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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: True on September 18, 2012, 03:13:33 PM
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I consider myself a fairly handsome guy, Ive gotten a lot of compliments throughout the years, and many girls have shown interest in me - especially during the the high school age days. Not so much now as then though (getting older sucks). But heres the thing, and this is what sucks about being a guy, even an handsome one... You still have to put in A LOT more work to get a good looking girl, than an average girl have to put in to get an handsome guy... Lets put it this way, a guy that is a 8 might have to put in a lot of work just to get a 6 or a 7, while a girl that is a 5 can easy end up with a 8. I would almost consider myself lucky these days if I manage to hook up with a decent looking girl, because all the requests I get on the Internet is mainly average to ugly as fuck chicks. :-X Some of these chicks must think Im really that desperate. Just because I have a dick doesnt mean I`ll fuck anything, but I have at least decided to lower my standards considerably due to the fact that I need to at least hook up with SOMEONE in the near future! Theres just not that much to pick from around these parts so it kind of sucks, but hey thats life I guess.
Any thoughts on this or experiences?
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are you danish?
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^and then you realize that the $500 was a damn good bargain.
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^and then you realize that the $500 was a damn good bargain.
Parker knows his Television deals, he recently got a flat screen at walgreens along with his ECA stack
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Parker knows his Television deals, he recently got a flat screen at walgreens along with his ECA stack
That's Rite Aid ;D
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Any thoughts on this or experiences?
You sound like a bitch.
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It sucks, from what I've seen the reward is in your 40's-50's when the women start to age, and you still look the same. Then get some 25 year old who wants your money. It's a trade off really.
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Maybe you`re not as good looking as you think :-\
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You are completely correct in your assertion.
The problem is, most men are willing to do so much for their respective pussies, most women think they truely are princesses and act accordingly. They feel better than men and men constantly do everything to reinforce their supremacy feeling.
All of this gets worse with the score on 10 of course. But even a 1 will act accordingly, as if she is "special" and in need of a special treatment.
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After you are in your 40`s and have fucked a couple thousand times its not as important as it once was.
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true, is that you in the avatar? i've always wondered.
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girls cum , girls go
who gives a shit
they are all hoes
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girls cum , girls go
who gives a shit
they are all hoes
Princesses, some are hoe-princesses though yes.
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so it seems that we all really dig the female species ;D ;D ;D
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Princesses, some are hoe-princesses though yes.
yes even royalty strip naked for the camera too, even thou they can afford home tanning bed
(http://blog.monty.de/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/topless-picture-of-kate-middleton.jpg)
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I dont even bother nowdays, if getting a good looking woman while out doesnt happen organically Im not too bothered, not worth chasing fatties and the like for the nut, ego boost you dont need anymore or for justifying any self worth.
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I consider myself a fairly handsome guy, Ive gotten a lot of compliments throughout the years, and many girls have shown interest in me - especially during the the high school age days. Not so much now as then though (getting older sucks). But heres the thing, and this is what sucks about being a guy, even an handsome one... You still have to put in A LOT more work to get a good looking girl, than an average girl have to put in to get an handsome guy... Lets put it this way, a guy that is a 8 might have to put in a lot of work just to get a 6 or a 7, while a girl that is a 5 can easy end up with a 8. I would almost consider myself lucky these days if I manage to hook up with a decent looking girl, because all the requests I get on the Internet is mainly average to ugly as fuck chicks. :-X Some of these chicks must think Im really that desperate. Just because I have a dick doesnt mean I`ll fuck anything, but I have at least decided to lower my standards considerably due to the fact that I need to at least hook up with SOMEONE in the near future! Theres just not that much to pick from around these parts so it kind of sucks, but hey thats life I guess.
Any thoughts on this or experiences?
it doesnt take any work, bro. just be cool. calm, collected. project inner confidence, strength, and positivity. some girls like an outgoing guy.. for those girls be cocky funny and witty. some girls like a reserved guy... for those girls dont say much of anything, just listen alot, and when you do say somethning make it concise and profound. that will make them attracted to you. as for hooking up... show a little interest... keep your cool, then when the moment is right just pounce. shits simple man. dont overhtink it.
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Just be yourself. Girls like confidence in a man (not to be confused with cockiness). Be happy with yourself in your own skin and realise that not every woman will be into you but plenty will. I notice that now that I no longer care if when find me attractive, because I am secure within myself, then the more seem to be. Fortunately for me I am with a woman who is attractive on the inside and the outside and have no need for anyone else. Thta's the other thing, when you're with soemone, the bitches all seem to want you!
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I consider myself a fairly handsome guy, Ive gotten a lot of compliments throughout the years, and many girls have shown interest in me - especially during the the high school age days. Not so much now as then though (getting older sucks). But heres the thing, and this is what sucks about being a guy, even an handsome one... You still have to put in A LOT more work to get a good looking girl, than an average girl have to put in to get an handsome guy... Lets put it this way, a guy that is a 8 might have to put in a lot of work just to get a 6 or a 7, while a girl that is a 5 can easy end up with a 8. I would almost consider myself lucky these days if I manage to hook up with a decent looking girl, because all the requests I get on the Internet is mainly average to ugly as fuck chicks. :-X Some of these chicks must think Im really that desperate. Just because I have a dick doesnt mean I`ll fuck anything, but I have at least decided to lower my standards considerably due to the fact that I need to at least hook up with SOMEONE in the near future! Theres just not that much to pick from around these parts so it kind of sucks, but hey thats life I guess.
Any thoughts on this or experiences?
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Thta's the other thing, when you're with soemone, the bitches all seem to want you!
Indeed, just shows you how pathetic most are. They actually WANT to steal a man from his woman ::)
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Indeed, just shows you how pathetic most are. They actually WANT to steal a man from his woman ::)
It`s a subconscious thing that we want what we can`t have. Women are more likely to do this because the majority of them are unaware of the things they do and why they do them. They have absolutely no logic which is why they are the weaker sex. Once a man can understand this it`s not very hard to manipulate them.
