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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: SF1900 on September 21, 2014, 10:55:02 AM
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The article was written by Rachel Khona: Dating, relationships, fashion & pop culture writer. ::) ::)
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_600/617_what-women-think-about-bodybuilders.html
"I don't know where men got the idea that bodybuilding is hot, but, trust me, it's not."
What woman doesn’t like a muscular man? Buff arms, a broad chest and strong shoulders make women feel protected and secure. Guys aren’t doing set after set of crunches 'cause it’s fun; they know how much ladies love six-pack abs. But there’s a fine line between sexy and skanky. Bodybuilders take a step (or five) too far by bulking up way beyond any normal standards. By morphing their bodies into exaggerated — some might even say grotesque — shapes, they successfully manage to gross out women everywhere. I don't know where men got the idea that bodybuilding is hot, but, trust me, it's not.
We admit it, there's a vanity double standard
Adonis complex, anyone? We’re the ones who are supposed to take longer getting ready. Primping, fussing and spending two hours in the bathroom is traditionally the domain of women, and we like it like that. If she’s the wash-and-go type, she’s even less likely to enjoy your obsession with your appearance. In the book Adonis Complex, author Harrison Pope details at length stories of women whose partners became so consumed with getting bigger that they allowed their relationships to falter. Some of these guys spent so much time at the gym that they rarely saw their partners, while others simply relished so much obsessive attention on their bodies that their partners felt invisible by comparison. Either way, it sucked for the ladies.
We're creeped out by your protruding veins
Ooh, is that a vein? Maybe I can give you a shot! Many men become so infatuated with themselves they actually forget what's attractive to women. Veins bulging out of your limbs, neck and even your forehead are just plain gross. Veins are for the Incredible Hulk, not a normal man.
The stuffed sausage look is deeply distressing
Sausage — delicious! But so delicious we like to be reminded of it every time we see your bare arms? No, not really! Make it rain? More like make it dry. When your insides look like they’re going to burst out of your skin, it’s almost painful to look at.
We're confused by your bizarre bodily proportions
Bodybuilders tend to have gigantic shoulders stacked on top of tiny little waists. We understand that many men love the idea of a woman with extra-large breasts and a pinched waist, but the aesthetic does not translate well across the sexes. On a man, the shape borders on monstrosity. Yes, broad shoulders on a guy are an absolute turn-on, but broad shoulders are not the same as colossal monstrous shoulders. It’s all about proportion.
Your tan shouldn't look like it has a smell
To be fair, orange skin tone doesn’t come from bodybuilding, but it does come with the territory. Bodybuilders are so fixated with looking like Arnold circa 1985 that they not only work out past the point of normalcy, but they tan so hard they look like burnt hot dogs. Red, leathery skin should be saved for a handbag.
If you enjoy working out, don't feel like we're singling you out. Women love a fit body.
Think Matthew McConaughey playing the bongos (ignoring, for all intents, the bongos) or Brad Pitt in Fight Club — lean and sexy, not big and monstrous. We want someone we can wrap our arms around, not a guy who’d be able to break our hand by squeezing his pecs together.
We love concern, but not obsession, about appearance
Looking good will no doubt win you points with the ladies. But obsessing about your appearance and asking your lady if you’re big enough is not attractive. Make sure you’re in shape, your threads are cute, you smell good, and your hair is combed. These are the hallmarks of someone who cares about his appearance but isn’t consumed by it.
Smooth skin is sexy, rippled skin not so much
There’s nothing like rubbing your hands all over your man. But if he’s vein-y, ripply and bulging, it’s easy to get turned off. Toned arms and a taut chest are delicious to touch, but vein-y skin is not. The only thing we should be feeling besides skin is hair, not veins.
We love your skin! Don't paint it!
Lightly bronzed is sexy; looking like you’re developing skin cancer is not. Overly tanned skin ages and looks saggy earlier than unexposed skin. Do yourself a favor and skip the George Hamilton look for a fresh, natural skin tone.
Yes, women like a man who looks good and takes care of himself. But just like men don’t like a woman who looks botoxed and slathered in makeup with triple F boobs, a woman doesn’t like a man who looks like he spends 10 hours a day starting at himself in the gym mirror. Excessive vanity is not an attractive trait on anyone — male or female. Do yourself a favor and skip the extra hour at the gym and get outside and enjoy your life instead.
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Do yourself a favor and skip the extra hour at the gym and get outside and enjoy your life instead.
That is the best part. There is this weird thought among people that bodybuilders or people who lift seriously spend 15 hours a day in the gym. Do people really think people who lift live inside the gym and don't get out? Many serious lifter have jobs, families, etc. Who are these idiots that come up with these ridiculous ideas? :-\
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Written by a skank who got turned down by a bodybuilder.
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Written by a skank who got turned down by a bodybuilder.
She is definitely a good looking women. You can't deny that. But yeah, maybe she got rejected by a bodybuilder. Maybe Anabolichalo or The trainer denied her.
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I got news for you. If a syringe bodybuilder is in a club with someone that is dressed GQ and looks like this guy the bodybuilder isn't getting a second look from women.
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Many of my female friends don't like the "bodybuilder" look. They say it's gross.
They like the fit lean type.
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"Sure, I like rippling arms, chest, shoulders, abs, who doesn't? It just can't be too much"
So, she likes muscles, just not "too much". Err, OK.
I think I would be insanely happy if some women proclaimed me "too muscular". Never gonna happen.
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Make it rain? More like make it dry.
TMI, hon.
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She is definitely a good looking women. You can't deny that. But yeah, maybe she got rejected by a bodybuilder. Maybe Anabolichalo or The trainer denied her.
This chick?
https://www.google.com/search?q=rachel+khona&safe=off&client=safari&sa=X&hl=en&biw=320&bih=460&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&ei=-BgfVMTvJc6GyATfg4LwBw&ved=0CDIQ7Ak
She's not ugly but I wouldn't look twice (okay maybe thrice) at her.
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I got news for you. If a syringe bodybuilder is in a club with someone that is dressed GQ and looks like this guy the bodybuilder isn't getting a second look from women.
the stud bodybuilder can stop training and shrink back to a normal size if he wants to, that twink is scarred for life with that graffiti
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I got news for you. If a syringe bodybuilder is in a club with someone that is dressed GQ and looks like this guy the bodybuilder isn't getting a second look from women.
yes, but sleeping with that twink, then sleeping with an in-shape powerful dude... she's going to prefer the dude that straight beats it up in the bedroom. She'll parade around the Adam Levine to all her friends... but she'll crawl thru sewer pipes to get plowed by the bodyguard when Adam's doing his show.
kinda like the way "men prefer the skinny model" but you put a thick hottie in bed and we're taking that any day!
