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please help me understand? gimme a little scenario that would demonstrate this.
wikipedia isn't helping
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People that are too pussy to say what they mean because they are afraid of confrontation. So they are aggressive by using sarcasm.
The best way to combat this is to confront them. Most people dont like confrontation...I happen to like it and call people out...they dont like it. Passive aggressiveness is for betas.
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People that are too pussy to say what they mean because they are afraid of confrontation. So they are aggressive by using sarcasm.
The best way to combat this is to confront them. Most people dont like confrontation...I happen to like it and call people out...they dont like it. Passive aggressiveness is for betas and women.
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People who are too pussy to talk shit to others, so they come to GetBig and talk shit here instead.
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About 90% of Facebook is Passive Aggressive
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People who are too pussy to talk shit to others, so they come to GetBig and talk shit here instead.
Getbig has the most shit talkers I've ever seen on a message board. maybe it's because BBing in general attracts people who aren't happy about themselves or their appearance
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Oh yeah.. I forgot about broads...That's all they do.
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please help me understand? gimme a little scenario that would demonstrate this.
wikipedia isn't helping
When someone gets owned on a message board, and assumes it's because posters aren't happy about themselves or their appearance when in reality that forum is the only source of truth on the entire interweb.
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People who are too pussy to talk shit to others, so they come to GetBig and talk shit here instead.
Half of the people on here wouldn't say shit to tough guys like us, I assure you of that.
Fucking pussies.
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So everytime you choose not to confront someome verbally thus leading to an eventual physical conflict you are "passive aggressive"? I guess we should all punch each others in the face everytime we disagree with each others? That would make us "alpha" ?
"Passive agressiveness" doesnt exist, it's not a personality, a caracther, trait, a behavior, it's at best a strategy of survival we re all meant one day or another to use in our existence to face difficult relationships with someone else who for some reasons has a problem with us. Often people have a problem with you or someone else cause you or this person remind them someone that harmed them psychologically or physically in the past. Often it's pure jealousy, envy, they would like you to give them what you have and what they dont, would like your attention, but dont know how to obtain it. And sometimes, they might be right and pointing at a real problematic -for the group- detail of your personnality.
Sometime to change someone else mind, cooperate with them, to survive, you have to make them figure what, how, they should change using psychological warfare. You can do it either in your own interest, or in the interest of others in the group. Or in the interest of everyone.
We all find allies, we all make friends with people who have similar upbringings, education , and we often face the same ennemies that ironically are often the reason why we ally together, in any given environment wether it's at school, at work, or any other random life situation.
As if we re all going to tell our boss, colleagues or family members why we think they are stupid, vain, malicious out of the blue, and if they re not ok with what we tell them we re going to fight physically after telling each others what we think of them to make our point. Which would also mean the strongest/heaviest one would always be right, and the weakest/lightest one would be wrong.
Fact is, sometimes the weak one is right and the strongest one is wrong, this is why weak ones need to develop brains and different, long lasting, strategies of survival instead of immediate physical confrontation. A perfect example of this on the international scale is how israel transformed sand in gold and how they survive facing millions of angry arab muslims using their brains and developing weapons and police/military tactics even being weaker.
Think David versus goliath.
We all have to adapt and make compromises to survive and evolve, reach our potential. Sometimes, someone else doesnt want us to reach that potential for some personal reasons.
Most of the time we adapt by being hypocrit, by ignoring, or by helping others or if needed by stepping on their heads to climb the ladder or just maintain our position in the pyramidal hierarchy of the group.
On a side note we all learn to know each others the more time we spend together, wether it's on the internet or in real life. At some point we all figure the strenghts and weaknesses of each others and are prone to push their buttons if needed or if we have nothing better to do.
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So everytime you choose not to confront someome verbally thus leading to an eventual physical conflict you are "passive aggressive"? I guess we should all punch each others in the face everytime we disagree with each others? That would make us "alpha" ?
"Passive agressiveness" doesnt exist, it's not a personality, a caracther, trait, a behavior, it's at best a strategy of survival we re all meant one day or another to use in our existence to face difficult relationships with someone else. Sometime to change someone else mind, cooperate with them, to survive, you have to make them figure what, how, they should change using psychological warfare.
As if we re all going to tell our boss, colleagues or family members why we think they are stupid, vain, malicious out of the blue, and if they re not ok with what we tell them we re going to fight physically after telling each others what we think of them to make our point. Which would also mean the strongest/heaviest one would always be right, and the weakest/lightest one would be wrong.
Fact is, sometimes the weak one is right and the strongest one is wrong, this is why weak ones need to develop brains and different, long lasting, strategies of survival instead of immediate physical confrontation.
We all have to adapt and make compromises to survive and evolve. Most of the time we adapt by being hypocrit, or by helping others or if needed by stepping on their heads to climb the ladder or just maintain our position in the hierarchy of the group.
Jesus Homo-Regressive
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"The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children.
And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know my name is The Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee."
I been saying that shit for years. And if you heard it, that meant your ass. I never gave much thought to what it meant. I just thought it was some cold-blooded shit to say to a guy before I popped a cap in his ass. But I saw some shit this morning made me think twice. See, now I'm thinking, maybe it means you're the evil man, and I'm the righteous man, and Mr. 9 millimeter here, he's the shepherd protecting my righteous ass in the valley of darkness.
Or it could mean you're the righteous man and I'm the shepherd and it's the world that's evil and selfish. I'd like that. But that shit ain't the truth. The truth is, you're the weak, and I'm the tyranny of evil men. But I'm trying, Ringo. I'm trying real hard to be the shepherd.
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please help me understand? gimme a little scenario that would demonstrate this.
wikipedia isn't helping
Watch almost any show on the bravo channel and you will see it being used often.
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dont know much about them, but I know that passive aggressive people tend to hate bodybuilders. alot of the time they are women too..
