from animals
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but thatÄs not true and that seperates us from animals
whether i'm right or wrong is a matter of opinion I think
btw, my opinion just happens to be the right one btw
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
sorry to hear this. Perhaps spend some more time with her if you can.
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i live with my grandparents all my life
if when they die i will be very sad... very very sad
Fixed
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Fixed
klugscheisser
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The only real tragedy is if she doesn't take goodrum and munchanus with her.
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Nobody gives a shit about your grandmother, and apparently you don't either by your actions of letting her stay in a home.
She is dying and you are worried about how YOU will feel.
You're a fuck-ing piece of scum
Hope this helps.
No not at all actually. She got here right lung removed in the 50's was told then she wouldn't live past 40. We always thought she'd die long ago, even doctors keep telling her that. She's fucking lucky as sin. Trust me my grandmother spend her 20's bedridden with Turbuculose. She's not afraid of dieing, nor does she have any gripes with it at this age.
I'm 23 I've known she's gonna die since I've been 11 years old I've come to grips with that part, she can't live forever.
Anyhow we had to put her in a home, she had no choice she's on a ventalator you can't bring that shit into a house.
Furthermore it never occured to me that she's a part of my life that's gone forever. I always thougth about her not me.
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Lol my grandmother had severe lung problems, has to be on a ventalator when she sleeps. It's her only health problem. From 2000-2004 I did way more for her than she did for me. It was a huge pain in the ass too. It was like our house was a nursing home etc. So when she went to the home their was a relief on our end. And she was better taken care of. I just accepted that she could die at any time and never thought about it.
For me after high school she stopped being a part of my life. I was too far away only seen her like twice a year. However now I'm starting to think about how much a part of my life she was before 2004. I don't get sad about her not being around in the future, I get said at how much she was around in the past.
Just a piece of housekeeping here... No one goes on a Vent just to sleep at night, unless she has a trach, but even then it would be pretty uncommon... she probably is on BiPap or CPAP more likely?
Lastly- if she is still alive and you know she is dying, you should go see her. Rather than BS on getbig about whether or not you will miss her, go see her now dipshit. Are you really that stupid?!
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
stop posting on the fucking internet and go see her
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stop posting on the fucking internet and go see her
agreed... my grandmother would kick the living shit outta me if i didnt see her on her death bed... and yes, i was raised by her for a lot of years also... you know, because I'm black so obviously I didn't know my real father well lol
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Nah,don't go visit her.you'll feel great about yourself when she passes.
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If she dies..... she dies.
Rocky 4 hehehehe ;D
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I just lost my grandfather exactly a week ago. I was extremely close to him, and this was probably one of the emotional and hardest weeks of my life. It will be tough when she dies, just try to stay strong.
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Just a piece of housekeeping here... No one goes on a Vent just to sleep at night, unless she has a trach, but even then it would be pretty uncommon... she probably is on BiPap or CPAP more likely?
Lastly- if she is still alive and you know she is dying, you should go see her. Rather than BS on getbig about whether or not you will miss her, go see her now dipshit. Are you really that stupid?!
She has been on a bipap since 1996, on an oxygen feed since 2000. She got a trach in 2004. She also needs to get it changed quite often. On friday she was getting a routine change, and she nearly died. She's been living on one lung since she was twenty. So yes she's very fucking rough shape for a while yet very lucky to be alive.
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
its pretty crazy we put the poeple we love in homes because its too muhc work to take care of them which I understand. But when you think of it its pretty damn crazy.
Some people would be shocked over hearing stuff like that lol.
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I need to wisit my damn grandmother.
Wish she lived a bit closer then 700 miles
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its pretty crazy we put the poeple we love in homes because its too muhc work to take care of them which I understand. But when you think of it its pretty damn crazy.
Some people would be shocked over hearing stuff like that lol.
