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So say for example that you have high expectations, for example to hook up with a hot girl etc and it does not go that way and your dreams are crushed.
What would be better? To think positive etc and have these expectations and whatever happens happens?
Or to be a little more pessimistic about things in general, and when something good finally happens, feel even better because you did not expect it?
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You can't choose between them. "Settling" is something people who never had high expectations to begin with do.
Because if you want something bad enough, you'll do whatever it takes to get it, or die/go broke/lose your sanity trying. Can't get it out of your head otherwise!
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Learn to be an Alpha like me and you wan't have to worry about it. I don't chase hot bitches. Hot bitches chase me. Come to my seminar.
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Set your expectations at your goal. Then, enact a strategy to accomplish that goal.
Goal: land a 6 figure job
Strategy: earn an MBA; get promoted at least once in current role to demonstrate upward mobility; grow list of contacts in key industry I wish to be employed in by 50%; improve list of contacts in specific companies in specific industry I want to work in by 100%; align with key contacts who can offer the employment I need or at least a lateral move with upward mobility as an off-shoot, quit current job, and take the plunge; accomplish this within next 5 years
People who think they're reaching aimlessly for the stars haven't grasped that 99.9% of things they want to do have already been accomplished by a mortal man before them. A mortal man who had a plan, and executed that plan.
So don't think in terms of "high or low". Think in terms of what you want, then set a SMART plan to accomplish that. Chances are you will.
As the old saying goes, "whether you think you, or you can't, you're right".
There's no such thing as impossible. Sounds like dime-store drivel, but too often, we let our insecurities limit us.
Now, I'd be foolish to say that having a plan is all there is to it. Execution of the right strategic plan is incredibly hard; even harder if those goals are lofty. But while you may not accomplish your ultimate goal if you fail to execute your plan, you may just in fact achieve more than if you set your sights low.
THink about it...give it some thought and see if you don't agree. EIther way, best of luck to you.
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So say for example that you have high expectations, for example to hook up with a hot girl etc and it does not go that way and your dreams are crushed.
What would be better? To think positive etc and have these expectations and whatever happens happens?
Or to be a little more pessimistic about things in general, and when something good finally happens, feel even better because you did not expect it?
Get some steroids and work your ass off in the gym buy some tight jeans and shirts then walk into the club with your head held high and the hot bitches will be yours.
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So say for example that you have high expectations, for example to hook up with a hot girl etc and it does not go that way and your dreams are crushed.
What would be better? To think positive etc and have these expectations and whatever happens happens?
Or to be a little more pessimistic about things in general, and when something good finally happens, feel even better because you did not expect it?
I have low expectations for you as a new poster...actually you're probably a gimmick.
now if you're not and you're funny and have something to add to this site I'll be pleasantly surprised.
...hope this helps
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First of all I am not a gimmick.
And second of all, I am talking about things you cannot control through sheer planning.
Hooking up was just a common example.
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First of all I am not a gimmick.
And second of all, I am talking about things you cannot control through sheer planning.
Hooking up was just a common example.
il take the long way round
and il find my own way down 8)
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There's too many people in the world fighting for too few resources. Making a billion in 1914 isn't the same as doing it in 2014. Everything's been invented.
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There's too many people in the world fighting for too few resources. Making a billion in 1914 isn't the same as doing it in 2014. Everything's been invented.
apart from an invention to block certain posters on here
could be your meal ticket bro
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apart from an invention to block certain posters on here
could be your meal ticket bro
Yeah, but then how would you continue posting here when everyone put you on block?
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Yeah, but then how would you continue posting here when everyone put you on block?
by not giving a fuck like i do now
you should try it :-*
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by not giving a fuck like i do now
you should try it :-*
You talked to uncle junior on the phone.
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You talked to uncle junior on the phone.
no
i couldnt be arsed
like i said i dont give a fuck
:)
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Aim high.
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no
i couldnt be arsed
like i said i dont give a fuck
:)
His posts say otherwise. I think you care a lot about how people perceive you here. That's your Achilles heel. Too involved. Learn to take a step back and see it for what it is. It's just a site, man!
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His posts say otherwise. I think you care a lot about how people perceive you here. That's your Achilles heel. Too involved. Learn to take a step back and see it for what it is. It's just a site, man!
thanks for the advice brother
il give it all the credence it deserves :)
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Also, avatars of selfie ab pictures are really gay. Especially when you only have 2 abs. Just a heads up. ;)
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Learn to take a step back and see it for what it is.
I will add this as agenda item #8 for the Thursday mod meeting.
