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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl that I love and want a future with. We agree on almost all topics with the exception being Christianity. She has talked about how it means a lot to her and she would want to raise children as Christian, the other day I asked her if she could ever accept it if I was never going to be a Christian and she said "she would have a hard time with that". I kept my mouth shut and told her that I'm still unsure of what to believe and she said she was ok with that. But there's no way in fuck I'll ever have a genuine belief in Christianity!
Almost every other aspect of her is perfect, she is exceptionally intelligent but it's like she's fucking so deluded nothing will get through to her on Christianity and she makes every single bullshit excuse/justification for all the bullshit in the bible and I hate how I feel like 2nd place to God in her life. I even agree with most of the views she derives from Christianity but I just believe in them as an intelligent human being not because there's an invisible man in the sky.
Should I just keep bullshitting her and say I may be a Christian one day or even lie and say I am one? Anyone else been in this fucked up situation? I've had some harsh discussions with her lately where I said I don't know how she can believe it by bring up the parts where it says the world is 6k years old/adam and eve etc. and she almost cried. Then I took my foot off the gas since it would be fucked up to lose her over this dumb shit.
I even asked her "what happens to people who are never exposed to Christianity or the bible in their whole life but the way they lead their life is totally altruistic" she said that the bible says they will burn in hell anyway for never believing and she believes that.
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What she states that she believes is entirely correct, but the real issue here is that she will constantly cheat on you with darkies.
Get out now broseph.
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Show her the guns
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Method101:
The most important question you need to ask yourself first and foremost, does she have a flat ass, or does it have mass with class?
Also, is she ingured in any way?
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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl that I love and want a future with. We agree on almost all topics with the exception being Christianity. She has talked about how it means a lot to her and she would want to raise children as Christian, the other day I asked her if she could ever accept it if I was never going to be a Christian and she said "she would have a hard time with that". I kept my mouth shut and told her that I'm still unsure of what to believe and she said she was ok with that. But there's no way in fuck I'll ever have a genuine belief in Christianity!
Almost every other aspect of her is perfect, she is exceptionally intelligent but it's like she's fucking so deluded nothing will get through to her on Christianity and she makes every single bullshit excuse/justification for all the bullshit in the bible and I hate how I feel like 2nd place to God in her life. I even agree with most of the views she derives from Christianity but I just believe in them as an intelligent human being not because there's an invisible man in the sky.
Should I just keep bullshitting her and say I may be a Christian one day or even lie and say I am one? Anyone else been in this fucked up situation? I've had some harsh discussions with her lately where I said I don't know how she can believe it by bring up the parts where it says the world is 6k years old/adam and eve etc. and she almost cried. Then I took my foot off the gas since it would be fucked up to lose her over this dumb shit.
I even asked her "what happens to people who are never exposed to Christianity or the bible in their whole life but the way they lead their life is totally altruistic" she said that the bible says they will burn in hell anyway for never believing and she believes that.
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ask one of the many people in your well developed social life.
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People who truly believe in all this sky wizard horseshit have very serious mental health issues.
Look at Moozies. Their "perfect example" (prophet) is a pedophilic mass murderer who one day claimed God spoke all to him. And now around 1.6 billion devote themselves to this psychotic and deviant person's ancient ramblings.
Anyway, back on point, your girl is mental.
If you stay, you're in for a lifetime of nonsense and drama.
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Give her the boot.
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People who truly believe in all this sky wizard horseshit have very serious mental health issues.
Look at Moozies. Their "perfect example" (prophet) is a pedophilic mass murderer who one day claimed God spoke all to him. And now around 1.6 billion devote themselves to this psychotic and deviant person's ancient ramblings.
Anyway, back on point, your girl is mental.
If you stay, you're in for a lifetime of nonsense and drama.
I agree almost all religions are a total crock of shit with the notable exception of Buddhism which is more of a philosophy than a religion anyway. But I think she was brainwashed throughout her childhood by very strict parents to believe in it so it's almost engrained in her consciousness despite all reason and logic saying otherwise.
