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Title: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Roger Bacon on May 19, 2014, 01:45:08 PM
Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago

    Story:

    We met in college and have been together ever since. We recently had a 10 informal get together/reunion with our group from school. While there my wife spent a good amount of time talking with my first roommate from college, someone I never got along with and it has changed my idea of my wife.

    When I was first in school my roommate was a popular guy, jock and frat type. He was very good with women. I thought he was superficial and lame but of course women disagreed. He got whatever he wanted. I didn't want the same to his extreme but I admit I resented that even the supposed good girl types lined up to be with him.

    I moved out before the end of the year because I got tired of having to share space with yet another of his one night stands 4-5 times a week. He was just that guy, I even had a young-ish professor who was into him.

    I moved out and we had some animosity over it even though we'd gotten along on a day to day basis otherwise. When I met my now wife the following year I was very interested in her because she was smart and beautiful and yet seemed unlike the other girls around me. One big thing was she was always skeptical and critical of my former roommate no matter how many people thought he was awesome.

    Understand that when he was accused of harassing and possibly assaulting a girl the following year even the college administrator in charge of investigating the situation defended him as misunderstood and important to the campus community, so finding someone who seemed to be immune to his "spell" so to speak was huge to me. It wasn't the only thing, but it boosted her into another category in my eyes.

    So we attended the get together last month and she was hanging out with him for a good amount of time, like old friends. I questioned this later and she has admitted spending time with him while we were dating in college. It turns out spending time with him also meant having oral sex with him on two occasions, messing around in general on other occasions.

    In addition to having betrayed me (admittedly years ago) with my then least favorite person in the world, she still finds him charming today I can tell. I ask what happened to all that she said about him then, her ability to resist that and be sarcastic with him when he'd try to charm her like the others, she says she doesn't know, things just happened, why am I mad? it was years ago, etc.

    She feels I'm unfair to hold this against her now, but for a month now I've just not been able to look at her the same. The details of the situation have killed me. Him playing playstation on the couch or watching football while she made him feel good is something I know but wish I didn't now. She tries to make it sound no big deal or just a thing or a mistake but it changes everything to me. She says she wants her husband back and her marriage back, I say I want the wife I thought I had. I wish I hadn't demanded to know what went on after I saw them together last month and the feelings still there apparently for her, at least seeing him as charming or attractive.

    I don't intend to divorce but her friends and one of mine say I might be tossing everything away with my reaction. Of course the ones who knew him liked him which makes me sick. Has it been too long for this to be an issue? Am I potentially throwing away a good marriage to who I thought was the perfect woman?

    Cliff:
    Guy jealous of Alpha roomate moves out of the apartment in 1 year.
    Guy meets girlfriend soon after who acts like she is not interested in alpha roomate.
    Alpha roomate accused of rape the following year.
    Fast foward 7 years. Guy gets married to girlfriend.
    Guy and wife goes to reunion, and wife is slooting it up with the alpha roomate.
    Husband questions behavior afterwards and wife finally admits to having had oral sex twice, and screwing alpha roomate while they were dating.
    Wife tells husband to stop overreacting as it happened ages ago.
    Beta husband feels betrayed but will not divorce wife.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: 240 is Back on May 19, 2014, 01:51:14 PM
he's below Beta.

what's below Beta?  C?   Charlie?

He's a Charlie?
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Wiggs on May 19, 2014, 01:56:17 PM
The guy comes off like a bitch but I guess I wouldn't be too happy if I knew my arch-enemy had his dick sucked and probably fucked my wife and that she and everyone else still finds him charming. Sucks to be him. He wont recover from this unless he fucks the dudes girl, sister or mother. 
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: scottt on May 19, 2014, 02:00:14 PM
The guy comes off like a bitch but I guess I wouldn't be too happy if I knew my arch-enemy had his dick sucked and probably fucked my wife and that she and everyone else still finds him charming. Sucks to be him. He wont recover from this unless he fucks the dudes girl, sister or mother. 
He needs to do this and let his wife know after to gain alpha status or move on. Or a younger hotter girl.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Parker on May 19, 2014, 02:01:23 PM
The guy comes off like a bitch but I guess I wouldn't be too happy if I knew my arch-enemy had his dick sucked and probably fucked my wife and that she and everyone else still finds him charming. Sucks to be him. He wont recover from this unless he fucks the dudes girl, sister or mother.  
He should have joined his "arch-enemy" in the philandering fun.
Remember, it ain't fun if the homies can't get none. They could have been the best of buds.
Wingmans of peace.
When he was dating the girl, she was critical to throw him off the scent, she didn't want dude to know, that he "charmed" her...
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Archer77 on May 19, 2014, 02:02:18 PM
He needs to move on.  Bitch is a liar and always will be
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: tu_holmes on May 19, 2014, 02:02:39 PM
He should just leave her ass. Fuck that whore.

Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Wiggs on May 19, 2014, 02:03:20 PM
He needs to move on.  Bitch is a liar and always will be

That is the nuclear option. Definitely not off the table. 
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Nails on May 19, 2014, 02:05:03 PM
i didnt know black dudes like playing playstation  ???
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Archer77 on May 19, 2014, 02:05:12 PM
That is the nuclear option. Definitely not off the table. 

One last grudge fuck. Take her doggy style and wheh she is least expecting it, ram it right up her ass.  No lube.  
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Alpine on May 19, 2014, 02:07:16 PM
There can really only be one end to this "story."

"Kill them, Machine... kill them all!"

(http://application.denofgeek.com/pics/film/schumacher/8mm7.jpg)
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: TEH boob on May 19, 2014, 02:12:55 PM
She should've told him when it happened. Maybe she's been completely faithful since that incident, but I'm not so sure that means the cheating could be forgotten just because it happened "a long time ago."


she should've at least had the courtesy to ignore the "alpha" at that reunion. Cheat and then talk to the person with whom you cheated? She shouldn't have even gone to the reunion at all.

I say he gets a hall pass if he's really that upset about it...
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: 240 is Back on May 19, 2014, 02:18:28 PM
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Novena on May 19, 2014, 02:22:25 PM
he's below Beta.

what's below Beta?  C?   Charlie?

He's a Charlie?

Gamma

It goes:

Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta, Epsilon, Zeta, Eta, Theta, Iota, Kappa, Lamba,

Mu, Nu, Xi, Omicron, Pi, Tho, Sigma, Tau, Upsilon, Phi, Chi, Psi, Omega.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Army of One on May 19, 2014, 02:24:06 PM
Sloots are gonna sloot, im guessing the misc is against this hoe, as they should be
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Kim Jong Bob on May 19, 2014, 02:27:59 PM
he's below Beta.

what's below Beta?  C?   Charlie?

He's a Charlie?
no he is a örjan, its so far of from being a alpha that you guys dont even have ö in your alphabet
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: the trainer on May 19, 2014, 02:38:22 PM
The only way to regain his manhood is to challenge the dude to a fight and divorce the bitch, thats what I would do.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Alpine on May 19, 2014, 02:41:10 PM
Fucking slaughter all of them!
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Lustral on May 19, 2014, 03:03:05 PM
She should've told him when it happened. Maybe she's been completely faithful since that incident, but I'm not so sure that means the cheating could be forgotten just because it happened "a long time ago."


she should've at least had the courtesy to ignore the "alpha" at that reunion. Cheat and then talk to the person with whom you cheated? She shouldn't have even gone to the reunion at all.

I say he gets a hall pass if he's really that upset about it...

Defending women like Parker defends Hebrews  ;D

The guy is only beta if he accepts this shit, he wasn't a jealous fuck spying on his wife (or gf at the time in college) and interrogating her. Being insecure is the first sign of a beta.

He has to fuck her over, maybe fuck the guy over then move on. Problem is, divorce would almost certainly fuck him over.  ::)
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: The Grim Lifter on May 19, 2014, 03:11:41 PM
He's just an insecure fuck. Why would he care what the guy was doing getting with heaps of girls? and he went for a girl just because she didn't like that guy? WTF. Does he live in a box?
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: ChopperRider on May 19, 2014, 03:21:14 PM
He needs to move on.  Bitch is a liar and always will be

Yep.....
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: The Scott on May 19, 2014, 03:24:47 PM
Divorce.  Anything less is just that.  Less.

If it were reversed and he had done this to her, I would say the same thing. 
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: ChopperRider on May 19, 2014, 03:26:23 PM
Divorce.  Anything less is just that.  Less.

