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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
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Fuck off.
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Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would make a grown man, in his mid 30s, go to a summer fair to meet women?
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She's looking for a sucker to pay for her and her kids. Don't be that sucker.
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Stopped reading after you said she had two kids.
Run away from her as fast as your legs can carry you!
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thanks for that feedback, much appreciated
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Fuck off.
Shizzo is going to be mean this year, take note...
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What say you?
I say "NAY"!
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If she'd kept herself to herself then realised this I'd say give it consideration and seek a solution, but I think she burnt that bridge well and truly.
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Wake the fuck up. She's using you plain and simple. She couldn't do a relationship without mon thru fri? She made her bed. Leave her to rot.
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Pay her rent?
WTF???
Is she making your meals, doing your laundry and giving you a massage every night after a bj?
If so, maybe consider it, if not, hell fuckin no.
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Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".
Normally you're a pretty terrible human being but this is on point.
WOOOOOOSH!
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
jesus christ, everything wrong with everything right in one post.
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
Good post ( for getbig).
Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.
1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.
2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.
Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.
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#TLDRPPTSOGTFO
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Tell the Whore to go fuck herself, she's got a nerve asking you to do that shit
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Lets just reverse the sexes for a second.
Imagine a man asking a woman to pay his rent? How would that look? I am soooo putting my foot down on covering the costs for anything women need now. No idea who came up with this idea but it's 2016 man, those days are done.
A little gift here and there to let her know she's special but don't fall into the trap of their costs becoming yours.
Pure crazy talk.
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Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".
Videotape plowing her in the ass and making her go ATM.....send video to her and her husband.
Tell them both to stick their misery up their ass
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Good post ( for getbig).
Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.
1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.
2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.
Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.
good post howie
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Good post ( for getbig).
Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.
1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.
2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.
Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.
You're giving relationship advice?
That's as fucking useless as the pussy up in Regina giving fighting, travel, or financial advice.
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Can i hit? It aint no fun if the homie BMC cant have none
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Tell the Whore to go fuck herself, she's got a nerve asking you to do that shit
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why is 1 hr away too far? also isn't it normal for working adult to have most of their dates on the weekends?
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Normally you're a pretty terrible human being but this is on point.
WOOOOOOSH!
Terrible human being? Rubbish. I'm actually a pleasant and decent fellow.
>:(
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why is 1 hr away too far? also isn't it normal for working adult to have most of their dates on the weekends?
Exactly. I mean, one freaking hour? And little interaction during the week? Big deal!
She's not right in the head.
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Holly shit... idk where to start, everything is so wrong its not even funny. If you are single and no kids decent dude at 35 you are fukkin gold, and you want to give yourself out for free to a confused dumb whore with TWO kids????? If I were your friend Id punch u in the face, srsly, what the hell are you thinking??WAKE UP before its too late.
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1 hour is like the distance between Downtown LA and the Santa Monica during traffic.
Not a big deal.
That said, you've both moved on. The reasons behind you both moving on haven't changed. The only thing that's changed is that she's wanting you to pay for stuff.
Do you want to pay for stuff? It's up to you.
Could you move 1/2 an hour back in the other direction and split the difference?
Do you think she's truly into YOU now, and not just into your wallet.
This entire thing seems highly suspect. I mean, if it was so special, she would have reached out to you within 2 weeks of you moving. Instead, she moved back in with her husband... What do you think is going to happen if you guys get into a fight?
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Are you fucking crazy?
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
Once she has the apartment and independence she will fuck 5 different guys a week.
If you don't mind eating old, stale load out of a loose smashed diseased twat, I'd say you should go right ahead and get her a place of her own
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Great gimmick post. You've got everyone worked up, a job well done.
That said, I will play along.
I'm sure you've already posted this in a private message to your closest Facebook friends and talked to your mother, siblings and best friend. I'm sure they all offered decent advise but because you're an extremely intelligent individual had to ask your bros here, because I'm sure you weren't positive of what the response would be.
After some helpful recommendations from the resident studs, including one of our top relationship experts Howard (good to have you back bro), you should have a good idea what to do.
However you need to remind yourself that this was your best relationship ever and you really loved one another, it was distance that kept it from working out. Pay her rent, with that new job you can afford it, and be happy, if it doesn't work out stop paying it and she goes back to her husband. Problem solved.
The thread on a bullying boss was a better effort joon.
*Also, as per Falcon rules, limit the rent to $200 a month.
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Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".
Gotta admit..this works for me
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Once she has the apartment and independence she will fuck 5 different guys a week.
If you don't mind eating old, stale load out of a loose smashed diseased twat, I'd say you should go right ahead and get her a place of her own
True as well..I was thinking this same thing, but was trying to be compassionate :D
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Mild lol.
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True as well..I was thinking this same thing, but was trying to be compassionate :D
I empathized with the phaggoty little bitch beta OP...
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Holly shit... idk where to start, everything is so wrong its not even funny. If you are single and no kids decent dude at 35 you are fukkin gold, and you want to give yourself out for free to a confused dumb whore with TWO kids????? If I were your friend Id punch u in the face, srsly, what the hell are you thinking??WAKE UP before its too late.