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Telling women they can't have you works a charm indeed.
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yes, it sucks that guys have to put in more work to attract the opposite sex but the rewards are worth it. Once in a relationship, we take on the leadership role. We make the executive decisions and we have the final say. Also, women tend to be more selfless than men in a relationship. Usually it's the woman who cooks, cleans, and buys groceries - not the other way around unless you're going after the wrong women. In that case, it's your own damn fault lol
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Telling women they can't have you works a charm indeed.
Man...but when you find one you really really want it can be hard to hide it from them. lol. That`s one thing they`re really good at....is reading us. >:(
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It`s a subconscious thing that we want what we can`t have. Women are more likely to do this because the majority of them are unaware of the things they do and why they do them. They have absolutely no logic which is why they are the weaker sex. Once a man can understand this it`s not very hard to manipulate them.
why lower yourself to thier games?
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yes, it sucks that guys have to put in more work to attract the opposite sex but the rewards are worth it. Once in a relationship, we take on the leadership role. We make the executive decisions and we have the final say. Also, women tend to be more selfless than men in a relationship. Usually it's the woman who cooks, cleans, and buys groceries - not the other way around unless you just found a bad apple. In that case, sucks to be you lol
Like which running shoes are the best ::)
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Like which running shoes are the best
care to explain???
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why lower yourself to thier games?
So you don`t end up like the op ;D
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Not for every guy
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I consider myself a fairly handsome guy, Ive gotten a lot of compliments throughout the years, and many girls have shown interest in me - especially during the the high school age days. Not so much now as then though (getting older sucks). But heres the thing, and this is what sucks about being a guy, even an handsome one... You still have to put in A LOT more work to get a good looking girl, than an average girl have to put in to get an handsome guy... Lets put it this way, a guy that is a 8 might have to put in a lot of work just to get a 6 or a 7, while a girl that is a 5 can easy end up with a 8. I would almost consider myself lucky these days if I manage to hook up with a decent looking girl, because all the requests I get on the Internet is mainly average to ugly as fuck chicks. :-X Some of these chicks must think Im really that desperate. Just because I have a dick doesnt mean I`ll fuck anything, but I have at least decided to lower my standards considerably due to the fact that I need to at least hook up with SOMEONE in the near future! Theres just not that much to pick from around these parts so it kind of sucks, but hey thats life I guess.
Any thoughts on this or experiences?
No shame in going gay, you have our blessing.
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Forget the damn computer for meeting chicks and get out in the real world.
Seriously, though. You sound like a buddy of mine (41) ... who occasionally hooks up but hasn't had a solid girlfriend in a few years. I really think he tries too hard, and that's why he strikes out. I give him credit for approaching girls (gotta be in the game), but sometimes I think he comes on too strong.
I met my wife when I was out not giving a shit ... convinced I would never get married ... and was intent on just going home after a night of drinking followed by a greasy spoon.
Keep yourself out there in real situations ... but just don't try so hard and hit will happen on its own. My two cents.
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yes, it sucks that guys have to put in more work to attract the opposite sex but the rewards are worth it. Once in a relationship, we take on the leadership role. We make the executive decisions and we have the final say. Also, women tend to be more selfless than men in a relationship. Usually it's the woman who cooks, cleans, and buys groceries - not the other way around unless you're going after the wrong women. In that case, it's your own damn fault lol
If you want a hot chick you have to go out and pick them up. Hot chicks are not online, most of those pics online are stock photos to get your $. Only women 10lbs over weight or butt ugly are online, and they are online cause nobody hits on them when they are out...
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there are hot girls online, mostly they seem weird or looking for an ego boost though
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girls cum , girls go
who gives a shit
they are all hoes
This answer here is correct
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there are hot girls online, mostly they seem weird or looking for an ego boost though
those would be perfect for me, as i ain't looking for no goddamn involvement/commitment/"relationship" so send them my way brother ;D
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I would agree here True, 100%. Any girl that's a 5 or above, usually has a dick in her. All most women have to do is spread their legs and they'll get dick. Even a good looking guy will have to maneuver a little get some tail. The fact that an average girl gets checked out a bunch on any given day...say an office setting where Pam Beasley is considered "hot"...it's ridiculous.
I have no problem with a genuinely attractive female getting attention, but today's society with their fake tits epidemic...is truly disgusting.
Now every low end slut who wanted that attention all through high school, but never got it...can validate her one goal existence and get glanced at because she opted for the surgery. I don't look twice at these skanks...the guys who do only perpetuate this nonsense. Implants, right behind steroids....generation phony. ;)
If you want a hot chick you have to go out and pick them up. Hot chicks are not online, most of those pics online are stock photos to get your $. Only women 10lbs over weight or butt ugly are online, and they are online cause nobody hits on them when they are out...
Incorrect. In today's modern age, everyone is on the internet. Maybe on a sex site, but not a real dating site....I will have to agree, most are rough looking...but that is women in general. Just find that top 10%.
Much like Facebook, going on a hook up/dating site isn't uncommon. Especially, if you're reclusive. ;)
The whole "she must be shot, ugly, fat, crazy"...would still apply to most women...right? :D It's not 1988.
I personally have met one in particular who had a solid face, and huge tits...unfortunate for me, the bottom half of the titties were fake, so it didn't pan out...and she was a white trash racist...so crazy I guess.
You would never think it was actually her in her picture...but sure enough, tits the size of my head @24 and good looking...I wish I still had the shot, but it was a good 6 years back.
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Maybe you`re not as good looking as you think :-\
I am by all means not a 10 if thats what you think, but I am above average - I will say that. Heres a pic in my early 20`s.
(https://d6vb69kil3yqp.cloudfront.net/71d6b0ced4fe30f8feda1cd3b8b1f321/92407003_large.jpg)
true, is that you in the avatar? i've always wondered.
Yes it is. Almost 6 years old now though, but thats pretty much the best shape I got in as a natty during my career.
