they should be on the pill regardless unless they are ready to have children.....
agreed.
condoms break, and there are alphas in this world who don't like the way they feel. ;D
if they're wise, and they care about their future, they use the pill as a backup until they're ready to start a family. If not, they're walking sperm-catching potential babymakers - Run with all your might.
they should be on the pill regardless unless they are ready to have children.....
agreed.
condoms break, and there are alphas in this world who don't like the way they feel. ;D
if they're wise, and they care about their future, they use the pill as a backup until they're ready to start a family. If not, they're walking sperm-catching potential babymakers - Run with all your might.
So what do you do with your wife then these days?
Heh, my issue is more than you can't feel anything with condoms...but yeah, still, you can't just demand something like that.
the trick is to say you don't trust condoms, then gently deposit your seed in the hair/ face/ pooper/ whatever place she dislikes most.
Or, if she's cool with all those, you count your blessings and use that birth control $ on pizza.
mine has to take the pill for other medical reasons.....but, i think that both people have a certain amount of responsibility in the matter....so the blame shouldn't be solely put on the bitch..
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Thing is, she was a virgin before me...so it is all kind of a big deal. I don't mind waiting and as we don't see each other often given the distance, it's ok...just was super keen on not having to use raincoats...oh well.
I agree...but what can I do? I already used rubbers and neither she nor I like them. How else can you take responsibility?get over it....if having a child is really a issue for you it shouldn't even be thought about...wrap it up, or don't fuck....and pulling out?...that shit is not a option...every friend i know who has a kid supposedly "pulled out"...
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She hasn't ever talked about the issue with you before? Do you know she's not on the pill?
get over it....if having a child is really a issue for you it shouldn't even be thought about...wrap it up, or don't fuck....and pulling out?...that shit is not a option...every friend i know who has a kid supposedly "pulled out"...
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Yeah, of course I know she's not on the pill. I guess it is scary stuff for her. Eventually she'll get on it. We just talked about it, which is why I am asking.just dont talk about it when you both have been drinking....goddamn i have seen that situation get crazy a lot....i dont know why but when females are drunk and talk about birth control a crazy switch is flipped in their small brain...
Thing is, she was a virgin before me...so it is all kind of a big deal. I don't mind waiting and as we don't see each other often given the distance, it's ok...just was super keen on not having to use raincoats...oh well.
Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? :-Xhe converted a nun...
Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? :-X
Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? :-Xmy thoughts exactly.
my thoughts exactly.
I usually tell them it's probably in their best interest to start taking contraception within the first few hours of meeting them. it's a nice icebreaker and lets them know just what I am after
Thing is, she was a virgin before me...so it is all kind of a big deal. I don't mind waiting and as we don't see each other often given the distance, it's ok...just was super keen on not having to use raincoats...oh well.
Yeah, of course I know she's not on the pill. I guess it is scary stuff for her. Eventually she'll get on it. We just talked about it, which is why I am asking.
why is the pill scary for her. is it because of her previous virgin status or does she have issues that could be exacerbated by the pill?
some women have clot issues and other shit. if she doesn't have those she shoudl get on it for both your sakes.
just say hey baby, are you getting on the pill? and then offer to pay for it.
Well, she's actually never been to a gynecologist before. It's weird but makes sense given her history. She is planning to go next month I think.alright some women do hate that type of doctor appointment. can't say as i blame them
It's great when a women wants to get on the pill by her choice. But if she doesn't want to do it you can't make her do it.
Lots of birth control pills are strong hormones that fuck up a woman's moods and menstrual cycles. Lots of women don't wanna take them.
Just do the pull-out method.
yeah it can fuck with their moods and weight and other shit but pregancy does worse. the pull out method isn't reliable. doesn't that first drop of jizz hav the most sperm?
yeah it can fuck with their moods and weight and other shit but pregancy does worse. the pull out method isn't reliable. doesn't that first drop of jizz hav the most sperm?
I did the pull out method for 1 year with some chick, fucking every day with no birth control and never had an accident.
