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Title: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 26, 2015, 03:34:44 PM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: The Grim Lifter on January 26, 2015, 03:39:20 PM
Delete her but don't make your profile private.

Get girls you know but she doesn't know well to post on your wall like 'Yo Flin come over tonight and i'll make you Yaba Dabba Do!'

Or 'I lost my phone here's my number call me'

That will piss her off more than anything.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: J. Richards on January 26, 2015, 03:39:58 PM
suck it up, do nothing....  been there....  still there occasionally,,,,  it eats my ex up inside because i don't let her ruffle my feathers...  anyone hearing her rants will know she's a psychotic jealous bitch trying to stir the pot.....  be better than that......   my 2 cents...  
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: _aj_ on January 26, 2015, 03:40:09 PM
Being nasty would just solidify her allegations. Instead, try something like, "I am so sorry that things didn't work out between us. I though we had some really great times. I truly wish you the best"

Jiu jitsu
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Competitor 9 on January 26, 2015, 03:46:22 PM
Don't pay her any attention all that will do is justify her and give her what's shesz looking for. Block her and keep on keeping on
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Palpatine Q on January 26, 2015, 03:46:40 PM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.

You should say "I wasnt going to say anything, but being that you chose to go this route I feel compelled to defend my masculinity.  I kept talking about fitness and diet... not because I'm narcissistic and in love with myself, but because you're fat and you didn't turn me on. I was hoping you would get interested in it and get yourself in shape because you're disgusting. My new girlfriend is pregnant
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 26, 2015, 03:48:12 PM
doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"


LMFAO...this made me almost spit up!
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: da_vinci on January 26, 2015, 04:03:40 PM
I was not able to get a hard with one bitch, she knew I'm "on", when it went to shit I'm sure she told her friends I'm worthless in bed lol.. The truth was - I was not able to get a hard with HER, to make sure I fucked another girl one weekend and then tried to get it up with her once again - nope... The funny thing is - visually she was hot, just didn't do it for me somewhy.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: bigbadwolfe on January 26, 2015, 04:11:10 PM
Take the high rode and post lots of shit about how happy life is! Being happy is what she does not want you to be, so if you're happy it just tears her up inside. She was a rebound right? Well treat the bitch like a rebound, now go fuck bitches, make money, pump some iron and act like the damn Getbigger you are!!!
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Grape Ape on January 26, 2015, 04:13:25 PM
Say nothing and ignore. It will bother her infinitely more than any note you could possibly send.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 26, 2015, 04:15:11 PM
You should say "I wasnt going to say anything, but being that you chose to go this route I feel compelled to defend my masculinity.  I kept talking about fitness and diet... not because I'm narcissistic and in love with myself, but because you're fat and you didn't turn me on. I was hoping you would get interested in it and get yourself in shape because you're disgusting. My new girlfriend is pregnant

HAHA I will have to take a piece of this.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Julio Ceasar on January 26, 2015, 04:17:23 PM
sounds like ghetto behaviour! Or really young dumb!
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Quickerblade on January 26, 2015, 04:19:50 PM
Don't pay her any attention all that will do is justify her and give her what's shesz looking for. Block her and keep on keeping on

you have been posting alot since being married
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 26, 2015, 04:20:10 PM
Say nothing and ignore. It will bother her infinitely more than any note you could possibly send.

I think I know what Im gonna do. Im gonna invite my dad to dinner with this new chick I've been seeing and Im gonna try to get a picture of us all three in it. Her dad walked out on her when she was really young and she had a horrible relationship with her mother,  she LOVED my parents... I think that will tear her apart more than anything I can say.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: WoogsRaven on January 26, 2015, 04:30:48 PM
Just move on man. Live your life and forget about her. Why perpetuate it by doing something immature like that?

PRIDE is a bitch to deal with. And social media forums are the WORST thing to ever happen to marriages and relationships.

