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Title: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Method101 on July 26, 2016, 04:53:24 PM
I struggle with this lately, after living with someone for 3 years previously unless I'm in a legit relationship with good long term prospects I have this nagging feeling that I have to find someone or I feel shitty. When I first started posting on getbig I honestly didn't give a shit anywhere as near as much as I do now. Even if I'm seeing a woman 2-3 times a week when she's not with me I feel down. My mind was fucked up by getting used to going to bed with the same chick every night and waking up next to her every morning. That gave me a sense of peace and happiness I just can't attain alone.

Epic Beta post by getbig standards but I don't give a shit I'm just being honest. Anyone else had a long-term serious relationship in the past then got this feeling with less serious relationships/"dating phases"?
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: calfzilla on July 26, 2016, 04:55:33 PM
Get estrogen levels checked. Most of us on getbig despise women.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Nails on July 26, 2016, 04:57:08 PM
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Method101 on July 26, 2016, 04:57:22 PM
Get estrogen levels checked. Most of us on getbig despise women.
I despise most women/people in general but I miss that feeling of companionship with a woman I loved and lived with every day. Now just fucking a chick and having a day out 2-3 times a week doesn't replace it. In the past that would have been enough for me.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Wiggs on July 26, 2016, 04:58:29 PM
It's all good and there's nothing beta about it.

Some people can be happy alone but I think only after they've experienced severe heartbreak or trauma. We aren't meant to be alone. Woman is here for us. Perhaps it's not the woman so much as it is how you live your life with that woman. Meaning western civilization isn't a great example of how life should be lived. You're entire paradigm would have to change and there would be growing pains but in the long run you'd be much better off.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on July 26, 2016, 04:59:11 PM
I'm at my happiest when there's no one around.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 26, 2016, 05:00:54 PM
I do not believe in marriage or having kids.  

I love it.  I get to do what I want, when I want, how I want... without having to check with anyone.  That is true freedom and happiness.

Being lonely is just a state of mind mainly caused by boredom.  Go and visit with friends or family members... get a hobby... go workout... read a book... start a business... etc.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Wiggs on July 26, 2016, 05:03:24 PM
All this alone stuff is why you white people are dying off.  You're not reproducing and you're killing yourselves off via suicide and drugs at an insane rate.  Consider this as well if you care about your people. 
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Royalty on July 26, 2016, 05:04:48 PM
If you don't feel lonely; stay single

If you feel lonely; get a planet fitness membership. You will meet somebody by day 2.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 26, 2016, 05:05:54 PM
All this alone stuff is why you white people are dying off.  You're not reproducing and you're killing yourselves off via suicide and drugs at an insane rate.  Consider this as well if you care about your people. 

One white = about 2000 ghetto blacks

I bet they die faster/younger too

Quality does not equal quantity. Hope this helps.

Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 26, 2016, 05:06:10 PM
All this alone stuff is why you white people are dying off.  You're not reproducing and you're killing yourselves off via suicide and drugs at an insane rate.  Consider this as well if you care about your people.  

But it's also the reason I'm financially stable and you (and 90% of your people) are poor.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Method101 on July 26, 2016, 05:06:40 PM
It's all good and there's nothing beta about it.

Some people can be happy alone but I think only after they've experienced severe heartbreak or trauma. We aren't meant to be alone. Woman is here for us. Perhaps it's not the woman so much as it is how you live your life with that woman. Meaning western civilization isn't a great example of how life should be lived. You're entire paradigm would have to change and there would be growing pains but in the long run you'd be much better off.
I went through severe heartbreak and trauma when I split from that 3 year relationship and personally after that I just missed it more and wanted it more than before when I had never been in something that serious.

I hate modern western civilisation and how having a serious committed relationship is seen as a burden to many. I've tried the 2-3 times a week thing and it just doesn't suffice anymore, the women I've been with are super happy and content to meet up and fuck 2 days a week and have a day/night out but any talks of developing into something more serious/moving in and they get evasive. I feel like the woman who wanted to have kids with me eventually and lived with me was like a fucking exception to the rule which is so rare these days. Either that or I'm good at sex and my personality is just fucking awful lol. I'm working class and not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination so I'm sure that contributes.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Wiggs on July 26, 2016, 05:09:12 PM
One white = about 2000 ghetto blacks

I bet they die faster/younger too

Quality does not equal quantity. Hope this helps.



