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Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.
Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.
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Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe.
What an asshole.
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Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.
Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.
Fuck dude, you've got some problems. What an asshole.
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In b4 Sir Edmund Hillary
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Happy new year mofo .
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Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.
Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.
You once said you we're teacher for like 30 years. How can you be a teacher and not know the basics of right and wrong........oh wait. Let me guess, the PS systems?
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What an asshole.
Right! This does make me seem like an asshole, doesn't it. Perhaps this is because I neglected to mention that I believe whatever is good for the gander is good for the goose too. Furthermore, I am not suggesting everyone go out and screw as many people as possible on the side.
In Mating in Captivity, author and family therapist Esther Perel argues that the grip of fidelity may be doing more harm than good. She asks if a decades-old marriage should be scrapped because of a one-night moment of weakness. Noting record divorce rates, she writes "despite the fact that monogamy is a ship sinking faster than anyone can bail it out, we continue to cling to the wreckage with absolute faith in its structural soundness."
Very few affairs end in marriage. According to one large study of business men who had affairs, only 3 percent of the men married their lovers
The statistics may shock you.
No one begins a marriage expecting to cheat on their spouse. Vows are exchanged, promises are made and the marriage begins with love and high hopes.
And yet, according to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 50 percent married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some time in their marriage. And since it is unlikely that the people having affairs are married to each other in every case, the current statistics on the percentage of married couples who cheat on each other means that someone is having an affair in nearly 80 percent of marriages.
I may be an asshole, but I am just stating the obvious, it seems. Many people in committed relationships have affairs. In my opinion, the complications from doing this is greatly increased when it is more than just sex; when it is a love affair.
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WHY D0 W0MEN CHEAT?
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People cheat for various reasons.
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WHY D0 W0MEN CHEAT?
Probably because they are unhappy in the relationship. If a man isn't looking after a woman emotionally or making her feel appreciated, then she might start looking elsewhere for her needs to be fulfilled. Men cheat for this reason too sometimes, but I think that men also cheat because of ego....they want to know that they can still pull women.
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You should see the EMOTIONAL AFFIARS that go on at my job..Between married men and married women..All I work with are Divorcees, Single Mothers and Divorced/Single Mothers..LOL! All of them Dying for attention.It's almost like a soap opera in real life. Who is close to who, then who fell out with who..Boils down to what you ARE NOT getting at home..Or you may be bored with it and look sor some excitement outside of the marriage/relationship. Now if that's the case and you have tried to be fed at home.. and aren't..and you know that divorcing will be a finacial nightmare. Would you be willing to get a little on the side if both parties are in agreement?
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You once said you we're teacher for like 30 years. How can you be a teacher and not know the basics of right and wrong........oh wait. Let me guess, the PS systems?
Actually, I never said I was a teacher. I worked for a school district as a specialist in buildings and maintenance.
I know the basics of right and wrong very well. I would venture a guess that I live a much more moral life than most folks do. I am simply not judgmental, like some other folks are. Since I am not telling you what to do with your life, I am not sure why you feel the need to pass judgment on me.
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Fuck dude, you've got some problems. What an asshole.
Actually no, I don't have any problems. My wife and I have been happily married for 47 years as of last October. I'm not out cheating nor is she. She's sitting right next to me as I write this, in fact.
I'd suggest that you may be the one with a problem in that you feel the need to call me, who you don't know at all, an asshole based simply on our difference of opinion about logic and relationships.
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You should see the EMOTIONAL AFFIARS that go on at my job..Between married men and married women..All I work with are Divorcees, Single Mothers and Divorced/Single Mothers..LOL! All of them Dying for attention.It's almost like a soap opera in real life. Who is close to who, then who fell out with who..Boils down to what you ARE NOT getting at home..Or you may be bored with it and look sor some excitement outside of the marriage/relationship. Now if that's the case and you have tried to be fed at home.. and aren't..and you know that divorcing will be a finacial nightmare. Would you be willing to get a little on the side if both parties are in agreement?
This ^
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Actually, I never said I was a teacher. I worked for a school district as a specialist in buildings and maintenance.
your career goal was concierge??
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your career goal was concierge??
Sure whatever. Apparently, you have no idea what a specialist is. Well that's OK...I am not so sure I know what was so "special" about me either. All I did was run the custodial department for a school district with over thirty buildings most of them schools. It wasn't rocket science, that's for sure.