But in this case, it's healthier to move on.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: stavios on January 26, 2015, 04:43:41 PM
breaking news, an "ex" that talk shit about his ex boyfriend..


been that way since the beginning of times, don't mind that fucking whore
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: 240 is Back on January 26, 2015, 04:54:14 PM
the secret?   Early on, get something really incriminating about her.   Her touchy uncle, her use of anti-depressants, where her scumbag brother sells H, what warrants her shithead dad has, etc.

Then you jokingly say "well, at least we have MAD... mutually assured destruction... you can never tell the world about my steroids or I'd totally wreck your family's life haha".   Youo do with with a half-laugh, and you're a scary enough MFer that she knows you'd do it, while at the same time you're a tender guy who is capable of love.  You just won't be fcked with.

and when yall split, remind her that yalls secrets stay between yall.  pretty standard.  oh, and never tell her your secrets til you know hers.  Oh, and never tell her your secrets anyway ;)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 26, 2015, 04:55:29 PM
breaking news, an "ex" that talk shit about his ex boyfriend..


been that way since the beginning of times, don't mind that fucking whore

I agree it's normal a couple weeks after a breakup talking shit to her good friends on the phone etc....but going out of your way to humiliate a guy in front of 2500 random people on social media  is a little uncalled for in my opinion, I mean  its been four months like move the fuck  on already.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: 240 is Back on January 26, 2015, 04:58:34 PM
Also - scan/stalk her FB wall for the last few breakups.  Study her ex's.  Ask her about him early.  If she'll tell you his trash, his shadiness, his secrets on the first date, then one day she will be sharing yours.

The best thing in the world is a girl that has nothing but nice things to say about her ex's. 
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 26, 2015, 05:03:02 PM
Also - scan/stalk her FB wall for the last few breakups.  Study her ex's.  Ask her about him early.  If she'll tell you his trash, his shadiness, his secrets on the first date, then one day she will be sharing yours.

The best thing in the world is a girl that has nothing but nice things to say about her ex's.  

Well  I remember her telling me about TWO different exes threatening to kill themselves if she left them. Not in a compassionate type of way, the way she said it was almost as if she was bragging about it. Thinks every guy wants to fuck her, is incredibly selfish, attention whore..you get the idea.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Sokolsky on January 26, 2015, 05:04:47 PM
If I were you, I would kill myself to teach this bitch a lesson.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 26, 2015, 05:11:06 PM
If I were you, I would kill myself to teach this bitch a lesson.

HAHAHA!!!! ;D ;D
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: ChuckleHead on January 26, 2015, 05:17:20 PM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.

one, realize that everyone has got shit they are embarrassed about, so they actually do sympathize.

two, she's not realizing that everyone who she talks to will never trust her again.

she is hurting herself much more than you.
i'd bet most people are looking down on her.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: mazrim on January 26, 2015, 05:27:31 PM
.

two, she's not realizing that everyone who she talks to will never trust her again.

she is hurting herself much more than you.
i'd bet most people are looking down on her.
This. Thats my first thoughts when seeing private stuff posted on FB or the like even if one of my friends. The person doing the posting is the one with the issues/child.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: TheShape. on January 26, 2015, 05:32:52 PM
Facebook social media beta brah
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: stavios on January 26, 2015, 05:42:09 PM
the secret?   Early on, get something really incriminating about her.   Her touchy uncle, her use of anti-depressants, where her scumbag brother sells H, what warrants her shithead dad has, etc.

Then you jokingly say "well, at least we have MAD... mutually assured destruction... you can never tell the world about my steroids or I'd totally wreck your family's life haha".   Youo do with with a half-laugh, and you're a scary enough MFer that she knows you'd do it, while at the same time you're a tender guy who is capable of love.  You just won't be fcked with.

and when yall split, remind her that yalls secrets stay between yall.  pretty standard.  oh, and never tell her your secrets til you know hers.  Oh, and never tell her your secrets anyway ;)

Hahahaha man that's fucking sick but that's what i always do
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: DroppingPlates on January 26, 2015, 05:44:52 PM
If this is the case, then learn from your mistake by being more selective (i.e. how active is she on 'social media'? the less, the better). However, I've got the feeling that you're a bad learner that doesn't improve.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: spiro on January 26, 2015, 06:48:06 PM
I've never ever seen anyone do some shit like that on Facebook. She looks like a huge asshole, scumbag, whore. Why even worry makes her look like a filthy monster. Let her make an ass of herself.