It didn't help. You going into your feelings like a woman tells me alot about you.

I stated facts to try to help the fella out and you took it to another level as if I was attacking whites.  Clearly I wasn't.  If you'd like to debate race, perhaps you can make thread about it but this isn't the thread to do it. 
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: calfzilla on July 26, 2016, 05:12:30 PM
It's all good and there's nothing beta about it.

Some people can be happy alone but I think only after they've experienced severe heartbreak or trauma. We aren't meant to be alone. Woman is here for us. Perhaps it's not the woman so much as it is how you live your life with that woman. Meaning western civilization isn't a great example of how life should be lived. You're entire paradigm would have to change and there would be growing pains but in the long run you'd be much better off.

Good post wiggs I agree. I will add on thing that it's extremely important to find a good traditional woman. One that cares for you and in return you care for her. However if I never find that woman, then I'm happy with being single and having complete freedom like mr anabolic said.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 26, 2016, 05:14:16 PM
It didn't help. You going into your feelings like a woman tells me alot about you.

I stated facts to try to help the fella out and you took it to another level as if I was attacking whites.  Clearly I wasn't.  If you'd like to debate race, perhaps you can make thread about it but this isn't the thread to do it. 

Not at all. I actually quite like ethnic people.

Just stating a fact really. Right now there's 100s of blacks being killed in America today and millions dying all over the world. I actually encourage your birth rates before you disappear completely.

If it makes you feel better about yourself

One educated black = 100 white trailer scum.

I just get a feeling that there's more ghetto trash blacks preportional to white trash.

It evens out in the end.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Wiggs on July 26, 2016, 05:14:26 PM
But it's also the reason I'm financially stable and you (and 90% of your people) are poor.

I think if you take a look around majority of the people in this country are not doing well. In sheer numbers there are more whites on food stamps than blacks. Money does not equate to happiness. There are plenty of examples of this. Yes, a majority of my people may be poor in money but many of us are rich in spirit.  Something I wouldn't expect you to understand Mr. Big Bucks.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 26, 2016, 05:18:03 PM
That's true Wiggs but then again if white people do die off then who cares? twas our own doing and us losing our relevance in the world will therefore be just. Anyways, food for thought, didn't the apostle Paul wish more people were single like him?

The Blacks will be happy. Rest of ethnic people won't care as they're not obsessed with Whites.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Wiggs on July 26, 2016, 05:21:49 PM
I went through severe heartbreak and trauma when I split from that 3 year relationship and personally after that I just missed it more and wanted it more than before when I had never been in something that serious.

I hate modern western civilisation and how having a serious committed relationship is seen as a burden to many. I've tried the 2-3 times a week thing and it just doesn't suffice anymore, the women I've been with are super happy and content to meet up and fuck 2 days a week and have a day/night out but any talks of developing into something more serious/moving in and they get evasive. I feel like the woman who wanted to have kids with me eventually and lived with me was like a fucking exception to the rule which is so rare these days. Either that or I'm good at sex and my personality is just fucking awful lol. I'm working class and not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination so I'm sure that contributes.

Your post tells me I was right and I hear you.  I'm a traditional man myself and will not settle for a woman that wants to try to impose modern relationship standards in our relationship. I do it the way my parents and grandparents did because it works. You need to find a woman with your ideology or you will never be happy. They're out there you just need to look in different places.  Good, long lasting relationships need to have a solid base and for me it starts with God and Christ. I try to follow God's Laws, statutes and Commandments and I expect my women to as well. If she has no interest, then she's not my woman no matter how good looking, how big any of her bodyparts are or how well she's shaped. It will ultimately end badly because she's following after the desires of her wicked, corrupted heart.

You have to have a solid base my friend and you have to live and breath it and she will follow you.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Wiggs on July 26, 2016, 05:23:39 PM
Good post wiggs I agree. I will add on thing that it's extremely important to find a good traditional woman. One that cares for you and in return you care for her. However if I never find that woman, then I'm happy with being single and having complete freedom like mr anabolic said.

