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Title: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 04:09:52 AM
Like Chris Rock said, if you haven't cheated on your wife or girlfriend, it's simply because you haven't had significant chances to do so or with someone you deem hot enough to do so.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Simple Simon on June 30, 2016, 04:11:24 AM
Like Chris Rock said, if you haven't cheated on your wife or girlfriend, it's simply because you haven't had significant chances to do so.
Chris Rock is a comedian not a philosophical scholar.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 04:13:42 AM
Chris Rock is a comedian not a philosophical scholar.

True, but that quote has resonated so strongly in the 20 plus years since he said it because it's true, every man knows this if he's willing to look inside himself, look at his current situation, and look at a scenario where hundreds of women are throwing themselves at them a week.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Jovo on June 30, 2016, 04:29:02 AM
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: _aj_ on June 30, 2016, 04:32:57 AM
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.

Spoken like a man that's never, ever been in that situation and doesn't fully comprehend the level of betrayal your body and libido is capable of.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 04:34:36 AM
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.

But science has shown TRUE love to only last 1-3 years, after that it's familiarity, friendship, dependence, chemistry, still not enough to offset every day a different what you deem as a 10 willing to give in to your every desire
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Simple Simon on June 30, 2016, 04:49:07 AM
as you grow up and mature and stop being motived by your desire to impress others, you start to learn self control and realise that sex is simply vigorous exercise with a happy ending.
How good it is depends on the person you are doing it with, a lot of "10s" simply have no idea what to do and are shit at sex.

I have been with my partner 20 years and have not once thought about going through with sex with another woman, sure I look at women and find them attractive , but as far as having sex with them in real life, whats the point?
Why upset your current partner, as Jove said, if you are thinking about having sex with another woman, the one you are with isnt the one for you, break up and move on.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 04:50:48 AM
as you grow up and mature and stop being motived by your desire to impress others, you start to learn self control and realise that sex is simply vigorous exercise with a happy ending.
How good it is depends on the person you are doing it with, a lot of "10s" simply have no idea what to do and are shit at sex.

I have been with my partner 20 years and have not once thought about going through with sex with another woman, sure I look at women and find them attractive , but as far as having sex with them in real life, whats the point?
Why upset your current partner, as Jove said, if you are thinking about having sex with another woman, the one you are with isnt the one for you, break up and move on.

You simply haven't been pursued by a hot enough women, in enough quantity.This isn't about being loyal with Be There's options, it's admitting with unlimited options with the women of your dreams ,you wouldn't be able to stay faithful.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: SF1900 on June 30, 2016, 04:59:12 AM
But science has shown TRUE love to only last 1-3 years, after that it's familiarity, friendship, dependence, chemistry, still not enough to offset every day a different what you deem as a 10 willing to give in to your every desire

That 1-3 years is often more contingent on whether the couple has children. After the birth of a child, both men and women secrete certain hormones that increases the chances that they will stay in love for the child's first few years of life. This increases the probability that the child has the best chance for survival by ensuring that the couple stays together--having both parents stay together in the home increases the health and survival of the child. After a few years, these hormones wear off.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Simple Simon on June 30, 2016, 05:06:08 AM
You simply haven't been pursued by a hot enough women, in enough quantity.This isn't about being loyal with Be There's options, it's admitting with unlimited options with the women of your dreams ,you wouldn't be able to stay faithful.

Im with the woman of my dreams...
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: YngiweRhoads on June 30, 2016, 05:08:00 AM
Like Chris Rock said, if you haven't cheated on your wife or girlfriend, it's simply because you haven't had significant chances to do so or with someone you deem hot enough to do so.

Yeah, ok.


Most people are unethical and have the morals of a stick.


I'm like a fucking celebrity irl. Regardless of whether I'm on stage, or off. Everywhere I go I get hit on by women. I've never cheated on anyone in my life when I've been in a relationship. Never.

If you want to fuck lots of women, stay single. It's not rocket science.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Grape Ape on June 30, 2016, 05:08:23 AM
You simply haven't been pursued by a hot enough women, in enough quantity.This isn't about being loyal with Be There's options, it's admitting with unlimited options with the women of your dreams ,you wouldn't be able to stay faithful.

BeThere's statement is spot on, regardless of opportunity present.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 05:15:36 AM
Im with the woman of my dreams...