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Its a coping strategy learnt in childhood. Most passive aggressor's are unaware that they are PA's. If you grew up with caregivers who were dogmatic(spoke as whatever they say were facts), then you most likely would have learnt the coping ability of a passive aggressive.
http://www.my-counseling-site.com/passive_aggressive.html
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passive aggressive - an inability to express ones own anger at the appropriate time place and way. There is nothing of itself wrong with anger but many people are afraid ofexpressing it directly, often resulting in a buildup of resentment and faux helplessness. "little old poor me". One of the consequences is that when someone else does help the recipient of the help is unaware. In many ways like the cow that will give you all the milk in the world but kick the bucket just as you finish milking it
Although oblique and very indirect internet forums are a great out let for passive agressives. Were all posts and comments to automatically came with photo and location id much of that comment would be less agressive and careless.
Agreed passive agressiveness is rampant in our PC culture. Any place where women have an equal say is non stop bullshit, since men are unable to say the truth without attack( passive agressive attacks) were forced to artifically repress everything.
On a side note this board has just as many agressive people, as any other kind.
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If you've ever been called a wise-ass, you might be a passive aggressive ;)
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Agreed passive agressiveness is rampant in our PC culture. Any place where women have an equal say is non stop bullshit, since men are unable to say the truth without attack( passive agressive attacks) were forced to artifically repress everything.
On a side note this board has just as many agressive people, as any other kind.
P-Diddy talked about how tough it was dealing with people in Hollywood and especially the fashion industry. He said almost every one of them are passive aggressives.
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Active evil is better than passive good.
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if someone says something passive agressive to you it's a hostile remark about you but done in a sneaky sarcastic or 'read between the lines' way. like someone said it's because they are afraid of confrontation.
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passive aggressive - an inability to express ones own anger at the appropriate time place and way. There is nothing of itself wrong with anger but many people are afraid ofexpressing it directly, often resulting in a buildup of resentment and faux helplessness. "little old poor me". One of the consequences is that when someone else does help the recipient of the help is unaware. In many ways like the cow that will give you all the milk in the world but kick the bucket just as you finish milking it
Although oblique and very indirect internet forums are a great out let for passive agressives. Were all posts and comments to automatically came with photo and location id much of that comment would be less agressive and careless.
You said it...if people actually had to be ACCOUNTABLE for what they said, this board would be a lot different
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if someone says something passive agressive to you it's a hostile remark about you but done in a sneaky sarcastic or 'read between the lines' way. like someone said it's because they are afraid of confrontation.
Yep...there isn't a lot of true passive aggressiveness on this board ....there is a lot of internet "courage"
when I say ...."you wouldn't say that to my face", people always assume that you mean you would beat the shit out of them if they said those things.
That's not the case at all, the simple facts is unless they had absolutely no social skills, and were basically rude and obnoxious idiots with a horrible upbringing and NO friends.... people people wouldn't say half the things they do here to a person's face, they quite simply wouldn't have the balls to be that rude for essentially no reason
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Yep...there isn't a lot of true passive aggressiveness on this board ....there is a lot of internet "courage"
when I say ...."you wouldn't say that to my face", people always assume that you mean you would beat the shit out of them if they said those things.
That's not the case at all, the simple facts is unless they had absolutely no social skills, and were basically rude and obnoxious idiots with a horrible upbringing and NO friends.... people people wouldn't say half the things they do here to a person's face, they quite simply wouldn't have the balls to be that rude for basically no reason
well that's what good about forums. you can say say anything you want without consequenses. different thing from passive agressiveness.
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please help me understand? gimme a little scenario that would demonstrate this.
wikipedia isn't helping
Fucking with people in a socially acceptable way - avoid these people at all costs
example Women - Silent treatment during an argument with her partner is passive aggression - designed to fuck with you - but how can you prove she is fucking with you - she isn't saying anything
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P-Diddy talked about how tough it was dealing with people in Hollywood and especially the fashion industry. He said almost every one of them are passive aggressives.
And who runs the fashion industry?
The funny thing about freedom of speech is, most assume it means that it means that they can say what they want---at the expense of others...not taking Common sense into account...
And that refers to P-A behavior...
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You said it...if people actually had to be ACCOUNTABLE for what they said, this board would be a lot different
FUCK OFF CUN+ ;D
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Fucking with people in a socially acceptable way - avoid these people at all costs
haha that's spot on. short and to the point. ;D
Also I agree, avoid these people. Most often also backstabbers. Creeps.
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haha that's spot on. short and to the point. ;D
example Women - Silent treatment during an argument with her partner is passive aggression - designed to fuck with you - but how can you prove she is fucking with you - she isn't saying anything
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if someone says something passive agressive to you it's a hostile remark about you but done in a sneaky sarcastic or 'read between the lines' way. like someone said it's because they are afraid of confrontation.
thats because physical violence has been banned, so people focus on developing psychological, verbal/oral aggressivity. They surdevelop that capacity as the use of the other capacity, is forbidden nowadays. Basically people become more and more perverse psychologically, and are encouraged to do so, when in the past strenght was used to put someone -wether it s another man, a kid, a woman- in its place.
The use of force has been labeled as being nazi, racist, bad, as men have been labeled as nazis everytime they use force to make a point. Fact is, it is sometimes necessary. Constant use of force is dumb, constant use of care is also dumb, the balance lies in between.
All of this is again a direct result of the disapearing of religion that led to the disapearing of the father, and the implosion of the family and ultimately the implosion of society itself. The Bible tells us when to use strenght and when to use tenderness to adapt and survive at the benefit of the group.
Benevolent use of force by someone who has faith and takes the interest of the group at heart is necessary. Without it everything collapses and people become and more perverse and malvolent.
