Getbig, Please Help.....

[SF1900]

Hello Getbig! So I am going on a date tonight with a 45 year old woman. I am 32. The last girl I went out with was okay (the one whose name I forgot--she was 26). We had fun, but she was playing too many games. I did not want to deal with it. The 45 year old seems more straightforward.

Anyway, what is your opinion on how to behave/act around older women? Do you think I should act differently given her age? Or it does not matter their age, just do what I have been doing (which sometimes works, and sometimes does not work). There is a pretty big difference between 26 and 45.

Also, what color do you think is better to wear (see picture below)? SF1900 has to show off the guns a little. You know how it is. This is an extremely informal meeting, so I do not have to wear a button down shirt or khakis or anything like that. We are going to a very standard pub. In fact, Id stand out if I wore something fancy. Plus, I wanted to dress more regular to show her that I can connect with the common man.

My favorite clothing line is Express. Any other Getbiggers wear Express?

[mass243]

First of all, congratulations man!   

I would wear a button down shirt but that's because I like to wear them and they are my "style".
Don't think that's mandatory though.
But can't really say I would be an expert on these things. Be sure to post some pics

[arce1988]

  Best of luck.

[Psychopath]

I like yellow, youthful!

...on a related note, how desperate must you be to date a 45yr old grandma when you're only 32?

[SF1900]

First of all, congratulations man!   

I would wear a button down shirt but that's because I like to wear them and they are my "style".
Don't think that's mandatory though.
But can't really say I would be an expert on these things. Be sure to post some pics

 

Well, I was going to go with a button down, but i have been to this place and its pretty standard. If its at a restaurant or dinner, I will definitely wear a button down. I feel like I can get away with either or. I will contemplate this and get back to you  

Mass243, you know more than you think .

[SF1900]

I like yellow, youthful!

...on a related note, how desperate must you be to date a 45yr old grandma when you're only 32?

 

Did you read my full post?  I went out with a 26 year old last week. My last few dates have been with women around my age. However, I do like older women, and a lot of older women look better than the young ones. I like to mix it up. Older women look very classy.

Yes, yellow is a good choice. Thank you

[SF1900]

  Best of luck.

I am wondering if I should tell her that I post on GB. 

[Parker]

I like yellow, youthful!

...on a related note, how enamored must she be to date a 32 old stud when she is 45?

reversed that for you...

[King Shizzo]

I am wondering if I should tell her that I post on GB. 

Not until you have sealed the deal first.

[SF1900]

reversed that for you...

 

Yes, yes

[SF1900]

Not until you have sealed the deal first.

 

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[King Shizzo]

 

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I mean make sure she really likes you first. Telling her you post on a bbing forum should be fine. Lord help you if she stumbles across Tbombz by accident 

[dr.chimps]

Getbig's Harold and Maude.

[SF1900]

I mean make sure she really likes you first. Telling her you post on a bbing forum should be fine. Lord help you if she stumbles across Tbombz by accident 

 

But I thought everyone knew about GB?  

She may be traumatized if she comes across the tbombz pics.  

[SF1900]

Getbig's Harold and Maude.

 

haha, no, not that big of an age difference, plus she is pretty! 

[SF1900]

This is a rather odd statement -- what are you, some sort of aristocrat?

 

 

Well, yeah, I post on GB! 

(ps - it was a joke).

[DroppingPlates]

It may sound like a terrible cliche, but be yourself, since that feels the most comfortable, and she will prob experience the same.
Wear that blue shirt, blue symbolizes trust and loyalty (just fake it until you make it  )
Why would you only date older women because you can't stand playing women? Just write this in your profile, simple is that (many women do the same).
BTW, have you tried my suggestions to 'find' the name of that other woman?

[SF1900]

It's pretty clear which user(s) you should PM if you're simply looking to plug in by evening's end. But, given this woman's age, she probably knows what she wants and so will lead you along -- just don't fuck up.

 

Yes, you're right. I have to play it smooth.

Older women do know what they want.

A lot of the younger ones play games, ya know. Not the older women. Its quite different.

[SF1900]

It may sound like a terrible cliche, but be yourself, since that feels the most comfortable, and she will prob experience the same.
Wear that blue shirt, blue symbolizes trust and loyalty (just fake it until you make it  )
Why would you only date older women because you can't stand playing women? Just write this in your profile, simple is that (many women do the same).
BTW, have you tried my suggestions to 'find' the name of that other woman?

 

No, I meant a lot of young women play games. I date both, older and younger women. But older women are easier to date. Well, this has been my experience.

Oh, and I found out her name, she showed me one of her Ids. I did not even have to ask 

[Butterbean]

Be yourself.  You are funny.  That's really all you need with 87.5478% of women.

Wear button down or the blue.

 

No, I meant a lot of young women play games. I date both, older and younger women. But older women are easier to date. Well, this has been my experience.

Oh, and I found out her name, she showed me one of her Ids. I did not even have to ask 

Was it Gipple?

[SF1900]

Be yourself.  You are funny.  That's really all you need with 87.5478% of women.

Wear button down or the blue.


Was it Gipple?

 

Thanks, Butterbean

Na, it was not gipple haha lol. Actually, I found out her name because she showed me an ID. I got off easy!

I do remember this ones name, though

[jodsy]

your asking an internet board about what clothes to wear..... are you for real

[DroppingPlates]

 

No, I meant a lot of young women play games. I date both, older and younger women. But older women are easier to date. Well, this has been my experience.

Oh, and I found out her name, she showed me one of her Ids. I did not even have to ask 

I understand that you were referring to young women, but you find women from all ages with this habit. Again, be explicit, don't be afraid to mention this turn-off in your dating profile.

[SF1900]

your asking an internet board about what clothes to wear..... are you for real

 

Getbig is versed in many areas, one of them being fashion 

[SF1900]

I understand that you were referring to young women, but you find women from all ages with this habit. Again, be explicit, don't be afraid to mention this turn-off in your dating profile.

   

True, you do, but I think there are degrees. I feel like young women do it A LOT more than older women.

Actually, I did not meet this older women on a dating site. Met her when I was out with friends, but it was brief. Just exchanged numbers, then she left. It was late at that time.