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This chick?
https://www.google.com/search?q=rachel+khona&safe=off&client=safari&sa=X&hl=en&biw=320&bih=460&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&ei=-BgfVMTvJc6GyATfg4LwBw&ved=0CDIQ7Ak
She's not ugly but I wouldn't look twice (okay maybe thrice) at her.
Yeah, I really didn't take a good look at her pictures. Definitely not ugly, but yeah, there is much better out there.
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She's stupid
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She's right. But often when you are told what you need to hear, it is not pleasing to the ear.
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u get a drunk hot chick near a hot muscular stud and all hell breaks loose
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(http://www.musculazone.com/gallerie/culturistes_pro/stevereeves/86.jpg)
Look like this. Nearly every woman I have asked has replied very favorably. Steve Reeves had what they want.
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I would guess that pro level BB are to women like the 52DD implant girls are to men. In other words, extremes that many think is ridiculous, but they still more than enough action from those into those extremes.
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When I used to go to dance clubs in contest shape I used to be drowning in pussy, unfortunately they were all fucking imbeciles.
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She's stupid
You mean that you're an exception.
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(http://www.musculazone.com/gallerie/culturistes_pro/stevereeves/86.jpg)
Look like this. Nearly every woman I have asked has replied very favorably. Steve Reeves had what they want.
Well he was tall, good looking and had a great physique. A lot of BB don't have all of that.
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I got news for you. If a syringe bodybuilder is in a club with someone that is dressed GQ and looks like this guy the bodybuilder isn't getting a second look from women.
But what if the synringed bodybuilder is dressed GQ and has 22 inch arms? ??? ???
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GQ looking bodybuilder. Will women want him?
(http://scontent-a.cdninstagram.com/hphotos-xap1/t51.2885-15/927432_569273756533231_362544830_a.jpg)
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GQ looking bodybuilder. Will women want him?
(http://scontent-a.cdninstagram.com/hphotos-xap1/t51.2885-15/927432_569273756533231_362544830_a.jpg)
Heavens no. Too muscley.
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(http://www.musculazone.com/gallerie/culturistes_pro/stevereeves/86.jpg)
Look like this. Nearly every woman I have asked has replied very favorably. Steve Reeves had what they want.
Back too big. Recent getbig consensus say that big back is disgusting to women.
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Heavens no. Too muscley.
But he has good facial aesthetics. ??? ???
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Back too big. Recent getbig consensus say that big back is disgusting to women.
He was slaying it like crazy, when he was young.
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Back too big. Recent getbig consensus say that big back is disgusting to women.
Yes, according to Shockwave's wife, a big back makes a man look fat in clothes. Best to have narrow clavicles and the same circumference from waist to chest. Perfection.
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Yes, according to Shockwave's wife, a big back makes a man look fat in clothes. Best to have narrow clavicles and the same circumference from waist to chest. Perfection.
Looks like Phil Heath lucked out then!!
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You mean that you're an exception.
Yup!
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Yup!
Would you date Anabolichalo?
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At least the Red Cross women are happy to see me. :D
(http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a158/pjcd1/ScreenShot2014-01-21at51537PM_zpse9203e90.jpg) (http://s11.photobucket.com/user/pjcd1/media/ScreenShot2014-01-21at51537PM_zpse9203e90.jpg.html)
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Yup!
Bless you :-*
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Would you date Anabolichalo?
LMAO...No! He gives me a headache.
I will ONLY date 1 person.
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LMAO...No! He gives me a headache.
I will ONLY date 1 person.
Who is that one person?
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At least the Red Cross women are happy to see me. :D
(http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a158/pjcd1/ScreenShot2014-01-21at51537PM_zpse9203e90.jpg) (http://s11.photobucket.com/user/pjcd1/media/ScreenShot2014-01-21at51537PM_zpse9203e90.jpg.html)
Do women go crazy for your veiny arms? Or do they think its gross?
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LMAO...No! He gives me a headache.
I will ONLY date 1 person.
Anabaldo has MPD.
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Who is that one person?
My boyfriend :)
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Do women go crazy for your veiny arms? Or do they think its gross?
Last time a trainee nurse tried to take blood from me she just stood there staring at my arm, she eventually picked one and made a right fucking pigs ear of it, a had a huge fucking bruise for a week.
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Anabaldo has MPD.
He's got something. Poor thing!
Hi Halo :) don't hate me.
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He's got something. Poor thing!
Hi Halo :) don't hate me.
Halo hates people by default, esp women.
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Last time a trainee nurse tried to take blood from me she just stood there staring at my arm, she eventually picked one and made a right fucking pigs ear of it, a had a huge fucking bruise for a week.
She was most likely admiring your arms. :) ;) ;) :)
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She was most likely admiring your arms. :) ;) ;) :)
Funny way of showing it if she was. :)
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Funny way of showing it if she was. :)
She was probably awestruck at the muscularity being displayed. Sort of like in shock.
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Last time a trainee nurse tried to take blood from me she just stood there staring at my arm, she eventually picked one and made a right fucking pigs ear of it, a had a huge fucking bruise for a week.
How big are your arms? You never answered that question.
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Do women go crazy for your veiny arms? Or do they think its gross?
I think there is a mix, however, I'm vascular everywhere and most women appreciate the hard work I put into my physique. Women are curious about it and I seem to attract a crowd at the Red Cross.
(http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a158/pjcd1/photo-4_zps30600a88.jpg) (http://s11.photobucket.com/user/pjcd1/media/photo-4_zps30600a88.jpg.html)
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How big are your arms? You never answered that question.
Im not going to because you are dying to know.
TBH what difference does it make?
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Im not going to because you are dying to know.
TBH what difference does it make?
Just want to make a point that you don't need 19s to look great.
I'm guessing 17s max.
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I got news for you. If a syringe bodybuilder is in a club with someone that is dressed GQ and looks like this guy the bodybuilder isn't getting a second look from women.
And I have news for you, if this bodybuilder walked into the club they would no longer be looking at that guy.
(http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/99/c8/32/99c83201d46450ab5245e05037c357d1.jpg)
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Bless you :-*
Thank you :)
lol
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Just want to make a point that you don't need 19s to look great.
I'm guessing 17s max.
Guess again.
