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Title: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 03:03:36 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???
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Post by: BigRo on October 19, 2014, 03:06:56 AM
doesnt bother me, stop being so egocentric that might help.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 19, 2014, 03:07:38 AM
You need to go through a period of quiet reflection.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 03:24:17 AM
You need to go through a period of quiet reflection.
.       How are you supposed to do that when you know she sure as shit isn't?   
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 03:27:56 AM
doesnt bother me, stop being so egocentric that might help.
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 19, 2014, 03:30:50 AM
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.

This is not the correct getbig mentality...
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: BigRo on October 19, 2014, 03:35:37 AM
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.

we usually use the word ego to describe cocky overly confident behaviour but I meant it in a broader sense, the pain and sadness you feel when you think of another man ravaging her its coming from a limited sense of self-hood.  Like VP said quite reflection will allow you to let go and become more centred in a wider more unshakable sense of self. Her enjoying herself without a care in the world shouldn't stop you.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Rascal full on October 19, 2014, 03:42:23 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

I know the feeling and it isn't easy. I found best way to deal with those kind of emotions is through a positive physical outlet which I do boxing and weightlifting. When you are doing that last few sets on the bench picture your worst thoughts and use them for fuel to grind out more and more reps. Burn that negative energy away in a positive way and it will fade. Good luck Flint, I know you will feel better in time.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Henda on October 19, 2014, 03:57:45 AM
You say that you wouldn't take her back but the fact it hurts shows you are not over her. She is gone and the 100% best way is to get out and meet other women, at first you will feel bad and be comparing them to your ex, after the first few times you will not give a fuck and you could walk by and see your ex cross the street and be flattened by an articulated lorry and you will simply smile and carry on with your day
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: jr on October 19, 2014, 03:59:15 AM
Because your genes lost a chance to reproduce themselves.

This is how your genetic programming punishes you, by making you feel bad.

The other guy who is having sex with her has potentially more successful genes.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: muscleman-2013 on October 19, 2014, 04:01:19 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

You are a victim of your selfish promiscuous actions.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: mesmorph78 on October 19, 2014, 04:01:51 AM
Find yourself another woman
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Post by: IronMeister on October 19, 2014, 04:05:49 AM
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Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: jr on October 19, 2014, 04:12:50 AM



Get over it by breaking some PB's in the gym.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 04:13:12 AM
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Omg look at Enzo  :D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Onion on October 19, 2014, 04:28:28 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???
We "dislike" losing more than winning - in a breakup situation you feel more pain of losing "what was and could have been" than the pleasure you get from your newfound freedom and opportunities.

Also the more you "invest" in a failing relationship the less likely you are to give up on the relationship in question - for the reasons outlined in the paragraph above.

The mind and its beliefs are like a self perpetuating system that can either find a solution (you work things through) or you drive it too hard until it explodes (nasty breakup).
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 04:29:57 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???
Its because you have the outlook of a 15 year old.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on October 19, 2014, 04:36:14 AM
we usually use the word ego to describe cocky overly confident behaviour but I meant it in a broader sense, the pain and sadness you feel when you think of another man ravaging her its coming from a limited sense of self-hood.  Like VP said quite reflection will allow you to let go and become more centred in a wider more unshakable sense of self. Her enjoying herself without a care in the world shouldn't stop you.




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Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Kim Jong Bob on October 19, 2014, 04:41:22 AM
Its get easier bycthe years..my ex started to see a guy at my work just a couple of weeks after we broke up some months ago. I didnt care for 5 cent. 10 years ago i would have beatrn yhe shit out of that guy. But i never had any feelings for my ex and  i started to see a 10 year younger blond little thing almost right after we broke up
 who didnt have given birth to two kids like my ex so that probably helped a bit to =D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Conker on October 19, 2014, 04:46:59 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

FFS i thought you were supposed to be a top pimp, who was so good at dealing with women you was hiring out your expertise in getting women for others...and now you are here crying over your ex!

man the fuck up ! why are you thinking about her?, cut all contact, delete her from phone/social media etc, pretend she's dead.
problem solved, it's just a matter of metal strength (or weakness)

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Rascal full on October 19, 2014, 04:56:42 AM
Its because you have the outlook of a 15 year old.

Maybe you are just in a more secure relationship/minset and thus problems like this don't exist to you?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 04:58:48 AM
Maybe you are just in a more secure relationship/minset and thus problems like this don't exist to you? an adult.

fixed.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Rascal full on October 19, 2014, 05:04:39 AM
fixed.

Adults don't feel emotions? News to me.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: pedro01 on October 19, 2014, 05:08:34 AM
Fucking someone else usually takes the sting out.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Thin Lizzy on October 19, 2014, 05:09:28 AM
Find yourself another woman

This

You'll be surprised how fast you get over a woman when you realize they're not in short supply.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Darren Avey on October 19, 2014, 05:09:50 AM
Do what Reggie Kray did! Tell people that if anyone goes near his ex he will put them in a wheelchair for the rest of their lives!! it worked! No one went near her!
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: pedro01 on October 19, 2014, 05:10:02 AM
Fucking someone else usually takes the sting out.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: TrueGrit on October 19, 2014, 05:14:36 AM
You need to start following her and hiding in the bushes outside her home. This is the only way you can know for sure.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 19, 2014, 05:20:35 AM
You need to start following her and hiding in the bushes outside her home. This is the only way you can know for sure.

Solid Getbig advice right there.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Waller on October 19, 2014, 05:45:13 AM
You need to start following her and hiding in the bushes outside her home. This is the only way you can know for sure.

Don't forget to pack snacks and shakes. You don't want to lose gains
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Papper on October 19, 2014, 06:43:45 AM
Put eyes on her. Cameras in the bathroom and take photos of her at work and let her know she is watched. That way she wont dare to step out of line (no heath)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Antonio fella on October 19, 2014, 06:52:25 AM
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.

She dumped you, you still love/attached to her, you still would fuck dat pussy.

Stop lying lol "I dumped her because she was shady" she never truly was into you or dumped you 3 month before you even realized... hence the shady thing

Hth
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Julio Ceasar on October 19, 2014, 06:54:04 AM
Find yourself another woman

If your ex was average it may works! Bcz average is pretty easy to find...If your ex was a lottery win, hole in one etc etc...u will be fucked for life! : )
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Leatherneck on October 19, 2014, 06:59:22 AM
Time is the the biggest factor in this scenario. A week or month from now the pain your stomach will be gone and you will be worried about more current stuff. Coping skills also play a factor... find which ones are good for you.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 19, 2014, 07:03:55 AM
Time is the the biggest factor in this scenario. A week or month from now the pain your stomach will be gone and you will be worried about more current stuff. Coping skills also play a factor... find which ones are good for you.

Masturbating like a teenager until you rip your cock clean off will loosen that clenched stomach.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Donny on October 19, 2014, 07:07:11 AM
I know a Guy who came home from work one Day and he found Photos on the bed of his wife sucking her lovers cock and laughing in the pictures. she left them on purpose to hurt him and fucked off with her new Guy. So if he got over it so will you.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Donny on October 19, 2014, 07:08:26 AM
Masturbating like a teenager until you rip your cock clean off will loosen that clenched stomach.
yeah  ;D fuck her
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Leatherneck on October 19, 2014, 07:08:44 AM
Masturbating like a teenager until you rip your cock clean off will loosen that clenched stomach.
That seems like a coping skill to me.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Antonio fella on October 19, 2014, 07:09:46 AM
I know a Guy who came home from work one Day and he found Photos on the bed of his wife sucking her lovers cock and laughing in the pictures. she left them on purpose to hurt him and fucked off with her new Guy. So if he got over it so will you.

Lol :D

Did he turn gay?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: ChopperRider on October 19, 2014, 07:12:26 AM
Just keep reminding yourself that your next relationship will be better because you love the cock way more than she does.

OP outing himself as either a weak gimmick or 14 year old virgin.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Donny on October 19, 2014, 07:13:45 AM
Lol :D

Did he turn gay?
No he met another Girl and got Married. I only met him a few times. My Best friend knows him better and told me about it all. Really fucked his mind up for a while. Sort of loves himself. So maybe not the stud he thought he was.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 07:16:43 AM
damn flinstones

get a grip on yourself bro


i look for prostitutes that look like my ex and pretend it's her while fucking


or fuck bitches with lights off and pretend it's her


or look for porn whores who look like her


this is probably not really a good idea but it feels good man
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Post by: Psychopath on October 19, 2014, 07:28:40 AM
Faggotry, pure faggotry.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 07:32:42 AM
Adults don't feel emotions? News to me.
They do, but to feel hurt because an ex lover is fucking someone else is teen angst riddled stupidity

When we grow up we put childish things away.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Waller on October 19, 2014, 07:38:19 AM
They do, but to feel hurt because an ex lover is fucking someone else is teen angst riddled stupidity

When we grow up we put childish things away.

Rofl you are aware that the use of the word we is self inclusive?

I'd put faceless internet trolling down as childish  :P
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 07:38:46 AM
if you dont want her why do you care she fuckingother dudes

she fucked other dudes before you (possibly with you too) and will fuck other dudes after you


you are not unique snowflake and neither is she


we just animals

but wouldnt last a minute in the serengeti strugle for life

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: che on October 19, 2014, 08:48:41 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

Estrogen is a bitch , up the dosage .
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 08:49:11 AM
Estrogen is a bitch , up the dosage .
:D ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 19, 2014, 08:58:36 AM
Put eyes on her. Cameras in the bathroom and take photos of her at work and let her know she is watched. That way she wont dare to step out of line (no heath)

 :D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Mrdibbs on October 19, 2014, 09:03:26 AM
Is this the aftermath of the ''solid 10'' you went paranoid on some time ago?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: SOMEPARTS on October 19, 2014, 09:04:15 AM



Get over it by breaking some PB's in the gym.




Damn....what is his BW?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 09:05:54 AM
Rofl you are aware that the use of the word we is self inclusive?

I'd put faceless internet trolling down as childish  :P
Of course the word 'we' is self inclusive, I include myself in the quote, it would be a little presumptuous of me to exclude myself from the entire human race.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 09:06:15 AM
flinstones threads piss me off because he doesnt appreciate how good his situation is


no baby mama coming after his coins
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: kh300 on October 19, 2014, 10:57:43 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

Are you sure she's with another guy and not a girl. You think it's possible she's a lesbian?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 11:17:07 AM
if you dont want her why do you care she fuckingother dudes

she fucked other dudes before you (possibly with you too) and will fuck other dudes after you


you are not unique snowflake and neither is she


we just animals

but wouldnt last a minute in the serengeti strugle for life



Probably because it took some time to realize what I had lost I guess. I had no job, didn't even have my own place when she met me and she still stayed with me anyway...

