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Why do so many women like to dance? I do not like the club scene, nor do I like to dance. In my early 20's, my ex loved it, and would try and drag me there. Id have a miserable time there because I just hate that music and dislike dancing. The last few dates Ive been on or women Ive been talking to all love to dance. And I am just thinking to myself, "ugh, another women who is going to try and drag me to go dancing."
Has this happened to you? If so, do you just suck it up and go dancing, even if you will look like an utter fool? Or do you just stay home while you're lady is out there dancing the night way?
Bodybuildng related because Kai Green dances the night away
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I'm with you. The older I've gotten the further I've gotten from the whole dancing/club scene. I just straight up say no to my chick. Its just not my thing. If you absolutely have to in order to get laid just get plowed drunk. At least it will all be a blur the next morning
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I'm with you. The older I've gotten the further I've gotten from the whole dancing/club scene. I just straight up say no to my chick. Its just not my thing. If you absolutely have to in order to get laid just get plowed drunk. At least it will all be a blur the next morning
haha lol.
I just don't get the appeal to dancing. Glad to know its not just me. I do not mind if a woman I see goes dancing without me. What I mind is when they drag me along or they get mad if I do not want to go. Then I feel obligated to go, but am miserable when I am there. Though I try to make the best out of the situation, but it gets old after a while.
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Females are so open to express themselves. It's allowed for them... be it crying or dancing, yelling etc.
They can even wear silly clothes and no one laughs at them but think they are cute lol
But anyways, dancing is not an option for a man. It even looks stupid when men dance, to be honest.
Usually when I was at club when younger, while girls were dancing us guys just went to watch it, casually leaning on a table or something and sipping our drinks.
It's important to keep an eye on them while they are at the floor !!
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Why do so many women like to dance? I do not like the club scene, nor do I like to dance. In my early 20's, my ex loved it, and would try and drag me there. Id have a miserable time there because I just hate that music and dislike dancing. The last few dates Ive been on or women Ive been talking to all love to dance. And I am just thinking to myself, "ugh, another women who is going to try and drag me to go dancing."
Has this happened to you? If so, do you just suck it up and go dancing, even if you will look like an utter fool? Or do you just stay home while you're lady is out there dancing the night way?
Bodybuildng related because Kai Green dances the night away
it is ina womans nature to show but not give
they feel great knowing men want but not giving it
dancing is perfect for this
the secret with women is to open communication then ignore, or better yet wait for them to talk to you
of course harder your body and cleaner n richer you look then better
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In my younger years I would hit many dance floors. Have some drunk whore grind her ass on me, once they realize I am hard they press up closer just shaking their ass until I came in my pants. Man I miss being young
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Females are so open to express themselves. It's allowed for them... be it crying or dancing, yelling etc.
They can even wear silly clothes and no one laughs at them but think they are cute lol
But anyways, dancing is not an option for a man. It even looks stupid when men dance, to be honest.
Usually when I was at club when younger, while girls were dancing us guys just went to watch it, casually leaning on a table or something and sipping our drinks.
It's important to keep an eye on them while they are at the floor !!
you and ur pals sound like creeps
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you and ur pals sound like creeps
HAHAh, definitely bro 8)
Also it was fun to throw ice cubes at the guys who were dancing LOL
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Solid dating advice guys lol :D :D
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Tell the bitch that dancing is her excuse to dry hump you. Then tell her you will give her the real thing. Either that, or serve a bitch on tha floor!
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Dancing is the shit - though you need to have some skills if you wanna have open season on the ladies.
If you want the best women in Vienna - go to one of the Salsa clubs and dance...
...or be a fool and pump money into a bordello.
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MDMA
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Could never ever bring myself to dance, but probably missed out on loads of easy lays by refusing to dance with a girl, if you can manage it suck it up and do it
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We need Quickerblade up in here....
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Why do so many women like to dance? I do not like the club scene, nor do I like to dance. In my early 20's, my ex loved it, and would try and drag me there. Id have a miserable time there because I just hate that music and dislike dancing. The last few dates Ive been on or women Ive been talking to all love to dance. And I am just thinking to myself, "ugh, another women who is going to try and drag me to go dancing."
Has this happened to you? If so, do you just suck it up and go dancing, even if you will look like an utter fool? Or do you just stay home while you're lady is out there dancing the night way?
Bodybuildng related because Kai Green dances the night away
You're still young and you over analyze. Just visit your local massage parlor or strip club. Just remember, if you feel a big bulge, then call Vissy, Bay or Onemorerep.
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I refuse to be seen with with slutty women that go to clubs anyway.
