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Do you enjoy every day and wonder at the miracle of the human race?Or do you feel like its a pointless waste of time and you are just going through the motions?Discuss
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I enjoy your aunt.
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i am just going through the motions....but i enjoy it...
bench
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somewhere in between but closer to pointless.
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your dad enjoys jnn.
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I think I enjoy it a lot. I bitch every now and then about little shit but then I realize I have a lot to be thankful for really.
You only have one life to live, why waste it not enjoying it and thinking it's pointless, cease the day and go out and have fun!
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I think I enjoy it a lot. I bitch every now and then about little shit but then I realize I have a lot to be thankful for really.
You only have one life to live, why waste it not enjoying it and thinking it's pointless, cease the day and go out and have fun!
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I think I enjoy it a lot. I bitch every now and then about little shit but then I realize I have a lot to be thankful for really.
You only have one life to live, why waste it not enjoying it and thinking it's pointless, cease the day and go out and have fun!
It is fun to complain, but basically life is good. :D
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I think I enjoy it a lot. I bitch every now and then about little shit but then I realize I have a lot to be thankful for really.
You only have one life to live, why waste it not enjoying it and thinking it's pointless, cease the day and go out and have fun!
True.
Every once in a while, you have to "reset" yourself if stress and pressure get too much and laugh it all off.
What bothers me at times is that we all basically only want to have fun and be around friendly people, but when you step outside the door, everyone is in a bad mood.
Just having a smile on your face and some nice words for people makes such a big difference, but people just can't do it. (myself included most of the times).
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Exercise helps.
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you gotta create meaning in life to enjoy it your particular way, look ahead of your failures. You have no other choice, all negative thoughts correlate with suicide or killing a neighbor none of these lead to a fun future. Make sure that you can be happy with you first treat everyone decently, dont worry about how they treat you its a waste of your time to do so
its fun to make crazy music, i suggest all to mess around with instruments and just make up a song/story that you enjoy, make it funny, crazy, scary evil or sound unique
it doesnt hurt to record things that pop in your head with a handheld tape recorder
strive for something(s) in life, knowledge of trades and attain weath through them. dont try to gamble your way into money
strive most importantly for superior health
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Prison is where I belong. In prison people respect me.
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you gotta create meaning in life to enjoy it your particular way, look ahead of your failures. You have no other choice, all negative thoughts correlate with suicide or killing a neighbor none of these lead to a fun future. Make sure that you can be happy with you first treat everyone decently, dont worry about how they treat you its a waste of your time to do so
its fun to make crazy music, i suggest all to mess around with instruments and just make up a song/story that you enjoy, make it funny, crazy, scary evil or sound unique
it doesnt hurt to record things that pop in your head with a handheld tape recorder
strive for something(s) in life, knowledge of trades and attain weath through them. dont try to gamble your way into money
strive most importantly for superior health
Good post, how can you fit crack, cocaine, paint thinner and sea salt into this?
Are you in rehab?
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I enjoy your aunt.
I enjoy your wife,
but she enjoys me even more.
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Since we define what value is, life has whatever value we put into it. This value of life can only exist and be defined within the constraints of our own emotions and thoughts. Therefore, we engineer our own happiness by making a model of what happiness is and by comparing it to our lives. But since free will/thought is an illusion, every notion of happiness is beyond our control and therefore we are mere puppets controlled by cause and effect. So in that sense we are just going through the motions.
Your mah sucked my donkey schlong last night.
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Searching daily for inner peace.
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Life's a bitch.
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Life's a bitch.
You would know.
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Life's a bitch.
Your mom's a bitch.
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I enjoy it.
I do not do anything extravagant or special but I have fun and smile more than I frown.
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Your mom's a bitch.
Say that to my face you fucken cunt
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Say that to my face you fucken cunt
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Suicide is a option but a fearful event. So we go on as in the soap opera "As the World Turns". Everyday is crushing pending on how you perceive it, everything is temporary on this earth so keep it mind turmoil and pain will end as will pleasure.
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Yes absolutely has its ups and downs however for the Most part... Awesome.
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Prison is where I belong. In prison people respect me.
You would respect me in prison.
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True.
Every once in a while, you have to "reset" yourself if stress and pressure get too much and laugh it all off.
What bothers me at times is that we all basically only want to have fun and be around friendly people, but when you step outside the door, everyone is in a bad mood.
Just having a smile on your face and some nice words for people makes such a big difference, but people just can't do it. (myself included most of the times).
This,
but sometimes being the "beacon of hope" and "Ray of Sunshine" does have it's downside---you have a growth of cynicism within you.