She knew I dealt with depression and tried getting me to go to counseling but I refused. So she tried  to help me on her own by taking me to the coast off the beach  with her every day and we'd just talk.
 
She used to tell me how all her friends boyfriends were buying them roses all the time and how she felt under appreciated. I told her   "Im not buying you shit.. the door is right there nobody is making you stay". She would get off the phone crying in tears telling me that a man who loved her I wouldn't let her leave so easily and that I should want to have her in my life.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 11:24:49 AM
Are you sure she's with another guy and not a girl. You think it's possible she's a lesbian?
hmmmm haven't thought of this. I know she  had a girlfriend two years ago ..not some one night make out session but a  legitimate girlfriend  at one time who she broke up with because she was cheating on her with another guy.  it was emotional reasons, maybe she didn't trust men ...I don't know shed never really want to talk about it and still denies that she's bisexual.

I've  brought her to strip clubs with me and Ive seen the way she looks at women, don't think she's bisexual honestly.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: BB on October 19, 2014, 11:34:33 AM



Damn....what is his BW?

His wiki says #251, I know he's moved up to the #105 (#231) weight class, so the wiki is probably close for off season weight.

As to the original question? As mentioned, find a new girl. Watch, after that 99% of all these annoying feelings will go away.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 11:39:15 AM
Probably because it took some time to realize what I had lost I guess. I had no job, didn't even have my own place when she met me and she still stayed with me anyway...

She knew I dealt with depression and tried getting me to go to counseling but I refused. So she tried  to help me on her own by taking me to the coast off the beach  with her every day and we'd just talk.
 
She used to tell me how all her friends boyfriends were buying them roses all the time and how she felt under appreciated. I told her   "Im not buying you shit.. the door is right there nobody is making you stay". She would get off the phone crying in tears telling me that a man who loved her I wouldn't let her leave so easily and that I should want to have her in my life.

a lot happened in 3 months.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Antonio fella on October 19, 2014, 11:40:42 AM
Probably because it took some time to realize what I had lost I guess. I had no job, didn't even have my own place when she met me and she still stayed with me anyway...

She knew I dealt with depression and tried getting me to go to counseling but I refused. So she tried  to help me on her own by taking me to the coast off the beach  with her every day and we'd just talk.
 
She used to tell me how all her friends boyfriends were buying them roses all the time and how she felt under appreciated. I told her   "Im not buying you shit.. the door is right there nobody is making you stay". She would get off the phone crying in tears telling me that a man who loved her I wouldn't let her leave so easily and that I should want to have her in my life.


Wtf flin? And you are surprised why she left lol....

Read few books... There are some awesome littreture out there... People share experience and knowladge

For example

David Deida - The way of the superior men
Osho - about men
Osho - about women
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 11:42:40 AM
Wtf flin? And you are surprised why she left lol....

Read few books... There are some awesome littreture out there... People share experience and knowladge

For example

David Deida - The way of the superior men
Osho - about men
Osho - about women

this is the only book he needs
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Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Antonio fella on October 19, 2014, 11:52:19 AM
 :D not gonna hurt indeed
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 12:30:14 PM
Is this the aftermath of the ''solid 10'' you went paranoid on some time ago?

No tve never gotten into a relationship with a legit 10/10 before. Don't think anyone here has honestly..

Realistically I thought she was a 7 amazing ass nice face..and the more I got to know her the prettier she got. It's weird how that shit happens...you connect with a chick and she just gets sexier.

pm me fellas and Ill show you her.  Just be straight up with me  is this chick even worth missing? few of my friends told me I should do way better but they all said she was hot before so I need non biased opinion
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 12:33:06 PM
No tve never gotten into a relationship with a legit 10/10 before. Don't think anyone here has honestly..

Realistically I thought she was a 7 amazing ass nice face..and the more I got to know her the prettier she got. It's weird how that shit happens...you connect with a chick and she just gets sexier.

pm me fellas and Ill show you her.  Just be straight up with me  is this chick even worth missing  ? few of my friends told me I should do way better but they all said she was hot before so IDK

What sort of friend tells you your girlfriend isnt attractive enough for you?


Im sure you are a 45 year old basement dweller and not this eternally 21 year old loser you portray yourself to be.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 19, 2014, 12:35:42 PM
Pics or fuck off
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 12:52:31 PM
If your ex was average it may works! Bcz average is pretty easy to find...If your ex was a lottery win, hole in one etc etc...u will be fucked for life! : )

 It's usually easy for most guys to  find a chick to sleep with who was as hot or hotter than their ex.. hell Im talking to a hotter chick now. finding one who you connected with like your ex is another story

no chemistry= bye. Id take a 7 with chemistry who I enjoy being around over a boring 9  any day.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: local hero on October 19, 2014, 12:54:37 PM
Maybe you should email tbums and pay him for advices on aspects of the heart, like the time time you paid him for gear advices's
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 19, 2014, 12:58:12 PM
flinstones I watched the video, this is a very average looking girl (7/10 is very very generous) and she seems really needy and not too bright.

You can do better, move on to bigger/better things like bettering yourself, a man should not define himself by his relationship with a woman.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 12:59:53 PM
Masturbating like a teenager until you rip your cock clean off will loosen that clenched stomach.


Funniest post I've read in a very long time. Hahaha.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 01:03:01 PM
flinstones I watched the video, this is a very average looking girl (7/10 is very very generous) and she seems really needy and not too bright.

You can do better, move on to bigger/better things like bettering yourself, a man should not define himself by his relationship with a woman.

Did she look frightened?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 01:03:16 PM

 
She used to tell me how all her friends boyfriends were buying them roses all the time and how she felt under appreciated. I told her   "Im not buying you shit.. the door is right there nobody is making you stay". She would get off the phone crying in tears telling me that a man who loved her I wouldn't let her leave so easily and that I should want to have her in my life.



You're kiddin, right ?! What in the fuck, man ? Lol !! Some cold shit, bruh ! :/
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 19, 2014, 01:33:40 PM
I think I found your problem, you need to move the switch from "Beta Bitch" to "Alpha Man"

Ask the trainer how to do it.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: kh300 on October 19, 2014, 01:36:59 PM
hmmmm haven't thought of this. I know she  had a girlfriend two years ago ..not some one night make out session but a  legitimate girlfriend  at one time who she broke up with because she was cheating on her with another guy.  it was emotional reasons, maybe she didn't trust men ...I don't know shed never really want to talk about it and still denies that she's bisexual.

I've  brought her to strip clubs with me and Ive seen the way she looks at women, don't think she's bisexual honestly.

LOL you were supposed to say ''no way''. And I was gonna say 'because she doesn't like pussy's'

Your weak man, its ok to admit it. Your sitting there thinking about her being with other guys? That's what little boys think. Why isn't SHE asking how to get over and x bf being with other girls? You'll be that man someday.

Your going to feel like shit, like a piece of you is missing, and anyone that's not a piece of shit would too. Trust me, one day you'll meet a girl and look back at her and laugh. Use the pain to guide you to were you need to be.

Even if you didn't like the girl she was someone you always talked to, texted, hung out with. Theirs an emptiness that you need to fill. Pick up a new hobby. Improve yourself. Get some new clothes, get a haircut. Next time she see's you she's going to want you back and your gonna say no fucking way.


Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Waller on October 19, 2014, 01:50:51 PM
I think I found your problem, you need to move the switch from "Beta Bitch" to "Alpha Man"

Ask the trainer how to do it.

After all the Joon and Enzo stuff I'm starting to wonder if the trainer is your gimmick...  ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 01:53:21 PM
LOL you were supposed to say ''no way''. And I was gonna say 'because she doesn't like pussy's'

Your weak man, its ok to admit it. Your sitting there thinking about her being with other guys? That's what little boys think. Why isn't SHE asking how to get over and x bf being with other girls? You'll be that man someday.

Your going to feel like shit, like a piece of you is missing, and anyone that's not a piece of shit would too. Trust me, one day you'll meet a girl and look back at her and laugh. Use the pain to guide you to were you need to be.

Even if you didn't like the girl she was someone you always talked to, texted, hung out with. Theirs an emptiness that you need to fill. Pick up a new hobby. Improve yourself. Get some new clothes, get a haircut. Next time she see's you she's going to want you back and your gonna say no fucking way.





In all seriousness, EXTREMELY sound advice.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 19, 2014, 01:54:12 PM
After all the Joon and Enzo stuff I'm starting to wonder if the trainer is your gimmick...  ;D

Now that would be hilarious.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: the trainer on October 19, 2014, 02:12:44 PM
Probably because it took some time to realize what I had lost I guess. I had no job, didn't even have my own place when she met me and she still stayed with me anyway...

She knew I dealt with depression and tried getting me to go to counseling but I refused. So she tried  to help me on her own by taking me to the coast off the beach  with her every day and we'd just talk.
 
She used to tell me how all her friends boyfriends were buying them roses all the time and how she felt under appreciated. I told her   "Im not buying you shit.. the door is right there nobody is making you stay". She would get off the phone crying in tears telling me that a man who loved her I wouldn't let her leave so easily and that I should want to have her in my life.


You are an asshole to treat the girl like that, I am glad she dumped your stupid ass.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: ChopperRider on October 19, 2014, 02:15:39 PM
You are an asshole to treat the girl like that, I am glad she dumped your stupid ass.

100% certain you've tasted cock (often).
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 02:23:26 PM
You are an asshole to treat the girl like that, I am glad she dumped your stupid ass.

Thanks ...make me feel even worse.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Waller on October 19, 2014, 02:26:28 PM
Thanks ...make me feel even worse.



Do you not see that you're not actually the victim here? You had a girl who seemed to care, treated her like shit and now you're sad?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: the trainer on October 19, 2014, 02:31:07 PM
Guess I need to teach flinstone and the rest of you getbiggers how an alpha male treat the ladies, I tell her about the heavy weights that I lift up in the gym and how I beat up 3 guys at once so she knows she is safe with me, then I look into her eyes and tell her some romantic poetic words so she knows that although I am a massive beast I do have a romantic side,
  Then I whip out my long thick cock and give her multiple orgasms until she almost pass out, when I am done this woman will worship the ground that I walk on and be hooked on me until I get bored and move on to the next conquest, that is the way of the alpha male.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 02:31:44 PM
Thanks ...make me feel even worse.