And no, that wasn't my career goal. My career goal at one time was to be a set decorator in the film industry. Later my career goal was to be an aristocrat, but that didn't pan out either. LOL.
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Another dumb concept men have... Thats 2 less women in your life.
You should have posted two guys kissing (not that I want to see it). Thats 2 less men to compete against.
The proof is I have a friend whos wife left him for a women. Thats gotta hurt... So how was the movie hunny (kiss). And why does your face smell like pussy?
I know a few girls that are bi and it aint because they want a guy to join in. Thats one step from full lesbian.
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the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,
rule of thumb
no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always
now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....
be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there
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the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,
rule of thumb
no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always
now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....
be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there
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This all day long...
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Probably because they are unhappy in the relationship. If a man isn't looking after a woman emotionally or making her feel appreciated, then she might start looking elsewhere for her needs to be fulfilled. Men cheat for this reason too sometimes, but I think that men also cheat because of ego....they want to know that they can still pull women.
Its usually exactly the opposite, If a man is looking after a woman emotionally and making her feel appreciated, hes the one who will get cheated.
Sad but true.
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the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,
rule of thumb
no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always
now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....
be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there
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Quoted for truth. God has spoken.
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Quoted for truth. God has spoken.
yeh gh can post some great non steroid related topics when he puts his mind too it
100% true
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You should see the EMOTIONAL AFFIARS that go on at my job..Between married men and married women..All I work with are Divorcees, Single Mothers and Divorced/Single Mothers..LOL! All of them Dying for attention.It's almost like a soap opera in real life. Who is close to who, then who fell out with who..Boils down to what you ARE NOT getting at home..Or you may be bored with it and look sor some excitement outside of the marriage/relationship. Now if that's the case and you have tried to be fed at home.. and aren't..and you know that divorcing will be a finacial nightmare. Would you be willing to get a little on the side if both parties are in agreement?
BD, the baby boomer gen never taught the younger gens about fidelity, common sense...most never gave their children attention. We've learned to chase instant gratification and to jump from relationship to relationship when the slightest notion to go South. Women expect men to be mind readers, and men expect women to accept our slacking off, and our lack of self control. Thus, problems arise...
The answers lie in how we are taught, and what we are shown...being trustworthy in our society is not valued as much as being wealthy or attractive, so you have a lot of very untrustworthy people in relationships.
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Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.
Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
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what you said is correct,,,fella people dont want to face 'REALITY' like pro bodybuidlers use hormones some dont want to face that fact their role model takes them they want to think they can get as big as them,,one day
same with marriage,,,,folks dont want to think about their spouse even thinking of cheating on them,,,they get scared,,,,so thats why they hate you in this thread,,,they dont want a hint of even possibility of spouse cheating,,
yes your right also,,,if person is not emotioanl involved in another person its not cheating,,,,its just SEX,,nothing more,,,its when man get emotional involved with another woman the wife gets mad,,
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Right! This does make me seem like an asshole, doesn't it. Perhaps this is because I neglected to mention that I believe whatever is good for the gander is good for the goose too. Furthermore, I am not suggesting everyone go out and screw as many people as possible on the side.
In Mating in Captivity, author and family therapist Esther Perel argues that the grip of fidelity may be doing more harm than good. She asks if a decades-old marriage should be scrapped because of a one-night moment of weakness. Noting record divorce rates, she writes "despite the fact that monogamy is a ship sinking faster than anyone can bail it out, we continue to cling to the wreckage with absolute faith in its structural soundness."
Very few affairs end in marriage. According to one large study of business men who had affairs, only 3 percent of the men married their lovers
The statistics may shock you.
No one begins a marriage expecting to cheat on their spouse. Vows are exchanged, promises are made and the marriage begins with love and high hopes.
And yet, according to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 50 percent married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some time in their marriage. And since it is unlikely that the people having affairs are married to each other in every case, the current statistics on the percentage of married couples who cheat on each other means that someone is having an affair in nearly 80 percent of marriages.
I may be an asshole, but I am just stating the obvious, it seems. Many people in committed relationships have affairs. In my opinion, the complications from doing this is greatly increased when it is more than just sex; when it is a love affair.