Nobody likes that kind of thing. Nail her with one good zinger. Something like what groink said and thats it  something witty.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: DanielPaul on January 26, 2015, 07:24:05 PM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.
Tell everybody her pussy stinks, and she smell like a wet dog when she sweats, nobody could maintain a boner through that, you'll go from getting laughed at for not having lead in your pencil to suddenly everyone sympathizing with you
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Hulkotron on January 26, 2015, 07:27:09 PM
Don't take kindly to disrespect, internet, parking lot, etc.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Wiggs on January 26, 2015, 07:51:54 PM
Ignore her 100%. Pretend she's dead.  People love attention and when you don't give it to them, it drives them nuts.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on January 26, 2015, 07:58:23 PM
Leak a sex tape with you and a hot piece of ass and then blame it on her. But make sure you lay some serious pipe in the tape you leak...
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: el numero uno on January 26, 2015, 08:04:21 PM
Didn't read the thread but: pee in her butt.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Nirvana on January 26, 2015, 11:38:17 PM
Any response is a wrong response.

Do nothing. Say nothing. Logoff for a while.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Danimal77 on January 26, 2015, 11:48:50 PM
breaking news, an "ex" that talk shit about his ex boyfriend..


been that way since the beginning of times, don't mind that fucking whore

Her ex boyfriend, not his ex boyfriend.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: pedro01 on January 27, 2015, 01:10:31 AM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.



"things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D, "

simple answer - "sorry, I just never had the heart to tell you I didn't find you attractive any more, I figured the steroid story would work"

She's a mental midget. Run rings around her.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Thong Maniac on January 27, 2015, 03:50:47 AM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.

Your a male, why are you on social media? The most beta, attention seeking thing ever
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Thin Lizzy on January 27, 2015, 04:06:55 AM
Facebook social media beta brah

This.

Unless you're trying to promote something, I see no reason to have a Facebook page.

"Reconnecting" only reminds you of why you lost touch with these people in the first place.

Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: d0nny2600 on January 27, 2015, 04:12:58 AM
You could always try taking your tampon out and chewing some Viagra broseph
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Bam-bam on January 27, 2015, 05:02:05 AM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.

LOL

sorry but this only your fault. Bitches will always talk shit, no matter how much baby crying you do it won't ever change that.

simply stop going limp and fucking it up. from now on always have a viagra in your pocket just in case. everyone is prone to miss an erection but we the big guys are always on the spot light and are easy targets for this kind of defamation.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 27, 2015, 05:28:15 AM
suck it up, do nothing....  been there....  still there occasionally,,,,  it eats my ex up inside because i don't let her ruffle my feathers...  anyone hearing her rants will know she's a psychotic jealous bitch trying to stir the pot.....  be better than that......   my 2 cents...  
This advice x 100!

THAT and be sure to post plenty of pics of you with any hot females while you're out ( facebook pics?) .
Doing that will be the best possible " reply".

Her bullshit gossip failed to bug you and you moved on with other females.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: bears on January 27, 2015, 07:08:29 AM
suck it up, do nothing....  been there....  still there occasionally,,,,  it eats my ex up inside because i don't let her ruffle my feathers...  anyone hearing her rants will know she's a psychotic jealous bitch trying to stir the pot.....  be better than that......   my 2 cents...  

this...this.....this.  I think everyone sees through that.  even if they don't tell her that.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 27, 2015, 07:15:19 AM
this...this.....this.  I think everyone sees through that.  even if they don't tell her that.

There is only 1 correct comeback for any disgruntled ex gf or wife.
 :D She failed to excite me because... her butt smells.  :D

That's the end all/be all, nuclear insult for any female.

Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: falco on January 27, 2015, 07:35:23 AM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.

In social conflicts the most polite person usually keeps silent.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 27, 2015, 07:48:01 AM
In social conflicts the most polite person usually keeps silent.

If it weren't for forums like getbig, I'd have zero social media interaction.
I don't have  Facebook page and never followed anyone on Twitter.
I never sent a pic on Instagram and don't have a personal blog.

I've been divorced a few times and never wanted to air my break up on social media.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 27, 2015, 07:48:57 AM
If it weren't for forums like getbig, I'd have zero social media interaction.
I don't have  Facebook page and never followed anyone on Twitter.
I never sent a pic on Instagram and don't have a personal blog.

I've been divorced a few times and never wanted to air my break up on social media.

whatcha paying in alimony?
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 27, 2015, 07:59:55 AM
whatcha paying in alimony?
zip.

Never had kids, and every divorce was uncontested .
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 27, 2015, 08:03:57 AM
zip.

Never had kids, and every divorce was uncontested .

you shooting blanks???...no alimony or child support...you must be banking big money 8)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: funk51 on January 27, 2015, 08:09:26 AM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"   this  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: funk51 on January 27, 2015, 08:10:21 AM
or this
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Tapeworm on January 27, 2015, 08:13:36 AM
Geez you couldn't get it up?  :-\  That ain't good.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 27, 2015, 12:57:36 PM
you shooting blanks???...no alimony or child support...you must be banking big money 8)

Truth is I always pulled out and never got any pregnant, 100% serious.

I'm doing well with my current wife. She makes a lot more then me.
We have a decent home all paid off now ( downsize move), so she could quit work and I wouldn't care at this point.
I'll be teaching physics at "What's-a-matta- U" , for a few more years regardless.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: MusselFreek on January 27, 2015, 01:32:53 PM
Cue the Big Sean song "I don't f*ck with you"
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 27, 2015, 01:34:35 PM
Truth is I always pulled out and never got any pregnant, 100% serious.

I'm doing well with my current wife. She makes a lot more then me.
We have a decent home all paid off now ( downsize move), so she could quit work and I wouldn't care at this point.
I'll be teaching physics at "What's-a-matta- U" , for a few more years regardless.

its unusual to use pull out technique on the wife...interesting
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on January 27, 2015, 06:35:13 PM
Fuck man, you're 21 and have had more drama with women in the last year than I've had in my life. You seem to be having fun though :-p
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: chaos on January 27, 2015, 06:37:08 PM
Fuck man, you're 21 and have had more drama with women in the last year than I've had in my life. You seem to be having fun though :-p
To be fair, he has been 21 for 5 years now.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 27, 2015, 06:45:12 PM
Its on guys. Im taking one of the worst pictures i still have of her....a shitty selfie  with no make up and Im putting it side by side next to my new bitch (who's much hotter) and Ima post it up
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: chaos on January 27, 2015, 06:46:35 PM
Its on guys. Im taking one of the worst pictures i still have of her....a shitty selfie  with no make up and Im putting it side by side next to my new bitch (who's much hotter) and Ima post it up

Post it here first.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: visualizeperfection on January 27, 2015, 06:47:27 PM
Post it here first.


x2


Lets see these whores.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Dave D on January 27, 2015, 07:22:19 PM
If you're going the whole social media route you might as well post that you're engaged too; she'll look super jealous for all the cap she's posting, and she will realize this, and she'll be extremely upset that you've moved on so quickly.

Two birds one stone.


