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Title: Honesty
Post by: Migs on June 24, 2011, 05:10:12 PM
How honest do you want your husband/boyfriend to be?
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: newmom on June 24, 2011, 05:15:27 PM
100 percent. It may sting, but if i catch even a little small lie, I'm out.

Vice Versa.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on June 24, 2011, 05:45:48 PM
so, let's say that a guy you are dating for a while (seriously) confesses to you that he used the service of working women, does that end it?  Or let's say that he tells you that he enjoys shemale porn, what would you think?  Not talking about me here either lol
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: newmom on June 24, 2011, 05:54:50 PM
so, let's say that a guy you are dating for a while (seriously) confesses to you that he used the service of working women, does that end it?  Or let's say that he tells you that he enjoys shemale porn, what would you think?  Not talking about me here either lol

if he currently is using a working woman, yea I do (hypocrite, I know). Now, if he did in the past, nope, shemale porn, nope. I'm pretty open minded when it comes to that. If we are serious, no sharing, even if we not serious, until then cover it up.

I will say this, I usually let my past out always. NOT one person I have told, has it affected the relationship. The say past is past who gives a shit
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: tonymctones on June 24, 2011, 07:18:02 PM
so, let's say that a guy you are dating for a while (seriously) confesses to you that he used the service of working women, does that end it?  Or let's say that he tells you that he enjoys shemale porn, what would you think?  Not talking about me here either lol
quit testing the waters here and just tell your woman you like gay porn...;)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: powerpack on June 25, 2011, 05:18:10 AM
quit testing the waters here and just tell your woman you like gay porn...;)
LOL I was waiting for this
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: tonymctones on June 25, 2011, 07:50:27 AM
LOL I was waiting for this
hahah im suprised it took so long to be honest
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: powerpack on June 25, 2011, 07:58:23 AM
100 percent. It may sting, but if i catch even a little small lie, I'm out.

Vice Versa.
Mmmmmmmmmmmm I have to comment on this.
I have noticed that woman have a strict set of rules for men, but a very forgiving set of guidelines for themselves.
Woman even have different standards of honesty, infedelity, rules for going out, rules for friends etc, one for men, one for woman.

So what RM says only works if there is ONE set of rules ............ but there is not, so it never works.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: newmom on June 25, 2011, 08:50:04 AM
Mmmmmmmmmmmm I have to comment on this.
I have noticed that woman have a strict set of rules for men, but a very forgiving set of guidelines for themselves.
Woman even have different standards of honesty, infedelity, rules for going out, rules for friends etc, one for men, one for woman.

So what RM says only works if there is ONE set of rules ............ but there is not, so it never works.

really?? Never one sided. Met, what I thought was a nice man, said was divorced. Went out a few times. Well checked the judicial website, low and behold, JUST started divorce proceedings after we met..That ended that
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Butterbean on June 25, 2011, 09:48:45 AM
How honest do you want your husband/boyfriend to be?

I think pretty much 100%

really?? Never one sided. Met, what I thought was a nice man, said was divorced. Went out a few times. Well checked the judicial website, low and behold, JUST started divorce proceedings after we met..That ended that

If he lied about something that big...don't think you could ever expect him not to lie about most anything.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: powerpack on June 25, 2011, 12:33:08 PM
really?? Never one sided. Met, what I thought was a nice man, said was divorced. Went out a few times. Well checked the judicial website, low and behold, JUST started divorce proceedings after we met..That ended that
I am not talking about events I am talking about rules.
In my country if you checked your gf out on the internet and found something wrong they would call you abusive or better yet the favourite is " a relationship is built on trust and if you cant trust her you dont deserve her"
Really really
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: tonymctones on June 25, 2011, 01:47:55 PM
I am not talking about events I am talking about rules.
In my country if you checked your gf out on the internet and found something wrong they would call you abusive or better yet the favourite is " a relationship is built on trust and if you cant trust her you dont deserve her"
Really really
lol this....or a stalker...
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on June 25, 2011, 04:57:09 PM
quit testing the waters here and just tell your woman you like gay porn...;)

ROFL.  Sadly I have no woman as they are all evil.  My friend was telling me about how his wife and her friend reacted after her friends husband was telling a story of hois past.  Needless to say my firned kept his sordid past quiet.  I need me a woman...wheres w8m8...with my sammich
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: newmom on June 25, 2011, 06:45:00 PM
I think pretty much 100%

If he lied about something that big...don't think you could ever expect him not to lie about most anything.

exactly. So wether it's a small or big or whatever, a lie is a lie is a lie...TOODLES

Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: outby43 on June 25, 2011, 06:59:47 PM
lies are necessary in some cases.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: BikiniSlut on June 26, 2011, 12:06:43 AM
98%.

