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From the misc, fucking brutal
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I was married twice, both ended pretty much the same way. the first one cleaned me out but i wised up come the second one.
Either way, it sucks.
felt like a prisoner every day. They will just about 100% of the time get depression which will include endless crying, yelling, freaking out and emotional roller coastering.
Come home for a nice relaxing evening after a hard days work? oh hell no. not unless relaxing is getting bitched out for something you have no control over and then a fit r crying. You try to console her and hel and get bitched out for it. just no winning.
You mention she should get some medical help and of course, **** hits the fan over that, how dare you.
I am not talking one day of this, i am talking real life, years of this, every day.
this is what married guys go through. not all but i would say the majority of them do. its horrible. to be honest, when you watch shows about guys in solitary confinement, you get jealous.
Finally get her to the doctor and he give her some meds. she is back to the normal person you married. that lasts a few months until she meets someone new and divorces you, of course, blaming the whole time because you didnt support her or some other nonsense.
Nowe of course, the divorce is not just a simple come home and you house is empty thing, oh hell no. its a slow torturous process where she can blame you for everything while accepting no responsibility for her actions.
they really should make divorce papers like some award type document with gold leaf and stuff so you could display it proudly. Its like escaping from a columbian prison, srs. you are still scared and cant believe you made it out with even the clothes on your back.
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All you have do is observe your male friends and family members that are married. The majority of them are miserable.
There are more and more tattooed, narcissistic, fat-assed, loud-mouthed whores today than ever before. These women are not marriageable. It only gets worse from here.
Then, there's the financial risk. I can't imagine having to give 50% of my assets to an ex-wife in a divorce. It's much worse if kids are involved.
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All you have do is observe your male friends and family members that are married. The majority of them are miserable.
There are more and more tattooed, narcissistic, fat-assed, loud-mouthed whores today than ever before. These women are not marriageable. It only gets worse from here.
Then, there's the financial risk. I can't imagine having to give 50% of my assets to an ex-wife in a divorce. It's much worse if kids are involved.
Most guys marry the woman because they like fucking her and can tolerate her being around, once she gets ugly and/or the sex dries up, and there is no compatibility or personality underneath then it's just a matter of time.
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Most guys marry the woman because they like fucking her and can tolerate her being around, once she gets ugly and/or the sex dries up, and there is no compatibility or personality underneath then it's just a matter of time.
So why get married at all?... just bang her and send her home when you're done. No fuss, no muss.
People change. If married, there's a price to be paid when they change... divorce. It's just not worth it.
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So why get married at all?... just bang her and send her home when you're done. No fuss, no muss.
People change. If married, there's a price to be paid when they change... divorce. It's just not worth it.
Convenience, fear of not finding something better, a brain taken over by oxytocin, aging, conformity,many silly reasons
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If you're not going to have kids, there's really no reason at all to get married. Unless she is loaded.
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So why get married at all?... just bang her and send her home when you're done. No fuss, no muss.
People change. If married, there's a price to be paid when they change... divorce. It's just not worth it.
Maybe look at the ones who are in happy marriages or good wives and see what they have in common.
I suspect this is a defect in the person choosing as much as in the woman. Why are you choosing someone who will get fat and depressed? Maybe pick a chick who likes to take care of herself. And take a look at her mom first whydontcha.
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In today's world, just drill the broad and send her on her way. If she keeps coming back, keep puncturing her pussy.
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All you have do is observe your male friends and family members that are married. The majority of them are miserable.
Love being married and most of my friends that are are all content as well.
The company you keep and the choices you make....
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From the misc, fucking brutal
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I was married twice, both ended pretty much the same way. the first one cleaned me out but i wised up come the second one.
Either way, it sucks.
felt like a prisoner every day. They will just about 100% of the time get depression which will include endless crying, yelling, freaking out and emotional roller coastering.
Come home for a nice relaxing evening after a hard days work? oh hell no. not unless relaxing is getting bitched out for something you have no control over and then a fit r crying. You try to console her and hel and get bitched out for it. just no winning.
You mention she should get some medical help and of course, **** hits the fan over that, how dare you.
I am not talking one day of this, i am talking real life, years of this, every day.
this is what married guys go through. not all but i would say the majority of them do. its horrible. to be honest, when you watch shows about guys in solitary confinement, you get jealous.
Finally get her to the doctor and he give her some meds. she is back to the normal person you married. that lasts a few months until she meets someone new and divorces you, of course, blaming the whole time because you didnt support her or some other nonsense.
Nowe of course, the divorce is not just a simple come home and you house is empty thing, oh hell no. its a slow torturous process where she can blame you for everything while accepting no responsibility for her actions.
they really should make divorce papers like some award type document with gold leaf and stuff so you could display it proudly. Its like escaping from a columbian prison, srs. you are still scared and cant believe you made it out with even the clothes on your back.
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just be scary enough that the mate knows you'll totally leave him/her in suitcases in the everglades if they ever try to screw you over.
you don't have to actually do it. Just have that appearance.
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You have to be extra picky - many folks band together purely based on initial emotional peak experiences...
