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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #25 on: December 18, 2014, 09:20:03 AM »
all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #26 on: December 18, 2014, 09:47:44 AM »
all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #27 on: December 18, 2014, 09:52:10 AM »
It would be humorous if two getbiggers ever tried to have a long-term relationship. 

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #28 on: December 18, 2014, 09:55:15 AM »
It would be humorous if two getbiggers ever tried to have a long-term relationship. 
its already happened.
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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #29 on: December 18, 2014, 10:15:08 AM »
Depends how far-My gf lives 60 miles away we both divorced w kids-it works well- see her every weekend and sometimes midweek-relationships are better not seeing eachother every day lol-Ill move eventually if it works out

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #30 on: December 18, 2014, 10:20:05 AM »
60 miles is pretty good, I'd be happy with that. We're on opposite ends of the state, about an 8 hour drive between us. But honestly, I always knew how faulty the prospect is and at the same time keep myself open in case something else were to come along. And I realistically expect her to do the same. I work a lot of hours so I don't get time to get out often. It basically became a situation of I got nothing nothing else going on at the moment, so might as well.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #31 on: December 18, 2014, 10:26:11 AM »
That is far - I dont think I could do any further than what I do now-hard to say-if you really love eachother then it is possible and try to compromise and move closer or one of you relocate-when your older its easier and dont need to fuck everyday either lol-well it would be nice ;D actually Im on trt and she on test cream-works out well!  we are both 42-younger people who never had kids or marriage etc might need more from a relationship-all depends on needs/wants

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #32 on: December 18, 2014, 10:27:40 AM »
btw i Had the complete opposite-married to a co worker in same zip code and eventually same house and have kids together-and found out I wasnt in love and cheated-and not even for sex-I had that

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #33 on: December 18, 2014, 10:29:53 AM »
all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference


finally some truth to this thread.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #34 on: December 18, 2014, 10:31:32 AM »
White Devil, life's too short.  Go get that woman and marry her.

In my heart I know it wouldn't work out.  Not sure why.  I think the fact I liked her so much, probably even pure love make me wish it could and would but I know it wouldn't.  After meeting up a few times I enjoy every second with her but don't believe it would have lasted but separating before the shit hit the fan will always leave me wondering 'what if'.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #35 on: December 18, 2014, 10:35:42 AM »
all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference

Seem I have my spokesperson right here at getbig haha...

Now I can relax! Take time off!

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #36 on: December 18, 2014, 10:36:09 AM »
If you actually believe there's a future, these relationships can be worth trying. Otherwise cut bait and on to the next one.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #37 on: December 18, 2014, 10:37:41 AM »
if just sexual why not -but when feelings involved that is tough if too far

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #38 on: December 18, 2014, 10:43:49 AM »
if just sexual why not -but when feelings involved that is tough if too far

I think it's the opposite.

If it's only sexual then it might not work, but if they also love each other then it should not be a problem.

However, this is assuming they be would be having a long-distance relationship for at most a few years with the aim to eventually be together.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #39 on: December 18, 2014, 11:50:40 AM »
I think it's the opposite.

If it's only sexual then it might not work, but if they also love each other then it should not be a problem.

However, this is assuming they be would be having a long-distance relationship for at most a few years with the aim to eventually be together.

LOVE? Only retards get in love...I mean...how in love can u be knowing that outside your house u have houndreds thousends of girls smarter, nicer, better looking than yours. The only thing is that they dont want u. Your genes arent good enough! Your providing skill isent good enough! Your personality isent good enough! In this selfish game!

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #40 on: December 18, 2014, 01:35:53 PM »
all relationships doomed to fail whats the difference

I wanted to say this.

Damn me, for being gainfully employed. >:(

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #41 on: December 18, 2014, 03:09:35 PM »
LOVE? Only retards get in love...I mean...how in love can u be knowing that outside your house u have houndreds thousends of girls smarter, nicer, better looking than yours. The only thing is that they dont want u. Your genes arent good enough! Your providing skill isent good enough! Your personality isent good enough! In this selfish game!

Maybe one day you will know what it means.

People don't know unless they experience it.

Unfortunately some never do.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #42 on: December 18, 2014, 03:16:47 PM »
Unless you are a pro and your partner is a schmoe.

You and Mike?

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #43 on: December 18, 2014, 04:27:00 PM »
On the mid-long term, distance wins from 'love'.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #44 on: December 18, 2014, 05:19:21 PM »

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #45 on: December 18, 2014, 05:57:06 PM »
???

Something complicated about his answer?

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #46 on: December 18, 2014, 06:07:35 PM »
I met a hot girl from Lebanon. Too bad she's living in Lebanon. lol And she's Christian too! haha knew what you were thinking. ;) I just hope she doesn't get beheaded in the Christian genocide happening over there.  :'( Maybe I can sponsor her?
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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #47 on: December 18, 2014, 09:52:13 PM »
No exceptions, right?

Where is she on Bali,Pataya,Manila..................... ?.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #48 on: December 19, 2014, 01:49:05 AM »
My wife and I were long distance for our entire relationship....the many years we dated up until we got married..... Its hard but we got through it and we've been married 9 years.

She was living in fl and i was living in dc.

This was before Skype... Its expensive... But I racked up lots of frequent flyer miles.

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Re: Long distance relationships: Doomed to fail?
« Reply #49 on: December 19, 2014, 02:26:43 AM »