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No not really I'm too ambitious to enjoy it and when I have no goals I'm depressed. Catch 22.
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You would respect me in prison.
The Black Gorilla Family still gives me the creeps.
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True.
Every once in a while, you have to "reset" yourself if stress and pressure get too much and laugh it all off.
What bothers me at times is that we all basically only want to have fun and be around friendly people, but when you step outside the door, everyone is in a bad mood.
Just having a smile on your face and some nice words for people makes such a big difference, but people just can't do it. (myself included most of the times).
i agree we want to enjoy 24/7...but we are also remarkable workers , we can do work without much pain alot of the times. yes the world is full of nasty people with bad expressions on there faces, it can make you wonder how to counteract that or if you should just leave it alone and accept that as the world around you :( Some of us want to branch out and attain friends to random folks with angry faces, some of us would rather fuck hoes all day and eat all day and play videogames rather than anything else. Sometimes theres even moments wher u can flip in an instance and want to die atleast one time a day, almost like the death spirit within wants to surface right then and there and die yourself than live
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I enjoy every day and I'm pretty much always in a good mood.
A good friend paid me a very nice compliment recently. he said " i wish i had your attitude, even when you are in bad spirits, you are in good spirits"
Get out and live your life...do what makes you happy . you are going to wake up tomorrow whether you like it or not
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I was working on the door tonight and someone said they had never seen me angry. I took that as a compliment.
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i dont enjoy life - its nice at times - but Ive learned to accept things I cannot change
but then again NEVER TOO MUCH is a motto i live by
NEVER TOO MUCH..... NEVER TOO MUCH......... NEVER TOO MUCH 0:19
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Do you enjoy every day and wonder at the miracle of the human race?Or do you feel like its a pointless waste of time and you are just going through the motions?Discuss
Both.
Life is beautiful and if you look at it the right way you can see how great it is.
But the human race in general can be pretty rotten. Groupthinking and cultural norms keep people sheepishly following each other on stupid shit. It will be the downfall of our race.
We are facing extinction. Interesting times.
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I enjoy every day and I'm pretty much always in a good mood.
A good friend paid me a very nice compliment recently. he said " i wish i had your attitude, even when you are in bad spirits, you are in good spirits"
Get out and live your life...do what makes you happy . you are going to wake up tomorrow whether you like it or not
Some people--a lot of people--are just plain unhappy and it has little to do with where they are or what they have in life. It is interesting to observe them: they make bad choices, get bad results, and wonder why they are "unlucky." As people get older they tend to become more of what they already are; religion does the same thing for people: faith makes you more of what you already are...
Me? I'm happy. Though I would be even happier in a Sunseeker! 8)
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Some people--a lot of people--are just plain unhappy and it has little to do with where they are or what they have in life. It is interesting to observe them: they make bad choices, get bad results, and wonder why they are "unlucky." As people get older they tend to become more of what they already are; religion does the same thing for people: faith makes you more of what you already are...
Me? I'm happy. Though I would be even happier in a Sunseeker! 8)
see you have teh gaydar on that baby cranked up to full blast
spot some ripped glutes at post nautical mile 106.5degree due north - sail to the Island Of Lick My Geesh ;D
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God has made life more than worthwhile and completely worth living with the gift of salvation and the blessings of a wonderful wife, daughter, family, friends, career, home, etc....his blessings are overflowing.
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Some people--a lot of people--are just plain unhappy and it has little to do with where they are or what they have in life. It is interesting to observe them: they make bad choices, get bad results, and wonder why they are "unlucky." As people get older they tend to become more of what they already are; religion does the same thing for people: faith makes you more of what you already are...
Me? I'm happy. Though I would be even happier in a Sunseeker! 8)
Well I'm more of a modest man personally! I'd be happier with just a Regal Express Cruiser:
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Awesome quote MOS!!
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God has made life more than worthwhile and completely worth living with the gift of salvation and the blessings of a wonderful wife, daughter, family, friends, career, home, etc....his blessings are overflowing.
I wish he'd bless my wallet.
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I wish he'd bless my wallet.
They say "money can't buy happiness" but I am definitely happier with it than without it. :-\
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They say "money can't buy happiness" but I am definitely happier with it than without it. :-\
Money can't buy happiness - but it helps ;D
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God has made life more than worthwhile and completely worth living with the gift of salvation and the blessings of a wonderful wife, daughter, family, friends, career, home, etc....his blessings are overflowing.
Awesome quote MOS!!
God doesn't exist.
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John 3:12
When the pussy is wet and the cock is inside, then everyone is happy.