(http://sphotos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/241_37657845236_103_n.jpg)
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Well done, not even that blocky for a white guy.
How do you respond to roid comments? People must be blown away that 185lb is attainable naturally. :D
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it doesnt take any work, bro. just be cool. calm, collected. project inner confidence, strength, and positivity. some girls like an outgoing guy.. for those girls be cocky funny and witty. some girls like a reserved guy... for those girls dont say much of anything, just listen alot, and when you do say somethning make it concise and profound. that will make them attracted to you. as for hooking up... show a little interest... keep your cool, then when the moment is right just pounce. shits simple man. dont overhtink it.
Just be yourself. Girls like confidence in a man (not to be confused with cockiness). Be happy with yourself in your own skin and realise that not every woman will be into you but plenty will. I notice that now that I no longer care if when find me attractive, because I am secure within myself, then the more seem to be. Fortunately for me I am with a woman who is attractive on the inside and the outside and have no need for anyone else. Thta's the other thing, when you're with soemone, the bitches all seem to want you!
Look guys I dont need any dating tips. I got all the attributes and know how to act. I just cant seem to find someone Im either really attracted to, or they just aint my type. And that plays a huge role for me if the chemistry isnt right. But the main problem is that I live in a small town now since Im studying, and there are a lot less uppertunities compared to bigger citys. If I was in Oslo, that would be a HUUUUUUUUUUGE difference.
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Well done, not even that blocky for a white guy.
How do you respond to roid comments? People must be blown away that 185lb is attainable naturally. :D
More like 190 pounds.
Consider this is Getbig, people have actually been nice to me - but I dont care either way. Most people will never understand the hard work and sacrifce I put in to achivie this. I got roid comments after the first year I started to train, when I was only 17 so why would it bother me now? Its not like I can prove anything anyway.
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I am by all means not a 10 if thats what you think, but I am above average - I will say that. Heres a pic in my early 20`s.
(https://d6vb69kil3yqp.cloudfront.net/71d6b0ced4fe30f8feda1cd3b8b1f321/92407003_large.jpg)
Yes it is. Almost 6 years old now though, but thats pretty much the best shape I got in as a natty during my career.
(http://sphotos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/241_37657845236_103_n.jpg)
If that is you in the white shirt, have you tried growing some stubble? You look good but look like a young boy fag there, perhaps that is hurting you?
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If that is you in the white shirt, have you tried growing some stubble? You look good but look like a young boy fag there, perhaps that is hurting you?
Haha, you know what I actually do got a stubble these days! ;D Yes, Ive read your topic, and I fully agree. I do like som stubble because you look more like a man then. For a period of time that was the look I always went for, because I felt like I had a baby face whenever I shaved it off. :P Thing is, I kind of look a lot meaner with the stubble so Im not sure if I attract girls or just scare them away, lol! ;D If thats the case, then I wont "wear" it, but I`ll have to do some research on that. ;)
But yeah, I was maybe thinking of getting myself a bear trimmer so I can keep that look.
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I had lots of attention in hs...now - I have even more.. Honestly - I find it progessively easier to get girls, and they are gtting hotter.. I think I'm getting more and more confident and comfortable in my own skin (improvements in physique help too I guess..). The best thing is - now it's a wide range of choice.. 17-40 age range huh.. I still prefer them as young as possible, but it's nice to be able to pick up older ones too..
On-line is a great way to meet them in this day and age. I have no idea why some of you think there are only crazy bitches or attention whores. I've had one of the most beautiful experiences in my life with one girl due to the internet, so that def. works...
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Haha, you know what I actually do got a stubble these days! ;D Yes, Ive read your topic, and I fully agree. I do like som stubble because you look more like a man then. For a period of time that was the look I always went for, because I felt like I had a baby face whenever I shaved it off. :P Thing is, I kind of look a lot meaner with the stubble so Im not sure if I attract girls or just scare them away, lol! ;D If thats the case, then I wont "wear" it, but I`ll have to do some research on that. ;)
But yeah, I was maybe thinking of getting myself a bear trimmer so I can keep that look.
Glad to have been of assistance 8)
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I had lots of attention in hs...now - I have even more.. Honestly - I find it progessively easier to get girls, and they are gtting hotter.. I think I'm getting more and more confident and comfortable in my own skin (improvements in physique help too I guess..). The best thing is - now it's a wide range of choice.. 17-40 age range huh.. I still prefer them as young as possible, but it's nice to be able to pick up older ones too..
On-line is a great way to meet them in this day and age. I have no idea why some of you think there are only crazy bitches or attention whores. I've had one of the most beautiful experiences in my life with one girl due to the internet, so that def. works...
To some degree, the more you don't care, the more they do. It seems if you're somewhat nice, but they can tell you're indifferent to many things, the more they'll be attracted.
Getbig, where you can be an advocate on anything...all you need is a keyboard and a web connection.
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To some degree, the more you don't care, the more they do. It seems if you're somewhat nice, but they can tell you're indifferent to many things, the more they'll be attracted.
Getbig, where you can be an advocate on anything...all you need is a keyboard and a web connection.
That's true.. That where the game of "balance" comes.. Not to go to extremes of "not caring" or "caring too much"..
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^^Agree with both of you. Defintly dont care too much. But then again I dont give a damn about most things, so no worries there - and yes it defintly works. You should only show interest to some extent, but never go abord. Can be difficult to controll sometimes though, but you girls always enjoy a challenge. ;)
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God made males the aggressors when it comes to relationships. There's a tremendous downside to that in that many guys are slaves to their glands who think with the smaller of their heads rather than the bigger. There are fewer things that drive me crazier than skirt-chasing ladies men.
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Pull a Craig Titus works every time
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its a hard task to find the girl who is as hot as is she is a good person to live with.
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its a hard task to find the girl who is as hot as is she is a good person to live with.
Esp in Holland :-\
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Esp in Holland :-\
dude i was in sweden (stockholm) this weekend and man what a nice girls there and very hot. i certainly go back soon!
great country, very clean , great nature, great women, not so many muslims. i might go migrate.