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the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,
rule of thumb
no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always
now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....
be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there
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Most coherent post you have ever made...
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Relationships and marriage are created by women for women. If the lion which is the King of the Beasts could speak? If you asked him, "Mr. Lion why don't you just settle for one lioness instead of having fifteen?" What do you think his response would be? Best advice anyone ever gave to me was to chase $ and let the women chase you.
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Most coherent post you have ever made...
thx
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Relationships and marriage are created by women for women. If the lion which is the King of the Beasts could speak? If you asked him, "Mr. Lion why don't you just settle for one lioness instead of having fifteen?" What do you think his response would be? Best advice anyone ever gave to me was to chase $ and let the women chase you.
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He would bite your head off.
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watching other women ass on getbig is cheating too ;D
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no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,,
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And this will usually happen within 3 months or so, and it's especially true for fellas like me who view females as "objects"
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Most coherent post you have ever made...
thats because i try to put in the head of their that even the hotest girl in world will bore you moment she take down her walls,,moment you have her she become just another girl ....to everyone else she will stil be the hottie but to you ...you will knwo exactly how she lok liek with no make up and you will know that one nipple or her biger than other ,, and you will know all kind of things abotu her that will just make her normal to you and thats when the 18 year old from walmart come into play lol but same with that whore too...you get used to the 18 year old and go to the next one...thats wht i say make sure the HEART IS THERE
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thats because i try to put in the head of their that even the hotest girl in world will bore you moment she take down her walls,,moment you have her she become just another girl ....to everyone else she will stil be the hottie but to you ...you will knwo exactly how she lok liek with no make up and you will know that one nipple or her biger than other ,, and you will know all kind of things abotu her that will just make her normal to you and thats when the 18 year old from walmart come into play lol but same with that whore too...you get used to the 18 year old and go to the next one...thats wht i say make sure the HEART IS THERE
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Shallow , needy , lonesome , egotistical people cheat
People who are adults and choose a partner to spend their life with should know it's never going to wonderful candlelight and roses for more than a minute
Communication is key in anything worthwhile
Expectations are more to blame than anything .. if you go into something expecting more then it's simple to get disappointed and go looking for more
Given the sexually charged atmosphere that is permeating the sensory paths humans face each day with music , adverts , and other media it's no wonder temptations are so plentiful
Anyone with a sense of self worth and pride would fix what they find wrong instead of being weak and running to the alternative that is front of them at the minute
as you say .. that thrill of fresh meat doesn't last and mostly begins a cycle of seeking more and more
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Relationships and marriage are created by women for women. If the lion which is the King of the Beasts could speak? If you asked him, "Mr. Lion why don't you just settle for one lioness instead of having fifteen?" What do you think his response would be? Best advice anyone ever gave to me was to chase $ and let the women chase you.
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You sound settled and happy.
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Shallow , needy , lonesome , egotistical people cheat
People who are adults and choose a partner to spend their life with should know it's never going to wonderful candlelight and roses for more than a minute
Communication is key in anything worthwhile
Expectations are more to blame than anything .. if you go into something expecting more then it's simple to get disappointed and go looking for more
Given the sexually charged atmosphere that is permeating the sensory paths humans face each day with music , adverts , and other media it's no wonder temptations are so plentiful
Anyone with a sense of self worth and pride would fix what they find wrong instead of being weak and running to the alternative that is front of them at the minute
as you say .. that thrill of fresh meat doesn't last and mostly begins a cycle of seeking more and more
Brought tears to my eyes could have wrote this myself, but i still dont have the skills unfortunately to formulate it that way.
I d add "Shallow , needy , lonesome , egotistical people " are shallow, needy, lonesome, egotistical because themselves were abandonned and badly raised, loved, educated by their own parents or caregivers. Spiritual, faithful families produce faithful individuals you can count on, atheist families produce lost individuals with no morals, values, who will fall for all the extremes and addictions and you cant trust. We only imitate, reproduce subonsciously, blindly what we ve been exposed to and cannot reproduce what we werent exposed to.
People from shity dysfunctional families watch tv all childhood long and think real life has to work the same way as in soaps and sitcoms, while kids coming from faithful families know what life is really about. As simple as that.
