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Title: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 07:49:43 AM
So I just started talking to this girl again on facebook that I used to really like back in high school. I hadn't spoken to her in a long time but we made plans to go out this weekend. So anyway, I type her name into Google and see that she had been arrested atleast 5 times. The most recent one was over a year ago but it looks like she did a few months in jail and is listed as being on parole. The most serious charge is "theft by taking" and there are also several probation violations and a public intoxication and possession of drug paraphanelia charge. Anyway, what do you guys think I should do? I don't want to go out with her if she's on drugs or is involved in other criminal stuff. However, when I talked to her on the phone she seemed totally normal and not drugged out or anything. I would feel really awkward saying "hey I looked you up online and saw where you've been arrested a bunch; are you straight now?" Also, if she is on parole, would that mean she is getting drug tested regularly?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Dr.J on January 08, 2014, 07:51:21 AM
RUN!!
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: johnnynoname on January 08, 2014, 07:53:49 AM
become gay
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Hulkotron on January 08, 2014, 07:54:07 AM
She likely has a dick.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Big Chiro Flex on January 08, 2014, 07:56:14 AM
You should be proactive and steal something of hers first. That way you assert your dominance and have the upper hand.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 08:00:41 AM
Back in the day before the internet, you would never even be able to find this stuff out. Kind of wish I had never Googled her now.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Sophus on January 08, 2014, 08:01:06 AM
Try to fuck her and move on
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Rambone on January 08, 2014, 08:02:25 AM
It sounds like she already committed theft by stealing away your heart broski. Time to marry said cu nt.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 08:06:13 AM
Also, what is possession of drug paraphanelia? Would that just mean you have a bong or something w/ residue but no actual drugs?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Rambone on January 08, 2014, 08:07:32 AM
Also, what is possession of drug paraphanelia? Would that just mean you have a bong or something w/ residue but no actual drugs?
Most likely. Can you show us a few of the mugshots?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on January 08, 2014, 08:07:36 AM
Admitting to using facebook=the ghey
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: johnnynoname on January 08, 2014, 08:08:17 AM
not for nothing but isn't this the forum where one of the top posters dressed up in a ass-less bunny outfit and lied about having HIV?

not really a bastion for receiving advice about chooses to make



asking for advice here is like asking for Driving Directions from Susan Smith
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 08:09:28 AM
Admitting to using facebook=the ghey
Not anymore gay than posting on a forum dedicated to oiled up muscular men in thongs.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: kh300 on January 08, 2014, 08:12:41 AM
Ask a bunch of drug abusing criminals about what you should do with a drug abusing criminal. Brilliant.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 08:14:18 AM
not for nothing but isn't this the forum where one of the top posters dressed up in a ass-less bunny outfit and lied about having HIV?

not really a bastion for receiving advice about chooses to make



asking for advice here is like asking for Driving Directions from Susan Smith
I turn to getbiggers for advices regarding all major life decisions!
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Devon97 on January 08, 2014, 08:16:35 AM
QB will be with you shortly.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: johnnynoname on January 08, 2014, 08:16:51 AM
I turn to getbiggers for advices regarding all major life decisions!

I don't know how you could ask Michael Clarke Duncan for any advice given that he is dead
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: johnnynoname on January 08, 2014, 08:17:27 AM
...oh,, you said "Get Biggers"........my bad
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Fuzzy Nuts on January 08, 2014, 08:18:31 AM
Crazy gurls best in bed
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on January 08, 2014, 08:19:30 AM
Not anymore gay than posting on a forum dedicated to oiled up muscular men in thongs.

Don't be using no logic on here fucker  ;D
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Rambone on January 08, 2014, 08:30:17 AM


Nice work my friend
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Thick Nick on January 08, 2014, 08:57:26 AM
We need more information. What's the white-in-questions name so we can google her ourselves and come to a better, more informed decision.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Henda on January 08, 2014, 09:00:02 AM
Just fuck the whore and move on.
Keep an eye on your wallet.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Rambone on January 08, 2014, 09:05:38 AM
She looks kinda homely here but is really hot in real life.