Disapearing, or abandonning of religion has led to a more, abnormally feminized society, and it is no wonder immigrants and especially sneaky muslims from the third world are having a blast turning our own neutering laws against us.
We removed fathers from our societies, and as result everything that is related to it disapeared with it; hierarchy, authority -the figure of authority AUTHORIZES...just a reminder- respect.
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thats because physical violence has been banned, so people focus on developing psychological, verbal/oral aggressivity. Basically people become more and more perverse psychologically, and are encouraged to do so, when in the past strenght was used to put someone -wether it s another man, a kid, a woman- in its place.
The use of force has been labeled as being nazi, racist, bad, as men have been labeled as nazis everytime they use force to make a point. Fact is, it is sometimes necessary. All of this is again a direct result of the disapearing of religion that led to the disapearing of the father, and the implosion of the family and ultimately the implosion of society itself.
Benevolent use of force by someone who has faith and takes the interest of the group at heart is necessary. Without it everything collapses and people become and more perverse and malvolent.
Disapearing, or abandonning of religion has led to a more, abnormally feminized society, and it is no wonder immigrants and especially sneaky muslims from the third world are having a blast turning our own neutering laws against us.
Dude, shut the fuck up.
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thats because physical violence has been banned, so people focus on developing psychological, verbal/oral aggressivity. Basically people become more and more perverse psychologically, and are encouraged to do so, when in the past strenght was used to put someone -wether it s another man, a kid, a woman- in its place.
The use of force has been labeled as being nazi, racist, bad, as men have been labeled as nazis everytime they use force to make a point. Fact is, it is sometimes necessary. All of this is again a direct result of the disapearing of religion that led to the disapearing of the father, and the implosion of the family and ultimately the implosion of society itself.
Benevolent use of force by someone who has faith and takes the interest of the group at heart is necessary. Without it everything collapses and people become and more perverse and malvolent.
Force is always a perversion or imbalance of the natural order - to play a guitar - the strings need to be neither to slack nor too tight - Force is never needed
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Dude, shut the fuck up.
You made a funny, but i doubt it was intentional.
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Some of the most highly intelligent people on earth are passive aggressive. However, most people who are passive aggressive believe they're highly intelligent.
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Why are you guys saying only women are "passive aggressive"? any human can use this strategy of survival / coping strategy. As soon as you re thinking "ok im going to be nice to you right now cause i have no choice to but im going to fuck you up as soon as i can" you re being "passive agressive". When you re waiting in the fucking line at the mall or anywhere else and smiling, talking politely to others while thinking "man, it's about time i get the fuck out of here and go back to my confort zone" you re being "passive aggressive".
Psychology and psychanalysis are theorical, not hard proven irrefutable sciences. And there is nothing in what has been "found" in these domains that wasnt alrdy figured by religion.
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Force is always a perversion or imbalance of the natural order - to play a guitar - the strings need to be neither to slack nor too tight - Force is never needed
you need to hit the string for anything to happen
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Some of the most highly intelligent people on earth are passive aggressive. However, most people who are passive aggressive believe they're highly intelligent.
Ahhh, because those highly intelligent people have only developed one aspect of themselves (the mental), and haven't balanced out the spiritual and physical?
I am thinking of Foghorn Leghorn's girlfriend's son (the one with glasses who draw up all those designs).
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well that's what good about forums. you can say say anything you want without consequenses. different thing from passive agressiveness.
agreed, the truth is much sadder than faceless attacks. If this was real life getbig would be one place, a bar or a gym whatever call it the thunderdome. Point is people would go their with the intention of being heckled, because deep down the agressiveness of this forum is a release for men trapped in a women's world.
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You made a funny, but i doubt it was intentional.
Everything I do is intentional. Take your community college pseudo-psychology to a site where someone would be impressed.
I'd be just as angry as you if I had your face.
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Everything I do is intentional. Take your community college pseudo-psychology to a site where someone would be impressed.
I'd be just as angry as you if I had your face.
Quit hijacking a decent thread.
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Everything I do is intentional. Take your community college pseudo-psychology to a site where someone would be impressed.
I'd be just as angry as you if I had your face.
you re the one who told me out of the blue to "shut the fuck up". Who s angry mister "everything i do is intentional" haha. And i'm amused by your character, especially knowing in details what your real life looks like after you exposed it all by yourself without anyone asking on here.
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agreed, the truth is much sadder than faceless attacks. If this was real life getbig would be one place, a bar or a gym whatever call it the thunderdome. Point is people would go their with the intention of being heckled, because deep down the agressiveness of this forum is a release for men trapped in a women's world.
This place would never exist in real life, i have yet to walk into any establishment in my life where people are hurling vicious personal insults at one another non-stop.
the closest thing it comes to is a boys locker room in high school, where guys start "ranking out' each other,and talking shit... and it goes and goes., everybody cracking jokes and taking shots at each other.... until somebody crosses the line,and goes too far with an insult
Then everybody gets all quiet and serious... because shit just got real,and there might even be a fight if it persists... Problem with this place is people post the "too far" shit all day long without worrying about shit getting real ;)
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you re the one who told me out of the blue to "shut the fuck up". Who s angry mister "everything i do is intentional" haha. And i'm amused by your character, especially knowing in details what your real life looks like after exposing it all by yourself on here.
Yes, in all that, I'd still rather be me...I've made it quite clear. I don't like you at all. Why? Because you're a hypocrite. You preach religion, then talk shit about everyone...You and I both know this is a sin. Not that you're looking for any respect, but you'd get alot more of it of you were consistant...Your actions sicken me. Why? Because I was raised religious and saw scumbags like you alot...preaching on Sunday and acting like a scumbag the rest of the week. Either be a scumbag or be religious...What you're doing is disgusting and I'll continue to "haunt" you about it as long as I'm here and I've been here 13 years now...so get used to me as long as you continue to operate as scum.