Atheists dont learn to be content with what they have, being content with what you have comes from a good religious education, from parents, grandparents, who stayed together. A deeper stronger understanding of the meaning of life and what truly matters.
Genuine long lasting hapiness is exactly where most atheists dont look anymore. They are lost, just like their own fathers, who were lost, too. They dont understand the meaning of life. When they do, it's too late. To give a meaning to their life they choose material goods, sex, power, money, drugs as gods to "believe in" and put above everything and everyone else. But there's only one true God and we are all his sons and daughters.
Atheists only care about themselves, they think they are God himself. They cannot raise kids and cannot perpetuate life as they ve been trained to feel no empathy for anyone else but themselves.
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News flash. God is made up. But proper relationships are still awesome. And nightclub sex with skank hoes is still whack.
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Why is Jock The Glide posting as GH15??? ??? ??? ???
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Shallow , needy , lonesome , egotistical people cheat
People who are adults and choose a partner to spend their life with should know it's never going to wonderful candlelight and roses for more than a minute
Expectations are more to blame than anything .. if you go into something expecting more then it's simple to get disappointed and go looking for more
Given the sexually charged atmosphere that is permeating the sensory paths humans face each day with music , adverts , and other media it's no wonder temptations are so plentiful
Anyone with a sense of self worth and pride would fix what they find wrong instead of being weak and running to the alternative that is front of them at the minute
as you say .. that thrill of fresh meat doesn't last and mostly begins a cycle of seeking more and more
Sounds great in theory, but you are ignoring basic biological directives here. Men are suppose to have sex with as many different women as they can. A womans biological directive is to have children. It's very simple.
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Sounds great in theory, but you are ignoring basic biological directives here. Men are suppose to have sex with as many different women as they can. A womans biological directive is to have children. It's very simple.
Yes, but in this day and age what man would want to pay or support 5+ children to different mothers?
Answer? Only the local ghetto cavemen
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thats because i try to put in the head of their that even the hotest girl in world will bore you moment she take down her walls,,moment you have her she become just another girl ....to everyone else she will stil be the hottie but to you ...you will knwo exactly how she lok liek with no make up and you will know that one nipple or her biger than other ,, and you will know all kind of things abotu her that will just make her normal to you and thats when the 18 year old from walmart come into play lol but same with that whore too...you get used to the 18 year old and go to the next one...thats wht i say make sure the HEART IS THERE
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So true. I was seeing "a perfect 10" for almost 2 years. I kinda tapered off after about 8 months or so. After doing everything you could possibly imagine to her crevasses the illusion was gone. Then I would find myself jerking off more to internet porn and less hot girls (even when we were having sex I was thinking of others). Eventually we were done and went separate ways. Now looking back I took her and her looks for granted and it sucks.
Thank god I took a ton of sexual photos of her because now I find myself jerking off to them today.
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Relationships and marriage are created by women for women. If the lion which is the King of the Beasts could speak? If you asked him, "Mr. Lion why don't you just settle for one lioness instead of having fifteen?" What do you think his response would be? Best advice anyone ever gave to me was to chase $ and let the women chase you.
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I like you...
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Because of your mom :D
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Sounds great in theory, but you are ignoring basic biological directives here. Men are suppose to have sex with as many different women as they can. A womans biological directive is to have children. It's very simple.
yeah it's very simple when you re a mental midget. I guess you feel like you just cited "scientific sources" to justify not controlling your animalistic urges thus making somewhat of a point in this thread. Looks like someone still hasnt figure the difference between animals without consciousness and what is called humans. Intellectual reasoning of a 12 y/o kid...with a shitty or no father figure.
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You once said you we're teacher for like 30 years. How can you be a teacher and not know the basics of right and wrong........oh wait. Let me guess, the PS systems?
Joe, you have never ever cheated before ?
never ?
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even when you were young ? I know that's a long time ago but try to remember ;D
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When I date a girl usually, I am SUPER attracted to her for like.. a month. Then I get bored pretty fast and after a few months I cheat
now, a getbigger once wrote here: I prefer learning to love a girl than learning to hate her.
it's kinda this way with my current girlfriend, because at the begginning I was like.. "blah..."
then after each passing week I am getting more attracted to her. I have been with her for a year now and we never have any fights and we laugh a lot.