You think that your wife offers what millions of other women couldnt?If you had abundance in this area youd see no woman is truly special.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Waller on June 30, 2016, 05:19:46 AM
You think that your wife offers what millions of other women couldnt?If you had abundance in this area youd see no woman is truly special.

Be with a few and you'll learn some are more special than others.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Simple Simon on June 30, 2016, 05:42:55 AM
You think that your wife offers what millions of other women couldnt?If you had abundance in this area youd see no woman is truly special.
Yes, I see in her something that I see in no other woman, its not something tangible you can describe.

She makes me smile every time I see her, I get the same feelings now as I did 23 years ago when I first met her.

When or if it happens to you you will know what im talking about.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 06:02:20 AM
Yes, I see in her something that I see in no other woman, its not something tangible you can describe.

She makes me smile every time I see her, I get the same feelings now as I did 23 years ago when I first met her.

When or if it happens to you you will know what im talking about.

Not criticizing you, 99%+ of men arnt in the position to be tested, to have the oppurtunities of even a below average women you need to be a very high status male.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: phreak on June 30, 2016, 06:08:56 AM
Just have an open marriage. It's not immoral if it is allowed.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Grape Ape on June 30, 2016, 06:16:25 AM
Not criticizing you, 99%+ of men arnt in the position to be tested, to have the oppurtunities of even a below average women you need to be a very high status male.

"high status male".


lololololololololololo

I like your posts, but man, log off for two weeks and go outside
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: mazrim on June 30, 2016, 06:28:46 AM
BeThere is correct.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 06:29:25 AM
"high status male".


lololololololololololo

I like your posts, but man, log off for two weeks and go outside

The average guy can get an average woman, but he wont have the abundance to be tested like a "high status male" would, either through lack of fame, looks or money.What part of that of that do you disagree with?
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: HTexan on June 30, 2016, 06:34:51 AM
Spoken like a man that's never, ever been in that situation and doesn't fully comprehend the level of betrayal your body and libido is capable of.
Spoken like a weak man with no willpower.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Grape Ape on June 30, 2016, 06:41:36 AM
The average guy can get an average woman, but he wont have the abundance to be tested like a "high status male" would, either through lack of fame, looks or money.What part of that of that do you disagree with?

An average guy with game gets mad tail.   I don't get all this talk about alphas, high status, etc....nobody talks like that.  Who thinks like that?

Either way, BeThere's post is a tangible and real example of a counter to original statement.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Spike on June 30, 2016, 06:46:25 AM
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.

That's called being homo
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Bulgarian_enforcer on June 30, 2016, 06:52:19 AM
That's called being homo

Yup, sounds weak and gay.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 06:53:38 AM
An average guy with game gets mad tail.   I don't get all this talk about alphas, high status, etc....nobody talks like that.  Who thinks like that?

Either way, BeThere's post is a tangible and real example of a counter to original statement.

Needing game means it doesnt apply to those, im talking about guys who can be actively pursued without ever needing to have met the woman beforehand.Do you think Richard Branson, Brad Pitt etc need game?Game implies you need to actively trying to play.No game is ever needed when women are throwing themselves at your feet.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Grape Ape on June 30, 2016, 06:56:20 AM
Needing game means it doesnt apply to those, im talking about guys who can be actively pursued without ever needing to have met the woman beforehand.Do you think Richard Branson, Brad Pitt etc need game?Game implies you need to actively trying to play.

Ok, then the conversation has morphed into something different than the original statement.

Yes, people like that exist, and their exposure to temptation is greater than the average person.

But, back to the original, there's a whole, real world out there with normal people where temptation happens as well.  More often than not, that's why there's so much cheating.  But BeThere put it perfectly to those who can see past the temporary thrill, or not even crave it.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 06:59:01 AM
Look at stephen curry actively running his game on this chick in the crowd!This probably happens so many times a day for him he doesnt even notice anymore.Until he gets horny on the road that is.

Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 07:04:36 AM
Ok, then the conversation has morphed into something different than the original statement.

Yes, people like that exist, and their exposure to temptation is greater than the average person.

But, back to the original, there's a whole, real world out there with normal people where temptation happens as well.  More often than not, that's why there's so much cheating.  But BeThere put it perfectly to those who can see past the temporary thrill, or not even crave it.

