can't believe I'm posting this, but...fuck her? or keep her??

[chris-a]

'It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw!'

sure she doesn't have a cock?

[Tre]

how long have you guys been seeing each other?

+ how the fuck did she bring all that up? must have been awkward... would've been funny to see your reaction

Only a couple months very casually and just now moving into the do-we-do or do-we-don't stage.  

She casually brought up the subject of polygamy - the new pop culture phenomenon - in a discussion we were having and at some point, it led to her playfully asking me about participating in a threesome.  The first time a girl brings this up, a guy can never be quite sure whether she's really into the idea herself or whether she is just testing him.  I played the VERY safe 'I wouldn't force it, but I'd love to do it if it would make you happy' card.  Totally puss move, I know, but it was the smart play in that situation.  I then took that opportunity to dig a little more to see what sort of 'rules' or expectations she intended to place on a potential relationship, and that's when the rest was revealed.  

And now it's 4am and I'm posting on GetBig.  

[w8m8]

New girl = totally on my team, and I really do value that.

I've got a huge ego, too, but have no problem admitting when I'm wrong.  She's over 30, never married, no kids, no psycho ex-boyfriend, no daddy issues, isn't Mormon, and doesn't smoke.  It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw! 

STOP looking for flaws .. and listen to Stark and your gut feelings .. you know you want to do this .. so just do it and don't make problems where there are none



or you can turn 50 and be alone most of the time .. getting chicks with baggage who will use you for what they want then move on when something better and younger is available

 

[Stark]

I've got a huge ego, too, but have no problem admitting when I'm wrong.  She's over 30, never married, no kids, no psycho ex-boyfriend, no daddy issues, isn't Mormon, and doesn't smoke.  It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw! 

The problem here as far as I can see is trust and I understand you more than you can imagine, why? Cause I have a huge trust issue as well, I had probably one of the worse childhoods from the beginning to until I was 4 or 5 than any baby in a developed world can have (no not sexual abused, but any other abuse was deffiantly a part of) a psycologist said to my adopted parents that because I never build trust when I was a very small child (child trust is build when a baby cries and somebody comes and cuddles and helps it) I will have always all my life trust issues.

Fucking obvious what I did with my now wife was in the first few month always looked out for the one thing that I wasn't able to forgive, in fact I was more convinced that she will "fuck me over" and disappoint me some way and the more it didn't happen the more nervous I got.

All I can say for yourself - Relax... don't try to find the faults, you find them soon enough but the difference is if you give it time and the relationship starts having a foundation the little faults everybody has will not weight half as much as when you find them at the very beginning.

[OTHstrong]

let me get this straight...your preference is a woman that let's you mess around with other woman while you are in a relationship with them, like an open relationship? Now you found a woman that won't tolerate that and your strongly considering settling down with her cause she is compatible...fair enough a no brainer really, your getting old and your running out of shots. Wise to start taking relationships more serious....
Now something is somewhat bothering me here, if she did preffer an open relationship and you guys hit it off nicely, near perfect to the point that your convinced that she is the right one, would you really be OK with her banging another guy for fun, I mean really? Or maybe I misunderstood you, if so I apologize....She sounds reasonable and the restrictions are in your best interest, definitely go with her.

[gh15]

man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,

very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc

how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus

gh15 approved

[Stark]

man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,

very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc

how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus

gh15 approved

Pro tip of the week: Stick to steroid advice - and eat your own "cooking"

[doison]

There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships.  But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long.  I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.  

The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing.  Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship.  Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.  

Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her.  Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.

For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.  

I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do?  No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.

Your crazy typing is making my penis soft.

[Hulkotron]

We are going to need some photos Tre.

[tlc]

OP, you sound like a vapid self-obsessed sack of shit. Hope that helps. 

[Tre]

let me get this straight...your preference is a woman that let's you mess around with other woman while you are in a relationship with them, like an open relationship? Now you found a woman that won't tolerate that and your strongly considering settling down with her cause she is compatible...fair enough a no brainer really, your getting old and your running out of shots. Wise to start taking relationships more serious....
Now something is somewhat bothering me here, if she did preffer an open relationship and you guys hit it off nicely, near perfect to the point that your convinced that she is the right one, would you really be OK with her banging another guy for fun, I mean really? Or maybe I misunderstood you, if so I apologize....She sounds reasonable and the restrictions are in your best interest, definitely go with her.

I can't explain why I feel this way, but if my girl went on a business trip and had sex with some random guy she'd hit it off with, I wouldn't really care. But, 1) I don't want to know about and 2) she'd better use a condom.  

I've got to flip the switch, because my mindset is still set on 'fun', while she's thinking more about 'family', exactly as she should be.  She's not trying to change me, but she is being honest in letting me know who she is and what she's about, unlike a majority of women would ever do.

I didn't suggest an open relationship, but ideally, I guess I'd eventually want to be in a relationship where I was free to do whatever I wanted, but didn't WANT or feel a 'need' for any other women, because all my needs were being met at home.  You're right about the restrictions being in my best interests, though.  I've really fucked some shit up pretty badly with my selfishness in the past. 