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Whatever dude!
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Whatever dude!
::)
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Do you enjoy every day and wonder at the miracle of the human race?Or do you feel like its a pointless waste of time and you are just going through the motions?Discuss
The world around me is a great place. My life on paper is fine. However I got some mental health problems and those type of things tend to get in the way of living or any of that shit. So I have good days, generally even when I am going mental still look forward, however my life is gone to shit and having a hard fucking time restoring order to it.
It's like I got a disease in my head and I can't beat it, but everything else if fucking fantastic, I just whish I had control over my own life for once.
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God doesn't exist.
More and more I'm leaning towards that conclusion... and if he does exist he is nothing like we make him out to be!
What I truly believe doesn't exist and is 100% a fallacy is Organized religion! The world would've been a much better place without it!
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Good thing I don't buy into "organized" religion.
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I love being single no kids living by beahc in sunny socal and big time libertarian capitalist making 6 figs and yes getn laid nonstop
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I think I enjoy it a lot. I bitch every now and then about little shit but then I realize I have a lot to be thankful for really.
You only have one life to live, why waste it not enjoying it and thinking it's pointless, cease the day and go out and have fun!
Seize...
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i agree we want to enjoy 24/7...but we are also remarkable workers , we can do work without much pain alot of the times. yes the world is full of nasty people with bad expressions on there faces, it can make you wonder how to counteract that or if you should just leave it alone and accept that as the world around you :( Some of us want to branch out and attain friends to random folks with angry faces, some of us would rather fuck hoes all day and eat all day and play videogames rather than anything else. Sometimes theres even moments wher u can flip in an instance and want to die atleast one time a day, almost like the death spirit within wants to surface right then and there and die yourself than live
Yes to #1, no to #2.
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Seize...
Big Ach is a Engineering major, not a English Major. :D
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Yeah, I'm just anal about that shit. I'll lighten up, lol...
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Yeah, I'm just anal about that shit. I'll lighten up, lol...
Chick...?Is that you??
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You got me...I'm Chick's gimmick. And I forgot to mention that John Parrillo has very soft, but surprisingly strong hands... :D
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Good thing I don't buy into "organized" religion.
what the hell are you talking about? aren't u a christian?
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Yeah, I'm just anal about that shit. I'll lighten up, lol...
Good looking out brother man! 8)
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Good thing I don't buy into "organized" religion.
Coach, you're a cool dude, if this is what you believe in then more power to you, who am I to judge bro! If god makes you happy and gives you strength then rock on dude, that's what you believe and I respect that.
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Coach, you're a cool dude, if this is what you believe in then more power to you, who am I to judge bro! If god makes you happy and gives you strength then rock on dude, that's what you believe and I respect that.
No you dont, stop being so nice, its clear you dont really think that way insde your head ;D
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Haider, there's a difference between organized religion and actually trying to follow the word.
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No you dont, stop being so nice, its clear you dont really think that way insde your head ;D
Lol why can't I be so nice? Come on enjoy life dude!
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Lol why can't I be so nice? Come on enjoy life dude!
Are you riding camels?? :o :o
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Big ach, is one of best dudes on here, why are you questioning about how nice he is? His positivity is refreshing on here.
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Are you riding camels?? :o :o
I have before when I was touring the pyramids area but not like regularly lol, those fuckers are fast!
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Big ach, is one of best dudes on here, why are you questioning about how nice he is? His positivity is refreshing on here.
Thanks bro, you're too kind! Right back at ya
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Are you riding camels?? :o :o
we all know what the coach is riding
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Thanks bro, you're too kind! Right back at ya
Shut the fuck up asshole >:(
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Shut the fuck up asshole >:(
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Big ach, is one of best dudes on here, why are you questioning about how nice he is? His positivity is refreshing on here.
Because as "refreshing" as it is, it isnt ALWAYS real
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Because as "refreshing" as it is, it isnt ALWAYS real
Says you.
Who is you?
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Says you.
Who is you?
If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?
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Big ach, is one of best dudes on here, why are you questioning about how nice he is? His positivity is refreshing on here.
If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?
Only if it falls on you lol ;D
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Only if it falls on you lol ;D
Deflected off your nose?
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Deflected off your nose?
Touche sir, touche. :)
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You only have one life to live, why waste it not enjoying it and thinking it's pointless, cease the day and go out and have fun!
How do you know that you have only 1 life to live? Is that scientifically proven?
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How do you know that you have only 1 life to live? Is that scientifically proven?
