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Title: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 04:36:56 PM
decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: _aj_ on September 17, 2013, 04:38:59 PM
decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.


For that stuff, hitherto referred to as "shit that doesn't matter", I have forever given her my supreme confidence that she will do the right thing. I refuse to weigh in on decorating decisions.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: leaky_frog on September 17, 2013, 04:40:32 PM
She's not looking for your opinion, she wants you to validate hers.  You're there to make her feel like she is making good choices, and raise her self esteem.  If you like her choice, say so.  If not, lie; it's easier than the truth in those situations.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 04:45:38 PM
For that stuff, hitherto referred to as "shit that doesn't matter", I have forever given her my supreme confidence that she will do the right thing. I refuse to weigh in on decorating decisions.

I had tried  ad nauseum to relieve myself of this....to no avail. Forced like a political prisoner in a gulag.....just spent 10 minutes giving my opinion on comforter sets....then she brings in the one she BOUGHT,  :-\
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Shockwave on September 17, 2013, 04:47:28 PM
She's not looking for your opinion, she wants you to validate hers.  You're there to make her feel like she is making good choices, and raise her self esteem.  If you like her choice, say so.  If not, lie; it's easier than the truth in those situations.
This.

Exactly this.

If you disagree, she does what she wants anyway, so fuck it.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: calfzilla on September 17, 2013, 04:51:03 PM
Just tell your husband that he can make all the decorating decisions as long as you get to be the top once a week.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 04:55:11 PM
Just tell your husband that he can make all the decorating decisions as long as you get to be the top once a week.

Not remotely amusing, a complete and utter fail....as I suspect you are in life. The lack of originality, wit, and even some comedic quality screams of a HS level education and a C avg one at that. BUT good one haha ::)
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Voice of Doom on September 17, 2013, 06:17:23 PM
Start with 'no' every time.  Then see where things progress.   That's a healthy marriage.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: doison on September 17, 2013, 06:18:32 PM
Because "two become one" and that song they sing about a rose. 

You bought the cow.  Time to drink the milk
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Antonio fella on September 17, 2013, 07:28:30 PM
decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.



Ты бета

Разве не пох на такие вещи?
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Antonio fella on September 17, 2013, 07:30:08 PM
If you like something just go and buy it.

Is woman's nature to decorate - nothing surprising just appreciate
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: 240 is Back on September 17, 2013, 07:32:05 PM
Start with 'no' every time.  Then see where things progress.   That's a healthy marriage.

i like this.  use sarcasm and wit much more on her.   Ask her 10,000 questions about your workout, your job, your posting on getbig, your personal trimming.  See how she likes it.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: The Showstoppa on September 17, 2013, 07:33:24 PM

Ты бета

Разве не пох на такие вещи?

Learn english d u m b a s s.   
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 07:40:53 PM

Ты бета

Разве не пох на такие вещи?

Я дурака валяю....а ты заторможенный если не понял   
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: THE BOUNCER on September 17, 2013, 07:41:47 PM
decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.

why do you say "she"? your not fooling anyone fagget.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: The Showstoppa on September 17, 2013, 07:43:24 PM
Я дурака валяю....а ты заторможенный если не понял   

You too Vladimir. 
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 07:44:19 PM
why do you say "she"? your not fooling anyone fagget.

 ::).....how dare you show your face around here  ;D
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: THE BOUNCER on September 17, 2013, 07:45:06 PM
::).....how dare you show your face around here  ;D
thats a good looking dbol face if i ever saw one!
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 07:45:27 PM
You too Vladimir. 

It's Фёдор......just FYI
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: The Showstoppa on September 17, 2013, 07:46:23 PM
It's Фёдор......just FYI

Tediousim.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 07:49:50 PM
thats a good looking dbol face if i ever saw one!

Dbol in Russian means retard....дебил lol
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Shockwave on September 17, 2013, 07:50:58 PM
I don't speak Cyrillic. Im confused... so much randomness.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: THE BOUNCER on September 17, 2013, 07:52:04 PM
Dbol in Russian means retard....дебил lol

you know how i know you love me? you took a shopped droop eye pic to try and make me look bad. cant be done son, i look good even when you add retard shit to my face.  8)
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: The Showstoppa on September 17, 2013, 07:53:27 PM
you know how i know you love me? you took a shopped droop eye pic to try and make me look bad. cant be done son, i look good even when you add retard shit to my face.  8)

So if Strawman shit on your face you would still look good?
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: THE BOUNCER on September 17, 2013, 07:54:21 PM
So if Strawman shit on your face you would still look good?
i would make that shit look as good as it possibly could, yes.
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 07:54:58 PM
you know how i know you love me? you took a shopped droop eye pic to try and make me look bad. cant be done son, i look good even when you add retard shit to my face.  8)

How short a yellow bus do you take to the recycling job the state helps fund?  ;D :o
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: THE BOUNCER on September 17, 2013, 07:59:27 PM
LOL @ me ever working. you have no idea bro. no idea.  8)
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Tedim on September 17, 2013, 08:05:23 PM
LOL @ me ever working. you have no idea bro. no idea.  8)

Are you a K1, 1099, or W2.....
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: THE BOUNCER on September 17, 2013, 08:08:35 PM
Are you a K1, 1099, or W2.....
I'm head to toe legit.  8)
Title: Re: Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 17, 2013, 08:20:15 PM
She's not looking for your opinion, she wants you to validate hers.  You're there to make her feel like she is making good choices, and raise her self esteem.  If you like her choice, say so.  If not, lie; it's easier than the truth in those situations.

Fucking great answer.  Sounds like something I would say...without the cursing

Truth spoken here.