She is tall, has naturally blonde hair blue eyes, pretty face, in her mid 20s, she loves sex and wants it all the time. She is highly intelligent as well and I love talking to her about almost anything. There is this one turd in the punchbowl which is her spirituality, I know I would probably never find someone else with all her other positive traits so I can't end in because of this despite it being a pretty major roadblock.
note: I'm amazed this topic even got 2 sensible responses lol, It's cathartic to write this shit on getbig and see the funny replies sometimes.
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You're putting the pussy on a pedistal.
You will be miserable if you marry her and you know it, but you can't stop thinking with your dick.
Enjoy your life of self induced hell.
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You're putting the pussy on a pedistal.
You will be miserable if you marry her and you know it, but you can't stop thinking with your dick.
Enjoy your life of self induced hell.
whenever we are not talking about religion which is vast majority of the time things are great lol, but sparks start flying if the subject comes up and I start saying how I really feel about it instead of being very soft touch. I just don't know if I can hold back when I have to listen to some of the bullshit.
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Religion always screws everything up. And literally you can't even screw.
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Is this the one that squirts gallons during sex?
Also, is this whole episode going to delay your long-anticipated "reveal?"
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Why's she engaging in pre-marital sex?
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I agree almost all religions are a total crock of shit with the notable exception of Buddhism which is more of a philosophy than a religion anyway. But I think she was brainwashed throughout her childhood by very strict parents to believe in it so it's almost engrained in her consciousness despite all reason and logic saying otherwise.
She is tall, has naturally blonde hair blue eyes, pretty face, in her mid 20s, she loves sex and wants it all the time. She is highly intelligent as well and I love talking to her about almost anything. There is this one turd in the punchbowl which is her spirituality, I know I would probably never find someone else with all her other positive traits so I can't end in because of this despite it being a pretty major roadblock.
note: I'm amazed this topic even got 2 sensible responses lol, It's cathartic to write this shit on getbig and see the funny replies sometimes.
It's a waste of time unless you're resolved to convert.
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whenever we are not talking about religion which is vast majority of the time things are great lol, but sparks start flying if the subject comes up and I start saying how I really feel about it instead of being very soft touch. I just don't know if I can hold back when I have to listen to some of the bullshit.
Which will cause a huge problem with you.
You need to find a woman who agrees with your religion too. If not, there will always be issues and one day she will leave you for some asshole at church whom she cheats with saying God told her to do it.
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Which will cause a huge problem with you.
You need to find a woman who agrees with your religion too. If not, there will always be issues and one day she will leave you for some asshole at church whom she cheats with saying God told her to do it.
This. 100% guaranteed.
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Which will cause a huge problem with you.
You need to find a woman who agrees with your religion too. If not, there will always be issues and one day she will leave you for some asshole at church whom she cheats with saying God told her to do it.
You mean two snarky depressed people together? Maybe he can learn a thing from her, and she from him. Although, yes...two people with the same things in common is best. Like if they like green cut off shirts.
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Which will cause a huge problem with you.
You need to find a woman who agrees with your religion too. If not, there will always be issues and one day she will leave you for some asshole at church whom she cheats with saying God told her to do it.
I see the truth in what your saying but it fuckin kills me because I know I can't replace all her other traits. I think I'll have to ride this out and live and learn if I crash and burn at the end of it.
I'm very good at sex and yea to the other guy who posted above she is the one who squirts all the time so if she goes with another guy she's probably gonna get fuckin disappointed real fast.
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She sounds like a normal "Christian" nowadays. She shouldn't be dating you if she is a Christian and her answer to your question shows she doesn't really read the Bible much. Not much to worry about. Sounds like a very liberal Christian if she is also sleeping with you already. Not really a big part of her life except in name only.
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Ridiculous on both sides.
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Does she even exist bro or is this a troll job?
Your girlfriend is Christian enough that she believes in Adam and Eve and that the Earth is 6,000 years old and that non-believers go to hell but somehow has sex with you "all the time" even though you're not married?