...like sharing a glory hole or even worse... a squat rack :D
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The only reason a man should spend even one second of his existence on this planet thinking of getting married is if he wants a family. And even then it's usually a bad idea. Almost all the advantages of being married go to the woman.
Why do you think it's always the woman that's in a rush and doing the pressuring to get married? Because deep inside every man knows that marriage is a trap. Think of all the guys you know and how many of them are truly happily married and would do it again. I bet it's 20% tops. And 90% of that 20% are beta bitches.
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I'll never marry but not for the reasons typically talked about on getbig but simply because what is the fucking point? It dosent add anything at all to your relationship except making it harder to seperate if it all goes tits up. It's a piece of paper and a bitch taking your name? I fail to see the benefit
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“By the time we grow up we become masters at dissimulation, at cultivating a self that the world cannot probe. But we pay a price. After years of turning people away, of protecting our inner self, of cultivating it by living in a different world, of furnishing this world with our fantasies and dreams—lo and behold we find that we are hopelessly separated from everyone else. We have become victims of our own art. We touch people on the outsides of their bodies, and they us, but we cannot get at their insides and cannot reveal our insides to them. This is one of the great tragedies of our interiority—it is utterly personal and unrevealable. Often we want to say something unusually intimate to a spouse, a parent, a friend, communicate something of how we are really feeling about a sunset, who we really feel we are—only to fall strangely and miserably flat. Once in a great while we succeed, sometimes more with one person, less or never with others. But the occasional break-through only proves the rule. You reach out with a disclosure, fail, and fall back bitterly into yourself. We emit huge globs of love to our parents and spouses, and the glob slithers away in exchange of words that are somehow beside the point of what we are trying to say. People seem to keep bumping up against each other with their exteriors and falling away from each other. Take even the sexual act—the most intimate merger given to organisms. For most people, even for their entire lives, it is simply a joining of exteriors. The insides melt only in the moment of orgasm, but even this is brief, and a melting is not a communication. It is a physical overcoming of separateness, not a symbolic revelation and justification of one’s interior. Many people pursue sex precisely because it is a mystique of the overcoming of the separateness of the inner world, and they go from one partner to another because they can never quite achieve “it." So the endless interrogations: “What are you thinking about right now—me? Do you feel what I feel? Do you love me?” Ernest Becker
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Love being married and most of my friends that are are all content as well.
The company you keep and the choices you make....
This is probably true.
I'll stay with a woman now, but I won't get married again. No real purpose in it. If you live in a common law state, you may want to figure out how to get around it, but otherwise, if the chick is cool and you like being around her. Just keep doin that.
Marriage is pointless.
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It's funny how people never think they're a part of the reason why shit ended poorly.
Losing half your stuff is better than having 100% of the wrong person around.
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It's funny how people never think they're a part of the reason why shit ended poorly.
Losing half your stuff is better than having 100% of the wrong person around.
It depends on how materialistic you are and at what age.
I've been divorced for almost 10 years now.
It was the absolute best thing that happened to me in regards to the interpersonal relationships. It takes some time to get back to an even balance in regards to finances. After you pay out attorney fees and give up 1/2 your assets, well. Let's just say that you have to recover from that.
Once you have though, it's the best thing.
I'm not upset I got divorced at all.
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So why get married at all?... just bang her and send her home when you're done. No fuss, no muss.
People change. If married, there's a price to be paid when they change... divorce. It's just not worth it.
just like in the land of dindus. Make a whooole lotta babies too lol.
If I could only go back in time. I would've married the woman i dumped to marry my now x wife whom coincidentally I dumped for the same said woman...cause the sex was holy s**t smokin as all f**k...but had a crazy as a bedbug side i found out about after a few months with her. I should've just paid for damn therapy...
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From the misc, fucking brutal
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I was married twice, both ended pretty much the same way. the first one cleaned me out but i wised up come the second one.
Either way, it sucks.
felt like a prisoner every day. They will just about 100% of the time get depression which will include endless crying, yelling, freaking out and emotional roller coastering.
Come home for a nice relaxing evening after a hard days work? oh hell no. not unless relaxing is getting bitched out for something you have no control over and then a fit r crying. You try to console her and hel and get bitched out for it. just no winning.
You mention she should get some medical help and of course, **** hits the fan over that, how dare you.
I am not talking one day of this, i am talking real life, years of this, every day.
this is what married guys go through. not all but i would say the majority of them do. its horrible. to be honest, when you watch shows about guys in solitary confinement, you get jealous.
Finally get her to the doctor and he give her some meds. she is back to the normal person you married. that lasts a few months until she meets someone new and divorces you, of course, blaming the whole time because you didnt support her or some other nonsense.
Nowe of course, the divorce is not just a simple come home and you house is empty thing, oh hell no. its a slow torturous process where she can blame you for everything while accepting no responsibility for her actions.
they really should make divorce papers like some award type document with gold leaf and stuff so you could display it proudly. Its like escaping from a columbian prison, srs. you are still scared and cant believe you made it out with even the clothes on your back.
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It seems marriage just isn't your thing or you have incredibly bad luck in matrimony.
