At what point in time in your relationship did you get your woman on the pill?

[Deicide]

Was it a couple of months, weeks, years?

[wes mantooth]

they should be on the pill regardless unless they are ready to have children.....

[240 is Back]

they should be on the pill regardless unless they are ready to have children.....

agreed. 

condoms break, and there are alphas in this world who don't like the way they feel. 

if they're wise, and they care about their future, they use the pill as a backup until they're ready to start a family.  If not, they're walking sperm-catching potential babymakers - Run with all your might.

[Deicide]

agreed. 

condoms break, and there are alphas in this world who don't like the way they feel. 

if they're wise, and they care about their future, they use the pill as a backup until they're ready to start a family.  If not, they're walking sperm-catching potential babymakers - Run with all your might.

Heh, my issue is more than you can't feel anything with condoms...but yeah, still, you can't just demand something like that.

[axestream]

they should be on the pill regardless unless they are ready to have children.....

True.

[Deicide]

agreed. 

condoms break, and there are alphas in this world who don't like the way they feel. 

if they're wise, and they care about their future, they use the pill as a backup until they're ready to start a family.  If not, they're walking sperm-catching potential babymakers - Run with all your might.

So what do you do with your wife then these days?

[225for70]

Learn
http://www.redbookmag.com/health-wellness/advice/get-pregnant-yl-2

[240 is Back]

So what do you do with your wife then these days?

shovel.  lye.  and the inspiration of a living legend,

[225for70]

240 schedules anal during the "danger zone"

[240 is Back]

Heh, my issue is more than you can't feel anything with condoms...but yeah, still, you can't just demand something like that.

the trick is to say you don't trust condoms, then gently deposit your seed in the hair/ face/ pooper/ whatever place she dislikes most.

Or, if she's cool with all those, you count your blessings and use that birth control $ on pizza.

[benchmstr]

mine has to take the pill for other medical reasons.....but, i think that both people have a certain amount of responsibility in the matter....so the blame shouldn't be solely put on the bitch..

bench

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the trick is to say you don't trust condoms, then gently deposit your seed in the hair/ face/ pooper/ whatever place she dislikes most.

Or, if she's cool with all those, you count your blessings and use that birth control $ on pizza.

Thing is, she was a virgin before me...so it is all kind of a big deal. I don't mind waiting and as we don't see each other often given the distance, it's ok...just was super keen on not having to use raincoats...oh well.

[Deicide]

mine has to take the pill for other medical reasons.....but, i think that both people have a certain amount of responsibility in the matter....so the blame shouldn't be solely put on the bitch..

bench

I agree...but what can I do? I already used rubbers and neither she nor I like them. How else can you take responsibility?

[225for70]

Thing is, she was a virgin before me...so it is all kind of a big deal. I don't mind waiting and as we don't see each other often given the distance, it's ok...just was super keen on not having to use raincoats...oh well.

She hasn't ever talked about the issue with you before? Do you know she's not on the pill?

[benchmstr]

I agree...but what can I do? I already used rubbers and neither she nor I like them. How else can you take responsibility?

get over it....if having a child is really a issue for you it shouldn't even be thought about...wrap it up, or don't fuck....and pulling out?...that shit is not a option...every friend i know who has a kid supposedly "pulled out"...

bench

[240 is Back]

240 schedules getbig posting time during the "anal zone"

Fixed.  I think?

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She hasn't ever talked about the issue with you before? Do you know she's not on the pill?

Yeah, of course I know she's not on the pill. I guess it is scary stuff for her. Eventually she'll get on it. We just talked about it, which is why I am asking.

[Deicide]

get over it....if having a child is really a issue for you it shouldn't even be thought about...wrap it up, or don't fuck....and pulling out?...that shit is not a option...every friend i know who has a kid supposedly "pulled out"...

bench

Yeah, fair enough. Sex with rubber is better than no sex at all.

[benchmstr]

Yeah, of course I know she's not on the pill. I guess it is scary stuff for her. Eventually she'll get on it. We just talked about it, which is why I am asking.

just dont talk about it when you both have been drinking....goddamn i have seen that situation get crazy a lot....i dont know why but when females are drunk and talk about birth control a crazy switch is flipped in their small brain...

bench

[affeman]

Thing is, she was a virgin before me...so it is all kind of a big deal. I don't mind waiting and as we don't see each other often given the distance, it's ok...just was super keen on not having to use raincoats...oh well.

Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? 

[benchmstr]

Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? 

he converted a nun...

bench

[Deicide]

Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? 

I am 33 and she is 22.

[tbombz]

Virgin?? How old is she? Aren't you like 35?? 

my thoughts exactly.

[~UN_$ung~]

yes like the first gentleman said, its not a matter of gettin her on the pill...............a woman who is sexually active in ANY capacity, and not ready to have children should be on the pill

[Deicide]

my thoughts exactly.

I like the fact that she was a virgin before she lost it to me. It means she values herself and didn't just fuck around (she had plenty of opportunity).