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Title: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: foodie on December 17, 2014, 02:38:48 AM
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: io856 on December 17, 2014, 03:00:31 AM
why do they ALL seek more commitment?
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Julio Ceasar on December 17, 2014, 03:08:42 AM
RELATIONSHIP!

NOT EVEN DR PHIL CAN MAKE IT! That say it all! There is no solution to make it work!

U cant make it, but u can fake it! For the rest of the people to belive u make it!
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: gracie bjj on December 17, 2014, 03:09:34 AM
just act alittle unstable and usually that keeps them at bay awhile, most girls get alittle nervous making a serious commitment with a unstable dude.it worked for me but i didnt have to try to be unstable cause i was naturally fucked up from birth, i always liked to have a broad that just liked to fuck afew days aweek and she had her life and i had mine. but usually they always insist on making it more serious ::)
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: foodie on December 17, 2014, 03:18:27 AM
just act alittle unstable and usually that keeps them at bay awhile, most girls get alittle nervous making a serious commitment with a unstable dude.it worked for me but i didnt have to try to be unstable cause i was naturally fucked up from birth, i always liked to have a broad that just liked to fuck afew days aweek and she had her life and i had mine. but usually they always insist on making it more serious ::)

YES this is what I'm talking about. I like to do my own thing and not have some whiny chick looking for my attention 24/7.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 03:25:40 AM
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: sync pulse on December 17, 2014, 03:51:04 AM
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

Have sterile semen. 
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: wikkedonez on December 17, 2014, 03:55:43 AM
Start banging married chicks...they are already committed to someone else.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: bigmc on December 17, 2014, 03:55:52 AM
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

this is it

women always get attached

they will tell you what you want to hear in the beginning thinking that they can change you

they will also conveniently forget that they just wanted a casual no strings in the beginning

a hot older married woman or a hooker are your two options
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on December 17, 2014, 04:05:56 AM
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

good post.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Big Chiro Flex on December 17, 2014, 05:03:24 AM
Skoorp is a wise man.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Mr Anabolic on December 17, 2014, 06:32:35 AM
Start banging married chicks...they are already committed to someone else.

^^^This. 

Also, make sure they have kids.  Their biological reason for being has already been fulfilled... no pressure on you to be a sperm donor.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: True on December 17, 2014, 07:07:19 AM
Start banging married chicks...they are already committed to someone else.

I swear to "God" I love this Place... ;D
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: thegamechanger on December 17, 2014, 07:09:11 AM
just commit to them all (like 27 of them)
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 07:15:12 AM
this is it

women always get attached

they will tell you what you want to hear in the beginning thinking that they can change you

they will also conveniently forget that they just wanted a casual no strings in the beginning

a hot older married woman or a hooker are your two options

^ This line right here.

Girls would do anything to win you over, in their mind once you're in-albeit non-serious to them it's like landing a temporary contract job leading to permanent.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Howard on December 17, 2014, 07:16:33 AM
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

If things are not working out and she's becoming a pain in the ass, then move on.

Yes, I've been married 4x .They changed and I didn't. So we got divorced and split on decent terms.

Set your own personal borders and move on if you aren't in agreement. Simple. ;)

FYI< when/if you fall in love you'll want to commit in some form.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Ronnie Rep on December 17, 2014, 07:25:28 AM
Stick with older women that are divorced and or not looking for a commitment. Have basically the same mindset as you.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Howard on December 17, 2014, 07:27:47 AM
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

Wow!  I'm sure you THINK you understand woman...but you are clueless.

I know, I know, I know, I'm an old fart and total fag on my 4th wife.
But, I think I have much better understanding of what makes woman tick.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Devon97 on December 17, 2014, 07:32:28 AM
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

If she is hot enough with a cool enough personality then you'll want a commitment.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Howard on December 17, 2014, 07:34:28 AM
^ This line right here.

Girls would do anything to win you over, in their mind once you're in-albeit non-serious to them it's like landing a temporary contract job leading to permanent.

My 1st two wives really wanted kids and I never did.
Despite being very clear about THAT, they felt they could "change me".

Eventually they realized I wasn't going to have kids and we had to get divorced.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 07:37:18 AM
Wow!  I'm sure you THINK you understand woman...but you are clueless.

I know, I know, I know, I'm an old fart and total fag on my 4th wife.
But, I think I have much better understanding of what makes woman tick.

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Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Thin Lizzy on December 17, 2014, 07:39:09 AM
Stick with older women that are divorced and or not looking for a commitment. Have basically the same mindset as you.

(http://thumbs.dreamstime.com/x/first-prize-trophy-7069911.jpg)
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 07:40:35 AM
My 1st two wives really wanted kids and I never did.
Despite being very clear about THAT, they felt they could "change me".

Eventually they realized I wasn't going to have kids and we had to get divorced.

Howard,

With all due respect, your experience of 4 wives is irrelevant here, the OP is asking how to keep banging a chick without getting too serious, as in becoming her BF/ ending in a relationship. You've already walked the bitch down the aisle, I bet my money on it the wife to be was pretty sure things were quite serious by then  ::)

Now getting married then keeping her on the side without her thinking it's getting too serious is that what you're trying to give us advice on?
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: foodie on December 17, 2014, 07:42:17 AM
Howard,

With all due respect, your experience of 4 wives is irrelevant here, the OP is asking how to keep banging a chick without getting too serious, as in becoming her BF/ ending in a relationship. You've already walked the bitch down the aisle, I bet my money on it the wife to be was pretty sure things were quite serious by then  ::)

Now getting married then keeping her on the side without her thinking it's getting too serious is that what you're trying to give us advice on?