You should feel worse, you are a bullying aggressive piece of shit.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 02:32:06 PM
broooooooooooo


you gotta appreciate the fact you didnt knock any of these hos up


you have literaly 99 problems but a baby mama aint one

 ;D ;D ;D


stop pondering this shit and go out there lift weights, make money, go clubbing  ;D ;D ;D


dont get attached to run of the mill hos


pump and dump them hos

if u really the age u claim u have plenty of time to meet srs woman downn the road


for now work on your $$$, career etc....

thats what vic richards recommends on relationships

"dont look for the right person, work on becoming the right person,,,, improve yourself,,,, and in any case its better to be prepared and not have the opportunity than to have the opportunity but not be prepared,,,,"


Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 19, 2014, 02:37:57 PM
Great advice from Big Vic
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 02:42:07 PM
Great advice from Big Vic
big vic is a deep thinker

watch this video full of epic quotes/truths


Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: mesmorph78 on October 19, 2014, 02:43:20 PM
This

You'll be surprised how fast you get over a woman when you realize they're not in short supply.

Even better if the new women is better than your ex
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 19, 2014, 02:45:42 PM
Even better if the new women is better than your ex
if the pussy walls and juices are smoother and more viscuous

it must be a great upgrade
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Ronnie Rep on October 19, 2014, 02:49:37 PM
Find yourself another woman
This x 1000!
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: ChopperRider on October 19, 2014, 03:05:28 PM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

I will bet anything her new boyfriend was plowing her in the ass and mouth the whole time you were "dating" her.

At least now you know what his dick tastes like.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 03:13:54 PM
LOL you were supposed to say ''no way''. And I was gonna say 'because she doesn't like pussy's'

Your weak man, its ok to admit it. Your sitting there thinking about her being with other guys? That's what little boys think. Why isn't SHE asking how to get over and x bf being with other girls? You'll be that man someday.

Your going to feel like shit, like a piece of you is missing, and anyone that's not a piece of shit would too. Trust me, one day you'll meet a girl and look back at her and laugh. Use the pain to guide you to were you need to be.

Even if you didn't like the girl she was someone you always talked to, texted, hung out with. Theirs an emptiness that you need to fill. Pick up a new hobby. Improve yourself. Get some new clothes, get a haircut. Next time she see's you she's going to want you back and your gonna say no fucking way.




I don't know why but your  post just brought back a flashback in my head. And On my mom's life and this is the truth.

About a couple  weeks before we broke up she asked me sarcastically
"babe what would you do if I told you I was cheating on you with another girl?"  

she was saying it in a joking manner didn't think twice of it .., but I did find it kind of strange she would say this...and the fact that she  has had a legitimate gf before.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 03:18:54 PM
I will bet anything her new boyfriend was plowing her in the ass and mouth the whole time you were "dating" her.

At least now you know what his dick tastes like.

Jesus, man ! A bit brutal, don't ya think ??


Flint ... take it from me. I ( and several others here, I am sure ) have been through what you're going through. Just move on. A TON of solid advice in this thread. Constantly thinkin about her is very unhealthy. There are MILLIONS of women out there. Just take this last one as a " lesson learned " ( hopefully you've learned your lesson ) and move on.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 03:27:37 PM
Jesus, man ! A bit brutal, don't ya think ??


Flint ... take it from me. I ( and several others here, I am sure ) have been through what you're going through. Just move on. A TON of solid advice in this thread. Constantly thinkin about her is very unhealthy. There are MILLIONS of women out there. Just take this last one as a " lesson learned " ( hopefully you've learned your lesson ) and move on.

Yeah Im gonna follow this advice. I think the only reason Im not over it is because  Im not working full time I have wayyyy too  much free time on my hands.   New job doesn't start for a couple weeks, think I might take a trip to new york. Never seen the nightlife out there heard its awesome..
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 19, 2014, 03:28:09 PM
I don't know why but your  post just brought back a flashback in my head. And On my mom's life and this is the truth.

About a couple  weeks before we broke up she asked me sarcastically
"babe what would you do if I told you I was cheating on you with another girl?"  

she was saying it in a joking manner didn't think twice of it .., but I did find it kind of strange she would say this...and the fact that she  has had a legitimate gf before.

Oh good, you're entering the "denial" stage. You're progressing nicely.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Waller on October 19, 2014, 03:29:45 PM
Oh good, you're entering the "denial" stage. You're progressing nicely.

The classic "Fucking lesbian" response.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: ChopperRider on October 19, 2014, 03:45:10 PM
Jesus, man ! A bit brutal, don't ya think ??


Flint ... take it from me. I ( and several others here, I am sure ) have been through what you're going through. Just move on. A TON of solid advice in this thread. Constantly thinkin about her is very unhealthy. There are MILLIONS of women out there. Just take this last one as a " lesson learned " ( hopefully you've learned your lesson ) and move on.

Brutal? Jesus Christ, this bedwetting little closet fag came to Getbag for advices on missing his make-believe ex-girlfriend.....what do you expect?

Where is that Godfather "Act Like a Man" gif when you need it?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 04:19:28 PM
You are an asshole to treat the girl like that, I am glad she dumped your stupid ass.
Agreed. The best thing she did for herself was to walk away.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 04:26:40 PM
Yeah Im gonna follow this advice. I think the only reason Im not over it is because  Im not working full time I have wayyyy too  much free time on my hands.   New job doesn't start for a couple weeks, think I might take a trip to new york. Never seen the nightlife out there heard its awesome..



Yes, you do have too much time on your hands. It's okay though. You're a smart guy and, more importantly,  you're human. But don't beat yourself up over it. Just move on. Easier said than done though. I know. But you can do it.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 04:29:45 PM
Brutal? Jesus Christ, this bedwetting little closet fag came to Getbag for advices on missing his make-believe ex-girlfriend.....what do you expect?

Where is that Godfather "Act Like a Man" gif when you need it?


Chopper ... I gotta lot of love for Flint ( as I've known him for a few years now ). Your posts are NOTHING short of hilarious. And I really enjoy your humor. Seriously. I agree that Flint needs to " act like a man ". But he's young. It's going to take some time.

Anyways, don't let me deter you. I love your posts. :)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Pray_4_War on October 19, 2014, 04:30:17 PM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

I would fuck either her best friend or her sister (if she has one).

Or both of them, at the same time.  Then declare victory.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 04:32:12 PM
I would fuck either her best friend or her sister (if she has one).

Or both of them, at the same time.  Then declare victory.


Fuck that ! I'd fuck her mother in front of her father !
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: the trainer on October 19, 2014, 04:45:28 PM

Fuck that ! I'd fuck her mother in front of her father !

Fuck that I would fuck her mother in front of her then take her dad to a glory hole.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Thespritz0 on October 19, 2014, 05:03:08 PM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???
^^
Just think of how stinky her ass was...
You'll be over it in a FLASH!!
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 19, 2014, 05:16:10 PM
doesnt bother me, stop being so egocentric that might help.

First smart thing I ever heard you say
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 05:20:03 PM
You should feel worse, you are a bullying aggressive piece of shit.
.    Look man your always defending women ...nobody  made her date me.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Pray_4_War on October 19, 2014, 05:22:48 PM
What if she was the girl I started fucking a while back?  Eskimo brothers, right on!
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 05:33:19 PM
.    Look man your always defending women ...nobody  made her date me.


Wrong attitude, bro.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 05:46:04 PM
If you make it clear to a girl your not relationship material and that you've cheated on every woman you've been with and she is dumb enough to pursue you for LTR anyways because she thinks she can change you that's her fucking problem.      Yeah you guys may have not been an asshole to women you've dated but im sure you've lied and told chicks you loved her when you didn't just to keep banging her. Shit like that is worse imo..
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 19, 2014, 06:13:36 PM
Quote from: flinstones1 link=topiover .msg7775143#msg7775143 date=1413765964
If you make it clear to a girl your not relationship material and that you've cheated on every woman you've been with and she is dumb enough to pursue you for LTR anyways because she thinks she can change you that's her fucking problem.      Yeah you guys may have not been an asshole to women you've dated but im sure you've lied and told chicks you loved her when you didn't just to keep banging her. Shit like that is worse imo..

Goddamn it !!! Why would you accept an ltr with a girl KNOWING that you've cheated multiple times on previous women !?!? What the fuck, man ??!! Her problem ?!?! Are you nuts ?!?!

Can't get your back no more, Flint. You are NOT relationship material. Plain and simple. What the fuck is wrong with you ?!?!

" It's her problem, but I can't get over her. "

???????
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: D-Cord on October 19, 2014, 06:14:56 PM
Walking away from a toxic relationship is often difficult, but necessary.

Promising bodybuilding careers have been sidetracked by toxic extramarital relationships in the past.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 19, 2014, 06:42:00 PM
Walk away and don't look back.

In time you will realize that losing a single second on a skank is a worthless endeavor.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 06:48:49 PM
Walking away from a toxic relationship is often difficult, but necessary.

Promising bodybuilding careers have been sidetracked by toxic extramarital relationships in the past.

You make me laugh. Lee didn't do anything he didn't want to do. It was his choice!
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: D-Cord on October 19, 2014, 06:49:58 PM
You make me laugh. Lee didn't do anything he didn't want to do. It was his choice!

What are you talking about   ???
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Rambone on October 19, 2014, 06:54:21 PM
Stop being a beta bitch HTH
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 07:07:17 PM
Goddamn it !!! Why would you accept an ltr with a girl KNOWING that you've cheated multiple times on previous women !?!? What the fuck, man ??!! Her problem ?!?! Are you nuts ?!?!

Can't get your back no more, Flint. You are NOT relationship material. Plain and simple. What the fuck is wrong with you ?!?!

" It's her problem, but I can't get over her. "

???????

because I wanted to try it. Ive come to the conclusion though that we all want what we can't have. I fantasized about being with other women throughout the entire relationship even more so when I was single. Used to get the urge to go out to the club EVERY fucking weekend. But...Now that Im single I don't want to go out.

You see Men..we cheat on chicks because we think with our dicks.  But you'd  be surprised at how many women out there will cheat on guys simply for the thrill.

