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Not really "Dating" but talking to this chick for just 2 days online ....
I sent her a text asking what she was up to this weekend ?
Her reply was " Do you have your son this weekend?" ... I don't have kids , so obviously she's talking with another dude and sent message by mistake lol ....
What should my answer be ?
Thanks .
WoooSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH BE YE KE
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LMAO ..
I'm gonna wait a bit for more "advices" If not, I swear ill send her the link of that song"
Very original Thanks.
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Not really "Dating" but talking to this chick for just 2 days online ....
I sent her a text asking what she was up to this weekend ?
Her reply was " Do you have your son this weekend?" ... I don't have kids , so obviously she's talking with another dude and sent message by mistake lol ....
What should my answer be ?
Thanks .
WoooSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH BE YE KE
of course they a chatting to a million dudes online. This is insignificant.
Get to know her better if you want to.
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What's the big deal u haven't even been out with her and u want exclusivity. Just tell her you're not the guy with the kid & see if she wants to hang out
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What's the big deal u haven't even been out with her and u want exclusivity. Just tell her you're not the guy with the kid & see if she wants to hang out
Here we go again ... I do not want exclusivity .
Not a big deal at all
Just to know how would you answer back since there's a lot of Gary Browsky (Sp?) on GetBig .
Thanks
WoooSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHH BE YE KE
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Not really "Dating" but talking to this chick for just 2 days online ....
I sent her a text asking what she was up to this weekend ?
Her reply was " Do you have your son this weekend?" ... I don't have kids , so obviously she's talking with another dude and sent message by mistake lol ....
What should my answer be ?
Thanks .
WoooSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH BE YE KE
Be very polite and tell her, "look you fucking semen gulping whore, I'm not the black fuckhead with 6 illegitimate kids you are falling all over in texts messages because he said your Idaho-sized ass looks hot. So if you don't smarten the fuck up and drain my dick like Pellius at a truck stop glory hole, I'm going to go Big Mike Cox up in your ass and you'll limp away like Primehomo at a San Fran bathhouse."
She will appreciate your candidness
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That'd be an instant turn-off for me knowing she's willing to go out with a guy who has a kid (assuming she's in her 20s and doesn't have any herself)
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Just tell her you don't have kids (but if it's a deal breaker you're willing to make her a mother, no strings attached)
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Just tell her you don't have kids (but if it's a deal breaker you're willing to make her a mother, no strings attached)
LOL .
WOOOSSSHHHHHHHH
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You're fucked. If you call her out you'll probably never hear back. Best thing to do is ask her again about plans and pretend that text never happened. At least you realize that these whores online probably have dozens of conversations going on at once and when it's Monday and they plan something with you for Friday, that just means she's fucking 4 other dudes before then.
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Masturbation saves a lot of time and money.
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Be very polite and tell her, "look you fucking semen gulping whore, I'm not the black fuckhead with 6 illegitimate kids you are falling all over in texts messages because he said your Idaho-sized ass looks hot. So if you don't smarten the fuck up and drain my dick like Pellius at a truck stop glory hole, I'm going to go Big Mike Cox up in your ass and you'll limp away like Primehomo at a San Fran bathhouse."
She will appreciate your candidness
Finally, some worthwhile advices.
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Not really "Dating" but talking to this chick for just 2 days online ....
I sent her a text asking what she was up to this weekend ?
Her reply was " Do you have your son this weekend?" ... I don't have kids , so obviously she's talking with another dude and sent message by mistake lol ....
What should my answer be ?
Thanks .
WoooSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH BE YE KE
Answer this, Why, did you want a play date with him?
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Be very polite and tell her, "look you fucking semen gulping whore, I'm not the black fuckhead with 6 illegitimate kids you are falling all over in texts messages because he said your Idaho-sized ass looks hot. So if you don't smarten the fuck up and drain my dick like Pellius at a truck stop glory hole, I'm going to go Big Mike Cox up in your ass and you'll limp away like Primehomo at a San Fran bathhouse."
