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Title: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Darren Avey on May 31, 2015, 12:47:54 PM
My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: The Ugly on May 31, 2015, 12:48:53 PM
Ugly, sure.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Kwon_2 on May 31, 2015, 12:50:16 PM
Is he engaged with another woman that's out of town?
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Schmoff on May 31, 2015, 01:01:24 PM
My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.

the girl doesn't want to fuck him

Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: bradistani on May 31, 2015, 01:04:34 PM
no. you'll always wanna fuck em. its what they were made for.. fucking./
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Thong Maniac on May 31, 2015, 01:04:52 PM
the girl doesn't want to fuck him



This is the ONLY correct answer. End thread
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: f450 on May 31, 2015, 01:05:49 PM
My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.

Yes you can, but only after you've hit that  ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 01:21:22 PM
Possible, but dangerous.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: che on May 31, 2015, 01:22:02 PM
No
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: herne on May 31, 2015, 01:24:29 PM
no. you'll always wanna fuck em. its what they were made for.. fucking./

... probably this ...
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Hulk-smash! on May 31, 2015, 01:25:54 PM
Sure...if she's so damn ugly that all the booze, drugs, and/or paper sacks in the world wouldn't allow you to nail 'er in your horniest moment.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: thegamechanger on May 31, 2015, 01:27:43 PM
so he jogs with her, have lunch with her and calls her every day? typical straight behaviour
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: MAXX on May 31, 2015, 01:29:24 PM
probably not close friends

not like a straight man and woman would have much in common anyways
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: The Ugly on May 31, 2015, 01:30:55 PM
The bigger question is why? Of course there are exceptions, but female interests and conversations are often painfully dull.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Twaddle on May 31, 2015, 01:35:35 PM
There are two scenarios that could play out here.

1.) Your buddy is a flaming homo, and just hasn't come out yet.
2.) Your buddy is trying to get in her pants.

Those are the only scenarios if she is hot.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Hulk-smash! on May 31, 2015, 01:36:18 PM
He must be takin' birth control pills or shooting 10cc of estrogen daily.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 01:39:32 PM
There are two scenarios that could play out here.

1.) Your buddy is a flaming homo, and just hasn't come out yet.
2.) Your buddy is trying to get in her pants.

Those are the only scenarios if she is hot.

--> Your buddy is trying to get in her pants <--

Even homos can barely stand to talk to women.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Thin Lizzy on May 31, 2015, 01:40:21 PM
He doesn't have the balls to make the move.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: mazrim on May 31, 2015, 01:41:48 PM
Yes, but not with the extreme amount of interaction they are having daily.
Not possible unless she is veeeeery unnattractive/he is gay in that scenario.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 01:48:00 PM
Full disclosure: I have a female friend, a very good one, in fact. She's attractive, ripped, a Getbigger's attitude, super smart, and funny. We've been friends for close to 20 years. It's a constant battle.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: mazrim on May 31, 2015, 01:50:15 PM
Full disclosure: I have a female friend, a very good one, in fact. She's attractive, ripped, a Getbigger's attitude, super smart, and funny. We've been friends for close to 20 years. It's a constant battle.
Do you call/talk to her everyday and go on "non-date dates" with her, though?
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 01:52:29 PM
Do you call/talk to her everyday and go on "non-date dates" with her, though?

If we're working a project together (we both have consulting companies), then yes.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: local hero on May 31, 2015, 01:54:47 PM
My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.


until you get close and roll on the mat with him, youl never know how straight he is....
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Henda on May 31, 2015, 02:02:37 PM
No, if you are interested in the company of a female for anything other than sex then you are a fag
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Dr Dutch on May 31, 2015, 02:06:43 PM
I was "friends" with a woman when I was married.....now, after my divorce, I bang her.
So my answer is: it is not very likely to be friends with a girl without any sexual desire.
Says D'r Dutch, MD and evolutionary biologist.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: honest on May 31, 2015, 02:26:46 PM
Just sat next to a female on a plane,not overly attractive but not fat and ugly she kept telling me about her wedding which was coming up the next weekend, most I have talked to a female outside of family without f*&king her my whole life, and yes I wanted to f%#k her and would have taken any opportunity to do so, if i wasn't married, now that im married I just wanted her to shut the f%#k up.

Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: local hero on May 31, 2015, 02:35:39 PM
ive never seen how it could be possible, theres always going to be an attraction on one side.. and if your lass had a male friend who she texted and met up with regularly, who would put up with that?
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Thin Lizzy on May 31, 2015, 02:36:23 PM
If we're working a project together (we both have consulting companies), then yes.