*Assuming it's people that know you already, like we do on getbig, I'm sure they're well familiar with you dating history, and how your heart is getting stomped every two months, so her words probably carry little weight
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: POB on January 27, 2015, 09:36:48 PM
Time to post up a pic of the Cack. Make sure you take the picture from low to high to give it a bigger more 3D look. Not only will she be salavating for the boy from bedrock but so will all the other ladies in your network just in time for the weekend. You'll have the pic of the litter and some will just have to wait until till next week;)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: WoogsRaven on January 28, 2015, 08:15:04 AM
Its on guys. Im taking one of the worst pictures i still have of her....a shitty selfie  with no make up and Im putting it side by side next to my new bitch (who's much hotter) and Ima post it up


The things she said about you must have really hit home and must be true, limp dick. You're only going to escalate the situation by posting immature dumb shit on social media. Grow up and move on and be happy with your new "bitch" ::)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Kwon_2 on January 28, 2015, 08:37:02 AM
Flint, you seem to have real low selfconfidence.


Are you satisfied with your new gf?

Yes? Good, then move on. No need to act childish, let bygones be bygones.

The past is done, move forward with the new relationship.



Thinking like you are currently only means you still want some kind of interaction with the old gf, and thus, the new gf isn't exactly what you want.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: WoogsRaven on January 28, 2015, 08:58:43 AM
^^^ that's exactly what it means. He's butt hurt about what she said because it's probably all true. And if he's referring to his new girl as his "bitch," that kind of tells you all you need to know about him. He must have stopped running test cycles and can't get his dick hard. Must be offseason.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: SF1900 on January 28, 2015, 09:05:20 AM
Flint, you seem to have real low selfconfidence.


Are you satisfied with your new gf?

Yes? Good, then move on. No need to act childish, let bygones be bygones.

The past is done, move forward with the new relationship.



Thinking like you are currently only means you still want some kind of interaction with the old gf, and thus, the new gf isn't exactly what you want.


Youre assuming that he can let this go as any mature adult would.  :-\ :-\
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 28, 2015, 09:11:47 AM
^^^ that's exactly what it means. He's butt hurt about what she said because it's probably all true. And if he's referring to his new girl as his "bitch," that kind of tells you all you need to know about him. He must have stopped running test cycles and can't get his dick hard. Must be offseason.

Or, he's a total closet case and secretly desires the hairy bunghole over the vajayjay ;)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: SF1900 on January 28, 2015, 09:14:30 AM
Or, he's a total closet case and secretly desires the hairy bunghole over the vajayjay ;)

There are 2 sides to every story. For all we know, she was totally justified in writing that stuff about him. Flint is like a 12-year old boy. I can only imagine the things he said and did to her after they broke up.

You have to begin to wonder when someone is consistently having problems in relationships. Is it that person or is it everyone else? Who is the common denominator in all these situations? Flint.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Grape Ape on January 28, 2015, 09:19:49 AM
He starts a thread where he asks advice, and sees a consistent theme that ignoring the bitch it is best.

So of course he's not going to do that.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Donny on January 28, 2015, 09:23:25 AM
He starts a thread where he asks advice, and sees a consistent theme that ignoring the bitch it is best.

So of course he's not going to do that.
she is waiting for him to lose it and post private pics or get threatening and surprise,surprise she will get him in court. bitches go for revenge..
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Grape Ape on January 28, 2015, 09:25:47 AM
she is waiting for him to lose it and post private pics or get threatening and surprise,surprise she will get him in court. bitches go for revenge..

Even more reason to take the high road.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 28, 2015, 09:29:20 AM
He starts a thread where he asks advice, and sees a consistent theme that ignoring the bitch it is best.

So of course he's not going to do that.

I had an advice conversation with a gym bro that went like this after he broke up with his babe.

Me - " It's best to just ignore her now "

Him - "Ya,  I'll just get into my workouts now and go for a show this summer."

Me - " That's a really positive way to go. What show do you think you want to go for ."