If it were reversed and he had done this to her, I would say the same thing. 

Guaranteed she has had at least 5 affairs since then. She was testing the waters to see what the husband would put up with.

She should have been out on the street the next day.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: The Scott on May 19, 2014, 03:28:07 PM
Guaranteed she has had at least 5 affairs since then. She was testing the waters to see what the husband would put up with.

She should have been out on the street the next day.

You could well be right, sir.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Nails on May 19, 2014, 03:28:44 PM
confucius says ,


Divorce is imminent

his dick nestled softly in her mouth it will be once again

enjoying it she will

crying the husband will turn to
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: tu_holmes on May 19, 2014, 03:33:25 PM
Guaranteed she has had at least 5 affairs since then. She was testing the waters to see what the husband would put up with.

She should have been out on the street the next day.
agreed.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Foozle on May 19, 2014, 05:07:52 PM
The only way to regain his manhood is to challenge the dude to a fight and divorce the bitch, thats what I would do.


Here's what you do when challenged to a fight, pussy:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517109.0

As for the greek letters, yours are fagma gayma sphincta
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: oldtimer1 on May 19, 2014, 05:19:47 PM
Hard to take when someone you can't stand had a hot time with your wife. He probably thinks how much she enjoyed it and it drives him crazy.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: GigantorX on May 19, 2014, 05:27:50 PM
agreed.

Absolutely.

Her initial "cheating" on him with the "Alpha" may very well been something she initially regretted until her current husband (then boyfriend) didn't sniff it out or possibly pretended not to notice. She then saw the "Alpha" as the guy she could fuck and her boyfriend/husband was the stable beta that would always be there like a lost dog. That was spark that lit the fuse. No doubt she fucked a bunch of guys since then and even in the recent past.

The tell sign was when she told her husband about the cheating, said it was "no big deal" and then had the balls to take him to the reunion, seek the "Alpha" out (with husband in tow) and flirt with him in front of said Beta Husband. She rubbed his nose in it and probably fucked the "Alpha" soon after or was fucking the "Alpha" all the while.

The wife practically cuckolded right there at the reunion.

The husband better start getting his financial affairs in order, protect his assets and prepare to cut this slut off. He can redeem himself by out witting her and leaving her in a gutter to rot.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: el numero uno on May 19, 2014, 05:43:47 PM
he's below Beta.

what's below Beta?  C?   Charlie?

He's a Charlie?

Chitzo
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Irongrip400 on May 19, 2014, 05:58:53 PM
Sounds made up. Sounds like a girl wrote the story.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: the trainer on May 19, 2014, 06:20:02 PM

Here's what you do when challenged to a fight, pussy:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517109.0

As for the greek letters, yours are fagma gayma sphincta


(http://i.minus.com/i2jSooq7jES9O.gif)
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Roger Bacon on May 19, 2014, 06:54:27 PM
I didn't even read that shit, just copied/pasted for getbig's enjoyment.  ;D
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Papper on May 19, 2014, 07:10:51 PM
Sounds made up. Sounds like a girl wrote the story.

Got that vibe too.

Sounds like a girl or possibly an old queen from Great Britain wrote that. What guy says "oral sex" about sucking cock and uses "charming" to describe this fella he hates?
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: wes on May 19, 2014, 07:10:53 PM


 :'(
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: booty on May 19, 2014, 07:19:36 PM
She cheated on him early on in the relationship and then she disrespected him by hanging out with the guy at the reunion. Why was she even spending time in his company at reunion?  Of course the husband is devastated and her current behaviour does not show that she is regretful and feels terrible.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Papper on May 19, 2014, 07:23:30 PM
She cheated on him early on in the relationship and then she disrespected him by hanging out with the guy at the reunion. Why was she even spending time in his company at reunion?  Of course the husband is devastated and her current behaviour does not show that she is regretful and feels terrible.

she wanted to let him know what a little bitch he is. he probably had to lick the soles of her shoes that night too for disturbing her quality time with the studmuffin

I envision the alpha as Tom Platz with a high school fotball jacket  ;D
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: TEH boob on May 19, 2014, 07:28:41 PM
Defending women like Parker defends Hebrews  ;D

The guy is only beta if he accepts this shit, he wasn't a jealous fuck spying on his wife (or gf at the time in college) and interrogating her. Being insecure is the first sign of a beta.