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There have been points in life where I was constantly bombared by girls trying to talk to me and flirting with me, asking to come over and other points where I couldn't get laid to save my life. Three things I noticed...
#1 During the high periods, I just honestly didn't give a shit.. I had other things to focus on in life than females and it actually worked in my favor because girls expect so much god damn attention and freak out when they wonder why you aren't talking to them or seem interested and try desperately to seek your approval.
#2 Being in good shape.. 9-10% or less. Nobody wants a fat bloofy 250lb offseason bodybuilder. Thankfully my girlfriend stuck with me during this time lol, but other females who are initially only attracted to you for shallow reasons will not want this at all.
#3 Confidence.. not only in yourself but also have enough confidence to tell the female shes a fucking moron or something she said won't fly with you and have enough confidence in yourself that she won't leave you if you possibly "offend" them and realize there are plenty of other females out there if she does. Most girls deep down like being put in their place anyways, not some asshole who always kissing their ass.
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There have been points in life where I was constantly bombared by girls trying to talk to me and flirting with me, asking to come over and other points where I couldn't get laid to save my life. Three things I noticed...
#1 During the high periods, I just honestly didn't give a shit.. I had other things to focus on in life than females and it actually worked in my favor because girls expect so much god damn attention and freak out when they wonder why you aren't talking to them or seem interested and try desperately to seek your approval.
#2 Being in good shape.. 9-10% or less. Nobody wants a fat bloofy 250lb offseason bodybuilder. Thankfully my girlfriend stuck with me during this time lol, but other females who are initially only attracted to you for shallow reasons will not want this at all.
#3 Confidence.. not only in yourself but also have enough confidence to tell the female shes a fucking moron or something she said won't fly with you and have enough confidence in yourself that she won't leave you if you possibly "offend" them and realize there are plenty of other females out there if she does. Most girls deep down like being put in their place anyways, not some asshole who always kissing their ass.
True in general, not only for chicks.
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nice guys finish last.
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went i wantes sex i simply paild for it . the other way around is rarer .
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went i wantes sex i simply paild for it . the other way around is rarer .
Would you like to fight?
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dont know what you mean .
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nice guys finish last.
Hi Tito :D
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Can any of you explain why you are chasing women?
I d like to know some of you answers... because obviously some people in this thread need to be taught some realities.
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Can any of you explain why you are chasing women?
I d like to know some of you answers... because obviously some people in this thread need to be taught some realities.
Could you elaborate?
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dude i was in sweden (stockholm) this weekend and man what a nice girls there and very hot. i certainly go back soon!
great country, very clean , great nature, great women, not so many muslims. i might go migrate.
Good to hear from you, I was already wondering "where the hell is big Tito?"
I would love to visit Scandinavia for the same qualities. I mean, wouldn't it be great to life in a country without Dutchtards and where you can sit on a mountain top at the end of your busy day? I like those Swedish women for their healthy look, but how approachable are they (without alcohol & drugs ;D ) ?
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hey look it is our resident assembly line philosopher
He's asking a fair question. I find it plain pathetic to chase for women.
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Good to hear from you, I was already wondering "where the hell is big Tito?"
I would love to visit Scandinavia for the same qualities. I mean, wouldn't it be great to life in a country without Dutchtards and where you can sit on a mountain top at the end of your busy day? I like those Swedish women for their healthy look, but how approachable are they (without alcohol & drugs ;D ) ?
Love that track. Very very cool
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Good to hear from you, I was already wondering "where the hell is big Tito?"
I would love to visit Scandinavia for the same qualities. I mean, wouldn't it be great to life in a country without Dutchtards and where you can sit on a mountain top at the end of your busy day? I like those Swedish women for their healthy look, but how approachable are they (without alcohol & drugs ;D ) ?
i met a nice swedish girl in krakow, and she was your "typical" swedish chick, blue-eyed blondie with big tits and not obese
i met her in a pub with some italian dudes, and she had them and another american and an irishman all interested in her, but for some reason she chose me ??? so we went to some clubs and then she put the omves on me, but i just wasn't feeling it... (yeah i know, i'm a f@ggot lol)
anyways, she was a very sweet and cool chick
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hey look it is our resident assembly line philosopher
.Amazing....the Guy knows everything about everything, has all the answers.....But he can't figure his way out of his shitty studio apartment, and factory job...
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To the OP:
You are a good looking guy. (no homo). Your problem is obvious: online dating. You will never pull close to your looks using online dating. Seriously. The girls on online sites are nuts beyond belief. Their standards are so far out of whack it's almost laughable. Stick to the real world. I can speak from experience. I'm a young physician living by the beach and I can tell you when I briefly did online dating years ago, my inbox was flooded with messages from 30+ year old fat chicks with kids. Not to float my own boat, but at first I thought it was a joke, but then I started getting messages asking why I wasn't responding...
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it is the power of the pussy.
Girls have websites dedicated to products that get them off. We have our hands.
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i met a nice swedish girl in krakow, and she was your "typical" swedish chick, blue-eyed blondie with big tits and not obese
i met her in a pub with some italian dudes, and she had them and another american and an irishman all interested in her, but for some reason she chose me ??? so we went to some clubs and then she put the omves on me, but i just wasn't feeling it... (yeah i know, i'm a f@ggot lol)
anyways, she was a very sweet and cool chick
Not so humble, she liked a man with muscle 8) But what the hell were you doing in Poland? I was 3 times in that piss poor country (long time ago, before the fall of the wall), good but depressed people and shitty food..
I met a Swedish girl in Spain (tall & blonde), but she was there with her boyfriend, haha.
I've worked for a large Swedish company and most Swedish women appeared to be dull ice queens.. well, the corporate culture was also dull, that could be the reason
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It is odd when an attractive female is the aggresor. happened to me once. Some relatively hot chick was super aggressive in trying to meet me. Honestly. it turned me off.
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I think its way easier to get girls when older than younger, if you have your shit together.