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Lol at women pretending to know what they want
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What woman in her right mind could resist a Palumbo or Kovacs (RIP) offseason or even contest-ready?
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Just want to make a point that you don't need 19s to look great.
I'm guessing 17s max.
haha GB's resident attic dweller and shut-in chiming in w his two cents abt what women find attractive. hahaha fuck awesome.
guys never had sexual intercourse w a female outside of his immediate family but is a shot caller on what women like.
fucking classic.
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haha GB's resident attic dweller chiming in w his two cents abt what women find attractive. hahaha fuck awesome.
guys never had sexual intercourse w a female outside of his immediate family but is a shot caller on what women like.
fucking classic.
Now now, no one...let not the past ownings dwell too strongly in your mind.
Lets move forward, brother.
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Well he was tall, good looking and had a great physique. A lot of BB don't have all of that.
Exactly, Rarely you see a tall handsome guy take bodybuilding seriously.
Branch is what comes to mind when women think of bodybuilders.
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This is the ideal body women like.
(http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/05/85/91/058591bbe2f28450fbef69aabbfdb727.jpg)
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What turns off most women is the extreme vascularity but they are not aware that a bodybuilder only looks like this when he is doing a contest.
(http://i.imgur.com/c9kbLX5.jpg)
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This is the ideal body women like.
(http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/05/85/91/058591bbe2f28450fbef69aabbfdb727.jpg)
I am shocked that the trainer didn't try to sell this one as him.
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This is the ideal body women like.
(http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/05/85/91/058591bbe2f28450fbef69aabbfdb727.jpg)
Way too big for most women
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Way too big for most women
I don't think so. He is big but not super veiny and he has good facial aesthetics. Women would love him.
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Way too big for most women
I think we are back to the old saw that women don't much care for men that objectively look better than them due to poor self-esteem. A dime with a smoking body won't mind this dude AT ALL.
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I am shocked that the trainer didn't try to sell this one as him.
The Trainer is going to shock us. Wait and see.
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I think we are back to the old saw that women don't much care for men that objectively look better than them due to poor self-esteem. A dime with a smoking body won't mind this dude AT ALL.
Agreed. A beautiful women would not mind being seen with this guy and dating him. Solid build and good looking. No way a hot women would turn him down, especially one with good confidence.
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I don't think so. He is big but not super veiny and he has good facial aesthetics. Women would love him.
A good face will def help him, since most women are much more face oriented. But again, he carries too much muscle mass. Only a small group of women will feel attracted to this.
(http://cdn29.elitedaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/perfect-male-body.jpg)
I think we are back to the old saw that women don't much care for men that objectively look better than them due to poor self-esteem. A dime with a smoking body won't mind this dude AT ALL.
Yeah, I remember that Parker once posted a vid with a group of single males and females. Based on their facial geometry and other data, researchers estimated the potential couples, and guess what... They had a pretty high success rate at the end of the test.
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A good face will def help him, since most women are much more face oriented. But again, he carries too much muscle mass. Only a small group of women will feel attracted to this.
(http://cdn29.elitedaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/perfect-male-body.jpg)
Yeah, I remember that Parker once posted a vid with a group of single males and females. Based on their facial geometry and other data, researchers estimated the potential couples, and guess what... They had a pretty high success rate at the end of the test.
Good looking people go with good looking people (of course exceptions to every rule).
I still disagree. A gorgeous women would love to be with a guy like that (the pic I posted). Like I said, he is big but not grossly big and he has good facial aesthetics. It would be a small select women who will like him because that small selection of women are the only ones who would be confident enough to date him. Most other women would not date him not because hes too big, but because they would feel intimidated to date someone like him. They would always think he is cheating on them.
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Good looking people go with good looking people (of course exceptions to every rule).
I still disagree. A gorgeous women would love to be with a guy like that (the pic I posted). Like I said, he is big but not grossly big and he has good facial aesthetics. It would be a small select women who will like him because that small selection of women are the only ones who would be confident enough to date him. Most other women would not date him not because hes too big, but because they would feel intimidated to date someone like him. They would always think he is cheating on them.
The thing is that men and women have a different perspective on this; the animated picture shows this. You say it right: "a small select women", so most women don't feel attracted to him, and not only out of insecurity. A light muscular <200 pound guy like Brad Pitt in Troy attracts way more women, no wonder why both Pitt & Troy were a big hit.
A bigger lean guy, say 210 and more is much more focused on eating well & working out than a lighter guy. It's also this lifestyle (some call it obsession) that turns off women (I speak from experience, LOL).
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Way too big for most women
Damn...I never knew most women have bad taste.
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The thing is that men and women have a different perspective on this; the animated picture shows this. You say it right: "a small select women", so most women don't feel attracted to him, and not only out of insecurity. A light muscular <200 pound guy like Brad Pitt in Troy attracts way more women, no wonder why both Pitt & Troy were a big hit.
A bigger lean guy, say 210 and more is much more focused on eating well & working out than a lighter guy. It's also this lifestyle (some call it obsession) that turns off women (I speak from experience, LOL).
I agree with you about the lifestyle. Id say most women would not want a really muscular guy due to the stigma associated with bodybuilders (they spend hours in the gym, eat all day, etc).
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Damn...I never knew most women have bad taste.
No, most of then simply have other priorities. A guy who spends hours in the gym/kitchen/tanning salon/etc prob isn't the right one to start a family with...
It sucks, but this is what most women want.
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No, most of then simply have other priorities. A guy who spends hours in the gym/kitchen/tanning salon/etc prob isn't the right one to start a family with...
It sucks, but this is what most women want.
Dude, but youre talking about COMPETITIVE bodybuilders. I know a fair amount of big dudes who dont spend hours in the gym, kitchen, or tanning. They just lift (and obviously take gear). I agree that most women will not dig this. But a really built guy who balances his time most women would want.
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(http://www.musculazone.com/gallerie/culturistes_pro/stevereeves/86.jpg)
Look like this. Nearly every woman I have asked has replied very favorably. Steve Reeves had what they want.
I agree but who can look like Steve Reeves?
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Dude, but youre talking about COMPETITIVE bodybuilders. I know a fair amount of big dudes who dont spend hours in the gym, kitchen, or tanning. They just lift (and obviously take gear). I agree that most women will not dig this. But a really built guy who balances his time most women would want.
Sure, there are plenty of guy that just lift and go home. The example (a model!) that you've posted however is keen on his diet, trains more than 3 times a week and def brings a visit to a tanning salon. Most women can't/won't accept this time consuming lifestyle, esp not with children.
