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No exceptions, right?
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Unless you are a pro and your partner is a schmoe.
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yup. The love of my life move away to college, I would go visit her, she'd come visit me but as time went on it was too hard to be constantly apart. We mutually split but years later its the one I still can't get over.
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yup. The love of my life move away to college, I would go visit her, she'd come visit me but as time went on it was too hard to be constantly apart. We mutually split but years later its the one I still can't get over.
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Seems to always be the ones that could work the best if they lived near
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yup. The love of my life move away to college, I would go visit her, she'd come visit me but as time went on it was too hard to be constantly apart. We mutually split but years later its the one I still can't get over.
Maybe she feels the same way. Call her.
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No exceptions, right?
Correct. The whole point of being together is to be together; otherwise you are just having an affair--which may be fine. But do not think that you are having a relationship. Bah!
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If both really love each other then it can work.
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yup. The love of my life move away to college, I would go visit her, she'd come visit me but as time went on it was too hard to be constantly apart. We mutually split but years later its the one I still can't get over.
PM me, broskie. Lets talk about your emotions.
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No exceptions, right?
yep, I did that shit for about 3-4 years. Trust me, it is guaranteed to fail, in the end you wish that you had ended it sooner...just a lot of wasted time
Agree to be friends and "let's see what the future holds"... translation... when we are the same city let's fuck, no commitment.
post up a pic of her body, let the lads see what all of the fuss is about.
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Yup. BTDT. FAIL.
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Maybe she feels the same way. Call her.
We met up a few years later as I was travelling a lot for work and had to go to her city. I called her up and we spent the weekend together. She explained how hard it was for her. She was a mess for months so it made both of us feel better but we also agreed that we both of our lives are on different paths in different cities. We still chat every now and then, but it still breaks my heart.
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We met up a few years later as I was travelling a lot for work and had to go to her city. I called her up and we spent the weekend together. She explained how hard it was for her. She was a mess for months so it made both of us feel better but we also agreed that we both of our lives are on different paths in different cities. We still chat every now and then, but it still breaks my heart.
Here are two good quotes that are related to your experience.
"I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped."
"Star Friendship. We were friends, and have become strangers to each other. But perhaps this is as it ought to be - and we do not want either to conceal or obscure the fact as if we had to be ashamed. We are two ships each of which has its own goal and course. Our paths may cross and we may celebrate a feast together, as we did – and then the good ships rested so quietly in one harbor and in one sunshine that it may have looked as if they had reached their goal and as if they had but one goal. But then the almighty force of our tasks drove us apart again into different seas and sunny zones. Perhaps we shall never see one another again, or perhaps we may meet again but fail to recognize one another: our exposure to different seas and suns has altered us! That we had to become strangers to one another is the law above us – by the same token we should also become more sacred to each other and the memory of our former friendship more sacred. There is probably a tremendous but invisible stellar orbit in which our very different ways and goals may be included as small parts of this path,—let us rise up to this thought! But our life is too short and our power of vision too small for us to be more than friends in the sense of this sublime possibility.— Let us then believe in our star friendship even if we should be compelled to be earth enemies."
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i had a love affair going on with a women from jamaica back in 95,it was really hard.she was here on vacation when i met her in a night club and fucked her in her sisters house that night,she came here to live after 6 months cause she wanted me to marry her :o i promised her i would marry her and kept fucking her,the morning i was supposed to buy wedding rings i jumped in my car and never went back,i felt bad
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We met up a few years later as I was travelling a lot for work and had to go to her city. I called her up and we spent the weekend together. She explained how hard it was for her. She was a mess for months so it made both of us feel better but we also agreed that we both of our lives are on different paths in different cities. We still chat every now and then, but it still breaks my heart.
I know that feel...
Who initiated the split first?
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With todays technology you can stay very close. Whether it is Skype or Facetime, voice texting, you name it. You can stay connected for those times you cannot be face to face. Think of this as a test of your relationship. If you guys can stay together through this you can probably clear any hurdle. Good luck to you both.
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i had a love affair going on with a women from jamaica back in 95,it was really hard.she was here on vacation when i met her in a night club and fucked her in her sisters house that night,she came here to live after 6 months cause she wanted me to marry her :o i promised her i would marry her and kept fucking her,the morning i was supposed to buy wedding rings i jumped in my car and never went back,i felt bad
You bastrd.
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Heh, Gracie is one of my favorite posters on the board ;D
yep, I did that shit for about 3-4 years. Trust me, it is guaranteed to fail, in the end you wish that you had ended it sooner...just a lot of wasted time
Agree to be friends and "let's see what the future holds"... translation... when we are the same city let's fuck, no commitment.
post up a pic of her body, let the lads see what all of the fuss is about.