This doesn't have anything to do with my ex per say but I wanna change the subject... I will never date any chick  again who's

1. insecure by any means. cocky chicks are usually the most loyal
2. attention whore of any kind
3. grew up without ever knowing her father or has a poor relationship with her father  
4. has tattoos or unusual piercings in weird places  ( lack of respect for her body usually goes with lack of respect for herself)
5. goes out of her way to tell  you she hates cheaters and liars.
6. thinks other women are bitches, c u n  t s..etc

just a few off the top of my head...anyone else can add to the list.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Mothballs on October 19, 2014, 07:26:41 PM
You say that you wouldn't take her back but the fact it hurts shows you are not over her. She is gone and the 100% best way is to get out and meet other women, at first you will feel bad and be comparing them to your ex, after the first few times you will not give a fuck and you could walk by and see your ex cross the street and be flattened by an articulated lorry and you will simply smile and carry on with your day
^ this.

 Time. You just need time thats all. After enough time goes by trust me when I say that you get to a point where the thought of her even seeing her with another guy is as normal as seeing your 2nd cousin twice removed with a new boy friend. You just dont care. I used to be super over my head for this girl years ago the thought of her even with her ex'es from years ago made me sick and insecure even the thought of the guys she dated in high school made me sick and queasy and nervous but time has a funny way of healing everything now she and I are good pals, we text eachother alot and even talk about our current relationships with eachother and everything is totally cool as if nothing ever happened.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 08:37:29 PM
^ this.

 Time. You just need time thats all. After enough time goes by trust me when I say that you get to a point where the thought of her even seeing her with another guy is as normal as seeing your 2nd cousin twice removed with a new boy friend. You just dont care. I used to be super over my head for this girl years ago the thought of her even with her ex'es from years ago made me sick and insecure even the thought of the guys she dated in high school made me sick and queasy and nervous but time has a funny way of healing everything now she and I are good pals, we text eachother alot and even talk about our current relationships with eachother and everything is totally cool as if nothing ever happened.
Time is everything! I just contacted an ex after 10 years. I have been over him for a long time but not over losing his baby! I feel I can be friends after all these years.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 08:47:56 PM
100% serious......delete this post before the idiots make you regret it.

Then I will delete the quote.

Don't be so dumb.
I know you mean well CR but the idiots can't hurt me.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 19, 2014, 08:51:08 PM
First smart thing I ever heard you say

hear me out   here groink, if some chick lied to you about what her true intentions were when you started dating her   just to get in a relationship with you wouldn't you be a bit pissed?

She told me she didn't want kids or to get married for years down the line.  couple months into the relationship and she was pressuring me into both of those things. how she  wanted to start having a kid after the new year etc.

She lied, I was angry and resented her for that so I treated her like shit.

booty needs to  stfu
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Scott on October 19, 2014, 08:51:19 PM
I know you mean well CR but the idiots can't hurt me.

If I may?

The surest way to prevent emotional injury is to not allow a scorpion close enough to sting your heart.  I am not certain I am making sense here but I am trying.

Be well, young lady.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 08:52:50 PM
hear me out   here groink, if some chick lied to you about what her true intentions were when you started dating her   just to get in a relationship with you wouldn't you be a bit pissed?

She told me she didn't want kids or to get married for years down the line.  couple months into the relationship and she was pressuring me into both of those things. how she  wanted to start having a kid after the new year etc.

She lied, I was angry and resented her for that so I treated her like shit.

booty needs to  stfu
Maybe she changed her mind? Love makes you throw that all out the window
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: booty on October 19, 2014, 08:54:10 PM
If I may?

The surest way to prevent emotional injury is to not allow a scorpion close enough to sting your heart.  I am not certain I am making sense here but I am trying.

Be well, young lady.
I always have time for you! Thank you
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 19, 2014, 11:42:32 PM
.    Look man your always defending women ...nobody  made her date me.

Nobody made her date you??

What sort of a response is that?
You sound like one of the stuffy judges who say that girls are asking to be raped if they wear short skirts.

Im certain you are just a troll account, nobody could be as dumb as you in real life.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Sophus on October 20, 2014, 02:22:47 AM
Still waiting for that 11,0sec 100m run of yours
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 20, 2014, 02:28:44 AM
Haha.


Doesnt flint need cialis or viagra in order to even have sex.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 20, 2014, 03:05:26 AM
hear me out   here groink, if some chick lied to you about what her true intentions were when you started dating her   just to get in a relationship with you wouldn't you be a bit pissed?

She told me she didn't want kids or to get married for years down the line.  couple months into the relationship and she was pressuring me into both of those things. how she  wanted to start having a kid after the new year etc.

She lied, I was angry and resented her for that so I treated her like shit.

booty needs to  stfu

right out of the box I'll say I think you need to grow up a little. you really seem to get too wrapped up in these girls pretty fast, and are talking about marriage and children with someone you really don't know all that well.  and it's not just you, these girls you find are right there with you.

I personally think, from what I know of you..you aren't ready for a serious relationship.  get a career, get MONEY,,,and then you won't have to get defensive and bite some chicks head off because she wants flowers.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 20, 2014, 04:28:00 AM
 do things for yourself that u might not have been able to do when u where with her helps alot.yes lifting and stuff like MMA help especially when groups r involved cause u meet new freinds and dont have time to dwell on THINGS U CANT CONTROL. those last 4 words sum it all up pretty much though,u cant control what shes doing,only what u r doing,faster a person accepts that the faster that feeling goes away
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 20, 2014, 04:32:02 AM
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.

LOL, you don't have a single clue about the concept of ego.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 20, 2014, 04:45:42 AM
Haha.


Doesnt flint need cialis or viagra in order to even have sex.
i've tried it and it raellly doesnt enhance erections like i hoped

i guess it works only for impotence
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 20, 2014, 04:45:42 AM
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.

my theory is its better to do what u did n dump her than try to make it work and get more involved and get your heart ripped out of your chest. u did the right thing man,fuck all those bitches man there are tons of them all over the place so dont settle for anything that u r not 100% happy with
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: irishdave on October 20, 2014, 05:30:02 AM
I fucked around on an ex constantly and she always took me back. It was a long distance thing and now I ran back to her again and she won't take me back this time. It's a horrible feeling, I always had such a power over her but I lost it now. She finally said she didn't love me anymore and if I'm to be totally honest with myself I fell out of love with her too. Still doesn't make me feel good though.
The truth is if I really wanted her I wouldn't have constantly cheated on her and wanted her to piss off after 2-3 days together. She wasn't enough for me then so why would she be enough now?
Yeah, it sucks man but you'll get over it, we all do eventually. Plenty more other bitches out there it's just you don't want anyone else to have her. You want to have your cake and eat it like all getbiggers

edit: I feel so much guilt for the things I've said and done as well. I mean I was texting another girl in the middle of the night while she was in bed with me. The texts were about how good the sex was. She found the texts while I was in the shower the next day (I forgot to lock my phone) and came into the bathroom and showed me the phone...and I STILL managed to get her to not leave me. I've done other shit too...god I'm a prick. I'm not gonna cheat a gf anymore.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 20, 2014, 06:54:52 AM
Ummmmmmmmmmmm ... everyone here is still callin Flint's ex a bitch .... and I'm still failing to see what she did wrong ? She wanted love and respect. What's the problem ??
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 20, 2014, 07:16:39 AM
Ummmmmmmmmmmm ... everyone here is still callin Flint's ex a bitch .... and I'm still failing to see what she did wrong ? She wanted love and respect. What's the problem ??
Lot of juveniles on this forum.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on October 20, 2014, 07:18:11 AM
Ease up on the clomid.  You last few threads sound like a whiny bitch PMSing
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 20, 2014, 07:27:40 AM
Lot of juveniles on this forum.

Definitely. She did nothing wrong here.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 20, 2014, 07:31:37 AM
Definitely. She did nothing wrong here.
I dont think the story is anything like flintstones claims it to be.
Girl got a lucky escape.

Dude is an aggressive bully with a hygiene problem.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Wolfox on October 20, 2014, 08:18:48 AM
Flin portrays himself like a douche bag bully when it comes to women - but his epersona is nothing of the sort. Flin is in touch with his feelings and is a good guy on getbig. Weird.

Flin, maybe try being more like the get bigger you are in the real world.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Nirvana on October 20, 2014, 08:29:39 AM
Getting a new chick to get you over the last can be like quitting smoking only to start chewing tobacco.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 20, 2014, 08:34:35 AM
ive been played out afew times in my day my broads, my problem was i always got attached to easy then when we split up i was crushed man,couldnt sleep or eat,didnt want to listen to the radio in fear of hearing songs that reminded me of her,wouldnt go near her house afraid id see her with other guy ect. its hard sometimes when u break up with a person u really cared about,alot of guys try to play it off and act like it dont bother them but we r all human and feel the same bullshit pain,some just hide it better than others.its part of life and u r very very lucky if u never been hurt before in a relationship,i guess some people get lucky n dont get burned like i did
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 20, 2014, 09:47:06 AM
ive been played out afew times in my day my broads, my problem was i always got attached to easy then when we split up i was crushed man,couldnt sleep or eat,didnt want to listen to the radio in fear of hearing songs that reminded me of her,wouldnt go near her house afraid id see her with other guy ect. its hard sometimes when u break up with a person u really cared about,alot of guys try to play it off and act like it dont bother them but we r all human and feel the same bullshit pain,some just hide it better than others.its part of life and u r very very lucky if u never been hurt before in a relationship,i guess some people get lucky n dont get burned like i did

Nah, I been there. Everything you wrote is true. I'm 30 now, so I tend to give less of a shit ( compared to when I was 20 or so ). Still sucks though. And does hurt. Just split with my ex about a month or so ago.  :/
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: stavios on October 20, 2014, 09:58:03 AM
bordeline personality disorder

that's what you come across. No offense it's not at insult but it's something you'll have to deal with
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 20, 2014, 12:35:13 PM
Getting a new chick to get you over the last can be like quitting smoking only to start chewing tobacco.

You can live without a lip, cant live without a lung.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 20, 2014, 12:36:20 PM
ive been played out afew times in my day my broads, my problem was i always got attached to easy then when we split up i was crushed man,couldnt sleep or eat,didnt want to listen to the radio in fear of hearing songs that reminded me of her,wouldnt go near her house afraid id see her with other guy ect. its hard sometimes when u break up with a person u really cared about,alot of guys try to play it off and act like it dont bother them but we r all human and feel the same bullshit pain,some just hide it better than others.its part of life and u r very very lucky if u never been hurt before in a relationship,i guess some people get lucky n dont get burned like i did

The reason women get over breakups so much quicker than men is cause they go and bitch to their friends about it where us guys are afraid of looking like pussies to our friends in real life...

Every young chick unless she's  extremely secure with herself (which is rare)  monkey branches! They always have plan B man available...  nothing scares a young girl  more than the idea of being  alone....most of us guys don't bother with that shit but I think we should.