She will appreciate your candidness
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Make a joke out of it.
Like 'no my son just got sent to jail for slaying a fellow gang member. 3yr olds these days'.
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It gets hard to keep track of all the conversations at one point. I would let that pass. If she screams the name of some random dude during sex, then you have real issues to deal with.
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If you just want to bag her, then just text her and tell her you're not the guy with the kid. She will be embarrassed but probably laugh it off and since she will be feeling stupid she may be more inclined to meet you haha
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If she can't remember you then she's gone from 'potential date' to 'someone to toy with.' Tell her Rutager was hit by a runaway llama and his physician has recommended an all curry diet.
And you may need a little dieting yourself if you're not sticking out in her mind as The Guy.
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It gets hard to keep track of all the conversations at one point. I would let that pass. If she screams the name of some random dude during sex, then you have real issues to deal with.
This is true. Think about it, you likely aren't just fucking this one lady. Realistically what is good for the goose is good for the gander. If you are a virgin, you have every right to expect the woman you choose to lose your virginity to is also a virgin. If on the other hand you have experience, why can she not also have experience?
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This is true. Think about it, you likely aren't just fucking this one lady. Realistically what is good for the goose is good for the gander. If you are a virgin, you have every right to expect the woman you choose to lose your virginity to is also a virgin. If on the other hand you have experience, why can she not also have experience?
Yes, but I am super old school when it comes to this. If she tells me she had group sex, or sex with 2 dudes at once. I'M out. My ex once told me she fucked two different guys in the same day and I was flat out disgusted. Good thing I was attached to her or I would have left her then.
Imagine eating some girls twat that had cock in there like less that 12 hours ago. I'd fuckin' throw up.
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Yes, but I am super old school when it comes to this. If she tells me she had group sex, or sex with 2 dudes at once. I'M out. My ex once told me she fucked two different guys in the same day and I was flat out disgusted. Good thing I was attached to her or I would have left her then.
Imagine eating some girls twat that had cock in there like less that 12 hours ago. I'd fuckin' throw up.
That's funny, I was thrown off by a chick who once shared similar information with me and I immediately lost interest. She got offended and upset and asked my why I was judging her past, I said I wasn't but her future wasn't appealing to me.
I try to find out about people before I get serious now, it's can be a painstaking process, but I've often found out people/women will divulge much private information without to much prodding.
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That's funny, I was thrown off by a chicken who once shared similar information with me and I immediately lost interest. She got offended and upset and asked my why I was judging her past, I said I wasn't but her future wasn't appealing to me.
I try to find out about people before I get serious now, it's can be a painstaking process, but I've often found out people/women will divulge much private information without to much prodding.
It was an exhausting time/search. It takes a whole lot of chatting to get things going then meeting up. If the first weekend nor the second weekend you can't meet up,move on. People like that always have some shit to attend and that stuff just messus up a sex life. Sex, the shit you got involved in this in the first place... Once it goes down, it after a few adjustements it's not fixed, I'd go somewhere else.
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It was an exhausting time/search. It takes a whole lot of chatting to get things going then meeting up. If the first weekend nor the second weekend you can't meet up,move on. People like that always have some shit to attend and that stuff just messus up a sex life. Sex, the shit you got involved in this in the first place... Once it goes down, it after a few adjustements it's not fixed, I'd go somewhere else.
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I'm fairly good about holding out/not hooking up. I think it causes frustration with some women because they're so used to being pursued sexually, and then getting what they want when they are ready ( some of my friends question my tactics, as do I sometimes, but I tend to get emotionally involved way to easy for a man so I have to protect myself, no homo).
All that said it's not long after they ask why I'm resistant to sex and I say I'd like to know them first, which often leads to them spilling details of their past, which I'm sure can be taken with a grain of salt.
It's can be exhaustive.