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I think the dudes who I work with on my ship that are married have this marriage thing down, these dudes have wifes at home who they see 3 months a year, work on the ship the other 9, banging new girls all the time onboard, call the wife everyday, send money home...they truly love their wife and kids, the sex they have onboard is just meaningless and fun, but that's it. When they return home the wife is just so happy to see them and be with them, they are never around for long enough periods for the real marriage bullshit to settle in...then back to work for another 9 months, seems to be the perfect recipe ;D
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Overall, there are a lot of woman haters in this thread.
Just for the record, my marriage to a wonderful woman was a joy for over 50 years. I miss her deeply.
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I think the dudes who I work with on my ship that are married have this marriage thing down, these dudes have wifes at home who they see 3 months a year, work on the ship the other 9, banging new girls all the time onboard, call the wife everyday, send money home...they truly love their wife and kids, the sex they have onboard is just meaningless and fun, but that's it. When they return home the wife is just so happy to see them and be with them, they are never around for long enough periods for the real marriage bullshit to settle in...then back to work for another 9 months, seems to be the perfect recipe ;D
that's perfect - except for not seeing the kids.
Overall, there are a lot of woman haters in this thread.
Just for the record, my marriage to a wonderful woman was a joy for over 50 years. I miss her deeply.
aw man, i'm so sorry to hear that. I think I remember chatting with you about the kidney thing while a family member of mine was battling kidney disease, I think you were engaged in that battle at the time for her. It's an amazing thing to have that kind of connection for 50 years.
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If you're happily married and all your friends are happily married, your friends don't trust you enough to tell you the truth of whats really going on in their house. Their not telling you about the side pieces they have or that they think the wife has...
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When you consider the 50% divorce rate and then consider the percentage of the 50% who stay together, for one reason or another, but aren't happy, it's hard not to conclude that most Marriages don't have a happy ending.
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Some of the most brilliant men who walked planet Earth couldn't understand women. Why? Because emotionally women as a whole are bi/polar mentally ill. And brilliant men understand that it's wasted energy with extremely low diminishing returns. Men who think they're in very healthy marriages simply are use to putting up with nonsense and in most cases just play the father figure to their childlike mate...It's an ego thing for these guys. The smarter women who want to stay married know how to stroke the ego of their husband and let him think he's the "man of the house" and everything is great. They slide into the role that the husband expects them to be in...
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If you're not going to have kids, there's really no reason at all to get married. Unless she is loaded.
Having kids is the main cause of stress and strife in most marriages.
I never had 'em and never had a horrible experience getting divorced.
My wife and often joke about the sorry state of affairs most married with children are in.
I've seen plenty of successful men that marry a woman and she becomes a mom and everything changes.
Plus, you need to marry someone with an equal career.
For example, my ex-wife was a board certified psychologist with a PhD and good career.
When we divorced , we each took our car, sold the townhouse , had separate credit cards and split.
No hard feelings, no debt owed either way.
So why get married ?
Love , companionship and partnership.
My (current) wife is a senior VP executive of her section at a major bank
I was a college physics teacher and just retired.
We are both previously divorced and neither of us had kids.
By combining our assets were have been able to obtain more then being single.
Plus, she's my best friend and we love sharing a simple, wholesome lifestyle.
It's a cold , lonely world and it's nice to spend my life with a loving partner at my side.
For my wife and I , our lifestyle with marriage as loving, equal partners, works.
BUT, for those younger guys I'd advise against any form of traditional marriage with children.
Stay single unless you meet a decent woman you're attracted to , who can also be your best friend.
AGAIN, don't have kids unless you really feel called to be a parent.
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If you're happily married and all your friends are happily married, your friends don't trust you enough to tell you the truth of whats really going on in their house. Their not telling you about the side pieces they have or that they think the wife has...
I agree and know plenty of couples that have zero passion for their spouse.
My wife and I always wonder why the fuk do they remain married.
One of her co-workers admitted his marriage sucked while drinking at an office Christmas party.
He went on to tell us, they haven't had sex in over 7 years and rarely talk.
I asked him why he stayed married and he said it was for his kids.
Wow, that's pathetic and while it's a drastic example, his loveless marriage with kids is common.
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Having kids is the main cause of stress and strife in most marriages.
I never had 'em and never had a horrible experience getting divorced.
My wife and often joke about the sorry state of affairs most married with children are in.
I've seen plenty of successful men that marry a woman and she becomes a mom and everything changes.
Plus, you need to marry someone with an equal career.
For example, my ex-wife was a board certified psychologist with a PhD and good career.
When we divorced , we each took our car, sold the townhouse , had separate credit cards and split.
No hard feelings, no debt owed either way.
So why get married ?
Love , companionship and partnership.
My (current) wife is a senior VP executive of her section at a major bank
I was a college physics teacher and just retired.
We are both previously divorced and neither of us had kids.
By combining our assets were have been able to obtain more then being single.
Plus, she's my best friend and we love sharing a simple, wholesome lifestyle.
It's a cold , lonely world and it's nice to spend my life with a loving partner at my side.
For my wife and I , our lifestyle with marriage as loving, equal partners, works.
BUT, for those younger guys I'd advise against any form of traditional marriage with children.