If you meet a chick and she has a history of  monkey branching  and dumping guys after a few months  I think you just have to accept the fact that   you only have 3-6 months of being the top  alpha....its only a matter of time before  she gets bored and mr.  new guy comes along. No point in staying because
1. she's going to come back anyways
2. if you do stay   its going to be an uphill battle ....no matter how  physically superior you may be to mr. new guy  he has the advantage of being mr. new guy and   so much of sexual attraction is  just that novelty.  
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 20, 2014, 01:10:49 PM
The reason women get over breakups so much quicker than men is cause they go and bitch to their friends about it where us guys are afraid of looking like pussies to our friends in real life...

Every young chick unless she's  extremely secure with herself (which is rare)  monkey branches! They always have plan B man available...  nothing scares a young girl  more than the idea of being  alone....most of us guys don't bother with that shit but I think we should.

If you meet a chick and she has a history of  monkey branching  and dumping guys after a few months  I think you just have to accept the fact that   you only have 3-6 months of being the top  alpha....its only a matter of time before  she gets bored and mr.  new guy comes along. No point in staying because
1. she's going to come back anyways
2. if you do stay   its going to be an uphill battle ....no matter how  physically superior you may be to mr. new guy  he has the advantage of being mr. new guy and   so much of sexual attraction is  just that novelty.  

You are officially getbigs stupidest poster.
That post is so full of wrong I dont know where to start, in fact, Im not going to.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 20, 2014, 01:17:23 PM
The reason women get over breakups so much quicker than men is cause they go and bitch to their friends about it where us guys are afraid of looking like pussies to our friends in real life...

Every young chick unless she's  extremely secure with herself (which is rare)  monkey branches! They always have plan B man available...  nothing scares a young girl  more than the idea of being  alone....most of us guys don't bother with that shit but I think we should.

If you meet a chick and she has a history of  monkey branching  and dumping guys after a few months  I think you just have to accept the fact that   you only have 3-6 months of being the top  alpha....its only a matter of time before  she gets bored and mr.  new guy comes along. No point in staying because
1. she's going to come back anyways
2. if you do stay   its going to be an uphill battle ....no matter how  physically superior you may be to mr. new guy  he has the advantage of being mr. new guy and   so much of sexual attraction is  just that novelty.  

maybe you really are only 21.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 20, 2014, 01:21:59 PM
maybe you really are only 21.
Nah..he talks about months and years like a much older person, when you are under 21, months and years last much longer and are more specific.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 20, 2014, 01:23:15 PM
Nah..he talks about months and years like a much older person, when you are under 21, months and years last much longer and are more specific.

Yes. True.


The thought of him being older than early 20's conflicts with the fact that he has the mindset/mentality of a 19-20 year old doofus.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 20, 2014, 01:45:16 PM
Yes. True.


The thought of him being older than early 20's conflicts with the fact that he has the mindset/mentality of a 19-20 year old doofus.
Agreed
(http://www.moviemail.com/images/large/51650_of-mice-and-men-1.jpg)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: SquidVicious on October 20, 2014, 01:54:42 PM
Penis enlargement is the answer, my friend.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 20, 2014, 02:13:21 PM
Penis enlargement is the answer, my friend.

i knew i was always coming up SHORT in my relationships
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Scott on October 20, 2014, 02:29:10 PM
Mr. Flintstones, the best way for you to get on with  your life is to actually get a life. 

Become a yes man to the good things life has to offer. 
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 20, 2014, 02:36:27 PM
 ;D
Mr. Flintstones, the best way for you to get on with  your life is to actually get a life. 

Become a yes man to the good things life has to offer. 

in all fairness even people who have a good life get mixed up in bad relationships sometime,u just never can tell about a women cause they r great actors and can fool the best of us for a little while
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Scott on October 20, 2014, 02:45:37 PM
;D
in all fairness even people who have a good life get mixed up in bad relationships sometime,u just never can tell about a women cause they r great actors and can fool the best of us for a little while

True.  But just because one may be miserable does not meant that they cannot be happy at some point in their life.   ;D

There is someone for everyone.  It may not be the person you want or even the person you think it could be, but it will be the person you need and who  needs you.

Be well.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 20, 2014, 02:47:04 PM
right out of the box I'll say I think you need to grow up a little. you really seem to get too wrapped up in these girls pretty fast, and are talking about marriage and children with someone you really don't know all that well.  and it's not just you, these girls you find are right there with you.

I personally think, from what I know of you..you aren't ready for a serious relationship.  get a career, get MONEY,,,and then you won't have to get defensive and bite some chicks head off because she wants flowers.

Yeah I hear you....it was my fault for going for a chick so  insecure.

Throughout the entire relationship, every other day it seemed like she would tell me about how some  guy hit on her. At the gas station, at the mall, any time  I wasn't around.  Im thinking to myself " why  the fuck  do  I need to know every time a guy hits on you when Im 25 miles away  "  

And If it wasn't that it was telling me about some   ex boyfriend hitting her up  bothering  her. .  I asked her to arrange something in person so I could meet the ex her excuse was that she was afraid with my temper I was gonna get charged with assault and ahe didn't wanna see me go to jail...

well why tell me in the first place if your not going to let me do anything about it?  

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 20, 2014, 02:50:50 PM
Yeah I hear you....it was my fault for going for a chick so  insecure.

Throughout the entire relationship, every other day it seemed like she would tell me about how some  guy hit on her. At the gas station, at the mall, any time  I wasn't around.  Im thinking to myself " why  the fuck  do  I need to know every time a guy hits on you when Im 25 miles away  "  

And If it wasn't that it was telling me about some   ex boyfriend hitting her up  bothering  her. .  I asked her to arrange something in person so I could meet the ex her excuse was that she was afraid with my temper I was gonna get charged with assault and ahe didn't wanna see me go to jail...

well why tell me in the first place if your not going to let me do anything about it?  



fuck that shit man im glad u got rid of her,she sounds like a teenage drama queen
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Waller on October 20, 2014, 02:52:26 PM
Yeah I hear you....it was my fault for going for a chick so  insecure.

Throughout the entire relationship, every other day it seemed like she would tell me about how some  guy hit on her. At the gas station, at the mall, any time  I wasn't around.  Im thinking to myself " why  the fuck  do  I need to know every time a guy hits on you when Im 25 miles away  "  

And If it wasn't that it was telling me about some   ex boyfriend hitting her up  bothering  her. .  I asked her to arrange something in person so I could meet the ex her excuse was that she was afraid with my temper I was gonna get charged with assault and ahe didn't wanna see me go to jail...

well why tell me in the first place if your not going to let me do anything about it?  



Maybe she just desperately wanted you to give a shit.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: D-Cord on October 20, 2014, 04:52:04 PM
It would seem you need some spiritual guidance.  Perhaps if you invited angels into your life...they're already there, just waiting for you to respond.

The words of Bishop Peter Elliott

(http://www.cam.org.au/portals/0/Images/Logos/bishopelliott.jpg) 
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 21, 2014, 04:48:19 AM
what you think a lion does when his ex is with another guy?


cry on getbig about it ?


no i think we all know what a lion would do

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 21, 2014, 04:52:46 AM
what you think a lion does when his ex is with another guy?


cry on getbig about it ?


no i think we all know what a lion would do



"so without exception i am now dreaming every night of baby mama as of late (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=553158.0)" - A'halo
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 21, 2014, 04:54:18 AM
Yeah I hear you....it was my fault for going for a chick so  insecure.
Throughout the entire relationship, every other day it seemed like she would tell me about how some  guy hit on her. At the gas station, at the mall, any time  I wasn't around.  Im thinking to myself " why  the fuck  do  I need to know every time a guy hits on you when Im 25 miles away  "  

And If it wasn't that it was telling me about some   ex boyfriend hitting her up  bothering  her. .  I asked her to arrange something in person so I could meet the ex her excuse was that she was afraid with my temper I was gonna get charged with assault and ahe didn't wanna see me go to jail...

well why tell me in the first place if your not going to let me do anything about it?  



Im fairly sure that is your limit, any chick with her head screwed on is going to give you a wide berth.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 21, 2014, 04:54:42 AM
"so without exception i am now dreaming every night of baby mama as of late (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=553158.0)" - A'halo
i'm not a lion

i'm a white twink on sterons
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 21, 2014, 07:14:44 AM
i'm not a lion

i'm a white twink on sterons

"Know  thyself" ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 21, 2014, 07:38:45 AM
"Know  thyself" ;D

A women can be very attractive, but once you've eaten out her asshole you have a different perspective on her person.

I hope this is helpful to the viewers of this thread.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 21, 2014, 07:44:44 AM
Women in general are whores. Treat them as such. Your welcome.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Svengoolie on October 21, 2014, 08:51:31 AM
Some wise words can be found here

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 21, 2014, 09:59:34 AM
A women can be very attractive, but once you've eaten out her asshole you have a different perspective on her person.

I hope this is helpful to the viewers of this thread.

Written by the modern day philosopher Hulkotronus 8)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 21, 2014, 11:23:21 AM
Some wise words can be found here


it started getting real weird when he started talking about threesomes are healthy

turned it off and shake my head


why have a woman in the first place then and not just fuck some whore you dont care for
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Howard on October 21, 2014, 11:28:46 AM
.    Egos at an all time low if anything. Not like I dumped her for some better chick and she was in tears...dumped her because I knew I had lost her and she was acting shady.

Been divorced 3x ad it never was easy. Time heals all wounds of this kind.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Svengoolie on October 21, 2014, 11:30:25 AM
Yeah that part was a little  ???  but at the same time I almost get what he was saying, but it comes from an extremely cynical view of women imo. He called it 'taking the red pill'. I understood it as him basically saying they're all going to cheat at some point so you should just build up the appropriate callouses, so to speak.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 21, 2014, 11:38:50 AM
most guys cheat on their wife at one point too

he will claim it's her fault

she will do the same

at the end of the day it's all just coolidge effect in action and pathetic humans trying to rationalize their animalistic behavioral "shortcomings"
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 22, 2014, 04:14:00 PM
 this shit cracked me up


(http://i.imgur.com/XIWMEVT.jpg) (http://lunapic.com>)

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: drmarkp on October 22, 2014, 08:26:43 PM
Women in general are whores. Treat them as such. Your welcome.

My dad used to say that 95% of women are potential prostitutes, and the other 5 % are.. Nuff said..
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 22, 2014, 09:44:55 PM
My dad used to say that 95% of women are potential prostitutes, and the other 5 % are.. Nuff said..

i agree
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Primemuscle on October 22, 2014, 10:23:37 PM
My dad used to say that 95% of women are potential prostitutes, and the other 5 % are.. Nuff said..

