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Title: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:04:41 AM
I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

situation 1:
*having a drink with friends outside of bar
*go in bar, bar tenders don't serve me, are occupied chatting up the girls
*leave bar, get drink at night shop and drink it with my buddies outside the bar (buddies have drinks from the bar)
*bar tender comes out of the bar, gives me an attitude, says "this is our property" (meaning dont bring your own drinks)
*i say well if you serve drinks then i wouldn't have needed to go and buy elsewhere
*he says "well if you're gonna be like that" and grabs my hand holding my drink (in a can) and squeezes it and sprays the drink all over my shirt (i look all nasty now)

at this point i was sooooo angry but at the same time i knew that if i punched him or whatever i could get into legal problems again (in the past i was more wreckless and went for the violence option in similar situations)

so all i could do was insult him but he just seemed to get off on my anger

situation2:
*i found a job for my girlfriend in a bar owned by my friend's girlfriend
*she serves drinks there and does dishes
*one day after work i go there when her shift is about to finish
*some asshole is talking to her like she's a black whore (not even trying to chat her up, really talking to her like she's a whore who will not need fake friendlyness just crude remarks)
*my friend's girlfriend (who owns the bar) tells the guy to shut up and says she's my girlfriend
*the guy who is like 10 years older than me says something like  "how old are you..blabla..don't think she's going to be your last one blabla"

what he said was not so special but the way he said it and the attitude made me fill with the question again "i should be beating him up but since that's illegal what can i do to degrade him and regain respect?"


i wonder...

is there a good solution or just deal with it and try to forget about it?
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: apply85 on September 08, 2011, 08:07:07 AM
The first situation, why the hell did you go buy a drink instead of getting the bar tender's attention, the second... who gives a shit, some drunk idiot talking shit in a bar, I'd make fun of him or something, though usually I just ignore it go on about my business and get pissed later
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:08:40 AM
The first situation, why the hell did you go buy a drink instead of getting the bar tender's attention, the second... who gives a shit, some drunk idiot talking shit in a bar, I'd make fun of him or something, though usually I just ignore it go on about my business and get pissed later

zhack khan says you should memorize these situations and relive them before a heavy set so you can rage at the weight


tried that yesterday but it was very draining psychologically
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: 240 is Back on September 08, 2011, 08:10:43 AM
youre supposed to walk up behind the girls with which the bartender is engaged.

this gives you an opening with the chicks, as you are physically close enough to check each other out...

and it gives the bartender the motivation to serve you AS FAST AS POSSIBLE because you're stealing his thunder.

;)
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Swede! on September 08, 2011, 08:11:42 AM
situation 1:
*having a drink with friends outside of bar
*go in bar, bar tenders don't serve me, are occupied chatting up the girls

* say, "HEEY bartender?!" he responds since both him and the girls realises whats going on and you get your drink.


you should ofc have hit the bartender though.. in america isn't what he did Assault? and you have the right to defend yourself? you could have hit him in the stomach or kicked him in the nuts if you didnt want it to look bad. Or as he left his shift
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:12:37 AM
now i can't stop thinking up revenge scenarios for dealing with the bar tender

as long as i can find a legal way to have great revenge, why not


but i can't come up with ideas


HELP
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: MONSTER_TRICEPS on September 08, 2011, 08:12:44 AM
HAHA  ;D You guys must be 5'5 beasts if you're getting owned like that.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: 240 is Back on September 08, 2011, 08:13:50 AM
*the guy who is like 10 years older than me says something like  "how old are you..blabla..don't think she's going to be your last one blabla"

Situation 2...

remind him that he's going bald and everyone in the room knows his dick doesn't work like it used to.  Remind him loudly.

Then point out that you're enjoying "your turn" with her, and that his old ass is jealous he's not doing so well.  have some fun with it!  laugh and point at him.  introduce him to the bar as a local firefighter (so people will nod and root for him) then point out he was the first in his firehouse to openly serve gay, which took a lot of courage.  

Or, insult his chick for her looks, and get him to swing on you in front of witnesses.  Pummel him, then sue him for his meager savings.  
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Swede! on September 08, 2011, 08:15:29 AM
ntroduce him to the bar as a local firefighter (so people will nod and root for him) then point out he was the first in his firehouse to openly serve gay, which took a lot of courage.   

hahahahahahahahaha
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:19:31 AM
HAHA  ;D You guys must be 5'5 beasts if you're getting owned like that.

i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it
(http://oi52.tinypic.com/10rmg45.jpg)
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: LurkerNoMore on September 08, 2011, 08:21:27 AM
240 Has the best advice. 

