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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #25 on: May 31, 2015, 02:26:46 PM »
Just sat next to a female on a plane,not overly attractive but not fat and ugly she kept telling me about her wedding which was coming up the next weekend, most I have talked to a female outside of family without f*&king her my whole life, and yes I wanted to f%#k her and would have taken any opportunity to do so, if i wasn't married, now that im married I just wanted her to shut the f%#k up.


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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #26 on: May 31, 2015, 02:35:39 PM »
ive never seen how it could be possible, theres always going to be an attraction on one side.. and if your lass had a male friend who she texted and met up with regularly, who would put up with that?

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #27 on: May 31, 2015, 02:36:23 PM »
If we're working a project together (we both have consulting companies), then yes.

You're not really friends as there is a financial relationship.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #28 on: May 31, 2015, 02:38:15 PM »
no. you'll always wanna fuck em. its what they were made for.. fucking./

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #29 on: May 31, 2015, 02:39:28 PM »
Seriously, take sex off the table, what would you discuss with a female friend?

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #30 on: May 31, 2015, 02:40:55 PM »
If we're working a project together (we both have consulting companies), then yes.

What type of consulting do you do?

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #31 on: May 31, 2015, 02:41:11 PM »
Seriously, take sex off the table, what would you discuss with a female friend?

Some women appreciate Getbig like jokes

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #32 on: May 31, 2015, 02:41:17 PM »
You're not really friends as there is a financial relationship.

While that is true, we've been friends a lot longer than we've been in business together.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #33 on: May 31, 2015, 02:43:20 PM »
What type of consulting do you do?

Both of us do tech consulting, but our skills are divergent, so we do referrals. Mine is mostly tech stack decisions, building effective dev teams and software dev process stuff, plus most anything in C, C++, C#, Java or Ruby if it needs to be done. I am almost all server-side/Linux and she's mostly Windows.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #34 on: May 31, 2015, 02:44:51 PM »
Some women appreciate Getbig like jokes

Ripping on fags, ethnics, and altering names to something penis-oriented? Or the "Wider than Heath" thing?

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #35 on: May 31, 2015, 02:51:13 PM »
Ripping on fags, ethnics, and altering names to something penis-oriented?

Ha yes, not all women are sensitive bitches.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #36 on: May 31, 2015, 02:53:51 PM »
Easy, if they are a dyke.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #37 on: May 31, 2015, 03:20:04 PM »

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #38 on: May 31, 2015, 06:41:42 PM »
alpha males don't have women as friends, just women to fuck
beta's have women friends in the hope they will one day fuck them
homosexuals have lots of women friends

any hetero. male who says they have women who are friends always have an agenda to want to fuck them

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #39 on: May 31, 2015, 08:16:09 PM »
alpha males don't have women as friends, just women to fuck
beta's have women friends in the hope they will one day fuck them
homosexuals have lots of women friends

any hetero. male who says they have women who are friends always have an agenda to want to fuck them

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #40 on: May 31, 2015, 09:58:52 PM »
Absolutely not. I know all too well.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #41 on: May 31, 2015, 10:28:13 PM »
One of my best friends is a gay guy. Other than that I mostly have female friends and a handful of male friends. But I make sure to let them know they are slotted into the friendship zone.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #42 on: May 31, 2015, 10:29:26 PM »
One of my best friends is a gay guy. Other than that I mostly have female friends and a handful of male friends. But I make sure to let them know they are slotted into the friendship zone.

So bj's only then?
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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #43 on: May 31, 2015, 10:41:13 PM »
So bj's only then?
 ;)
No kissing, no bj's, no putting anything in holes. The thought of having sex with a friend makes me feel sick because he's been slotted into that zone for a reason ... No sexual chemistry or attraction.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #44 on: May 31, 2015, 10:48:22 PM »
No kissing, no bj's, no putting anything in holes. The thought of having sex with a friend makes me feel sick because he's been slotted into that zone for a reason ... No sexual chemistry or attraction.

LOL! I hear ya, especially on the last part. But don't use the word "slotted" around your male budies as I bet it makes them think of sex. But then again, they probably are anyway's.

Would a hand job then be ok?
(joking...)
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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #45 on: June 01, 2015, 12:28:41 AM »
we can be friends = your to ugly to fuck with, im not attracted

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #46 on: June 01, 2015, 12:54:48 AM »
One of my best friends is a gay guy. Other than that I mostly have female friends and a handful of male friends. But I make sure to let them know they are slotted into the friendship zone.
But the more you get to know someone the initial looks thing becomes less important and you get attracted to them more as a person, as such you can then be sexually attracted to them.

If you ever see a man or woman with a less attractive partner you can bet they were friends first before they became an item.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #47 on: June 01, 2015, 01:01:37 AM »
But the more you get to know someone the initial looks thing becomes less important and you get attracted to them more as a person, as such you can then be sexually attracted to them.

If you ever see a man or woman with a less attractive partner you can bet they were friends first before they became an item.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #48 on: June 01, 2015, 01:03:48 AM »
But the more you get to know someone the initial looks thing becomes less important and you get attracted to them more as a person, as such you can then be sexually attracted to them.

If you ever see a man or woman with a less attractive partner you can bet they were friends first before they became an item.
Yes a persons personality makes one more attractive. However I need a spark/ chemistry and if it isn't there it just isn't there.

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Re: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman
« Reply #49 on: June 01, 2015, 01:18:03 AM »