Many women in their 30s are desperate to get married, or they are relegated to a life of single/hookups. It's a win for single guys!
When you're 18, everyone has about the same income, most everyone is lean... it's really hard to stand out. By the time you're 35, most of the people you went to high school with are fat, arrested, drama, problems, etc.
in other words, most people don't get BETTER in their looks and situation with time.
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It is odd when an attractive female is the aggresor. happened to me once. Some relatively hot chick was super aggressive in trying to meet me. Honestly. it turned me off.
Ignore them. Put THEM into the friendzone and it'll make them want you more than ever. make up 5 reasons why you and her woudln't work, and let her know. She'll be texting ya 24/7.
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Not so humble, she liked a man with muscle 8) But what the hell were you doing in Poland? I was 3 times in that piss poor country (long time ago, before the fall of the wall), good but depressed people and shitty food..
I met a Swedish girl in Spain (tall & blonde), but she was there with her boyfriend, haha.
I've worked for a large Swedish company and most Swedish women appeared to be dull ice queens.. well, the corporate culture was also dull, that could be the reason
but what's funny about that situation is that i was a fat drunkard at that time lol
i've been in poland for a few years now, mainly coz it's cheap to live here and i can teach english on the side, and i go on "holidays" at least once a year (been to spain, germany, norway, france, austria)
what did you think of the polish girls? what's nice about them for me, is that many of them are very small and slim, i dated 2 that were both 160 cm and 43 kg :P :P :P
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To the OP:
You are a good looking guy. (no homo). Your problem is obvious: online dating. You will never pull close to your looks using online dating. Seriously. The girls on online sites are nuts beyond belief. Their standards are so far out of whack it's almost laughable. Stick to the real world. I can speak from experience. I'm a young physician living by the beach and I can tell you when I briefly did online dating years ago, my inbox was flooded with messages from 30+ year old fat chicks with kids. Not to float my own boat, but at first I thought it was a joke, but then I started getting messages asking why I wasn't responding...
Dude, belivie me I do NOT rely on online dating what so ever!!! In fact I HATE it! Always have, always will. I stick to the real world mainly, but I also use dating sites because like I said there arnt so many uppertunities around these parts. Back in my home town I got with different girls every day, no problem. Im a very confident guy and easy to hang out with. I tell chicks what they want to hear and treat them nicely/fairly.
But Im really focused now these days and cease every uppertunity I get. I actually befriended two more young girls from my workplace today on facebook. I usually dont go for very young chicks, but right now its better than nothing. I just need some company whether I fuck them or not. Still nice to have around.
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but what's funny about that situation is that i was a fat drunkard at that time lol
i've been in poland for a few years now, mainly coz it's cheap to live here and i can teach english on the side, and i go on "holidays" at least once a year (been to spain, germany, norway, france, austria)
what did you think of the polish girls? what's nice about them for me, is that many of them are very small and slim, i dated 2 that were both 160 cm and 43 kg :P :P :P
I remember your pics and I can't imagine you being fat, LOL
You mean, you're living in Poland and work there as an English teacher? I still remember Krakow for its nice centre and the mountains around that place. I was 15-17 when I was there and being a shy boy, I wasn't really into flirting/dating, but I remember their feminine brunettes with their cute & humble appearance. I also remember their Dollar shops, but everything else was dirt cheap. 160cm & 43kg, man those are living dolls, haha. The smallest one I've dated was a Indo hottie from 1.62, way too short for me, but damn easy to handle :P
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I remember your pics and I can't imagine you being fat, LOL
You mean, you're living in Poland and work there as an English teacher? I still remember Krakow for its nice centre and the mountains around that place. I was 15-17 when I was there and being a shy boy, I wasn't really into flirting/dating, but I remember their feminine brunettes with their cute & humble appearance. I also remember their Dollar shops, but everything else was dirt cheap. 160cm & 43kg, man those are living dolls, haha. The smallest one I've dated was a Indo hottie from 1.62, way too short for me, but damn easy to handle :P
yep, i teach english here, private lessons, but mainly to businessmen, and not hot slim girls :'(
it's incredible how the girls dress here, leggings and high heels galore, and this is during the daytime 9-5 :P
do dutch girls dress so fucking sexy all the time?
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Ignore them. Put THEM into the friendzone and it'll make them want you more than ever. make up 5 reasons why you and her woudln't work, and let her know. She'll be texting ya 24/7.
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yep, i teach english here, private lessons, but mainly to businessmen, and not hot slim girls :'(
it's incredible how the girls dress here, leggings and high heels galore, and this is during the daytime 9-5 :P
do dutch girls dress so fucking sexy all the time?
Sounds like a nice job with freedom, I also like to teach/instruct people (I'm a formal trainer). One of the folks I've been following on Youtube is Ryan, an American teacher living in Kobe/Japan for over 10 years. It's a cool & humble guy who tells about their culture, women, food and new street language, not found in a dictionary.
In general, most folks in Northern Europe don't know how to dress well (not stylish & not sexy). Sometimes, I see a cute brunette (a bit Jessica Alba like) & black girl (a bit Melanie Brown like) in my street. I think they're around 17-18 and love to wear leggings, but the bad part is that they walk with uggs, well, lets call them "uglies" :-\
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I would agree here True, 100%. Any girl that's a 5 or above, usually has a dick in her. All most women have to do is spread their legs and they'll get dick. Even a good looking guy will have to maneuver a little get some tail. The fact that an average girl gets checked out a bunch on any given day...say an office setting where Pam Beasley is considered "hot"...it's ridiculous.
I have no problem with a genuinely attractive female getting attention, but today's society with their fake tits epidemic...is truly disgusting.
Now every low end slut who wanted that attention all through high school, but never got it...can validate her one goal existence and get glanced at because she opted for the surgery. I don't look twice at these skanks...the guys who do only perpetuate this nonsense. Implants, right behind steroids....generation phony. ;)Incorrect. In today's modern age, everyone is on the internet. Maybe on a sex site, but not a real dating site....I will have to agree, most are rough looking...but that is women in general. Just find that top 10%.