/End of thread.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Swlabr on September 08, 2011, 08:25:03 AM
i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it
(http://oi52.tinypic.com/10rmg45.jpg)

ahahahaha

Should've punched that punchable face, bro.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Bad Boy Dazza on September 08, 2011, 08:25:12 AM
Stop hanging out at bars?
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:26:51 AM
ahahahaha

Should've punched that punchable face, bro.

yeah i really wanted to but there were a lot of witnesses and a bouncer and police in the area on patrol etc etc


50% of me says punch his lights out doooo ittttt!!!!!

50% says noooooo don't do it!!!!!


so torn
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Swede! on September 08, 2011, 08:29:27 AM
yeah i really wanted to but there were a lot of witnesses and a bouncer and police in the area on patrol etc etc


50% of me says punch his lights out doooo ittttt!!!!!

50% says noooooo don't do it!!!!!


so torn

punch and leave fast as fuck
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely har
Post by: Parker on September 08, 2011, 08:30:06 AM
Situation #2, your girl is a whore, deal with it. If she didn't call him on it, and took it, then she knows it. Plus, she serves drinks, or is a bartender...meaning her ass get drunk, drunk girls are easy girls...easy girls are whores, follow the logic? Now, not all servers and bartenders are whores, but the ones that allow dudes ro talk to her like she is, certainly are...

And I never knew there was a diff way to talk to black whore vs a white one. Hmm, you learn something new everyday.

#1, WTF are you bringing your own drink after you couldn't get the bartender's attention? What are you a Simp?

And it seems that you have a lot of issues dealing with drinking period.

So
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: 240 is Back on September 08, 2011, 08:33:06 AM
seeing his pic... you can't even get mad at a kid like that.

I mean, he's a skinny douche working in a bar.  His life is crap already.  He's a small fish in a small bowl.  He lives on $3.00 an hour plus tips and works crap hours.

The look in your eye should remind him that you own him already.  He's SERVING you.  He's your bitch already.  

WTF are you doing in bars anyway?  Get on FB, invite over 3 different girls, on 5-6 nights each week.  Entertain them with rented movies on your big screen TV, have sex and remind them of your 1:30 am "curfew" so they don't get any silly ideas about staying and entering girlfriend territory.  make your money in the day and have fun once the sun goes down.  Don't sweat the little people like this "beer mule".  He ain't shit - and he knows it.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on September 08, 2011, 08:38:22 AM
240 is A OK.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:39:03 AM
seeing his pic... you can't even get mad at a kid like that.

I mean, he's a skinny douche working in a bar.  His life is crap already.  He's a small fish in a small bowl.  He lives on $3.00 an hour plus tips and works crap hours.

The look in your eye should remind him that you own him already.  He's SERVING you.  He's your bitch already.  

WTF are you doing in bars anyway?  Get on FB, invite over 3 different girls, on 5-6 nights each week.  Entertain them with rented movies on your big screen TV, have sex and remind them of your 1:30 am "curfew" so they don't get any silly ideas about staying and entering girlfriend territory.  make your money in the day and have fun once the sun goes down.  Don't sweat the little people like this "beer mule".  He ain't shit - and he knows it.


well i tried affecting his self esteem by shouting at him that it's not my fault he's  waitress and that he shouldn't take it out on me etc

but he seemed to enjoy my anger

still i hope it affected him
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on September 08, 2011, 08:40:48 AM
personally I would have stabbed him in the throat.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Bad Boy Dazza on September 08, 2011, 08:41:33 AM
He was hoping to piss you off so that you would throw a punch.  At that point he was planning to beat you to a pulp.  You see your muscles did not impress him.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: LurkerNoMore on September 08, 2011, 08:42:11 AM
seeing his pic... you can't even get mad at a kid like that.

I mean, he's a skinny douche working in a bar.  His life is crap already.  He's a small fish in a small bowl.  He lives on $3.00 an hour plus tips and works crap hours.

The look in your eye should remind him that you own him already.  He's SERVING you.  He's your bitch already.  

