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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Super Natural on January 17, 2012, 07:27:17 AM
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As we all get older, it's a simple fact that we rack up some mistakes here and there over time.
But wherever we are as guys, it's almost certain that you're going to find out something about a woman you're dating that you wish you hadn't found out.
Or...if you're GLAD you found it out, you at least WISH it had never happened.
And when it happens, you're going to have to have figured out ahead of time what constitutes a "deal breaker" to you versus what you'll have to absorb and let go.
* If you find out she has slept with 30 or 40 guys instead of 3 or 4, how will you respond?
* If you find out she spent two months in jail a few years ago, what will your reaction be?
* If it's your third date and she all of the sudden announces she has two children, then what?
When it comes to women what's your DEAL BREAKER? Discuss...
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Cigarettes, children and the overuse of bad language
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Webbed feet....
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She is not virgin in the ass
Has been with people i don't like
Has no class
Has been a stripper/done porn.
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Im very picky.
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A penis
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As we all get older, it's a simple fact that we rack up some mistakes here and there over time.
But wherever we are as guys, it's almost certain that you're going to find out something about a woman you're dating that you wish you hadn't found out.
Or...if you're GLAD you found it out, you at least WISH it had never happened.
And when it happens, you're going to have to have figured out ahead of time what constitutes a "deal breaker" to you versus what you'll have to absorb and let go.
* If you find out she has slept with 30 or 40 guys instead of 3 or 4, how will you respond?
* If you find out she spent two months in jail a few years ago, what will your reaction be?
* If it's your third date and she all of the sudden announces she has two children, then what?
When it comes to women what's your DEAL BREAKER? Discuss...
Women who tell you on the first date they were sexually molested as childrenv- I dont what it is, but I have had a few women confide in me within hours of meeting them - even though I feel sorry for them - that's a deal breaker, I understand that they have boundary issues due to abuse blah blah blah, but that is and was def a deal breaker. Although, I did fuck one of them first - is that wrong?
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A penis
Not if mine is bigger. Bragging rights! 8)
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When she confesses the son who's 'really huge and into bodybuilding' is you.
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Being Muslim
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Not if mine is bigger. Bragging rights! 8)
lol
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Being Muslim
That's fine, unless she starts backpack shopping, and the internet history on computer is mostly fertilizer sites or how to guides on flying planes without concerns re take-off or landing...
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Implying getbig has standards.
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Having the bastard rush on to a public notice board like this asking such questions about our relationship where it can be pot shot at
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-children
-cigarette
-still thinking about ex (easy to detect)
-molested - no father.
-food trouble
-sex trouble
-too skinny
-muslim
-ask too many question about your ex gf
so 80% of women are out.
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If she thinks uberman is a cool cat !
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herpes
heavy drinker/alcoholic
doesn`t give head
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1- Her ex is in prison 3 years and almost out. (Thanks but no thanks)
2-Likes to smoke WEED EVEN WHEN SHE GOES OUT LADIES NIGHT.. (The Fuck out of my way)
3-Bipolar... (one almots drove me crazy)
4-Takes pride on using her GHETO talk.
5- Tattoos too big or near vagina area (sadly Ive been really atttracted to 2 hoes who thought that was "the shit")
6-Sleeps with cats and dogs or any other pet in bed .
7-Likes to go out in pjs.
8-Has More than one kid
9-Has dated every single race known to humanity...(I'm latino)
10- she's done coke ,threesomes but according to her "those days are behind her"
11-Has had Boobs reduction (i know is a weird one but a deal breaker in my book)
WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHH
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Hairy asshole.
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There's too many to count.
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I think I`d be safe in saying,all of the above!
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As we all get older, it's a simple fact that we rack up some mistakes here and there over time.
But wherever we are as guys, it's almost certain that you're going to find out something about a woman you're dating that you wish you hadn't found out.
Or...if you're GLAD you found it out, you at least WISH it had never happened.
And when it happens, you're going to have to have figured out ahead of time what constitutes a "deal breaker" to you versus what you'll have to absorb and let go.
* If you find out she has slept with 30 or 40 guys instead of 3 or 4, how will you respond?
