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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long. I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.
The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing. Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship. Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.
Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her. Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.
For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.
I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do? No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.
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I need to poop
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So you are asking if you should dump a great girl because she will keep you from fucking around with lesser girls?? ::) ::)
Keep her until something better pops up.
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Kick her to the kerb,
she sounds like trouble.
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give it a chance, you can always opt out if it doesn't work for you.
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long. I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.
The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing. Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship. Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.
Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her. Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.
For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.
I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do? No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.
Does she have ginormous muscles?
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long. I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.
The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing. Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship. Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.
Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her. Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.
For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.
I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do? No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.
Give it a chance...if it doesn't work out or you start to see something that you don't like about her then flee.
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Tre
You are not ready for a relationship, if you have to ask on getbig if you should keep or dump her because she forbids you from fucking around you're obviously not in love with her.
For your information, if you really truly love somebody you don't even think about fucking around it doesn't even enter your mind, and no i am not talking about the first few month, that's not love that's lust, but what happens for most people afterwards when things have settled down thats what I would consider love.
The problem with people like you is that you never learn to love somebody since you never give it a chance, its like cutting a flowers head of before it had a chance to blossom.
A relationship is work on both sides if you're not even able to do the little bit of work to make it work in the first few weeks well my friend you aren't ready.
And btw there isn't anything wrong with that, but don't come crying back that nobody wants you for a serious relationship when you hit 40 ;)
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So you are asking if you should dump a great girl because she will keep you from fucking around with lesser girls?? ::) ::)
Keep her until something better pops up.
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Pics or it didnt happen ;D
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The only reason you can't be monogamous Tre is because no girl wants you.
And this girls wants you for what little income you have until you are drained and then she will move on. She doesn't want you spending it on another whore.
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Does she have ginormous muscles?
No, she's into Pilates and has no mental issues that would've led her to the realm of heavy lifting and 'supplementation'.
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No, she's into Pilates and has no mental issues that would've led her to the realm of heavy lifting and 'supplementation'.
Serious question...
How old are you again?
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Tre
You are not ready for a relationship, if you have to ask on getbig if you should keep or dump her because she forbids you from fucking around you're obviously not in love with her.
For your information, if you really truly love somebody you don't even think about fucking around it doesn't even enter your mind, and no i am not talking about the first few month, that's not love that's lust, but what happens for most people afterwards when things have settled down thats what I would consider love.
The problem with people like you is that you never learn to love somebody since you never give it a chance, its like cutting a flowers head of before it had a chance to blossom.
A relationship is work on both sides if you're not even able to do the little bit of work to make it work in the first few weeks well my friend you aren't ready.
And btw there isn't anything wrong with that, but don't come crying back that nobody wants you for a serious relationship when you hit 40 ;)
True, man, thanks...the deal is that we're in that just-before-exclusivity stage. This is the time when most people get trapped...things have gone so well, they're emotionally vested, they don't wanna risk losing a potentially good thing, etc. etc....but then they end up wasting time with a decent, but not exactly good relationship that eventually goes nowhere.
Being 40 certainly has its disadvantages - looks and body have begun to fade and I'm generally a lot more jaded - but there are advantages, too - I've got my shit together and any woman who's kicking it with me gets to enjoy a little taste of the good life. :)
But it's these fucking 'relationship rules'. Every couple is different and gets to decide what's allowable or not, but it seems she's not fully onboard with less traditional concepts for her own relationships. She's fine with what other people do, but for herself, she ain't havin' it...and goddamnit if there ain't a part of me that really appreciates the fact that she's into me and only me.
I think I'm in my patented sabotage-it-before-it-gets-serious mode which worked so well in HS, college, military years, etc. I think I'm as emotionally mature as I was at 20...trying to fuck a good thing up now, so that I don't have to worry about possibly fucking it up later when it might actually hurt both of us. :-[
I already got one major grow-up call when my then-wife and I had our child, but no relationship was required. I just had to be a good dad, provide love and support and time for my kid, etc. But now, I feel like she's my grow-up call with respect to developing a real, adult relationship with someone. This is a total mindfuck.