WTF are you doing in bars anyway?  Get on FB, invite over 3 different girls, on 5-6 nights each week.  Entertain them with rented movies on your big screen TV, have sex and remind them of your 1:30 am "curfew" so they don't get any silly ideas about staying and entering girlfriend territory.  make your money in the day and have fun once the sun goes down.  Don't sweat the little people like this "beer mule".  He ain't shit - and he knows it.

All that needs to be said
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely har
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:42:16 AM
Situation #2, your girl is a whore, deal with it. If she didn't call him on it, and took it, then she knows it. Plus, she serves drinks, or is a bartender...meaning her ass get drunk, drunk girls are easy girls...easy girls are whores, follow the logic? Now, not all servers and bartenders are whores, but the ones that allow dudes ro talk to her like she is, certainly are...

And I never knew there was a diff way to talk to black whore vs a white one. Hmm, you learn something new everyday.

#1, WTF are you bringing your own drink after you couldn't get the bartender's attention? What are you a Simp?

And it seems that you have a lot of issues dealing with drinking period.

So

what a fucking moron you are.


and yes you can tell a lot of white idiots talk to black women like they're inferior just because some black prostitutes are cheaper than whites and because these morons can only get with prostitutes they take it out on the non-prostitutes


whatever you clueless bastard
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Tapeworm on September 08, 2011, 08:42:30 AM
Stop hanging out at bars?

Sense at last.  Thank you.

Alcohol fueled social environments are chock full of numbnuts.  Learn to let it not matter or don't be there.  I see a state issue jumpsuit in your future.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Swlabr on September 08, 2011, 08:43:54 AM
u are 1 ****ing cheeky kunt mate i swear i am goin 2 wreck u i swear on my mums life and i no u are scared lil bitch gettin your mates to send me messages saying dont meet up coz u r sum big bastard with muscles lol ****in sad mate really sad jus shows what a scared lil gay boy u are and whats all this crap ur mates sendin me about sum bodybuildin website that 1 of your faverite places to look at men u lil ****in gay boy fone me if u got da balls cheeky prick see if u can step up lil queer
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:45:14 AM
He was hoping to piss you off so that you would throw a punch.  At that point he was planning to beat you to a pulp.  You see your muscles did not impress him.
if only ronnie coleman was with me  :-\
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: bike nut on September 08, 2011, 08:45:35 AM
i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it
(http://oi52.tinypic.com/10rmg45.jpg)

I honestly think this bartender would slap you semi-conscious, shit in your mouth and leave you laying on the sidewalk.

Tough guy.

 ::)
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on September 08, 2011, 08:47:24 AM
(http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/44744000/jpg/_44744073_brad512.jpg)
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: StanZoLOL on September 08, 2011, 08:50:02 AM
HAHA  ;D You guys must be 5'5 beasts if you're getting owned like that.

x2. I can't believe anyone who lifts fairly regularly would get treated like this.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Tito24 on September 08, 2011, 08:50:39 AM
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:51:39 AM
x2. I can't believe anyone who lifts fairly regularly would get treated like this.

i can't believe it either!!!
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:58:56 AM
so guys... i really liked going to that bar, it has all the young high school girls and my buddies are often there


can i still go back there now?


the bouncer felt bad for me and respected my restraint, so i expect no problems from that perspective
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: DukeX on September 08, 2011, 09:08:26 AM
I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

situation 1:
*having a drink with friends outside of bar
*go in bar, bar tenders don't serve me, are occupied chatting up the girls
*leave bar, get drink at night shop and drink it with my buddies outside the bar (buddies have drinks from the bar)
*bar tender comes out of the bar, gives me an attitude, says "this is our property" (meaning dont bring your own drinks)
*i say well if you serve drinks then i wouldn't have needed to go and buy elsewhere
*he says "well if you're gonna be like that" and grabs my hand holding my drink (in a can) and squeezes it and sprays the drink all over my shirt (i look all nasty now)

at this point i was sooooo angry but at the same time i knew that if i punched him or whatever i could get into legal problems again (in the past i was more wreckless and went for the violence option in similar situations)

so all i could do was insult him but he just seemed to get off on my anger

situation2:
*i found a job for my girlfriend in a bar owned by my friend's girlfriend
*she serves drinks there and does dishes
*one day after work i go there when her shift is about to finish
*some asshole is talking to her like she's a black whore (not even trying to chat her up, really talking to her like she's a whore who will not need fake friendlyness just crude remarks)
*my friend's girlfriend (who owns the bar) tells the guy to shut up and says she's my girlfriend
*the guy who is like 10 years older than me says something like  "how old are you..blabla..don't think she's going to be your last one blabla"

what he said was not so special but the way he said it and the attitude made me fill with the question again "i should be beating him up but since that's illegal what can i do to degrade him and regain respect?"


i wonder...

is there a good solution or just deal with it and try to forget about it?