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Ahhh, because those highly intelligent people have only developed one aspect of themselves (the mental), and haven't balanced out the spiritual and physical?
Right on target.
Hierachy, Order goes as follow tho;
Spiritual first, and physical/mental/intellecutal/psychological second. Anyone who has no spirituality or faith in something bigger than him/herself will make bad use of his mental/physical capacities will put his own interest before the interest of the group/family/specie.
Spirituality, faith, is the cement of human relationships.
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This place would never exist in real life, i have yet to walk into any establishment in my life where people are hurling vicious personal insults at one another non-stop.
the closest thing it comes to is a boys locker room in high school, where guys start "ranking out' each other,and talking shit... and it goes and goes., everybody cracking jokes and taking shots at each other.... until somebody crosses the line,and goes too far with an insult
Then everybody gets all quiet and serious... because shit just got real,and there might even be a fight if it persists... Problem with this place is people post the "too far" shit all day long without worrying about shit getting real ;)
Shit getting real, wtf does that even mean, you think people are gonna start fights in a public place full of backstabbing witnesses ::)
It don't exist because it wouldn't make any money just like most things found on the internet.
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Yep...there isn't a lot of true passive aggressiveness on this board ....there is a lot of internet "courage"
when I say ...."you wouldn't say that to my face", people always assume that you mean you would beat the shit out of them if they said those things.
That's not the case at all, the simple facts is unless they had absolutely no social skills, and were basically rude and obnoxious idiots with a horrible upbringing and NO friends.... people people wouldn't say half the things they do here to a person's face, they quite simply wouldn't have the balls to be that rude for essentially no reason
btw I smell passive agressiveness about this post. Directed towards me. ;D
probably said some things he didn't like. :D
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I'm gonna save everyone a bit of time.
Yes, in all that, I'd still rather be me...I've made it quite clear. I don't like you at all. Why? Because you're a hypocrite. You preach religion, then talk shit about everyone...You and I both know this is a sin. Not that you're looking for any respect, but you'd get alot more of it of you were consistant...You're actions sicken me. Why? Because I was raised religious and saw scumbags like you alot...preaching on Sunday and acting like a scumbag the rest of the week. Either be a scumbag or be religious...What you're doing is disgusting and I'll continue to "haunt" you about it as long as I'm here and I've been here 13 years now...so get used to me as long as you continue to operate as scum. because your a weak target and can improve my standings in the pecking order, because I was too stoned and mopey to defend myself for the past 18months.
hope this helps. ;)
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This place would never exist in real life, i have yet to walk into any establishment in my life where people are hurling vicious personal insults at one another non-stop.
the closest thing it comes to is a boys locker room in high school, where guys start "ranking out' each other,and talking shit... and it goes and goes., everybody cracking jokes and taking shots at each other.... until somebody crosses the line,and goes too far with an insult
Then everybody gets all quiet and serious... because shit just got real,and there might even be a fight if it persists... Problem with this place is people post the "too far" shit all day long without worrying about shit getting real ;)
damn right it wouldn't exist irl. So what are you so angry about? and more importantly why are you still here if you don't like it?? getbig has always been like this.
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People that are too pussy to say what they mean because they are afraid of confrontation. So they are aggressive by using sarcasm.
The best way to combat this is to confront them. Most people dont like confrontation...I happen to like it and call people out...they dont like it. Passive aggressiveness is for betas.
With this definition, you just named 95% of the people on this board.
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I'm gonna save everyone a bit of time. hope this helps. ;)
leave him alone, dude is a cuckhold in his 40s , unemployed and unemployable, who only figured some things about life lately reading some of my posts even if he wont admit it and will only repeat what i said paraphrasing it like a parrot, which also proves he s an hypocrit.
I dont get why anyone would be that angry at complete strangers on a fucking internet messageboard the first day of the year. Oh well, maybe the above description of dude's life might explain it.
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With this definition, you just named 95% of the people on this board.
yet you keep coming back. funny :D
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I'm gonna save everyone a bit of time. hope this helps. ;)
bottom feeder...I don't need to improve my standing for anything nor do I give a fuck about my standing...I see this is something important you weasel.
And BTW, I'm known on many boardings dipshit...Bottom feeders like you look to improve your standing by challenging board giants like myself...lol...
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Shit getting real, wtf does that even mean, you think people are gonna start fights in a public place full of backstabbing witnesses ::)
It don't exist because it wouldn't make any money just like most things found on the internet.
you're a fucking idiot, and you know exactly what i mean you moron. Like you've never been with the fellas and you are all cracking on each other until somebody goes too far, and the everybody stops laughing,,and the "peacemaker" of the group steps in and calms things down
if you haven't you are either lying and being an obstinate prick for the sole reason of not acknowledging my point, or you were raised by monks on top of a mountain...I'll go with the first choice ;)
And the first part of my statement was in response to your suggesting that this place could ever exist in real life..so in essence you are ridiculing yourself idiot.
For someone who fashions them self an "insightful" person , you are pretty dumb and really can't keep up in an adult conversation, you always try and reduce it to your idiotic scope of vision and life experience...which is quite limited
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damn right it wouldn't exist irl. So what are you so angry about? and more importantly why are you still here if you don't like it?? getbig has always been like this.
He's pissy because everyone caught onto his woman like bullshit. He's probably the most passive aggressive of us all ironically, being a true narcissist afterall. He keeps referencing courage and all this crap like somehow his roid mass is gonna scare us all, reality is IRL he'd be so concerned about his image that he'd never have the guts to talk about anything relating to the truth openly.
leave him alone, dude is a cuckhold in his 40s , unemployed and unemployable, who only figured some things about life lately reading some of my posts even if he wont admit it and will only repeat what i said paraphrasing it like a parrot, which also proves he s an hypocrit.
I dont get why anyone would be that angry at complete strangers on a fucking internet messageboard the first day of the year. Oh well, maybe the above description of dude's life might explain it.