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long...
the answer is right there...how many 15-20 year periods are you going to have in your life?- and how many are going to be actually productive?
bite the bullet and grow up and commit. you could end up a lonely guy full of shouldas and wouldas...
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Serious question...
How old are you again?
40, and working to avoid the 20-somethings. Really enjoyed life for most of my 30s, but time to stop chasing my lost youth through a series of meaningless, almost gratuitous flings.
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The only reason you can't be monogamous Tre is because no girl wants you.
And this girls wants you for what little income you have until you are drained and then she will move on. She doesn't want you spending it on another whore.
GETBIG!!!
LOL
Certain women have distinct mating criteria and, despite my twinkish stature, I do have incredible DNA. Plus, knowing how to make money doesn't hurt. ;)
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40, and working to avoid the 20-somethings. Really enjoyed life for most of my 30s, but time to stop chasing my lost youth through a series of meaningless, almost gratuitous flings.
Youth is only a fictional idea, you are always as young as you feel and sure age sets certain limitations in regards what you maybe able to do physically - but apart from that its no point dwelling in the past too much.
Problem is when it comes to woman (and I mean the class woman) the older you get the harder it will be to find the one that has the full package, not only because they get rare out there since most are settling down somewhat around the age of 30 but also because you will get more and more in the mindeframe that always finds something wrong with some girl, if you can accept that nobody is perfect that you will not be able to find a perfect person but that the little things are the once that count you find somebody in no time and most important you can be happy with.
Woman nagg and woman are always on your case and you will never make them 100% happy and neither should you - marriage is as far as I can see now 70% good times and 30% which are filled with little annoying things like nagging and this and that for complicated reasons.
Its all part of the fun and trust me I am probably coming accross like Mr know it all, but I don't and I am fucking terrible in a relationship banging doors and having a huge temper with very combined with being sometimes hugly egoistic.
But I know she loves me for what ever I am and I love her for what she is, not once in the six years have I ever thought I made the wrong choice, in fact the longer the relationship goes on the more I am learning and the more we are getting on.
I hope you find somebody you can life with cuz life is fucking short mate
Edit: You know what is so much more important than having a bangable body and cute face? Trust, you find somebody that is sticking to you 100% all the way pfff everything in life is light shit.
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long...
the answer is right there...how many 15-20 year periods are you going to have in your life?- and how many are going to be actually productive?
bite the bullet and grow up and commit. you could end up a lonely guy full of shouldas and wouldas...
No question. While I suppose I could continue on like a bratty little kid for another decade, if that happens, then at 50, I'm washed up, nothing more. Now, though, I've got a chance to embark on a new, adult life, while I've still got the vigor to enjoy it.
If we do this thing and it lasts 20 years, hey, it will have been a very good run, I'm sure. But if my life experience holds form, and she is my once-in-20 years girl...then it would be a huge mistake to let this go simply because I've grown accustomed to my limit-free life.
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Stay the player you`ve always been!!
Why settle for one broad when there is a veritable smorgasborg out there?
Don`t tie yourself down,unless you are truly ready to committ.
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No question. While I suppose I could continue on like a bratty little kid for another decade, if that happens, then at 50, I'm washed up, nothing more. Now, though, I've got a chance to embark on a new, adult life, while I've still got the vigor to enjoy it.
If we do this thing and it lasts 20 years, hey, it will have been a very good run, I'm sure. But if my life experience holds form, and she is my once-in-20 years girl...then it would be a huge mistake to let this go simply because I've grown accustomed to my limit-free life.
lol you can analyze this all you want when it comes down to committed relationships there is no 100%, you never ever know how it works out, all you can do is jump into the dark - say fuck it and give it all you have.
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how long have you guys been seeing each other?
