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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: SF1900 on April 27, 2013, 01:12:38 PM
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Hello Getbig! So I am going on a date tonight with a 45 year old woman. I am 32. The last girl I went out with was okay (the one whose name I forgot--she was 26). We had fun, but she was playing too many games. I did not want to deal with it. The 45 year old seems more straightforward.
Anyway, what is your opinion on how to behave/act around older women? Do you think I should act differently given her age? Or it does not matter their age, just do what I have been doing (which sometimes works, and sometimes does not work). There is a pretty big difference between 26 and 45.
Also, what color do you think is better to wear (see picture below)? SF1900 has to show off the guns a little. You know how it is. This is an extremely informal meeting, so I do not have to wear a button down shirt or khakis or anything like that. We are going to a very standard pub. In fact, Id stand out if I wore something fancy. Plus, I wanted to dress more regular to show her that I can connect with the common man.
My favorite clothing line is Express. Any other Getbiggers wear Express?
(http://i41.tinypic.com/i2raj6.jpg)
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First of all, congratulations man! ;D
I would wear a button down shirt but that's because I like to wear them and they are my "style".
Don't think that's mandatory though.
But can't really say I would be an expert on these things. Be sure to post some pics
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Best of luck.
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I like yellow, youthful!
...on a related note, how desperate must you be to date a 45yr old grandma when you're only 32?
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First of all, congratulations man! ;D
I would wear a button down shirt but that's because I like to wear them and they are my "style".
Don't think that's mandatory though.
But can't really say I would be an expert on these things. Be sure to post some pics
Well, I was going to go with a button down, but i have been to this place and its pretty standard. If its at a restaurant or dinner, I will definitely wear a button down. I feel like I can get away with either or. I will contemplate this and get back to you ;D ;D
Mass243, you know more than you think . ;) ;) :D :D
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I like yellow, youthful!
...on a related note, how desperate must you be to date a 45yr old grandma when you're only 32?
Did you read my full post? :-\ I went out with a 26 year old last week. My last few dates have been with women around my age. However, I do like older women, and a lot of older women look better than the young ones. I like to mix it up. Older women look very classy.
Yes, yellow is a good choice. Thank you :)
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Best of luck.
I am wondering if I should tell her that I post on GB. :-\ :-\
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I like yellow, youthful!
...on a related note, how enamored must she be to date a 32 old stud when she is 45?
reversed that for you...
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I am wondering if I should tell her that I post on GB. :-\ :-\
Not until you have sealed the deal first.
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reversed that for you...
Yes, yes ;)
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Not until you have sealed the deal first.
Expand on this ;) ;)
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Expand on this ;) ;)
I mean make sure she really likes you first. Telling her you post on a bbing forum should be fine. Lord help you if she stumbles across Tbombz by accident ;D
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Getbig's Harold and Maude.
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I mean make sure she really likes you first. Telling her you post on a bbing forum should be fine. Lord help you if she stumbles across Tbombz by accident ;D
But I thought everyone knew about GB? :o :o
She may be traumatized if she comes across the tbombz pics. :-\ :-\
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Getbig's Harold and Maude.
haha, no, not that big of an age difference, plus she is pretty! :D :D
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This is a rather odd statement -- what are you, some sort of aristocrat?
Well, yeah, I post on GB! :D :D ;) ;)
(ps - it was a joke).
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It may sound like a terrible cliche, but be yourself, since that feels the most comfortable, and she will prob experience the same.
Wear that blue shirt, blue symbolizes trust and loyalty (just fake it until you make it ;D)
Why would you only date older women because you can't stand playing women? Just write this in your profile, simple is that (many women do the same).
BTW, have you tried my suggestions to 'find' the name of that other woman?
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It's pretty clear which user(s) you should PM if you're simply looking to plug in by evening's end. But, given this woman's age, she probably knows what she wants and so will lead you along -- just don't fuck up.
Yes, you're right. I have to play it smooth.
Older women do know what they want.
A lot of the younger ones play games, ya know. Not the older women. Its quite different.
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It may sound like a terrible cliche, but be yourself, since that feels the most comfortable, and she will prob experience the same.
Wear that blue shirt, blue symbolizes trust and loyalty (just fake it until you make it ;D)
Why would you only date older women because you can't stand playing women? Just write this in your profile, simple is that (many women do the same).
BTW, have you tried my suggestions to 'find' the name of that other woman?
No, I meant a lot of young women play games. I date both, older and younger women. But older women are easier to date. Well, this has been my experience.