Skorp, does female behaviour annoy you? I can't stand being around women for long periods. Aside from physical needs, men make much better friends than women. That being said, I do have misanthropic tendencies
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Knooger on December 17, 2014, 07:47:26 AM
Why would you want to keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Sounds like you want a committed relationship. Otherwise that's the whole point, they go away after a short period and you get a new one.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 07:49:07 AM
Skorp, does female behaviour annoy you? I can't stand being around women for long periods. Aside from physical needs, men make much better friends than women. That being said, I do have misanthropic tendencies

I find 2/3hr dinner and drinks, then sex is enough for me to go home and be alone. Problem is once you have sex you can't just check out, I really struggle with that time after sex where I have to stay for the night or she has and we have to talk and be around each other, no matter how hot the girl is I can only manage a set amount of hours with anyone of them.

I have a small tank of Scorpio girl orientated persona, and it runs out quick.

Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 07:50:24 AM
Why would you want to keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Sounds like you want a committed relationship. Otherwise that's the whole point, they go away after a short period and you get a new one.

Sometimes you like a girl enough but you don't want a full time relationship.

I for once did not want to be in a relationship but met many girls I liked and they liked me. Not a strong enough reason for me to give up my status and commit.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Thin Lizzy on December 17, 2014, 07:50:49 AM
Skorp, does female behaviour annoy you? I can't stand being around women for long periods. Aside from physical needs, men make much better friends than women. That being said, I do have misanthropic tendencies

When I was a teen and still living at home, my mother and older sister would continually accuse me of being antisocial.

I started thinking that they might be right. So, one day when they were sitting in the living room, chatting, I joined them.

After five minutes, I decided I'd rather be called antisocial than listen to their drivel. So, I got up and walked out.

Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Mr Anabolic on December 17, 2014, 07:51:50 AM
If things are not working out and she's becoming a pain in the ass, then move on.

Yes, I've been married 4x .They changed and I didn't. So we got divorced and split on decent terms.

Set your own personal borders and move on if you aren't in agreement. Simple. ;)

FYI< when/if you fall in love you'll want to commit in some form.

Foolish.  Do you have any money/assets left?
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Knooger on December 17, 2014, 07:52:56 AM
Sometimes you like a girl enough but you don't want a full time relationship.

But you can have them for a few weeks or a couple months perhaps before all the commitment talk starts, then you say you're not ready for a relationship and they're gone. I don't see the problem with that. That's the way we should want it. Why would you want them around longer than that?
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Griffith on December 17, 2014, 07:53:24 AM
why do they ALL seek more commitment?

Because they have more to lose in terms of their age and marriage and the perception of them as a slut.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Grape Ape on December 17, 2014, 07:53:31 AM
Does anyone else read Skorp's name in their head as Scorp-ONE-oh, like I do?
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Hulkotron on December 17, 2014, 08:00:16 AM
Does anyone else read Skorp's name in their head as Scorp-ONE-oh, like I do?

Scoring Pole
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Knooger on December 17, 2014, 08:04:43 AM
Scoring Pole

hahaha
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Skorp1o on December 17, 2014, 08:12:30 AM
Does anyone else read Skorp's name in their head as Scorp-ONE-oh, like I do?

The "1o" is a subliminal message
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Hulkotron on December 17, 2014, 09:12:01 AM
The "1o" is a subliminal message

Skorp1o do you ever play the game "Has she had a kid?" to pass the time on POF?  I find I have about a 75% accuracy.

The rules are you have to guess if the broad has had a kid judging only from her photos.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Howard on December 17, 2014, 11:03:32 AM
Foolish.  Do you have any money/assets left?

LOL, you don't know the kind of woman I was married to.
The last one was a national board certified psychologists and we split on good, fair terms.

My current wife is a VP exec in leasing and capitol for  major bank, she has a lot more $$ and assets then me.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Howard on December 17, 2014, 11:08:20 AM
When I was a teen and still living at home, my mother and older sister would continually accuse me of being antisocial.

I started thinking that they might be right. So, one day when they were sitting in the living room, chatting, I joined them.

After five minutes, I decided I'd rather be called antisocial than listen to their drivel. So, I got up and walked out.


Good post.
I felt like that on various family/holiday occasions, from age 5, I swear to GOD , I did.
Hearing aunt Mary bitch about her arthritis and Uncle Bart make lame jokes drove me away from normal , family interaction  ;D

Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Teutonic Knight on December 17, 2014, 11:19:27 AM


Just copy AnalBOLDichalos example, U only need 18" arms & whore is yours  ;D
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: Knooger on December 17, 2014, 11:21:17 AM

Just copy AnalBOLDichalos example, U only need 18" arms & whore is yours  ;D

If we take out the requirement for it being a lean 18" I'm styling.
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: flinstones1 on December 17, 2014, 07:07:31 PM
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

Haha on the money.

What really sucks is when your dating a chick and you like her a lot,  enough to where you keep the relationship going......but aren't in love with her enough to where you want to take it to the next level.  And once she picks up on that  she develops a deep inner hate towards you. The idea of her not being good enough for a man to keep l is too painful for her to  accept so  she just  detaches. I know you've probably  been through this 1000 times
Title: Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
Post by: The RedMeatKid on January 14, 2015, 08:59:29 AM
If things are not working out and she's becoming a pain in the ass, then move on.

Yes, I've been married 4x .They changed and I didn't. So we got divorced and split on decent terms.

Set your own personal borders and move on if you aren't in agreement. Simple. ;)

FYI< when/if you fall in love you'll want to commit in some form.
You've  got no business marrying anybody. You're  a proven liability  and have no right screwing up more lives. Shame on you.