Author Topic: Is it possible to be "just friends" with a woman (Read 5971 times)

Darren Avey · « **on:** May 31, 2015, 12:47:54 PM »

My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.

The Ugly · « **Reply #1 on:** May 31, 2015, 12:48:53 PM »

Ugly, sure.

Kwon_2 · « **Reply #2 on:** May 31, 2015, 12:50:16 PM »

Is he engaged with another woman that's out of town?

Schmoff · « **Reply #3 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:01:24 PM »

Quote from: Darren Avey on May 31, 2015, 12:47:54 PM

My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.

the girl doesn't want to fuck him

bradistani · « **Reply #4 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:04:34 PM »

no. you'll always wanna fuck em. its what they were made for.. fucking./

Thong Maniac · « **Reply #5 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:04:52 PM »

Quote from: Schmoff on May 31, 2015, 01:01:24 PM

the girl doesn't want to fuck him

This is the ONLY correct answer. End thread

f450 · « **Reply #6 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:05:49 PM »

Quote from: Darren Avey on May 31, 2015, 12:47:54 PM

My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.

Yes you can, but only after you've hit that

_aj_ · « **Reply #7 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:21:22 PM »

Possible, but dangerous.

che · « **Reply #8 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:22:02 PM »

herne · « **Reply #9 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:24:29 PM »

Quote from: bradistani on May 31, 2015, 01:04:34 PM

no. you'll always wanna fuck em. its what they were made for.. fucking./

... probably this ...

Hulk-smash! · « **Reply #10 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:25:54 PM »

Sure...if she's so damn ugly that all the booze, drugs, and/or paper sacks in the world wouldn't allow you to nail 'er in your horniest moment.

thegamechanger · « **Reply #11 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:27:43 PM »

so he jogs with her, have lunch with her and calls her every day? typical straight behaviour

MAXX · « **Reply #12 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:29:24 PM »

probably not close friends

not like a straight man and woman would have much in common anyways

The Ugly · « **Reply #13 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:30:55 PM »

The bigger question is why? Of course there are exceptions, but female interests and conversations are often painfully dull.

Twaddle · « **Reply #14 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:35:35 PM »

There are two scenarios that could play out here.

1.) Your buddy is a flaming homo, and just hasn't come out yet.
2.) Your buddy is trying to get in her pants.

Those are the only scenarios if she is hot.

Hulk-smash! · « **Reply #15 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:36:18 PM »

He must be takin' birth control pills or shooting 10cc of estrogen daily.

_aj_ · « **Reply #16 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:39:32 PM »

Quote from: Twaddle on May 31, 2015, 01:35:35 PM

There are two scenarios that could play out here.

1.) Your buddy is a flaming homo, and just hasn't come out yet.
2.) Your buddy is trying to get in her pants.

Those are the only scenarios if she is hot.

--> Your buddy is trying to get in her pants <--
Even homos can barely stand to talk to women.

Thin Lizzy · « **Reply #17 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:40:21 PM »

He doesn't have the balls to make the move.

mazrim · « **Reply #18 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:41:48 PM »

Yes, but not with the extreme amount of interaction they are having daily.
Not possible unless she is veeeeery unnattractive/he is gay in that scenario.

_aj_ · « **Reply #19 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:48:00 PM »

Full disclosure: I have a female friend, a very good one, in fact. She's attractive, ripped, a Getbigger's attitude, super smart, and funny. We've been friends for close to 20 years. It's a constant battle.

mazrim · « **Reply #20 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:50:15 PM »

Quote from: _aj_ on May 31, 2015, 01:48:00 PM

Full disclosure: I have a female friend, a very good one, in fact. She's attractive, ripped, a Getbigger's attitude, super smart, and funny. We've been friends for close to 20 years. It's a constant battle.

Do you call/talk to her everyday and go on "non-date dates" with her, though?

_aj_ · « **Reply #21 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:52:29 PM »

Quote from: mazrim on May 31, 2015, 01:50:15 PM

Do you call/talk to her everyday and go on "non-date dates" with her, though?

If we're working a project together (we both have consulting companies), then yes.

local hero · « **Reply #22 on:** May 31, 2015, 01:54:47 PM »

Quote from: Darren Avey on May 31, 2015, 12:47:54 PM

My pal jogs with a girl, chats to her on the phone every day, they go for lunch, they go for nights out. Yet he insists nothings ever happened and they re really good friends. Oh and hes not gay. In fact hes as straight as you can get. Is this actually possible, cos she is also dam fine.

until you get close and roll on the mat with him, youl never know how straight he is....

Henda · « **Reply #23 on:** May 31, 2015, 02:02:37 PM »

No, if you are interested in the company of a female for anything other than sex then you are a fag

Dr Dutch · « **Reply #24 on:** May 31, 2015, 02:06:43 PM »

I was "friends" with a woman when I was married.....now, after my divorce, I bang her.
So my answer is: it is not very likely to be friends with a girl without any sexual desire.
Says D'r Dutch, MD and evolutionary biologist.