You make a good point. I guess i should repharse
One life to live (that we know of :-D) so why risk not enjoying yourself this time around only to find out you're not getting a second chance!
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You make a good point. I guess i should repharse
One life to live (that we know of :-D) so why risk not enjoying yourself this time around only to find out you're not getting a second chance!
To be fair you cant simply turn on or off enjoying life.
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To be fair you cant simply turn on or off enjoying life.
No you can't - shit happens....
But you can change your outlook, not stress about things, change the way you deal with shit when it happens, and take it one step at a time!
But then again, tell that to starving kids in africa and they'll probably kick you in the nuts!
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To be fair you cant simply turn on or off enjoying life.
So you can't tell a kid who's been raped and abused to simply choose to enjoy life, because it's just that easy and only a matter of choice?
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Good looking out brother man! 8)
I'm here to help... :)
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True.
Every once in a while, you have to "reset" yourself if stress and pressure get too much and laugh it all off.
What bothers me at times is that we all basically only want to have fun and be around friendly people, but when you step outside the door, everyone is in a bad mood.
Just having a smile on your face and some nice words for people makes such a big difference, but people just can't do it. (myself included most of the times).
Gayer than being in "bad mood" because youre "dieting for a show" and trying to catch up your next "meal" of "chicken and rice", then complain how life "sucks". (::))
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;D
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True.
Every once in a while, you have to "reset" yourself if stress and pressure get too much and laugh it all off.
What bothers me at times is that we all basically only want to have fun and be around friendly people, but when you step outside the door, everyone is in a bad mood.
Just having a smile on your face and some nice words for people makes such a big difference, but people just can't do it. (myself included most of the times).
Spot on.
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Yes.
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Haider, there's a difference between organized religion and actually trying to follow the word.
This is very true. Organized religion and a personal relationship with Christ can be two very different things and they can also be completely connected. Many, many people regularly attending mass at St. Mary Magadelene's Catholic Church or services at Pastor Bubba's Big Biblin' Baptist Church on Sundays have no concept of faith or salvation in Christ. Unfortunately those that stay up drinking until 3AM on Saturday nights and then arrive hung over to church on Sunday mornings often become symbols of the body of Christ for everyone else.
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I can pretty much guarantee anybody posting on getbig (the fact alone that you are able to post here is evidence enough that you should ... I like to repeat that since I feel it vaguely important....
Should enjoy life.
If you make a quick calculation in your head how astronomical small the chances are that you are born in the western world - you should feel greatful for that fact alone.
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I'm healthy, clever, I can do anything I want if I just put my time and effort into it, but there is not ONE night I don't wake up once or twice before the alarm clock goes off. There is not one day I dont' have butterflys in my stomac because I think about my life. I have the most akward and weird dreams ever reflecting my depression.
Sure... if I got into a car crash and lost my limbs, then i would realise that my life was a dream.. LOL, it tells alot when I have to compare my life to the most horrible life there can be.
Sure... I enjoy life, I mean, better than being in prison, paralised or having some terrible deciase, right... better than getting stoned, whipped and sliced, right...
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I'm healthy, clever, I can do anything I want if I just put my time and effort into it, but there is not ONE night I don't wake up once or twice before the alarm clock goes off. There is not one day I dont' have butterflys in my stomac because I think about my life. I have the most akward and weird dreams ever reflecting my depression.
Sure... if I got into a car crash and lost my limbs, then i would realise that my life was a dream.. LOL, it tells alot when I have to compare my life to the most horrible life there can be.
Sure... I enjoy life, I mean, better than being in prison, paralised or having some terrible deciase, right... better than getting stoned, whipped and sliced, right...
Listen very very closely my friend, cause that fits a 100 % to your life and the lives of million young men of your (our) generation. It might sound macabre, but we urgently need a new fucking World War to stir shit up again on that planet. Our grandparents had a fucking Mission: Fight and survive a World War; Our parents had a fucking mission: Rebuilt shit after World War;
We have no mission; we're aimlessly drifting around that planet in prosperity, no matter if we work or not, what we do or not, we got all we need and live very well anyway. That's why a lotta people are losing any ambition and drive in their lives.
Try to define a goal where you wanna get in life as soon as possible, and work your ass off every single day to get there, or otherwise you're gonna lose yourself completely like Swede any many others, with no chance of a future in society.
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I can pretty much guarantee anybody posting on getbig (the fact alone that you are able to post here is evidence enough that you should ... I like to repeat that since I feel it vaguely important....
Should enjoy life.
If you make a quick calculation in your head how astronomical small the chances are that you are born in the western world - you should feel greatful for that fact alone.