Him - " What's the closest NPC show this summer? "

Me - I tell him the name and location

Him - " I want to be close so she can come watch and see me compete. That way she'll be impressed and take me back.
Would you ask her to go , if you see her in here before the show? "

Me - " Good luck with your prep"  I turn and walk away.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Donny on January 28, 2015, 09:30:45 AM
Even more reason to take the high road.
yes Itīs no joke when a woman is hurt.. they want revenge.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Rudee on January 28, 2015, 12:30:09 PM
There was somebody where I live (This was in Canada) that murdered their ex after their ex was bashing them on Facebook.  Dude got pissed at ex and went to her house, dragged her out of the house into his car, then drove away with her in the car.  Neighbors who witness this called the Cops.  Cops pursued at slow speed for safety reasons.  ex tried to leap from the car, but dude just increased speed.   Slow speed pursuit changed to high speed pursuit once dude got on the highway.  Dude then intentionally swerves into path of oncoming Semi, killing both dude and his ex.  

Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 28, 2015, 01:04:40 PM
she is waiting for him to lose it and post private pics or get threatening and surprise,surprise she will get him in court. bitches go for revenge..

The police are a woman's best friend
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 28, 2015, 03:00:09 PM
she is waiting for him to lose it and post private pics or get threatening and surprise,surprise she will get him in court. bitches go for revenge..

She took an ex to court before so trust me I know the type of girl I'm dealing with. I didn't threaten her or use any curse words towards her.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: WoogsRaven on January 28, 2015, 04:33:01 PM
She took an ex to court before so trust me I know the type of girl I'm dealing with. I didn't threaten her or use any curse words towards her.

If you think you know this then move the fuck on and leave it alone. Show some maturity.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Conker on January 28, 2015, 04:49:56 PM
What would you do if your ex was talking shit about you on social media where there are a lot of mutual friends you have?  Im talking about saying really fucked up embarrassing  things like telling everyone you abused steroids and you couldn't get hard anymore ;D,

They say the best thing is go on and live a happy life and that's what I've been doing.  but I really want to send this bitch a nasty ass text message. something like

"you pathetic c u n t. The fact that you go out of your way to bash me on social media four months after we broke up just shows you how much you still want me. I hope you realize telling everyone  a guy couldn't get hard with you only makes YOU look unattractive to him, you do realize that right? Go ahead keep talking shit hun, doesn't change the fact that you were , still my rebound girl who i kicked to the curb cause you were shitty in bed, had shitty tits, and a loose ass pussy"

I hate being in this situation because I know I could say something like that which would really hurt her,   but  part of me knows how fucked up this bitch is...me  contacting her again even if it is to insult her,   will only give her validation. She's bitter Im not crawling back to her like her other exes.


that text is really good but what's the point of texting her that where no one else will see?, stick it on facebook and send it to her parents. that will hit her where it hurts
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Donny on January 29, 2015, 05:12:28 AM
She took an ex to court before so trust me I know the type of girl I'm dealing with. I didn't threaten her or use any curse words towards her.
mate just walk away. leave her to stew in her own "juices" ;D. seriously if you know she did it to another guy then common sense tells she will just cause you stress and money. Guy in the Gym told me he split up with a girl and she went to the police saying he owed her money and a fairly large sum..she got right in court and he was really bitter about it which i understand. stay off Facebook donīt post her pictures or post any dirt about her openly. stay cool 8)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Grape Ape on January 29, 2015, 05:34:58 AM
She took an ex to court before so trust me I know the type of girl I'm dealing with. I didn't threaten her or use any curse words towards her.

You know the type but you obviously don't know what to do with that type.

You've asked for advice, then ignored it.  Ignoring is hard, because it's human nature to fight back.  What you don't realize is, in this case, not fighting IS the best fight.  It would bother her MORE if all these lame things she's spending her time on had no effect.


Its on guys. Im taking one of the worst pictures i still have of her....a shitty selfie  with no make up and Im putting it side by side next to my new bitch (who's much hotter) and Ima post it up


Oh yeah,  that'll show her.  She won't recover.   ::) ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: bigmc on January 29, 2015, 05:44:32 AM
You know the type but you obviously don't know what to do with that type.

You've asked for advice, then ignored it.  Ignoring is hard, because it's human nature to fight back.  What you don't realize is, in this case, not fighting IS the best fight.  It would bother her MORE if all these lame things she's spending her time on had no effect.