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Like it or not, having a few dance moves makes it much easier to meet chicks.
Especially at weddings.
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I love to dance... and back in undergrad I was very into the club scene!
Now not so much - I've grown up ;D Either way, a club is an awful place to go if you actually want to meet quality women!
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While you Betas are trying to be Alphas not dancing cos its uncool Im out on the town with your woman giving her everything you cant, that salty taste is me.
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Now not so much - I've grown up ;D Either way, a club is an awful place to go if you actually want to meet quality women!
True but when you just want to bang sluts and pretent you havent noticed them when you see them the very next week in the same club, they are a perfect place to spend your time till your ready to settle down
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While you Betas are trying to be Alphas not dancing cos its uncool Im out on the town with your woman giving her everything you cant, that salty taste is me.
Sir how do you know what salty taste is from? Very suspect here.
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Why do so many women like to dance? I do not like the club scene, nor do I like to dance. In my early 20's, my ex loved it, and would try and drag me there. Id have a miserable time there because I just hate that music and dislike dancing. The last few dates Ive been on or women Ive been talking to all love to dance. And I am just thinking to myself, "ugh, another women who is going to try and drag me to go dancing."
Has this happened to you? If so, do you just suck it up and go dancing, even if you will look like an utter fool? Or do you just stay home while you're lady is out there dancing the night way?
Bodybuildng related because Kai Green dances the night away
The solution?
Don't date, fuck some whores instead
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Sir how do you know what salty taste is from? Very suspect here.
pwnt
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While you Betas are trying to be Alphas not dancing cos its uncool Im out on the town with your woman giving her everything you cant, that salty taste is me.
Has nothing to do with it. I dont dance because 1) I do not like to dance, and 2) because I am really bad at it.
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Has nothing to do with it. I dont dance because 1) I do not like to dance, and 2) because I am really bad at it.
Can I guess the color?
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I've never been able to get mysef to dance at a club. But if I go to a techno concert I go crazy. Guess its the live music that makes the difference.
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haha lol.
I just don't get the appeal to dancing. Glad to know its not just me. I do not mind if a woman I see goes dancing without me. What I mind is when they drag me along or they get mad if I do not want to go. Then I feel obligated to go, but am miserable when I am there. Though I try to make the best out of the situation, but it gets old after a while.
but how would you feel if you found out that some horny black dudes be bump-n-grind dancing up on her while she goes dancing to the clubs "alone"?
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I've never been able to get mysef to dance at a club. But if I go to a techno concert I go crazy. Guess its the live music that makes the difference.
and the LSD.
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We've discussed this before and I feel the same obstacle, I can't stand dancing/screaming/attention whoring folks, not my scene :-\
But I think it's better to put your focus on women with other interests like sports, hiking, biking, cultural events, etc.
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We've discussed this before and I feel the same obstacle, I can't stand dancing/screaming/attention whoring folks, not my scene :-\
But I think it's better to put your focus on women with other interests like sports, hiking, biking, cultural events, etc.
agree... but all women like to dance for some reason. very odd.
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Women correlate a man's ability to dance with his skill in bed.
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agree... but all women like to dance for some reason. very odd.
That "why" question is a good one. I think it's a symbolic tradition for women to socialize/seduce. A woman making funky moves gets more attention than a Martini sipping girl in the corner.
:P
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Women correlate a man's ability to dance with his skill in bed.
(http://misplacedboy.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/breakin.gif?w=474)
(http://www.animoller.com/images/jean_claude_got_moves.gif)
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Bingo, it's that simple
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Women correlate a man's ability to dance with his skill in bed.
(http://misplacedboy.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/breakin.gif?w=474)
(http://www.animoller.com/images/jean_claude_got_moves.gif)
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According to these grave depictions of skill he never got laid.
Or is this the Savile dance? :D
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According to these grave depictions of skill he never got laid.
Or is this the Savile dance? :D
More so than just plain skill in dancing, it's the confidence that exudes from you as you partake in the festivities. Women like to see a man who isn't afraid to move when the music starts playing, laugh when something is humourful or move on if something is a waste of time. They enjoy being the center of the show. They don't want to simply hold your hand and stand by your side as people circle around skilled dancers, instead they want you to be the dancer and make her the center of the night.
It's all about self-confidence and being able to get out on a dancefloor and move (with confidence) makes women (and gay men) very attracted.
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More so than just plain skill in dancing, it's the confidence that exudes from you as you partake in the festivities. Women like to see a man who isn't afraid to move when the music starts playing, laugh when something is humourful or move on if something is a waste of time. They enjoy being the center of the show. They don't want to simply hold your hand and stand by your side as people circle around skilled dancers, instead they want you to be the dancer and make her the center of the night.