+ how the fuck did she bring all that up? must have been awkward... would've been funny to see your reaction
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how long have you guys been seeing each other?
+ how the fuck did she bring all that up? must have been awkward... would've been funny to see your reaction
:D
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Youth is only a fictional idea, you are always as young as you feel and sure age sets certain limitations in regards what you maybe able to do physically - but apart from that its no point dwelling in the past too much.
Problem is when it comes to woman (and I mean the class woman) the older you get the harder it will be to find the one that has the full package, not only because they get rare out there since most are settling down somewhat around the age of 30 but also because you will get more and more in the mind frame that always finds something wrong with some girl, if you can accept that nobody is perfect that you will not be able to find a perfect person but that the little things are the once that count you find somebody in no time and most important you can be happy with.
Woman nagg and woman are always on your case and you will never make them 100% happy and neither should you - marriage is as far as I can see now 70% good times and 30% which are filled with little annoying things like nagging and this and that for complicated reasons. Its all part of the fun and trust me I am probably coming accross like Mr know it all, but I don't and I am fucking terrible in a relationship banging doors and having a huge temper with very combined with being sometimes hugly egoistic.
But I know she loves me for what ever I am and I love her for what she is, not once in the six years have I ever thought I made the wrong choice, in fact the longer the relationship goes on the more I am learning and the more we are getting on.
I hope you find somebody you can life with cuz life is fucking short mate
Edit: You know what is so much more important than having a bangable body and cute face? Trust, you find somebody that is sticking to you 100% all the way pfff everything in life is light shit.
Not only are you smart, but you also have more posts than I do. ;D
I'm a horrible relationship guy, too, because I believe that a person really can have it all. I never had an affair when I was married. Never slept with any other women, nor did I ever make plans to sleep with any other women. But, I flirted a lot and had very close relationships with a few women, including a few 'situations' that had not been fully settled at the time I got married. I had unfinished business and I didn't know how to resolve it, so I carried on in a way that some women might consider inappropriate. I didn't realize that my wife was reading my email, but though I never acted on any of the thoughts she may have read, she did commit a huge breach of trust by reading my private emails, something I've never forgiven her (and won't). As a loyal, brainwashed Mormon, baby mama was never really on my team.
New girl = totally on my team, and I really do value that.
I've got a huge ego, too, but have no problem admitting when I'm wrong. She's over 30, never married, no kids, no psycho ex-boyfriend, no daddy issues, isn't Mormon, and doesn't smoke. It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw!
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She's full of shit, everything a woman says is lies and you get bored of fucking even the hottest chick. This one just has your mind saying 'I won't get bored of that' just like a new car.
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'It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw!'
sure she doesn't have a cock?
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how long have you guys been seeing each other?
+ how the fuck did she bring all that up? must have been awkward... would've been funny to see your reaction
Only a couple months very casually and just now moving into the do-we-do or do-we-don't stage.
She casually brought up the subject of polygamy - the new pop culture phenomenon - in a discussion we were having and at some point, it led to her playfully asking me about participating in a threesome. The first time a girl brings this up, a guy can never be quite sure whether she's really into the idea herself or whether she is just testing him. I played the VERY safe 'I wouldn't force it, but I'd love to do it if it would make you happy' card. Totally puss move, I know, but it was the smart play in that situation. I then took that opportunity to dig a little more to see what sort of 'rules' or expectations she intended to place on a potential relationship, and that's when the rest was revealed.
And now it's 4am and I'm posting on GetBig. :D
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New girl = totally on my team, and I really do value that.
I've got a huge ego, too, but have no problem admitting when I'm wrong. She's over 30, never married, no kids, no psycho ex-boyfriend, no daddy issues, isn't Mormon, and doesn't smoke. It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw!