But thats Chris Rocks whole argument, if the average guy was given those tempations, he would stray, but the average guy doesnt get those options, and if he does it isnt 9/10 women, because well, he's an average guy.turning down 5/10s for your 6/10 wife at best isnt such a difficult choice but even then men falter at times.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: polychronopolous on June 30, 2016, 07:07:57 AM
Fellas there is more to life than satisfying your little ding a lings.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Grape Ape on June 30, 2016, 07:08:56 AM
But thats Chris Rocks whole argument, if the average guy was given those tempations, he would stray, but the average guy doesnt get those options, and if he does it isnt 9/10 women, because well, he's an average guy.turning down 5/10s for your 6/10 wife at best isnt such a difficult choice but even then men falter at times.

Perhaps I should actually watch it.  But I only commented in the thread because I agreed with BeThere 100%.

Either way, it's just a broad sweeping statement of which there will be many exceptions.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Dave D on June 30, 2016, 07:29:40 AM
You can't apply a generalization to everyone.

Ultimately people do what they want to do. If a person in a committed relationship wants to cheat they will, bottom line,
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: OneMoreRep on June 30, 2016, 07:42:56 AM
Army,

Decades ago, before I became truly honest with myself and accepted that I was a gay man, I managed to realize something crucial in the physical attraction to women.

A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.

The same thing goes for a woman with perfect breasts, amazing legs, a gorgeous face with beautiful hair and so forth. Over time, the novelty of these things will wear off. With time, you realize that since all roads lead to the same end (ie the thrill of the chase being gone after you've fucked the same woman for long enough), it makes more sense to remain steady with the one woman, that truly makes you feel happy and loved without having to touch you in a sexual manner.

It's about finding that partner that makes your heart orgasm regardless of how aged you or she become. Once you do that, you will realize that fidelity is no longer a matter of options, but more so a matter of having found your perfect fit.

"1"
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: mazrim on June 30, 2016, 07:49:09 AM
I don't get all this talk about alphas, high status, etc....nobody talks like that.  Who thinks like that?
Basically only "non alphas" talk that way in an attempt to make themselves "alphas". An alpha just appears to be the loudest/most annoying, etc. guy in the room nowadays.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on June 30, 2016, 07:49:22 AM
Have you seen what Chris Rock looks like?  here's a reminder

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Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Tapeworm on June 30, 2016, 07:50:41 AM
I'm either horny or annoyed.  
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: dj181 on June 30, 2016, 07:53:19 AM
An average guy with game gets mad tail.   I don't get all this talk about alphas, high status, etc....nobody talks like that.  Who thinks like that?

Either way, BeThere's post is a tangible and real example of a counter to original statement.

"game" is basically being a con man ie. telling females what they want to hear and/or playing the numbers game

i know a french dude like this and a norway dude as well, and yep they get tail, but only after they've tried many many times

i'd say about 1 in 20 girls that they try and game actually fuck them

i've seen the french dude try and chat up bout 10 girls in the span of 2 hours, and get nothing from it, these dudes almost got no fucking pride lol
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Grape Ape on June 30, 2016, 07:58:25 AM
"game" is basically being a con man ie. telling females what they want to hear and/or playing the numbers game

i know a french dude like this and a norway dude as well, and yep they get tail, but only after they've tried many many times

i'd say about 1 in 20 girls that they try and game actually fuck them

i've seen the french dude try and chat up bout 10 girls in the span of 2 hours, and get nothing from it, these dudes almost got no fucking pride lol

Sorry, but your sample size of one isn't going to change my mind.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Wiggs on June 30, 2016, 08:12:21 AM
Fellas there is more to life than satisfying your little ding a lings.

x100
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: phreak on June 30, 2016, 08:13:49 AM
Fellas there is more to life than satisfying your little ding a lings.

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Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Mrdibbs on June 30, 2016, 08:14:07 AM
Interesting debate.

Personally i believe that if you have found a woman who makes you truely happy and satisfied in every way it isn't hard to turn down a very attractive example. Imagening the emotional pain which you would inflict on her knowing you do this should be enough of a motivator to not give in.

On the other hand it's all circumstances and nothing is unconditional.

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Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: phreak on June 30, 2016, 08:15:11 AM
You can't apply a generalization to everyone.