I ain't on yourside either mr S&F I'm just trying to stop you fucks from hijacking a perfectly good thread.
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He's pissy because everyone caught onto his woman like bullshit. He's probably the most passive aggressive of us all ironically, being a true narcissist afterall. He keeps referencing courage and all this crap like somehow his roid mass is gonna scare us all, reality is IRL he'd be so concerned about his image that he'd never have the guts to talk about anything relating to the truth openly.
I ain't on yourside either mr S&F I'm just trying to stop you fucks from hijacking a perfectly good thread.
team wigglestein?
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damn right it wouldn't exist irl. So what are you so angry about? and more importantly why are you still here if you don't like it?? getbig has always been like this.
who said i was angry and didn't like it here? i've been here for ten years.
we are discussing a certain aspect of the board and i'm involved in the discussion...if YOU don't like i.....you can go fuck yourself, and yes, i would say that to your face :)
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yet you keep coming back. funny :D
I tried but no one posts anywhere else. Tried posting on the business board but there were two responses in a whole week. I started a thread two days ago......nothing.
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bottom feeder...I don't need to improve my standing for anything nor do I give a fuck about my standing...I see this is something important you weasel.
And BTW, I'm known on many boardings dipshit...Bottom feeders like you look to improve your standing by challenging board giants like myself...lol...
Alright I apologize, all I'll admit I ain't getting any boost to my standings.
Anyhow, I'll stay on team wigglestein if we can just stay on topic, eh?
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He's pissy because everyone caught onto his woman like bullshit. He's probably the most passive aggressive of us all ironically, being a true narcissist afterall. He keeps referencing courage and all this crap like somehow his roid mass is gonna scare us all, reality is IRL he'd be so concerned about his image that he'd never have the guts to talk about anything relating to the truth openly.
Again...what "truth" is this you speak of? i'm one of the most open people here you moron.
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You seem to be obsessed with me personally, and have some weird agenda you feel i should subscribe to...i really don't know what your fucking problem is to be quite honest, you are an odd person
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who said i was angry and didn't like it here? i've been here for ten years.
we are discussing a certain aspect of the board and i'm involved in the discussion...if YOU don't like i.....you can go fuck yourself, and yes, i would say that to your face :)
yes we see here that you and coach don't like "faceless posters that talks shit" ::)
this place would be boredom if it was like irl and without anonymous posters saying anything on their mind.
so you want this forum to be all ass kissy I guess. forums that bans anyone that says something "offensive" ? that went really well for musclemayhem lol
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yes we see here that you and coach don't like "faceless posters that talks shit" ::)
this place would be boredom if it was like irl and without anonymous posters saying anything on their mind.
so you want this forum to be all ass kissy I guess. forums that bans anyone that says something "offensive" ? that went really well for musclemayhem lol
you guess wrong..I'm one of the biggest ballbusters on the site
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You seem to be obsessed with me personally, and have some weird agenda you feel i should subscribe to...i really don't know what your fucking problem is to be quite honest
Yes because this board is very personal at it's core ::), if you must know I'm reading a book about narcissism real simple you have all the traits of one nothing personal.
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you guess wrong..I'm one of the biggest ballbusters on the site
really to me it seems you start crying after a shot to the balls. :D
you can dish it out but can't take it.
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Yes because this board is very personal at it's core ::), if you must know I'm reading a book about narcissism real simple you have all the traits of one nothing personal.
That must be one big book, because you been following me around this board for the last six months, :D and the truth is, i really don't even know what the hell you are ranting about half the time...the "truth" ::)..what the fuck are you talking about ?
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really to me it seems you start crying after a shot to the balls. :D
you can dish it out but can't take it.
::) ::) I've been in wars with just about every person of note on this board, and i have no problem slugging it out..it's fun.
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::) ::) I've been in wars with just about every person of note on this board, and i have no problem slugging it out..it's fun.
then why are you always crying about faceless posters that "wouldn't say it to your face". sounds like that fag Derek Anthony.
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So everytime you choose not to confront someome verbally thus leading to an eventual physical conflict you are "passive aggressive"? I guess we should all punch each others in the face everytime we disagree with each others? That would make us "alpha" ?
"Passive agressiveness" doesnt exist, it's not a personality, a caracther, trait, a behavior, it's at best a strategy of survival we re all meant one day or another to use in our existence to face difficult relationships with someone else who for some reasons has a problem with us. Often people have a problem with you or someone else cause you or this person remind them someone that harmed them psychologically or physically in the past. Often it's pure jealousy, envy, they would like you to give them what you have and what they dont, would like your attention, but dont know how to obtain it. And sometimes, they might be right and pointing at a real problematic -for the group- detail of your personnality.
Sometime to change someone else mind, cooperate with them, to survive, you have to make them figure what, how, they should change using psychological warfare. You can do it either in your own interest, or in the interest of others in the group. Or in the interest of everyone.
We all find allies, we all make friends with people who have similar upbringings, education , and we often face the same ennemies that ironically are often the reason why we ally together, in any given environment wether it's at school, at work, or any other random life situation.
As if we re all going to tell our boss, colleagues or family members why we think they are stupid, vain, malicious out of the blue, and if they re not ok with what we tell them we re going to fight physically after telling each others what we think of them to make our point. Which would also mean the strongest/heaviest one would always be right, and the weakest/lightest one would be wrong.
Fact is, sometimes the weak one is right and the strongest one is wrong, this is why weak ones need to develop brains and different, long lasting, strategies of survival instead of immediate physical confrontation. A perfect example of this on the international scale is how israel transformed sand in gold and how they survive facing millions of angry arab muslims using their brains and developing weapons and police/military tactics even being weaker.
Think David versus goliath.