He has to fuck her over, maybe fuck the guy over then move on. Problem is, divorce would almost certainly fuck him over.  ::)

I'm not defending her, I just have reliable reading comprehension. The guy said he didn't want to divorce her. So I'm not gonna offer that as a solution if he specified it as a non option. I'm saying he can go and fool around with another woman....a hand for a hand.

But I personally feel that trust is irreparably damaged after something like that.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: booty on May 19, 2014, 07:29:52 PM
she wanted to let him know what a little bitch he is. he probably had to lick the soles of her shoes that night too for disturbing her quality time with the studmuffin

I envision the alpha as Tom Platz with a high school fotball jacket  ;D
She is treating her husband badly. I don't see this marriage lasting
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: ChopperRider on May 19, 2014, 07:32:48 PM
She is treating her husband badly. I don't see this marriage lasting

Jesus fucking Christ you're a black hole of stupidity....
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: booty on May 19, 2014, 07:35:38 PM
Jesus fucking Christ you're a black hole of stupidity....
?????   Maybe I am trying to be tactful. You want the crude truth? She probably wants to still fuck the guy at school reunion. The husband should leave her
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on May 19, 2014, 07:52:12 PM
It's not that she fukced around with the guy. Shit happens when you're young. It's the fact that she hung out with the dude at the reunion. That's the tell all. She is Americano type Whore...
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: ChopperRider on May 19, 2014, 07:52:42 PM
?????   Maybe I am trying to be tactful. You want the crude truth? She probably wants to still fuck the guy at school reunion. The husband should leave her

How insightful.....

Captain Obvious.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: wolfrittner on May 19, 2014, 07:53:41 PM
There can really only be one end to this "story."

"Kill them, Machine... kill them all!"

(http://application.denofgeek.com/pics/film/schumacher/8mm7.jpg)
lol! just watched it.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: 240 is Back on May 19, 2014, 07:54:11 PM
It's not that she fukced around with the guy. Shit happens when you're young. It's the fact that she hung out with the dude at the reunion. That's the tell all. She is Americano Whore...

THIS.   If it meant nothing, she would have gone out of her way to avoid that dude.  We've all dodged ex's because you just don't wanna open up that box.  On the other hand, if she wanted to catch tingles, she hangs out with him and chats about 'back in the day'.  

she's all about the drama.  she wants dudes battling over her.  best 240 solution is to put her in a suitcase and take a trip to the everglades.   Or, just leave her, if preferable.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Wiggs on May 19, 2014, 07:58:30 PM
The broads are out of pocket these days. If your pimp hand aint strong, your feelings will get hurt. You gotta keep these broads in check.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: ChopperRider on May 19, 2014, 08:00:59 PM
It's not that she fukced around with the guy. Shit happens when you're young. It's the fact that she hung out with the dude at the reunion. That's the tell all. She is Americano type Whore...

But you know what.....there is always some fucking sap beta that will take her in and believe her lying shit.

And she'll be draining half the guys in the gym dry, while he sits at home helping her kids with their homework.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: galain on May 19, 2014, 11:01:39 PM
This guy sounds like he'd sit in a corner rocking for the rest of his life, blaming his wife for his eternal misery, should they ever get divorced.

Fuck -what a bleating baby sheep.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: SF1900 on May 19, 2014, 11:12:15 PM
Ha, he stays with her  ::) ::) He needs to pack his bags and leave.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: trapz101 on May 19, 2014, 11:32:39 PM
Ha, he stays with her  ::) ::) He needs to pack his bags and leave.

it's the bitch who should leave
and the husband can go the anabolichalo style
muscle for hustle
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Mr Nobody on May 20, 2014, 01:41:11 AM
She is treating her husband badly. I don't see this marriage lasting
X2.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Army of One on May 20, 2014, 01:55:49 AM
The guy on the misc was actually trolling, took it from this reddit thread, expect beta reddit replies about giving the woman a 36th chance

http://redditlog.com/snapshots/35098
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: falco on May 20, 2014, 03:24:44 AM
confucius says ,


Divorce is imminent

his dick nestled softly in her mouth it will be once again

enjoying it she will

crying the husband will turn to

Amen.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Griffith on May 20, 2014, 09:50:15 AM
Cheating is completely unforgivable. She lied too.