1. do the unexpected, dismiss a battleship with a wave and a smile
2. this goes too far for the unexpected, glass the c*nt instead

 ;D
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Swlabr on September 08, 2011, 09:11:04 AM
The sad thing is that the bartender probably got laid that night, whereas our friend here went to bed alone thinking up revenge scenarios.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 09:11:54 AM
The sad thing is that the bartender probably got laid that night, whereas our friend here went to bed alone thinking up revenge scenarios.
highly unlikely, he is unattractive and these chumps can't close untill 7 am
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: ManBearPig... on September 08, 2011, 09:18:56 AM
highly unlikely, he is unattractive and these chumps can't close untill 7 am

whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: apply85 on September 08, 2011, 09:20:44 AM
yeah I don't think either of these scenarios actually happened
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: kiwiol on September 08, 2011, 09:22:02 AM
(http://oi52.tinypic.com/10rmg45.jpg)(http://images.wikia.com/firefly/images/b/b8/Nathan_Fillion-100.jpg)

That's not Nathan Fillion
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 09:23:48 AM
whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.
what persona is that?


gimmick? u mean like charles glass?
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Army of One on September 08, 2011, 10:07:08 AM
Honestly,Id have punched them both
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 10:13:53 AM
Honestly,Id have punched them both

i would have too in the past, but after being busted for some shit like that a few times i had to do community service and probation and legal fees and this and that

i broke the law then the law broke me  :-\
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Dr Dutch on September 08, 2011, 10:14:27 AM
i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it

All the trouble and energy you put in this..... :-[

"Living well is the best revenge"

Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Dr Dutch on September 08, 2011, 10:16:17 AM
I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

I often wonder: WWWHD ?

Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: LurkerNoMore on September 08, 2011, 10:25:12 AM
whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.

Jumpstart
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 08, 2011, 10:35:08 AM
punch and leave fast as fuck

You are the kind of little weasel that would do that, hit the guy out of nowhere and run away.....because you didn't get your drink fast enough

What would happen is the bartender, basically unfazed by your pathetic little "punch"....would signal to the bouncer that you hit him for no reason and you are trying to leave like a pussy.   the bouncer would grab you by your collar and lift you off the ground like a puppy.....take you out back and beat the living shit out of you. As you tried to "submit" the arm he is punching you in the face with.  LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 08, 2011, 10:39:20 AM
whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.

The same douche that runs all of these naive "sad sack" gimmicks...don't know who, but they are all the same. 
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: ManBearPig... on September 08, 2011, 10:47:07 AM
The same douche that runs all of these naive "sad sack" gimmicks...don't know who, but they are all the same. 

like Marty whatever?

Jumpstart


i lold
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Man of Steel on September 08, 2011, 10:47:42 AM
If you're big enough already no one messes with you.....my advice is to get big.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: RustyTrenbolona on September 08, 2011, 10:51:07 AM
dude, just think of the 100,000,000 euro dollas sittin in ur bank collecting interest yearly (even if it is only 2 percent) and smile a fat smile ;D ;D
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Mick33 on September 08, 2011, 10:52:43 AM
now i can't stop thinking up revenge scenarios for dealing with the bar tender

as long as i can find a legal way to have great revenge, why not


but i can't come up with ideas


HELP

If you did not have the nerve to slip a quick little jab to his nose and make him bleed, stop thinking about it now because it is probably just a waste of your time.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 11:14:38 AM
If you're big enough already no one messes with you.....my advice is to get big.


are you telling me to become a drug addict?


because that's what is required to get big
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: RustyTrenbolona on September 08, 2011, 11:16:11 AM
dude you lazy or what? now you quit lifting cause you read the bible? how bout you up your food intake and train hard 5 times a week.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 11:17:31 AM
dude you lazy or what? now you quit lifting cause you read the bible? how bout you up your food intake and train hard 5 times a week.