You're not really friends as there is a financial relationship.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: DroppingPlates on May 31, 2015, 02:38:15 PM
no. you'll always wanna fuck em. its what they were made for.. fucking./

Spoken like a boss
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: The Ugly on May 31, 2015, 02:39:28 PM
Seriously, take sex off the table, what would you discuss with a female friend?
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: forillagorilla on May 31, 2015, 02:40:55 PM
If we're working a project together (we both have consulting companies), then yes.

What type of consulting do you do?
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: DroppingPlates on May 31, 2015, 02:41:11 PM
Seriously, take sex off the table, what would you discuss with a female friend?

Some women appreciate Getbig like jokes
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 02:41:17 PM
You're not really friends as there is a financial relationship.

While that is true, we've been friends a lot longer than we've been in business together.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 02:43:20 PM
What type of consulting do you do?

Both of us do tech consulting, but our skills are divergent, so we do referrals. Mine is mostly tech stack decisions, building effective dev teams and software dev process stuff, plus most anything in C, C++, C#, Java or Ruby if it needs to be done. I am almost all server-side/Linux and she's mostly Windows.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: The Ugly on May 31, 2015, 02:44:51 PM
Some women appreciate Getbig like jokes

Ripping on fags, ethnics, and altering names to something penis-oriented? Or the "Wider than Heath" thing?
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: DroppingPlates on May 31, 2015, 02:51:13 PM
Ripping on fags, ethnics, and altering names to something penis-oriented?

Ha yes, not all women are sensitive bitches.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Automation on May 31, 2015, 02:53:51 PM
Easy, if they are a dyke.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Dave D on May 31, 2015, 03:20:04 PM
Easy, if they are a dyke.

X2
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: old-school-lifter on May 31, 2015, 06:41:42 PM
alpha males don't have women as friends, just women to fuck
beta's have women friends in the hope they will one day fuck them
homosexuals have lots of women friends

any hetero. male who says they have women who are friends always have an agenda to want to fuck them
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Wiggs on May 31, 2015, 08:16:09 PM
alpha males don't have women as friends, just women to fuck
beta's have women friends in the hope they will one day fuck them
homosexuals have lots of women friends

any hetero. male who says they have women who are friends always have an agenda to want to fuck them

Bingo
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Costanza on May 31, 2015, 09:58:52 PM
Absolutely not. I know all too well.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on May 31, 2015, 10:28:13 PM
One of my best friends is a gay guy. Other than that I mostly have female friends and a handful of male friends. But I make sure to let them know they are slotted into the friendship zone.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: ritch on May 31, 2015, 10:29:26 PM
One of my best friends is a gay guy. Other than that I mostly have female friends and a handful of male friends. But I make sure to let them know they are slotted into the friendship zone.

So bj's only then?
 ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on May 31, 2015, 10:41:13 PM
So bj's only then?
 ;)
No kissing, no bj's, no putting anything in holes. The thought of having sex with a friend makes me feel sick because he's been slotted into that zone for a reason ... No sexual chemistry or attraction.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: ritch on May 31, 2015, 10:48:22 PM
No kissing, no bj's, no putting anything in holes. The thought of having sex with a friend makes me feel sick because he's been slotted into that zone for a reason ... No sexual chemistry or attraction.

LOL! I hear ya, especially on the last part. But don't use the word "slotted" around your male budies as I bet it makes them think of sex. But then again, they probably are anyway's.

Would a hand job then be ok?
(joking...)
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Julio Ceasar on June 01, 2015, 12:28:41 AM
we can be friends = your to ugly to fuck with, im not attracted
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Simple Simon on June 01, 2015, 12:54:48 AM
One of my best friends is a gay guy. Other than that I mostly have female friends and a handful of male friends. But I make sure to let them know they are slotted into the friendship zone.
But the more you get to know someone the initial looks thing becomes less important and you get attracted to them more as a person, as such you can then be sexually attracted to them.

If you ever see a man or woman with a less attractive partner you can bet they were friends first before they became an item.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: bigmc on June 01, 2015, 01:01:37 AM
But the more you get to know someone the initial looks thing becomes less important and you get attracted to them more as a person, as such you can then be sexually attracted to them.

If you ever see a man or woman with a less attractive partner you can bet they were friends first before they became an item.

take some arimidex mate
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on June 01, 2015, 01:03:48 AM
But the more you get to know someone the initial looks thing becomes less important and you get attracted to them more as a person, as such you can then be sexually attracted to them.

If you ever see a man or woman with a less attractive partner you can bet they were friends first before they became an item.
Yes a persons personality makes one more attractive. However I need a spark/ chemistry and if it isn't there it just isn't there.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on June 01, 2015, 01:18:03 AM
take some arimidex mate
;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Simple Simon on June 01, 2015, 01:27:53 AM
Yes a persons personality makes one more attractive. However I need a spark/ chemistry and if it isn't there it just isn't there.

