Men are only as faithful as their options

[Grape Ape]

Needing game means it doesnt apply to those, im talking about guys who can be actively pursued without ever needing to have met the woman beforehand.Do you think Richard Branson, Brad Pitt etc need game?Game implies you need to actively trying to play.

Ok, then the conversation has morphed into something different than the original statement.

Yes, people like that exist, and their exposure to temptation is greater than the average person.

But, back to the original, there's a whole, real world out there with normal people where temptation happens as well.  More often than not, that's why there's so much cheating.  But BeThere put it perfectly to those who can see past the temporary thrill, or not even crave it.

[Army of One]

Look at stephen curry actively running his game on this chick in the crowd!This probably happens so many times a day for him he doesnt even notice anymore.Until he gets horny on the road that is.

[Army of One]

Ok, then the conversation has morphed into something different than the original statement.

Yes, people like that exist, and their exposure to temptation is greater than the average person.

But, back to the original, there's a whole, real world out there with normal people where temptation happens as well.  More often than not, that's why there's so much cheating.  But BeThere put it perfectly to those who can see past the temporary thrill, or not even crave it.

But thats Chris Rocks whole argument, if the average guy was given those tempations, he would stray, but the average guy doesnt get those options, and if he does it isnt 9/10 women, because well, he's an average guy.turning down 5/10s for your 6/10 wife at best isnt such a difficult choice but even then men falter at times.

[polychronopolous]

Fellas there is more to life than satisfying your little ding a lings.

[Grape Ape]

But thats Chris Rocks whole argument, if the average guy was given those tempations, he would stray, but the average guy doesnt get those options, and if he does it isnt 9/10 women, because well, he's an average guy.turning down 5/10s for your 6/10 wife at best isnt such a difficult choice but even then men falter at times.

Perhaps I should actually watch it.  But I only commented in the thread because I agreed with BeThere 100%.

Either way, it's just a broad sweeping statement of which there will be many exceptions.

[Dave D]

You can't apply a generalization to everyone.

Ultimately people do what they want to do. If a person in a committed relationship wants to cheat they will, bottom line,

[OneMoreRep]

Army,

Decades ago, before I became truly honest with myself and accepted that I was a gay man, I managed to realize something crucial in the physical attraction to women.

A pussy is just a pussy. If you've had enough sex with women, over time you will come to realize that a vagina can only do but so much and, in most instances, regardless of on which woman a vagina sits, the fact of the matter is that the sensation is fairly the same from one woman to another. Yes, there are variations with sizes and smell, but the fact of the matter is that you will achieve ejaculation be it by hitting that cervix as much as you can to stimulate the glans penis or by rubbing your penis against her lateral vagina canal enough times to stimulate the frenulum with a sensation similar to masturbation. So, a pussy is just a pussy and over time, the pussy of a 10/10 female will simply become another pussy.

The same thing goes for a woman with perfect breasts, amazing legs, a gorgeous face with beautiful hair and so forth. Over time, the novelty of these things will wear off. With time, you realize that since all roads lead to the same end (ie the thrill of the chase being gone after you've fucked the same woman for long enough), it makes more sense to remain steady with the one woman, that truly makes you feel happy and loved without having to touch you in a sexual manner.

It's about finding that partner that makes your heart orgasm regardless of how aged you or she become. Once you do that, you will realize that fidelity is no longer a matter of options, but more so a matter of having found your perfect fit.

"1"

[mazrim]

I don't get all this talk about alphas, high status, etc....nobody talks like that.  Who thinks like that?

Basically only "non alphas" talk that way in an attempt to make themselves "alphas". An alpha just appears to be the loudest/most annoying, etc. guy in the room nowadays.

[El Diablo Blanco]

Have you seen what Chris Rock looks like?  here's a reminder

[Tapeworm]

I'm either horny or annoyed.  

[dj181]

An average guy with game gets mad tail.   I don't get all this talk about alphas, high status, etc....nobody talks like that.  Who thinks like that?

Either way, BeThere's post is a tangible and real example of a counter to original statement.