Stay single unless you meet a decent woman you're attracted to , who can also be your best friend.
AGAIN, don't have kids unless you really feel called to be a parent.
You can have love, companionship and partnership with a long term GF. Plenty of people do it. It sounds like you married someone with more money then you. So that's advantageous for you.
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aw man, i'm so sorry to hear that. I think I remember chatting with you about the kidney thing while a family member of mine was battling kidney disease, I think you were engaged in that battle at the time for her. It's an amazing thing to have that kind of connection for 50 years.
She put up a brave fight. She also decided when it was time to let go. She was a woman of great strength and conviction.
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She put up a brave fight. She also decided when it was time to let go. She was a woman of great strength and conviction.
I think remember seeing some post from you on this issue.
It goes without saying, I am very sorry for your loss and hope you find some peace .
Take care and God Bless my friend.
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You can have love, companionship and partnership with a long term GF. Plenty of people do it. It sounds like you married someone with more money then you. So that's advantageous for you.
Many folks see no need for marriage so they live together, have kids together and love each other for a lifetime. From a legal and financial standpoint this choice can be complicated.
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Having kids is the main cause of stress and strife in most marriages.
I never had 'em and never had a horrible experience getting divorced.
My wife and often joke about the sorry state of affairs most married with children are in.
I've seen plenty of successful men that marry a woman and she becomes a mom and everything changes.
Plus, you need to marry someone with an equal career.
For example, my ex-wife was a board certified psychologist with a PhD and good career.
When we divorced , we each took our car, sold the townhouse , had separate credit cards and split.
No hard feelings, no debt owed either way.
So why get married ?
Love , companionship and partnership.
My (current) wife is a senior VP executive of her section at a major bank
I was a college physics teacher and just retired.
We are both previously divorced and neither of us had kids.
By combining our assets were have been able to obtain more then being single.
Plus, she's my best friend and we love sharing a simple, wholesome lifestyle.
It's a cold , lonely world and it's nice to spend my life with a loving partner at my side.
For my wife and I , our lifestyle with marriage as loving, equal partners, works.
BUT, for those younger guys I'd advise against any form of traditional marriage with children.
Stay single unless you meet a decent woman you're attracted to , who can also be your best friend.
AGAIN, don't have kids unless you really feel called to be a parent.
No, youre wrong. The main strife in marriage and the number one reason for divorce is money issues.
However, having kids may create the money issue.
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You can have love, companionship and partnership with a long term GF. Plenty of people do it. It sounds like you married someone with more money then you. So that's advantageous for you.
True, it's possible to have love and companionship with a long term gf.
BUT, for my wife and I , being married works better and it's what we both wanted.
I don't think anyone needs to follow our example, if they are happy UNmarried.
What bugs me, is how so many automatically think that marriage must equal kids and traditional crap. Why!? ???
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I think remember seeing some post from you on this issue.
It goes without saying, I am very sorry for your loss and hope you find some peace .
Take care and God Bless my friend.
Thank you.
I has been a little over a year since she passed. Our family and I are still adjusting to her not being physically here with us. She is with us in spirit though.
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No, youre wrong. The main strife in marriage and the number one reason for divorce is money issues.
However, having kids may create the money issue.
My wife and I were on our honeymoon a few yrs back and having a great time.
I smiled at her and said;
" You know, we're spending some our kids college fund on this trip don't you?"
She gave me a puzzled look so I quickly said ;
" Oh wait a minute, we don't have any kids and we've already been to college. Party on ! "
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True, it's possible to have love and companionship with a long term gf.
BUT, for my wife and I , being married works better and it's what we both wanted.
I don't think anyone needs to follow our example, if they are happy UNmarried.
What bugs me, is how so many automatically think that marriage must equal kids and traditional crap. Why!? ???
I respect your choice with regards to not having kids. Hopefully children aren't part of the "traditional crap" you speak of. I agree that having children should not be a given. As you mention, kids can bring stress to a marriage....but they also can bring joy.
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My wife and I were on our honeymoon a few yrs back and having a great time.
I smiled at her and said;
" You know, we're spending some our kids college fund on this trip don't you?"
She gave me a puzzled look so I quickly said ;
" Oh wait a minute, we don't have any kids and we've already been to college. Party on ! "
As I said, kids may create the money issue, but the number one reason people give for divorce is money issues, not kid issues.
But its really all nonlinear and connected. Most people don't get a divorced directly because of their children. They may get a divorce for reasons attached to having kids, such as money issues. Again, its nonlinear.
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True, it's possible to have love and companionship with a long term gf.
BUT, for my wife and I , being married works better and it's what we both wanted.
I don't think anyone needs to follow our example, if they are happy UNmarried.
What bugs me, is how so many automatically think that marriage must equal kids and traditional crap. Why!? ???
I don't think marriage has to equal kids, but I personally would probably not get married if I wasn't planning on having kids. I certainly wouldn't do it over and over again, but to each his own. Everyone has their own plan.
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I'll never marry but not for the reasons typically talked about on getbig but simply because what is the fucking point? It dosent add anything at all to your relationship except making it harder to seperate if it all goes tits up. It's a piece of paper and a bitch taking your name? I fail to see the benefit
You can read my previous posts to see my view of enjoying marriage but no kids.