Not at all considering it's a mugshot.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: tommywishbone on January 08, 2014, 09:07:47 AM
Criminals are hot.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 09:14:12 AM
So does anyone know what parole involves? Does that mean she gets drug tested, can't drink, has a curfew, etc?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: stavios on January 08, 2014, 09:15:16 AM
So I just started talking to this girl again on facebook that I used to really like back in high school. I hadn't spoken to her in a long time but we made plans to go out this weekend. So anyway, I type her name into Google and see that she had been arrested atleast 5 times. The most recent one was over a year ago but it looks like she did a few months in jail and is listed as being on parole. The most serious charge is "theft by taking" and there are also several probation violations and a public intoxication and possession of drug paraphanelia charge. Anyway, what do you guys think I should do? I don't want to go out with her if she's on drugs or is involved in other criminal stuff. However, when I talked to her on the phone she seemed totally normal and not drugged out or anything. I would feel really awkward saying "hey I looked you up online and saw where you've been arrested a bunch; are you straight now?" Also, if she is on parole, would that mean she is getting drug tested regularly?

LOOOLLLL

What the fuck man

stay away
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 08, 2014, 09:26:17 AM
So I just started talking to this girl again on facebook that I used to really like back in high school. I hadn't spoken to her in a long time but we made plans to go out this weekend. So anyway, I type her name into Google and see that she had been arrested atleast 5 times. The most recent one was over a year ago but it looks like she did a few months in jail and is listed as being on parole. The most serious charge is "theft by taking" and there are also several probation violations and a public intoxication and possession of drug paraphanelia charge. Anyway, what do you guys think I should do? I don't want to go out with her if she's on drugs or is involved in other criminal stuff. However, when I talked to her on the phone she seemed totally normal and not drugged out or anything. I would feel really awkward saying "hey I looked you up online and saw where you've been arrested a bunch; are you straight now?" Also, if she is on parole, would that mean she is getting drug tested regularly?

Sounds like a drug addict. And a pretty bad one.  Multiple probation violations and commiting enough petty crimes that a judge locks your ass up isn't a good sign.

But if the most recent is over a year ago she probably got her act together....are you a judgemental asshole or a cool person ?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 09:27:30 AM
Sounds like a drug addict. And a pretty bad one.  Multiple probation violations and commiting enough petty crimes that a judge locks your ass up isn't a god sign.
There are 2 probation violations. What would this usually result from? Failing a drug test or something like that?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 08, 2014, 09:33:51 AM
There are 2 probation violations. What would this usually result from? Failing a drug test or something like that?

I would think so.. unless there is a new arrest then that's pretty obvious. 
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: chaos on January 08, 2014, 09:36:12 AM
....are you a judgemental asshole or a cool person ?
Is this one of them there "rhetorical" questions?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Conker on January 08, 2014, 09:37:08 AM
fuck her then get her to steal a load of shit for you. don't let her know where you live.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Ronnie Rep on January 08, 2014, 09:37:35 AM
Offer her drugs, in exchange for sex!
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 09:38:50 AM
I would think so.. unless there is a new arrest then that's pretty obvious. 
The only charge listed for those 2 arrests is probation violation. Also, I found on the parolee database, where it says she was residing at a certain address (as of several months ago). I looked that address up and it is a rehab facility. However, she is in a normal apartment now.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: That_Dude on January 08, 2014, 09:48:29 AM
Wonderful opportunity here. You can bang her and not have to worry about dodging her calls odds are she will be locked up again. If you do not call and she gets squirrelly press some type of minor charge odds are it will result in a parole violation and she will get locked up. One night stand and peace out....
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 08, 2014, 09:50:35 AM
The only charge listed for those 2 arrests is probation violation. Also, I found on the parolee database, where it says she was residing at a certain address (as of several months ago). I looked that address up and it is a rehab facility. However, she is in a normal apartment now.