* If you find out she spent two months in jail a few years ago, what will your reaction be?
* If it's your third date and she all of the sudden announces she has two children, then what?
When it comes to women what's your DEAL BREAKER? Discuss...
1. Lying about important stuff
2. Fatness and uglyness
3. Bad hygiene :-)
4. Stupidness
5. Evilness
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-no ass
-loud vulgar mouth
-disrespectful
-Dirty house/room
-bad breath
-texts on phone to much
-stinky pussy
-talks like valley girl retard-
-talks like a ghetto piece of shit
-pack a day smoker
-stuck up
-non christian
-loud and obnoxious
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bad hygiene, big mouth, not classy, no humor, not much interests.
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-no ass
-loud vulgar mouth
-disrespectful
-Dirty house/room
-bad breath
-texts on phone to much
-stinky pussy
-talks like valley girl retard-
-talks like a ghetto piece of shit
-pack a day smoker
-stuck up
-non christian
-loud and obnoxious
;D
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As we all get older, it's a simple fact that we rack up some mistakes here and there over time.
But wherever we are as guys, it's almost certain that you're going to find out something about a woman you're dating that you wish you hadn't found out.
Or...if you're GLAD you found it out, you at least WISH it had never happened.
And when it happens, you're going to have to have figured out ahead of time what constitutes a "deal breaker" to you versus what you'll have to absorb and let go.
* If you find out she has slept with 30 or 40 guys instead of 3 or 4, how will you respond?
* If you find out she spent two months in jail a few years ago, what will your reaction be?
* If it's your third date and she all of the sudden announces she has two children, then what?
When it comes to women what's your DEAL BREAKER? Discuss...
Fat
Wanting children
Having a child already (unless she's into wild anal, then that overrides this particular rule)
Smoke
Drink
Older than 40
I don't actually care how many guys she slept with as I'll never marry the bitch anyway.
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- a girl who constantly complains about anything and everything
- a girl who acts tough
- a girl who fucks me the first time I meet her (of course I want her to, but this means she is more likely to cheat)
- a girl with no tits whatsoever
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-no ass
-loud vulgar mouth
-disrespectful
-Dirty house/room
-bad breath
-texts on phone to much
-stinky pussy
-talks like valley girl retard-
-talks like a ghetto piece of shit
-pack a day smoker
-stuck up
-non christian
-loud and obnoxious
I forgot that one. These days women treat their phones like big black cocks.
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- doesnt have a good relationship with her parents....
- no humor
- no hygiene
- skinny
- doesn't like sex
- drinks to much
- no ass
- talks loud and has no manners
- violent
- dyes her hair a different color every week.... lol...
- does drugs
- doesn't like kids
- depended on others
- dumb
well i could think of some more but the list is getting long as it is... ;)
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bad hygiene, big mouth, not classy, no humor, not much interests.
no tits, no ass, no life.
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Man all the requirments really narrow down are selections ;D
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Man all the requirments really narrow down are selections ;D
dude i swear your list had me laughing so hard i was in pain because its all true. ;D
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Brings me my 5pm meal at 5:04pm
Doesn't know how to convert my Battle For The Olympa VHS' to DVD's
Won't get on top when I'm too tired to thrust while only taking in 500 grams of carbs a day
Won't put my fanny pack in her purse when I take her out to Jack In The Box
Uses all my Veet on her bikini line, while mine grows unkept
Bedazzles my posing thong with diamonds instead of rhinestones.
Buys whey concentrate instead of isolate
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Brings me my 5pm meal at 5:04pm
Doesn't know how to convert my Battle For The Olympa VHS' to DVD's
Won't get on top when I'm too tired to thrust while only taking in 500 grams of carbs a day
Won't put my fanny pack in her purse when I take her out to Jack In The Box
Uses all my Veet on her bikini line, while mine grows unkept
Bedazzles my posing thong with diamonds instead of rhinestones.