Guess what? Don't get married ! Unless you want a woman to be your partner and best friend in life, it's a mistake.
The traditional ideas of marriage suck. The idea that the man must be the one to make most of the $$ is silly.
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i sometimes miss baby mama but in the end my life has never been better since she left
more freedom, more free time, more money, more peace of mind
feels good man
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I don't think marriage has to equal kids, but I personally would probably not get married if I wasn't planning on having kids. I certainly wouldn't do it over and over again, but to each his own. Everyone has their own plan.
I was only married 2x before this one and had good reasons for getting divorced both times.
Cliff notes :
First wife started to REALLY want kids 2-3 years AFTER we got married. I never did, so we got divorced.
The 2nd wife started screwing around and wanted a variety of men to have sex with.
She was willing to have me do the same and I wasn't interested in doing that.
I actually prefer being monogamous and she didn't. No hard feelings , since we were open and honest.
But we had to get divorced .
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I respect your choice with regards to not having kids. Hopefully children aren't part of the "traditional crap" you speak of. I agree that having children should not be a given. As you mention, kids can bring stress to a marriage....but they also can bring joy.
Thanks. If one is called to have children it will be a "labor of love".
My wife and I were not called but accept others were.
"Traditional crap" is the stuff some couples "just do" because it's always been done in married life LOL.
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i sometimes miss baby mama but in the end my life has never been better since she left
more freedom, more free time, more money, more peace of mind
feels good man
I don't want you to take this personal , but the terms " baby mama and baby daddy" make me cringe.
I understand why you used 'em and what they mean, etc.
They just make me cringe like nails on a chalkboard, sorry.
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I don't want you to take this personal , but the terms " baby mama and baby daddy" make me cringe.
I understand why you used 'em and what they mean, etc.
They just make me cringe like nails on a chalkboard, sorry.
every single post you make, makes me cringe
sorry ???
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Maybe look at the ones who are in happy marriages or good wives and see what they have in common.
I suspect this is a defect in the person choosing as much as in the woman. Why are you choosing someone who will get fat and depressed? Maybe pick a chick who likes to take care of herself. And take a look at her mom first whydontcha.
Yes, you can cherry pick and find some good marriages and good women, but the stats speak for themselves. The divorce rate is closer to 60% than 50%. I am not willing to risk my life savings for steady pussy.
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As I said, kids may create the money issue, but the number one reason people give for divorce is money issues, not kid issues.
But its really all nonlinear and connected. Most people don't get a divorced directly because of their children. They may get a divorce for reasons attached to having kids, such as money issues. Again, its nonlinear.
Excellent point!
My pet peeve is how so many declare and believe that having kids is "inevitable" with sex and /or marriage.
If a couple wants kids and does so, that's great. Obviously, many couples love being parents.
The "all or none" thinking , marriage = having children, is what bugs me.
Ya know it always bugged me that so many meathedz assume you have to take drugs to make any muscle gains.
Live on your own terms and do things you're own way, is my motto.
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every single post you make, makes me cringe
sorry ???
Well played Sir...well played ;)
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Most guys marry the woman because they like fucking her and can tolerate her being around, once she gets ugly and/or the sex dries up, and there is no compatibility or personality underneath then it's just a matter of time.
You are a rather simple minded person (think animal like even) if you believe this to be true the majority of the time.
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Yes, you can cherry pick and find some good marriages and good women, but the stats speak for themselves. The divorce rate is closer to 60% than 50%. I am not willing to risk my life savings for steady pussy.
Why does marriage and divorce have to = losing your life savings?
It doesn't have to be that way or result in children!
Good gravy man, marry a woman with a decent career.
If it ends, you split on fair, equal terms. Been there, done that.
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You are a rather simple minded person (think animal like even) if you believe this to be true the majority of the time.
I agree. I know this sounds sappy, but my (current) wife and I plan on growing old together.
We are getting older and won't looks exactly the same . Ok, that's life and she my soul mate.
Sounds UN-getbig-like, but, the spark I see in her eyes when she looks at me never has to fade with age and vice versa.
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You are a rather simple minded person (think animal like even) if you believe this to be true the majority of the time.
Like someone said, 50% divorce rate, part of other 50% unhappy.I didn't say it's all about sex, I said if there is nothing under the sex, companionship, compatibility, respect etc, those relationships that were formed solely on sexual attraction are doomed.Why do you think it's so common that rich men trade in their older wife's for new ones?
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I think the dudes who I work with on my ship that are married have this marriage thing down, these dudes have wifes at home who they see 3 months a year, work on the ship the other 9, banging new girls all the time onboard, call the wife everyday, send money home...they truly love their wife and kids, the sex they have onboard is just meaningless and fun, but that's it. When they return home the wife is just so happy to see them and be with them, they are never around for long enough periods for the real marriage bullshit to settle in...then back to work for another 9 months, seems to be the perfect recipe ;D
As long as you don't mind missing a majority of your kids' growing up and your wife getting her pussy smashed raw by a legion of pulsating cocks.
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This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.