Your dad had a very low opinion of women. -Hope you discovered that he was wrong.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 22, 2014, 10:28:40 PM
Your dad had a very low opinion of women. -Hope you discovered that he was wrong.

Oh sure prime, just call his dad a fag.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Primemuscle on October 22, 2014, 11:09:41 PM
Oh sure prime, just call his dad a fag.

Is that what I did? I don't think so.

Most fags have a fairly high opinion of women, which is why women flock to gay guys.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: TEH boob on October 22, 2014, 11:42:53 PM
Is that what I did? I don't think so.

Most fags have a fairly high opinion of women, which is why women flock to gay guys.

I <3 gay guyz
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: EastCoastChick on October 22, 2014, 11:55:56 PM
I <3 gay guyz

x2
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 23, 2014, 12:03:50 AM
x2

I <3 gay guyz

I'm a homosexual. Super gay. Lets go swimwear shopping, thx.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Primemuscle on October 23, 2014, 12:17:39 AM
I'm a homosexual. Super gay. Lets go swimwear shopping, thx.

Liar!  ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 23, 2014, 03:51:35 AM
I'm a homosexual. Super gay. Lets go swimwear shopping, thx.

I lived in Boston's South End (all homo) for two years, does that count?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Skorp1o on October 23, 2014, 04:11:04 AM
I've been through many break ups, here's my advice to you:

(http://www.alcoholic.org/wp-content/uploads/cocaine-and-alcohol.jpg)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 23, 2014, 04:32:24 AM
I've been through many break ups, here's my advice to you:

(http://www.alcoholic.org/wp-content/uploads/cocaine-and-alcohol.jpg)
ah yes it is true

when the pussy is gold the breakup is hell
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 24, 2014, 12:31:02 AM
I lived in Boston's South End (all homo) for two years, does that count?

It depends... Did you get to know of of the locals personally?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 24, 2014, 04:44:18 AM
It depends... Did you get to know of of the locals personally?

I was always being asked to come move furniture around  ???
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 24, 2014, 04:48:16 AM
I've been through many break ups, here's my advice to you:

(http://www.alcoholic.org/wp-content/uploads/cocaine-and-alcohol.jpg)

oh the temptations

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Scott on October 24, 2014, 07:18:24 AM
I was always being asked to come move furniture around  ???

Pushing someon's stool in doesn't count, ya know.   ;D

Okay...That was uncalled for because who in their right mind would ax fo' dat.  ;)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: falco on October 24, 2014, 07:50:06 AM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???

I couldn't care less. Move on.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: CalvinH on October 24, 2014, 07:57:22 AM
I've been through many break ups, here's my advice to you:

(http://www.alcoholic.org/wp-content/uploads/cocaine-and-alcohol.jpg)



Nice pic but missing the hookers and test.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Natural Man on October 24, 2014, 11:54:30 AM
flinstones strikes me as a guy who never had sex with anyone before this woman, probably his first love. Probably is convinced he will never find anyone else for some reasons; maybe he s ugly and was lucky this whore accepted him for a while.
Move the fuck on, your relationship if real looked like shit anyway.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 24, 2014, 05:18:27 PM
flinstones strikes me as a guy who never had sex with anyone before this woman, probably his first love. Probably is convinced he will never find anyone else for some reasons; maybe he s ugly and was lucky this whore accepted him for a while.
Move the fuck on, your relationship if real looked like shit anyway.
lol ;D


Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Scott on October 24, 2014, 08:44:15 PM
Flintstones my friend, you need to follow in the footsteps of another stone...Keith Stone.    Grow a mullet and a pair and you too will soon be telling the wenches, "Hold my stones!"

Keep the faith, baby.  ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Pray_4_War on October 24, 2014, 11:08:56 PM
Some wise words can be found here



Fucking Epic.

Patrice O'Neal (peace be upon him) was the fucking man.  I saw him live once years ago and he was so fucking good.  RIP brother.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 25, 2014, 04:02:19 AM
Figure Id give an update. She tried coming back thursday night. Pretty much told her Im over it before she could talk  and she acted really offended and shit and denied it.

Just texted me this

"Can you send me those fishnets I wanted to wear them for halloween. Or have you already given them away to your new bitch?"

I didn't respond, feeling great the past two days and have some nice plates lined up. .  I think she's trying to find an excuse to talk to me, but I feel like if I say anything its only gonna validate her ego by showing her that I still care. But at the same time I  want to keep her as an orbiter for ego..

.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: D-Cord on October 25, 2014, 04:46:56 AM
We have excellent resources for trouble couples in our neck of the woods.

http://www.relationships.org.au/

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 04:58:47 AM
Figure Id give an update. She tried coming back thursday night. Pretty much told her Im over it before she could talk  and she acted really offended and shit and denied it.

Just texted me this

"Can you send me those fishnets I wanted to wear them for halloween. Or have you already given them away to your new bitch?"

I didn't respond, feeling great the past two days and have some nice plates lined up. .  I think she's trying to find an excuse to talk to me, but I feel like if I say anything its only gonna validate her ego by showing her that I still care. But at the same time I  want to keep her as an orbiter for ego..



she let another man cum in her pussy...recently. licked his balls, maybe his asshole too. he called her a slut and she said yes I'm your slut

keep that thought in your head, and don't make the same mistake twice with this girl.

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Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 25, 2014, 05:16:43 AM
yea man just stay away from her,u know what r downfall is as men?its sex,we get horny than give in to the bitch and now we r back to square one in the nightmare. id rather just jerkoff and go to bed than go thru that shit with her again if i was u,be strong man
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 05:28:38 AM
My dad used to say that 95% of women are potential prostitutes, and the other 5 % are.. Nuff said..
your dad is ..I am trying to be respectful.. Err

Growing up with such "role model" I guess that was his opinion of your mom as well. How did your relationships turn out?

Flintstones, you need to stop dude for a while at least. Try to look at yourself and see what is it about you that attracts these types of women? You need to grow your self esteem and do something constructive. Later, if your taste does not change in themeantime,you can fuck all the mall rats you want.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: CalvinH on October 25, 2014, 05:34:28 AM
your dad is ..I am trying to be respectful.. Err

Growing up with such "role model" I guess that was his opinion of your mom as well. How did your relationships turn out?

Flintstones, you need to stop dude for a while at least. Try to look at yourself and see what is it about you that attracts these types of women? You need to grow your self esteem and do something constructive. Later, if your taste does not change in themeantime,you can fuck all the mall rats you want.



Hey sev, how ya been ???
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 05:50:13 AM


she let another man cum in her pussy...recently. licked his balls, maybe his asshole too. he called her a slut and she said yes I'm your slut

keep that thought in your head, and don't make the same mistake twice with this girl.

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You sound as old as Flintstones

You are aware that almost all girls have had other cocks in their mouths/fannys and asses dont you?

Grow the fuck up you idiot, you are 50 ffs.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 05:57:07 AM


Hey sev, how ya been ???
busy training people and diets and stuff.. Looking at opening a small personal training gym and have some time for myself to write and do other things Like lifting weights  ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: CalvinH on October 25, 2014, 06:02:10 AM
busy training people and diets and stuff.. Looking at opening a small personal training gym and have some time for myself to write and do other things Like lifting weights  ;D


Eh weights will always be there when you need them....but time for yourself is priceless....I've started to write but always get distracted :-\
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 06:06:31 AM

Eh weights will always be there when you need them....but time for yourself is priceless....I've started to write but always get distracted :-\
do it.. I personally cannot just come home at 9-10 pm and write or whenever I have a break. I need to be alone and just go by feel. Need to finish 3 books so I am kind of slacking. Gigantic event should write as well, that guy is talented
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: CalvinH on October 25, 2014, 06:27:38 AM
do it.. I personally cannot just come home at 9-10 pm and write or whenever I have a break. I need to be alone and just go by feel. Need to finish 3 books so I am kind of slacking. Gigantic event should write as well, that guy is talented


Do you write on a computer or old school paper and pen?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 06:29:21 AM

Do you write on a computer or old school paper and pen?
the excess skin cut from his clients after they have lost weight.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: CalvinH on October 25, 2014, 06:38:20 AM
the excess skin cut from his clients after they have lost weight.

Short story or long novel ??? ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 06:48:36 AM
You sound as old as Flintstones

You are aware that almost all girls have had other cocks in their mouths/fannys and asses dont you?

Grow the fuck up you idiot, you are 50 ffs.




 another hypocrisy meter....shattered.

 I have to see if they have an "EXTREME BULLSHITTER" model or something...this is outta hand
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 06:53:22 AM
do it.. I personally cannot just come home at 9-10 pm and write or whenever I have a break. I need to be alone and just go by feel. Need to finish 3 books so I am kind of slacking. Gigantic event should write as well, that guy is talented


Ive been published.

Thank you,.

Not the same without you around dude...hope everything is going gpood,.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 07:11:43 AM

Ive been published.

Thank you,.

Not the same without you around dude...hope everything is going gpood,.



Fuckin hell...
Multi talented guys abound , actors published writers, company directors, electrical engineers installing multi million pound installations (thats just Groink)

Yet they choose to spend their time arguing on a bodybuilding forum.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 07:27:33 AM
Fuckin hell...
Multi talented guys abound , actors published writers, company directors, electrical engineers installing multi million pound installations (thats just Groink)

Yet they choose to spend their time arguing on a bodybuilding forum.

hey don't get mad at me because you don't like your job.

I did a job for a famous person...it happens. wasn't the first time. one of my big accounts was the Sony building in Midtown, and their recording studio.  I saw famous people all the time. rode in an elevator with Al Pacino. just me and him.  I had no clue what to say

you would think I  said I swam the pacific ocean in handcuffs the way you reacted

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 07:29:56 AM
hey don't get mad at me because you don't like your job.

I did a job for a famous person...it happens. wasn't the first time. one of my big accounts was the Sony building in Midtown, and their recording studio.  I saw famous people all the time. rode in an elevator with Al Pacino. just me and him.  I had no clue what to say

you would think I  said I swam the pacific ocean in handcuffs the way you reacted



Thats lift etiquette, nobody ever says anything, everyone just looks at the numbers on the panel.

What book did you write, I would like to read it, is it on Amazon?
Serious.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 07:32:50 AM
Thats lift etiquette, nobody ever says anything, everyone just looks at the numbers on the panel.