Leave her on the curb.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Hulkotron on May 20, 2014, 10:24:39 AM
It's a good idea to get married to someone because they hate* the same person as you

* but fuck them on the side regardless haha :D
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Tapeworm on May 20, 2014, 10:44:55 AM
Put all 3 in a pit and throw in a rabbit on Saturdays.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: GigantorX on May 20, 2014, 11:05:18 AM
Cheating is completely unforgivable. She lied too.

Leave her on the curb.

She rubbed his face in it too.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Natural Man on May 20, 2014, 11:07:08 AM
i bet she never sucked the "husband" cock.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: YngiweRhoads on May 20, 2014, 11:08:38 AM
Nothing says Beta like getting married.
Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: AD2100 on May 20, 2014, 11:10:07 AM
Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago

    Story:

    We met in college and have been together ever since. We recently had a 10 informal get together/reunion with our group from school. While there my wife spent a good amount of time talking with my first roommate from college, someone I never got along with and it has changed my idea of my wife.

    When I was first in school my roommate was a popular guy, jock and frat type. He was very good with women. I thought he was superficial and lame but of course women disagreed. He got whatever he wanted. I didn't want the same to his extreme but I admit I resented that even the supposed good girl types lined up to be with him.

    I moved out before the end of the year because I got tired of having to share space with yet another of his one night stands 4-5 times a week. He was just that guy, I even had a young-ish professor who was into him.

    I moved out and we had some animosity over it even though we'd gotten along on a day to day basis otherwise. When I met my now wife the following year I was very interested in her because she was smart and beautiful and yet seemed unlike the other girls around me. One big thing was she was always skeptical and critical of my former roommate no matter how many people thought he was awesome.

    Understand that when he was accused of harassing and possibly assaulting a girl the following year even the college administrator in charge of investigating the situation defended him as misunderstood and important to the campus community, so finding someone who seemed to be immune to his "spell" so to speak was huge to me. It wasn't the only thing, but it boosted her into another category in my eyes.

    So we attended the get together last month and she was hanging out with him for a good amount of time, like old friends. I questioned this later and she has admitted spending time with him while we were dating in college. It turns out spending time with him also meant having oral sex with him on two occasions, messing around in general on other occasions.

    In addition to having betrayed me (admittedly years ago) with my then least favorite person in the world, she still finds him charming today I can tell. I ask what happened to all that she said about him then, her ability to resist that and be sarcastic with him when he'd try to charm her like the others, she says she doesn't know, things just happened, why am I mad? it was years ago, etc.

    She feels I'm unfair to hold this against her now, but for a month now I've just not been able to look at her the same. The details of the situation have killed me. Him playing playstation on the couch or watching football while she made him feel good is something I know but wish I didn't now. She tries to make it sound no big deal or just a thing or a mistake but it changes everything to me. She says she wants her husband back and her marriage back, I say I want the wife I thought I had. I wish I hadn't demanded to know what went on after I saw them together last month and the feelings still there apparently for her, at least seeing him as charming or attractive.

    I don't intend to divorce but her friends and one of mine say I might be tossing everything away with my reaction. Of course the ones who knew him liked him which makes me sick. Has it been too long for this to be an issue? Am I potentially throwing away a good marriage to who I thought was the perfect woman?

    Cliff:
    Guy jealous of Alpha roomate moves out of the apartment in 1 year.
    Guy meets girlfriend soon after who acts like she is not interested in alpha roomate.
    Alpha roomate accused of rape the following year.
    Fast foward 7 years. Guy gets married to girlfriend.
    Guy and wife goes to reunion, and wife is slooting it up with the alpha roomate.
    Husband questions behavior afterwards and wife finally admits to having had oral sex twice, and screwing alpha roomate while they were dating.
    Wife tells husband to stop overreacting as it happened ages ago.
    Beta husband feels betrayed but will not divorce wife.

Women are by-and-large untrustworthy whores. The more attractive they are the more likely they have a closet full of skeleton bones. Especially from their college (age)years.