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As long as you don't mind missing a majority of your kids' growing up and your wife getting her pussy smashed raw by a legion of pulsating cocks.
Exactly. Go 4 it is truly deluded if he thinks that many of these women are not having fun while their husbands are away 9 months out of the year.
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This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.
Is this a better way?
Rate of African American Unwed Mothers Soars to 72 Percent.
http://www.blacknews.com/news/black_unwed_mothers101.shtml#.V4wN9lf0eRs
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Is this a better way?
Rate of African American Unwed Mothers Soars to 72 Percent.
http://www.blacknews.com/news/black_unwed_mothers101.shtml#.V4wN9lf0eRs
It's horrible and creates a constant supply of victims to help.
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Thanks. If one is called to have children it will be a "labor of love".
My wife and I were not called but accept others were.
"Traditional crap" is the stuff some couples "just do" because it's always been done in married life LOL.
I'm not a traditionalist....more of a rebel. LOL!
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Exactly. Go 4 it is truly deluded if he thinks that many of these women are not having fun while their husbands are away 9 months out of the year.
Haha..Im just saying these guys are a lot more happy then all the other married dudes I know (non ship workers)
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Yes, you can cherry pick and find some good marriages and good women, but the stats speak for themselves. The divorce rate is closer to 60% than 50%. I am not willing to risk my life savings for steady pussy.
Do you have any thoughts about why divorce is so high? It seems to have been on an upward spiral since WWII. Do you think women being able to earn as much as men and thus able to support themselves is a contributor to the high divorce rate?
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legion of pulsating cocks.
Now it's a party. :D
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This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.
Fear not as Trump had about 10 kids with 3 different supermodel white babes.
He's picking up the slack for us white dude staying childless by choice. ;D
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This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.
I apologize for stereotyping but don't many African America women have children sans marriage? CNN's Don Lemon says more than 72 percent of African-American births are out of wedlock. This being said, according to the National Vital Statistics Report, birth rates in the U.S. are declining across the board - with little difference based on race or ethnicity.
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Do you have any thoughts about why divorce is so high? Do you think women being able to earn as much as men, and thus able to support themselves, is a contributor to the high divorce rate?
Absolutely. Females don't have the same capacity for loyalty, generally, that males do. As such, if fundamentals of survival can be obtained/achieved without the requirement of a man, her likelihood to remain with a single male diminishes, greatly.
If a woman has a good job and lives in a modern society, a male companion's worth is only in being just that, a companion. When/if the dude no longer satisfies her constantly-changing/-evolving emotional and physical needs, her enticement to "work it out" dwindles to ... shared memories?
For a broad, this is usually not near enough.
Joe Swingdick in her department at work now fits the required bill.
Your ass is out the door.
Sad but true.
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Granted, some couples were meant to be married and have happy, meaningful lives as parents.
What chaps my ass is how so many act like married with children is the ultimate existence for a happy life.
For example, I've known plenty of guys who were quite happy living a single life.
They develop feelings for some girl and think about "settling down*" with her.
That* means marriage, 2.2 children, 3 Br House w/mortgage and mini van in the driveway.
Why is it so all or none when it comes to married lifestyle vs single lifestyle?
Seriously, I never understood the desire for the 2 extreme lifestyles.
Why is being single associated with a partying, carefree lifestyle , living on the edge.
While married must equals a mind numbing existence raising kids riding around in a mini van?
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Absolutely. Females don't have the same capacity for loyalty, generally, that males do. As such, if fundamentals of survival can be obtained/achieved without the requirement of a man, her likelihood to remain with a single male diminishes, greatly.
If a woman has a good job and lives in a modern society, a male companion's worth is only in being just that, a companion. When/if the dude no longer satisfies her constantly-changing/-evolving emotional and physical needs, her enticement to "work it out" dwindles to ... shared memories?
For a broad, this is usually not near enough.
Joe Swingdick in her department at work now fits the required bill.
Your ass is out the door.
Sad but true.
There is a lot of truth in what you say. My mom maintained that men 'fell' harder and were less likely to recover from a separation quickly than women were. For reasons I shouldn't go into, I believe she knew what she was talking about.
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Granted, some couples were meant to be married and have happy, meaningful lives as parents.
What chaps my ass is how so many act like married with children is the ultimate existence for a happy life.
For example, I've known plenty of guys who were quite happy living a single life.
They develop feelings for some girl and think about "settling down*" with her.
That* means marriage, 2.2 children, 3 Br House w/mortgage and mini van in the driveway.
Why is it so all or none when it comes to married lifestyle vs single lifestyle?
Seriously, I never understood the desire for the 2 extreme lifestyles.
Why is being single associated with a partying, carefree lifestyle , living on the edge.
While married must equals a mind numbing existence raising kids riding around in a mini van?
Marriage doesn't need to be all or none. A lot of unfortunate folks fall into the trap of believing this, which is why they often end up being unhappy and/or divorced. My wife and I definitely had an unconventional marriage compared to many during those times. I believe accepting each other, warts and all, was key to the success of our relationship.
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Married 10 years and have two kids... couldn't be happier in my life right now.