Oh, and I found out her name, she showed me one of her Ids. I did not even have to ask ;D ;D
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Be yourself. You are funny. That's really all you need with 87.5478% of women.
Wear button down or the blue.
No, I meant a lot of young women play games. I date both, older and younger women. But older women are easier to date. Well, this has been my experience.
Oh, and I found out her name, she showed me one of her Ids. I did not even have to ask ;D ;D
Was it Gipple?
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Be yourself. You are funny. That's really all you need with 87.5478% of women.
Wear button down or the blue.
Was it Gipple?
Thanks, Butterbean :) ;) ;)
Na, it was not gipple haha lol. Actually, I found out her name because she showed me an ID. I got off easy!
I do remember this ones name, though :)
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your asking an internet board about what clothes to wear..... are you for real
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No, I meant a lot of young women play games. I date both, older and younger women. But older women are easier to date. Well, this has been my experience.
Oh, and I found out her name, she showed me one of her Ids. I did not even have to ask ;D ;D
I understand that you were referring to young women, but you find women from all ages with this habit. Again, be explicit, don't be afraid to mention this turn-off in your dating profile.
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your asking an internet board about what clothes to wear..... are you for real
Getbig is versed in many areas, one of them being fashion ;D
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I understand that you were referring to young women, but you find women from all ages with this habit. Again, be explicit, don't be afraid to mention this turn-off in your dating profile.
True, you do, but I think there are degrees. I feel like young women do it A LOT more than older women.
Actually, I did not meet this older women on a dating site. Met her when I was out with friends, but it was brief. Just exchanged numbers, then she left. It was late at that time.
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Definitely talk to her about how you find her sexually attractive.
A 45 year old woman will most assuredly be DTF.
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Definitely talk to her about how you find her sexually attractive.
A 45 year old woman will most assuredly be DTF.
Post of the year candidate.
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Pm quickerblade, he has the best dating advice.
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Pm quickerblade, he has the best dating advice.
Solid advice :)
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Just don't try and bullshit this woman. Women that age are a lot sharper than the young ones you have been dating.
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How many Getbiggers will pass the test?
10 Biggest Dating Turn Offs for Women
#1 Insecure personalities
#2 Oversensitive guys
#3 Being cocky or pompous
#4 The foot in the mouth (say wut?! ;D )
#5 Boring guys
#6 Dumb guys
#7 Fidgety and touchy guys
#8 Narcissists
#9 A unmannerly prick
#10 The overenthusiastic fan (don't talk about your love for men with striated glutes)
http://www.lovepanky.com/men/understanding-women/10-dating-turn-offs-for-women
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How many Getbiggers will pass the test?
10 Biggest Dating Turn Offs for Women
#1 Insecure personalities
#2 Oversensitive guys
#3 Being cocky or pompous
#4 The foot in the mouth (say wut?! ;D )
#5 Boring guys
#6 Dumb guys
#7 Fidgety and touchy guys
#8 Narcissists
#9 A unmannerly prick
#10 The overenthusiastic fan (don't talk about your love for men with striated glutes)
http://www.lovepanky.com/men/understanding-women/10-dating-turn-offs-for-women
That describes almost every guy >:(
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That describes almost every guy >:(
I dunno... I think the point it's making is to not stress over it and don't sit around and talk about yourself all night.
Don't be a pushover either. Don't put her on a pedestal.
Don't be an idiot or rude.
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Congzzzzz
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That describes almost every guy >:(
I'm sorry to hear about your dating experiences ;D
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WTF man? You're getting all of this getbig help, but what are you giving in return?
At least post a pic of this broad so we can she if she's worth it.
Or, take a pic later on the date and post it.
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Whatever you do....do NOT choose the yellow tee. Trust me. Do NOT. This is important.
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WTF man? You're getting all of this getbig help, but what are you giving in return?
At least post a pic of this broad so we can she if she's worth it.
Or, take a pic later on the date and post it.
I am giving friendship in return :D :D
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Whatever you do....do NOT choose the yellow tee. Trust me. Do NOT. This is important.
I howled
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Whatever you do....do NOT choose the yellow tee. Trust me. Do NOT. This is important.
Thanks, Chiro :D
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Pics or the date never happened. All you did was pick a blue shirt.
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Monocle, watch fob, tophat & cane. Tell her you're heir to a peanut fortune.
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- BLACK SABBATH's flaying demon t-shirt,nice cargo-surfers brand pants (good for hiding erection) & converse shoes & she's yours.