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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl that I love and want a future with. We agree on almost all topics with the exception being Christianity. She has talked about how it means a lot to her and she would want to raise children as Christian, the other day I asked her if she could ever accept it if I was never going to be a Christian and she said "she would have a hard time with that". I kept my mouth shut and told her that I'm still unsure of what to believe and she said she was ok with that. But there's no way in fuck I'll ever have a genuine belief in Christianity!
Almost every other aspect of her is perfect, she is exceptionally intelligent but it's like she's fucking so deluded nothing will get through to her on Christianity and she makes every single bullshit excuse/justification for all the bullshit in the bible and I hate how I feel like 2nd place to God in her life. I even agree with most of the views she derives from Christianity but I just believe in them as an intelligent human being not because there's an invisible man in the sky.
Should I just keep bullshitting her and say I may be a Christian one day or even lie and say I am one? Anyone else been in this fucked up situation? I've had some harsh discussions with her lately where I said I don't know how she can believe it by bring up the parts where it says the world is 6k years old/adam and eve etc. and she almost cried. Then I took my foot off the gas since it would be fucked up to lose her over this dumb shit.
I even asked her "what happens to people who are never exposed to Christianity or the bible in their whole life but the way they lead their life is totally altruistic" she said that the bible says they will burn in hell anyway for never believing and she believes that.
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You are never going to find a chick that believes in the exact same thing you believe.
I was dating a chick that was awesome, but she didn't think i went to church enough and she wanted me to go to the same church as her. I had to dump her, but that wasn't the only reason.
A few relationships later, and my current GF thinks I'm too religious and i hadn't even gone to church in a while.
But she loves to suck dick, and lets me stick it in the butt, so there is that.
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While you're defiling her love tunnel, pull down the crucifix above her bed and jam it in her crapper.
Explain that the devil took hold of you for that brief moment.
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Does she even exist bro or is this a troll job?
Your girlfriend is Christian enough that she believes in Adam and Eve and that the Earth is 6,000 years old and that non-believers go to hell but somehow has sex with you "all the time" even though you're not married?
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I know it sounds farfetched but she is unique in many ways, if she acted like a devout Christian all the time I wouldn't be happy with her but she as other people have said is Christian in name only, for example she is the first girl I ever did anal sex on at her suggestion and afterwards she said she felt kinda guilty for asking me to do it lol (because of her religion), I prefer her pussy anyway so I'm not bothered. Most of the non-believing girls I've been with said they found the idea of it disgusting so it's ironic that this supposedly devout woman was the one to suggest it haha. I do worry one day that she will take radical turn and start trying to live by all the old rules and laws more strictly but I haven't seen any sign of that happening yet. If I paid lip service to it and avoided the subject whenever possible I think that would be the best course of action.
While you're defiling her love tunnel, pull down the crucifix above her bed and jam it in her crapper.
Explain that the devil took hold of you for that brief moment.
LMAO :o ;D
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I know it sounds farfetched but she is unique in many ways, if she acted like a devout Christian all the time I wouldn't be happy with her but she as other people have said is Christian in name only, for example she is the first girl I ever did anal sex on at her suggestion and afterwards she said she felt kinda guilty for asking me to do it lol (because of her religion), I prefer her pussy anyway so I'm not bothered. Most of the non-believing girls I've been with said they found the idea of it disgusting so it's ironic that this supposedly devout woman was the one to suggest it haha. I do worry one day that she will take radical turn and start trying to live by all the old rules and laws more strictly but I haven't seen any sign of that happening yet. If I paid lip service to it and avoided the subject whenever possible I think that would be the best course of action.
LMAO :o ;D
It's not an issue right now because you don't have children together. You'll also have to deal with grandparents and people from her church.
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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl that I love and want a future with. We agree on almost all topics with the exception being Christianity. She has talked about how it means a lot to her and she would want to raise children as Christian, the other day I asked her if she could ever accept it if I was never going to be a Christian and she said "she would have a hard time with that". I kept my mouth shut and told her that I'm still unsure of what to believe and she said she was ok with that. But there's no way in fuck I'll ever have a genuine belief in Christianity!