I'll try to get a good one. Conservative girl though, doesn't like to show off her bod. But she has lovely hooters, although not as hypnotizing as your avatar.
Thanks for the kind words, gym, and while I like to take the attitude that goes against the grain and say 'well, I'll go against the grain and be the success story', much like has been said here, looks like its heading down the usual road. Its even worse if theres an argument or issue. The distance seems to amplify it times 10.
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It's unbelievable how soft this place had gotten.
You guys taking your anti-e's?
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I know that feel...
Who initiated the split first?
We were on the phone and I sort of brought it up she went silent, and litteraly just sat on the phone for 10 minutes of silence before she said anything and agreed that she wanted me there, I wanted her here and that it was just too hard.
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It's unbelievable how soft this place had gotten.
You guys taking your anti-e's?
I shit my pants when I typed my reply, do I still fall into the soft category?
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We were on the phone and I sort of brought it up she went silent, and litteraly just sat on the phone for 10 minutes of silence before she said anything and agreed that she wanted me there, I wanted her here and that it was just too hard.
Yeah... quite a similar experience to the one I had. Not exactly like that, but similar. I guess it's a perfect relathionshiop, when it ends before the "routine" and other negative stuff settles in, in a "honey moon" phase.
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It's unbelievable how soft this place had gotten.
You guys taking your anti-e's?
people get older, mature, etc. Someones beliefs when they joined in 2006, will not necessarily be the same in 2015. Shit, that is almost 10 years.
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We met up a few years later as I was travelling a lot for work and had to go to her city. I called her up and we spent the weekend together. She explained how hard it was for her. She was a mess for months so it made both of us feel better but we also agreed that we both of our lives are on different paths in different cities. We still chat every now and then, but it still breaks my heart.
White Devil, life's too short. Go get that woman and marry her.
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My son has been in a LDR with this girl he met from Maryland for about 6 years now. They've visited back and forth a few times and broke up twice, but they're back together, and seem to be pretty solid. I'm amazed that they have kept it going for so long. If it wasn't for modern technology, I don't think it would be possible.
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White Devil, life's too short. Go get that woman and marry her.
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all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference
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all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference
This is the getbig spirit
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It would be humorous if two getbiggers ever tried to have a long-term relationship.
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It would be humorous if two getbiggers ever tried to have a long-term relationship.
its already happened.
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Depends how far-My gf lives 60 miles away we both divorced w kids-it works well- see her every weekend and sometimes midweek-relationships are better not seeing eachother every day lol-Ill move eventually if it works out
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60 miles is pretty good, I'd be happy with that. We're on opposite ends of the state, about an 8 hour drive between us. But honestly, I always knew how faulty the prospect is and at the same time keep myself open in case something else were to come along. And I realistically expect her to do the same. I work a lot of hours so I don't get time to get out often. It basically became a situation of I got nothing nothing else going on at the moment, so might as well.
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That is far - I dont think I could do any further than what I do now-hard to say-if you really love eachother then it is possible and try to compromise and move closer or one of you relocate-when your older its easier and dont need to fuck everyday either lol-well it would be nice ;D actually Im on trt and she on test cream-works out well! we are both 42-younger people who never had kids or marriage etc might need more from a relationship-all depends on needs/wants
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btw i Had the complete opposite-married to a co worker in same zip code and eventually same house and have kids together-and found out I wasnt in love and cheated-and not even for sex-I had that
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all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference
finally some truth to this thread.
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White Devil, life's too short. Go get that woman and marry her.
In my heart I know it wouldn't work out. Not sure why. I think the fact I liked her so much, probably even pure love make me wish it could and would but I know it wouldn't. After meeting up a few times I enjoy every second with her but don't believe it would have lasted but separating before the shit hit the fan will always leave me wondering 'what if'.
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all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference
Seem I have my spokesperson right here at getbig haha...
Now I can relax! Take time off!
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If you actually believe there's a future, these relationships can be worth trying. Otherwise cut bait and on to the next one.
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if just sexual why not -but when feelings involved that is tough if too far
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if just sexual why not -but when feelings involved that is tough if too far
I think it's the opposite.
If it's only sexual then it might not work, but if they also love each other then it should not be a problem.
However, this is assuming they be would be having a long-distance relationship for at most a few years with the aim to eventually be together.
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I think it's the opposite.
If it's only sexual then it might not work, but if they also love each other then it should not be a problem.
However, this is assuming they be would be having a long-distance relationship for at most a few years with the aim to eventually be together.