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Pics or the date never happened. All you did was pick a blue shirt.
The date will happen. Not sure about the pics.
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is it just me or does anyone else think this is a really weird post. Are you autistic, man?
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And yet you are allergic to peanuts. This will lend you an air of tragic vulnerability and get her thinking about how she could inherit your peanut fortune should some unfortunate accident befall you shortly after the vows.
And if the date isn't going well you can just jump up and scream MY GOD THERE ARE PEANUTS IN THIS and run out the door.
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The date will happen. Not sure about the pics.
Being serious, do not wear the yellow trust me
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It may sound like a terrible cliche, but be yourself, since that feels the most comfortable, and she will prob experience the same.
Wear that blue shirt, blue symbolizes trust and loyalty (just fake it until you make it ;D)
Why would you only date older women because you can't stand playing women? Just write this in your profile, simple is that (many women do the same).
BTW, have you tried my suggestions to 'find' the name of that other woman?
where did you get this info from? and what do other colors symbolize? red? black? green? yellow? white? orange? purple?
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Being serious, do not wear the yellow trust me
You and chiro are of the same opinion, why? If you can pull off yellow, what's the problem?
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Bees
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red is a good color or a black t with trendy print on it
dark blue is also okay
ditch the baby blue unless its a t with trendy print
same goes for the yellow it should have trendy print on it so you dont look like a nerd wich you may not be but that plain yellow and plain baby blue screams "fragile neegul"
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where did you get this info from? and what do other colors symbolize? red? black? green? yellow? white? orange? purple?
I already knew the blue one before there was Internet for the public.
Anyway, here's the result of a Google search for "color symbolism" :
Red: Excitement, energy, passion, love, desire, speed, strength, power, heat, aggression, danger, fire, blood, war, violence, all things intense and passionate.
Pink symbolizes love and romance, caring, tenderness, acceptance and calm.
Beige and ivory symbolize unification. Ivory symbolizes quiet and pleasantness. Beige symbolizes calm and simplicity.
Yellow signifies joy, happiness, betrayal, optimism, idealism, imagination, hope, sunshine, summer, gold, philosophy, dishonesty, cowardice, jealousy, covetousness, deceit, illness, hazard and friendship.
Blue: Peace, tranquility, cold, calm, stability, harmony, unity, trust, truth, confidence, conservatism, security, cleanliness, order, loyalty, sky, water, technology, depression, appetite suppressant.
Turquoise symbolizes calm. Teal symbolizes sophistication. Aquamarine symbolizes water. Lighter turquoise has a feminine appeal.
Purple: Royalty, nobility, spirituality, ceremony, mysterious, transformation, wisdom, enlightenment, cruelty, arrogance, mourning.
Lavender symbolizes femininity, grace and elegance.
Orange: Energy, balance, enthusiasm, warmth, vibrant, expansive, flamboyant, demanding of attention.
Green: Nature, environment, healthy, good luck, renewal, youth, spring, generosity, fertility, jealousy, inexperience, envy, misfortune, vigor.
Brown: Earth, stability, hearth, home, outdoors, reliability, comfort, endurance, simplicity, and comfort.
Gray: Security, reliability, intelligence, staid, modesty, dignity, maturity, solid, conservative, practical, old age, sadness, boring. Silver symbolizes calm.
White: Reverence, purity, birth, simplicity, cleanliness, peace, humility, precision, innocence, youth, winter, snow, good, sterility, marriage (Western cultures), death (Eastern cultures), cold, clinical.
Black: Power, sexuality, sophistication, formality, elegance, wealth, mystery, fear, evil, unhappiness, depth, style, evil, sadness, remorse, anger, anonymity, underground, good technical color, mourning, death (Western cultures).
(no homo)
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thanks brother :)
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You and chiro are of the same opinion, why? If you can pull off yellow, what's the problem?
I think it's a geeky colour sorta beta I can't pull off yellow anyway maybe he can
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Hello Getbig! So I am going on a date tonight with a 45 year old woman. I am 32. The last girl I went out with was okay (the one whose name I forgot--she was 26). We had fun, but she was playing too many games. I did not want to deal with it. The 45 year old seems more straightforward.
Anyway, what is your opinion on how to behave/act around older women? Do you think I should act differently given her age? Or it does not matter their age, just do what I have been doing (which sometimes works, and sometimes does not work). There is a pretty big difference between 26 and 45.