Ultimately people do what they want to do. If a person in a committed relationship wants to cheat they will, bottom line,
There is so much irony in this post, it gave Magneto a boner.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: mazrim on June 30, 2016, 08:18:04 AM
There's no denying our bodies impulses are powerful. That's why I try to never put myself in that position to begin with. That's the smartest thing to do if you really love your partner.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Wiggs on June 30, 2016, 08:19:16 AM
There's no denying our bodies impulses are powerful. That's why I try to never put myself in that position to begin with. That's the smartest thing to do if you really love your partner.

x10
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: phreak on June 30, 2016, 08:19:45 AM
Interesting debate.

Personally i believe that if you have found a woman who makes you truely happy and satisfied in every way it isn't hard to turn down a very attractive example.
Is it realistic to expect one woman to make you happy in every way? Not talking about ecstatic in some ways, okay in others. But every way? Why not just get what you need from those who want to give you what you need? Why limit it to one person? If you go into marriage with the expectation that one person must deliver on all fronts, always, then that is setting yourself and your partner up for disappointment.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Mrdibbs on June 30, 2016, 08:29:09 AM
Is it realistic to expect one woman to make you happy in every way? Not talking about ecstatic in some ways, okay in others. But every way? Why not just get what you need from those who want to give you what you need? Why limit it to one person? If you go into marriage with the expectation that one person must deliver on all fronts, always, then that is setting yourself and your partner up for disappointment.

Okay i'll have to rephrase that. I can't stand people in general around me for a long time. If i find a woman which i can spend more than a few days with in a row without jumping out of the window that's very rare  ;D Ofcourse there will be flaws and irritations from both sides but being able to cope with that is unique. Keeping a woman like that around means stopping contact with others.

Is that worth it in the long run though?
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Dave D on June 30, 2016, 08:30:41 AM
There is so much irony in this post, it gave Magneto a boner.

Just because Magneto can control metal doesn't mean he gets an erection when he reads something ironic.  He doesn't control wood.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: 240 is Back on June 30, 2016, 08:31:36 AM
Pro Bodybuilders are only as faithful as the whims of the titillated judges will allow.  
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: io856 on June 30, 2016, 08:40:33 AM
You're a dumbfuck with no self control if you cheat on your partner. If you have/do you're lack of willpower sickens me. There is nothing to gain and a lot to lose.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Army of One on June 30, 2016, 08:44:42 AM
You're a dumbfuck with no self control if you cheat on your partner. There is nothing to gain and a lot to lose.


There's a lot to lose if you had to work hard to get it, if it gets thrown at you then you probably won't see it this way.Exhibit A is women being the vast majority who initiate divorces because they know they can pick up an new partner with a snap of the fingers.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: io856 on June 30, 2016, 08:52:41 AM
There's a lot to lose if you had to work hard to get it, if it gets thrown at you then you probably won't see it this way.Exhibit A is women being the vast majority who initiate divorces because they know they can pick up an new partner with a snap of the fingers.
There's a lot to lose when it comes to your fidelity to your partner. To live the rest of your life as an unfaithful man. To look in the mirror and see a man who couldn't have enough self control in the name of a relationship of love and commitment. For a measly orgasm of all things, an elevated heart rate met with a very short lived feeling of elation. Pathetic.

If it gets thrown at you, have the self respect and respect to your partner, as a man of value, to throw it right back.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Erik C on June 30, 2016, 09:03:38 AM
I think the problem is that there are way too many men who got married because that was the only way they could get laid on some semi-regular basis, and married some woman they didn't really want, but was all they could get as a marriage partner.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Waller on June 30, 2016, 09:21:33 AM

A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.

"1"

Don't ever go into erotic literature. You just made sex unsexy.  :-\
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: chaos on June 30, 2016, 09:34:49 AM
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.
Outed.
Get your balls out of your girlfriends purse, homo.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: chaos on June 30, 2016, 09:37:19 AM
Army,

Decades ago, before I became truly honest with myself and accepted that I was a gay man, I managed to realize something crucial in the physical attraction to women.

A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.

The same thing goes for a woman with perfect breasts, amazing legs, a gorgeous face with beautiful hair and so forth. Over time, the novelty of these things will wear off. With time, you realize that since all roads lead to the same end (ie the thrill of the chase being gone after you've fucked the same woman for long enough), it makes more sense to remain steady with the one woman, that truly makes you feel happy and loved without having to touch you in a sexual manner.