http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/muscle-gain/whats-my-genetic-muscular-potential.html
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: StanZoLOL on September 08, 2011, 11:24:26 AM
What would happen is the bartender, basically unfazed by your pathetic little "punch"....would signal to the bouncer that you hit him for no reason and you are trying to leave like a pussy.   the bouncer would grab you by your collar and lift you off the ground like a puppy.....take you out back and beat the living shit out of you. As you tried to "submit" the arm he is punching you in the face with.  LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

 :D
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: RustyTrenbolona on September 08, 2011, 11:32:20 AM
http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/muscle-gain/whats-my-genetic-muscular-potential.html

according to that model you can gain 45 pounds of lean muscle in 4 years. Plus, there will prolly be another 15 lbs of fat mixed in there. so that s 60 lbs. Unless you began at 120 lbs, that should be enough to prevent that tiny weency little twink bar tender to think twice before grabbing your wrist.  ???
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 01:28:27 PM
according to that model you can gain 45 pounds of lean muscle in 4 years. Plus, there will prolly be another 15 lbs of fat mixed in there. so that s 60 lbs. Unless you began at 120 lbs, that should be enough to prevent that tiny weency little twink bar tender to think twice before grabbing your wrist.  ???
i'm 190lbs and i'm not gaining anything these days, just small increases in muscle quality and strength
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: D.O.U.P on September 08, 2011, 02:07:12 PM
I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

situation 1:
*having a drink with friends outside of bar
*go in bar, bar tenders don't serve me, are occupied chatting up the girls
*leave bar, get drink at night shop and drink it with my buddies outside the bar (buddies have drinks from the bar)
*bar tender comes out of the bar, gives me an attitude, says "this is our property" (meaning dont bring your own drinks)
*i say well if you serve drinks then i wouldn't have needed to go and buy elsewhere
*he says "well if you're gonna be like that" and grabs my hand holding my drink (in a can) and squeezes it and sprays the drink all over my shirt (i look all nasty now)

at this point i was sooooo angry but at the same time i knew that if i punched him or whatever i could get into legal problems again (in the past i was more wreckless and went for the violence option in similar situations)

so all i could do was insult him but he just seemed to get off on my anger

situation2:
*i found a job for my girlfriend in a bar owned by my friend's girlfriend
*she serves drinks there and does dishes
*one day after work i go there when her shift is about to finish
*some asshole is talking to her like she's a black whore (not even trying to chat her up, really talking to her like she's a whore who will not need fake friendlyness just crude remarks)
*my friend's girlfriend (who owns the bar) tells the guy to shut up and says she's my girlfriend
*the guy who is like 10 years older than me says something like  "how old are you..blabla..don't think she's going to be your last one blabla"

what he said was not so special but the way he said it and the attitude made me fill with the question again "i should be beating him up but since that's illegal what can i do to degrade him and regain respect?"


i wonder...

is there a good solution or just deal with it and try to forget about it?

Simple response.

SMILE BIG. THROW THIS BASTARD A MASSIVE SMILE.

It destroys people, especially knats like that.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Howard on September 08, 2011, 02:20:00 PM
The first situation, why the hell did you go buy a drink instead of getting the bar tender's attention, the second... who gives a shit, some drunk idiot talking shit in a bar, I'd make fun of him or something, though usually I just ignore it go on about my business and get pissed later
Good post and advice.
Unless some idiot is an actual threat, here is my basic philosophy via this example.

You are driving by a group of gang thugs and one of them yells some shit at your car.
While you might be tempted to say something back, but, I just ignore them and keep  driving.
Within a minute this trivial incident won't even be a memory and my happy life goes as usual.
 Meanwhile back the corner the thugs are yelling at another car . They are hopeful some pissed off drives starts some shit with them.
If nobody reacts to them, they don't have much else to do except look at eachother and be bored.

It is like those "you have been served" street dance challenges.
If someone challenged me to a dance off, I would tell them to start and go first and then walk off and laugh about it.

I do the same thing on forums too, like getbig.
If things get too negative or silly I just ignore it and avoid the forum for a few days.