Almost every other aspect of her is perfect, she is exceptionally intelligent but it's like she's fucking so deluded nothing will get through to her on Christianity and she makes every single bullshit excuse/justification for all the bullshit in the bible and I hate how I feel like 2nd place to God in her life. I even agree with most of the views she derives from Christianity but I just believe in them as an intelligent human being not because there's an invisible man in the sky.
Should I just keep bullshitting her and say I may be a Christian one day or even lie and say I am one? Anyone else been in this fucked up situation? I've had some harsh discussions with her lately where I said I don't know how she can believe it by bring up the parts where it says the world is 6k years old/adam and eve etc. and she almost cried. Then I took my foot off the gas since it would be fucked up to lose her over this dumb shit.
I even asked her "what happens to people who are never exposed to Christianity or the bible in their whole life but the way they lead their life is totally altruistic" she said that the bible says they will burn in hell anyway for never believing and she believes that.
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Well she's right. So unless you want to go on hell you best crack open a Bible and start getting serious.
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Move on dude. You guys are incompatible. Do it for her sake if not your own.
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Method's gonna end up with a bunch of wigglets quoting scripture, LOL!
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Move on dude. You guys are incompatible. Do it for her sake if not your own.
But I agree with 95% of the values she has due to Christianity I just reach the conclusions with rationality rather than belief so I feel like if I just pay lip service to the more crazy spiritual elements then it would be fine since every other aspect of the relationship is great.
I bet there's a shit load of guys who just go to Church on a Sunday to keep their wives happy and spend half the time there rolling their eyes and daydreaming.
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But I agree with 95% of the values she has due to Christianity I just reach the conclusions with rationality rather than belief so I feel like if I just pay lip service to the more crazy spiritual elements then it would be fine since every other aspect of the relationship is great.
I bet there's a shit load of guys who just go to Church on a Sunday to keep their wives happy and spend half the time there rolling their eyes and daydreaming.
I hear you brother but...
"This above all: To thine own self be true".
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If you ask me try to ignore the christianity aspect as much as you can an brush it off. If she respects you and is a real christian, she will love you regardless of your faith or lack thereof. nothing wrong with religion, just humans warp it into something it was never meant to be... the bible is full of analogies and good teachings on how to be a solid human being and live a good life and I have respect for those who follow it in this way. people gotta learn to read between the lines...
that scene in pirates of the caribbean where jack sparrow says the pirates code is more a book of guidelines than rules... thats a bible reference.
give it some time, see what happens and try not to stress too much. maybe she'll come aroudn maybe not... if shes doesnt then end it and you'll have dodged a bullet.
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But I agree with 95% of the values she has due to Christianity I just reach the conclusions with rationality rather than belief so I feel like if I just pay lip service to the more crazy spiritual elements then it would be fine since every other aspect of the relationship is great.
I bet there's a shit load of guys who just go to Church on a Sunday to keep their wives happy and spend half the time there rolling their eyes and daydreaming.
yeah theres a fuck ton of them. and they also rolll their eyes and do a bunch of other dumb shit they dont care about or hate to make others happy. make yourself happy first and foremost, others come second. its your life dont have any regrets about being a little selfish. youre trying to rationalize staying with her by comparing yourself to others, dont fucking do that. youll end up miserable AND alone when youre little charade comes crashing down in the future.
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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl that I love and want a future with. We agree on almost all topics with the exception being Christianity. She has talked about how it means a lot to her and she would want to raise children as Christian, the other day I asked her if she could ever accept it if I was never going to be a Christian and she said "she would have a hard time with that". I kept my mouth shut and told her that I'm still unsure of what to believe and she said she was ok with that. But there's no way in fuck I'll ever have a genuine belief in Christianity!
Almost every other aspect of her is perfect, she is exceptionally intelligent but it's like she's fucking so deluded nothing will get through to her on Christianity and she makes every single bullshit excuse/justification for all the bullshit in the bible and I hate how I feel like 2nd place to God in her life. I even agree with most of the views she derives from Christianity but I just believe in them as an intelligent human being not because there's an invisible man in the sky.