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I will add this as agenda item #8 for the Thursday mod meeting.
While you're at it, suggest a new stable of mods. The current ones suck heavy penis.
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Also, avatars of selfie ab pictures are really gay. Especially when you only have 2 abs. Just a heads up. ;)
im guessing its two abs more than you
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im guessing its two abs more than you
Right, but it's still embarassing and very uncouth. And therefore not helping your reputation or image on this board. Just a tip. ;)
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Right, but it's still embarassing and very uncouth. And therefore not helping your reputation or image on this board. Just a tip. ;)
cheers bro il take your feedback on board
thank you for the tip
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i have low expectations, and then lower. High not so much
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Right, but it's still embarassing and very uncouth. And therefore not helping your reputation or image on this board. Just a tip. ;)
he wants a cock pic bigmc.
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cheers bro il take your feedback on board
thank you for the tip
I'm just trying to be your friend, you seem like an important poster on this forum and therefore one to buddy up to if one wants to progress up the getbig ladder.
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he wants a cock pic bigmc.
yeah he keeps pming me for naked pics
im thinking he may be surfing for cock
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yeah he keeps pming me for naked pics
im thinking he may be surfing for cock
Hes already been busted for cruising gay sites for pictures.
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best to be neither high nor low but balanced in the center. Equanimity.
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yeah he keeps pming me for naked pics
im thinking he may be surfing for cock
You asked me if I wanted to see it and I said yes. What's the problem?
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Hes already been busted for cruising gay sites for pictures.
You sent me the links to those sites. Don't act like you don't have a part in this. ::)
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You asked me if I wanted to see it and I said yes. What's the problem?
hey im flattered
but i dont swing that way
good luck in your cock quest bro
im sure your persistence will pay off
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hey im flattered
but i dont swing that way
good luck in your cock quest bro
im sure your persistence will pay off
Then why did you offer me your flaccid dick picks? I'm confused. Are you suddenly no longer bisexual?
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You sent me the links to those sites. Don't act like you don't have a part in this. ::)
Yep, just reverse image searched the photos.
I thought you were PC literate?
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Then why did you offer me your flaccid dick picks? I'm confused. Are you suddenly no longer bisexual?
now i know you are bullshitting, bigmc is never flaccid.
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Then why did you offer me your flaccid dick picks? I'm confused. Are you suddenly no longer bisexual?
i think you are confusing me with someone else
im flattered that you are in love with me
but you should direct your lust for the penis somewhere else :)
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Yep, just reverse image searched the photos.
I thought you were PC literate?
What does reverse search have to do with you sending me the links to those gay sites in the first place? God, you're dense. ::)
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i think you are confusing me with someone else
im flattered that you are in love with me
but you should direct your lust for the penis somewhere else :)
No, I'm pretty sure it was you. I mean, the douchey selfie of your 2-pack is hard to miss. I think you have a serious case of denial about your obvious gay orientation.
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What does reverse search have to do with you sending me the links to those gay sites in the first place? God, you're dense. ::)
Because thats where you sourced the photos from in the first place.
mmmm…you are beginning to use Uncle juniors tactics to initiate a response.
Its an old dated tactic, not going to work here anymore.
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if you are lazy or mentally unstable it's best to set expectations low
The voice of experience.
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Because thats where you sourced the photos from in the first place.
mmmm…you are beginning to use Uncle juniors tactics to initiate a response.
Its an old dated tactic, not going to work here anymore.
No, that was you. I merely posted the links you PMed to me.
Why bring UJ into this? Why are you so angry at him? Just because he declined your offer to meet in real life.
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No, that was you. I merely posted the links you PMed to me.
Why bring UJ into this? Why are you so angry at him? Just because he declined your offer to meet in real life.
Epic waste of a troll post.
Must try harder.
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Epic waste of a troll post.
Must try harder.
You can't troll me. I'm untrollable. :-*
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You can't troll me. I'm untrollable. :-*
I know, you just pretend to use a fictional ignore function when you get flustered.
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You can't troll me. I'm untrollable. :-*
we just did ;)
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I know, you just pretend to use a fictional ignore function when you get flustered.
Which made you follow me in every thread I posted. Meltdown achieved. And it was all a hoax, lol.
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we just did ;)
You having a meltdown is trolling? LOL. No, you're mad I teased you about your invisible sixpack.
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Which made you follow me in every thread I posted. Meltdown achieved. And it was all a hoax, lol.
I just highlighted all your bollocks for people to see, I knew the blocker was bullshit hence me posting in the same threads as you.