It's about finding that partner that makes your heart orgasm regardless of how aged you or she become. Once you do that, you will realize that fidelity is no longer a matter of options, but more so a matter of having found your perfect fit.

"1"
Is a butthole just a butthole ???
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Azure on June 30, 2016, 09:39:10 AM
If you are actually around successful and highly desired men, then you know that they get tired of being pursued for their money, their status, or whatever. Sure every man loves it at first...all the attention and getting any woman that you want

But that gets old and can get expensive after a while. 

Many women are just in it for the lifestyle and not having to work again. They cheat or find ways to get out of the marriage and get half of the money.  They are at fault too because  don't really love the guy as a person because in many cases they're insecure narcissistic assholes.  


Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Simple Simon on June 30, 2016, 11:27:37 AM
Army,

Decades ago, before I became truly honest with myself and accepted that I was a gay man, I managed to realize something crucial in the physical attraction to women.

A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.

The same thing goes for a woman with perfect breasts, amazing legs, a gorgeous face with beautiful hair and so forth. Over time, the novelty of these things will wear off. With time, you realize that since all roads lead to the same end (ie the thrill of the chase being gone after you've fucked the same woman for long enough), it makes more sense to remain steady with the one woman, that truly makes you feel happy and loved without having to touch you in a sexual manner.

It's about finding that partner that makes your heart orgasm regardless of how aged you or she become. Once you do that, you will realize that fidelity is no longer a matter of options, but more so a matter of having found your perfect fit.

"1"

a woman who wants you, knows what she wants and who knows what you want is a 10 any day of the week regardless of looks.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 11:32:16 AM
infidelity is a painful fact of life

i cheated on baby mama when she was in the hospital, 12 hours after smashing her standing up in the hospital room's bathroom.

 :-X

it was a really fine thai honey and she admired my guns, what can i say

 :-\
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: bigmc on June 30, 2016, 11:55:51 AM
a woman who wants you, knows what she wants and who knows what you want is a 10 any day of the week regardless of looks.

you are a lucky man

Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:01:19 PM
If you are actually around successful and highly desired men, then you know that they get tired of being pursued for their money, their status, or whatever. Sure every man loves it at first...all the attention and getting any woman that you want

But that gets old and can get expensive after a while. 

Many women are just in it for the lifestyle and not having to work again. They cheat or find ways to get out of the marriage and get half of the money.  They are at fault too because  don't really love the guy as a person because in many cases they're insecure narcissistic assholes.  



yes this is why i have now decided to take up interests other than women, such as trolling youtube video channels

i generally often go weeks without speaking a single word to a female nowadays

i just wanna get jacked and take a vacation to dominican republic once in a while where the prostitutes are fine, young, cheap, and fuck raw no pulling out

the dating game, forget about it, waste of time ::)
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: io856 on June 30, 2016, 12:09:08 PM
So much wisdom in this thread

Young getbiggers take note
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on June 30, 2016, 12:10:47 PM
A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.



 :-\  This is sort of like saying a mobile phone and a toaster are basically the same because they both plug into electric sockets. Guys don't cheat on their SOs with vaginas (or whatever bodypart one happens to be into). They cheat with people.  Women cheat with people. It's not just a matter of getting the correct number of dicks and pussies in a room. It's a matter of attraction, sometimes sexual, sometimes emotional. And any form of attraction can fade.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:12:32 PM
Army,

Decades ago, before I became truly honest with myself and accepted that I was a gay man, I managed to realize something crucial in the physical attraction to women.

A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.

The same thing goes for a woman with perfect breasts, amazing legs, a gorgeous face with beautiful hair and so forth. Over time, the novelty of these things will wear off. With time, you realize that since all roads lead to the same end (ie the thrill of the chase being gone after you've fucked the same woman for long enough), it makes more sense to remain steady with the one woman, that truly makes you feel happy and loved without having to touch you in a sexual manner.

It's about finding that partner that makes your heart orgasm regardless of how aged you or she become. Once you do that, you will realize that fidelity is no longer a matter of options, but more so a matter of having found your perfect fit.