[Tapeworm]

I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do?  No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.

A True Getbigger feels nothin' for no one!  He lives alone, lifts alone, dies alone, and leaves the undertaker's wife asking, "Who was that shredded mass man?"

If happiness means so much to you, I suggest you turn in your account and leave the forum to those of us dedicated to a life of abject misery!



Sounds fatal.  Hope she doesn't tear your 'lil heart out, bro.   

[Tre]

OP, you sound like a vapid self-obsessed sack of shit. Hope that helps. 

'Vapid'??  Now wait just a doggone minute...that's being a bit too harsh! 

[Tre]

A True Getbigger feels nothin' for no one!  He lives alone, lifts alone, dies alone, and leaves the undertaker's wife asking, "Who was that shredded mass man?"

If happiness means so much to you, I suggest you turn in your account and leave the forum to those of us dedicated to a life of abject misery!

GetBig TFL!! 

Sounds fatal.  Hope she doesn't tear your 'lil heart out, bro.   

Tell me about it, man, thanks! 

[Juruth]

You're a homosexual.

[tendonitis]

Tre, what's that voice deep inside you telling you? And you know you can hear it. Listen to it.

[no one]

Tre, what's that voice deep inside you telling you? And you know you can hear it. Listen to it.

your head will lie to you, your heart will lie to you, your cock will lie to you but your gut is never wrong.

ever.

[Natural Man]

soooo, Tre... what did your father do to your mother when you were a child 

[BikiniSlut]

GETBIG!!!

LOL

Certain women have distinct mating criteria and, despite my twinkish stature, I do have incredible DNA.  Plus, knowing how to make money doesn't hurt.

Let's get real.

The fact you hang out on a useless forum like Siouxcountry is enough to turn any real female off.

But I do enjoy when you own his useless ass.

[tbombz]

man ,,americano fellas are disgusting,,if i was a female in americana i would straigh tout shoot myself,,then again they do something even worse,,they become whores,,but llook what they hav eto deal with ,,i simply cant stand what became of americana ,,the males there are straight out disgusting,,with all due respect straight out disgusting drunks,,the whores are no better,,but they got to be that way for a reason,,

very fucked up society ,,how did it get to this point? im not talking about all of you who lie about hormones im talking about this thing with the female ,,how did it get like that?? really flith of earth ,,cant commit,,need 4 somes,,want to fuck her sister in the ass,,will cheat on her with her younger 17 year old daughter,, want to fuck her daughter and her in the same time same room ,,how ?? how did you get to this?,,be with her till something better comes along...be with her till her best friend suck your cock and she finds out then go be with her past best friend,, etc etc etc etc etc

how the fuck are the americana fellas so fucked up ,,the males are simply out of it ,,jesus

gh15 approved

                   blame pornography

[Doug_Steele]

                   blame pornography
[/quote

We Americans can makes some weird shit. 

[tendonitis]

your head will lie to you, your heart will lie to you, your cock will lie to you but your gut is never wrong.

ever.

exactly

[io856]

exactly

yeh but how you know the difference

[Agent69]

Tre...your getting older 40...A big looking back point in every mans life..you like to fukc random whores(girls that are only good for one thing)dont ya get tired of that shit useless sleazy bimbo type girls..this girl sounds good ,maybe a keeper...she is 30 with no kids or previous drama in her life.has a decent carrer/job,she isnt a weirdo(yet),or ex hooker or stripper that you know of.and Iam assuming she is hot..thats rare now a days...dont lead with your dick..because if you go with your dick your gonna get fucked in more then one way...sounds like your scared of commitment..time to grow the fukc up and think about your future....some guys cant handle a normal life and want the drama and bitches random sex allways..maybe thats you......only u can make the decision..good luck bro...
one q -what nationality is she ??

[Tre]

Tre...your getting older 40...A big looking back point in every mans life..you like to fukc random whores(girls that are only good for one thing)dont ya get tired of that shit useless sleazy bimbo type girls..this girl sounds good ,maybe a keeper...she is 30 with no kids or previous drama in her life.has a decent carrer/job,she isnt a weirdo(yet),or ex hooker or stripper that you know of.and Iam assuming she is hot..thats rare now a days...dont lead with your dick..because if you go with your dick your gonna get fucked in more then one way...sounds like your scared of commitment..time to grow the fukc up and think about your future....some guys cant handle a normal life and want the drama and bitches random sex allways..maybe thats you......only u can make the decision..good luck bro...
one q -what nationality is she ??

Great advice, man...the more I read, the truer it gets.  She's American (and not blonde!) and has a strong work ethic, values family and career - though family comes first - and is a sports fan. 

I hate complainers and I hate to complain, but then at the same time, I do let in more drama than I would like to admit...just to give me something to complain about.  I mean, look how fucking stupid I sound here - the woman has none of that shit and I'm acting like a little bitch trying to ruin what could be an incredible journey with a very special person...and not some useless fling that'll go nowhere fast. 

At 40, growing up really should not be that hard to do.