I think I found love 8)
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I'm in love with my girlfriend. The more I'm with her the more I'm attracted her. We've been together for so long...all other women can't even compare to her. I love her so much. Everyday I hold and I say to her,"I love you so much, I'm so lucky you're in my life." I'd like to spend the rest of my life with her. I couldn't even imagine being with other than her.
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Just playing... I don't have a girlfriend. ;D
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The adult, evolved mature version of teenage love is directly linked to the level of spirituality of an individual, to his/her faith. As is being able to build, maintain and perpetuate a family. Families were stronger and more stable in the past because they were religious. They also spawned happier, more mature and contributing individuals. Atheist families spawn lost, depressed, addicted and unable to contribute individuals who are a burden for the whole rest of society / the specie.
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Men and women are meant to cheat - it's like the turnover of the ocean.
But well being of your offspring is top priority, so if the "dangling" harms the little one it's a no no.
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Just because you can, doesnt mean you should, again. That's what differenciate human beings from animals. Animals cant anticipate the consequences of theirs actions as humans do.
God s words have been given to us so we can walk in His path to become just like Him. If you dont follow the principles that keep you on that path, you ll end a miserable animal no better than what we call "animals" without consciousness. Consciousness and education, knowledges, power, strenghts, beauty, can only be used to create and maintain, defend life if they are at the service of faith, at the service of God's words. Otherwise they ll be badly used and wasted.
We are nothing. And everything at the same time.
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if I would cheat on my current gf, I would feel so bad not only because of her but I feel I would also betray her family and they are all so cool toward me
it's just a matter of respect I think
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When I date a girl usually, I am SUPER attracted to her for like.. a month. Then I get bored pretty fast and after a few months I cheat
now, a getbigger once wrote here: I prefer learning to love a girl than learning to hate her.
it's kinda this way with my current girlfriend, because at the begginning I was like.. "blah..."
then after each passing week I am getting more attracted to her. I have been with her for a year now and we never have any fights and we laugh a lot.
I think I found love 8)
if I would cheat on my current gf, I would feel so bad not only because of her but I feel I would also betray her family and they are all so cool toward me
it's just a matter of respect I think
Goodonya Stavios
best wishes for you and your gf to have a great new year
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Men cheat because mother nature put us on this earth to multiply.
The more women the better the chance to advance one's own genes.
Monogamy is on the way out. I haven't checked the divorce rates or the rates of couples who decide to live together and not get married, but I bet they're pretty close to married couples rates.
There's no better feeling than walking out of a bar with a girl you like. That adrenaline rush makes it all worth it.
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You may be able to get Adriana Lima and end up marrying her but... I guarantee you that after a year or two she will not be that hot to you.
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Why is Jock The Glide posting as GH15??? ??? ??? ???
why do 100s of others do it all over the boardings? and on here too,, and iget blame for al this postings too with things i never said
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So true. I was seeing "a perfect 10" for almost 2 years. I kinda tapered off after about 8 months or so. After doing everything you could possibly imagine to her crevasses the illusion was gone. Then I would find myself jerking off more to internet porn and less hot girls (even when we were having sex I was thinking of others). Eventually we were done and went separate ways. Now looking back I took her and her looks for granted and it sucks.
Thank god I took a ton of sexual photos of her because now I find myself jerking off to them today.
real honest fella,, i like!,, you can share her pictures with thunderdome any time lol
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real honest fella,, i like!,, you can share her pictures with thunderdome any time lol
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LOL ;D
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People cheat for two reasons. They're in a relationship that don't work, or they simply lack self control. It's all about ones ability for delayed gratification. If your weak minded your gonna cheat, not just on your partner, but at work, school, with the government etc. Thankfully in our society those who have a strong sense of order usually prosper while those that don't end up on jerry springer.
Anyhow as far as it's natural for a man to spread his seed this is only from the perspective of the narcissist. The reality is it's just as natural for the self interest of the group to override the interest of the individual, which is why every society in existence has social taboo's on cheating. Granted you can call it hypocritical that the group demands fairness while the individuals do not but like most things in life polar conflicts create balance.