STOP looking for flaws .. and listen to Stark and your gut feelings .. you know you want to do this .. so just do it and don't make problems where there are none
or you can turn 50 and be alone most of the time .. getting chicks with baggage who will use you for what they want then move on when something better and younger is available
:)
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I've got a huge ego, too, but have no problem admitting when I'm wrong. She's over 30, never married, no kids, no psycho ex-boyfriend, no daddy issues, isn't Mormon, and doesn't smoke. It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw!
The problem here as far as I can see is trust and I understand you more than you can imagine, why? Cause I have a huge trust issue as well, I had probably one of the worse childhoods from the beginning to until I was 4 or 5 than any baby in a developed world can have (no not sexual abused, but any other abuse was deffiantly a part of) a psycologist said to my adopted parents that because I never build trust when I was a very small child (child trust is build when a baby cries and somebody comes and cuddles and helps it) I will have always all my life trust issues.
Fucking obvious what I did with my now wife was in the first few month always looked out for the one thing that I wasn't able to forgive, in fact I was more convinced that she will "fuck me over" and disappoint me some way and the more it didn't happen the more nervous I got.
All I can say for yourself - Relax... don't try to find the faults, you find them soon enough :D but the difference is if you give it time and the relationship starts having a foundation the little faults everybody has will not weight half as much as when you find them at the very beginning.
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let me get this straight...your preference is a woman that let's you mess around with other woman while you are in a relationship with them, like an open relationship? Now you found a woman that won't tolerate that and your strongly considering settling down with her cause she is compatible...fair enough a no brainer really, your getting old and your running out of shots. Wise to start taking relationships more serious....
Now something is somewhat bothering me here, if she did preffer an open relationship and you guys hit it off nicely, near perfect to the point that your convinced that she is the right one, would you really be OK with her banging another guy for fun, I mean really? Or maybe I misunderstood you, if so I apologize....She sounds reasonable and the restrictions are in your best interest, definitely go with her.
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man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,
very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc
how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus
gh15 approved
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man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,
very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc
how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus
gh15 approved
Pro tip of the week: Stick to steroid advice - and eat your own "cooking"
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long. I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.
The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing. Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship. Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.
Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her. Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.
For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.
I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do? No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.
Your crazy typing is making my penis soft.
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We are going to need some photos Tre.
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OP, you sound like a vapid self-obsessed sack of shit. Hope that helps. :)
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let me get this straight...your preference is a woman that let's you mess around with other woman while you are in a relationship with them, like an open relationship? Now you found a woman that won't tolerate that and your strongly considering settling down with her cause she is compatible...fair enough a no brainer really, your getting old and your running out of shots. Wise to start taking relationships more serious....
Now something is somewhat bothering me here, if she did preffer an open relationship and you guys hit it off nicely, near perfect to the point that your convinced that she is the right one, would you really be OK with her banging another guy for fun, I mean really? Or maybe I misunderstood you, if so I apologize....She sounds reasonable and the restrictions are in your best interest, definitely go with her.
I can't explain why I feel this way, but if my girl went on a business trip and had sex with some random guy she'd hit it off with, I wouldn't really care. But, 1) I don't want to know about and 2) she'd better use a condom.
I've got to flip the switch, because my mindset is still set on 'fun', while she's thinking more about 'family', exactly as she should be. She's not trying to change me, but she is being honest in letting me know who she is and what she's about, unlike a majority of women would ever do.
I didn't suggest an open relationship, but ideally, I guess I'd eventually want to be in a relationship where I was free to do whatever I wanted, but didn't WANT or feel a 'need' for any other women, because all my needs were being met at home. You're right about the restrictions being in my best interests, though. I've really fucked some shit up pretty badly with my selfishness in the past. :-\
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I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do? No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.
A True Getbigger feels nothin' for no one! He lives alone, lifts alone, dies alone, and leaves the undertaker's wife asking, "Who was that shredded mass man?"
If happiness means so much to you, I suggest you turn in your account and leave the forum to those of us dedicated to a life of abject misery!