Load of horseshit, if you got mental health problems you'd either be dead or better funticional in the third world. Atleast in high breeder population as you'd have a better social network(isolation etc major issues in the west) or just be dead.
This shit is suck a fucking cliche, and just a cop out for people not even to acknowledge other peoples problems.
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Load of horseshit, if you got mental health problems you'd either be dead or better funticional in the third world. Atleast in high breeder population as you'd have a better social network(isolation etc major issues in the west) or just be dead.
This shit is suck a fucking cliche, and just a cop out for people not even to acknowledge other peoples problems.
Epic "woe is me" post.
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otherwise you're gonna lose yourself completely like Swede any many others
LMAO
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Epic "woe is me" post.
I'm not even directly referring to me, I'm on the borderline between fucked and functional.
There are alot of people that got hard fucking lives regardless of where they live.
It's just unimaginable to some people that some problems are completely independent of money.
It's so fucking childish, people that think this have no understanding of what others live through.
I.E. do you think being molested in the third world is any different than it is in the first world.
In reality is the only difference is that the odds are much lower because the ped to child ratio is so different. Simply because there are alot more old people in the first world than children.
That's ignoring other bullshit.
In my personal situation I lived on my own for 5 years, have recently just moved in with my parents again, and can see a vast improvement in my health. However I will be leaving in the next few months because being close to ones family is taboo in the west.
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I'm not even directly referring to me, I'm on the borderline between fucked and functional.
There are alot of people that got hard fucking lives regardless of where they live.
It's just unimaginable to some people that some problems are completely independent of money.
It's so fucking childish, people that think this have no understanding of what others live through.
I.E. do you think being molested in the third world is any different than it is in the first world.
In reality is the only difference is that the odds are much lower because the ped to child ratio is so different. Simply because there are alot more old people in the first world than children.
That's ignoring other bullshit.
In my personal situation I lived on my own for 5 years, have recently just moved in with my parents again, and can see a vast improvement in my health. However I will be leaving in the next few months because being close to ones family is taboo in the west.
Honestly, it depends on the family. My sister suffered a tragedy a couple years back and came to live with my folks again and just recently stepped back out on her own again....things do happen. All of my immediate family members are within 1 hours drive or less of each other. My wife's family all lives here in town with exception of one sister and one uncle/aunt. Family is a blessing and should always be considered as such. Stress, money, job, people, the world, etc....have all trampled me in at some point in my life. The moment I surrendered everything to Christ my world has improved like never before. Now, all the same problems are there, but my renewed strength in Christ makes all the same situations amazingly easier to contend with.
"He never promised that the cross would not be heavy.
That the hill would not be hard to climb.
He never offered our victories without fighting
But he said help would always come in time.
Just remember when you're standing in the valley of decision
And the adversary says, "Give in!" Just hold on.
Cause our Lord will show up!!
And he will take you through the fire again."
Isaiah 40:28-31
28 Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
The LORD is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
and his understanding no one can fathom.
29 He gives strength to the weary
and increases the power of the weak.
30 Even youths grow tired and weary,
and young men stumble and fall;
31 but those who hope in the LORD
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.
This is the best comfort and advise I can provide.
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It goes both ways with me. Sometimes I'm really happy and I'm happy I never miss the little things in life. Other times I contemplate suicide because I can't take the shit anymore. But somehow I'm still here and I carry on...
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But on average living in a third world country makes little fucking difference, sure some places are war torn, but in the west the absence of family can't be ignored. Overall it don't matter where the fuck you live life is equal amounts shitty.
Mental health, and physical health are big obstacles.
What pisses me off about mental health is how it's dismissed. People just don't fucking get it, with the most simple examples.
I can't get a hard on. Ocassionally I can but I have to imagine the most wierd scenarios to even enjoy it. I litterally have to convince my mind that either I'm paying for it in the fantasy, it's the end of the world and I am in fact the last man on earth, or some other bizarre scenario, and I keep myself removed from feelings of guilt inside my head which is the other battle. Either I ain't good enough for a chick, she's too old, I'm too old for her etc. Every time I get my head past one issue it's something else.
Any sane person reading this will go with the stock "your fucked" and not realize my other problems are directly connected.
I mean how would you dress if even in your dreams chicks wanted nothing to do with you.
You can call me a whinny bitch all you want at some point you gotta acknowledge that there is no simple answer, no one stop solutions and I'd be fine, I got a lot of shit in my head, and there is almost no meaningful answers.
That being said I am positive and I keep trying to find new schemes of how to fix shit, but it rarely last a few hours until I'm back to total disfunction. But at the end of the day my ability to manipulate my own mind is very limited.