We all have to adapt and make compromises to survive and evolve, reach our potential. Sometimes, someone else doesnt want us to reach that potential for some personal reasons.
Most of the time we adapt by being hypocrit, by ignoring, or by helping others or if needed by stepping on their heads to climb the ladder or just maintain our position in the pyramidal hierarchy of the group.
On a side note we all learn to know each others the more time we spend together, wether it's on the internet or in real life. At some point we all figure the strenghts and weaknesses of each others and are prone to push their buttons if needed or if we have nothing better to do.
can we get the English version when you get a chance? thanks.
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you need to hit the string for anything to happen
you are talking to a guitarist, and once again if you use too much force you break strings and music stops - trust me, I know from experience, it is expensive and embarrassing if you are performing.
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That must be one big book, because you been following me around this board for the last six months, :D and the truth is, i really don't even know what the hell you are ranting about half the time...the "truth" ::)..what the fuck are you talking about ?
That's all you got it takes a long time to read a book, lolz if you must know I've been reading it several times over, as it gives me ideas and insights into the things that interest me.
The truth? How about deleting 90 percent of your posts before I bring up the truth again.
One minute your in a sucessful marriage, the next your devorced and so self proud that you've made the best choice ever. The next minute your bitching about faceless cowards, than all of a sudden your the biggest ball buster in the world.
That's just crap that's been on here in the last fews days.
And of course you don't straight out lie, you manipulate the truth someone says your roided out, you start talking about jealousy and your epic genetics.
This manipulating the truth is your most passive agressive trait, if this were real life, as you so often adore we'd probably never pick up on how compulsive your bullshit is, but you've got over 15000k posts of bullshit and we all know it, so I ain't even debating this with you it's more or less a getbig fact at this point.
P.S. you pluck guitar strings with a pick, unless your fingure tapping or playing slap bass.
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...P.S. you pluck guitar strings with a pick, unless your fingure tapping or playing slap bass.
Or you happen to be Wes "The Thumb" Montgomery. Or so I remember... ;D
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That's all you got it takes a long time to read a book, lolz if you must know I've been reading it several times over, as it gives me ideas and insights into the things that interest me.
The truth? How about deleting 90 percent of your posts before I bring up the truth again.
One minute your in a sucessful marriage, the next your devorced and so self proud that you've made the best choice ever. The next minute your bitching about faceless cowards, than all of a sudden your the biggest ball buster in the world.
That's just crap that's been on here in the last fews days.
And of course you don't straight out lie, you manipulate the truth someone says your roided out, you start talking about jealousy and your epic genetics.
This manipulating the truth is your most passive agressive trait, if this were real life, as you so often adore we'd probably never pick up on how compulsive your bullshit is, but you've got over 15000k posts of bullshit and we all know it, so I ain't even debating this with you it's more or less a getbig fact at this point.
LOL....i got divorced 5 years ago you idiot, it happens. you must be referring to that SIX YEAR OLD post some obsessed dildo unearthed. Yes...i was married...now i'm not...is it so hard to follow?
crazy me...I went and got myself involved with another woman, it's madness ::)
Yes i was natural, now im not...again...not hard to follow
My life seems to trouble you a great deal..here's a thought...worry about yourself ;)..I appreciate your concern and all, but I'll be just fine.
and deleting posts..please, just stop. ::) yes, I'm terrified of the mighty "MikMaq" so i hide the things I think might anger him...LOLOLOLOL ...You are certifiable :D
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you are talking to a guitarist, and once again if you use too much force you break strings and music stops - trust me, I know from experience, it is expensive and embarrassing if you are performing.
be that as it may...you do have to strike the string in some way for it to make music, yes?
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be that as it may...you do have to strike the string in some way for it to make music, yes?
It's simply a matter of both semantics and technique. If you strike a cat, it cries out in pain. If you stroke it, it purrs.
Simple. ;D
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be that as it may...you do have to strike the string in some way for it to make music, yes?
When you pluck a string you pull on it, and release like a sling shot, if you strike a string it'll just make a sound like a piano's, the keys on a piano are weighted so that each strike is relatively even, it's dam near impossible to get an even sound out a guitar like that.
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When you pluck a string you pull on it, and release like a sling shot, if you strike a string it'll just make a sound like a piano, the keys on a piano are weight so that each strike is relatively even, it's dam near impossible to get an even sound out a guitar like that.
oh for fucks sake!! you clowns have me ready to punch a hole in my screen, who gives a shit about the "picking", its a goddamn saying. ::)
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oh for fucks sake!! you clowns have me ready to punch a hole in my screen, who gives a shit about the "picking", its a goddamn saying. ::)
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When you pluck a string you pull on it, and release like a sling shot, if you strike a string it'll just make a sound like a piano's, the keys on a piano are weighted so that each strike is relatively even, it's dam near impossible to get an even sound out a guitar like that.
how do you play a chord ?
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oh for fucks sake!! you clowns have me ready to punch a hole in my screen, who gives a shit about the "picking", its a goddamn saying. ::)
Ya gotta love it when the hate is so strong, these guys will ignore the laws of physics before they concede i made point...LOLOL
Me..."the sun rises in the east and sets in the west"
haters..."No it doesn't, you're a narcissist" ::) ::) :D
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thats because physical violence has been banned, so people focus on developing psychological, verbal/oral aggressivity. They surdevelop that capacity as the use of the other capacity, is forbidden nowadays. Basically people become more and more perverse psychologically, and are encouraged to do so, when in the past strenght was used to put someone -wether it s another man, a kid, a woman- in its place.
The use of force has been labeled as being nazi, racist, bad, as men have been labeled as nazis everytime they use force to make a point. Fact is, it is sometimes necessary. Constant use of force is dumb, constant use of care is also dumb, the balance lies in between.
All of this is again a direct result of the disapearing of religion that led to the disapearing of the father, and the implosion of the family and ultimately the implosion of society itself. The Bible tells us when to use strenght and when to use tenderness to adapt and survive at the benefit of the group.