What book did you write, I would like to read it, is it on Amazon?
Serious.

I always have to say something.

it's complicated with the book, best way i can put it...not lying.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 07:34:43 AM
I'll put it to you like this..it's not a book, it's dialogue
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 07:36:00 AM
i'm starting to realize porn is just more practical than these stupid whores
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: D.O.A. on October 25, 2014, 07:36:38 AM
the excess skin cut from his clients after they have lost weight.
:D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 07:37:17 AM
I'll put it to you like this..it's not a book, it's dialogue
Is it possible that I could listen to it somewhere?

Or are you using the word 'publish' in the legal sense?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cutlet767 on October 25, 2014, 07:42:26 AM
You only care because you loved your ex on some level. Just for that alone you should consider shooting yourself.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 07:45:01 AM
it's all about quality of the sex you had with one whore

nothing more nothing less


"love "  ::)


i always miss baby mama because sex was best ever with her


proof?

after i masturbate i dont give one or two shit about her


it's only after sperm reserve bild up the missing and "caring" start


 ::)


only solution is get one whore with golden pussy

or watch porn a lot
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cutlet767 on October 25, 2014, 08:08:39 AM
it's all about quality of the sex you had with one whore

nothing more nothing less


"love "  ::)


i always miss baby mama because sex was best ever with her


proof?

after i masturbate i dont give one or two shit about her


it's only after sperm reserve bild up the missing and "caring" start


 ::)


only solution is get one whore with golden pussy

or watch porn a lot

This is true lol
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 08:19:47 AM
your dad is ..I am trying to be respectful.. Err

Oh, come on! You mean to tell me that most women don't use sex as a means to something else at least once? Really? Really?

We men have one goal when it comes to sex: To ejaculate. And we always do. You'll never hear a man say "she never made me orgasm". We always do. If we don't, the sex session will come to a halt 1-2 minutes into it. Women, despite having two erogenous areas solely dedicated for sexual enjoyment, "can't seem" to get themselves to orgasm a lot more than they should. Why? Because they see sex as an something to control. Why? Because they want to exchange it for something else. In other words, prostitution.

There's a town in Spain, Magaluf (http://metro.co.uk/2014/07/03/british-party-girl-gives-oral-sex-to-24-men-in-magaluf-for-a-2-bottle-of-cava-4785959/), where the business owners there picked up on this primitive (slut) behavior and now use it as currency. Oral sex with two men = drinks for head-giver and her friends. Sex = dinner and a round of drinks. And so on and on.

Worry not though, for 95% of all these tough "alpha" males that populate Getbig are all bark and no bite. Meaning they will not do what they say ought to be done.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 25, 2014, 08:22:59 AM
to be honest ive gotten over women that i really loved in about 6 months or less,i guess i realized i have no choice but to stop caring n go on with my life. shit hurts but life is full of hurts and dissapointments.if a person cant accept that they r in for 1 tough ride
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 08:25:03 AM
Figure Id give an update. She tried coming back thursday night. Pretty much told her Im over it before she could talk  and she acted really offended and shit and denied it.

Just texted me this

"Can you send me those fishnets I wanted to wear them for halloween. Or have you already given them away to your new bitch?"

I didn't respond, feeling great the past two days and have some nice plates lined up. .  I think she's trying to find an excuse to talk to me, but I feel like if I say anything its only gonna validate her ego by showing her that I still care. But at the same time I  want to keep her as an orbiter for ego..

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In all seriousness, dump her.

Stop all communication with her and move on.

The faster you get there the better off you will be.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 08:29:14 AM
to be honest ive gotten over women that i really loved in about 6 months or less,i guess i realized i have no choice but to stop caring n go on with my life. shit hurts but life is full of hurts and dissapointments.if a person cant accept that they r in for 1 tough ride

Dumping a person, or being dumped, is a small bump in a person's life. You need to put everything in perspective and move on immediately if your problem is only moving on.

No one should be that important in someone else's life.

I know of people whose life took a turn for the infinitely better when they got separated and now, in their late 50s, live a life I, in my 40s, only wished for myself. And a heck of a lot more sex, I tell you that.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 25, 2014, 08:31:02 AM
Dumping a person, or being dumped, is a small bump in a person's life. You need to put everything in perspective and move on immediately if your problem is only moving on.

No one should be that important in someone else's life.

I know of people whose life took a turn for the infinitely better when they got separated and now, in their late 50s, live a life I, in my 40s, only wished for myself. And a heck of a lot more sex, I tell you that.

thats true, i agree
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 08:31:35 AM
Dumping a person, or being dumped, is a small bump in a person's life. You need to put everything in perspective and move on immediately if your problem is only moving on.

No one should be that important in someone else's life.

I know of people whose life took a turn for the infinitely better when they got separated and now, in their late 50s, live a life I, in my 40s, only wished for myself. And a heck of a lot more sex, I tell you that.

You still haven't got over her have you?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 08:33:16 AM
Growing up with such "role model" I guess that was his opinion of your mom as well. How did your relationships turn out?

My (divorced) uncle said it best:"All the hard emotional work all the females in my family invested in me for the 45 years I've been on this earth, and all the respect that comes with it, this bitch (his ex-wife) obliterated it in less than a year".
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 25, 2014, 08:35:48 AM
My bet is that we won't hear again from Flint for 1-2 months, and then he will start another whine thread where he blames another low life bitch/milf for his miserable life ::)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 08:37:20 AM
You still haven't got over her have you?

I'm still married "to her".
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 08:40:22 AM
My bet is that we won't hear again from Flint for 1-2 months, and then he will start another whine thread where he blames another low life bitch/milf for his miserable life ::)

Dude, it's good that he throws it out there instead of taking it on his co-workers or the COPS. Or worse, her.

His indecision, to me, tells me he grew up around women. Too much respect for them.

He sounds as though he can't tell the difference between what a woman says and she really wants to say.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 25, 2014, 08:40:31 AM
lately the boards have been having pretty good conversations with people that r cool and knowledgable. im not the sharpest guy out there but i try to learn things from other peoples life experiances,im 49 yrs old and im still learning things about life
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 08:42:06 AM
My bet is that we won't hear again from Flint for 1-2 months when he will be still 21, and then he will start another whine thread where he blames another low life bitch/milf for his miserable life ::)

fixed
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 25, 2014, 09:10:21 AM
fixed

LOLLLLL ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 25, 2014, 09:15:23 AM
We finally hear from Flintstones ex-gf...

http://i.imgur.com/Ok3pLZM.jpg
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 09:17:29 AM
to be honest ive gotten over women that i really loved in about 6 months or less,i guess i realized i have no choice but to stop caring n go on with my life. shit hurts but life is full of hurts and dissapointments.if a person cant accept that they r in for 1 tough ride
you right bro

this is what RDC is trying to say

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Sokolsky on October 25, 2014, 09:29:07 AM
We finally hear from Flintstones ex-gf...

http://i.imgur.com/Ok3pLZM.jpg

That's one twisted bitch...

Just proves my friends point that sooner or later every woman is going to turn out like a psychotic bitch one way or the other.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 25, 2014, 09:45:54 AM
We finally hear from Flintstones ex-gf...

http://i.imgur.com/Ok3pLZM.jpg

Ugh...LOL
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: blackbart12090 on October 25, 2014, 09:47:01 AM
We finally hear from Flintstones ex-gf...

http://i.imgur.com/Ok3pLZM.jpg

That ain't it.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: ChopperRider on October 25, 2014, 09:48:22 AM
That ain't it.

I predict the upside down coffee cup challenge for this gimmick in the near future.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 11:11:49 AM
That's one twisted bitch...

Just proves my friends point that sooner or later every woman is going to turn out like a psychotic bitch one way or the other.

Sooner or later? How about once a month every frigging month!

You're right though, that is one twisted teenager! She's going to ruin a lot of people's lives, including her own.

 ;D ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: blackbart12090 on October 25, 2014, 11:20:48 AM
I predict the upside down coffee cup challenge for this gimmick in the near future.

Woohoo!  ;D Jumps in a pool of hot coffee!
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 11:46:15 AM

Do you write on a computer or old school paper and pen?
I prefer handwriting but it would mean retyping on a computer so laptop it is.. I do prefer writing in english as it comes more natural to me. In romanian you need to type with diacrytics so it's slower and hinders the thinking process. I think faster than I write so I prefer dictating ideally.. gotta find a hot secretary  ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 11:50:05 AM
Oh, come on! You mean to tell me that most women don't use sex as a means to something else at least once? Really? Really?

We men have one goal when it comes to sex: To ejaculate. And we always do. You'll never hear a man say "she never made me orgasm". We always do. If we don't, the sex session will come to a halt 1-2 minutes into it. Women, despite having two erogenous areas solely dedicated for sexual enjoyment, "can't seem" to get themselves to orgasm a lot more than they should. Why? Because they see sex as an something to control. Why? Because they want to exchange it for something else. In other words, prostitution.

There's a town in Spain, Magaluf (http://metro.co.uk/2014/07/03/british-party-girl-gives-oral-sex-to-24-men-in-magaluf-for-a-2-bottle-of-cava-4785959/), where the business owners there picked up on this primitive (slut) behavior and now use it as currency. Oral sex with two men = drinks for head-giver and her friends. Sex = dinner and a round of drinks. And so on and on.

Worry not though, for 95% of all these tough "alpha" males that populate Getbig are all bark and no bite. Meaning they will not do what they say ought to be done.
This might come as a shock to you but, humans are capable of more than eating defecating and ejaculating mindless banter mind you.. it's like saying Rodin was a dude who drew stuff
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 11:58:33 AM
This might come as a shock to you but, humans are capable of more than eating defecating and ejaculating mindless banter mind you.. it's like saying Rodin was a dude who drew stuff

This comment makes as much sense as "in Romanian" or "I think faster than I write".

Say something with content and in context.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: BigRo on October 25, 2014, 12:01:05 PM
I dont need to ejaculate every time I have sex. I dont cum more than 3 times a week.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 12:04:00 PM
I dont need to ejaculate every time I have sex. I dont cum more than 3 times a week.

That's because your balls are the size of two dried up raisins.

Just being honest.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 25, 2014, 12:09:03 PM
it's all about quality of the sex you had with one whore

nothing more nothing less


"love "  ::)


i always miss baby mama because sex was best ever with her


proof?

after i masturbate i dont give one or two shit about her


it's only after sperm reserve bild up the missing and "caring" start


 ::)


only solution is get one whore with golden pussy

or watch porn a lot

 :D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: BigRo on October 25, 2014, 12:12:56 PM
That's because your balls are the size of two dried up raisins.