Sounds fatal. Hope she doesn't tear your 'lil heart out, bro. :)
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OP, you sound like a vapid self-obsessed sack of shit. Hope that helps. :)
'Vapid'?? Now wait just a doggone minute...that's being a bit too harsh! ;D
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A True Getbigger feels nothin' for no one! He lives alone, lifts alone, dies alone, and leaves the undertaker's wife asking, "Who was that shredded mass man?"
If happiness means so much to you, I suggest you turn in your account and leave the forum to those of us dedicated to a life of abject misery!
GetBig TFL!! (http://femflex.net/images/fun/rockon1.jpg)
Sounds fatal. Hope she doesn't tear your 'lil heart out, bro. :)
Tell me about it, man, thanks!
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You're a homosexual.
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Tre, what's that voice deep inside you telling you? And you know you can hear it. Listen to it.
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Tre, what's that voice deep inside you telling you? And you know you can hear it. Listen to it.
your head will lie to you, your heart will lie to you, your cock will lie to you but your gut is never wrong.
ever.
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soooo, Tre... what did your father do to your mother when you were a child :)
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GETBIG!!!
LOL
Certain women have distinct mating criteria and, despite my twinkish stature, I do have incredible DNA. Plus, knowing how to make money doesn't hurt. ;)
Let's get real.
The fact you hang out on a useless forum like Siouxcountry is enough to turn any real female off.
But I do enjoy when you own his useless ass.
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man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,
very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc
how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus
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;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D blame pornography
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;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D blame pornography
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We Americans can makes some weird shit. :o :o
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your head will lie to you, your heart will lie to you, your cock will lie to you but your gut is never wrong.
ever.
exactly
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exactly
yeh but how you know the difference
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Tre...your getting older 40...A big looking back point in every mans life..you like to fukc random whores(girls that are only good for one thing)dont ya get tired of that shit useless sleazy bimbo type girls..this girl sounds good ,maybe a keeper...she is 30 with no kids or previous drama in her life.has a decent carrer/job,she isnt a weirdo(yet),or ex hooker or stripper that you know of.and Iam assuming she is hot..thats rare now a days...dont lead with your dick..because if you go with your dick your gonna get fucked in more then one way...sounds like your scared of commitment..time to grow the fukc up and think about your future....some guys cant handle a normal life and want the drama and bitches random sex allways..maybe thats you......only u can make the decision..good luck bro...
one q -what nationality is she ??
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Tre...your getting older 40...A big looking back point in every mans life..you like to fukc random whores(girls that are only good for one thing)dont ya get tired of that shit useless sleazy bimbo type girls..this girl sounds good ,maybe a keeper...she is 30 with no kids or previous drama in her life.has a decent carrer/job,she isnt a weirdo(yet),or ex hooker or stripper that you know of.and Iam assuming she is hot..thats rare now a days...dont lead with your dick..because if you go with your dick your gonna get fucked in more then one way...sounds like your scared of commitment..time to grow the fukc up and think about your future....some guys cant handle a normal life and want the drama and bitches random sex allways..maybe thats you......only u can make the decision..good luck bro...
one q -what nationality is she ??
Great advice, man...the more I read, the truer it gets. She's American (and not blonde!) and has a strong work ethic, values family and career - though family comes first - and is a sports fan.
I hate complainers and I hate to complain, but then at the same time, I do let in more drama than I would like to admit...just to give me something to complain about. I mean, look how fucking stupid I sound here - the woman has none of that shit and I'm acting like a little bitch trying to ruin what could be an incredible journey with a very special person...and not some useless fling that'll go nowhere fast.
At 40, growing up really should not be that hard to do.
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At 40, growing up really should not be that hard to do.
How about ramping up the test dosages to feel like a young stallion again.
Bring the excitement back to chasing tail. You'll look and feel like a new man.
I think the reason your not interested in "Random encounters" anymore is because the excitement has gone.....
you're entering male menopause. testosterone levels are plummeting.