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All coming from this woman?...
(http://photos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-frc3/t1.0-0/c0.102.612.408/260546_10150226639976615_478937_n.jpg)
Hahaha
I'd refer to this as a Slumpbuster. There are plenty of women who like the jacked look. Of course, not all...this would be foolish to assume.
The portrayal of a bodybuilder is someone who goes for the athletic blonde type with implants....which is not true either. This will of course put off most women who do not fit into this mold. Reject before being rejected.
There are your group of women who even prefer unattractive guys. It keeps the attention on them and they feel it's an easy guy to hold on to.
This mediocre bitch on her high horse about not being attracted to bbers is quite funny though...I say thanks for the laugh. ;)
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CROACH is back, nice
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Sure, there are plenty of guy that just lift and go home. The example (a model!) that you've posted however is keen on his diet, trains more than 3 times a week and def brings a visit to a tanning salon. Most women can't/won't accept this time consuming lifestyle, esp not with children.
Training 4x/week, sticking to a diet and tanning once a week is more than "most women" will accept?
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Sure, there are plenty of guy that just lift and go home. The example (a model!) that you've posted however is keen on his diet, trains more than 3 times a week and def brings a visit to a tanning salon. Most women can't/won't accept this time consuming lifestyle, esp not with children.
Again, I disagree. Going to the gym, and following a diet plan and tanning (if you choose to tan) is not more than women will accept. Dude, Ive had plenty of girlfriends where I did this (I did not tan) and it was never an issue. It becomes an issue when your girlfriends grandfather dies and you say to her, "I cant go to the funeral because I cant miss a work out or meal" or you say to her, "Sorry, I have to cancel our 10 year anniversary plans because its leg day." Then it becomes a problem. Going to the gym and following a diet plan is not too much for most women to accept.
Dude, youre picking the wrongs ones lol.
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The article was written by Rachel Khona: Dating, relationships, fashion & pop culture writer. ::) ::)
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_600/617_what-women-think-about-bodybuilders.html
"I don't know where men got the idea that bodybuilding is hot, but, trust me, it's not."
What woman doesn’t like a muscular man? Buff arms, a broad chest and strong shoulders make women feel protected and secure. Guys aren’t doing set after set of crunches 'cause it’s fun; they know how much ladies love six-pack abs. But there’s a fine line between sexy and skanky. Bodybuilders take a step (or five) too far by bulking up way beyond any normal standards. By morphing their bodies into exaggerated — some might even say grotesque — shapes, they successfully manage to gross out women everywhere. I don't know where men got the idea that bodybuilding is hot, but, trust me, it's not.
We admit it, there's a vanity double standard
Adonis complex, anyone? We’re the ones who are supposed to take longer getting ready. Primping, fussing and spending two hours in the bathroom is traditionally the domain of women, and we like it like that. If she’s the wash-and-go type, she’s even less likely to enjoy your obsession with your appearance. In the book Adonis Complex, author Harrison Pope details at length stories of women whose partners became so consumed with getting bigger that they allowed their relationships to falter. Some of these guys spent so much time at the gym that they rarely saw their partners, while others simply relished so much obsessive attention on their bodies that their partners felt invisible by comparison. Either way, it sucked for the ladies.
We're creeped out by your protruding veins
Ooh, is that a vein? Maybe I can give you a shot! Many men become so infatuated with themselves they actually forget what's attractive to women. Veins bulging out of your limbs, neck and even your forehead are just plain gross. Veins are for the Incredible Hulk, not a normal man.
The stuffed sausage look is deeply distressing
Sausage — delicious! But so delicious we like to be reminded of it every time we see your bare arms? No, not really! Make it rain? More like make it dry. When your insides look like they’re going to burst out of your skin, it’s almost painful to look at.
We're confused by your bizarre bodily proportions
Bodybuilders tend to have gigantic shoulders stacked on top of tiny little waists. We understand that many men love the idea of a woman with extra-large breasts and a pinched waist, but the aesthetic does not translate well across the sexes. On a man, the shape borders on monstrosity. Yes, broad shoulders on a guy are an absolute turn-on, but broad shoulders are not the same as colossal monstrous shoulders. It’s all about proportion.
Your tan shouldn't look like it has a smell
To be fair, orange skin tone doesn’t come from bodybuilding, but it does come with the territory. Bodybuilders are so fixated with looking like Arnold circa 1985 that they not only work out past the point of normalcy, but they tan so hard they look like burnt hot dogs. Red, leathery skin should be saved for a handbag.
If you enjoy working out, don't feel like we're singling you out. Women love a fit body.
Think Matthew McConaughey playing the bongos (ignoring, for all intents, the bongos) or Brad Pitt in Fight Club — lean and sexy, not big and monstrous. We want someone we can wrap our arms around, not a guy who’d be able to break our hand by squeezing his pecs together.
We love concern, but not obsession, about appearance
Looking good will no doubt win you points with the ladies. But obsessing about your appearance and asking your lady if you’re big enough is not attractive. Make sure you’re in shape, your threads are cute, you smell good, and your hair is combed. These are the hallmarks of someone who cares about his appearance but isn’t consumed by it.
Smooth skin is sexy, rippled skin not so much
There’s nothing like rubbing your hands all over your man. But if he’s vein-y, ripply and bulging, it’s easy to get turned off. Toned arms and a taut chest are delicious to touch, but vein-y skin is not. The only thing we should be feeling besides skin is hair, not veins.
We love your skin! Don't paint it!
Lightly bronzed is sexy; looking like you’re developing skin cancer is not. Overly tanned skin ages and looks saggy earlier than unexposed skin. Do yourself a favor and skip the George Hamilton look for a fresh, natural skin tone.
Yes, women like a man who looks good and takes care of himself. But just like men don’t like a woman who looks botoxed and slathered in makeup with triple F boobs, a woman doesn’t like a man who looks like he spends 10 hours a day starting at himself in the gym mirror. Excessive vanity is not an attractive trait on anyone — male or female. Do yourself a favor and skip the extra hour at the gym and get outside and enjoy your life instead.
That's just one white Lesbian's opinion
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Training 4x/week, sticking to a diet and tanning once a week is more than "most women" will accept?
Esp the training, which often means 3-4 evenings per week. I hear these stories so often from gym buddies (poor fuckers with lazy/depending partners). One guy married in July (no children) and since then I see him once or twice per week. Another guy is pretty keen on his nutrition, while his girlfriend is permabulking :-\
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When I used to go to dance clubs in contest shape I used to be drowning in pussy, unfortunately they were all fucking imbeciles.
exactly.