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I'm fairly good about holding out/not hooking up. I think it causes frustration with some women because they're so used to being pursued sexually, and then getting what they want when they are ready ( some of my friends question my tactics, as do I sometimes, but I tend to get emotionally involved way to easy for a man so I have to protect myself, no homo).
All that said it's not long after they ask why I'm resistant to sex and I say I'd like to know them first, which often leads to them spilling details of their past, which I'm sure can be taken with a grain of salt.
It's can be exhaustive.
I was getting very similar stories from many women and in some ways, I was similar to their x's, lol!
Nurses often make good gf's for bodybuilders and women who take care of old folks.
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I was getting very similar stories from many women and in some ways, I was similar to their x's, lol!
Nurses often make good gf's for bodybuilders and women who take care of old folks.
Haha haha, solid advice on the woman types. :)
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Yes, but I am super old school when it comes to this. If she tells me she had group sex, or sex with 2 dudes at once. I'M out. My ex once told me she fucked two different guys in the same day and I was flat out disgusted. Good thing I was attached to her or I would have left her then.
Imagine eating some girls twat that had cock in there like less that 12 hours ago. I'd fuckin' throw up.
I too am old school. My wife had virtually no sexual experience prior to our getting together. I had minimal experience. One could say we were both almost virgins. While I had experimented sexually somewhat, there was no romance involved...discounting puppy love.
I so put women on a pedestal, that I expected the woman of my dreams was an absolute virgin. As it turned out, she was. We were exceptionally young when we got together. It seems unrealistic to expect sexual innocence when people are older. Actually, this would be a huge red flag.
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I too am old school. My wife had virtually no sexual experience prior to our getting together. I had minimal experience. One could say we were both almost virgins. While I had experimented sexually somewhat, there was no romance involved...discounting puppy love.
I so put women on a pedestal, that I expected the woman of my dreams was an absolute virgin. As it turned out, she was. We were exceptionally young when we got together. It seems unrealistic to expect sexual innocence when people are older. Actually, this would be a huge red flag.
That really is a fairy tale of sorts and too bad the norm has distanced itself so much in the present as to how you experienced this. For me, it's a bit too slow, but it holds better values/standards to which have now all gone to shits.
I do need to have sex quickly though after feeling if there's a chance of relationship. (By the time I meet up with a girl, she's comfortable with me dropping sex jokes all the time and knows I'M gonna be a perv, lol..) If I wanna be with her, it's because she turns me on and from there, it's bedroom time to get to know each other and do other stuff when not having sex. That's why you have to sleep over to ensure lots of sex. Sex before bed, in the morning, after she gets out of the shower and maybe some other time.
I mean why get all attached if she ends up being horrible in bed, pussy tastes bad, is not willing to do bj's... Gotta solid sex life going steady for months before being attached.
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Let me guess this right cos I'm not sure I understand.
The OP met a girl online and thinks she's only talking to him?
A studd muffin with epic looks and money and what have you will get outdone by a female rated a 5 at best on this online game.....period.
You're up against a lot of competition...get in there quick buddy before someone else does. Keep your expectations low and your mind open and you'll be fine.
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That really is a fairy tale of sorts and too bad the norm has distanced itself so much in the present as to how you experienced this. For me, it's a bit too slow, but it holds better values/standards to which have now all gone to shits.
I do need to have sex quickly though after feeling if there's a chance of relationship. (By the time I meet up with a girl, she's comfortable with me dropping sex jokes all the time and knows I'M gonna be a perv, lol..) If I wanna be with her, it's because she turns me on and from there, it's bedroom time to get to know each other and do other stuff when not having sex. That's why you have to sleep over to ensure lots of sex. Sex before bed, in the morning, after she gets out of the shower and maybe some other time.
I mean why get all attached if she ends up being horrible in bed, pussy tastes bad, is not willing to do bj's... Gotta solid sex life going steady for months before being attached.