Title: Re: Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago Story: We met in college and
Post by: Pet shop boys on May 20, 2014, 11:17:04 AM
Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male 7 years ago

    Story:

    We met in college and have been together ever since. We recently had a 10 informal get together/reunion with our group from school. While there my wife spent a good amount of time talking with my first roommate from college, someone I never got along with and it has changed my idea of my wife.

    When I was first in school my roommate was a popular guy, jock and frat type. He was very good with women. I thought he was superficial and lame but of course women disagreed. He got whatever he wanted. I didn't want the same to his extreme but I admit I resented that even the supposed good girl types lined up to be with him.

    I moved out before the end of the year because I got tired of having to share space with yet another of his one night stands 4-5 times a week. He was just that guy, I even had a young-ish professor who was into him.

    I moved out and we had some animosity over it even though we'd gotten along on a day to day basis otherwise. When I met my now wife the following year I was very interested in her because she was smart and beautiful and yet seemed unlike the other girls around me. One big thing was she was always skeptical and critical of my former roommate no matter how many people thought he was awesome.

    Understand that when he was accused of harassing and possibly assaulting a girl the following year even the college administrator in charge of investigating the situation defended him as misunderstood and important to the campus community, so finding someone who seemed to be immune to his "spell" so to speak was huge to me. It wasn't the only thing, but it boosted her into another category in my eyes.

    So we attended the get together last month and she was hanging out with him for a good amount of time, like old friends. I questioned this later and she has admitted spending time with him while we were dating in college. It turns out spending time with him also meant having oral sex with him on two occasions, messing around in general on other occasions.

    In addition to having betrayed me (admittedly years ago) with my then least favorite person in the world, she still finds him charming today I can tell. I ask what happened to all that she said about him then, her ability to resist that and be sarcastic with him when he'd try to charm her like the others, she says she doesn't know, things just happened, why am I mad? it was years ago, etc.

    She feels I'm unfair to hold this against her now, but for a month now I've just not been able to look at her the same. The details of the situation have killed me. Him playing playstation on the couch or watching football while she made him feel good is something I know but wish I didn't now. She tries to make it sound no big deal or just a thing or a mistake but it changes everything to me. She says she wants her husband back and her marriage back, I say I want the wife I thought I had. I wish I hadn't demanded to know what went on after I saw them together last month and the feelings still there apparently for her, at least seeing him as charming or attractive.

    I don't intend to divorce but her friends and one of mine say I might be tossing everything away with my reaction. Of course the ones who knew him liked him which makes me sick. Has it been too long for this to be an issue? Am I potentially throwing away a good marriage to who I thought was the perfect woman?

    Cliff:
    Guy jealous of Alpha roomate moves out of the apartment in 1 year.
    Guy meets girlfriend soon after who acts like she is not interested in alpha roomate.
    Alpha roomate accused of rape the following year.
    Fast foward 7 years. Guy gets married to girlfriend.
    Guy and wife goes to reunion, and wife is slooting it up with the alpha roomate.
    Husband questions behavior afterwards and wife finally admits to having had oral sex twice, and screwing alpha roomate while they were dating.
    Wife tells husband to stop overreacting as it happened ages ago.
    Beta husband feels betrayed but will not divorce wife.


1st. A guy that screws a friernd's woman the min he is not looking is not an Alpha so, get that out of your head...an opportunist looks like a golden coin and can be mistaken as the "popular dude' on campus but a peace of shit he  is ....


2nd- My best friend think I had an affair with his wife and haven't spoken to me in ten years .... I even was the best man of his wedding, the girl was a slot ...but I swear to God I never touched her , I used to tell him that any chick that smokes pot I can make her suck my cock ....(but I wasn't referring to his wife) .... I can sleep with the hottest woman by my side and if she's married or a friends girl I would not touch her.....that's my definition of Alpha.


3rd- I have only been obsessed with a chick once in my entire life I even came to ask for advice on this board about 4 years ago.......

She told me that a month before talking to me she gave head to TWO DUDES in a parking lot of a club and that she was so baked she hardly recalls it happened..... she said it wasn't a big deal or else she wouldnt have told me .... I felt like it was karma biting my ass......based on my philosophy of chicks smoking weed...... bottom line I could not trust the girl no more  but had a horrible time trying to move on ....


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