Yes Sir. I agree 100% Better of alone than with a trainwreck.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 26, 2016, 05:33:29 PM
Your post tells me I was right and I hear you.  I'm a traditional man myself and will not settle for a woman that wants to try to impose modern relationship standards in our relationship. I do it the way my parents and grandparents did because it works. You need to find a woman with your ideology or you will never be happy. They're out there you just need to look in different places.  Good, long lasting relationships need to have a solid base and for me it starts with God and Christ. I try to follow God's Laws, statutes and Commandments and I expect my women to as well. If she has no interest, then she's not my woman no matter how good looking, how big any of her bodyparts are or how well she's shaped. It will ultimately end badly because she's following after the desires of her wicked, corrupted heart.

You have to have a solid base my friend and you have to live and breath it and she will follow you.

Where will you find a woman that passionately believe the planet sits on four pillars, the moon is made of cheese, Blacks should be reclassified as Jews and sent back to Israel to live in poverty there instead of living in poverty everywhere else?

What happened to that fat chick you were seeing? The one that enjoyed dancing and posting selfies?
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 26, 2016, 05:43:42 PM
In all seriousness now.

Wiggs, I apologise if I came across as a dickhead. It's only goodnatured ribbing. You made a good post

Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: BodyMachine on July 26, 2016, 07:02:54 PM
I struggle with this lately, after living with someone for 3 years previously unless I'm in a legit relationship with good long term prospects I have this nagging feeling that I have to find someone or I feel shitty. When I first started posting on getbig I honestly didn't give a shit anywhere as near as much as I do now. Even if I'm seeing a woman 2-3 times a week when she's not with me I feel down. My mind was fucked up by getting used to going to bed with the same chick every night and waking up next to her every morning. That gave me a sense of peace and happiness I just can't attain alone.

Epic Beta post by getbig standards but I don't give a shit I'm just being honest. Anyone else had a long-term serious relationship in the past then got this feeling with less serious relationships/"dating phases"?

yes, it sucks, been there. you get over it with time. focus on your hobbies, make friends if you can, hang with family. You have to realize if you are feeling this way the other person isn't so if you are hung up on her, don't be, she isn't worth it otherwise she would value you enough to be with you, period. It's sad to say bitches these days are just that, bitches, they don't value anything; too much freedom, fucking around, frivolity with her friends
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: WOOO on July 26, 2016, 07:10:50 PM
i've been with the same woman for 11 years (6 married)... we have 2 kids together... i cannot imagine what my life would be without my wife/kids.

I'm happiest when we're together. I think about them when we're apart.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Method101 on July 27, 2016, 02:38:15 AM
i've been with the same woman for 11 years (6 married)... we have 2 kids together... i cannot imagine what my life would be without my wife/kids.

I'm happiest when we're together. I think about them when we're apart.
Never take it for granted, do something random and unexpected today like buy her flowers and take her out somewhere nice.
 8) ;D
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Post by: chokeslam on July 27, 2016, 02:50:46 AM
Can't imagine one woman for the rest of my life. Married and divorced and it was glorious to be alone.

When you're confident and know yourself inside and out, you don't need another to "complete" you. No dependence. Most relationships die because of co-dependence. You don't, or SHOULDN'T, need anyone else, especially a woman. They are stupid. Date for a bit and find a new woman once the spark wears off.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: rocket on July 27, 2016, 02:57:38 AM
Ok, well I have never had any proper long term relationship and believe it is quite possible I may be solitary for the rest of my life - and it doesn't overly bother me - so I'll weigh in here.  First of all, to be clear, I find myself to be quite unattractive and as a result, I can barely stand to be around others.  Everybody has their strengths and that is my weakness and really, it has made me quite the interesting person to know - far more than I reveal here. 

And no, I'm not depressed - I'm wayyy too busy doing shit to worry about that stuff.  You adjust or you die and I am fully adjusted to that adversity.

You can be legitimately happy, but it mostly comes down to what type of person you are and you might require adversity to FULLY come to that point.   I know I did.  I mean, I was always the solitary type (and not someone who easily trusts), but a fucking gigantic owning at the hands of my former best friend really pushed me to eventually let go of all pangs of wanting to be with someone.  That stuff happened I think four years ago and around a year ago, the pangs were completely gone and whilst I met a bunch, no women ever excited me during that time and I've done absolutely nothing to meet any girl in over a year because I'm tired of meeting people who don't come close to me in terms of personality.