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the reason fellas think about cheating is that they get used to their girl...as simple as that,,
rule of thumb
no mater how hot your girl is you will get used to her,, from the fella who use to respect and worship the ground she walk in first 2 weeks ....you become fella that used to her tits and ass and face and take control like ANY bodybuild out there we take control always
now!,, most sane fellas can keep their cock in pants and not cheat...this is where fella integrity is mesured,,but! rest assure the thought is there for your girl wil alwys get fatter on you than when you met her ALWAYS,, she will alwys get comfy ,, she wil always get more boring for you already saw her pussy 300 times and held her and felt all the bad points since you saw her naked you know exactly she is not perfect...sooooo the girl you see in walmart americana 120 lb with sexy clothes on ....you keep on wondering what she will feel like when you penetrate her and she is all into sex with you unlike the girl you have that already used to you....
be assured though,, its all the same,, after you cheat you discover that its all the same ,, only after you do it....you are a filt and basicaly dont respect yourself,, and when someone dont respect himself it can only go down from there
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This - absolutely.
My ex was probably what you would consider an 8 or 9/10... stunning.. I still got bored after 3 years.... Thats when you have to work on it, keep it exciting.
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Who are all these men cheating with?
with eachother? ???
Perhaps women who cheat are better at covering up than men?
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I am married and I know more women who cheat then men-women are the new men-maybe years of oppression and broken families has caused this
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Relationships and marriage are created by women for women. If the lion which is the King of the Beasts could speak? If you asked him, "Mr. Lion why don't you just settle for one lioness instead of having fifteen?" What do you think his response would be? Best advice anyone ever gave to me was to chase $ and let the women chase you.
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careful with that script. you might be chased down by some of the best manipulators out there. Remember, thats what their "advisers" tell them...
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Who are all these men cheating with?
with eachother? ???
Perhaps women who cheat are better at covering up than men?
Whores
Preferably Ukrainian ones ;D
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Shallow , needy , lonesome , egotistical people cheat
People who are adults and choose a partner to spend their life with should know it's never going to wonderful candlelight and roses for more than a minute
Communication is key in anything worthwhile
Expectations are more to blame than anything .. if you go into something expecting more then it's simple to get disappointed and go looking for more
Given the sexually charged atmosphere that is permeating the sensory paths humans face each day with music , adverts , and other media it's no wonder temptations are so plentiful
Anyone with a sense of self worth and pride would fix what they find wrong instead of being weak and running to the alternative that is front of them at the minute
as you say .. that thrill of fresh meat doesn't last and mostly begins a cycle of seeking more and more
QFT.. I put cheaters on the same level as rapists and pedo's, all deserve a bullet.. If you are going behind someones back that you have told you want to be with them and are there only one then you are scum...If you want to fuck others and are both not into the swinging lifestyle where you dont mind sharing then break up with them , being dishonest and showing zero respect and consideration to the person you tell you love really is the lowest of the low. :-X :-X :-X
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The adult, evolved mature version of teenage love is directly linked to the level of spirituality of an individual, to his/her faith. As is being able to build, maintain and perpetuate a family. Families were stronger and more stable in the past because they were religious. They also spawned happier, more mature and contributing individuals. Atheist families spawn lost, depressed, addicted and unable to contribute individuals who are a burden for the whole rest of society / the specie.
lol, another classic for the ubermensch bible. ;D
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The adult, evolved mature version of teenage love is directly linked to the level of spirituality of an individual, to his/her faith. As is being able to build, maintain and perpetuate a family. Families were stronger and more stable in the past because they were religious. They also spawned happier, more mature and contributing individuals. Atheist families spawn lost, depressed, addicted and unable to contribute individuals who are a burden for the whole rest of society / the specie.
You're a fvcking idiot and you're what's wrong with the human race.
Hope this helps.
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dude, that's your best post ever
i could look at tha gif all day
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Why do men cheat? Well, according to the late, great Patrice Oneal, it's because men are like sport fishermen:
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People cheat for two reasons. They're in a relationship that don't work, or they simply lack self control. It's all about ones ability for delayed gratification. If your weak minded your gonna cheat, not just on your partner, but at work, school, with the government etc. Thankfully in our society those who have a strong sense of order usually prosper while those that don't end up on jerry springer.
Anyhow as far as it's natural for a man to spread his seed this is only from the perspective of the narcissist. The reality is it's just as natural for the self interest of the group to override the interest of the individual, which is why every society in existence has social taboo's on cheating. Granted you can call it hypocritical that the group demands fairness while the individuals do not but like most things in life polar conflicts create balance.