Much like Facebook, going on a hook up/dating site isn't uncommon. Especially, if you're reclusive. ;)
The whole "she must be shot, ugly, fat, crazy"...would still apply to most women...right? :D It's not 1988.
I personally have met one in particular who had a solid face, and huge tits...unfortunate for me, the bottom half of the titties were fake, so it didn't pan out...and she was a white trash racist...so crazy I guess.
You would never think it was actually her in her picture...but sure enough, tits the size of my head @24 and good looking...I wish I still had the shot, but it was a good 6 years back.
If she is truly a "8 and above" she will not be on a dating site. "8 and above" have a lot of options already and would not sift through all the emails she would get from guys not in her league. These woman get hit on every day every where they go,and if you want a shot at the title your gonna have to have to prove why your better than all the other #s she has in her phone. She also would not randomly add you to her FB if she didn't know you...
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I would agree here True, 100%. Any girl that's a 5 or above, usually has a dick in her. All most women have to do is spread their legs and they'll get dick. Even a good looking guy will have to maneuver a little get some tail. The fact that an average girl gets checked out a bunch on any given day...say an office setting where Pam Beasley is considered "hot"...it's ridiculous.
I have no problem with a genuinely attractive female getting attention, but today's society with their fake tits epidemic...is truly disgusting.
Now every low end slut who wanted that attention all through high school, but never got it...can validate her one goal existence and get glanced at because she opted for the surgery. I don't look twice at these skanks...the guys who do only perpetuate this nonsense. Implants, right behind steroids....generation phony. ;)Incorrect. In today's modern age, everyone is on the internet. Maybe on a sex site, but not a real dating site....I will have to agree, most are rough looking...but that is women in general. Just find that top 10%.
Much like Facebook, going on a hook up/dating site isn't uncommon. Especially, if you're reclusive. ;)
The whole "she must be shot, ugly, fat, crazy"...would still apply to most women...right? :D It's not 1988.
I personally have met one in particular who had a solid face, and huge tits...unfortunate for me, the bottom half of the titties were fake, so it didn't pan out...and she was a white trash racist...so crazy I guess.
You would never think it was actually her in her picture...but sure enough, tits the size of my head @24 and good looking...I wish I still had the shot, but it was a good 6 years back.
I didnt notice this post, but I totally agree with you. I dont look twice at these vain/fake bitches as well. Theyr just trying too hard and in the wrong way. Theyr begging for attention, but I just keep ignoring them, and it kind of drives them crazy, lol. ;D But I stick to whats real/natural ONLY, because thats the only way. They can keep their stuck up vain looking bitch, to me that is not true beauty at all, and they are not worth being with. Glad wer on the same page. ;)
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If she is truly a "8 and above" she will not be on a dating site. "8 and above" have a lot of options already and would not sift through all the emails she would get from guys not in her league. These woman get hit on every day every where they go,and if you want a shot at the title your gonna have to have to prove why your better than all the other #s she has in her phone. She also would not randomly add you to her FB if she didn't know you...
There are many 8`s on dating sites, even 10`s. You never know whats the case, could be that they just love the attention or they want to expand the possibilities.
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its a hard task to find the girl who is as hot as is she is a good person to live with.
As long as she doesn't speak unless spoken too and is in the kitchen when told that's the perfect girl
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There are many 8`s on dating sites, even 10`s. You never know whats the case, could be that they just love the attention or they want to expand the possibilities.
IMHO, if that were the case you wouldn't have started this thread :D
To be fair if your talking strictly looks I'll give you maaaaybe an 8, but she will have a kid, minus 2 pts in my book unless your a single parent too. 8-2= a 6
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There are many 8`s on dating sites, even 10`s. You never know whats the case, could be that they just love the attention or they want to expand the possibilities.
it's true! there are a lot of hot girls online, actually. some of them just want to see what kind of messages they get, and some, despite being beautiful, have weird circumstances.
good looking girls get hit on all the time, but they're often still just as miserable for a variety of reasons.
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.Amazing....the Guy knows everything about everything, has all the answers.....But he can't figure his way out of his shitty studio apartment, and factory job...
I dont know where that bufoonery comes from... I own my house paid cash and work in a factory while paying for my studies, but there are more opportunities working in food processing right now and in the near future due to the recession thats worsening, than in "human sciences". At least get your facts/insults straight idiot, it's not that hard to browse thru someone s post history instead of repeating nonsenses some butthurt anonymous gimmick loser pulled out of his ass.
Now back on topic. You guys talk about the "mistery" , the "science" of "getting women"... But you dont even question what generates that impulse, thoughts, you seem totally oblivious to it. Lack of education, experience, faith, meaningful relationships with decent parents.
It's an automatic animal impulse generated by your brain chemistry, genes. You need to find a female partner so you genes will survive. It starts in adolescence. We are all wired the same and all feel it. It is mostly subconscious until your reach your 30s. You just think about sex, coitus, penetration, all the time until your balls are emptied.
And women have this same automatic animal impulse. This is what generate all your stupid, ignorant, immature discussions and theories. Most of you arent asking yourselves the real question; why do i feel like i need to find a female partner. Most of you only think that it will allow you to satisfy an automatically generated impulse that tells you to have sex and empty your balls, an that's about it. Especially young or/and virgin males. Completely ignoring all more important matters that are involved with the sexual act in itself, like reproduction, survival of your genes but also your race, building a family, marriage, and basically , the meaning of life...Basically some of you barely "live" while ignoring 50 to 60% of what life is about.
It just seems like a lot of atheist males just see women as cum buckets, -which they can be , but what about everything else-completely ignoring everything else that is involved in a relationship with a woman. Looks like generation pornography/nothingness is everywhere. Obviously most of you will have a hard time being parents, for those who have the desire of being parents.