But women have never been first priority in my life - I've always been more interested in doing stuff - ie, art, sport etc.   I absolutely fucking despise going anywhere and having to think about my dick.  I'd rather do almost anything than go to a bar to meet women.  It's just not fun, to me.  I'd rather get behind a mic and sing something (not particularly well), paint something (not particularly well) etc.

Whenever I think about what I want to do in life, I am never ever thinking about being with a good woman.  I don't really spend a lot of time just "enjoying life" and when you're with a woman, that's a lot of what you do with them which is hardly bad, but you don't move forwards anything like what you do when you're on your own.

Women, for me - are a quick, post gym jerkoff in the shower and then forgotten for the night.   I'm spending tonight doing exactly what I want to do and if there was a woman, here right now, it'd just be the couch, watching TV and then bang and then bed.

So the TLDR of that is, if you're the type of person who is "ugly hobbies guy".  Absolutely you can get along without women.  ;D
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 27, 2016, 03:51:01 AM
i've been with the same woman for 11 years (6 married)... we have 2 kids together... i cannot imagine what my life would be without my wife/kids.

I'm happiest when we're together. I think about them when we're apart.

Good for you.  There are good women/marriages, but it's very rare these days (mainly due to social media). 
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Method101 on July 27, 2016, 05:44:42 AM
Good for you.  There are good women/marriages, but it's very rare these days (mainly due to social media).  
Wrong, it's mainly because our governments and the powers that be fought and succeeded to kill off the one ideology that would have created a more ideal natural world.

(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/86/03/13/860313faff843e305aeff1c0b096c3e4.jpg)
(http://spartacus-educational.com/00womenHit4.jpg)


Ok, well I have never had any proper long term relationship and believe it is quite possible I may be solitary for the rest of my life - and it doesn't overly bother me - so I'll weigh in here.  First of all, to be clear, I find myself to be quite unattractive and as a result, I can barely stand to be around others.  Everybody has their strengths and that is my weakness and really, it has made me quite the interesting person to know - far more than I reveal here.  

And no, I'm not depressed - I'm wayyy too busy doing shit to worry about that stuff.  You adjust or you die and I am fully adjusted to that adversity.

You can be legitimately happy, but it mostly comes down to what type of person you are and you might require adversity to FULLY come to that point.   I know I did.  I mean, I was always the solitary type (and not someone who easily trusts), but a fucking gigantic owning at the hands of my former best friend really pushed me to eventually let go of all pangs of wanting to be with someone.  That stuff happened I think four years ago and around a year ago, the pangs were completely gone and whilst I met a bunch, no women ever excited me during that time and I've done absolutely nothing to meet any girl in over a year because I'm tired of meeting people who don't come close to me in terms of personality.

But women have never been first priority in my life - I've always been more interested in doing stuff - ie, art, sport etc.   I absolutely fucking despise going anywhere and having to think about my dick.  I'd rather do almost anything than go to a bar to meet women.  It's just not fun, to me.  I'd rather get behind a mic and sing something (not particularly well), paint something (not particularly well) etc.

Whenever I think about what I want to do in life, I am never ever thinking about being with a good woman.  I don't really spend a lot of time just "enjoying life" and when you're with a woman, that's a lot of what you do with them which is hardly bad, but you don't move forwards anything like what you do when you're on your own.

Women, for me - are a quick, post gym jerkoff in the shower and then forgotten for the night.   I'm spending tonight doing exactly what I want to do and if there was a woman, here right now, it'd just be the couch, watching TV and then bang and then bed.

So the TLDR of that is, if you're the type of person who is "ugly hobbies guy".  Absolutely you can get along without women.  ;D
Easy to say if you've never experienced the joy of companionship to the level some of us have, I would say there's nothing wrong with trying to attain that because trust me you would be happier than you are now. If you are ugly there are plenty of ugly women in the world too lol.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: falco on July 27, 2016, 05:58:06 AM
I miss single life so bad.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: drkaje on July 27, 2016, 06:58:35 AM
Can't be happy with another person if unhappy with yourself.

I'd have no problems being single.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Purge_WTF on July 27, 2016, 07:48:23 AM
 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. - Proverbs 21: 19

 The more I look into Western marriage and the effects on the man after the marriage comes to an end, the more grateful I am for being single.