Buys whey concentrate instead of isolate
-Refuses to bring me protein shake upon awakening her at 2am & 6am in the morning so I can keep my metabolism and catabolism under control
-Gets upset when I dont come home at night because I am bangin her girlfriend
-Refuses to sleep in the wet spot
-Wont take it up the ASS when I am in the mood
-Backchat - lippiness
-Not knowing her place
-Complains to Police when I beat her for insolence & wont accept it is for her own good
-Refuses to accept my necessary affairs
-Insistence on female liberation and the belief they have equal rights
-Deliberately suggesting that Men aren't all powerful just to be provocative
-Taking offence to sexist jokes
-Insisting that women should vote and be in politics even though they become highly irrational once a month
-Believing she can beat up men
-Inists upright rows are not damaging to your shoulders & that smith machines are important to weight training
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Brings me my 5pm meal at 5:04pm
Doesn't know how to convert my Battle For The Olympa VHS' to DVD's
Won't get on top when I'm too tired to thrust while only taking in 500 grams of carbs a day
Won't put my fanny pack in her purse when I take her out to Jack In The Box
Uses all my Veet on her bikini line, while mine grows unkept
Bedazzles my posing thong with diamonds instead of rhinestones.
Buys whey concentrate instead of isolate
Fucking LOL! ;D
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She wants me to move my soloflex and treadmill for "necessities" like a sofa or television
Doesn't know what aisle the baby water is in at the supermarket
Thinks my 6" leather weight belt isn't "appropriate" to wear when meeting her parents
Thinks Pat Banya is natural
Insists on putting batteries in the smoke alarm, even if it means it may accidentally goes off at 3am and mess up my natural GH release
Thinks Kigtropin isn't bunk
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Fucking LOL! ;D
funny guy!!!!
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-Refuses to bring me protein shake upon awakening her at 2am & 6am in the morning so I can keep my metabolism and catabolism under control
-Gets upset when I dont come home at night because I am bangin her girlfriend
-Refuses to sleep in the wet spot
-Wont take it up the ASS when I am in the mood
-Backchat - lippiness
-Not knowing her place
-Complains to Police when I beat her for insolence & wont accept it is for her own good
-Refuses to accept my necessary affairs
-Insistence on female liberation and the belief they have equal rights
-Deliberately suggesting that Men aren't all powerful just to be provocative
-Taking offence to sexist jokes
-Insisting that women should vote and be in politics even though they become highly irrational once a month
-Believing she can beat up men
-Inists upright rows are not damaging to your shoulders & that smith machines are important to weight training
LOL. Funny shit ;D
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She wants me to move my soloflex and treadmill for "necessities" like a sofa or television
Doesn't know what aisle the baby water is in at the supermarket
Thinks my 6" leather weight belt isn't "appropriate" to wear when meeting her parents
Thinks Pat Banya is natural
Insists on putting batteries in the smoke alarm, even if it means it may accidentally goes off at 3am and mess up my natural GH release
Thinks Kigtropin isn't bunk
;D ;D ;D
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Hahaha - Mass04 owning this thread! ;D
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H..A..V..I..N..G..
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G...A...G
R,,E,,F,,L,,E,,X
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Poor hygiene
Has a love of anal sex (I am not into it, sorry)
Does drugs/regularly goes out with girlfriends and gets drunk
Won't grow a nice furry muff on my request
Dresses like a skank
Demands we live together/marry
Wants to go out each and every weekend
Isn't physically active in any way
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Hahaha - Mass04 owning this thread! ;D
Lol good thread turned out great. mass04 and this one is gold posts.
Believing Pat Banya is natural...
I dont dare to post!
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-girls who swear a lot
-girls with more male than female friends (I don't want to have to compete with five different guys)
-girls with a dominant male "best friend" (more than likely he's stringing her along to fall back on when his relationship collapses)
-girls who are overtly attention hungry
-girls who have been in far more relationships than I have (ten different people by age 25? fuck off)
-girls with an alcohol problem (many have it and don't know it, they just say they "like to have a bit of fun on the weekend")
-girls who are co-dependent (I won't be your crutch to lean on, nor do I want you to be mine)
-girls who are critical of everything (you can't connect with me this way)
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My dealbreakers:
Girls who:
smoke
drink too much alcohol or do drugs
cynical, disbelieving, and/or negative about everything
feminists
bad temper
lack of interests/hobbies
lack of sense of humour
post constant pics/status updates of themselves on Facebook
act like precious little princesses and expect to be treated this way
tight with money
lack of hips, ass, and/or skinny legs (shallow I know but it really is a turn-off for me)
bad breath
clingy
paranoid
gossip
I could go all day with this.