I beat them off with a stick. queers too
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Dude, youre picking the wrongs ones lol.
I've learned my lessons: keep it LAT and no mothers or depending women.
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That's just one white Lesbian's opinion
Maybe she got rejected by a bodybuilder and now she is a on war path :(
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Esp the training, which often means 3-4 evenings per week. I hear these stories so often from gym buddies (poor fuckers with lazy/depending partners). One guy married in July (no children) and since then I see him once or twice per week. Another guy is pretty keen on his nutrition, while his girlfriend is permabulking :-\
I train 5x/week and my wife makes me look lazy. She hits the gym 2x what I do on an hourly basis, and that doesn't even count her teaching time.
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I train 5x/week and my wife makes me look lazy. She hits the gym 2x what I do on an hourly basis, and that doesn't even count her teaching time.
Sounds like you've met the right one with the same lifestyle :)
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Mmmmmm veins :P it's one of the first things I notice
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Sounds like you've met the right one with the same lifestyle :)
She sure as fuck better not bitch about my gym time, that's for damn sure.
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the reality is the general public think BB's are naricissitic, insecure , steroid junkies with small cocks
women think that of them too
that's why "Natural" BB evolved- these are less muscular guys, but they use steroids, etc etc
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exactly.
I beat them off. queers.
Fixed.
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the reality is the general public think BB's are naricissitic, insecure , steroid junkies with small cocks
women think that of them too
that's why "Natural" BB evolved- these are less muscular guys, but they use steroids, etc etc
Who gives a fuck what people think
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Who gives a fuck what people think
Summed it up perfectly
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Who gives a fuck what people think
The same kind of people that wear gloves while lifting so they don't get callouses on their hands cause they don't want people to think they have a shitty job.
:)
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Who gives a fuck what people think
He who cares less, wins :)
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(http://www.musculazone.com/gallerie/culturistes_pro/stevereeves/86.jpg)
Look like this. Nearly every woman I have asked has replied very favorably. Steve Reeves had what they want.
x2
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The same kind of people that wear gloves while lifting so they don't get callouses on their hands cause they don't want people to think they have a shitty job.
:)
I didnt say I dont know what people think. ;)
For me...I dont like any imperfections on me. Callouses are imperfections
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Good looking people go with good looking people (of course exceptions to every rule).
I still disagree. A gorgeous women would love to be with a guy like that (the pic I posted). Like I said, he is big but not grossly big and he has good facial aesthetics. It would be a small select women who will like him because that small selection of women are the only ones who would be confident enough to date him. Most other women would not date him not because hes too big, but because they would feel intimidated to date someone like him. They would always think he is cheating on them.
You couldn't be more wrong. I see skinny dorks with beautiful women daily and the good looking men either can't get shit or have so so women. Now this also could depend on where you live too.
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You couldn't be more wrong. I see skinny dorks with beautiful women daily and the good looking men either can't get shit or have so so women. Now this also could depend on where you live too.
I don't know where you live, but where I live good looking guys tend to be with good looking women. Of course there are exceptions to the rule.
Youre also not taking into consideration that these skinny dorks may also have a lot of money.
Money trumps everything, even facial aesthetics and good body.
Taken everything together, a man with money, good body and good face will beat a man with money who is skinny and ugly.
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I don't know where you live, but where I live good looking guys tend to be with good looking women. Of course there are exceptions to the rule.
Youre also not taking into consideration that these skinny dorks may also have a lot of money.
Money trumps everything, even facial aesthetics and good body.
Taken everything together, a man with money, good body and good face will beat a man with money who is skinny and ugly.
100% true
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100% true
This is my breakdown in order of what women want by preference:
Preference 1) Money, good looks, and muscles.
Preference 2) Money, ugly, and skinny.
Preference 3) Average income, good looks and muscles.
Preference 4) Average income, ugly, and skinny.
As you see, preference 2 (with money) trumps average income, good looks and muscles (this also applies for men looking for women, maybe with some tweaks). Of course most women want number 1. However, as they get older, reality sets in and they begin to realize what they can and cannot get. Most women will wind up with either Preference 3 and 4, as preference 1 and 2 are save for models or women with a lot of cash.
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You're fucked.
I fall into preference 3, depending on how much money I make, I can make it into category 1. ;D ;D
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This is my breakdown in order of what women want by preference:
Preference 1) Money, good looks, and muscles.
Preference 2) Money, ugly, and skinny.
Preference 3) Average income, good looks and muscles.
Preference 4) Average income, ugly, and skinny.
As you see, preference 2 (with money) trumps average income, good looks and muscles (this also applies for men looking for women, maybe with some tweaks). Of course most women want number 1. However, as they get older, reality sets in and they begin to realize what they can and cannot get. Most women will wind up with either Preference 3 and 4, as preference 1 and 2 are save for models or women with a lot of cash.
You forgot the most important one , PERSONALITY
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Mmmmmm veins :P it's one of the first things I notice
;)
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You forgot the most important one , PERSONALITY
Yes, I forgot.
Personality > Money, good body, good looks.
::) ::) ;D ;D
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Yes, I forgot.
Personality > Money, good body, good looks.
::) ::) ;D ;D
I was broke most of my life , and I got more pussy than 90% of getbiggers combined, I hope this helps .
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I was broke most of my life , and I got more pussy than 90% of getbiggers combined, I hope this helps .
Point 1: There are EXCEPTIONS to every rule. That was a general breakdown.
Point 2: You have a big penis (so it seems in the pics you have posted). That may trump even money. ;D ;D
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You have a big penis
Yes, yes indeed.
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Yes, yes indeed.
Pics/bullshit
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Pics/bullshit
::)
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=408297.0;attach=450770;image)
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This is my breakdown in order of what women want by preference:
Preference 1) Money, good looks, and muscles.
Preference 2) Money, ugly, and skinny.
Preference 3) Average income, good looks and muscles.
Preference 4) Average income, ugly, and skinny.
As you see, preference 2 (with money) trumps average income, good looks and muscles (this also applies for men looking for women, maybe with some tweaks). Of course most women want number 1. However, as they get older, reality sets in and they begin to realize what they can and cannot get. Most women will wind up with either Preference 3 and 4, as preference 1 and 2 are save for models or women with a lot of cash.
good looks > money unless youre a billionaire
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This is my breakdown in order of what women want by preference:
Preference 1) Money, good looks, and muscles.
Preference 2) Money, ugly, and skinny.