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But on average living in a third world country makes little fucking difference, sure some places are war torn, but in the west the absence of family can't be ignored. Overall it don't matter where the fuck you live life is equal amounts shitty.
Mental health, and physical health are big obstacles.
What pisses me off about mental health is how it's dismissed. People just don't fucking get it, with the most simple examples.
I can't get a hard on. Ocassionally I can but I have to imagine the most wierd scenarios to even enjoy it. I litterally have to convince my mind that either I'm paying for it in the fantasy, it's the end of the world and I am in fact the last man on earth, or some other bizarre scenario, and I keep myself removed from feelings of guilt inside my head which is the other battle. Either I ain't good enough for a chick, she's too old, I'm too old for her etc. Every time I get my head past one issue it's something else.
Any sane person reading this will go with the stock "your fucked" and not realize my other problems are directly connected.
I mean how would you dress if even in your dreams chicks wanted nothing to do with you.
You can call me a whinny bitch all you want at some point you gotta acknowledge that there is no simple answer, no one stop solutions and I'd be fine, I got a lot of shit in my head, and there is almost no meaningful answers.
That being said I am positive and I keep trying to find new schemes of how to fix shit, but it rarely last a few hours until I'm back to total disfunction. But at the end of the day my ability to manipulate my own mind is very limited.
How many third world countries have you lived in?
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But on average living in a third world country makes little fucking difference, sure some places are war torn, but in the west the absence of family can't be ignored. Overall it don't matter where the fuck you live life is equal amounts shitty.
Mental health, and physical health are big obstacles.
What pisses me off about mental health is how it's dismissed. People just don't fucking get it, with the most simple examples.
I can't get a hard on. Ocassionally I can but I have to imagine the most wierd scenarios to even enjoy it. I litterally have to convince my mind that either I'm paying for it in the fantasy, it's the end of the world and I am in fact the last man on earth, or some other bizarre scenario, and I keep myself removed from feelings of guilt inside my head which is the other battle. Either I ain't good enough for a chick, she's too old, I'm too old for her etc. Every time I get my head past one issue it's something else.
Any sane person reading this will go with the stock "your fucked" and not realize my other problems are directly connected.
I mean how would you dress if even in your dreams chicks wanted nothing to do with you.
You can call me a whinny bitch all you want at some point you gotta acknowledge that there is no simple answer, no one stop solutions and I'd be fine, I got a lot of shit in my head, and there is almost no meaningful answers.
That being said I am positive and I keep trying to find new schemes of how to fix shit, but it rarely last a few hours until I'm back to total disfunction. But at the end of the day my ability to manipulate my own mind is very limited.
you are an idiot, grow a fucking pair, be a man and go fucking live your life instead of being a whining fagg bitch ::)
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Listen very very closely my friend, cause that fits a 100 % to your life and the lives of million young men of your (our) generation. It might sound macabre, but we urgently need a new fucking World War to stir shit up again on that planet. Our grandparents had a fucking Mission: Fight and survive a World War; Our parents had a fucking mission: Rebuilt shit after World War;
We have no mission; we're aimlessly drifting around that planet in prosperity, no matter if we work or not, what we do or not, we got all we need and live very well anyway. That's why a lotta people are losing any ambition and drive in their lives.
Try to define a goal where you wanna get in life as soon as possible, and work your ass off every single day to get there, or otherwise you're gonna lose yourself completely like Swede any many others, with no chance of a future in society.
This hits home more than anything Ive ever read.
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you are an idiot, grow a fucking pair, be a man and go fucking live your life instead of being a whining fagg bitch ::)
You shitheads have no good dam clue, the best you can do is cite a hollywood movie.
For fucks sake, get real. What the fuck is this suppose to mean. Am I suppose to go rape a bitch just to say my head ain't the problem.
The people that suck it up and be a man 9/10 tend to be the kind of men that bit the shit out of their wives and children.
Oh yeah shockwave, your one to speak you spend years addicted to drugs, that's the defintion of causing your own god dam problems.
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How many third world countries have you lived in?
None but know enough people from third world countries who have the same type of fucking problems both rich and poor alike.
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You shitheads have no good dam clue, the best you can do is cite a hollywood movie.
For fucks sake, get real. What the fuck is this suppose to mean. Am I suppose to go rape a bitch just to say my head ain't the problem.
The people that suck it up and be a man 9/10 tend to be the kind of men that bit the shit out of their wives and children.