Oh yeah,  that'll show her.  She won't recover.   ::) ::) ::) ::)

best advice ever

if you completely ignore everything she does

you look like a total boss

and she looks like a bitter psycho
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 29, 2015, 05:45:33 AM
She took an ex to court before so trust me I know the type of girl I'm dealing with. I didn't threaten her or use any curse words towards her.

Now you KNOW what she is capable of and  don't need that.
Why deal with the potential hassle?

You aren't married, don't have kids with her or own property together, etc.
The relationship is over and she's bitter.
That's what most girls do after a break up.

I've been divorced 3 x ( so far LOL ) and knew enough to say very little when it was time to split up.
AGAIN, for your own sake, STFU and go on with your life.
You'll be glad you didn't say or post much on FB in a few weeks, trust me. ;)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Tapeworm on January 29, 2015, 05:47:31 AM
Don't just sit there and take it, chump!
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: _aj_ on January 29, 2015, 06:02:43 AM
Oh yeah,  that'll show her.  She won't recover.   ::) ::) ::) ::)

LOL. Kids these days never learn. Flint will escalate until he's stalking her "to show her" and then end up in the slam.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Donny on January 29, 2015, 06:31:20 AM
LOL. Kids these days never learn. Flint will escalate until he's stalking her "to show her" and then end up in the slam.
yes this.... he should just go out with a buddy, get drunk and fuck a whore...  ;)
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: spiro on January 29, 2015, 07:02:33 AM
LOL. Kids these days never learn. Flint will escalate until he's stalking her "to show her" and then end up in the slam.

Lol ya grow up flint. Always playing with fire. Be happy you got out and didn't get that whore pregnant. Try to learn a lesson.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 29, 2015, 07:13:48 AM
Now you KNOW what she is capable of and  don't need that.
Why deal with the potential hassle?

You aren't married, don't have kids with her or own property together, etc.
The relationship is over and she's bitter.
That's what most girls do after a break up.

I've been divorced 3 x ( so far LOL ) and knew enough to say very little when it was time to split up.
AGAIN, for your own sake, STFU and go on with your life.
You'll be glad you didn't say or post much on FB in a few weeks, trust me. ;)

first of all, I'm a Buddhist....you have to always try to keep a calm mind.....by keeping a calm mind you can focus on whats important in your life and not have stress.....a restless mind can become very capricious......it will want to lash out and bring trouble to the individual...ignore her comments and keep calm....its ok..you sound like you now have a beautiful wife who loves you....you've won....you're definitely rentling space in your ex's head....don't let her rent space in yours....

lashing back at her hurts you as well because you would have impure thoughts and stress on the mind and body which will get you in trouble later on due to emotionalism.....and its not good for your heart
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: MAXX on January 29, 2015, 07:23:00 AM
don't bother with it...

carry on and be happy with your new gf that's the best "retaliation"
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 29, 2015, 07:52:08 AM
first of all, I'm a Buddhist....you have to always try to keep a calm mind.....by keeping a calm mind you can focus on whats important in your life and not have stress.....a restless mind can become very capricious......it will want to lash out and bring trouble to the individual...ignore her comments and keep calm....its ok..you sound like you now have a beautiful wife who loves you....you've won....you're definitely rentling space in your ex's head....don't let her rent space in yours....

lashing back at her hurts you as well because you would have impure thoughts and stress on the mind and body which will get you in trouble later on due to emotionalism.....and its not good for your heart

Very well put.

His restless, angry sprit is now trying to deal with rejection from a  girl he cared for.
You are 100% correct that he needs to accept his feelings but channel them and then find peace.

If he maintains his dignity and values, he can forward and love a decent woman who wants a functional relationship.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: andreisdaman on January 29, 2015, 07:57:56 AM
Very well put.

His restless, angry sprit is now trying to deal with rejection from a  girl he cared for.
You are 100% correct that he needs to accept his feelings but channel them and then find peace.