You cant kid a kidder mate ;)
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I just highlighted all your bollocks for people to see, I knew the blocker was bullshit hence me posting in the same threads as you.
You cant kid a kidder mate ;)
No you didn't. Everyone believed it but you. Then I felt bad because you weren't getting any attention and decided to let you in on it. ;)
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Simon, care to explain this to us?
Hahahaha
I never sign off with "Cheers"
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Hahahaha
I never sign off with "Cheers"
Sure. ;)
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Sure. ;)
So I sent that today?
Lol
Epic failure at photoshop.
Funny thing is if i reported that and admitted it was mine you would get banned.
Still saying its mine? ;D
Awww… took it down then?
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So I sent that today?
Lol
Epic failure at photoshop.
Funny thing is if i reported that and admitted it was mine you would get banned.
Still saying its mine? ;D
Sure. "Photoshop." Every loser's excuse when their private shit gets posted. ::)
I removed it precisely for the reason you stated. But I can post the one you just sent me if you wish
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Sure. "Photoshop." Every loser's excuse when their private shit gets posted. ::)
I removed it precisely for the reason you stated. But I can post the one you just sent me if you wish
Dont worry I screenshot it.
Now, still want to claim its mine?
(http://s14.postimg.org/57dsub73l/Screen_Shot_2014_03_03_at_22_38_35.png)
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LOL, meltdown alert.
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LOL, meltdown alert.
Lol. post some more these are hilarious.
Use your gimmick account then photo shop that over the account name
(http://s3.postimg.org/un4h7o0kz/Screen_Shot_2014_03_03_at_22_48_07.png)
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Lol. post some more these are hilarious.
Use your gimmick account then photo shop that over the account name
(http://s3.postimg.org/un4h7o0kz/Screen_Shot_2014_03_03_at_22_48_07.png)
that looked pretty genuine
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that looked pretty genuine
He's grasping at straws, backpedaling over himself now that the jig is up.
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Lol. post some more these are hilarious.
Use your gimmick account then photo shop that over the account name
(http://s3.postimg.org/un4h7o0kz/Screen_Shot_2014_03_03_at_22_48_07.png)
Erm, what's your point? Postcounts change with every post, dude.
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that looked pretty genuine
Na, piece of cake
he fucked up by saying I posted the links to him in the past then posted a PM dated today.
Come on mate, you are better than that.
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Na, piece of cake
he fucked up by saying I posted the links to him in the past then posted a PM dated today.
Come on mate, you are better than that.
In the past = 4 hours ago. Last time I checked, that was in the past. And that is when the junior thread was going on. Keep flailing.
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The game is up. You're a giant pussy behind the tough-guy troll act. That's no 'shop, either. Unless you can prove it (which you can't). :D
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The game is up. You're a giant pussy behind the tough-guy troll act. That's no 'shop, either. Unless you can prove it (which you can't). :D
Lol
Isnt it odd that you have two PMs from me yet your inbox shows only 1 PM on both occasions ;D
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Lol
Isnt it odd that you have two PMs from me yet your inbox shows only 1 PM on both occasions ;D
I delete every PM after I read it. One was 4 hours ago, and one was minutes ago. Am I supposed to collect every PM I get now?
You're busted.
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Na, piece of cake
he fucked up by saying I posted the links to him in the past then posted a PM dated today.
Come on mate, you are better than that.
I ran it through an image analysis for photoshop possibilities and it came up positive that it has been altered
Simplemeltdownn.jpg
Photo has been opened and resaved with a program. It has been modified.
Test another image | Show Exif information | Send Us Feedback
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I ran it through an image analysis for photoshop possibilities and it came up positive that it has been altered
Simplemeltdownn.jpg
Photo has been opened and resaved with a program. It has been modified.
Test another image | Show Exif information | Send Us Feedback
It has been. I opened it in an image program to save it as a .jpg from PNG.
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It has been. I opened it in an image program to save it as a .jpg from PNG.
thats horseshit theres no reason why a pm should save as a png in the first place
you're full of it
its been altered
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Your inbox says 1 message received on both messages you fuckwit. ;D
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thats horseshit theres no reason why a pm should save as a png in the first place
you're full of it
its been altered
Dont worry mate, hes fucked now.
two messages yet only one shown??????
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thats horseshit theres no reason why a pm should save as a png in the first place
you're full of it
its been altered
False. My screenshot software saves all images as PNG. And if you use screencapture on the keyboard and paste it in MS Paint, it has no file extension until you choose one. So jpg isn't default either way.