Preference 3) Average income, good looks and muscles.
Preference 4) Average income, ugly, and skinny.
As you see, preference 2 (with money) trumps average income, good looks and muscles (this also applies for men looking for women, maybe with some tweaks). Of course most women want number 1. However, as they get older, reality sets in and they begin to realize what they can and cannot get. Most women will wind up with either Preference 3 and 4, as preference 1 and 2 are save for models or women with a lot of cash.
Real life.
Preference 1) Money, money, and more money.
Preference 2) Money, money, and more money.
Preference 3) Money, money, and more money.
Preference 4) Money, money, and more money.
Etc. etc.
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good looks > money unless youre a billionaire
Wrong. A neurosurgeon (brain surgeon), on average, make $775,968. So, close to a million dollars a year. If youre a neurosurgeon and make close to a million dollars a year, that will trump looks. Money does not trump look only when youre a billionaire. ::) ::) The average American income is about 55k. If you have an occupation where you brining home a few hundred thousand a year, youre good to go, even if youre skinny and ugly.
Most women are not going to turn down a neurosurgeon who makes 775K a year because hes not a billionaire, even if he is ugly. Oh brotha.
In terms of getting women:
Neurosurgeon (775K per year) and ugly > Construction worker (55K a year) and good looking.
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True. Money > everything.
An ex colleague of mine was major fitness junkie. She was one of those chicks who is pretty cool, but a little in your face about "the lifestyle" and eating right and respecting yourself and your partner by being in shape. Her fiancee was much the same. Had a good physique, worked hard in the gym, repped for a supplement company - he was every bit as much "lifestyle" as she was.
They'd walk down the street together and turn heads, and fat chicks would fall over themselves to find fault with them :)
I bumped into her last Christmas when i was back home. She's now 30 pounds heavier, looks like shit and is engaged to a multi millionaire software geek. She showed me a photo - he's considerably older, looks like he's lived on milk and gummy bears his whole life, is - in her own words - "a bit autistic", but supposedly is the man of her dreams.
She's also now driving the car of her dreams and has a choice of 4 dream houses/apartments overlooking Sydney Harbour (or in Byron Bay).
So much for 'the lifestyle'.
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If most women prefer money then that would mean most women are prostitutes/whores.
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True. Money > everything.
An ex colleague of mine was major fitness junkie. She was one of those chicks who is pretty cool, but a little in your face about "the lifestyle" and eating right and respecting yourself and your partner by being in shape. Her fiancee was much the same. Had a good physique, worked hard in the gym, repped for a supplement company - he was every bit as much "lifestyle" as she was.
They'd walk down the street together and turn heads, and fat chicks would fall over themselves to find fault with them :)
I bumped into her last Christmas when i was back home. She's now 30 pounds heavier, looks like shit and is engaged to a multi millionaire software geek. She showed me a photo - he's considerably older, looks like he's lived on milk and gummy bears his whole life, is - in her own words - "a bit autistic", but supposedly is the man of her dreams.
She's also now driving the car of her dreams and has a choice of 4 dream houses/apartments overlooking Sydney Harbour (or in Byron Bay).
So much for 'the lifestyle'.
And she probably goes and finds those good looking guys for a side deal---it's what she is used to.
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You forgot the most important one , PERSONALITY
Personality is extremely attractive!
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That's just one white Lesbian's opinion
Instant classic
;D
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If most women prefer money then that would mean most women are prostitutes/whores.
give this man a cookie :D
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imo this it what broads like, also speaking from experience,when I was gym big I didn't get as many looks from broads as when I was super lean and cut up more,soon as I got cut up and lean pussy was flying at me at alarming rates,i had to go out and buy a fishing net to make sure I didn't miss any
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Mmmmmm veins :P it's one of the first things I notice
Just fyi I got lots of veins on my cock.
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Men with money will always be successful with women/gold diggers.
However, if you take 100 guys who are all earning similar wages, the ones with the best personality will generally have the most success with women.
Being good looking and having muscles is useful of course as women will find it an attractive trait but as long as you have a good and confident personality and have at least reasonable looks then you shouldn't have any problems getting women.
A guy who is very shy and socially awkward will have difficulty even if he is handsome and well built.
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Personality is extremely attractive!
If it's the right personality ;)
I can appreciate a women who shares her thoughts & feelings, but I hate arrogant women with a big mouth.
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Men with money will always be successful with women/gold diggers.
However, if you take 100 guys who are all earning similar wages, the ones with the best personality will generally have the most success with women.
Being good looking and having muscles is useful of course as women will find it an attractive trait but as long as you have a good and confident personality and have at least reasonable looks then you shouldn't have any problems getting women.
A guy who is very shy and socially awkward will have difficulty even if he is handsome and well built.
I have to agree with u on that, ive had buddys of mine who had me in the body department but they had the personality of a frog,id always end up with the better broad,when I say better I don't always mean looks and body,i mean great human being with great personality and a caring person,looks will fade but those qualities I just mentioned never fade.when u r sick and aging u will see what I mean
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Women: "Real men should do this and that bla bla bla..."
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having a huge boner doesn't hurt in the scheme of things either, if u got looks,money and a huge cock with great personality u r inn like flynn
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this articel is only applicable to washed up nobodies women who are too old and fat anyway and stuck in the daily grind of mediocrity and juggling bills
they want a rich man to solve all their financial problems and therefore claim to be attracted to them and not juiced up gods
that's ok
i never want those old sagging bitches anyway with their floppy arms and bulging guts
i want me some sweet 18 years tight ebony babes
the ones who live with parents and have no concept of money
just worship muscular men and study every vein on my arm
it's really true, they STUDY the veins on my arms
lol @ article
bitter never has been never will beens undesirable entitled women who will never amount to shit (oh well technically they look like shit and have sort of amounted to it in that sense)
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(http://i59.tinypic.com/348h9qs.jpg)
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i would rather pay a 10/10 young prostitute to comment on my physique and grope my arms while i'm fucking her
than to live with one ugly smashed up bag of assholes who doesnt even comment on my arms just wants money and exist to irritate me
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let me explain this to you all very simply.
if your talking about a girl/ woman who just wants laid, its very easy. you dont need flow charts, graphs and whatever the fuck else to explain it- its not rocket science.
at my biggest (312lbs) i was approached by, and banging, hot broads.
at my leanest (230lbs) i was approached by, and banging, hot broads.
why?
cause im fucking handsome.
and im not a retard who cant string together 2 words.
money, size, leanness, muscularity all that shit doesnt matter. have a good face, and can talk, your getting laid. its all that other shit you need if you dont have the first two.
carry on.
