Married guys.....why do I have to be involved with every minor

[Tedim]

decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.

[_aj_]

decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.

For that stuff, hitherto referred to as "shit that doesn't matter", I have forever given her my supreme confidence that she will do the right thing. I refuse to weigh in on decorating decisions.

[leaky_frog]

She's not looking for your opinion, she wants you to validate hers.  You're there to make her feel like she is making good choices, and raise her self esteem.  If you like her choice, say so.  If not, lie; it's easier than the truth in those situations.

[Tedim]

For that stuff, hitherto referred to as "shit that doesn't matter", I have forever given her my supreme confidence that she will do the right thing. I refuse to weigh in on decorating decisions.

I had tried  ad nauseum to relieve myself of this....to no avail. Forced like a political prisoner in a gulag.....just spent 10 minutes giving my opinion on comforter sets....then she brings in the one she BOUGHT, 

[Shockwave]

She's not looking for your opinion, she wants you to validate hers.  You're there to make her feel like she is making good choices, and raise her self esteem.  If you like her choice, say so.  If not, lie; it's easier than the truth in those situations.

This.

Exactly this.

If you disagree, she does what she wants anyway, so fuck it.

[calfzilla]

Just tell your husband that he can make all the decorating decisions as long as you get to be the top once a week.

[Tedim]

Just tell your husband that he can make all the decorating decisions as long as you get to be the top once a week.

Not remotely amusing, a complete and utter fail....as I suspect you are in life. The lack of originality, wit, and even some comedic quality screams of a HS level education and a C avg one at that. BUT good one haha

[Voice of Doom]

Start with 'no' every time.  Then see where things progress.   That's a healthy marriage.

[doison]

Because "two become one" and that song they sing about a rose. 

You bought the cow.  Time to drink the milk

[Antonio fella]

decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.

Ты бета

Разве не пох на такие вещи?

[Antonio fella]

If you like something just go and buy it.

Is woman's nature to decorate - nothing surprising just appreciate

[240 is Back]

Start with 'no' every time.  Then see where things progress.   That's a healthy marriage.

i like this.  use sarcasm and wit much more on her.   Ask her 10,000 questions about your workout, your job, your posting on getbig, your personal trimming.  See how she likes it.

[The Showstoppa]

Ты бета

Разве не пох на такие вещи?

Learn english d u m b a s s.   

[Tedim]

Ты бета

Разве не пох на такие вещи?

Я дурака валяю....а ты заторможенный если не понял   

[THE BOUNCER]

decision. Curtains, bed spreads, dishes......everything needs a consensus discussion followed by ratification of said discussion then one final discussion confirming the items discussed.....then she buys the one she likes anyway. WTF....I'm still perplexed 12 years later.

why do you say "she"? your not fooling anyone fagget.

[The Showstoppa]

Я дурака валяю....а ты заторможенный если не понял   

You too Vladimir. 

[Tedim]

why do you say "she"? your not fooling anyone fagget.

 .....how dare you show your face around here 

[THE BOUNCER]

.....how dare you show your face around here 

thats a good looking dbol face if i ever saw one!

[Tedim]

You too Vladimir. 

It's Фёдор......just FYI

[The Showstoppa]

It's Фёдор......just FYI

Tediousim.

[Tedim]

thats a good looking dbol face if i ever saw one!

Dbol in Russian means retard....дебил lol

[Shockwave]

I don't speak Cyrillic. Im confused... so much randomness.

[THE BOUNCER]

Dbol in Russian means retard....дебил lol

you know how i know you love me? you took a shopped droop eye pic to try and make me look bad. cant be done son, i look good even when you add retard shit to my face.  

[The Showstoppa]

you know how i know you love me? you took a shopped droop eye pic to try and make me look bad. cant be done son, i look good even when you add retard shit to my face.  

So if Strawman shit on your face you would still look good?

[THE BOUNCER]

So if Strawman shit on your face you would still look good?

i would make that shit look as good as it possibly could, yes.