It's all about the mate you choose... yes if you choose someone who is an absolute fuck up you can't expect to have it end on a positive note. Choose a woman who brings just as much to the table as you do, and I'm not talking financially. I'm talking everything.... emotionally, intelligence, care, fun.
Yeah it's not always a cake walk, yes there are ups and downs, yes many times you'll want to kill each other, but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
It's not for everyone, I've said that a million times, and if you want to stay single then good for you, enjoy it... nobody is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to get married.
I proposed to my wife the very next day after I graduated college and I never looked back. She has been by my side countless times.... moved across the world for me to a county she didn't want to live in because I wanted to pursue my career. Then when I spent three and a half years doing my PhD, she was the primary bread winner in the house... but that never once changed the dynamics of things... overall financial management was still handled by me as it always has been, then when I finished she gave up her successful career because she wanted me to follow my dreams and again she moved with me to Silicon Valley because we had a good opportunity out here. When I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer she researched the shit out of it... and found me the best doctor in the country , and when we met with him and he was telling me about my surgery , I had only one question, she had like 25 and wanted to know every single detail because the man she loves was going through something tough, (my question was, how soon after the surgery can I lift?)
I haven't even talked about her family which treat me as their son and have truly been incredible to me.
I know on getbig it's not cool to talk about how much you love marriage... but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
I often tell my wife jokingly, that if I didn't have her and the kids, i would be rolling around in a brand new Corvette. But honestly, I'll take my kids sitting on my lap and telling me they love me while they poop their diapers and their pee seeping through onto my clothes any day over the Corvette... which I'm certain I will still get one day ;)
Whatever your choices are... I hope they make you happy!
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Getting married was the best decision that i've made in my life.
And deliberately waiting until i'd maxed out my prime single years was another great decision.
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I'll take my kids sitting on my lap and telling me they love me while they poop their diapers and their pee seeping through onto my clothes
Whatever your choices are... I hope they make you happy!
I've never understood why people with a revolting appearance desire to produce offspring…. It's like giving your kid a mental 'kick in the balls' every day of its miserable, tormented existence.
Gee….. thanks, dad.
Is your wife super hot, or something?
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I think the dudes who I work with on my ship that are married have this marriage thing down, these dudes have wifes at home who they see 3 months a year, work on the ship the other 9, banging new girls all the time onboard, call the wife everyday, send money home...they truly love their wife and kids, the sex they have onboard is just meaningless and fun, but that's it. When they return home the wife is just so happy to see them and be with them, they are never around for long enough periods for the real marriage bullshit to settle in...then back to work for another 9 months, seems to be the perfect recipe ;D
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Reading between the lines, the anti marriage posters chose cheap sluts to marry and wonder why it didn't work out ???
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Has anyone else noticed the majority of guys who hate on marriage/relationships are ugly, deadbeats who struggle to talk to women, let alone date.
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Do you have any thoughts about why divorce is so high? It seems to have been on an upward spiral since WWII. Do you think women being able to earn as much as men and thus able to support themselves is a contributor to the high divorce rate?
Woman's lib?... the collapse of morals and values?... feminization of men?... social media? Whatever the reasons are, it's not important to me. All I know is that I need not take part in it.
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My wife and I were on our honeymoon a few yrs back and having a great time.
I smiled at her and said;
" You know, we're spending some our kids college fund on this trip don't you?"
She gave me a puzzled look so I quickly said ;
" Oh wait a minute, we don't have any kids and we've already been to college. Party on ! "
You should become a Dad.
You already have the Dad jokes down pat.
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You should become a Dad.
You already have the Dad jokes down pat.
...and the dad bod ;)
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Married 10 years and have two kids... couldn't be happier in my life right now.
It's all about the mate you choose... yes if you choose someone who is an absolute fuck up you can't expect to have it end on a positive note. Choose a woman who brings just as much to the table as you do, and I'm not talking financially. I'm talking everything.... emotionally, intelligence, care, fun.
Yeah it's not always a cake walk, yes there are ups and downs, yes many times you'll want to kill each other, but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
It's not for everyone, I've said that a million times, and if you want to stay single then good for you, enjoy it... nobody is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to get married.
I proposed to my wife the very next day after I graduated college and I never looked back. She has been by my side countless times.... moved across the world for me to a county she didn't want to live in because I wanted to pursue my career. Then when I spent three and a half years doing my PhD, she was the primary bread winner in the house... but that never once changed the dynamics of things... overall financial management was still handled by me as it always has been, then when I finished she gave up her successful career because she wanted me to follow my dreams and again she moved with me to Silicon Valley because we had a good opportunity out here. When I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer she researched the shit out of it... and found me the best doctor in the country , and when we met with him and he was telling me about my surgery , I had only one question, she had like 25 and wanted to know every single detail because the man she loves was going through something tough, (my question was, how soon after the surgery can I lift?)
I haven't even talked about her family which treat me as their son and have truly been incredible to me.
I know on getbig it's not cool to talk about how much you love marriage... but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
I often tell my wife jokingly, that if I didn't have her and the kids, i would be rolling around in a brand new Corvette. But honestly, I'll take my kids sitting on my lap and telling me they love me while they poop their diapers and their pee seeping through onto my clothes any day over the Corvette... which I'm certain I will still get one day ;)
Whatever your choices are... I hope they make you happy!