Oh yeah shockwave, your one to speak you spend years addicted to drugs, that's the defintion of causing your own god dam problems.
what fucking movie did i quote, you queer, go fucking off yourself if you cant deal with life
maybe first step is to stop sucking cock that might help you out ::)
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what fucking movie did i quote, you queer, go fucking off yourself if you cant deal with life
maybe first step is to stop sucking cock that might help you out ::)
I misread what shockwave meant.
Lol go off myself that would be the "cowards way out", trust me the fucking thought is lingering idea. I moved home to avoid this. I don't want your fucking sympathy, just acknowledgement that some people's lives are fucked not because of any other reason than what there brain makes happen.
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I misread what shockwave meant.
Lol go off myself that would be the "cowards way out", trust me the fucking thought is lingering idea. I moved home to avoid this. I don't want your fucking sympathy, just acknowledgement that some people's lives are fucked not because of any other reason than what there brain makes happen.
well unfuck your life then
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well unfuck your life then
How the fuck am I suppose to do that? I'm fucking trying, but there's no god dam answer on how to do that.
The best I got going is acknowledging that I am fucked and the realization that it's all in my head, and there's nothing I can buy do or think to fix this.
That to me has got me off the suicide fence but where I go from here is on the fence.
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What pisses me off about mental health is how it's dismissed. People just don't fucking get it
I agree with you 100%. Due to the fact there are not outwards signs of a disability, people dismiss mental illness as non-existent, or imaginary, and expect one to be able to 'will' themselves better.
The nature of mental illness is that you can't will yourself to be better, it needs to be treated with psychotherapy and a closely monitored regimen of SSRI's. Some SSRI's can have a negative effect, hence the need for close supervision from medical professionals.
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How the fuck am I suppose to do that? I'm fucking trying, but there's no god dam answer on how to do that.
The best I got going is acknowledging that I am fucked and the realization that it's all in my head, and there's nothing I can buy do or think to fix this.
That to me has got me off the suicide fence but where I go from here is on the fence.
In all seriousness go see a therapist, get your head in order, its up to you
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In all seriousness go see a therapist, get your head in order, its up to you
Did that went no where. Correction it helped alot with the little things, but change little about the big picture.
I am getting my head in order, that's why I moved home. Just frustrated, that people think it's gonna just be two weeks of staring at the walls and I'll be good to go. And as I said I'm on the edge of being fucked, there a loads of people who's life is in dissarray there entire lives..
Cough Cough disturbia/
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Did that went no where. Correction it helped alot with the little things, but change little about the big picture.
I am getting my head in order, that's why I moved home. Just frustrated, that people think it's gonna just be two weeks of staring at the walls and I'll be good to go. And as I said I'm on the edge of being fucked, there a loads of people who's life is in dissarray there entire lives..
Cough Cough disturbia/
set a goal, focus on it and take it one step at a time, i assume you work out so why not aim to get in better shape,bulk up,get shredded,compete in a local show etc etc
having something to aim, whatever it may be, will help, at least try and stick to it
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But on average living in a third world country makes little fucking difference, sure some places are war torn, but in the west the absence of family can't be ignored. Overall it don't matter where the fuck you live life is equal amounts shitty.
Mental health, and physical health are big obstacles.
What pisses me off about mental health is how it's dismissed. People just don't fucking get it, with the most simple examples.
I can't get a hard on. Ocassionally I can but I have to imagine the most wierd scenarios to even enjoy it. I litterally have to convince my mind that either I'm paying for it in the fantasy, it's the end of the world and I am in fact the last man on earth, or some other bizarre scenario, and I keep myself removed from feelings of guilt inside my head which is the other battle. Either I ain't good enough for a chick, she's too old, I'm too old for her etc. Every time I get my head past one issue it's something else.
Any sane person reading this will go with the stock "your fucked" and not realize my other problems are directly connected.
I mean how would you dress if even in your dreams chicks wanted nothing to do with you.
You can call me a whinny bitch all you want at some point you gotta acknowledge that there is no simple answer, no one stop solutions and I'd be fine, I got a lot of shit in my head, and there is almost no meaningful answers.
That being said I am positive and I keep trying to find new schemes of how to fix shit, but it rarely last a few hours until I'm back to total disfunction. But at the end of the day my ability to manipulate my own mind is very limited.
serious question, did someone molest you when you where younger? ,
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serious question, did someone molest you when you where younger? ,
it wouldnt be surprising
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it wouldnt be surprising
no not with those toughts he have and that salty banana incident, just screams molestvictim
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serious question, did someone molest you when you where younger? ,
Not that I know of, obviously I may have been and don't rememeber, but it's long blacked out, I've been the way I am since as far back as I can remember. a girlfriend was, and we had all the same kind of fucked up issues with sex and shit. 99 percent of the reason why I have been single alot.