Should I just keep bullshitting her and say I may be a Christian one day or even lie and say I am one? Anyone else been in this fucked up situation? I've had some harsh discussions with her lately where I said I don't know how she can believe it by bring up the parts where it says the world is 6k years old/adam and eve etc. and she almost cried. Then I took my foot off the gas since it would be fucked up to lose her over this dumb shit.
I even asked her "what happens to people who are never exposed to Christianity or the bible in their whole life but the way they lead their life is totally altruistic" she said that the bible says they will burn in hell anyway for never believing and she believes that.
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Nobody gives a fuck about you and your imaginary girlfriend.
All we want to know is when are you going to post pics unveiling your "ripped steel physique"?
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Advice, never talk/debate about politics and religion with your girlfriend or wife.
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Will she suck your cock under a white towel?
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method101, I have lost sleep over your current problem and dilemma. After many hours of thought, I have come to the conclusion that our beloved tbombz will likely be able to help you out and guide you into the path of Christianity. :D
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method101, I have lost sleep over your current problem and dilemma. After many hours of thought, I have come to the conclusion that our beloved tbombz will likely be able to help you out and guide you into the path of Christianity. :D
Our resident proselytizer has been unusually disciplined on this thread. :)
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But I agree with 95% of the values she has due to Christianity I just reach the conclusions with rationality rather than belief so I feel like if I just pay lip service to the more crazy spiritual elements then it would be fine since every other aspect of the relationship is great.
I bet there's a shit load of guys who just go to Church on a Sunday to keep their wives happy and spend half the time there rolling their eyes and daydreaming.
Friend of a friend married a non-religious Muslim woman. Religion wasn't a huge deal because she was non-practicing. Fast forward to the second kid and there's a Koran on the table and they argue over the kids being raised Muslim.
It's lazy and careless to marry someone with a huge religious difference.
Grow a set of balls and ask "Do you expect me to convert to Christianity?" and "Would any children we had be raised with your beliefs?".
I'm gonna share an old saying from the 'hood, that everyone ignores: Never have sex with anyone you wouldn't want to be the mother of your children.
Asking a bunch of dumbfucks (self included) here is a waste. If your serious with the woman; act like a grownup and ask her.
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The only real issue is bringing up the kids to not think for themselves. That she is a christian isn't that big of a deal if she's already copping the unwed sausage. Spreading her disease to children is a real kicker.
You can of course subvert her, but you would likely cause a fair bit of conflict at that point - which seems the likely breaking point of your relationship.
I know a fellow who has a christian wife. He seems to do okay with it. He does keep the peace by going to church with them but he most certainly does not believe in that shit.
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Murder her and wank into her poop chute
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Nobody gives a fuck about you and your imaginary girlfriend.
All we want to know is when are you going to post pics unveiling your "ripped steel physique"?
Yup
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Christian = "Like Christ"
Christ was crucified.
Crucify her. HTH.
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I'd ask you to PTPS, but I'm sure you met each other at some organisation for the terminally camera-shy.
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Beat the Christianity out of her.
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As an agnostic I was always amused at the logic/hypocrisy of the religious women I dated. You're going to tell me how important god is to you after we just had sex out of wedlock, you've been divorced twice and you drink like a fish... yeah... give me some of that... ::)
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It can never work long term unless one of you changes their views. Be honest with yourself, be honest with her, and move on.
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I'm agnostic/Weak Atheist and married to a Catholic. We get along fine. She doesn't bring it up, I don't bring it up. We've had those discussions when we were dating and I knew more about the bible than she did so we just left it alone
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I don't encourage believers and unbelievers to marry each other.
oh brother
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I only read enough to see that she is having sex with you and you are not married together. Lol, don't worry about her being a Christian... she's not.
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I'm agnostic/Weak Atheist and married to a Catholic. We get along fine. She doesn't bring it up, I don't bring it up. We've had those discussions when we were dating and I knew more about the bible than she did so we just left it alone
Of course, Divorce is not an option if she is Catholic, correct?
oh brother
It can be a sticky point, as it was voiced here. It can work out. Depends on how devout the people are.