LOVE? Only retards get in love...I mean...how in love can u be knowing that outside your house u have houndreds thousends of girls smarter, nicer, better looking than yours. The only thing is that they dont want u. Your genes arent good enough! Your providing skill isent good enough! Your personality isent good enough! In this selfish game!
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all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference
I wanted to say this.
Damn me, for being gainfully employed. >:(
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LOVE? Only retards get in love...I mean...how in love can u be knowing that outside your house u have houndreds thousends of girls smarter, nicer, better looking than yours. The only thing is that they dont want u. Your genes arent good enough! Your providing skill isent good enough! Your personality isent good enough! In this selfish game!
Maybe one day you will know what it means.
People don't know unless they experience it.
Unfortunately some never do.
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Unless you are a pro and your partner is a schmoe.
You and Mike?
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On the mid-long term, distance wins from 'love'.
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its already happened.
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Something complicated about his answer?
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I met a hot girl from Lebanon. Too bad she's living in Lebanon. lol And she's Christian too! haha knew what you were thinking. ;) I just hope she doesn't get beheaded in the Christian genocide happening over there. :'( Maybe I can sponsor her?
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No exceptions, right?
Where is she on Bali,Pataya,Manila..................... ?.
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My wife and I were long distance for our entire relationship....the many years we dated up until we got married..... Its hard but we got through it and we've been married 9 years.
She was living in fl and i was living in dc.
This was before Skype... Its expensive... But I racked up lots of frequent flyer miles.
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You and Mike?
You and Goodrum.
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With todays technology you can stay very close. Whether it is Skype or Facetime, voice texting, you name it. You can stay connected for those times you cannot be face to face. Think of this as a test of your relationship. If you guys can stay together through this you can probably clear any hurdle. Good luck to you both.
Been there done that, it will not work. Maybe if your dating some chick below you but if you want to keep some princess attracted to you past the honeymoon stage your gonna need some tricks up your sleeve and the problem with long distance is you can't use challenge. You never want to make yourself too available but when your driving 45 minutes to see a chick every weekend it kind of puts her on a pedestal. Nothing will attraction quicker than boredom.. nothing is more boring to women than knowing when they're gonna get fucked. Closer the chick lives the better. 8)
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Been there done that, it will not work. Maybe if your dating some chick below you but if you want to keep some princess attracted to you past the honeymoon stage your gonna need some tricks up your sleeve and the problem with long distance is you can't use challenge. You never want to make yourself too available but when your driving 45 minutes to see a chick every weekend it kind of puts her on a pedestal. Nothing will attraction quicker than boredom.. nothing is more boring to women than knowing when they're gonna get fucked. Closer the chick lives the better. 8)
I don't think a 45 minute drive counts as "long-distance"....
More like a plane ticket or a different timezone, country or continent.
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Been there done that, it will not work. Maybe if your dating some chick below you but if you want to keep some princess attracted to you past the honeymoon stage your gonna need some tricks up your sleeve and the problem with long distance is you can't use challenge. You never want to make yourself too available but when your driving 45 minutes to see a chick every weekend it kind of puts her on a pedestal. Nothing will attraction quicker than boredom.. nothing is more boring to women than knowing when they're gonna get fucked. Closer the chick lives the better. 8)
+1
All this technology helps communication, but you can't fuck with it and in the end that's what both ultimately need
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I don't think a 45 minute drive counts as "long-distance"....
More like a plane ticket or a different timezone, country or continent.
Those 45 minutes wouldn't be a comfortable with a strong boner. Around 15 min should be the limit.
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Something complicated about his answer?
Just don't know what he's talking about.
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In my heart I know it wouldn't work out. Not sure why. I think the fact I liked her so much, probably even pure love make me wish it could and would but I know it wouldn't. After meeting up a few times I enjoy every second with her but don't believe it would have lasted but separating before the shit hit the fan will always leave me wondering 'what if'.
That's probably why you can't get over her. I don't know why guys insist on being friends with exes...especially ones they have a thing for.
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That's probably why you can't get over her. I don't know why guys insist on being friends with exes...especially ones they have a thing for.
they got addicted, afraid, cant let loose. Pretty weak gay behaviour. They know they are weak, bad genetics, etc etc...and that they will never find a better girl again. This was their chance in life. :D
Sooner or later the girl who left them will find a new one. Then its over!
The guy find a fat slob and get her pregnant and then life begin. 20 yrs of regrets! : )
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Just don't know what he's talking about.