This is really a very, very bad omen for white people and mankind in general, to realize how incredibly vain, lost, intellectually limited most of its youths are. Congratulations to most atheist occidental parents who gave birth to these last two degenerated generations. A lot of you will obviously have no offsprings, or for those who might "accidently" have one, you will obviously have no clue what to do with them and will ruin them furthermore.
Now just for fun im going to give you the answer.
Women want a man that's tall, muscular but not too much, who s soft when they need softness, who s tough when they need to be put in place, also they need you to put kids in their place when they cant. They want you to be able to survive, adapt, to all of life's difficulties, because it means you would be able to insure their and the eventual offspring they might have with you odds of survival. They want you to stay with them all life long to protect them and their offspring. They dont give much of a fuck what s your salary, job, position, as long as you can pay for a house and food. They want you to work enough to pay for all of this, but also to be present at home for them and kids. Just like in other animal species there are tasks you re suposed to be able to fulfill as a human male. The funny is most human males nowadays have troubles with the most basics of these tasks they re genetically conditionned to be able to accomplish -we dont choose anything, we just happen to be alive, to be the sum of preprogrammations, and have to decide HOW we want to survive inside our specie, inside the animal kingdom on planet earth-.
Men want women who are hot and stay hot and healthy, cook for them while taking care of the house, who are nice with kids, truly maternal, yet at the same time will suck them dry once or twice a week , penetrations put aside.
So basically we just exist to grow up, find a place in society, contribute to the specie, then reproduce, teach the strategies of survival we learnt to our offsprings to increase their odds of survival inside the specie. So they can dominate cooperate with others instead of being dominated, subdued by them.
Then we age and we die.
An offspring that hasnt had decent parent or parents at all, no guidance, no father figure, will lack a lot of knowledges, will have lower odds of survival, or will stick with similar people to survive. An offspring that has been gratuitously harmed by parents will harm everyone else in society blindly, and will take pleasure doing so just like his/her own parents had fun torturing him/her.
This is why you need faithful parents to educate, raise good kids who will be able to contribute to their specie.
Nowadays atheists produce unfaithful, lost , dumb, hateful, angry, sadistic kids, WHEN they reproduce, but it's becoming rarer. In the meanwhile asians and muslims breed like cockroaches.
You do the maths.
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I think its way easier to get girls when older than younger, if you have your shit together.
Many women in their 30s are desperate to get married, or they are relegated to a life of single/hookups. It's a win for single guys!
When you're 18, everyone has about the same income, most everyone is lean... it's really hard to stand out. By the time you're 35, most of the people you went to high school with are fat, arrested, drama, problems, etc.
in other words, most people don't get BETTER in their looks and situation with time.
More and more women in their 30s are with guys in their their 20s (early)...either one is playing momma, or the other has momma issues--or just want to be with an older woman...
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More and more women in their 30s are with guys in their their 20s (early)...either one is playing momma, or the other has momma issues--or just want to be with an older woman...
what really matters is the fact that most marriages go nowhere and that we produce on an industrial scale kids -future adults- who come from dysfunctional families.
it's true! there are a lot of hot girls online, actually. some of them just want to see what kind of messages they get, and some, despite being beautiful, have weird circumstances.
good looking girls get hit on all the time, but they're often still just as miserable for a variety of reasons.
a lot of lost, angry people no matter how rich, good looking they are, and a pending worldwide economic recession with billions of thirdworlders waiting for their finest hour... this is not going to end well.
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Sounds like a nice job with freedom, I also like to teach/instruct people (I'm a formal trainer). One of the folks I've been following on Youtube is Ryan, an American teacher living in Kobe/Japan for over 10 years. It's a cool & humble guy who tells about their culture, women, food and new street language, not found in a dictionary.
In general, most folks in Northern Europe don't know how to dress well (not stylish & not sexy). Sometimes, I see a cute brunette (a bit Jessica Alba like) & black girl (a bit Melanie Brown like) in my street. I think they're around 17-18 and love to wear leggings, but the bad part is that they walk with uggs, well, lets call them "uglies" :-\
For some odd reason, I don't think he's as cool as you may think...just a hunch, but I've known some guys like him, and they tend to have issues---they've been emasculated.
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IMHO, if that were the case you wouldn't have started this thread :D
To be fair if your talking strictly looks I'll give you maaaaybe an 8, but she will have a kid, minus 2 pts in my book unless your a single parent too. 8-2= a 6
Its not that black and white, but the principle is that girls have it much easier when it comes to getting a boyfriend than it is the other way around. Simple fact. One of the reason many hot girls are single is because they are picky.
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I consider myself a fairly handsome guy, Ive gotten a lot of compliments throughout the years, and many girls have shown interest in me - especially during the the high school age days. Not so much now as then though (getting older sucks). But heres the thing, and this is what sucks about being a guy, even an handsome one... You still have to put in A LOT more work to get a good looking girl, than an average girl have to put in to get an handsome guy... Lets put it this way, a guy that is a 8 might have to put in a lot of work just to get a 6 or a 7, while a girl that is a 5 can easy end up with a 8. I would almost consider myself lucky these days if I manage to hook up with a decent looking girl, because all the requests I get on the Internet is mainly average to ugly as fuck chicks. :-X Some of these chicks must think Im really that desperate. Just because I have a dick doesnt mean I`ll fuck anything, but I have at least decided to lower my standards considerably due to the fact that I need to at least hook up with SOMEONE in the near future! Theres just not that much to pick from around these parts so it kind of sucks, but hey thats life I guess.
Any thoughts on this or experiences?
Im a decent looking guy and pretty big and that sometimes puts "normal" girls off. They dont like a lot of muscle and prefer the MPD look. Now, fitness/figure/fbb are a little mental, but they are great in the sack. Even if you get a fitness girl that is a 6 in the face, the body will be a 10. Now, Im not into putting in work. Just being honest. If I had control, id snap my fingers and the panties would fall off. So sometimes, if you are just trying to bang, go for the chubby chick that is a 5 or 6. Sex will be good and they will do whatever your twisted mind comes up with
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I dont know where that bufoonery comes from... I own my house paid cash and work in a factory while paying for my studies, but there are more opportunities working in food processing right now and in the near future due to the recession thats worsening, than in "human sciences". At least get your facts/insults straight idiot, it's not that hard to browse thru someone s post history instead of repeating nonsenses some butthurt anonymous gimmick loser pulled out of his ass.