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What denomination does she and her family belong to? Are they wacked-out fundamentalists?
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What denomination does she and her family belong to? Are they wacked-out fundamentalists?
Green Shirt Fundamentalists.
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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl that I love and want a future with. We agree on almost all topics with the exception being Christianity. She has talked about how it means a lot to her and she would want to raise children as Christian, the other day I asked her if she could ever accept it if I was never going to be a Christian and she said "she would have a hard time with that". I kept my mouth shut and told her that I'm still unsure of what to believe and she said she was ok with that. But there's no way in fuck I'll ever have a genuine belief in Christianity!
Almost every other aspect of her is perfect, she is exceptionally intelligent but it's like she's fucking so deluded nothing will get through to her on Christianity and she makes every single bullshit excuse/justification for all the bullshit in the bible and I hate how I feel like 2nd place to God in her life. I even agree with most of the views she derives from Christianity but I just believe in them as an intelligent human being not because there's an invisible man in the sky.
Should I just keep bullshitting her and say I may be a Christian one day or even lie and say I am one? Anyone else been in this fucked up situation? I've had some harsh discussions with her lately where I said I don't know how she can believe it by bring up the parts where it says the world is 6k years old/adam and eve etc. and she almost cried. Then I took my foot off the gas since it would be fucked up to lose her over this dumb shit.
I even asked her "what happens to people who are never exposed to Christianity or the bible in their whole life but the way they lead their life is totally altruistic" she said that the bible says they will burn in hell anyway for never believing and she believes that.
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Great post and good question.
It's possible to both maintain your own religious views and have a great relationship.
The key is MUTUAL respect for the other's religious belief.
I suspect you're willing to accept her Christian faith right?
Sooooo.....It all comes down to her willingness to accept you , as is.
Sadly, most people feel a strong need to convert others to their belief.
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Green Shirt Fundamentalists.
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Complaining because you found a great Christian girl sounds like you hit the lotto dummy. Would your rather date some liberal atheist trash. A girl with actual morals who will probably cook clean and raise kids the right way ya lot to complain about smh.
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Maybe just tell her you believe in God (if you do) and not any specific religion, but you respect her values and beliefs and generally agree with the Christian message and way of life?
Also maybe tell her that going to Church is a personal choice, if you don't want to go and are only there because you are forced to, it has no meaning.
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A house divided against itself cannot stand. Don't be unequally yoked.
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Great post and good question.
It's possible to both maintain your own religious views and have a great relationship.
The key is MUTUAL respect for the other's religious belief.
I suspect you're willing to accept her Christian faith right?
Sooooo.....It all comes down to her willingness to accept you , as is.
Sadly, most people feel a strong need to convert others to their belief.
You're right, and it sounds all dandy, but the kicker will be when they have children, if they do remain together.
Women have a tendency of getting very moral and possessive once there are children in the picture and depending of the indoctrination She had by her parents, you're almost guaranteed she'll transmit it to them, whether you like it or not and that's when the shit will hit the pot! She will use your children to make you feel guilty of your "moral irresponsibility" and the in laws stick their nose and brainwash her even more, You'll be the Bad Guy every time!
Unfortunately, in most situations like this, the guy is in the losing end, and winds throwing the towel and leaving.
Once indoctrination about any religion is embedded in any individual, it's there for life, just look at them moozzies and their fucked up beliefs, it's a bad seed that has been implanted from very early on, and it will stay with them till the end of their pathetic brainwashed lives....
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But I agree with 95% of the values she has due to Christianity I just reach the conclusions with rationality rather than belief so I feel like if I just pay lip service to the more crazy spiritual elements then it would be fine since every other aspect of the relationship is great.
I bet there's a shit load of guys who just go to Church on a Sunday to keep their wives happy and spend half the time there rolling their eyes and daydreaming.
Yeah, they're called cucks.
Seriously though, what kind of man wants a life of lying to appease a woman's stupid beliefs? For fucks sake man just lay it out for her and make HER make the hard decision.
If you have kids who's going to run the house you or her?