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How about ramping up the test dosages to feel like a young stallion again.
Bring the excitement back to chasing tail. You'll look and feel like a new man.
I think the reason your not interested in "Random encounters" anymore is because the excitement has gone.....
you're entering male menopause. testosterone levels are plummeting.
Do you employ HRT yourself?
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Do you employ HRT yourself?
At 23 I hope I don't need it.
Maybe in 20 more years it will be more accepted in the medical community.
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At 23 I hope I don't need it.
Maybe in 20 more years it will be more accepted in the medical community.
I always thought you were older than that. Enjoy your youth.
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man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,
very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc
how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus
gh15 approved
You get bored after dominating the world
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It is already too late! If you actually like her then it doesn't get any better than this. You will regret letting her go....not that you will let her out of your sight!
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It is already too late! If you actually like her then it doesn't get any better than this. You will regret letting her go....not that you will let her out of your sight!
What do you know about relationships with females - toddler toucher?
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Toddler toucher? Jesus, I date grannies nowadays!
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Relationship advice... from this fucking place?
Something wrong with this "Draconian" picture.
It is what it is (the equivalent of no help at all)
And: Relationships are as dynamic as this crazy weather. What may be the answer today could be the worst possible solution tomorrow.
Good luck. The cards will fall where they may.
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She should find this thread and dump your dumb ass.
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make a sex tape then get the fuck out of it
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Just marry her and keep on fucking sluts on the side.
Americans have unrealistic expectations about monogamy.
Americans live in a fluffy dream world instead of facing the hard reality, in any ways, not just realationships.
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I'd fuck her sister in the ass.
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I'd like to see Tre vs Wiggs go head to head in a pickup contest at a local bar.
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I'd like to see Tre vs Wiggs go head to head
Outed
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I'd like to see Tre vs Wiggs go head to head in a pickup contest at a local bar.
LOL!
Wiggs has that, hands down. I may have dominated from 1994-2006, but my game has been in steady decline since then.
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Tre...your getting older 40...A big looking back point in every mans life..you like to fukc random whores(girls that are only good for one thing)dont ya get tired of that shit useless sleazy bimbo type girls..this girl sounds good ,maybe a keeper...she is 30 with no kids or previous drama in her life.has a decent carrer/job,she isnt a weirdo(yet),or ex hooker or stripper that you know of.and Iam assuming she is hot..thats rare now a days...dont lead with your dick..because if you go with your dick your gonna get fucked in more then one way...sounds like your scared of commitment..time to grow the fukc up and think about your future....some guys cant handle a normal life and want the drama and bitches random sex allways..maybe thats you......only u can make the decision..good luck bro...
one q -what nationality is she ??
they do because their father or/ and grandfather did, most of the time. There s no smoke without fire. They have a kind of loyalty toward their most influent father figure to repeat what they ve done to be like them, to replace them, to ''continue their path'' ...by reproducing it. It all depends of the influence of this main father figure, how often he s put his ideas in your head over time. We are the people we identify with, even if these people are not good for us. The best way is to ignore them or replace them with better father figures with a better way of life to reproduce.
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they do because their father or/ and grandfather did, most of the time. There s no smoke without fire. They have a kind of loyalty toward their most influent father figure to repeat what they ve done to be like them, to replace them, to ''continue their path'' ...by reproducing it.
This is generally true, no doubt about it, but in my case, I'm the first self-centered dirtbag to emerge. My father, grandfather, and great-grandfather were all great men who loved their families, their communities, and their nation, and they committed their lives to serving each. They each married once and never strayed. To say they sacrificed so that I could have much would be a grave understatement and my sister wastes little time in reminding me how often I fail to honor their memories and carry on the legacy set forth.
I can offer no reasoning as to why I turned out this way, but I do wish there wasn't such a stigma against those who don't like the 'relationship rules' that so many others have bought into without even knowing why.