If are happy and content with your own life, you have no desire to be around those who are losers that just want to start shit for some exceitement.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Man of Steel on September 08, 2011, 03:46:14 PM

are you telling me to become a drug addict?


because that's what is required to get big

lift heavier weights consistently over time and eat more protein......you're welcome.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: bike nut on September 08, 2011, 03:48:29 PM

"I just ignore it and avoid the forum for a few days."

Pretty please with sugar on it.   ::)

Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Natural Man on September 08, 2011, 03:52:56 PM
seeing his pic... you can't even get mad at a kid like that.

I mean, he's a skinny douche working in a bar.  His life is crap already.  He's a small fish in a small bowl.  He lives on $3.00 an hour plus tips and works crap hours.

The look in your eye should remind him that you own him already.  He's SERVING you.  He's your bitch already.  

WTF are you doing in bars anyway?  Get on FB, invite over 3 different girls, on 5-6 nights each week.  Entertain them with rented movies on your big screen TV, have sex and remind them of your 1:30 am "curfew" so they don't get any silly ideas about staying and entering girlfriend territory.  make your money in the day and have fun once the sun goes down.  Don't sweat the little people like this "beer mule".  He ain't shit - and he knows it.
how are the wife and kids doing rob?
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Natural Man on September 08, 2011, 03:56:43 PM
If you're big enough already no one messes with you.....my advice is to get big.
ha, now we know why men get on steroids.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: DukeX on September 08, 2011, 04:02:18 PM
If you're big enough already no one messes with you.....my advice is to get big.

Massively false, or maybe it's only true in America...
Have you heard of Australian Conan Stevens? He stands 7 feet tall, weights 320 pounds, used to work as a bouncer...
He documents some vivid stories on his personal blog about all the tw*ts that felt challenged by his size and tried to bait him over the years
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: StanZoLOL on September 08, 2011, 04:49:08 PM
Massively false, or maybe it's only true in America...
Have you heard of Australian Conan Stevens? He stands 7 feet tall, weights 320 pounds, used to work as a bouncer...
He documents some vivid stories on his personal blog about all the tw*ts that felt challenged by his size and tried to bait him over the years

That's the same everywhere. But the type who try and bait him aren't like that pathetic twink bartender.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely har
Post by: Parker on September 08, 2011, 04:54:39 PM
what a fucking moron you are.


and yes you can tell a lot of white idiots talk to black women like they're inferior just because some black prostitutes are cheaper than whites and because these morons can only get with prostitutes they take it out on the non-prostitutes


whatever you clueless bastard
Obviously you know a lot about talking to hookers---also you said some, which doesn't mean all

you can find a 5 dollar ho' that is a ghetto crack head, and you can find a 5 dollar Becky that lives in the 'burbs, but is a pillhead...

Quit being a herb and a simp, stop hanging out at bars, and dealing with drunk hos (your girlfriend).
Seems like that's about all you do, got any DUIs?
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: no one on September 08, 2011, 05:44:30 PM
i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it
(http://oi52.tinypic.com/10rmg45.jpg)

if this clown punked you out you just owned yourself twice as badly by posting his pic 'purenatualpansy'.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely har
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 08, 2011, 08:19:47 PM
Obviously you know a lot about talking to hookers---also you said some, which doesn't mean all

you can find a 5 dollar ho' that is a ghetto crack head, and you can find a 5 dollar Becky that lives in the 'burbs, but is a pillhead...

Quit being a herb and a simp, stop hanging out at bars, and dealing with drunk hos (your girlfriend).
Seems like that's about all you do, got any DUIs?

you have some serious issues with women, calling people's girlfriends whores over the internets
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely har
Post by: Parker on September 08, 2011, 10:00:56 PM
you have some serious issues with women, calling people's girlfriends whores over the internets
Sorry, your girlfriend is a bigger man than you. Ok now? Now ask her to  :-*  your boo-boo.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Man of Steel on September 09, 2011, 07:02:11 AM
Massively false, or maybe it's only true in America...
Have you heard of Australian Conan Stevens? He stands 7 feet tall, weights 320 pounds, used to work as a bouncer...
He documents some vivid stories on his personal blog about all the tw*ts that felt challenged by his size and tried to bait him over the years