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let me explain this to you all very simply.
if your talking about a girl/ woman who just wants laid, its very easy. you dont need flow charts, graphs and whatever the fuck else to explain it- its not rocket science.
at my biggest (312lbs) i was approached by, and banging, hot broads.
at my leanest (230lbs) i was approached by, and banging, hot broads.
why?
cause im fucking handsome.
and im not a retard who cant string together 2 words.
money, size, leanness, muscularity all that shit doesnt matter. have a good face, and can talk, your getting laid. its all that other shit you need if you dont have the first two.
carry on.
Yeah, but randomly getting laid is much different than being with someone long-term. Sure, a good face and being well spoken can help you get laid. But is that all that is needed to keep a women long term?
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ever hear of something called 'love'? where two people meet and regardless of all intrinsic factors have a deep desire to be with each other and try to make a run at it?
if your dating a woman who sees you as a 'criteria' rather than someone she truly desires to be with regardless of your station your fucked from jump anyway. good luck w having any kind of future happiness or making it work.
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Nothing like a thread full of men telling each other what women want ::)
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Lol @ Proud Virgin.... ;D
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Nothing like a thread full of men telling each other what women want ::)
ever hear of something called 'love'?
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(http://i59.tinypic.com/348h9qs.jpg)
;D
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let me explain this to you all very simply.
if your talking about a girl/ woman who just wants laid, its very easy. you dont need flow charts, graphs and whatever the fuck else to explain it- its not rocket science.
at my biggest (312lbs) i was approached by, and banging, hot broads.
at my leanest (230lbs) i was approached by, and banging, hot broads.
why?
cause im fucking handsome.
and im not a retard who cant string together 2 words.
money, size, leanness, muscularity all that shit doesnt matter. have a good face, and can talk, your getting laid. its all that other shit you need if you dont have the first two.
carry on.
I am unable to get past "312 pounds"
Hely hell, was that a lean 312? We are talking Ramy at that point.
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I am unable to get past "312 pounds"
Hely hell, was that a lean 312? We are talking Ramy at that point.
i hope he is trollin with "312 pounds" ::)
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I am unable to get past "312 pounds"
Hely hell, was that a lean 312? We are talking Ramy at that point.
lean? lol was prolly close to 15%bf (edit: fuck no had to be closer to 20% somewhere in there). i wouldnt take my shirt off at the beach, but i was a fucking massive dude.
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lean? lol was prolly close to 15%bf. i wouldnt take my shirt off at the beach, but i was a fucking massive dude.
pictures please
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i hope he is trollin with "312 pounds" ::)
i dont troll sunshine. maybe if you could break 200 it wouldnt seem like such a stretch that a stud like me once roamed the earth plowing the gf's of guys like you.
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i dont troll sunshine. maybe if you could break 200 it wouldnt seem like such a stretch that a stud like me once roamed the earth plowing the gf's of guys like you.
;D
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pictures please
no thanks.
i'll try not to lose any sleep over it if you choose to doubt me.
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ever hear of something called 'love'?
listen, dork. there are men here discussing women. something you dont have much experience with. now go sit in the corner and speak when someone addresses you, like when we need to know what its like to be a dork.
Need to find a homebody girlfriend. One that likes a nice home cooked meal - that she cooks - and enjoys watching Game of Thrones and Homeland.
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no thanks.
i'll try not to lose any sleep over it if you choose to doubt me.
i'm not asking because i doubt you
i'm here to see freaky bbers
pm me i'm discrete
no homo
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No one is on fire in this thread
;D
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listen, dork. there are men here discussing women. something you dont have much experience with. now go sit in the corner and speak when someone addresses you, like when we need to know what its like to be a dork.
I just took this pic of myself. About to go fishing.
(https://photos.travelblog.org/Photos/16598/62262/t/366473-Dorky-Hat-0.jpg)
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Nothing like a thread full of men telling each other what women want ::)
I`ll tell you what they really dont want though, and thats a "ProudVirgin"..................
:-*
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At least the Red Cross women are happy to see me. :D
(http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a158/pjcd1/ScreenShot2014-01-21at51537PM_zpse9203e90.jpg) (http://s11.photobucket.com/user/pjcd1/media/ScreenShot2014-01-21at51537PM_zpse9203e90.jpg.html)
They we're probably cross'd out by them cocky rivers.
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ever hear of something called 'love'?
Yeah, but you do realize that if you reverse the letters in "love" you get "evol". Furthermore, the ancient Hebrews (who were originally Black) often used the ancient Black Hebrew letter for "i" which coinkadinkaly looks just like the not so ancient whitey letter "o". Kind of like if you look at correspondence form the time of the American (whitey) Revolution a letter that looks like an "f" is used where the letter "s" should be.
From this we can see that women who claim to be filled with "love" are actuality chock full o' nuts "evol" or as whitey would spell it, "evil".
Or something like that.
Most women today want MONEY. They could care less about love. They will choose a WUB (Wealthy Ugly Bastard) over a nice looking poor, mildly successful or even financially solid man if they can suck a WUB's wallet/bank account/trust fund or what have you, dry. Note that I said "most women", not all women.
These women will claim to find a nose the size of Rhode Island and body odor that would make a dung beetle think he was at a buffet somehow "attractive" (this explains women with pro-affletes or arab sheiks). They will espouse the joys of making woopie with a man who looks 7 months or more pregnant because his beer belly is soooooooooooo "cute" and "fun to ride". They will leave their husband for Gollum if Gollum just gives them the ring.
Then, when they get older and start to sag and are cast aside like a broken Popeil Pocket Fisherman and can no longer convince a WUB their worth it in bed, then and only then do they want "love".
Nah. They still want your money.
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lean? lol was prolly close to 15%bf (edit: fuck no had to be closer to 20% somewhere in there). i wouldnt take my shirt off at the beach, but i was a fucking massive dude.
Lol at people imagining you as big rami at 312 pounds when you was 20+% bf ;D
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Lol at people imagining you as big rami at 312 pounds when you was 20+% bf ;D
fuck i know. its like comparing a dinosaur to a hippo.
thats back when i had the permabulker mentailty of 'bigger is better'.
now that i have been shown the way, im here to preach the gospel of lean gains, and try to prevent others from making the same mistakes i made and save them a lot of wasted time. if i can prevent one kid from making that mistake ive paid back the kindness others have shown me over the course of my training career.