But i'm really good at pulling out a full 5 seconds before shooting a load.
I don't think pre-cum has much spern in it. I think that's an urban legend.
Honestly though, I love her so much, it doesn't really make a difference. Sure, it would be better in terms of feeling but I do know that the pill can be harmful and I don't want her health compromised.
Ever had your sperm tested? Maybe you're just infertile.
You don't want her to go fat and lose her sex drive, that's what you don't want.
Honestly though, I love her so much, it doesn't really make a difference. Sure, it would be better in terms of feeling but I do know that the pill can be harmful and I don't want her health compromised.
alright listen i think this is great sentiment but keep in mind that people and circumstances change.maybe you two should use some other kind of birth control -there are all kinds of hit but i do give you props for sayi8ng what you feel about your girl but keep in mind that shit can change in no time. hope it works out for you
Nope.
I did knock up a woman too. And she had an abortion. So I know i'm not infertile.
With her I was wasted drunk and I just creampied it. Big mistake.
Sure, shit can change in no time. I am pretty aware of it. In fact the first phase of my relationship basically consisted of her trying to reduce my inherent mistrust, which she eventually did. It might not work out but I can tell you that she is a treasure and I will do my best to make sure it works; I've never met a girl like her before...and if you knew me in real life, I never say things like that.
I like the fact that she was a virgin before she lost it to me. It means she values herself and didn't just fuck around (she had plenty of opportunity).I agree in principle, but she's 22 and has had a lot of opportunities? Why hasn't she taken any of them? She doesn't like sex? Shes a square? Or is she lying to you? Do you honestly think your a good enough catch, at least in her eyes, to be the "one" she gives it up to after all those guys she's passed up.. Serious question, no flame, just trying to help you analyze your situation.
I agree in principle, but she's 22 and has had a lot of opportunities? Why hasn't she taken any of them? She doesn't like sex? Shes a square? Or is she lying to you? Do you honestly think your a good enough catch, at least in her eyes, to be the "one" she gives it up to after all those guys she's passed up.. Serious question, no flame, just trying to help you analyze your situation.
Was it a couple of months, weeks, years?
Was it a couple of months, weeks, years?
Honestly though, I love her so much, it doesn't really make a difference. Sure, it would be better in terms of feeling but I do know that the pill can be harmful and I don't want her health compromised.Whoa, whoa, back the fuck up partner! Slow your roll, brake them horses, haven't y'all been dating for a few months, and now you love her? And are these feelings reciprocated? Because if they were, she'd been on the pill like she was taking Flintstone vitamins...
Earlier women- weeks.
Now, I will not have my woman on the pill. I have discovered that they hornier and wilder while not on the pill.
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I did the pull out method for 1 year with some chick, fucking every day with no birth control and never had an accident.
But i'm really good at pulling out a full 5 seconds before shooting a load.
I don't think pre-cum has much spern in it. I think that's an urban legend.
Honestly though, I love her so much, it doesn't really make a difference. Sure, it would be better in terms of feeling but I do know that the pill can be harmful and I don't want her health compromised.
Was it a couple of months, weeks, years?never. She got those shots that last like 3 months a couple times but I convinced her to stop taking them. I don't trust that shit and didn't want her getting cancer or some other crap down the road. I like pulling out and shooting all over anyway ;D worked perfect for almost 10 years, then she said, "let's have a kid" less than 2 months after she said that, she was pregnant. Pulling out worked fine for me, no pills, no shots, no bill, no worries. We're back to the same method and no problems so far... other than missing a few times and having to change pillow cases :)
get over it....if having a child is really a issue for you it shouldn't even be thought about...wrap it up, or don't fuck....and pulling out?...that shit is not a option...every friend i know who has a kid supposedly "pulled out"...it's always worked for me just fine. The doctors told us it was insane too, but it's worked. If at some point it didn't, I wouldn't freak about it anyway, probably be happy as shit again. In many ways having a kid is the biggest pain in the world, but in other ways it's the coolest shit ever.
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