I think it's all about the ego. We like to have a hot chick by our side and want all the others to be envious. And what guy doesn't like to gloat about his conquests to others...
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well when i look at my life up untill now...
i have cheated on some of me ex girlfriends... :-\
but others i have not, nor felt the need to... they were exciting and kept the fire burning so to speak.
after a year or so, you have to work to keep the fire burning, and it´s not that hard!
and the girls i have not cheated on , also were my buddy´s... we could talk on every level, and they were cool as hell...
and you also have to have a partner that combines with you sexually, i LIKE sex.. and not every girl likes sex as much as men do.... just a fact... lol...
some girls just like it mommy and daddy style... well that will get boring ...
and vice versa as well offcourse...
a lot of people that are together do not COMBINE, they are together for the wrong reasons... be it financial reasons, or other interrests...
when you find someone that is fun, is your friend, has the type of looks that you like... and loves you for who you are.... and you feel the same..... no way will you cheat on somebody like that...
but today with this hopeless generation that is rare to find....
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well when i look at my life up untill now...
i have cheated on some of me ex girlfriends... :-\
but others i have not, nor felt the need to... they were exciting and kept the fire burning so to speak.
after a year or so, you have to work to keep the fire burning, and it´s not that hard!
and the girls i have not cheated on , also were my buddy´s... we could talk on every level, and they were cool as hell...
and you also have to have a partner that combines with you sexually, i LIKE sex.. and not every girl likes sex as much as men do.... just a fact... lol...
some girls just like it mommy and daddy style... well that will get boring ...
and vice versa as well offcourse...
a lot of people that are together do not COMBINE, they are together for the wrong reasons... be it financial reasons, or other interrests...
when you find someone that is fun, is your friend, has the type of looks that you like... and loves you for who you are.... and you feel the same..... no way will you cheat on somebody like that...
but today with this hopeless generation that is rare to find....
vry good posting,, honest and real
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Yes. The Ultimate Transformer seems like a balanced individual. And I do not mean Vince Taylor ;)
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well when i look at my life up untill now...
i have cheated on some of me ex girlfriends... :-\
but others i have not, nor felt the need to... they were exciting and kept the fire burning so to speak.
after a year or so, you have to work to keep the fire burning, and it´s not that hard!
and the girls i have not cheated on , also were my buddy´s... we could talk on every level, and they were cool as hell...
and you also have to have a partner that combines with you sexually, i LIKE sex.. and not every girl likes sex as much as men do.... just a fact... lol...
some girls just like it mommy and daddy style... well that will get boring ...
and vice versa as well offcourse...
a lot of people that are together do not COMBINE, they are together for the wrong reasons... be it financial reasons, or other interrests...
when you find someone that is fun, is your friend, has the type of looks that you like... and loves you for who you are.... and you feel the same..... no way will you cheat on somebody like that...
but today with this hopeless generation that is rare to find....
Amen to that!!! :)
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Why do men cheat? Well, according to the late, great Patrice Oneal, it's because men are like sport fishermen:
She had the sexiest voice. I'd listen to her say anything.
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Yes. The Ultimate Transformer seems like a balanced individual. And I do not mean Vince Taylor ;)
lol.... ;D
the ex girlfriends i cheated on would tell you otherwise....
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Why does anyone cheat? Probably because they get bored with their current partner.
Personally, I say if it is just sex, no big deal; just play safe. What I don't get is juggling a couple of romances at once. Maybe that's why it is called cheating; you can't be romantically involved with more than one person with out someone being cheated on attention.
good post Prime
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it looks like Arnoolld is back with Maria.....good for her. it's not like she was gonna get anything better at this stage...hahahhaa
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/04/arnold-schwarzenegger-mar_n_1184564.html
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it looks like Arnoolld is back with Maria.....good for her. it's not like she was gonna get anything better at this stage...hahahhaa
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/04/arnold-schwarzenegger-mar_n_1184564.html
Good for them. :)
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Good for them. :)
Agreed! Some folks have the idea that it is easier to start anew. This is not necessarily the case. If two people love each other, they can forgive a lot. My wife would have left me long ago ("her complicated husband") if she didn't love me.
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for the most part, same reason women cheat.