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black
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drink too much alcohol or do drugs
Isn't that about 99% these days. :-\
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My dealbreakers:
Girls who:
smoke
drink too much alcohol or do drugs
cynical, disbelieving, and/or negative about everything
feminists
bad temper
lack of interests/hobbies
lack of sense of humour
post constant pics/status updates of themselves on Facebook
act like precious little princesses and expect to be treated this way
tight with money
lack of hips, ass, and/or skinny legs (shallow I know but it really is a turn-off for me)
bad breath
clingy
paranoid
gossip
I could go all day with this.
nice one, I should have thought of that one, I hate those bitches ;)
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Not being a gay retarded amputee midget with a cleft pallete,Who doesent like fisting comaqtose patients in the dark back areas of the hospital with her compact little midget hands ,,,,,,,,,,,You know just the ussual
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no tits, no ass, no life.
;D
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Brings me my 5pm meal at 5:04pm
Doesn't know how to convert my Battle For The Olympa VHS' to DVD's
Won't get on top when I'm too tired to thrust while only taking in 500 grams of carbs a day
Won't put my fanny pack in her purse when I take her out to Jack In The Box
Uses all my Veet on her bikini line, while mine grows unkept
Bedazzles my posing thong with diamonds instead of rhinestones.
Buys whey concentrate instead of isolate
You got to be the funniest fucker this forum has to offer. Hahahaha. Love your posts, man.
Congrats, Mass04 ... you're now IRON DISCIPLE APPROVED. ;-) :D
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I'm this generation I think we all accept that a majority of the women over the age of 26 have kids....even the hot ones
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When she speaks before spoken to.
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Chicks with credit card debt, or feel there that their intitled to any "lifestyle".
Not wanting kids. Even if I don't want em, a chick is still suppose to be a woman.
Engaging in risky std behaviour, and lying about such behaviour.
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:o
3333658 as a young tot !! ;D
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:o
3333658 as a young tot !! ;D
;D
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there are many things i don't like but i don't have a check list, i would say the only thing that would chase me away is being a drug user and being very materialistic
nobody is perfect, i don't think a deal breaker should be a mistake they made in the distant past
i just want her to look good and accept me for what i am
i'm easy to please
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there are many things i don't like but i don't have a check list, i would say the only thing that would chase me away is being a drug user and being very materialistic
nobody is perfect, i don't think a deal breaker should be a mistake they made in the distant past
i just want her to look good and accept me for what i am
i'm easy to please
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Who are you kidding Earl.....if she considers Swann and Stallworth the greatest WR duo of all-time and thinks Levrone was robbed.....she's in. ;D
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Who are you kidding Earl.....if she considers Swann and Stallworth the greatest WR duo of all-time and thinks Levrone was robbed.....she's in. ;D
this would help a lot, no matter how much of a drug user she is :)
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this would help a lot, no matter how much of a drug user she is :)
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Exactly. If a chick hates Duke basketball she climbs two points on the 10pt scale.
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I have been happily married for quite some time, but when I was single, the #1 deal breaker for me was if a woman suffered from depression.
If I found out that a girl was taking any depression medication, it was a done deal.
I had dated a very beautiful girl who had been prescribed Lexapro by a general practitioner. First of all, a GP shouldn't be prescribing that shit for the long term. Secondly, once someone is on that shit, it is difficult as hell to ween them off, and the withdrawal is a bitch.
A doctor friend of mine, whom I trust, told me to run, not walk the other way, when dealing with a woman who was depressed.
That's my number one deal breaker right there,with depression comes Bipolar,bad temper,lack of interest etc...
Yes even if shes hot looking, youre better off RUNNING.
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this would help a lot, no matter how much of a drug user she is :)
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;D
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Borderline personality disorder, no ma'am...even though they can be very good in bed.