Benevolent use of force by someone who has faith and takes the interest of the group at heart is necessary. Without it everything collapses and people become and more perverse and malvolent.
Disapearing, or abandonning of religion has led to a more, abnormally feminized society, and it is no wonder immigrants and especially sneaky muslims from the third world are having a blast turning our own neutering laws against us.
We removed fathers from our societies, and as result everything that is related to it disapeared with it; hierarchy, authority -the figure of authority AUTHORIZES...just a reminder- respect.
force necessary ??
ok... on a biblical note.. since thats where you get your religion from..
then why did Jesus allow himself to be crucified? Wouldnt he have been able to do more good on earth if he lived forever, as he obviously couldve done being the son of god, preaching and doing miracles for thousands of years? or better yet, why doesnt God himself strike down any evil doers the second they threaten society or another person in any way?
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force is not justified nor is it necessary
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thats because physical violence has been banned, so people focus on developing psychological, verbal/oral aggressivity. They surdevelop that capacity as the use of the other capacity, is forbidden nowadays. Basically people become more and more perverse psychologically, and are encouraged to do so, when in the past strenght was used to put someone -wether it s another man, a kid, a woman- in its place.
The use of force has been labeled as being nazi, racist, bad, as men have been labeled as nazis everytime they use force to make a point. Fact is, it is sometimes necessary. Constant use of force is dumb, constant use of care is also dumb, the balance lies in between.
All of this is again a direct result of the disapearing of religion that led to the disapearing of the father, and the implosion of the family and ultimately the implosion of society itself. The Bible tells us when to use strenght and when to use tenderness to adapt and survive at the benefit of the group.
Benevolent use of force by someone who has faith and takes the interest of the group at heart is necessary. Without it everything collapses and people become and more perverse and malvolent.
Disapearing, or abandonning of religion has led to a more, abnormally feminized society, and it is no wonder immigrants and especially sneaky muslims from the third world are having a blast turning our own neutering laws against us.
We removed fathers from our societies, and as result everything that is related to it disapeared with it; hierarchy, authority -the figure of authority AUTHORIZES...just a reminder- respect.
i cant believe im going to say this but i actually agree with you on everything except the religious part, physical force is sometimes needed as a tool for the reasons you mentioned.
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Ya gotta love it when the hate is so strong, these guys will ignore the laws of physics before they concede i made point...LOLOL
Me..."the sun rises in the east and sets in the west"
haters..."No it doesn't, you're a narcissist" ::) ::) :D
This is what it sounds like when you hit guitar strings.
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This is what it sounds like when you hit guitar strings.
what...you play a song ? sounded like music to me, different notes and chords, all that good shit.
Now the style he was playing ;)was very choppy and rhythmic...but I'm sure you can play something quite melodic using the same technique . or is there a law in music have you have to hit the strings like that all the time?
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i cant believe im going to say this but i actually agree with you on everything except the religious part, physical force is sometimes needed as a tool for the reasons you mentioned.
Kinda ironic that the one guy who more people want to punch in the face is the one talking about how force is needed to put some people in their place
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what...you play a song ? sounded like music to me, different notes and chords, all that good shit.
Now the style he was playing ;)was very choppy and rhythmic...but I'm sure you can play something quite melodic using the same technique . or is there a law in music have you have to hit the strings like that all the time?
This is an obscure technique, can't think of any major bands that use this style as a regular bit except maybe a few rhcp songs, it in general sounds like complete dogshit unless you know what your doing, 99 percent of the time you pluck even during that vid he was doing alot of switch ups between strumming and slapping.
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be that as it may...you do have to strike the string in some way for it to make music, yes?
Yes, once again not too hard not too light - just right - then you have stamina to play for a long time, if you play difficult rhythm pieces with hard and fast up and down strokes it is hard to play all night - best to adopt a technique that allows enough force to make pleasant sounds, but not so hard that you lose your stamina - just like fucking - plus our digits don't have much stamina naturally - so they need to be trained to reach performance level
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what...you play a song ? sounded like music to me, different notes and chords, all that good shit.
Now the style he was playing ;)was very choppy and rhythmic...but I'm sure you can play something quite melodic using the same technique . or is there a law in music have you have to hit the strings like that all the time?
This is what this "wanna be" is trying to do
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Enjoy - Andy is my Guitar Hero - and I am guitarist - highly recommended
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"Passive agressiveness" doesnt exist, it's not a personality, a caracther, trait, a behavior, it's at best a strategy of survival we re all meant one day or another to use in our existence to face difficult relationships with someone else who for some reasons has a problem with us.
It does exist. Personality can be defined as pervasive behavior patterns across different situations and there are some people that systematically revert to passive aggressive strategies, thus making it a personality trait.
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People who are too pussy to talk shit to others, so they come to GetBig and talk shit here instead.
This ^
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People that are too pussy to say what they mean because they are afraid of confrontation. So they are aggressive by using sarcasm.
The best way to combat this is to confront them. Most people dont like confrontation...I happen to like it and call people out...they dont like it. Passive aggressiveness is for betas.
Not quite right. A true passive aggressive person can be sarcastic, but would not admit it. If it was admitted, it would by definition not be "passive" agression.
The passive aggressive person will give you the silent treatment, conveniently "forget" appointments with you, not do agreed upon tasks, get "sick" when confronted with demands etc, never admitting hostility.
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About 90% of Facebook young people are Passive Aggressive
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maybe sometimes "passive aggressive" is simply what Person A calls Person B, when Person B seriously wants nothing to do with Person A.
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"The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children.
And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know my name is The Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee."