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hey Tre, from what you describe you must be 75% white.
Who else can claim to have 'father, grandfather, and great-grandfather that were all great men who loved their families, their communities, and their nation, and they committed their lives to serving each'
As I see it is not possible to have that in any other way, due to social traits and the fact that the black men fighting for the US nation 100-50 years ago were idiots; surely not a great men
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This is generally true, no doubt about it, but in my case, I'm the first self-centered dirtbag to emerge. My father, grandfather, and great-grandfather were all great men who loved their families, their communities, and their nation, and they committed their lives to serving each. They each married once and never strayed. To say they sacrificed to have much would be a grave understatement and my sister wastes little time in reminding me how often I fail to honor their memories and carry on the legacy set forth.
I can offer no reasoning as to why I turned out this way, but I do wish there wasn't such a stigma against those who don't like the 'relationship rules' that so many others have bought into without even knowing why.
i d be a lot more careful about the assesment none of your father/grandfathers strayed... and i would also say that they might have strayed and that you ve subconsciously been impregnated by these events that havent been talked about openly but might have been hidden. We do not inherit just conscious behaviors and thoughts, influences, but also invisible, subconscious ones, and they are often the most powerful ones. All these little subconscious patterns are either genetically embeded in your brain or recorded/learnt, and lead your life, they re just flying very low under the radar. Again i may be wrong, but reproductions of behaviors two or even three generations later arent unheard of. Sometime having a father who was strongly unsatisfied with his relaitonship might somewhat influence his son or grandson subconsciously to cheat on his own gf/wife. We are all affected by everything we re in contact with. Sometimes we are in contact with things we cannot comprhend fully, explain, especially when we re kids. Yet these events are recorded in our brain by our senses and for some reasons even if we dont remember them, their meaning, they start emerging in our own life after some event activates them, often the same events that activated them in the life of our genitors / grandparents.Those who come from family where nobody speaks, where the rule is dont tell dont ask, are the ones who are the more prone to reproduce. The best way to get rid of these things is to be conscious of what we are repeating, where it originates. If you dont know you re "sick" you cannot start to get better.
One thing is sure you have troubles getting into serious relationships and it has to have an origin.
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WTF Ubermann , are you trying to answer this fool serisously? I just hope ur using somekind of reverse psychology shit, otherwise ur a bigger fool than Tre- which ranks up there in the girl gallery
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yep my supicions were right in this wonderfull site c u nt = #girl
Tre u are still a ku n t
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hey Tre, from what you describe you must be 75% white.
Who else can claim to have 'father, grandfather, and great-grandfather that were all great men who loved their families, their communities, and their nation, and they committed their lives to serving each'
As I see it is not possible to have that in any other way, due to social traits and the fact that the black men fighting for the US nation 100-50 years ago were idiots; surely not a great men
I'm no less than 99% (western African) black. Well, it's a little less when you do the real math, but I'm up there.
The fact that their behaviors may have also been observed in the successful, family-centered white males of their time does not make them any less black.
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yep my supicions were right in this wonderfull site c u nt = #girl
Tre u are still a ku n t
You can't spell cunt, because you're a pussy. ;D
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well you see men in good standing like me and your ancestors cant really afford to have 15K+ posts in GB to have in the meanwhile manage to spell k u n t in a 4 character word. (Again I insist your are a kunt, not a cu_nt)
Anyways, so your great grandfather committed his live to serve a country where he was worth 1/3 of a white man? Well now i understand why you cant commit- you just hate white bitches. Your starting to look like Samuel jackson's character in Jacky Brown
PS; dont correct 'your' (please!)