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Bitch has already shown you dual personality behavior. Walk away, better yet run away. She's looking to you as a way to leave her husband but don't think she wouldn't do the same to you. You'll end up paying rent for a place she'll use to fuck other guys.
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Can I have the name and address of the Extremely Hot woman you were on a date with?
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
I'm having a serious case of déjà vu. :)
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I think you should marry her...... and have kids with her too. 8)
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Great gimmick post. You've got everyone worked up, a job well done.
That said, I will play along.
I'm sure you've already posted this in a private message to your closest Facebook friends and talked to your mother, siblings and best friend. I'm sure they all offered decent advise but because you're an extremely intelligent individual had to ask your bros here, because I'm sure you weren't positive of what the response would be.
After some helpful recommendations from the resident studs, including one of our top relationship experts Howard (good to have you back bro), you should have a good idea what to do.
However you need to remind yourself that this was your best relationship ever and you really loved one another, it was distance that kept it from working out. Pay her rent, with that new job you can afford it, and be happy, if it doesn't work out stop paying it and she goes back to her husband. Problem solved.
The thread on a bullying boss was a better effort joon.
*Also, as per Falcon rules, limit the rent to $200 a month.
Ok, I gotta chime in with a bit more.
I never wanted kids, but , having your own kids with your wife is one thing.
Granted, having kids period, isn't for me, but one can debate the point and we have on getbig.
BUT, and paying for an apt for her and some other dudes kids?
FUK that!
Yes, I get it , she's all that and a bag of chips.
Sadly, she has a ton of strings attached and is looking for a meal ticket.
She saw you with a hot babe and immediately went into panic mode.
This single mom didn't want to lose out on a viable option for her and her rugrats.
Based on what you posted, she doesn't really want to commit to you, but she'll take what she can get.
Think about this. If she's using her husband now , what will she do to a guy she never married?!
RUN! ;)
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This sounds like Flinstone's post
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I just scanned that post and am basing my decision on one word I saw:
"kids"
just move along, son
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I just scanned that post and am basing my decision on one word I saw:
"kids"
just move along, son
You have learned your lessons well.
My work here is done. ;)
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You have learned your lessons well.
My work here is done. ;)
that word just darted out at me
kids = STOP
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If she'd kept herself to herself then realised this I'd say give it consideration and seek a solution, but I think she burnt that bridge well and truly.
Pay her rent?
WTF???
Is she making your meals, doing your laundry and giving you a massage every night after a bj?
If so, maybe consider it, if not, hell fuckin no.
These 2 sum it up.
She fucked up the chance once.
Now she thinks your a fool.
& you would be if you do as she wants.
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Tell her you will agree to what she asked IF she leaves the children with her ex husband. Then say actually I don'twant you at all, then she will be hhomeless and be after losing her children.
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I`d be damned if I payed some bitches rent.
Fuck the dumb stuff kick her to the fucking curb dude.
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I say go for it.
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Lol at all the responses.
We've all been in situations where we thought we loved someone and were willing to do anything to make it work, usually it's when you're young and inexperienced not your mid 30s.
Many of you have paid more than rent.
Howard how many wives have left you houses just to get rid of you? :)
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I am going to need some pictures of said ho's asshole so I can make an educated decision for you.
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
Don't do it. Went things arnt going her way she will leave again. Also sounds like she wants a sugar daddy.
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I would only pay rent for some 20 year old hottie i would hold captive in my basement HTH
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Good post ( for getbig).
Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.
1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.
2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.
Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.
Great answer Howard.
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to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s
So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job. In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)
three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair). Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.
so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.
Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,
Mangina of Peace. Fuck her off and never look back.
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I would laugh heartily and tell her to eat my ass.
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Okay, so this could happen to me with someone I know/knew so I am able to consider this properly by putting myself in your situation.
The primary reason you and I wouldn't/shouldn't accede to her wishes is because she had to be reminded of your existence. That's the crucial bit. If this was unsolicited, I'd say possibly - particularly as she never "wronged" you. She wasn't thinking about you, she only thought about you when your name popped up from her kid and spoonfeeding herself from your bank account came to the forefront.
The secondary reason is that it is a financial proposition, first.
So no, I wouldn't do it. I would tell her to find herself a better source of income and come talk to me when I'm not being asked to pay for her pussy.
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Ditch the bitch.
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I would tell her to go fuck her self.
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Just say no.
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I would laugh heartily and tell her to eat my ass.
Hmm, is she agrees, he could in be for the salad tossing of a lifetime.
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Great answer Howard.
Thanks and let me a couple more things, I've learned the hard way.
1. It can be a cruel lonely world out there and we all want to feel loved and connected.
BUT, to experience real love , those involved must be sincere and genuine.
2. To me, this sounds like a "quid pro quo" deal.
He pays some bills and she acts like his part time gf.
In this case, he's a lot better off jerking off to porn and getting a dog for companionship.
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Well it looks like i got my answer, some of you guys really crack me up, and i appreciate the serious advice aswell. Needed some 3rd party opinions and there views on it to kind of reinfource my own self opinion on it,