It's all about self-confidence and being able to get out on a dancefloor and move (with confidence) makes women (and gay men) very attracted.
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Well put by a sophisticated player.
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Well put by a sophisticated player.
Thank you handsome!
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I've said this many tmes before and I'll say it again. Dancing is for women and homosexuals.
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If you dance badly and she's still keen, you're in. If your poor dance skills are a dealbreaker for her, and she gets whisked away by a Latino salsa machine, you're just going to have to deal with it. But if you won't dance at all then you're seen as an insecure spoilsport.
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If you dance badly and she's still keen, you're in. If your poor dance skills are a dealbreaker for her, and she gets whisked away by a Latino salsa machine, you're just going to have to deal with it. But if you won't dance at all then you're seen as an insecure spoilsport.
I'm not insecure, I'm a man with principles. But how do you explain this in a club with loud music? :-\
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I'm not insecure, I'm a man with principles. But how do you explain this in a club with loud music? :-\
I couldn't really say. Haven't been in a club in years. They seemed to turn ordinary, mild-mannered women into strutting entitled bitches from hell who strongly dislike the dress sense of every woman in the room and need you to agree, so I decided not to bother unless forced to attend some gawdawful occasion.
Still stand by my assessment of a woman's judgement of a man who refuses to try to dance tho.
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Best part is 80% of guys and girls who think they can dance cant.
Especially white women
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dancing ability really doesn't have much to do with sexual ability/power, that's more from being ultra fit and having great stamina
but of course if you have some great talent with your lips and tounge, then this stamina/fitness thing isn't really needed ;D
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I couldn't really say. Haven't been in a club in years. They seemed to turn ordinary, mild-mannered women into strutting entitled bitches from hell who strongly dislike the dress sense of every woman in the room and need you to agree, so I decided not to bother unless forced to attend some gawdawful occasion.
Still stand by my assessment of a woman's judgement of a man who refuses to try to dance tho.
Haha, great observation. Both men and women show another part of themselves, dictated by all kinds of do's & don'ts (body language, clothing, etc). Well, it's all just a play, so I can't take it too serious.
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I was dancing last night with three women, its great having them shove their tits in your face. I see all the beta males staring at me while I seduce their women and I laugh.
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dancing ability really doesn't have much to do with sexual ability/power, that's more from being ultra fit and having great stamina
but of course if you have some great talent with your lips and tounge, then this stamina/fitness thing isn't really needed ;D
Wrong my man, a sensual moving person is a clear indication that he/she likes to move and feels good about his/her body. Dancing = body language = act of seducing. But hey, look at my avatar quote, that's the real me.
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If you dance badly and she's still keen, you're in. If your poor dance skills are a dealbreaker for her, and she gets whisked away by a Latino salsa machine, you're just going to have to deal with it. But if you won't dance at all then you're seen as an insecure spoilsport.
Che is quite the salsa dancing machine...
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Wrong my man, a sensual moving person is a clear indication that he/she likes to move and feels good about his/her body. Dancing = body language = act of seducing. But hey, look at my avatar quote, that's the real me.
you're right man, dancing is an art of seduction, for both females and males
but i'm talking about actual performance in the bedroom, and a fella that can keep up a good, strong, and steady pace of pumping ass or pussy gets that power from being ultra fit and having a very high stamina level as it enables him to pound, pound, and then pound some more just like a piston lol
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ok, for you fellas havin trouble with the dancing thing, tbombz is gonna give yall a quick and easy tutorial (but take note, this is a tutorial for primarily hip hop dancing..tbombz is not very informed on how to dance at raves to techno and dance music, nor does tbombz do very well with dancing to girly or poppy music. salsa, r&b, ballroom dancing.. i can help yall out with these but i dont think most of you will need that sort of thing anyways)
first of all, watch this video from the movie "hitch". if you cant dance, do exactly what will smith is kevin james to do: just stay right there in that cool zone.
now, if your ready to turn it up a notch, this is my personal favorite, the dougie
also, check out the way these guys move and when a song get real crunk/hyphy/gangster you can break out some of these moves.. this is called going dumb/getting stupid
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The solution?
Don't date, fuck some whores instead
wisdom here
getbig should make a guide to life for young men
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Meh, still not an appeal to me.
The only thing I may do is learn how to do some sort of professional dancing if my woman wanted me to. Something like ballroom dancing. I could deal with that.
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Don't tell me how you feel. Show me. Your feelings - dance them for me.
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Don't tell me how you feel. Show me. Your feelings - dance them for me.
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