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i d be a lot more careful about the assessment none of your father/grandfathers strayed... and i would also say that they might have strayed and that you've subconsciously been impregnated by these events that haven't been talked about openly but might have been hidden. We do not inherit just conscious behaviors and thoughts, influences, but also invisible, subconscious ones, and they are often the most powerful ones. All these little subconscious patterns are either genetically embedded in your brain or recorded/learned, and lead your life, they re just flying very low under the radar. Again i may be wrong, but reproductions of behaviors two or even three generations later aren't unheard of. Sometime having a father who was strongly unsatisfied with his relationship might somewhat influence his son or grandson subconsciously to cheat on his own gf/wife. We are all affected by everything we re in contact with. Sometimes we are in contact with things we cannot comprehend fully, explain, especially when we re kids. Yet these events are recorded in our brain by our senses and for some reasons even if we don't remember them, their meaning, they start emerging in our own life after some event activates them, often the same events that activated them in the life of our progenitors / grandparents.Those who come from family where nobody speaks, where the rule is don't tell don't ask, are the ones who are the more prone to reproduce. The best way to get rid of these things is to be conscious of what we are repeating, where it originates. If you don't know you're "sick" you cannot start to get better.
One thing is sure you have troubles getting into serious relationships and it has to have an origin.
Interesting, as I'm a strong believer that one's DNA has a strong influence on the person they'll eventually become, but none of them were *known* to have carried on inappropriate relationships. Meanwhile, my baby mama accused me of being unfaithful and actually did so in front of our 2yo child. I did not choke slam or bitch slap the woman on those occasions, but maybe I should have.
My ancestors had to work too hard and too much to have any time for leisure not with their families. When I was first trying to build my business, I felt similar pressures to put in the hours. I still put in a lot of hours at work, but get to play a lot more than I did a decade ago. Plus, not being married anymore helps. I'm with my daughter every day, but not having to deal with her mom as her husband allows more time for other pursuits.
You're right about my capacity for getting into and managing 'typical' relationships, but when I examine my feelings about religion, big central government, and the educational establishment, there's a definite parallel with my feelings about relationships - that is, the 'rules' that people just accept and go along with are not in the individual's best interests at all. And as I've reasoned it out, anything which diminishes the individual also diminishes the societal unit comprised by all these individuals being less than their potential.
The rule sets which are ingrained into most Americans regarding coupledom have really served to create a false happiness for many and led to a lot of shattered dreams for the believers.
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well you see men in good standing like me and your ancestors cant really afford to have 15K+ posts in GB to have in the meanwhile manage to spell k u n t in a 4 character word. (Again I insist your are a kunt, not a cu_nt)
Anyways, so your great grandfather committed his live to serve a country where he was worth 1/3 of a white man? Well now i understand why you cant commit- you just hate white bitches. Your starting to look like Samuel jackson's character in Jacky Brown
PS; dont correct 'your' (please!)
LOL @ hate white bitches!
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well
I havent seen u around that many black bitches.
Is this another attempt for compensation, Jackiiii Brown-like?
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OP DONT MAKE FUCKING POSTS ABOUT WOMEN WHEN UR CLEARLY A HOMO.
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uberman chime in? ;)
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uberman chime in? ;)
mmmh?
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Facebooked. ;D
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EPILOGUE:
Wanted to thank everyone who provided good counsel and sounding-board services in this thread.
Undaunted, I did continue my search and found the flaw I was seeking - she used to be a stripper and had 'danced' for a number of years.
She had her reasons for not revealing this earlier, and I probably would've been fine with it, but the issue was that an old girlfriend of hers popped back into her life one day and was in need of rehab. I'm glad she could be there for her friend, but looking at the Big Picture, this simply was not the sort of element I can have in my life here in Sac.
Despite all the stuff I'd thought and felt, it was quite easy to break things off. Zero sadness, zero loss.
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long. I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.
The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing. Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship. Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.
You realize what you're writing here, ya fool.....marry this chick !
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Did she have nice hooters, Tre?
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Good luck Tre
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There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships. But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long. I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.
The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing. Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship. Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.
Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her. Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.
For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.
I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do? No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.
she sound faithful to be material ,,, i say , try it out ,,