So it's massively false because you have a single example of an exception?  You show me 10,000 exceptions and I'll show you 1,000,000 that fit the standard.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on September 09, 2011, 07:08:24 AM
What the fuck is wrong with you
Contact your local psycho, who usually happen to be drug addicts and will do anything for a few hundred quid, have him petrol bomb the clowns car while you are on cctv in the cinema or in a bar with friends, clearly having nothing to do with it
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: RustyTrenbolona on September 09, 2011, 07:15:03 AM
What the fuck is wrong with you
Contact your local psycho, who usually happen to be drug addicts and will do anything for a few hundred quid, have him petrol bomb the clowns car while you are on cctv in the cinema or in a bar with friends, clearly having nothing to do with it

but then you gotta kill the drug addict to silence him
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: andreisdaman on September 09, 2011, 07:16:43 AM
Situation 2

Just stay quiet ..begin to tense up and prepare to fight......look at him every few seconds but say nothing....he will begin to get scared inside due to your silence....he is trying to get a rise out of you..don't fall for it..just relax, stay cool but be prepared and keep an eye on him so that you don't get sucker-punched

By you not reacting he will begin to doubt himself.........he will leave you alone and you will gain respect because people will see you were prepared to fight but didn't back down or feed into his nonsense.....

HOWEVER

if you feel that a fight is imminent because the asshole continues to spout nonsense, then do the above....stay calm and then sucker=punch him while he is in mid sentence.....your punch will hurt more if you hit him while his mouth is open and you may even break his jaw which will increase your rep big time and get you some nice pussy by your girl for defending her and by the other women in the bar in the future.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on September 09, 2011, 07:30:11 AM
Stop hanging out at bars?

THIS


Absolute waste of time....













....unless it's a rock bar and there is a good band playing, of course.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Ursus on September 09, 2011, 08:10:20 AM
Walking througha  shopping mall 4 chavs behind me we puffing their chests out and swinging their arms like they lift weights taking the piss out of me. It was embarrassing for me so I just stopped and told them to fucking grow up then they walked off embarrassed themselves no one said a word noone even shouted "specky" or a random insult. In hindsight if they wanted they could have battered me I just caught them off guard and they were all small.

Then I literally walked into Holland & Barrett and bought protein lol

I do not want to get into a fight in public like a scumbag but that just made me a wee bit frustrated and embarrassed, i knew the second I walked past them they were going to do it so I turned round to catch them.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: MONSTER_TRICEPS on September 09, 2011, 08:48:42 AM
HAHA you sure showed them "ursus" hahahaha.  ;Di
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: polychronopolous on September 09, 2011, 08:50:35 AM
You are the kind of little weasel that would do that, hit the guy out of nowhere and run away.....because you didn't get your drink fast enough

What would happen is the bartender, basically unfazed by your pathetic little "punch"....would signal to the bouncer that you hit him for no reason and you are trying to leave like a pussy.   the bouncer would grab you by your collar and lift you off the ground like a puppy.....take you out back and beat the living shit out of you. As you tried to "submit" the arm he is punching you in the face with.  LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

ROFLMAO!!!

It's funny because it's so true ;D

Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: 240 is Back on September 11, 2011, 12:18:39 PM
I asked a girl to buy her a drink, she had I have a boyfriend, so I said, well i have a goldfish, she said what? I replied, oh I'm sorry I thought we were talking about shit that doesnt matter.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: tbombz on September 11, 2011, 12:24:28 PM
Walking througha  shopping mall 4 chavs behind me we puffing their chests out and swinging their arms like they lift weights taking the piss out of me. It was embarrassing for me so I just stopped and told them to fucking grow up then they walked off embarrassed themselves no one said a word noone even shouted "specky" or a random insult. In hindsight if they wanted they could have battered me I just caught them off guard and they were all small.

Then I literally walked into Holland & Barrett and bought protein lol

I do not want to get into a fight in public like a scumbag but that just made me a wee bit frustrated and embarrassed, i knew the second I walked past them they were going to do it so I turned round to catch them.
why are you such a little bitch all the time ursus? they could have battered you? wtf is that shit? you scared all four of them, they are small..  uve been reading too many mma threads on getbig havent you..
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Army of One on September 11, 2011, 02:32:25 PM
I have a memory like an Elephant, some guy decided to try it on with my girl at the time, and in front of me, I didnt lift then, was only around 150, the guy was around 185, typical weekend warrior.I didnt make a scene just went over and she quickly ran to me and we walked off.Next week I went in there without her and wrapped a pool cue round his head then choked him over the table, he never looked at me after.Even if its 10 years later I dont forget anything.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Wiggs on September 11, 2011, 02:42:33 PM
I will not read your question or comment. The only correct answer is Option D.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Meso_z on September 11, 2011, 03:03:48 PM
Disrespect them back.

Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Ursus on September 11, 2011, 05:02:18 PM
why are you such a little bitch all the time ursus? they could have battered you? wtf is that shit? you scared all four of them, they are small..  uve been reading too many mma threads on getbig havent you..

They 'could'.

4 vs 1. No muscles on your chin. I am always cautious and realistic.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: tbombz on September 12, 2011, 04:59:15 PM
They 'could'.

4 vs 1. No muscles on your chin. I am always cautious and realistic.
you sound like a pathetic bitch
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Reeves on September 12, 2011, 05:08:29 PM
you sound like a pathetic bitch

You do realize just how pathetic this reads coming from a self professed bottom bitch like yourself, right?

Of course you do... :-X
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Ursus on September 12, 2011, 07:02:25 PM
you sound like a pathetic bitch

Says the man who has never been in a real fight.

Must be all the testosterone you are shooting is giving you that bravado, well pride comes before a fall. You may have 17.5" arms and a 48" chest but you have ZERO muscles on your chin. Nor do I want the inconvenience or hassle that comes with fighting in a shopping centre. If it happens I will defend myself. i will not instigate it over something what happened to me.

I have done the door 6 years and no one has hit me yet. I dare say you and that idiotic behaviour of yours would get you smacked within a month. But I forget you are 245lbs so no one can beat you up. Right?
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Fortress on September 12, 2011, 07:37:30 PM
the bouncer would grab you by your collar and lift you off the ground like a puppy.....take you out back and beat the living shit out of you. As you tried to "submit" the arm he is punching you in the face with.

 ;D
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: DK II on September 12, 2011, 07:40:47 PM
I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

situation 1:
*having a drink with friends outside of bar
*go in bar, bar tenders don't serve me, are occupied chatting up the girls
*leave bar, get drink at night shop and drink it with my buddies outside the bar (buddies have drinks from the bar)
*bar tender comes out of the bar, gives me an attitude, says "this is our property" (meaning dont bring your own drinks)
*i say well if you serve drinks then i wouldn't have needed to go and buy elsewhere
*he says "well if you're gonna be like that" and grabs my hand holding my drink (in a can) and squeezes it and sprays the drink all over my shirt (i look all nasty now)

at this point i was sooooo angry but at the same time i knew that if i punched him or whatever i could get into legal problems again (in the past i was more wreckless and went for the violence option in similar situations)

so all i could do was insult him but he just seemed to get off on my anger

situation2:
*i found a job for my girlfriend in a bar owned by my friend's girlfriend
*she serves drinks there and does dishes
*one day after work i go there when her shift is about to finish
*some asshole is talking to her like she's a black whore (not even trying to chat her up, really talking to her like she's a whore who will not need fake friendlyness just crude remarks)
*my friend's girlfriend (who owns the bar) tells the guy to shut up and says she's my girlfriend
*the guy who is like 10 years older than me says something like  "how old are you..blabla..don't think she's going to be your last one blabla"

what he said was not so special but the way he said it and the attitude made me fill with the question again "i should be beating him up but since that's illegal what can i do to degrade him and regain respect?"


i wonder...

is there a good solution or just deal with it and try to forget about it?


Dude, this is the second similar thread i have read from you in a few days, you really have insecurity issues.
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: 240 is Back on September 12, 2011, 07:45:04 PM
when in doubt, decide this is a bar you never want to visit again.

leave and go to taco bell.  eat 6 burritos.  return to the bar and crap yourself.  Remove your drawers and use them to paint that dude's windshield. 

Drive home commando

Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 13, 2011, 02:40:06 AM

Dude, this is the second similar thread i have read from you in a few days, you really have insecurity issues.

it is the same thread you demented bitch
Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: berblexer on September 13, 2011, 03:30:20 AM
I often wonder: WWWHD ?



Title: Re: What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?
Post by: Dr Dutch on September 13, 2011, 11:11:26 AM
Mr Wong Hong gives the concept of "giving head" a whole universe of new possibilities...