"1"
most women have pretty bad pussy in comparison to baby mama, she really had golden pussy bro, it does exist, pussy is not pussy

there is bad pussy, average pussy, good pussy, golden pussy
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:21:08 PM
all pussy is not created equal

even pussy juice is not created equal

most bitches have that water juice, i prefer the thick viscuous juice, it feels much greasier and nastier

it's funny men are insecure about their penis, but nobody seems to point out that a lot of women's pussy is absolute garbage

men should start asking women on dates about their pussy and its qualities and shortcomings

these bitches seem to think that their pussy is golden

but it's usually pretty shit
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Disqus on June 30, 2016, 12:23:09 PM
The unspoken truth in this thread is that women can pretty much get laid on demand. Even average women have zero problem getting laid. The days of men being the only ones who cheat are long over. You might not want to think about this but it's true. If you mess around on your woman and she wants to retaliate she can do so in a few hours. Of course if you don't care that's another story.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:27:09 PM
The unspoken truth in this thread is that women can pretty much get laid on demand. Even average women have zero problem getting laid. The days of men being the only ones who cheat are long over. You might not want to think about this but it's true. If you mess around on your woman and she wants to retaliate she can do so in a few hours. Of course if you don't care that's another story.
lol what the fuck man

women have always been fucking sluts

do you even read the bible mother fucker
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Disqus on June 30, 2016, 12:29:21 PM
lol what the fuck man

women have always been fucking sluts

do you even read the bible mother fucker

True. You know baby mamma wasn't really spending all that time at church.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on June 30, 2016, 12:30:48 PM
The unspoken truth in this thread is that women can pretty much get laid on demand. Even average women have zero problem getting laid. The days of men being the only ones who cheat are long over. You might not want to think about this but it's true. If you mess around on your woman and she wants to retaliate she can do so in a few hours. Of course if you don't care that's another story.

Most  women in straight relationships- even just co-habitational, non-married relationships- are financially dependent on their partners to maintain their lifestyles. And as easy as it would be for any decent looking woman to get fucked within an hour if she so chose, more are after long-term relationships, which is not so easy. I know so many career-oriented, attractive single women who are desperate to get into relationships.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:31:39 PM
True. You know baby mamma wasn't really spending all that time at church.
for sure

she was juggling at least 3-4  dudes at a time

that's the truth

so i decided against getting a new gf and just be a penny pinching jew and be selfish and not give a damn about women

best
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Simple Simon on June 30, 2016, 12:32:19 PM
True. You know baby mamma wasn't really spending all that time at church.

she kept journals.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:34:16 PM
Most  women in straight relationships- even just co-habitational, non-married relationships- are financially dependent on their partners to maintain their lifestyles. And as easy as it would be for any decent looking woman to get fucked within an hour if she so chose, more are after long-term relationships, which is not so easy. I know so many career-oriented, attractive single women who are desperate to get into relationships.
why would they need a relationship when they are "career-oriented" (i assume that big word means they make bank)

why would they give up their freedom if they already have money ???
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:36:26 PM
she kept journals.
no but she slipped up sometimes leaving behind clues

i figured it all out being the inquisitive quick thinking man i am
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on June 30, 2016, 12:37:03 PM
why would they need a relationship when they are "career-oriented" (i assume that big word means they make bank)

why would they give up their freedom if they already have money ???

Have you ever met a woman?  ???
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Azure on June 30, 2016, 12:37:20 PM
Most  women in straight relationships- even just co-habitational, non-married relationships- are financially dependent on their partners to maintain their lifestyles. And as easy as it would be for any decent looking woman to get fucked within an hour if she so chose, more are after long-term relationships, which is not so easy. I know so many career-oriented, attractive single women who are desperate to get into relationships.

They want to get into their relationships until they realize that means that they may need to pay attention to the man in their life.

I know quite a few men that have been cheated on.  
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: HTexan on June 30, 2016, 12:39:17 PM
Have you ever met a woman?  ???
The sad truth
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:40:06 PM
Have you ever met a woman?
answer the question
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on June 30, 2016, 12:42:41 PM
answer the question

There really isn't anything to answer. Why do so many successful men want to be in relationships?

Regardless of sex or how much money you make, you want companionship, you want to start a family, all that bullshit...

Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 12:46:08 PM
There really isn't anything to answer. Why do so many successful men want to be in relationships?