Just being honest.

no its because I place some value on sexual energy for purposes other than sexual release.Try meditating when depleted and then after a few days abstinence.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 12:21:42 PM
no its because I place some value on sexual energy for purposes other than sexual release.Try meditating when depleted and then after a few days abstinence.

I've tried that stuff years ago and it did not work for me.

For me it's all about the release.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: blackbart12090 on October 25, 2014, 12:24:53 PM
Ofher was intentionally mispelled.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Natural Man on October 25, 2014, 12:35:25 PM
I dont need to ejaculate every time I have sex. I dont cum more than 3 times a week.
hahahahahahahahaha sorry to break it to you but it's called being impotent .

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 01:09:26 PM
This comment makes as much sense as "in Romanian" or "I think faster than I write".

Say something with content and in context.
Ok cockslurper
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Primemuscle on October 25, 2014, 02:34:52 PM
Figure Id give an update. She tried coming back thursday night. Pretty much told her Im over it before she could talk  and she acted really offended and shit and denied it.

Just texted me this

"Can you send me those fishnets I wanted to wear them for halloween. Or have you already given them away to your new bitch?"

I didn't respond, feeling great the past two days and have some nice plates lined up. .  I think she's trying to find an excuse to talk to me, but I feel like if I say anything its only gonna validate her ego by showing her that I still care. But at the same time I  want to keep her as an orbiter for ego..

.



Tell her the fishnet stockings are gone....and say no more. Give her something to think about.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 02:46:24 PM
Tell her the fishnet stockings are gone....and say no more. Give her something to think about.
If he tells her hes wearing them she wont call back.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 02:48:29 PM
has he ever specified why he is so hung up on this whore?

golden pussy?

face?

coins?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: BigRo on October 25, 2014, 02:55:59 PM
hahahahahahahahaha sorry to break it to you but it's called being impotent .



Muhammed Ali would not have sex or release for 6 weeks prior to a fight. Not that I practise self control for fighting. But if I ever came across your pathetic self in real life I would take pleasure in knocking you the fuck out.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 02:57:52 PM
Muhammed Ali would not have sex or release for 6 weeks prior to a fight. Not that I practise self control for fighting. But if I ever came across your pathetic self in real life I would take pleasure in knocking you the fuck out.
on his way to the hospital he would tell paramedics that you are probably raised by a single mother and lacked a fathers attention and support to pursue advanced education and therefore ended up as a laten homosexual drug abuser in a futile attempt to become manly because you are girly and cant survive in a masculin world
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 25, 2014, 03:02:35 PM
on his way to the hospital he would tell paramedics that you are probably raised by a single mother and lacked a fathers attention and support to pursue advanced education and therefore ended up as a laten homosexual drug abuser in a futile attempt to become manly because you are girly and cant survive in a masculin world

Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life. They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 03:03:04 PM
Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life. They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.

I have missed that.  ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 25, 2014, 03:04:55 PM
I have missed that.  ;D

I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 25, 2014, 03:10:43 PM
I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.
Im tempted to send that to someone at work in an e-mail.   ;D
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 03:46:47 PM
I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.
this is easily the second best copy pasta from getbig
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 25, 2014, 05:01:41 PM
drink hard liquor and listen to soothing songs of luv
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 25, 2014, 06:24:32 PM
Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life. They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

What are "society's rules"? And why must "authority" and "hierarchy" be respected?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 25, 2014, 08:31:20 PM
What are "society's rules"? And why must "authority" and "hierarchy" be respected?

(http://sportstrainingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/Upright%20row%202.jpg)
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 25, 2014, 11:46:58 PM
I've tried that stuff years ago and it did not work for me.

For me it's all about the release.
it seems ball slapper that your goal in life is to ejaculate. Quite a lofty goal .. spiritually speaking you are on the same development plane with a salmon.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: forillagorilla on October 26, 2014, 01:02:34 AM
(http://sportstrainingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/Upright%20row%202.jpg)

That's not far from the way I imagine you and the other "getbiggers" look - LOL
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 26, 2014, 07:06:34 AM
it seems ball slapper that your goal in life is to ejaculate. Quite a lofty goal .. spiritually speaking you are on the same development plane with a salmon.

Honestly? If I could Peter North my way through life, I would.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 26, 2014, 07:11:49 AM
(http://sportstrainingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/Upright%20row%202.jpg)

Your picture is worth -1,000 words dude.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 26, 2014, 07:14:48 AM
That's not far from the way I imagine you and the other "getbiggers" look - LOL

Post pics stud.

Show us superior you are.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 26, 2014, 07:19:25 AM
Post pics stud.

Show us superior you are.

Lotsa no-pic studs here on GB these days.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Hulkotron on October 26, 2014, 07:26:04 AM
Post pics stud.

Show us superior you are.

He must be very large.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: _aj_ on October 26, 2014, 07:27:11 AM
He must be very large.

Trainer-large?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: The Scott on October 26, 2014, 10:34:13 AM
Are you over her yet?  Sheeesh... Grow a mullet and a pair and move on, brother.

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 26, 2014, 11:09:39 AM
I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

alot of truth in that staement, i always carry myself humble cause im afraid to go back to prison now that i have a son,15 -20 yrs ago i wouldnt of thought twice about trying to hurt someone really bad by anymeans i could,if that meant biting them in the face when i was on top of them i would,sticking my fingers in their eyes and trying to rip out their insides i would. like in the statement above there r alot of guys who figure they will flip u off or say something disrespectful then when confronted hide behind the old(go ahead and hit me ill sue u) ::)like he said above some dudes just dont care and will try to hurt u real bad and maybe do more than that if u really got the wrong dude. some guys dont have anything to live for and wont think twice about taking a life,they r out there so its best just to respect people and dont mouth off to anyone
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Beefjake on October 26, 2014, 11:20:34 AM
I got laid a week ago by a girl I first had a crush 24years ago!
Felt special as you might imagine.

Now, shes single, with kids and I live with my fiance and our kids.

Still I cant stand the idea that she will propably have other affairs as well! Since
I cant be there everytime she'll feel the need...

Life is.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 26, 2014, 11:23:49 AM
I got laid a week ago by a girl I first had a crush 24years ago!
Felt special as you might imagine.

Now, shes single, with kids and I live with my fiance and our kids.

Still I cant stand the idea that she will propably have other affairs as well! Since
I cant be there everytime she'll feel the need...

Life is.

You are a piece of shit, hope that helps.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: DroppingPlates on October 26, 2014, 11:41:58 AM
Are you over her yet?  Sheeesh... Grow a mullet and a pair and move on, brother.



"They see me whinin, they hatin..."
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Beefjake on October 26, 2014, 12:09:26 PM
You are a piece of shit, hope that helps.
Could argue for a coulpe of more ingredients but it does. Thank you.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Complex Carbs on October 26, 2014, 12:38:48 PM
Why does this shit  bother us even if we  wouldn't take the  girl  back for all the money in the world?  every time I think of her with some other dude I get a sharp knife pain  to my stomach. :P.              But I don't want her  ???
This only bothers losers who realize very late that the girl is not into him anymore.

"I don't want her"

Oh that's irony, matter of fact, she is with some other guy and it is safe to say she does not want you.

Makes sense?
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 26, 2014, 12:40:36 PM
This only bothers losers who realize very late that the girl is not into him anymore.

"I don't want her"

Oh that's irony, matter of fact, she is with some other guy and it is safe to say she does not want you.

Makes sense?
;D ;D ;D :D :D :D


Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Slapper on October 26, 2014, 02:28:50 PM
This only bothers losers who realize very late that the girl is not into him anymore.

"I don't want her"

Oh that's irony, matter of fact, she is with some other guy and it is safe to say she does not want you.

Makes sense?

The main difference is that she was never into him, but played him like a fiddle and made him feel as though he was just about to get a whiff of her poondang. Guy's lacking in the mingling department, there's no doubt about that.

You don't play with people in such a tasteless manner. And if you do, do so knowing there are consequences for which a Facebook apology will not suffice, to some people (male or female).
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: gracie bjj on October 26, 2014, 02:36:45 PM
ive seen people in relationships (marraige) 40 plus years and all of a sudden they both dont love eachother anymore and they divorce,happens fast sometime.i guess what im saying is u never can tell whats on anothers mind in a relationship,sometimes u think everythings going beautiful and u get creamed with bad news overnight,she could wake up n tell u she doesnt love u no more and found someone else,u just never now
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: anabolichalo on October 26, 2014, 02:37:56 PM
ive seen people in relationships (marraige) 40 plus years and all of a sudden they both dont love eachother anymore and they divorce,happens fast sometime.i guess what im saying is u never can tell whats on anothers mind in a relationship,sometimes u think everythings going beautiful and u get creamed with bad news overnight,she could wake up n tell u she doesnt love u no more and found someone else,u just never now
thats why you should never go catabolic for a woman

Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: flinstones1 on October 26, 2014, 02:50:24 PM
The main difference is that she was never into him, but played him like a fiddle and made him feel as though he was just about to get a whiff of her poondang. Guy's lacking in the mingling department, there's no doubt about that.

You don't play with people in such a tasteless manner. And if you do, do so knowing there are consequences for which a Facebook apology will not suffice, to some people (male or female).

haha you obviously didn't even read the thread that's how off you are.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Simple Simon on October 26, 2014, 02:52:23 PM
haha you obviously didn't even read the thread that's how off you are.
He's right, you didnt get a whiff unless you sniffed your fingers

Didnt go down on her,  no wonder she left your sorry ass.
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: no one on October 26, 2014, 07:58:01 PM
You are a piece of shit, hope that helps.

:D fuck i lold
Title: Re: how to get over ex gf being with ofher guys
Post by: Primemuscle on October 26, 2014, 08:21:20 PM
ive seen people in relationships (marraige) 40 plus years and all of a sudden they both dont love eachother anymore and they divorce,happens fast sometime.i guess what im saying is u never can tell whats on anothers mind in a relationship,sometimes u think everythings going beautiful and u get creamed with bad news overnight,she could wake up n tell u she doesnt love u no more and found someone else,u just never now

This happens, but it rarely happens overnight. Usually, someone just puts up with the other person and has actually stopped loving them a long time ago. At some point, they decide they just can't do it anymore and they ask for a divorce.

My mom and stepdad fought the whole time they were together, which was 30 years. I was sure they'd divorce or kill each other someday. This never happened. My stepdad got sick and died when he was 66 years old and my mom was 59. She married her longtime lover when she was 62 and died that same year.