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Mudshark.
Some lines never get crossed. ;D
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bitches who brush their teeth,
don't smoke,
don't like to make out after licking my ass,
good hygene,
bathes regularily,
dresses nice,
nice hair,
long manicured nails,
wears perfume,
wants sex more than once a week
Raiders fan,
went to an all girls school,
religious,
more than three felonies including possession or intent to disribute.
Previously charged with assault with intent to injure more than 4 times.
uses an iphone,
wants to talk more than once a week, especially during the once weekly sex time.
listens to music,
knows how to use a computer,
watches TV,
knows what DVDs are,
never been raped,
at least never been anally rapes.
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Borderline personality disorder, no ma'am...even though they can be very good in bed.
Yes very passionate but these freaks will make you fucking crazy.
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an ex of mine told me that she had a threesome with 2 guys.... As open minded as I am, I have to admit I found that really hard to deal with.
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an ex of mine told me that she had a threesome with 2 guys.... As open minded as I am, I have to admit I found that really hard to deal with.
And if she had a threesome with 1 girl and 1 guy.....or with 2 girls.... :P :P
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And if she had a threesome with 1 girl and 1 guy.....or with 2 girls.... :P :P
I know I know, Im gonna be honest... two girls doesnt seem as bad! hahahaha
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I know I know, Im gonna be honest... two girls doesnt seem as bad! hahahaha
Well, two girls is good, coz then you can get that too. :D Whether you want that in a "relationship" is another matter.....
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Well, two girls is good, coz then you can get that too. :D Whether you want that in a "relationship" is another matter.....
Or at least you can ask her if you can watch.... ;D
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1. Speaking directly to me
2. See rule 1.
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Partakes in facebook drama
Does anything tobacco related
No ass
Too pale
Lives on phone
Talks too loud
Drinks too much
Depression issues
Talks to ex or about ex
Asks me about my ex
Has a lot of guy "friends"
not intelligent
mudshark
has kids
I could go all day about things that irritate me
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That she gets naked for 70+ people on cam.
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1- Gets drunk with 2 drinks
2-Becomes slutty when she's drunk.
WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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A chick who follows the lives of celebrities.
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- rec drugs (hate them)
- hairy (don't mind a little body hair but if they resemble a bear, then I am not getting naked with them)
- hates animals (this spells a pshyco and someone to stay clear of and that includes any animal cruelty)
- narrow minded people (hate them)
- no sense of humour ( dull and boring and can't have a laugh...someone you don't need because when times are tough you need to be able to laugh at things together...it keeps you both sane)
- controlling, pocessive, extremely jealous ( I can't take that shit and won't)
liars- (if you can't be honest with me then fuck off. How can I trust someone who lies...you just can't.)
- impotency (I am sweet and caring until he can't get it up and then I will throw him out of the house. Not putting up with that shit...get your dick working or get out).
- Into threesomes and sharing ( I don't bring other people into my relationship...that is sacred.)
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- controlling, pocessive, extremely jealous ( I can't take that shit and won't)
- Into threesomes and sharing ( I don't bring other people into my relationship...that is sacred.)
kind of hypocritical with these two booty
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kind of hypocritical with these two booty
How exactly?
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I can't stand religious and "spiritual" chicks.
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flat ass
thin lips
short legs
girls who wear uggs
girls with black hair..yuck!
mudshark
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Fake, old, annoying and immature women like "booty".
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I can't believe someone would say "not christian" or "not religious"...
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Fake, old, annoying and immature women like "booty".
I have no idea who she is but by the things she doesnt like she sounds like a good catch...
Not hitting on her or anything just saying.
Btw, a naive question, if a woman dates a latino,is she considered a Mudshark too?
WOOOSSSSH
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Everything you all said minus the mudshark. :D
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Bad breath, seriously, I could deal with a smelly pussy over bad breath.
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Borderline personality disorder, no ma'am...even though they can be very good in bed.
Years ago, I dated a bi-polar girl. She had lots of issues but my goodness, she was a freak and a half.
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1- Gets drunk with 2 drinks
2-Becomes slutty when she's drunk.
WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Deal breaker ???
....sounds like a deal maker ;D
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This put you on...
- Into threesomes and sharing ( I don't bring other people into my relationship...that is sacred.)
.. that category.
- narrow minded people (hate them)
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Bad breath, seriously, I could deal with a smelly pussy over bad breath.
true. can't be overlooked, instant repelling despite hotness
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BIG FLAPS, shit is like being attacked by the alien from alien one :P
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How exactly?
monogomy is based on possessiveness and jealousy
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-children
-cigarette
-still thinking about ex (easy to detect)
-molested - no father.
-food trouble
-sex trouble
-too skinny
-muslim
-ask too many question about your ex gf
so 80% of women are out.
smart man right here
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monogomy is based on possessiveness and jealousy
No it isn't. It's based on trust, respect for each other and love. Why would you share the person that you love? You might as well stay single if you are going to sleep around with other people.
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No it isn't. It's based on trust, respect for each other and love. Why would you share the person that you love? You might as well stay single if you are going to sleep around with other people.
every relationship is based on trust respect and love.
monogomy, prohibiting your loved one from loving others, and vice versa, is a relationship designed to make the two who partake feel special, better than everyone else. your partner neither needs nor wants anyone else but you.
depends on what you mean by single. very few people want to live alone, spend their life by their lonesome. we all want a partner, someone or people to spend our life with, to come home to, wake up with. but that doesnt mean you have to isolate your sexual being and sexual love from other people. its not necessary to isolate your partner either.
i like monogomy, i like feeling special, but i do so knowing full well that such a relationship is based on posessiveness, jealousy, insecurity, and immaturity.
a non possessive, unjealous, secure, and mature person would not want to isolate themself or their partner from other people, in any way shape or form. they would be happy to see their partner forming other loving relationships, and take pride in being with someone that others wanted to sex.
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I'm not a fan of the black but they are easy so "White" is no longer on my Deal breaker list
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also, because girls are becoming bigger whores at a earlier age I don't have to worry about that "gag reflex"
god bless you jessie spano
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1. SQUAKING/ANNOYING VOICE.
2. Bad Manners.
3. Selfishness
4.SQUAKING/ANNOYING VOICE.
5. Mean odors
6. Starting every fucking sentence with "like"
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every relationship is based on trust respect and love.
monogomy, prohibiting your loved one from loving others, and vice versa, is a relationship designed to make the two who partake feel special, better than everyone else. your partner neither needs nor wants anyone else but you.
depends on what you mean by single. very few people want to live alone, spend their life by their lonesome. we all want a partner, someone or people to spend our life with, to come home to, wake up with. but that doesnt mean you have to isolate your sexual being and sexual love from other people. its not necessary to isolate your partner either.
i like monogomy, i like feeling special, but i do so knowing full well that such a relationship is based on posessiveness, jealousy, insecurity, and immaturity.
a non possessive, unjealous, secure, and mature person would not want to isolate themself or their partner from other people, in any way shape or form. they would be happy to see their partner forming other loving relationships, and take pride in being with someone that others wanted to sex.
absolute crock of shit, not many guys want to see their girl shagged my some random douchebag
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true. can't be overlooked, instant repelling despite hotness
Very true- -smell is important. Got me into a situation I never thought I´d experience. I was dating this beautiful woman, her sex-drive was increasing steadily. In the end, she was horny all the time. I have always been the one with the highest sex drive in my relationships, but things started to go wrong with her.
There was always this faint smell with her that I did not like. Some body odour and breath smell. Not directly bad, but something ... hmm "organic" and unpleasent. Hard to define, but definitely something I never enjoyed. I loved the way my previous girlfriend smelled, but this...
Anyway, I started to notice this smell more and more, and I started to get repulsed by it, and as a consequence, by her. I started rejecting her in bed ;-/. Incredible but true- never happened before to me. And, mind you, this was a beautiful woman. As a result, the relationship spiraled towards the end. To be honest, she was a bit unstable as well ;-) and did not take rejection well.