"game" is basically being a con man ie. telling females what they want to hear and/or playing the numbers game

i know a french dude like this and a norway dude as well, and yep they get tail, but only after they've tried many many times

i'd say about 1 in 20 girls that they try and game actually fuck them

i've seen the french dude try and chat up bout 10 girls in the span of 2 hours, and get nothing from it, these dudes almost got no fucking pride lol

[Grape Ape]

"game" is basically being a con man ie. telling females what they want to hear and/or playing the numbers game

i know a french dude like this and a norway dude as well, and yep they get tail, but only after they've tried many many times

i'd say about 1 in 20 girls that they try and game actually fuck them

i've seen the french dude try and chat up bout 10 girls in the span of 2 hours, and get nothing from it, these dudes almost got no fucking pride lol

Sorry, but your sample size of one isn't going to change my mind.

[Wiggs]

Fellas there is more to life than satisfying your little ding a lings.

x100

[phreak]

Fellas there is more to life than satisfying your little ding a lings.

[Mrdibbs]

Interesting debate.

Personally i believe that if you have found a woman who makes you truely happy and satisfied in every way it isn't hard to turn down a very attractive example. Imagening the emotional pain which you would inflict on her knowing you do this should be enough of a motivator to not give in.

On the other hand it's all circumstances and nothing is unconditional.

[phreak]

You can't apply a generalization to everyone.

Ultimately people do what they want to do. If a person in a committed relationship wants to cheat they will, bottom line,

There is so much irony in this post, it gave Magneto a boner.

[mazrim]

There's no denying our bodies impulses are powerful. That's why I try to never put myself in that position to begin with. That's the smartest thing to do if you really love your partner.

[Wiggs]

There's no denying our bodies impulses are powerful. That's why I try to never put myself in that position to begin with. That's the smartest thing to do if you really love your partner.

x10

[phreak]

Interesting debate.

Personally i believe that if you have found a woman who makes you truely happy and satisfied in every way it isn't hard to turn down a very attractive example.

Is it realistic to expect one woman to make you happy in every way? Not talking about ecstatic in some ways, okay in others. But every way? Why not just get what you need from those who want to give you what you need? Why limit it to one person? If you go into marriage with the expectation that one person must deliver on all fronts, always, then that is setting yourself and your partner up for disappointment.

[Mrdibbs]

Is it realistic to expect one woman to make you happy in every way? Not talking about ecstatic in some ways, okay in others. But every way? Why not just get what you need from those who want to give you what you need? Why limit it to one person? If you go into marriage with the expectation that one person must deliver on all fronts, always, then that is setting yourself and your partner up for disappointment.

Okay i'll have to rephrase that. I can't stand people in general around me for a long time. If i find a woman which i can spend more than a few days with in a row without jumping out of the window that's very rare   Ofcourse there will be flaws and irritations from both sides but being able to cope with that is unique. Keeping a woman like that around means stopping contact with others.

Is that worth it in the long run though?

[Dave D]

There is so much irony in this post, it gave Magneto a boner.

Just because Magneto can control metal doesn't mean he gets an erection when he reads something ironic.  He doesn't control wood.

[240 is Back]

Pro Bodybuilders are only as faithful as the whims of the titillated judges will allow.  

[io856]

You're a dumbfuck with no self control if you cheat on your partner. If you have/do you're lack of willpower sickens me. There is nothing to gain and a lot to lose.

[Army of One]

You're a dumbfuck with no self control if you cheat on your partner. There is nothing to gain and a lot to lose.

There's a lot to lose if you had to work hard to get it, if it gets thrown at you then you probably won't see it this way.Exhibit A is women being the vast majority who initiate divorces because they know they can pick up an new partner with a snap of the fingers.

[io856]

There's a lot to lose if you had to work hard to get it, if it gets thrown at you then you probably won't see it this way.Exhibit A is women being the vast majority who initiate divorces because they know they can pick up an new partner with a snap of the fingers.

There's a lot to lose when it comes to your fidelity to your partner. To live the rest of your life as an unfaithful man. To look in the mirror and see a man who couldn't have enough self control in the name of a relationship of love and commitment. For a measly orgasm of all things, an elevated heart rate met with a very short lived feeling of elation. Pathetic.

If it gets thrown at you, have the self respect and respect to your partner, as a man of value, to throw it right back.