She's good looking.  Pretty much trumps everything anyway.  Hang out with her. Play your shit close to the vest and see if she comes clean about her past. Not that she has to.....but if she portrays herself as miss wonderful  who has the perfect life then you know she's full of shit.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 09:52:48 AM
She's good looking.  Pretty much trumps everything anyway.  Hang out with her. Play your shit close to the vest and see if she comes clean about her past. Not that she has to.....but if she portrays herself as miss wonderful  who has the perfect life then you know she's full of shit.
thanks, seems like pretty good advice.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Rambone on January 08, 2014, 09:56:41 AM
Offer her drugs, in exchange for sex!

Hahaha yesss
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 08, 2014, 09:59:41 AM
thanks, seems like pretty good advice.

All kidding aside I would hide my valuables and keep an eye on my pants if sex ensues.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Tapeworm on January 08, 2014, 10:02:41 AM
not for nothing but isn't this the forum where one of the top posters dressed up in a ass-less bunny outfit and lied about having HIV?

not really a bastion for receiving advice about chooses to make



asking for advice here is like asking for Driving Directions from Susan Smith

Not for nothing but I wouldn't turn down an opportunity not to dismiss an impure overture from a not unattractive woman, like the one who drove her car off the cliff at the end of that movie with her way hotter friend.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: CalvinH on January 08, 2014, 10:34:15 AM
Sounds like a winner.



...pm her number if it doesn't work out for you :)
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 10:51:40 AM
We need more information. What's the white-in-questions name so we can google her ourselves and come to a better, more informed decision.

Actually considered providing her name to see if any Getbig detectives could dig up any more info for me. But then I figured some asshole would probably message her on facebook w/ a link to this thread.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: galeniko on January 08, 2014, 11:17:06 AM
She looks kinda homely here but is really hot in real life.
hot enough to not ask any questions.

dont be a fagggoooot and have sex with her.

Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Teutonic Knight on January 08, 2014, 01:45:34 PM
Take her, she would love yours mothers jewelry  :)
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: The Grim Lifter on January 08, 2014, 01:53:47 PM
She looks kinda homely here but is really hot in real life.

That's fucking hot for a mugshot
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Wiggs on January 08, 2014, 02:05:24 PM
You deserve whatever happens to you playing in the shark tank like that. Come on man. Leave this criminal. There's too many other good people out there for you to be worrying about this. If you have to ask these kind of questions of someone you're just meeting, there's a problem.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 08, 2014, 02:13:24 PM
You deserve whatever happens to you playing in the shark tank like that. Come on man. Leave this criminal. There's too many other good people out there for you to be worrying about this. If you have to ask these kind of questions of someone you're just meeting, there's a problem.

She obviously has or had a drug problem...I wouldn't call her a criminal.  You break the law to the same extent she did every time you smoke weed.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 02:27:39 PM
You deserve whatever happens to you playing in the shark tank like that. Come on man. Leave this criminal. There's too many other good people out there for you to be worrying about this. If you have to ask these kind of questions of someone you're just meeting, there's a problem.
I'm not just now meeting her though. We were friends in high school and just lost contact over the years.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Vince B on January 08, 2014, 02:48:34 PM
Redress your doubts with her. On the phone. Then go from there. You want encouragement from the lads. Wiggs gave good advice.

You are excited by the idea of having sex with her and are trying to justify it. Ask yourself why she is single and available.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 08, 2014, 02:53:44 PM
Redress your doubts with her. On the phone. Then go from there. You want encouragement from the lads. Wiggs gave good advice.