But, smells are powerful emotional signals. The olfactory (smell) cortex in the brain is directly adjacent to structures in the "reptile" brain- the limbic system and thus may be the most emotionally important sensory function.
NN
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every relationship is based on trust respect and love.
monogomy, prohibiting your loved one from loving others, and vice versa, is a relationship designed to make the two who partake feel special, better than everyone else. your partner neither needs nor wants anyone else but you.
depends on what you mean by single. very few people want to live alone, spend their life by their lonesome. we all want a partner, someone or people to spend our life with, to come home to, wake up with. but that doesnt mean you have to isolate your sexual being and sexual love from other people. its not necessary to isolate your partner either.
i like monogomy, i like feeling special, but i do so knowing full well that such a relationship is based on posessiveness, jealousy, insecurity, and immaturity.
a non possessive, unjealous, secure, and mature person would not want to isolate themself or their partner from other people, in any way shape or form. they would be happy to see their partner forming other loving relationships, and take pride in being with someone that others wanted to sex.
i think that´s bullshit...
if i really love a woman , i do not want some other dude putting his hands on my woman....
possesive? hell yeah! she chose to be with me and vice versa..... if you want to fuck around and have threeways or orgies... stay single or just have an open relationship...
i have had woman that i did not really love, i just liked them a lot lol.. i had threeways, partied with these woman... a lot of fun... but if you really , really love a woman.... you want her for yourself....
and i am not possesive at all in a relationship. i just expect honesty.
i am not someone's owner..... she chose to be with me, when she does so i expect her to be with me and only me.... i in return will do all it takes to keep her interested in me.
if she chooses not to be with me anymore.... well just be honest and talk about it....
fucking around is fun, but there comes a time when a man wants a real woman by his side....your are still very young... lol.. so fuck around a little more.... ;D ;D
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1-saggy long tits(down to her belly).
2-not wearing a damn bra
3-out of shape.
4-fighting at work.
WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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Kids. I don't want any.
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black
VERY TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THE BEEF
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Kids. I don't want any.
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Kids
Mudshark
Smoking
Stupid
No class
Super christian
Ugly hair
Excessive tattoos or any chest tattoo
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Noticed this quite a few times...you're very anti-kids. Or is it just about dating girls who have kids ?
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Noticed this quite a few times...you're very anti-kids. Or is it just about dating girls who have kids ?
No, I'm certainly not "anti-kids" in general. I had good dates with moms, but relationships are another story. It simply won't work for me. When I'm with a nice women, I'd like to sleep out, forget the time, focus on each other, not too much planning things to do... Damn, it's hard to "find" a nice woman without kids on my age :-\
I remember your joke about being a granddad, but how many you have and how old?
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No, I'm certainly not "anti-kids" in general. I had good dates with moms, but relationships are another story. It simply won't work for me. When I'm with a nice women, I'd like to sleep out, forget the time, focus on each other, not too much planning things to do... Damn, it's hard to "find" a nice woman without kids on my age :-\
I remember your joke about being a granddad, but how many you have and how old?
kids are no reason not to sleep out, forget the time, and focus on each other bro....!
just takes a little timing.
;)
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kids are no reason not to sleep out, forget the time, and focus on each other bro....!
just takes a little timing.
;)
Call it timing or planning, the main problem with kids in a relationship, I experienced, was the loss of spontaneity and freedom. Props for all those parents who can manage this. Yes, I have bad genetics when it comes to planning ;D
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Not anti kids .... But if the kid is taller than me.... It's kind of a deal breaker.
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Not anti kids .... But if the kid is taller than me.... It's kind of a deal breaker.
hahaha, you have problems
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Noticed this quite a few times...you're very anti-kids. Or is it just about dating girls who have kids ?
ask him if his parents loved him and if they re still together first... then you ll connect the dots...
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Mine is perfect. :) ;D ;D
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1- Her ex is in prison 3 years and almost out. (Thanks but no thanks)
2-Likes to smoke WEED EVEN WHEN SHE GOES OUT LADIES NIGHT.. (The Fuck out of my way)
3-Bipolar... (one almots drove me crazy)
4-Takes pride on using her GHETO talk.