 


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Post by: mazrim on July 27, 2016, 08:00:58 AM
I miss single life so bad.
Lol
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: johnnynoname on July 27, 2016, 08:05:39 AM
what kind of beta/conformist shit is going on with people these days?!


you know who isn't complaining about being "lonely"?
that 19 year old who is looking to win a medal in the 100m's in the olympics
the 27 year old single mom with two jobs and goes to night school to get a degree
the 54 year old retiree traveling to egypt to see the pyramids


only people who have nothing going for them in there lives complain about  "being lonely"


just start doing things with your life

I can only assume the op is under the age of say 21 because this is some legit childish stuff to complain about


and as for the "single" thing...please someone give me a LEGIT answer about how they can stand a woman aside from the fact that she fucks you?


Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: spiro on July 27, 2016, 08:59:20 AM
After living my last 3 years with my wife it would be very hard to go back to being single. We are workout partners and good friends. I get a lot of joy and relaxation hanging out with her and the dogs. She has my coffee and breakfast ready in the morning and dinner ready and night. Old fashioned Christian family. 
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Post by: bigmc on July 27, 2016, 09:05:14 AM
jonny no name goes to hotel rooms to let old men suck him off

hardly the actions of a man happy in his own skin
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on July 27, 2016, 09:23:10 AM
jonny no name goes to hotel rooms to let old men suck him off

hardly the actions of a man happy in his own skin


Hahahahahaha !!!
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Board_SHERIF on July 27, 2016, 09:25:23 AM
im sick of 40 year old lunatic women..single now and happy..get laid once in a while..all good being single.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: 8 INCH not biceps on July 27, 2016, 09:28:02 AM
I struggle with this lately, after living with someone for 3 years previously unless I'm in a legit relationship with good long term prospects I have this nagging feeling that I have to find someone or I feel shitty. When I first started posting on getbig I honestly didn't give a shit anywhere as near as much as I do now. Even if I'm seeing a woman 2-3 times a week when she's not with me I feel down. My mind was fucked up by getting used to going to bed with the same chick every night and waking up next to her every morning. That gave me a sense of peace and happiness I just can't attain alone.

Epic Beta post by getbig standards but I don't give a shit I'm just being honest. Anyone else had a long-term serious relationship in the past then got this feeling with less serious relationships/"dating phases"?

You are a weak little tampon boy if you cannot make yourself happy how are you going to make another person happy, man up and get some help.
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Post by: Zillotch on July 27, 2016, 09:34:33 AM
Epic Beta

Your best and only viable option is suicide.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: lilhawk1 on July 27, 2016, 09:48:50 AM
Being single is great once you get used to it.  Got out of a 6 year relationship, it took a good year to get used to being single again.. Spend time on yourself, stay busy, make money, travel, whatever pleases you.. Do not jump in a relationship to get over another one.. Most couples are together out of habit more than anything else.. Take a look around, how many couples are truly happy?  Not many..
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Post by: johnnynoname on July 27, 2016, 10:05:05 AM
jonny no name goes to hotel rooms to let old men suck him off

hardly the actions of a man happy in his own skin

how dare you.......none of them were "old"
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: PJim on July 27, 2016, 10:41:43 AM
Get a pet. Seriously.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 10:54:54 AM
I struggle with this lately, after living with someone for 3 years previously unless I'm in a legit relationship with good long term prospects I have this nagging feeling that I have to find someone or I feel shitty. When I first started posting on getbig I honestly didn't give a shit anywhere as near as much as I do now. Even if I'm seeing a woman 2-3 times a week when she's not with me I feel down. My mind was fucked up by getting used to going to bed with the same chick every night and waking up next to her every morning. That gave me a sense of peace and happiness I just can't attain alone.

Epic Beta post by getbig standards but I don't give a shit I'm just being honest. Anyone else had a long-term serious relationship in the past then got this feeling with less serious relationships/"dating phases"?

Being happy and single is 100x better then being stuck in some horrible marriage with some witch.
1. Some men love being married and cherish being parents , raising kids.
These are men with traditional values and would feel empty as a single man.

2. Some men , like being married but have no interest or desire to have children.
This is my category. I thrive in a monogamous relationship and have no desire to screw around.
I view marriage as a loving partnership and we don't have kids .

3. Some men were meant to be single. There is NOTHING wrong with this lifestyle.
You can date and live a happy , functional independent lifestyle.
Getting married and/or starting a family isn't for everyone.