If he maintains his dignity and values, he can forward and love a decent woman who wants a functional relationship.

EXACTLY....X2
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: SF1900 on January 29, 2015, 10:10:18 AM
He sounds like a serial rapist or killer in the making.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: _aj_ on January 29, 2015, 10:10:30 AM
Of course he could start a Facebook promoted g4p site and make sure she gets the link.
That would show her.... ::)

He could build a small house with her bones. Nothing says "I am over you" like a complete obsession.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Donny on January 29, 2015, 10:30:07 AM
Go down your local store and make this ...will keep you out of trouble :D bit of lube and your ready to go and she never says no... :D
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: flinstones1 on January 29, 2015, 01:03:45 PM
Flint, you seem to have real low selfconfidence.


Are you satisfied with your new gf?

Yes? Good, then move on. No need to act childish, let bygones be bygones.

The past is done, move forward with the new relationship.



Thinking like you are currently only means you still want some kind of interaction with the old gf, and thus, the new gf isn't exactly what you want.


Tough to say.  What happens now is I usually like a chick ALOT for a little while and then I just get bored and lose interest. Its really fucking weird  dude, I'll be crazy struck on a chick for weeks and then out of nowhere Im like bitch  get the fuck off me. I dont even think Im capable of having a relationship anymore because Ive turned into a sociopath.

It sucks because  The  chick Im seeing now (I havent told her Im ready to be exclusive yet even though she wants to be).  The first few dates I was excited about her because  shes exactly what I was looking for.  light skinned black chick with a huge ass.... shes got money and no kids.....I couldn't wait  to see her after the first and second date, but the last time I hung out with her I didn't really feel anything towards her. Im gonna stick it out for a while and see if I start to really like her.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Kwon_2 on January 29, 2015, 01:31:22 PM
Tough to say.  What happens now is I usually like a chick ALOT for a little while and then I just get bored and lose interest. Its really fucking weird  dude, I'll be crazy struck on a chick for weeks and then out of nowhere Im like bitch  get the fuck off me. I dont even think Im capable of having a relationship anymore because Ive turned into a sociopath.

It sucks because  The  chick Im seeing now (I havent told her Im ready to be exclusive yet even though she wants to be).  The first few dates I was excited about her because  shes exactly what I was looking for.  light skinned black chick with a huge ass.... shes got money and no kids.....I couldn't wait  to see her after the first and second date, but the last time I hung out with her I didn't really feel anything towards her. Im gonna stick it out for a while and see if I start to really like her.

The chemistry is most important.

Even if she has everything you want "on paper", it does not necessarily work out.

There has to be chemistry between you two for it to become a longer relationship instead of a mere bootycall.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Natural Man on January 29, 2015, 01:34:16 PM
I think I know what Im gonna do. Im gonna invite my dad to dinner with this new chick I've been seeing and Im gonna try to get a picture of us all three in it. Her dad walked out on her when she was really young and she had a horrible relationship with her mother,  she LOVED my parents... I think that will tear her apart more than anything I can say.
dude...first mistake was to expose all your shitty insignificant life on the internet and let everyone be able to contact each others. You re no better than her and everyone who does that stupid shit. How old are you seriously.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: _aj_ on January 29, 2015, 01:58:56 PM
dude...first mistake was to expose all your shitty insignificant life on the internet and let everyone be able to contact each others. You re no better than her and everyone who does that stupid shit. How old are you seriously.

For the last 5 years, he's been 21.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Grape Ape on January 29, 2015, 02:04:24 PM
I wonder how many getbiggers ever used something like this? ???

Outed for wondering how dudes jerk off.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Natural Man on January 29, 2015, 02:34:26 PM
For the last 5 years, he's been 21.
half if not three quarters of what he writes must be bullshit anyway.
Title: Re: How would you handle this with an ex?
Post by: Howard on January 29, 2015, 02:48:44 PM
half if not three quarters of what he writes must be bullshit anyway.
Let's go with 5/8 lies then?