5- Tattoos too big or near vagina area (sadly Ive been really atttracted to 2 hoes who thought that was "the shit")
6-Sleeps with cats and dogs or any other pet in bed .
7-Likes to go out in pjs.
8-Has More than one kid
9-Has dated every single race known to humanity...(I'm latino)
10- she's done coke ,threesomes but according to her "those days are behind her"
11-Has had Boobs reduction (i know is a weird one but a deal breaker in my book)
WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHH
Excellent list.
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if she does not know how to mix a good post-workout protein drink.
if she does not know most 1990s Mr. Olympia top 10 finishers
if she can't do a decent photoshop
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I have been happily married for quite some time, but when I was single, the #1 deal breaker for me was if a woman suffered from depression.
If I found out that a girl was taking any depression medication, it was a done deal.
I had dated a very beautiful girl who had been prescribed Lexapro by a general practitioner. First of all, a GP shouldn't be prescribing that shit for the long term. Secondly, once someone is on that shit, it is difficult as hell to ween them off, and the withdrawal is a bitch.
A doctor friend of mine, whom I trust, told me to run, not walk the other way, when dealing with a woman who was depressed.
Speaking of Lexapro, I did go out with a chick that didnt want to admit she suffered from depression but was taking some weird shit maybe Lexaprol...when she was off them, she will ignore my calls for days saying that she was just having a very day (week) very hard to read her or even know what was going on inside her head....
Very stresssful to deal with, I did try though :(
WOOOOSSSHHHHHHHHH
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Back in the day , if she called me more than twice in 1 day.
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Back in the day , if she called me more than twice in 1 day.
The modern version of that is posting "I love you!" on fb wall ..... 3 weeks after you met.
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Pointy elbows.
Also a black ex. Once you go black we don't want you back.
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ask him if his parents loved him and if they re still together first... then you ll connect the dots...
If it's your question, be a man, and ask it straight to me.
I have/understand my reasons, and that's what matters.
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Leave DP be, ubersturmbannführer...
And btw, DP, I never stated I got children.... ???
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Leave DP be, ubersturmbannführer...
And btw, DP, I never stated I got children.... ???
People like Uberman are good for this forum; we need different views.
You joked about being granddad, so I thought you had kids.
In case you don't want to disclose this, I respect that.
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I also joked that I work out.... ;D
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I also joked that I work out.... ;D
No, you told me that you train at home, so I wouldn't define that as a working out.
But in all seriousness, hows the training going?
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Worst shape in years.....but I'm starting tomorrow !
Well just didn't train that much, every now and then, but muscle memory does wonders.. :D
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Worst shape in years.....but I'm starting tomorrow !
Well just didn't train that much, every now and then, but muscle memory does wonders.. :D
You look like a "worst"? man, that's worse :-\
In case you're a real Dutch, than "tomorrow" means.... to-mor-row, so dinsdag 24 jan, that is.
Yep, muscle memory does wonders, esp with many years under the belt, but the first week always sucks, haha!
Specific reasons why you train at home?
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I do start today! And I know from experience that the strength is still there, but I blew out both my kneecap tendons once with deadlifting after a longer layoff. So I will start with gayish weights, and increase it considerably during the first weeks.
train at home because of my irregular schedule and because I don't exactly live in a metropolis like Delft so a decent gym is not around the corner.
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I do start today! And I know from experience that the strength is still there, but I blew out both my kneecap tendons once with deadlifting after a longer layoff. So I will start with gayish weights, and increase it considerably during the first weeks.
train at home because of my irregular schedule and because I don't exactly live in a metropolis like Delft so a decent gym is not around the corner.
That's good to hear. Yes, start with light weights, high reps and strict form, and include some cardio work, when needed.
It's the first time that I hear someone, who got knee problems from doing deads. I only get problems while running on hard ground, as an alternative for boring cardio sessions in my gym, so I switched to walking for an hour. In case I feel some pain I use knee wraps.
Believe me, there are no decent gyms in my town. Apart from a squat rack and heavy DB's, my gym is rather a trendy health spa, but hey, to me it's better than training at home. I've tried it, but I've lost the drive.