You must be a legit woman, I hope this helps
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they got addicted, afraid, cant let loose. Pretty weak gay behaviour. They know they are weak, bad genetics, etc etc...and that they will never find a better girl again. This was their chance in life. :D
Sooner or later the girl who left them will find a new one. Then its over!
The guy find a fat slob and get her pregnant and then life begin. 20 yrs of regrets! : )
Personally the only woman that I ever felt I Was addicted to was one that had borderline personality disorder. I think like 1 in 20 chicks has it so I think every guy has dated long enough will come across a chick like this at some point in his life. These women have the ability to make you feel like you can be a pathetic failure in every aspect of your life but still be happy as long as you are together. Very sexual, very seductive, and passionate...in the beginning anyway. These women are all about the chase, moment they have you the mask falls off and say bye bye to blow jobs.
Mine took me on an emotional roller coaster ride, ... but during that honeymoon phase, damn....I felt more alive then I ever have with any other "normal" woman in my life. I've been dating few girls since and while it's nice to be around a broad that isn't mentally fucked its still the same old shit.
My ex tried to make her way back into my life several times, and Im sure she probably will for the rest of my life but I stay away because I know how toxic she is. The women you speak of view men as nothing more than objects to be used. They don't love you like you or I would love a normal person, they aren't capable of true love or intimacy. You are about as important to them as a toaster , , the moment they get bored they will trade you in for a new one.
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Personally the only woman that I ever felt I Was addicted to was one that had borderline personality disorder. I think like 1 in 20 chicks has it so I think every guy has dated long enough will come across a chick like this at some point in his life. These women have the ability to make you feel like you can be a pathetic failure in every aspect of your life but still be happy as long as you are together. Very sexual, very seductive, and passionate...in the beginning anyway. These women are all about the chase, moment they have you the mask falls off and say bye bye to blow jobs.
Mine took me on an emotional roller coaster ride, ... but during that honeymoon phase, damn....I felt more alive then I ever have with any other "normal" woman in my life. I've been dating few girls since and while it's nice to be around a broad that isn't mentally fucked its still the same old shit.
My ex tried to make her way back into my life several times, and Im sure she probably will for the rest of my life but I stay away because I know how toxic she is. The women you speak of view men as nothing more than objects to be used. They don't love you like you or I would love a normal person, they aren't capable of true love or intimacy. You are about as important to them as a toaster , , the moment they get bored they will trade you in for a new one.
What you've just described are the characteristics of a sociopath or even a psychopath.
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they got addicted, afraid, cant let loose. Pretty weak gay behaviour. They know they are weak, bad genetics, etc etc...and that they will never find a better girl again. This was their chance in life. :D
Sooner or later the girl who left them will find a new one. Then its over!
The guy find a fat slob and get her pregnant and then life begin. 20 yrs of regrets! : )
Nah, nothing about looks or worries that I couldn't get something hotter. Looks wise I dated hotter, personality wise I dated better. But it just seems sometimes you meet that one person that affects you in a way that no one else can't. Hard to describe.
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Nah, nothing about looks or worries that I couldn't get something hotter. Looks wise I dated hotter, personality wise I dated better. But it just seems sometimes you meet that one person that affects you in a way that no one else can't. Hard to describe.
Most probably she closely resembled your mother.
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My ex tried to make her way back into my life several times, and Im sure she probably will for the rest of my life but I stay away because I know how toxic she is. The women you speak of view men as nothing more than objects to be used. They don't love you like you or I would love a normal person, they aren't capable of true love or intimacy. You are about as important to them as a toaster , , the moment they get bored they will trade you in for a new one.
It's a mystery to me how some men fall for these types. And I know some well grown men, not 19-20 without much experience. I can smell these psychos a mile away. But that makes me wonder - whether I have some of these traits myself, so I can recognize them very well.. I'd certainly kill such a bitch after a few months or she would kill me. Gladly they have a sense for me too, so on these few occasions when I got involved with someone similar - it ended very fast, after first few times of bullshit and mutual understanding that neither of us will submit (and someone always submits, even if very slightly). These personalities prey on weaker people (weaker in some subtle ways).
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Most probably she closely resembled your mother.
hahaha no. Mom is a 5' butterball. This chick was 5'11", long blond hair, legs up to her armpits.
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hahaha no. Mom is a 5' butterball. This chick was 5'11", long blond hair, legs up to her armpits.
Not neccesarilly by looks. It may be some character traits, voice, the way she moves, etc... subtle things. Think about it.
p.s. - by these stats - I'm probably dating your ex lol..
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I believe everyone has a soul mate out there, but the odds of finding one is extremely nil.
Marriage in today's world? - LMAO!
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I believe everyone has a soul mate out there, but the odds of finding one is extremely nil.