However when it's obvious I'm fishing for a compliment I want them to bite. Example...my outfit doesn't look so good but he tells me I look gorgeous in it.

Or if I'm not the best sex he's ever had but he insists I am.

Stuff like that....just lie to me.

The truth is only going to hurt me and nothing good is going to come out of it.

White lies are good.

However anything else should be straight up honesty.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: freespirit on June 26, 2011, 03:14:27 AM
98%.

However when it's obvious I'm fishing for a compliment I want them to bite. Example...my outfit doesn't look so good but he tells me I look gorgeous in it.

Or if I'm not the best sex he's ever had but he insists I am.

Stuff like that....just lie to me.

The truth is only going to hurt me and nothing good is going to come out of it.

White lies are good.

However anything else should be straight up honesty.


Not according to truthmom:

exactly. So wether it's a small or big or whatever, a lie is a lie is a lie...TOODLES


Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: newmom on June 26, 2011, 04:37:31 AM
2 different women, 2 different rules
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on June 26, 2011, 12:12:51 PM
ROFL.  Sadly I have no woman as they are all evil.  My friend was telling me about how his wife and her friend reacted after her friends husband was telling a story of hois past.  Needless to say my firned kept his sordid past quiet.  I need me a woman...wheres w8m8...with my sammich

LOL  .. I agree some women can be evil

Wonder if your friend thinks his past is worse than it really was ?

I am making a meatloaf sammich and sweet potato fries for dinner migs .. last nite I made a sharp cheddar cheese stuffed meatlaof and topped it with BBQ sauce .. yummmm 
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on June 26, 2011, 07:51:52 PM
LOL  .. I agree some women can be evil

Wonder if your friend thinks his past is worse than it really was ?

I am making a meatloaf sammich and sweet potato fries for dinner migs .. last nite I made a sharp cheddar cheese stuffed meatlaof and topped it with BBQ sauce .. yummmm 

 :'(


come


over


pleae
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: YoungBlood on June 26, 2011, 08:40:00 PM
Mmmmmmmmmmmm I have to comment on this.
I have noticed that woman have a strict set of rules for men, but a very forgiving set of guidelines for themselves.
Woman even have different standards of honesty, infedelity, rules for going out, rules for friends etc, one for men, one for woman.

So what RM says only works if there is ONE set of rules ............ but there is not, so it never works.

This.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: YoungBlood on June 26, 2011, 08:43:26 PM
White lies are good.

Where is the line crossed for you?
When you ask if you look fat in a pair of jeans? If you suck at planning events? If you can't make an appointment on time to save your life?
What is the difference, for you, between a white lie and a regular lie?
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Cliff Clavin on June 26, 2011, 09:13:44 PM
100 percent. It may sting, but if i catch even a little small lie, I'm out.

Vice Versa.

u''ll be single for life with that criteria...no one is 100% honest all the time and if u expect such u will die a lonely old shriveled up hag...
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: BikiniSlut on June 26, 2011, 11:32:17 PM
2 different women, 2 different rules

Yep. No single person will agree on this issue!

Doesn't make someone right or wrong....people just have different opinions and different wants.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: BikiniSlut on June 26, 2011, 11:36:02 PM
Where is the line crossed for you?
When you ask if you look fat in a pair of jeans? If you suck at planning events? If you can't make an appointment on time to save your life?
What is the difference, for you, between a white lie and a regular lie?

That depends on the individual situation.

However after time my man should be able to figure out when I'm fishing for compliments or when I really want the truth.
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on June 27, 2011, 05:18:45 AM
:'(


come


over


pleae

migs !! .. I would be there in a flash if I lived by you .. we'd have fun I can tell !!  ;)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on June 27, 2011, 06:53:50 AM
migs !! .. I would be there in a flash if I lived by you .. we'd have fun I can tell !!  ;)


 :o


teaser

 >:(
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on June 27, 2011, 07:09:57 AM

 :o


teaser

 >:(

no .. it was honest  :(
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on June 27, 2011, 07:22:50 AM
 :o

heart breaker!

