if someone says something passive agressive to you it's a hostile remark about you but done in a sneaky sarcastic or 'read between the lines' way. like someone said it's because they are afraid of confrontation.
thats because physical violence has been banned, so people focus on developing psychological, verbal/oral aggressivity. They surdevelop that capacity as the use of the other capacity, is forbidden nowadays. Basically people become more and more perverse psychologically, and are encouraged to do so, when in the past strenght was used to put someone -wether it s another man, a kid, a woman- in its place.
The use of force has been labeled as being nazi, racist, bad, as men have been labeled as nazis everytime they use force to make a point. Fact is, it is sometimes necessary. Constant use of force is dumb, constant use of care is also dumb, the balance lies in between.
All of this is again a direct result of the disapearing of religion that led to the disapearing of the father, and the implosion of the family and ultimately the implosion of society itself. The Bible tells us when to use strenght and when to use tenderness to adapt and survive at the benefit of the group.
Benevolent use of force by someone who has faith and takes the interest of the group at heart is necessary. Without it everything collapses and people become and more perverse and malvolent.
Disapearing, or abandonning of religion has led to a more, abnormally feminized society, and it is no wonder immigrants and especially sneaky muslims from the third world are having a blast turning our own neutering laws against us.
We removed fathers from our societies, and as result everything that is related to it disapeared with it; hierarchy, authority -the figure of authority AUTHORIZES...just a reminder- respect.