You can see someone for the first time and have zero attraction, after a few months getting to know them the spark can appear.

Maybe you are just too shallow to get past the initial phase.  ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Simple Simon on June 01, 2015, 01:28:47 AM
take some arimidex mate

Bought a steam cleaner last week, you might have a point.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on June 01, 2015, 01:41:46 AM
You can see someone for the first time and have zero attraction, after a few months getting to know them the spark can appear.

Maybe you are just too shallow to get past the initial phase.  ;)
take the arimidex... You are getting catty now. I am not arguing with your point and can totally see it happening. I however would hate to ruin a friendship and hurt someone if It didn't work out.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: IronMeister on June 01, 2015, 01:46:29 AM
(http://i.imgur.com/bxnr0kt.jpg)
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on June 01, 2015, 01:48:05 AM
(http://i.imgur.com/bxnr0kt.jpg)
Maybe photoshop a vagina on Jeff.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: True on June 01, 2015, 02:27:41 AM
This is exactly the kind of reason why I DO NOT want to have a female partner, when Im going to write my Master thesis. It would only get disturbed by certain hormones and emotions, and not being able to focus 100 %. Even if she`s ugly, I still would`nt consider a female partner. It would`nt be near as professional, compared to having a male partner (no homo ;D).
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on June 01, 2015, 04:11:06 AM
This is exactly the kind of reason why I DO NOT want to have a female partner, when Im going to write my Master thesis. It would only get disturbed by certain hormones and emotions, and not being able to focus 100 %. Even if she`s ugly, I still would`nt consider a female partner. It would`nt be near as professional, compared to having a male partner (no homo ;D).

I wrote my thesis alone. It worked well if you know how to get things done alone.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Kwon_2 on June 01, 2015, 04:17:59 AM
Friends
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sG21-lYjWLc/VWt3mFMuyqI/AAAAAAAAJag/aL3IGs15DeM/s1600/ea_ba_melissa_simone_%2B1.jpg)
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 01, 2015, 04:22:10 AM
Friends
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sG21-lYjWLc/VWt3mFMuyqI/AAAAAAAAJag/aL3IGs15DeM/s1600/ea_ba_melissa_simone_%2B1.jpg)

Toughing, but not entering them means you're still in the friend zone
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: da_vinci on June 01, 2015, 04:33:33 AM
Yes, of course. I have a few. Both good looking, I could fuck them if wanted (they are interested in more, but settled down with a fact that it won't happen), but I just better like them having as friends and it won't change.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: bigmc on June 01, 2015, 05:09:29 AM
Yes, of course. I have a few. Both good looking, I could fuck them if wanted (they are interested in more, but settled down with a fact that it won't happen), but I just better like them having as friends and it won't change.

I admire your confidence

typical bloke if a girl is friendly to him he assumes he can smash her to bits
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Thong Maniac on June 01, 2015, 05:12:20 AM
I admire your confidence

typical bloke if a girl is friendly to him he assumes he can smash her to bits

Well, it sounds like he IS assuming he can smash them to bits
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Julio Ceasar on June 01, 2015, 05:47:24 AM
Friends
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sG21-lYjWLc/VWt3mFMuyqI/AAAAAAAAJag/aL3IGs15DeM/s1600/ea_ba_melissa_simone_%2B1.jpg)

Monica Brant looking great!
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: booty on June 01, 2015, 05:52:39 AM
Monica Brant looking great!
The hands give it away.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: da_vinci on June 01, 2015, 05:58:35 AM
I admire your confidence

typical bloke if a girl is friendly to him he assumes he can smash her to bits

Not in this case. They expressed interest in me as a male long ago, at a certain point, but I put them in a friend only list for various reasons/circumstances and it has been left that way. They accepted it and we've been good friends since then.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: Mr Anabolic on June 01, 2015, 06:02:01 AM
If men and women did not have sex in common you would have absolutely no reason to be friends with any woman.
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: bigmc on June 01, 2015, 10:11:03 AM
Not in this case. They expressed interest in me as a male long ago, at a certain point, but I put them in a friend only list for various reasons/circumstances and it has been left that way. They accepted it and we've been good friends since then.

did they put it in writing

otherwise It could look like your are patting yourself on the back over nothing
Title: Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
Post by: da_vinci on June 01, 2015, 11:22:27 AM
did they put it in writing

otherwise It could look like your are patting yourself on the back over nothing

I'm sure when a female says "I think you are hot and would like to kiss/fuck you" (or sends you nudes) it means exactly that. Or.... maybe I'm reading into it to much  :D