 :'(

 >:(
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Agnostic007 on July 04, 2011, 01:05:55 PM
If men were 100% honest with women all the time the divorce rate would be 98%. Think about it.... every little thing that has crossed your mind, if your woman asks you "What are you thinking?" And you honestly answered every time, life would be hell.
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Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: CalvinH on July 05, 2011, 06:00:50 AM

 :o


teaser

 >:(



She'd spend all day ignoring you and playing with puppet ;)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on July 05, 2011, 01:37:10 PM


She'd spend all day ignoring you and playing with puppet ;)

he works all day so my ignoring him wouldn't even be noticed .. so there  8)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on July 05, 2011, 05:15:55 PM
ya'll cut deep
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on July 06, 2011, 05:06:47 AM
Clavin is not being nice  :-[



All I was saying is that while you were hard at work elsewhere .. I would be waiting for you making your dinner , drawing you a nice bath and keeping the puppet company

It could be said I was ignoring you by doing that .. but no harm is caused because you would be busy working hard and I would devote my attention to you when you were home


If you lived in Hillbilly Haven NY or I lived down south I mean  :)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on July 06, 2011, 04:28:36 PM
Clavin is not being nice  :-[



All I was saying is that while you were hard at work elsewhere .. I would be waiting for you making your dinner , drawing you a nice bath and keeping the puppet company

It could be said I was ignoring you by doing that .. but no harm is caused because you would be busy working hard and I would devote my attention to you when you were home


If you lived in Hillbilly Haven NY or I lived down south I mean  :)





 :'(
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on July 06, 2011, 04:48:38 PM
:'(

awww man .. What did I say bad now ?.. I'm not saying another word in this thread .. things just go from bad to worse in here  :-[
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on July 06, 2011, 08:31:55 PM
it's not you, it's me.   ;D

actually just had a couple of low days and been stressed out over a real estate deal that is going south for my client
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: CalvinH on July 07, 2011, 06:13:23 AM
awww man .. What did I say bad now ?.. I'm not saying another word in this thread .. things just go from bad to worse in here  :-[



You said you'd rather spend all day with puppet then him.


......just like I said ;)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on July 07, 2011, 08:36:10 AM
you can pull on my puppet bitches
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on July 07, 2011, 10:04:36 AM


You said you'd rather spend all day with puppet then him.


......just like I said ;)

no I did not say any such thing  >:( :P

you can pull on my puppet bitches

I'm not gonna say what I'm thinking  ;D
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on July 07, 2011, 12:03:45 PM

I'm not gonna say what I'm thinking  ;D


 ;D

go ahead and say it.. Or PM me with waht you were going to say and add in some naughty pics   :)
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: nzmusclemonster on July 07, 2011, 02:19:36 PM
what if a dude went out and pounded some ..... would you want him to tell you
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: w8m8 on July 07, 2011, 05:44:31 PM
what if a dude went out and pounded some pussy..... would you want him to tell you

I would rather he told than hear it from someone else .. what's done is done .. no acceptable reason to not just tell and deal with it
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Cliff Clavin on July 08, 2011, 03:26:12 PM
I told my ol lady if she ever withheld for more than a month a would be lookin elsewhere for it...we have sex 3-4 times a week and have for years...

these women who get into the habit of withholding sex on any kind of consistent basis deserve what they get...
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Butterbean on July 09, 2011, 09:25:12 AM
 :)

Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: xxxLinda on July 09, 2011, 02:58:50 PM
I have issues with honesty, as I've always been honest.

I find it extremely difficult to tell a lie.


I've recently decided that most peeps nowadays will treat honest people like me as if they've a low IQ, because they mistakenly think it's clever to lie and be dishonest and to connive.  That's they way they're taught?

I can't figure it out and it irks me so very much.  Dishonesty has become the norm.

xL

I can't watch the telly nowadays, the Politicians, the Media?  They all lie.  They're corrupt.
Not a one of them could define how to be honest, nor will they try to.  They can't be bothered as lying works for them.


I feel sorry for kids nowadays
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: Migs on July 09, 2011, 03:00:15 PM
:)



 ;D


she's much fater no wlol
Title: Re: Honesty
Post by: xxxLinda on July 09, 2011, 03:13:00 PM
In response to your original blokey query on the girly board:


Migs darling?  Us girls know lies.  We can see them coming.  We just put up with them and judge others by the way in which they tell them...


xLinda
take care?

I'd suggest you never fib and accept that they'll think you're not clever.  Better surely than being a lier?