You are excited by the idea of having sex with her and are trying to justify it. Ask yourself why she is single and available.
Everyone will call me a fag for this, but I really didn't plan on meeting up with her just for sex. She was a genuinely good friend in high school and I always kinda liked her, so I just thought it would be cool to see her again. If I talk about her past with her, I'll do it in person. I don't want to call her up and be like "so I ran some background checks on you and need to clear a few things up before we go out".
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: calfzilla on January 08, 2014, 03:31:14 PM
She looks kinda homely here but is really hot in real life.

Plow that shit man!  She looks hot and she's a bad girl. Don't marry her but have the time of your life for a few months then go your seperation ways.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 08, 2014, 03:58:46 PM
Everyone will call me a fag for this, but I really didn't plan on meeting up with her just for sex. She was a genuinely good friend in high school and I always kinda liked her, so I just thought it would be cool to see her again. If I talk about her past with her, I'll do it in person. I don't want to call her up and be like "so I ran some background checks on you and need to clear a few things up before we go out".

I know that's why I gave the advice I did... she's someone from your past that meant something to you.  Thats good shit and you don't get that every day.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: thebrink on January 08, 2014, 06:48:10 PM
pursue her, tell her your crazy about her ect.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: galeniko on January 08, 2014, 06:56:07 PM
what are you waiting for?shes very hot,post the vagina shots asap.

Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Vince B on January 08, 2014, 07:42:31 PM
Everyone will call me a fag for this, but I really didn't plan on meeting up with her just for sex. She was a genuinely good friend in high school and I always kinda liked her, so I just thought it would be cool to see her again. If I talk about her past with her, I'll do it in person. I don't want to call her up and be like "so I ran some background checks on you and need to clear a few things up before we go out".

Hetero men always want sex from women they date. No worries if you are catching up with an old friend from school. However, why would you need any advices? So you are guilty as charged. Call her up and have a long chat. Tell her you Googled her and were surprised at things you found. Don't say you did a background check. If you are just catching up it matters not about records or looks. If you are thinking about a relationship then that is different. Meeting someone you liked in school can be exciting. Let us know how you go.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: cephissus on January 08, 2014, 07:47:14 PM
what happened to the pic >:(
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: The Ugly on January 08, 2014, 07:53:16 PM
This is idiotic, guy. She's probably at tweaker. This is the best you can do?
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 09, 2014, 06:55:23 AM
what happened to the pic >:(
Took the advice of some people that pm'd me and suggested I take it down. There are apparently some ways to trace the pic back to its source.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: smoothasf on January 09, 2014, 08:36:23 AM
Some ways lol Google search image done
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Mclovin on January 09, 2014, 09:52:58 AM
Hetero men always want sex from women they date. No worries if you are catching up with an old friend from school. However, why would you need any advices? So you are guilty as charged. Call her up and have a long chat. Tell her you Googled her and were surprised at things you found. Don't say you did a background check. If you are just catching up it matters not about records or looks. If you are thinking about a relationship then that is different. Meeting someone you liked in school can be exciting. Let us know how you go.
Don't worry, I will be sure to let you guys know how it goes....assuming she doesn't steal my computer.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: Primemuscle on January 09, 2014, 09:58:21 AM
There are lots of fish in the sea....I'd throw this one back.
Title: Re: Need some advice re a girl
Post by: wild willie on January 09, 2014, 10:21:10 AM
So I just started talking to this girl again on facebook that I used to really like back in high school. I hadn't spoken to her in a long time but we made plans to go out this weekend. So anyway, I type her name into Google and see that she had been arrested atleast 5 times. The most recent one was over a year ago but it looks like she did a few months in jail and is listed as being on parole. The most serious charge is "theft by taking" and there are also several probation violations and a public intoxication and possession of drug paraphanelia charge. Anyway, what do you guys think I should do? I don't want to go out with her if she's on drugs or is involved in other criminal stuff. However, when I talked to her on the phone she seemed totally normal and not drugged out or anything. I would feel really awkward saying "hey I looked you up online and saw where you've been arrested a bunch; are you straight now?" Also, if she is on parole, would that mean she is getting drug tested regularly?
;)