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How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« on: December 17, 2014, 02:38:48 AM »
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #1 on: December 17, 2014, 03:00:31 AM »
why do they ALL seek more commitment?

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #2 on: December 17, 2014, 03:08:42 AM »
RELATIONSHIP!

NOT EVEN DR PHIL CAN MAKE IT! That say it all! There is no solution to make it work!

U cant make it, but u can fake it! For the rest of the people to belive u make it!

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #3 on: December 17, 2014, 03:09:34 AM »
just act alittle unstable and usually that keeps them at bay awhile, most girls get alittle nervous making a serious commitment with a unstable dude.it worked for me but i didnt have to try to be unstable cause i was naturally fucked up from birth, i always liked to have a broad that just liked to fuck afew days aweek and she had her life and i had mine. but usually they always insist on making it more serious ::)
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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #4 on: December 17, 2014, 03:18:27 AM »
just act alittle unstable and usually that keeps them at bay awhile, most girls get alittle nervous making a serious commitment with a unstable dude.it worked for me but i didnt have to try to be unstable cause i was naturally fucked up from birth, i always liked to have a broad that just liked to fuck afew days aweek and she had her life and i had mine. but usually they always insist on making it more serious ::)

YES this is what I'm talking about. I like to do my own thing and not have some whiny chick looking for my attention 24/7.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #5 on: December 17, 2014, 03:25:40 AM »
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.
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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #6 on: December 17, 2014, 03:51:04 AM »
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

Have sterile semen. 

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #7 on: December 17, 2014, 03:55:43 AM »
Start banging married chicks...they are already committed to someone else.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #8 on: December 17, 2014, 03:55:52 AM »
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

this is it

women always get attached

they will tell you what you want to hear in the beginning thinking that they can change you

they will also conveniently forget that they just wanted a casual no strings in the beginning

a hot older married woman or a hooker are your two options
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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #9 on: December 17, 2014, 04:05:56 AM »
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

good post.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #10 on: December 17, 2014, 05:03:24 AM »
Skoorp is a wise man.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #11 on: December 17, 2014, 06:32:35 AM »
Start banging married chicks...they are already committed to someone else.

^^^This. 

Also, make sure they have kids.  Their biological reason for being has already been fulfilled... no pressure on you to be a sperm donor.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #12 on: December 17, 2014, 07:07:19 AM »
Start banging married chicks...they are already committed to someone else.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #13 on: December 17, 2014, 07:09:11 AM »
just commit to them all (like 27 of them)

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #14 on: December 17, 2014, 07:15:12 AM »
this is it

women always get attached

they will tell you what you want to hear in the beginning thinking that they can change you

they will also conveniently forget that they just wanted a casual no strings in the beginning

a hot older married woman or a hooker are your two options

^ This line right here.

Girls would do anything to win you over, in their mind once you're in-albeit non-serious to them it's like landing a temporary contract job leading to permanent.
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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #15 on: December 17, 2014, 07:16:33 AM »
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

If things are not working out and she's becoming a pain in the ass, then move on.

Yes, I've been married 4x .They changed and I didn't. So we got divorced and split on decent terms.

Set your own personal borders and move on if you aren't in agreement. Simple. ;)

FYI< when/if you fall in love you'll want to commit in some form.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #16 on: December 17, 2014, 07:25:28 AM »
Stick with older women that are divorced and or not looking for a commitment. Have basically the same mindset as you.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #17 on: December 17, 2014, 07:27:47 AM »
You can't, if you do, your days are numbered and you'll either get tired of lying and fabricating stories to keep her on the side without becoming her official BF or she leaves. I get 3/4 meetings out of a girl before she starts acting like a Khalissi (Dragons an all).

I've had a girl pre-agree with me that she doesn't want anything serious either blah blah...we had one small argument and she throws a line at me "you're just keeping me on the side like your little whore..." girls are not built for this. Unless you meet a married woman who's divorce is too inconvenient and she wants a good physique young guy on the side, chances are you'll be facing a on-going battle.

Wow!  I'm sure you THINK you understand woman...but you are clueless.

I know, I know, I know, I'm an old fart and total fag on my 4th wife.
But, I think I have much better understanding of what makes woman tick.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #18 on: December 17, 2014, 07:32:28 AM »
Lotharios and casanovas of getbig, I need your advice. How do you keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Seems that they all demand more and more commitment after awhile, and then end it if you're unwilling. Is it impossible to remain in the uncommitted state indefinitely?

If she is hot enough with a cool enough personality then you'll want a commitment.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #19 on: December 17, 2014, 07:34:28 AM »
^ This line right here.

Girls would do anything to win you over, in their mind once you're in-albeit non-serious to them it's like landing a temporary contract job leading to permanent.

My 1st two wives really wanted kids and I never did.
Despite being very clear about THAT, they felt they could "change me".

Eventually they realized I wasn't going to have kids and we had to get divorced.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #20 on: December 17, 2014, 07:37:18 AM »
Wow!  I'm sure you THINK you understand woman...but you are clueless.

I know, I know, I know, I'm an old fart and total fag on my 4th wife.
But, I think I have much better understanding of what makes woman tick.

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #21 on: December 17, 2014, 07:39:09 AM »
Stick with older women that are divorced and or not looking for a commitment. Have basically the same mindset as you.


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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #22 on: December 17, 2014, 07:40:35 AM »
My 1st two wives really wanted kids and I never did.
Despite being very clear about THAT, they felt they could "change me".

Eventually they realized I wasn't going to have kids and we had to get divorced.

Howard,

With all due respect, your experience of 4 wives is irrelevant here, the OP is asking how to keep banging a chick without getting too serious, as in becoming her BF/ ending in a relationship. You've already walked the bitch down the aisle, I bet my money on it the wife to be was pretty sure things were quite serious by then  ::)

Now getting married then keeping her on the side without her thinking it's getting too serious is that what you're trying to give us advice on?
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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #23 on: December 17, 2014, 07:42:17 AM »
Howard,

With all due respect, your experience of 4 wives is irrelevant here, the OP is asking how to keep banging a chick without getting too serious, as in becoming her BF/ ending in a relationship. You've already walked the bitch down the aisle, I bet my money on it the wife to be was pretty sure things were quite serious by then  ::)

Now getting married then keeping her on the side without her thinking it's getting too serious is that what you're trying to give us advice on?

Skorp, does female behaviour annoy you? I can't stand being around women for long periods. Aside from physical needs, men make much better friends than women. That being said, I do have misanthropic tendencies

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Re: How to keep girls in uncommitted relationships
« Reply #24 on: December 17, 2014, 07:47:26 AM »
Why would you want to keep a girl in an uncommitted relationship? Sounds like you want a committed relationship. Otherwise that's the whole point, they go away after a short period and you get a new one.