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Not that I know of, obviously I may have been and don't rememeber, but it's long blacked out, I've been the way I am since as far back as I can remember. My last girlfriend was, and we had all the same kind of fucked up issues with sex and shit. 99 percent of the reason why I have been single the last year.
ok thanks for an honest answer
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ok thanks for an honest answer
Dude if there one thing I do is I'm pretty much as honest with you guys as I am myself.
Excpet the banana incident where I just went with an insult.
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i enjoy life roughly one eighth of the time.
7/8 's of the time it sucks.
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How do you know that you have only 1 life to live? Is that scientifically proven?
Do you remember your last one?
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Dude if there one thing I do is I'm pretty much as honest with you guys as I am myself.
Excpet the banana incident where I just went with an insult.
Lundgren, the more I read your posts, the more I think that you seem like a good guy and pretty honest, I'm sorry for the things you are struggling with and wish you the best in fighting it and winning this battle!
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None but know enough people from third world countries who have the same type of fucking problems both rich and poor alike.
I gotta disagree with this.
Poor people in poor countries usually deal with pretty harsh shit and in general life is much more brutal.
No posting on getbig. No fucking around. Just survival. Get out there and make 10 dollars or else go hungry. No welfare system. Make some money today or starve in a week.
You probably don't know what it's like to be in that kind of situation. Most North Americans don't know, because in North America there is always a safety net for people who hit rock bottom.
Usually these people are happy and warm-hearted but they are facing struggles that you probably can't imagine.
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I gotta disagree with this.
Poor people in poor countries usually deal with pretty harsh shit and in general life is much more brutal.
No posting on getbig. No fucking around. Just survival. Get out there and make 10 dollars or else go hungry. No welfare system. Make some money today or starve in a week.
You probably don't know what it's like to be in that kind of situation. Most North Americans don't know, because in North America there is always a safety net for people who hit rock bottom.
Usually these people are happy and warm-hearted but they are facing struggles that you probably can't imagine.
Not all 3rd world countries are created equal, Egypt is one but it's far better living there than say somalia.
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Not all 3rd world countries are created equal, Egypt is one but it's far better living there than say somalia.
I know that. Every country is unique. And some are much worse than others.
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Not all 3rd world countries are created equal, Egypt is one but it's far better living there than say somalia.
Exactly, there is no such thing as the third world.
You can't even look at gdp per person to tell who is suffering from real shit or not.
There are loads of folk in america, that suffer just as much as meth whores in thailand.
Peoples view of the third world is way the fuck out of date.
Humans are happiest when they faced with an aspect of survival.
One of the problems in our daily lives is that our survival is based on abstract things (status, right to breed, to be part of a group). Which also means the majority of happiness and pain are abstractions(wealth, debt, popularity, social isolation,)
In the end were like a dog in a cage, running on a treadmill for plastic treats.
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Whether you enjoy or endure life it makes no difference. All carbon based life, is, by it's very nature, tenuous and fleeting. So make the most of what you got when you have it. If you can't do it for yourself then do it for someone else - and believe me you will, somewhere, somehow derive pleasure from that and meaning. Maybe not the 'cosmic' 'transcendant' or 'religious' meaning that we all hope to find but maybe just a quiet, small voice deep down that affords just enough comfort to keep you ticking along and being part of this weird and wonderful cosmic circus. no need for deep introspection because ultimately there are no answers to 'such' questions - just 'be' and if you can 'be happy' with it ;Dwhatever the deuce that means.
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Not all 3rd world countries are created equal, Egypt is one but it's far better living there than say somalia.
Big Ach, do you enjoy our Waffle Houses?? 8) 8) I can only imagine that our Waffle Houses destroy the ones in Egypt. :D :D
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do something productive adn you will have waelth
then
buy hapiness
simple
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Bunch of happyass mofos in this thread!!
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Exactly, there is no such thing as the third world.
You can't even look at gdp per person to tell who is suffering from real shit or not.
There are loads of folk in america, that suffer just as much as meth whores in thailand.
Peoples view of the third world is way the fuck out of date.
Humans are happiest when they faced with an aspect of survival.
One of the problems in our daily lives is that our survival is based on abstract things (status, right to breed, to be part of a group). Which also means the majority of happiness and pain are abstractions(wealth, debt, popularity, social isolation,)
In the end were like a dog in a cage, running on a treadmill for plastic treats for my bum.
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