Also, what color do you think is better to wear (see picture below)? SF1900 has to show off the guns a little. You know how it is. This is an extremely informal meeting, so I do not have to wear a button down shirt or khakis or anything like that. We are going to a very standard pub. In fact, Id stand out if I wore something fancy. Plus, I wanted to dress more regular to show her that I can connect with the common man.
My favorite clothing line is Express. Any other Getbiggers wear Express?
(http://i41.tinypic.com/i2raj6.jpg)
I don't fit in a lot of the clothes from Express? Even in a XXL button down shirt my chest was bursting out of it!
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Personally, I'd go with the dark blue...or the light blue...
Or you could wear a short sleeve button up shirt (untucked) with the dark blue under it.
Jeans and docksiders....Chill...
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Monocle, watch fob, tophat & cane. Tell her you're heir to a peanut fortune.
haha lol. lol @ monocle! :)
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Being serious, do not wear the yellow trust me
I went with one of the blue shirts :)
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Bees
Yes, I have to make sure I do nto attract any more bees to the Northeast in case naturalwonder is around :D :D
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I can't believe you don't have anything from http://www.hotbodz.com/ ;D
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/9070-2T.jpg?1365586624)
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/4215-2T.jpg?1318703733)
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I can't believe you don't have anything from http://www.hotbodz.com/ ;D
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/9070-2T.jpg?1365586624)
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/4215-2T.jpg?1318703733)
haha, I only wear those when I go out with the female bodybuilders. :D :D
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is it just me or does anyone else think this is a really weird post. Are you autistic, man?
LMAO!! ;D ;D
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Do you have any shirts that were not purchased from Express?
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LOL @hotbodz
They even hired Hidetada Yamasushi
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/1080-2T.jpg?1366118121)
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Do you have any shirts that were not purchased from Express?
haha, not really. I buy mostly express. I have different styles (button down, t-shirts, v-necks, sweaters) from there.
I also like Armani Exchange.
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haha, not really. I buy mostly express. I have different styles (button down, t-shirts, v-necks, sweaters) from there.
I also like Armani Exchange.
I was just wondering, I buy all of my jeans from express. They just fit better on me.
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LOL @hotbodz
They even hired Hidetada Yamasushi
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/1080-2T.jpg?1366118121)
haha, i should have done my hair like that :D :D
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Alright heading out now.
I will do this for GB!
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haha, i should have done my hair like that :D :D
Or the Lorenzo look :-X ;D
(http://a248.e.akamai.net/origin-cdn.volusion.com/ro64h.7c5ab/v/vspfiles/photos/132239-2T.jpg?1366990462)
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Alright heading out now.
I will do this for GB!
PICS or it didn't happen!
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Monocle, watch fob, tophat & cane. Tell her you're heir to a peanut fortune.
(http://bbsimg.ngfiles.com/1/23804000/ngbbs4f57b60b7c5dc.jpg)
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update: she has nice body. still goingstrong,GB!
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update: she has nice body. still goingstrong,GB!
Get that thumbs up photo for us getbiggers.
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You and chiro are of the same opinion, why? If you can pull off yellow, what's the problem?
There's nothing at all wrong with the color yellow. But for this date and the background info given, he may as well wear THIS if he's gonna choose the yellow tee.
(http://i1156.photobucket.com/albums/p569/Vincebertolini/78a7f16b37630adf7f4ce9216b08aa7a.jpg)
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There's nothing at all wrong with the color yellow. But for this date and the background info given, he may as well wear THIS if he's gonna choose the yellow tee.
(http://i1156.photobucket.com/albums/p569/Vincebertolini/78a7f16b37630adf7f4ce9216b08aa7a.jpg)
Chiro, I did not go with the yellow :)
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Chiro, I did not go with the yellow :)
Well done sir.
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update: she has nice body. still goingstrong,GB!
Do you still know her name?
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Do you still know her name?
Yes, I do :)
I had a fun time! Will go out again.
I do not think I could have done without the help of GB. I think the blue shirt, and not the yellow one, is what did it :D :D
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Yes, I do :)
I had a fun time! Will go out again.
I do not think I could have done without the help of GB. I think the blue shirt, and not the yellow one, is what did it :D :D
That's good to hear man!
It's important to observe things from different perspectives. Getbig is a good place for this.
Keep us posted 8)
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That's good to hear man!
It's important to observe things from different perspectives. Getbig is a good place for this.
Keep us posted 8)
Thanks man!
Though, when I went out that night, I did not eat much food. I am worried that I was in a catabolic state the entire night and muscle growth was at a complete halt :o :o :-X :-X :-\ And I worked arms that morning. Looks like that workout was a waste.