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You forgot the most important one , PERSONALITY
Doesn't mean shit either.
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I'm always doing crazy erratic cycles, changing size and weight and different hairstyles every month trying to constantly tailor myself to what women "want". It's tough to keep up but im drowning in wife material pussy.
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Women don't know what they want. Not my idea, I was told this by a woman. At least she was honest.
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Women don't know what they want. Not my idea, I was told this by a woman. At least she was honest.
Not all women.
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Women don't know what they want. Not my idea, I was told this by a woman. At least she was honest.
I think many of them want more than most men can/will give.
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What women want is 'all their own way and big bag to put it in'.
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What women want is 'all their own way and big bag to put it in'.
Exactly, and that discourage me to settle ;)
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I`ll tell you what they really dont want though, and thats a "ProudVirgin"..................
:-*
You were the guy who complained about being unable to find girls while attending college, nothing more needs to be said
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fuck i know. its like comparing a dinosaur to a hippo.
thats back when i had the permabulker mentailty of 'bigger is better'.
now that i have been shown the way, im here to preach the gospel of lean gains, and try to prevent others from making the same mistakes i made and save them a lot of wasted time. if i can prevent one kid from making that mistake ive paid back the kindness others have shown me over the course of my training career.
As a young poodle it's hard to listen to sound advice. Ego, fantasy and hormones are an obstacle.
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I'm always doing crazy erratic cycles, changing size and weight and different hairstyles every month trying to constantly tailor myself to what women "want". It's tough to keep up but im drowning in wife material pussy.
Same. I try everything too and nothing works.
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You were the guy who complained about being unable to find girls while attending college, nothing more needs to be said
I dont go to school for girls, that is strictly buisness only... ::)
Im dating a hot chick now anyway which Im very satisfied with so mind you... Go back to your porn :-*
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The article was written by Rachel Khona: Dating, relationships, fashion & pop culture writer. ::) ::)
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_600/617_what-women-think-about-bodybuilders.html
"I don't know where men got the idea that bodybuilding is hot, but, trust me, it's not."
What woman doesn’t like a muscular man? Buff arms, a broad chest and strong shoulders make women feel protected and secure. Guys aren’t doing set after set of crunches 'cause it’s fun; they know how much ladies love six-pack abs. But there’s a fine line between sexy and skanky. Bodybuilders take a step (or five) too far by bulking up way beyond any normal standards. By morphing their bodies into exaggerated — some might even say grotesque — shapes, they successfully manage to gross out women everywhere. I don't know where men got the idea that bodybuilding is hot, but, trust me, it's not.
We admit it, there's a vanity double standard
Adonis complex, anyone? We’re the ones who are supposed to take longer getting ready. Primping, fussing and spending two hours in the bathroom is traditionally the domain of women, and we like it like that. If she’s the wash-and-go type, she’s even less likely to enjoy your obsession with your appearance. In the book Adonis Complex, author Harrison Pope details at length stories of women whose partners became so consumed with getting bigger that they allowed their relationships to falter. Some of these guys spent so much time at the gym that they rarely saw their partners, while others simply relished so much obsessive attention on their bodies that their partners felt invisible by comparison. Either way, it sucked for the ladies.
We're creeped out by your protruding veins
Ooh, is that a vein? Maybe I can give you a shot! Many men become so infatuated with themselves they actually forget what's attractive to women. Veins bulging out of your limbs, neck and even your forehead are just plain gross. Veins are for the Incredible Hulk, not a normal man.
The stuffed sausage look is deeply distressing
Sausage — delicious! But so delicious we like to be reminded of it every time we see your bare arms? No, not really! Make it rain? More like make it dry. When your insides look like they’re going to burst out of your skin, it’s almost painful to look at.
We're confused by your bizarre bodily proportions
Bodybuilders tend to have gigantic shoulders stacked on top of tiny little waists. We understand that many men love the idea of a woman with extra-large breasts and a pinched waist, but the aesthetic does not translate well across the sexes. On a man, the shape borders on monstrosity. Yes, broad shoulders on a guy are an absolute turn-on, but broad shoulders are not the same as colossal monstrous shoulders. It’s all about proportion.
Your tan shouldn't look like it has a smell
To be fair, orange skin tone doesn’t come from bodybuilding, but it does come with the territory. Bodybuilders are so fixated with looking like Arnold circa 1985 that they not only work out past the point of normalcy, but they tan so hard they look like burnt hot dogs. Red, leathery skin should be saved for a handbag.
If you enjoy working out, don't feel like we're singling you out. Women love a fit body.
Think Matthew McConaughey playing the bongos (ignoring, for all intents, the bongos) or Brad Pitt in Fight Club — lean and sexy, not big and monstrous. We want someone we can wrap our arms around, not a guy who’d be able to break our hand by squeezing his pecs together.
We love concern, but not obsession, about appearance
Looking good will no doubt win you points with the ladies. But obsessing about your appearance and asking your lady if you’re big enough is not attractive. Make sure you’re in shape, your threads are cute, you smell good, and your hair is combed. These are the hallmarks of someone who cares about his appearance but isn’t consumed by it.
Smooth skin is sexy, rippled skin not so much
There’s nothing like rubbing your hands all over your man. But if he’s vein-y, ripply and bulging, it’s easy to get turned off. Toned arms and a taut chest are delicious to touch, but vein-y skin is not. The only thing we should be feeling besides skin is hair, not veins.
We love your skin! Don't paint it!
Lightly bronzed is sexy; looking like you’re developing skin cancer is not. Overly tanned skin ages and looks saggy earlier than unexposed skin. Do yourself a favor and skip the George Hamilton look for a fresh, natural skin tone.
Yes, women like a man who looks good and takes care of himself. But just like men don’t like a woman who looks botoxed and slathered in makeup with triple F boobs, a woman doesn’t like a man who looks like he spends 10 hours a day starting at himself in the gym mirror. Excessive vanity is not an attractive trait on anyone — male or female. Do yourself a favor and skip the extra hour at the gym and get outside and enjoy your life instead.
Hmmmmm..... That's exactly what we want ...the best compliment for a bodybuilder is to tell him he looks like the incredible Hulk himself..... who the fuck cares what women prefers?
A woman wear heels even if it kills her feet,breaks her back, heavy makeup on humid days, spend $$$$ in hair products,nails, silly mega pricey dresses ,purses etc.......and will feel suicidal if you don't notice or pay her a lousy compliment ...
Man & woman are different go tell that to the article writer one more time.
WooOSSSHHHH