Great gimmick post. You've got everyone worked up, a job well done.
That said, I will play along.
I'm sure you've already posted this in a private message to your closest Facebook friends and talked to your mother, siblings and best friend. I'm sure they all offered decent advise but because you're an extremely intelligent individual had to ask your bros here, because I'm sure you weren't positive of what the response would be.
After some helpful recommendations from the resident studs, including one of our top relationship experts Howard (good to have you back bro), you should have a good idea what to do.
However you need to remind yourself that this was your best relationship ever and you really loved one another, it was distance that kept it from working out. Pay her rent, with that new job you can afford it, and be happy, if it doesn't work out stop paying it and she goes back to her husband. Problem solved.
The thread on a bullying boss was a better effort joon.
*Also, as per Falcon rules, limit the rent to $200 a month.
Ok, I gotta chime in with a bit more.
I never wanted kids, but , having your own kids with your wife is one thing.
Granted, having kids period, isn't for me, but one can debate the point and we have on getbig.
BUT, and paying for an apt for her and some other dudes kids?
FUK that!
Yes, I get it , she's all that and a bag of chips.
Sadly, she has a ton of strings attached and is looking for a meal ticket.
She saw you with a hot babe and immediately went into panic mode.
This single mom didn't want to lose out on a viable option for her and her rugrats.
Based on what you posted, she doesn't really want to commit to you, but she'll take what she can get.
Think about this. If she's using her husband now , what will she do to a guy she never married?!
RUN!