Now back on topic. You guys talk about the "mistery" , the "science" of "getting women"... But you dont even question what generates that impulse, thoughts, you seem totally oblivious to it. Lack of education, experience, faith, meaningful relationships with decent parents.
It's an automatic animal impulse generated by your brain chemistry, genes. You need to find a female partner so you genes will survive. It starts in adolescence. We are all wired the same and all feel it. It is mostly subconscious until your reach your 30s. You just think about sex, coitus, penetration, all the time until your balls are emptied.
And women have this same automatic animal impulse. This is what generate all your stupid, ignorant, immature discussions and theories. Most of you arent asking yourselves the real question; why do i feel like i need to find a female partner. Most of you only think that it will allow you to satisfy an automatically generated impulse that tells you to have sex and empty your balls, an that's about it. Especially young or/and virgin males. Completely ignoring all more important matters that are involved with the sexual act in itself, like reproduction, survival of your genes but also your race, building a family, marriage, and basically , the meaning of life...Basically some of you barely "live" while ignoring 50 to 60% of what life is about.
It just seems like a lot of atheist males just see women as cum buckets, -which they can be , but what about everything else-completely ignoring everything else that is involved in a relationship with a woman. Looks like generation pornography/nothingness is everywhere. Obviously most of you will have a hard time being parents, for those who have the desire of being parents.
This is really a very, very bad omen for white people and mankind in general, to realize how incredibly vain, lost, intellectually limited most of its youths are. Congratulations to most atheist occidental parents who gave birth to these last two degenerated generations. A lot of you will obviously have no offsprings, or for those who might "accidently" have one, you will obviously have no clue what to do with them and will ruin them furthermore.
Now just for fun im going to give you the answer.
Women want a man that's tall, muscular but not too much, who s soft when they need softness, who s tough when they need to be put in place, also they need you to put kids in their place when they cant. They want you to be able to survive, adapt, to all of life's difficulties, because it means you would be able to insure their and the eventual offspring they might have with you odds of survival. They want you to stay with them all life long to protect them and their offspring. They dont give much of a fuck what s your salary, job, position, as long as you can pay for a house and food. They want you to work enough to pay for all of this, but also to be present at home for them and kids. Just like in other animal species there are tasks you re suposed to be able to fulfill as a human male. The funny is most human males nowadays have troubles with the most basics of these tasks they re genetically conditionned to be able to accomplish -we dont choose anything, we just happen to be alive, to be the sum of preprogrammations, and have to decide HOW we want to survive inside our specie, inside the animal kingdom on planet earth-.
Men want women who are hot and stay hot and healthy, cook for them while taking care of the house, who are nice with kids, truly maternal, yet at the same time will suck them dry once or twice a week , penetrations put aside.
So basically we just exist to grow up, find a place in society, contribute to the specie, then reproduce, teach the strategies of survival we learnt to our offsprings to increase their odds of survival inside the specie. So they can dominate cooperate with others instead of being dominated, subdued by them.
Then we age and we die.
An offspring that hasnt had decent parent or parents at all, no guidance, no father figure, will lack a lot of knowledges, will have lower odds of survival, or will stick with similar people to survive. An offspring that has been gratuitously harmed by parents will harm everyone else in society blindly, and will take pleasure doing so just like his/her own parents had fun torturing him/her.
This is why you need faithful parents to educate, raise good kids who will be able to contribute to their specie.
Nowadays atheists produce unfaithful, lost , dumb, hateful, angry, sadistic kids, WHEN they reproduce, but it's becoming rarer. In the meanwhile asians and muslims breed like cockroaches.
You do the maths.
Bigbobs exposed your shitty living situation, no need to lie. I Don't check post history, that's for obsessed losers
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Good to hear from you, I was already wondering "where the hell is big Tito?"
I would love to visit Scandinavia for the same qualities. I mean, wouldn't it be great to life in a country without Dutchtards and where you can sit on a mountain top at the end of your busy day? I like those Swedish women for their healthy look, but how approachable are they (without alcohol & drugs ;D ) ?
yessssssssss, im my eyes they were quite relax but i was there for a short time and only spoke to some in an awesome club "Berns"
but i flirted alot there, most guys were just hanging on the bar or just standing still while we were dancing and showing we had a good time and women like that.
want to go back soon, lovely blond tall thick breasted women
kissed with a few tanned blondes! trrrrrrrrrr
(http://www.festivalphoto.net/Konsert/20090903_Teddybears%20feat%20Robyn%20(Berns%20-%20Stockholm)/images/20090903_Teddybears_Feat_Robyn_Berns_Stockholm021.jpg)
(http://thecommune.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/bernssalonger.jpg)
(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/de/Berns,_Stockholm,_8_January_2011.jpg/800px-Berns,_Stockholm,_8_January_2011.jpg)
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Sounds like a question a homo might ask.
Or maybe the Mayor of Bodybuilding!
(http://www.musclesportmag.com/wp-content/uploads/mayorjay.jpg)
Is he a historian who measures men's arms?
Ghey...
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it's easier for women because guys need sex more than they do
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Stylish pictures Tito, no recession over there.
It's my goal to leave the Neverlands forever within 5-10 years. Haven't decided which country, so a mobile home would be great.
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it doesnt take any work, bro. just be cool. calm, collected. project inner confidence, strength, and positivity. some girls like an outgoing guy.. for those girls be cocky funny and witty. some girls like a reserved guy... for those girls dont say much of anything, just listen alot, and when you do say somethning make it concise and profound. that will make them attracted to you. as for hooking up... show a little interest... keep your cool, then when the moment is right just pounce. shits simple man. dont overhtink it.
alright stud we've all seen what your gf looks like lmao