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Thanks man!
Though, when I went out that night, I did not eat much food. I am worried that I was in a catabolic state the entire night and muscle growth was at a complete halt :o :o :-X :-X :-\ And I worked arms that morning. Looks like that workout was a waste.
Meal planning is everything bro, this bag is yours for $199 8)
(http://www.sixpackbags.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/e/l/elite_executive-500_explosion.jpg)
http://www.sixpackbags.com/products/executive-500-black.html
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Meal planning is everything bro, this bag is yours for $199 8)
(http://www.sixpackbags.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/e/l/elite_executive-500_explosion.jpg)
http://www.sixpackbags.com/products/executive-500-black.html
haha, holy crap!
Back in the day when I was obsessed with eating all my meals, this would have been great :)
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haha, holy crap!
Back in the day when I was obsessed with eating all my meals, this would have been great :)
Bag is bigger than u are
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Bag is bigger than u are
Length wise, not width wise. :D :D
I am glad my height is taking up space in your mind. You owe me a few bucks for rent ;) ;) :D :D
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haha, holy crap!
Back in the day when I was obsessed with eating all my meals, this would have been great :)
Last week I was on a contest, and saw several of these.
I just threw 3 $3 lunch boxes in my $15 bag, lol
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Length wise, not width wise. :D :D
I am glad my height is taking up space in your mind. You owe me a few bucks for rent ;) ;) :D :D
Stolen, weak, Sev gypsy response noted.....I'll bet your Granny date thought you were a laugh a minute.
Now go get your shinebox Mr. "I Iron My T-Shirts". ;D
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Stolen, weak, Sev gypsy response noted.....I'll bet your Granny date thought you were a laugh a minute.
Now go get your shinebox Mr. "I Iron My T-Shirts". ;D
No, no, the whole "owing money for taking up space in your mind" is a GB classic line. Similar to "meltdown" ;D ;D
Actually, there is only an 11 year difference. And she was quite pretty :)
Well, I am seeing her again, so she did not think I was a "laugh a minute." ;D ;D
But to be honest, she was more straightforward and to the point when compared to the younger ones. It was quite refreshing.
lol @ iron my t-shirts. They still come out wrinkled. I wonder if anabolichalo can make a post about how to properly iron t-shirts :)
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Last week I was on a contest, and saw several of these.
I just threw 3 $3 lunch boxes in my $15 bag, lol
Contest?
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Contest?
As a visitor. Maybe I will do a contest in December, but I need to find a good coach first.
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As a visitor. Maybe I will do a contest in December, but I need to find a good coach first.
Visitor? I am confused lol. What kind of contest was this?
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No, no, the whole "owing money for taking up space in your mind" is a GB classic line. Similar to "meltdown" ;D ;D
Actually, there is only an 11 year difference. And she was quite pretty :)
Well, I am seeing her again, so she did not think I was a "laugh a minute." ;D ;D
But to be honest, she was more straightforward and to the point when compared to the younger ones. It was quite refreshing.
lol @ iron my t-shirts. They still come out wrinkled. I wonder if anabolichalo can make a post about how to properly iron t-shirts :)
It's not a classic GB response....a classic GB response involves your mom, bukkake, and a Tijuana donkey herd.
Be wary garden gnome, that 45 year old will have you face down with two fingers up your shitter within 20 minutes of entering her apartment.
;D
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Visitor? I am confused lol. What kind of contest was this?
I only visit BB contests, and to keep it 'no homo', here's two pics
(http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/s320x320/5270_353986684702571_805148948_n.jpg) (http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/s320x320/562366_353986671369239_1509605736_n.jpg)
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It's not a classic GB response....a classic GB response involves your mom, bukkake, and a Tijuana donkey herd.
Be wary garden gnome, that 45 year old will have you face down with two fingers up your shitter within 20 minutes of entering her apartment.
;D
haha point taken about the classic GB response!
lol @ at the bold part. Sounds like something Tbombz would like. :-X :-X
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I only visit BB contests, and to keep it 'no homo', here's two pics
(http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/s320x320/5270_353986684702571_805148948_n.jpg) (http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/s320x320/562366_353986671369239_1509605736_n.jpg)
:D :D
So the new word for schmoeing is "visiting" huh? ;D ;D
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:D :D
So the new word for schmoeing is "visiting" huh? ;D ;D
I went backstage for a moment, but I haven't tried to buy a worn male thong, so yes, I'm a 'visitor' ;D