I guess you have a point. No matter how sexually charged a relationship is in the beginning, it usually cools down. When the inevitable happens, you better hope you have more then sex in common.
I might be biased, but the ultimate connection my wife and I have has very little to do with sex. Sex for us has mostly been the frosting on the cake. These days we aren't eating as much cake, which is normal in long term relationships. Whatever cake we eat is low sugar, thus there is not much frosting. If this seems bad, it isn't. It is actually fairly normal.
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"You mean our future son?"
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This post is useless without a picture of her cock!!
No homo!
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This post is useless without a picture of her cock!!
No homo!
Now I know I am entering senility, because I don't have a clue what you are talking about.
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Now I know I am entering senility, because I don't have a clue what you are talking about.
That's why we need a picture, duh!
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That's funny, I was thrown off by a chick who once shared similar information with me and I immediately lost interest. She got offended and upset and asked my why I was judging her past, I said I wasn't but her future wasn't appealing to me.
I try to find out about people before I get serious now, it's can be a painstaking process, but I've often found out people/women will divulge much private information without to much prodding.
The last date I was on was pretty hot (tall/blonde/great body, late 20s), about the first thing out of her mouth when we sat down was how she was "a little hung over and tired" from being out late last night (would have been a Thursday) drinking whiskey with "one of her guy friends".
I checked out as soon as it was convenient and inoffensive and ignored her "hey it was great hanging out with u tonight ;)" text.
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The last date I was on was pretty hot (tall/blonde/great body, late 20s), about the first thing out of her mouth when we sat down was how she was "a little hung over and tired" from being out late last night (would have been a Thursday) drinking whiskey with "one of her guy friends".
I checked out as soon as it was convenient and inoffensive and ignored her "hey it was great hanging out with u tonight ;)" text.
I think you missed out on a great fuck IMHO
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The last date I was on was pretty hot (tall/blonde/great body, late 20s), about the first thing out of her mouth when we sat down was how she was "a little hung over and tired" from being out late last night (would have been a Thursday) drinking whiskey with "one of her guy friends".
I checked out as soon as it was convenient and inoffensive and ignored her "hey it was great hanging out with u tonight ;)" text.
Fuck... That would sooo turn me off, fuck that.
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I think you missed out on a great fuck IMHO
Maybe but she had likely just had another guy's dong in her mouth/cooter/option 3. Not my bag.
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Maybe but she had likely just had another guy's dong in her mouth/cooter/option 3. Not my bag.
I find it a turn on when I come across these types...justifies an angry fuck.
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I find it a turn on when I come across these types...justifies an angry fuck.
Yes, I think a well deserved hate fuck was in order that night
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I guess you have a point. No matter how sexually charged a relationship is in the beginning, it usually cools down. When the inevitable happens, you better hope you have more then sex in common.
I might be biased, but the ultimate connection my wife and I have has very little to do with sex. Sex for us has mostly been the frosting on the cake. These days we aren't eating as much cake, which is normal in long term relationships. Whatever cake we eat is low sugar, thus there is not much frosting. If this seems bad, it isn't. It is actually fairly normal.
I don't even look for common interests no more. Am I really gonna find a girl who is hot, likes to smoke weed who is not a fukckin' hippy/artist type, no. Or even more have some office woman accept my lifestyle/gear use, weed smoking, not likely. Every woman I've found who accepts my shit is too fucked up for me. Or if they accept my smoking they smoke cigarettes. Disgusting... I woke up to bed sheets that smell like cigs and that is my cue to end it.
More of a question as to is our bullshit compatible or not. Easy to like someone for commonly known stuff. For me it comes down to, "will I still feel for this person when I know her deeply" Most the time that answer is "no"
Until then, it's open game on all the random sex possible as by the time I do get to know her, probably won't be interested no more. Everything always seems good at first, just ends up rotten like all the previous.
Rinse, repeat.