Sounds like you're a great example of someone living a happy married life with children.
It's obvious, that you're a mature, functional man that married a wonderful woman.
I have no negative comments to make about your lifestyle.
My one main issue is that too many folks tirelessly promote the following myths:
1. To be truly happy and have a meaningful life, one must get married and have children.
* Obviously, those like you and your wife are happy with this. But I don't think it's an absolute requirement for a happy life.
2. The main reason to be married is to raise children.
* My wife and I think the exact opposite and are quite happy and functional.
3. Every man and woman should get married. It's just a matter of finding the right one.
* I love being married and prefer being in a monogamous relationship.
BUT, I know plenty of men and woman that were meant to be single.
The dumbest thing a lot of people do is ; " just do what everyone else does" .
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Has anyone else noticed the majority of guys who hate on marriage/relationships are ugly, deadbeats who struggle to talk to women, let alone date.
Feminist Talking Point. And a lot of men who hate on marriage are themselves married to women and don't want to be anymore.
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Feminist Talking Point. And a lot of men who hate on marriage are themselves married to women and don't want to be anymore.
Bingo! There are plenty of delusional crazy women AND douchebag men. Neither gender has a monopoly on dysfunctional people .
One new myth (mostly) females now promote is the smart choice of dating single moms.
Sweet Sassy Molassy, the girl gets knocked up by some goober. Now she's lugging around some snot nosed bastard kid. She failed to use birth control effectively and we're supposed to think she's a good catch? WTF.
If she had any sense, she'd have hooked up with BMC and gone raw anal . Just sayin'.
That's like some getbigger living in his mom's basement being promoted as a "life success coach".
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I've never understood why people with a revolting appearance desire to produce offspring…. It's like giving your kid a mental 'kick in the balls' every day of its miserable, tormented existence.
Gee….. thanks, dad.
Is your wife super hot, or something?
Very attractive offspring can have homely parents and the other way around. Genetics is funny that way.
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Very attractive offspring can have homely parents and the other way around. Genetics is funny that way.
THAT, or the milkman came early?! :D
I've seen fairly reliable data suggesting that a woman "secretly" having another dude's kid is more common then most know. Ya know that hardly anyone knew that Arnold was the biological father of his maid's kid.
Then the truth came out in the media.
Plus, we know the DNA proof that Thomas Jefferson was having kids with slave Sally Hemmings.
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Getting married was the best decision that i've made in my life.
And deliberately waiting until i'd maxed out my prime single years was another great decision.
Care to elaborate with some more details?
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This is probably true.
I'll stay with a woman now, but I won't get married again. No real purpose in it. If you live in a common law state, you may want to figure out how to get around it, but otherwise, if the chick is cool and you like being around her. Just keep doin that.
Marriage is pointless.
Obviously, you sincerely believe this, and I see nothing wrong with it.
The main issue that bugs me, is when someone declares as absolute for everyone to strive for.
I don't think ANYONE should get married, just because "it's what you do "
On old gym bud loved being single and playing in his band that got a few actual bar gigs.
He enjoyed watching college football , worked out and had a pussy pullin' look.
For whatever reason after age 30, he started feeling guilty about staying single.
He was reluctant to move towards a typical married life with kids, but kept feeling "guilty".
Eventually he married a pretty, smart woman who also had a solid career.
They bought a home near his job and close to family.
She had fertility problems, and endured a lot of infertility procedures to have their own child.
I ran into him recently and we enjoyed catching up. He looked like he had aged a lot and confessed he was stressed from many sleepless nights, raising a new baby. He showed me baby pics on his phone and I pretended to be interested. He was enjoying some aspects of his married with kid lifestyle, but didn't seem at peace.
It was a casual meet/greet deal , so I didn't want to fuk with him or be critical .
BUT, he had this attitude and air about him, that "settling down" was just something every guy had to do.
I suspect he missed his old , single lifestyle BUT allowed himself to yield to some self imposed requirement.
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THAT, or the milkman came early?! :D
I've seen fairly reliable data suggesting that a woman "secretly" having another dude's kid is more common then most know. Ya know that hardly anyone knew that Arnold was the biological father of his maid's kid.
Then the truth came out in the media.
Plus, we know the DNA proof that Thomas Jefferson was having kids with slave Sally Hemmings.
You seem to lean to the dark side (pun intended). Seriously, genetics are not that simple. I'm a somewhat homely result of two very attractive people. The likelihood that my mom got it on with a unattractive dude is next to impossible because she was picky that way. On the other hand, her longtime lover was much more handsome than my father and I have his coloring...blond, green eyed, etc. So you see, anything is possible. Oh, and by the way, my mother, like her father, were biggots. There is no chance in hell I got Coleman like genetics...darn, LOL.
Although I've not yet submitted to genetic testing, I am fairly confident the father who I am named after is my biological father. If I submit to the test and it turns out he was not my father, than he was the end of the paternal line and the excuse I used for not participating in the Vietnam War was bogus.