Regardless of sex or how much money you make, you want companionship, you want to start a family, all that bullshit...


but you said they are financially dependent
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on June 30, 2016, 12:48:23 PM
but you said they are financially dependent

I said who is financially dependent?
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: TuHolmes on June 30, 2016, 02:25:31 PM
All men have options.

A majority could probably be better. It depends on what you mean by "better" though.

Hotter?
More Financially secure?
Less bitchy?

We can all find that if we WANT to.

At some point, being hot is great, but if the girl is hot and the personality is spot on, why look elsewhere?
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Fortress on June 30, 2016, 03:35:03 PM
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.

The amount of homo in this post is too much to consider.

Plus, it's a tidal wave of nonsense.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Fortress on June 30, 2016, 04:06:44 PM
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections. The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.

Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: BodyMachine on June 30, 2016, 06:28:21 PM
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections. The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.



Correct, vast majority of women are not loyal and will drop you tomorrow after telling you they love you until they are blue in the face today. I don't think it used to be like this, looking at my aunts, mother, etc, but that's how it is today. It sucks, as a guy you got to be of the fuck it mentality and move on but shit at the end of the day ur human and have lasting feelings
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on June 30, 2016, 08:27:04 PM
Correct, vast majority of women are not loyal and will drop you tomorrow after telling you they love you until they are blue in the face today. I don't think it used to be like this, looking at my aunts, mother, etc, but that's how it is today. It sucks, as a guy you got to be of the fuck it mentality and move on but shit at the end of the day ur human and have lasting feelings

This part I agree with. The rest...  :-\ Anyone can be hurt in a relationship or discover someone they cared about wasn't who they thought they were, but I've never met someone with a sour view of relationships/the opposite sex who was a catch themself. The thing most have in common is that they have unrealistic expectations or make incredibly bad decisions and then rationalize those decisions as being inevitable. When you meet someone, guy or girl, they show you exactly who they are within the first few hours you spend together. Not even just romantically. Just casual acquaintances, people ignore that someone is a shitbag and constantly say this person is stand-up because they didn't rob or kill them. Not only do people ignore warning signs, but they ignore when they exacerbate their partner's flaws so they can feel better about painting themselves as the victim.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: anabolichalo on June 30, 2016, 08:30:47 PM
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections.
The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.


i reached the same conclusions :-X

Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Jovo on July 01, 2016, 12:13:43 AM
The amount of homo in this post is too much to consider.

Plus, it's a tidal wave of nonsense.

i never said every one finds love , i just said what it was
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: phreak on July 01, 2016, 12:17:24 AM
Just because Magneto can control metal doesn't mean he gets an erection when he reads something ironic.  He doesn't control wood.

Excellent buildup, nicely executed!
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: mazrim on July 01, 2016, 06:09:28 AM
This page is filled with a lot of guys who sound like they have issues discerning/finding a good woman.

They are no worse then men in regards to loyalty. In today's culture both are pretty bad.
 I can't believe how many movies are made where the person is in a relationship and by the end they are in a relationship with a new person all while the plot pushes for you to pull for that to happen.  Romanticizes it.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Azure on July 01, 2016, 07:35:08 AM
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections. The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.



This is a good post. I have an ex who was very very successful. He married a woman who claimed to love him so much. His family liked her and she put on a really great show of loyalty. Well when he wasn't so successful anymore not one month later she Moved out and filed for divorce. To me it was blatantly obvious she wasn't loyal. She was going to be loyal as long as she we benefiting but the second hard times come they are gone.

These women are very easy to spot. men are just often blinded by the manipulation, sweet talk, looks, And sex to see it.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: HTexan on July 01, 2016, 08:22:35 AM
All men have options.

A majority could probably be better. It depends on what you mean by "better" though.

Hotter?
More Financially secure?
Less bitchy?

We can all find that if we WANT to.

At some point, being hot is great, but if the girl is hot and the personality is spot on, why look elsewhere?
Some guys cheat for the trill of it, and others because their sexually fustrated at home. 
I don't understand why guys cheat if they are not married. if youre in an exclusive relationship, and not happy drop that bitch.
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: Al Doggity on July 01, 2016, 08:49:37 AM
This page is filled with a lot of guys who sound like they have issues discerning/finding a good woman.


This is getbig.com .
Title: Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
Post by: HTexan on July 01, 2016, 12:31:02 PM
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