I been saying that shit for years. And if you heard it, that meant your ass. I never gave much thought to what it meant. I just thought it was some cold-blooded shit to say to a #### before I popped a cap in his ass. But I saw some shit this morning made me think twice. See, now I'm thinking, maybe it means you're the evil man, and I'm the righteous man, and Mr. 9 millimeter here, he's the shepherd protecting my righteous ass in the valley of darkness.
Or it could mean you're the righteous man and I'm the shepherd and it's the world that's evil and selfish. I'd like that. But that shit ain't the truth. The truth is, you're the weak, and I'm the tyranny of evil men. But I'm trying, Ringo. I'm trying real hard to be the shepherd.
Bad motherf*cker.
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force necessary ??
ok... on a biblical note.. since thats where you get your religion from..
then why did Jesus allow himself to be crucified? Wouldnt he have been able to do more good on earth if he lived forever, as he obviously couldve done being the son of god, preaching and doing miracles for thousands of years? or better yet, why doesnt God himself strike down any evil doers the second they threaten society or another person in any way?
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force is not justified nor is it necessary
If I snatched your pink thong down Santa Monica Boulevard, you'd probably chase me like the fairy you are, trying to sink your freshly glued fake nails into my face. Fuck off TBombz - Read something other than Gay Jizzbomb Monthly and figure the fucking reasons out yourself.
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Not quite right. A true passive aggressive person can be sarcastic, but would not admit it. If it was admitted, it would by definition not be "passive" agression.
The passive aggressive person will give you the silent treatment, conveniently "forget" appointments with you, not do agreed upon tasks, get "sick" when confronted with demands etc, never admitting hostility.
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Agreed sarcasm is used by assertitive people just as often. Hiding your hostility isn't PA, it's when you hide your true feelings and expose your hostility at inappropiate times.
I.E. This is how all chicks work if they don't like a guy because he's black, they'll starting talking about how creepy he is, when in reality they just racist as fuck. At some point they will rat him out to a group of peers, and ignore the actual issue.
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Agreed sarcasm is used by assertitive people just as often. Hiding your hostility isn't PA, it's when you hide your true feelings and expose your hostility at inappropiate times. I.E. This is how all chicks work if they don't like a guy because he's black, they'll starting talking about how creepy he is, when in reality they just racist as fuck. At some point they will rat him out to a group of peers, and ignore the actual issue.
Yup. I know im passive aggressive, but its from body dysmorphia/avoidant personality and im pretty sure Borderline Personality causes passive aggressiveness too.
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About 90% of Facebook is Passive Aggressive
About 90% of life is passive aggressive.
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passive aggressive and Irony are the two most misused terms on Getbig...probably life in general
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About 90% of life is passive aggressive.
Almost 100% of Pro bbers are passive-aggresive.
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passive aggressive and Irony are the two most misused terms on Getbig...probably life in general
Yes irony is often used instead of coincidence.
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Yes irony is often used instead of coincidence.
and hypocrisy, people always confuse Irony with it
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Is it possible to find an insult comic who wasn't passive aggressive?
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it saves lives of the weak ones
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and hypocrisy, people always confuse Irony with it
Definition of HYPOCRISY
1. : a feigning to be what one is not or to believe what one does not; especially: the false assumption of an appearance of virtue or religion
Definition of IRONY
1. : a pretense of ignorance and of willingness to learn from another assumed in order to make the other's false conceptions conspicuous by adroit questioning —called also Socratic irony
2. a: the use of words to express something other than and especially the opposite of the literal meaning
b: a usually humorous or sardonic literary style or form characterized by irony
c: an ironic expression or utterance
3. a (1): incongruity between the actual result of a sequence of events and the normal or expected result (2): an event or result marked by such incongruity
b: incongruity between a situation developed in a drama and the accompanying words or actions that is understood by the audience but not by the characters in the play —called also dramatic irony, tragic irony
How does one confuse these two terms?
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If I snatched your pink thong down Santa Monica Boulevard, you'd probably chase me like the fairy you are, trying to sink your freshly glued fake nails into my face. Fuck off TBombz - Read something other than Gay Jizzbomb Monthly and figure the fucking reasons out yourself.
hello uberman gimmick
dont worry, ill always be here to help guide you on your journey to truth brother.
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The one and only Johnny Faican's video. Passive Aggressive or not?
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This place would never exist in real life, i have yet to walk into any establishment in my life where people are hurling vicious personal insults at one another non-stop.
This situation you describe is most families I have known, including my own ;D
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This place would never exist in real life, i have yet to walk into any establishment in my life where people are hurling vicious personal insults at one another non-stop.
the closest thing it comes to is a boys locker room in high school, where guys start "ranking out' each other,and talking shit... and it goes and goes., everybody cracking jokes and taking shots at each other.... until somebody crosses the line,and goes too far with an insult
Then everybody gets all quiet and serious... because shit just got real,and there might even be a fight if it persists... Problem with this place is people post the "too far" shit all day long without worrying about shit getting real ;)
By George, Groink I think you've really hit the nail on the head in describing most of the Getbig forum. It is exactly like high school. Damn my amazing memory! Only difference now is if this were real life, I could take some of these fuckers out....not at all like high school for me when I was pretty much afraid of my own shadow....but still with a big mouth that often got me into trouble.
Probably everyone has those moments when they are passive aggressive. It is those who make it a fulltime way of living that are truly messed up. In my lifetime, I have known a few folks like that. They aren't very happy people as best as I can tell.
I know I get myself into trouble by being honest here. But at the end of the day, if I have nothing else, I have my honesty. That's probably a lot more than many of the posters here can say.
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The one and only Johnny Faican's video. Passive Aggressive or not?
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Bangbros for beginners.
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A student who refuses to do his home work , when they have the ability to complete it , and thus sabotage their own grade ...
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A student who refuses to do his home work , when they have the ability to complete it , and thus sabotage their own grade ...
lol. very good.
I like algebra, its like fucking around but keeping shit equal