Marriage in today's world? - LMAO!
You "just" need some (big) success (to meet the long time compatible partner) and it works out well.
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It's a mystery to me how some men fall for these types. And I know some well grown men, not 19-20 without much experience. I can smell these psychos a mile away. But that makes me wonder - whether I have some of these traits myself, so I can recognize them very well.. I'd certainly kill such a bitch after a few months or she would kill me. Gladly they have a sense for me too, so on these few occasions when I got involved with someone similar - it ended very fast, after first few times of bullshit and mutual understanding that neither of us will submit (and someone always submits, even if very slightly). These personalities prey on weaker people (weaker in some subtle ways).
Well this was long distance. The red flags weren't really evident until about a month and a half into the relationship, had it not been a LDR and I eas around her every day I would of been gone in a few weeks. By the time I did figure out she was nuts and tried to leave she told me she was pregnant and actually believe she was pregnant lol.
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I believe everyone has a soul mate out there, but the odds of finding one is extremely nil.
Marriage in today's world? - LMAO!
Maybe with western or westernised woman.
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gayer than long distance relationships, what are u guys 12?
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PM me, broskie. Lets talk about your emotions.
;D
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This thread: awwww
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Maybe with western or westernised woman.
Good point. The best women I've ever been with were not American. The problem is, they come to the US and get Americanized, then they're ruined.
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Long distance relationships? Putting up with all the bad bits of a relationship like nagging, long boring chats ect without the actual good bits like sex, cooking and cleaning. No thanks
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This thread: awwww
Please elaborate :)
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yup. The love of my life move away to college, I would go visit her, she'd come visit me but as time went on it was too hard to be constantly apart. We mutually split but years later its the one I still can't get over.
Similar story but I did and said some really bad stuff...I threatened friends of hers...not proud of it. I look back in shock at what I said...I keep thinking she might call me some day and say she misses me too but that will never happen.
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Similar story but I did and said some really bad stuff...I threatened friends of hers...not proud of it. I look back in shock at what I said...I keep thinking she might call me some day and say she misses me too but that will never happen.
You sound like a crazy bitch, irishdave
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Lol 45min drive..i met a girl in stockholm 2 weeks ago im going to see again and its 10 hours drive from me
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Lol 45min drive..i met a girl in stockholm 2 weeks ago im going to see again and its 10 hours drive from me
I guess you mean it's a 10 hours flight from Pyongyang to Stockholm, right?
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I guess you mean it's a 10 hours flight from Pyongyang to Stockholm, right?
im at my summerhouse in the north of sweden rigth now...but yes you are correct if im at my main residence
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im at my summerhouse in the north of sweden rigth now...but yes you are correct if im at my main residence
I would prefer a summer house outside of North Korea as well :D
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I would prefer a summer house outside of North Korea as well :D
yes its easy to get spoiled living in a roch and prosperous country like best korea so its always good to visit other countrys that are not as fortune as we are...like south korea
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yes its easy to get spoiled living in a roch and prosperous country like best korea so its always good to visit other countrys that are not as fortune as we are...like south korea
You've made a good point chief, but I also understand why you prefer Swedish women..
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I guess it depends on how long your cock is
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You've made a good point chief, but I also understand why you prefer Swedish women..
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lål but there is one thing that is good when you are dating a north korean chick in our homeland, all the gooks look the same so you will never feel the urge to cheat on your wife.
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I think it's the opposite.
If it's only sexual then it might not work, but if they also love each other then it should not be a problem.
However, this is assuming they be would be having a long-distance relationship for at most a few years with the aim to eventually be together.
true
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A lot of trust has to be involved and I'm not sure I'm very good with that part. Any little thing that seems off tends to spook me big time.
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lål but there is one thing that is good when you are dating a north korean chick in our homeland, all the gooks look the same so you will never feel the urge to cheat on your wife.
Haha, true!
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lål but there is one thing that is good when you are dating a north korean chick in our homeland, all the gooks look the same so you will never feel the urge to cheat on your wife.
Lol I've never heard someone actually use the word gook. Only time I've heard it was watching gran torino
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Lol I've never heard someone actually use the word gook. Only time I've heard it was watching gran torino
You were born after 1975.
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"gook" it's in every Vietnam war movie.
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You were born after 1975.
Yes :P
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Lol I've never heard someone actually use the word gook. Only time I've heard it was watching gran torino
you prefer chink?
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Lol I've never heard someone actually use the word gook. Only time I've heard it was watching gran torino
It was used a couple times on the American television programme "MASH" and of course every time it was used, "Hawkeye" would put a stop to it.