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Your inbox says 1 message received on both messages you fuckwit. ;D
...because I only had one message in my inbox? How can you have 2 when there's only one in there at a time?
lol
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False. My screenshot software saves all images as PNG. And if you use screencapture on the keyboard and paste it in MS Paint, it has no file extension until you choose one. So jpg isn't default either way.
its fine
youve been outed but have too much pride to admit it
we have all been there
subject closed
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its fine
youve been outed but have too much pride to admit it
we have all been there
subject closed
you haven't outed me though
because you haven't proved how it was altered
other than it was resaved, which I admit
so until you can
those screenshots bury him
nothing to see here ;)
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(http://s22.postimg.org/cbkfvkjdt/Screen_Shot_2014_03_03_at_23_02_32.png)
Outed
2 messages supposedly sent, 1 message in total.
Lol.
I suppose its the inevitable, 'I was just trolling you' post up next.
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(http://s22.postimg.org/cbkfvkjdt/Screen_Shot_2014_03_03_at_23_02_32.png)
Outed
2 messages supposedly sent, 1 message in total.
Lol.
I deleted the first after I capped it. I now only have the 2nd in my inbox. Want me to post it again?
god, you're dumb
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It's too late man. You have to go back to trolling, you can't win this one.
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I deleted the first after I capped it. I now only have the 2nd in my inbox. Want me to post it again?
god, you're dumb
Yes, of course you would delete a message that would incriminate me, that makes a lot of sense. ;D
What little reputation you may have thought you had established has gone
You do realise labouring this point could get you banned regardless of me doing anything don't you?
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Yes, of course you would delete a message that would incriminate me, that makes a lot of sense. ;D
What little reputation you may have thought you had established has gone
You do realise labouring this point could get you banned regardless of me doing anything don't you?
Why would I keep the message in my inbox if I have a screencap of it? Do you keep envelopes after you open your mail?
lol
sorry dude, you're finished. Back trolling for you.
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Then again you've probably PMed the mods to ban me so I'm not holding my breath that this will make an impact. You have no integrity and self-admittedly had previous accounts to troll the boards with.
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Why would I keep the message in my inbox if I have a screencap of it? Do you keep envelopes after you open your mail?
lol
sorry dude, you're finished. Back trolling for you.
People will read the thread and make up their minds.
Let the chips fall where they might. ;D
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People will read the thread and make up their minds.
Let the chips fall where they might. ;D
Well they sort of already made up their mind about you already, man
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=518014.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=518014.0)
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Then again you've probably PMed the mods to ban me so I'm not holding my breath that this will make an impact. You have no integrity and self-admittedly had previous accounts to troll the boards with.
I have already PMd onemorerep, he will be along to deal with you later.
Hope you enjoyed your short stay here again.
Bye bye ;D
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Well they sort of already made up their mind about you already, man
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=518014.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=518014.0)
Lol, yes all three posts about me in that thread. ;D
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Has he gone?
(http://freethoughtblogs.com/lousycanuck/files/2012/10/panic.gif)
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I have already PMd onemorerep, he will be along to deal with you later.
Hope you enjoyed your short stay here again.
Bye bye ;D
man ratting people out is pussy, lost all respect for you right there
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man ratting people out is pussy, lost all respect for you right there
I'm sure you'll forgive him soon enough. ;)
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I'm sure you'll forgive him soon enough. ;)
Come on man, try and get some quality into your last few posts, dont waste them.
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Come on man, try and get some quality into your last few posts, dont waste them.
I don't kick corpses. :-*
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I'm sure you'll forgive him soon enough. ;)
ya you are right
you are so much of a dink I hope he does rat you out for a change. You essentially could be shizzo in disguise with your posting style
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I don't kick corpses. :-*
Thats almost 50% less that your previous post.
Come on see if you can make a one word post.
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ya you are right
you are so much of a dink I hope he does rat you out for a change. You essentially could be shizzo in disguise with your posting style
I'm not sure if that's a compliment or a zing but I'll take it.
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I'm not sure if that's a compliment or a zing but I'll take it.
You through now?
Im off to bed, work in the morning.
See you when your next gimmick gets authorised. ;)
Oh, and by the way
(http://s28.postimg.org/u5vjw1999/trolling.jpg)
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Im off to bed, work in the morning.
(http://i3.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article153843.ece/ALTERNATES/s615/people-queue-up-outside-the-local-social-welfare-office-in-cumberland-street-pic-collins-photos-480531792-153843.jpg)
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In the end, none of it will matter.