But also by not having to take care of your elderly ones 24/7 it enables you to live your own life to a much bigger extent which according to me is way better. Selfish? Yes. But are your grandparents in a reasonable state of mind they would/should agree with your decision. They've had their go at life. Don't let that ruin/impede yours.
I know for sure that I would not want to be a burden on my children when I grow old.
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But also by not having to take care of your elderly ones 24/7 it enables you to live your own life to a much bigger extent which according to me is way better. Selfish? Yes. But are your grandparents in a reasonable state of mind they would/should agree with your decision. They've had their go at life. Don't let that ruin/impede yours.
I know for sure that I would not want to be a burden on my children when I grow old.
Exactly. thats why I could understand it. If your parent needs to be taken care of 24/7 you're not allowed to life your own life at all.
But I can also understand the people that think its fucked up.
I promised my mother I would hit her in the head with a frying pan if her body broke down because she doesn't wanna be in a fucking home in pain 24/7 lol.
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Mine died when she was 86.
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A parent slowly dying (even a formerly abusive one) is so very emotionally crushing. No amount of counseling from friends can prepare you for it. I can say that regardless of the bravado that many of you are expressing presently,...that will fly out the window when it starts to happen to you...
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If she dies..... she dies.
i'm ashamed to admit but i laughed.
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Go get some of the best weed in town and have a smoke with grandma
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A parent slowly dying (even a formerly abusive one) is so very emotionally crushing. No amount of counseling from friends can prepare you for it. I can say that regardless of the bravado that many of you are expressing presently,...that will fly out the window when it starts to happen to you...
Not if you are used to it or if you are not superstitious. Easy come, easy go.
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Our base instinct, as Humans, is always our most animalistic. Animals (which we are) don't really know what "regret" is.
The notion of "regret" is probably something Humans picked up during the Renaissance or some other faggy time period
What i'm trying to say is that "regret" and "sorrow" are just "made up" and we are just animals who are emotionless and just want to fuck and eat
hopefully, that will make you feel better
what a load of shit haha
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Plot twist: She outlives you. ;D
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Plot twist: She outlives you. ;D
What happens in act III? :o
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low carbs ? or low calories ?
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Yes, quit being a cunt and go visit her, you greedy self centered asshole.
Fuck....you got there before me...
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
Sorry to hear that...Just love her bro.. Can't do anything else now..
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She has been on a bipap since 1996, on an oxygen feed since 2000. She got a trach in 2004. She also needs to get it changed quite often. On friday she was getting a routine change, and she nearly died. She's been living on one lung since she was twenty. So yes she's very fucking rough shape for a while yet very lucky to be alive.
Well certainly her quality of life SUCKS... being oxygen dependent has got to be awful. Either way, I’m sure she loves you (Regardless of the fact that you are a fucking loser lol), so I think you should go see her before she dies, otherwise you will probably regret the fact that you felt it was more important to waste your time posting on getbig.com, rather than spending a few hours with her.
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Well certainly her quality of life SUCKS... being oxygen dependent has got to be awful. Either way, I’m sure she loves you (Regardless of the fact that you are a fucking loser lol), so I think you should go see her before she dies, otherwise you will probably regret the fact that you felt it was more important to waste your time posting on getbig.com, rather than spending a few hours with her.
Lol being on low oxygen is fucking miserable. Simply putting the air temp above room and my grandmother nearly suffoicates. She's been suffering for years. But she's tough as nails, that's why there are no worries when she dies.
Hence I never ever thought of it being a bad thing. I never ever thought about how "I felt" untell the other day. It's like loosing your home or something it's fucking wierd. My grandmother moving out was worst to me than me leaving home. It's wierd to realize this. It's a retrospect thought. It's really hard to get unless you lived it I guess.
Lol and bytheway my grandmother was fucking grateful to be in a home, she realized thats where she needed to be.
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Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
You are a good, decent man to have shared your life with her. I know you will miss her but be glad you spent quality time with her and cared for her these past yrs. All the best to find some peace on this .