Make the choice you honestly feel move to live.
Don't let guilt or peer pressure force you into the wrong situation.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Taffin on July 27, 2016, 10:58:43 AM
I'm at my happiest when there's no one around.

Solitary confinement?   ;)
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 11:00:08 AM
I do not believe in marriage or having kids.  

I love it.  I get to do what I want, when I want, how I want... without having to check with anyone.  That is true freedom and happiness.

Being lonely is just a state of mind mainly caused by boredom.  Go and visit with friends or family members... get a hobby... go workout... read a book... start a business... etc.

Bingo! You're a great example of a guy that thrives in a single lifestyle.

I'm in the middle of the two extremes of single vs married with children.
Yup, I thrive best being married but never had kids or had the desire to be a dad.

Hey, in my book , as long as you have a job that pays your bills, live as you damn well please.

Pisses me off to hear some declare that everyone needs to be married to be happy. Bullshit !
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Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 11:06:36 AM
I think if you take a look around majority of the people in this country are not doing well. In sheer numbers there are more whites on food stamps than blacks. Money does not equate to happiness. There are plenty of examples of this. Yes, a majority of my people may be poor in money but many of us are rich in spirit.  Something I wouldn't expect you to understand Mr. Big Bucks.

I won't go full-blown getbigger with claims of untold riches and playboy centerfold gf's. :)
.
But my wife and I NOW have some assets and small level of financial security.
I spent most of my younger life , driving beater cars and living in modest housing.
Yes Wiggs, money can't buy happiness , BUT , it sure makes life easier.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Taffin on July 27, 2016, 11:07:02 AM
Get a pet. Seriously.

Make it a female pet big enough to bang (legal in some states apparently) and you're good to go!   :D
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 11:08:36 AM
Ok, well I have never had any proper long term relationship and believe it is quite possible I may be solitary for the rest of my life - and it doesn't overly bother me - so I'll weigh in here.  First of all, to be clear, I find myself to be quite unattractive and as a result, I can barely stand to be around others.  Everybody has their strengths and that is my weakness and really, it has made me quite the interesting person to know - far more than I reveal here. 

And no, I'm not depressed - I'm wayyy too busy doing shit to worry about that stuff.  You adjust or you die and I am fully adjusted to that adversity.

You can be legitimately happy, but it mostly comes down to what type of person you are and you might require adversity to FULLY come to that point.   I know I did.  I mean, I was always the solitary type (and not someone who easily trusts), but a fucking gigantic owning at the hands of my former best friend really pushed me to eventually let go of all pangs of wanting to be with someone.  That stuff happened I think four years ago and around a year ago, the pangs were completely gone and whilst I met a bunch, no women ever excited me during that time and I've done absolutely nothing to meet any girl in over a year because I'm tired of meeting people who don't come close to me in terms of personality.

But women have never been first priority in my life - I've always been more interested in doing stuff - ie, art, sport etc.   I absolutely fucking despise going anywhere and having to think about my dick.  I'd rather do almost anything than go to a bar to meet women.  It's just not fun, to me.  I'd rather get behind a mic and sing something (not particularly well), paint something (not particularly well) etc.

Whenever I think about what I want to do in life, I am never ever thinking about being with a good woman.  I don't really spend a lot of time just "enjoying life" and when you're with a woman, that's a lot of what you do with them which is hardly bad, but you don't move forwards anything like what you do when you're on your own.

Women, for me - are a quick, post gym jerkoff in the shower and then forgotten for the night.   I'm spending tonight doing exactly what I want to do and if there was a woman, here right now, it'd just be the couch, watching TV and then bang and then bed.

So the TLDR of that is, if you're the type of person who is "ugly hobbies guy".  Absolutely you can get along without women.  ;D

Excellent post.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 11:11:34 AM
I miss single life so bad.

This is getbig, so I don't know who's serious , so I apologize if you think I'm busting your balls here.

I often hear various guys echo the same sentiments about missing single life.
Ok, so why not get divorced and return to it?

Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 11:15:30 AM
Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. - Proverbs 21: 19



Why anyone remains in a miserable marriage is beyond me.
Life is too short to stay with a wife that sucks the joy of living out of ya.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 27, 2016, 11:19:10 AM
After living my last 3 years with my wife it would be very hard to go back to being single. We are workout partners and good friends. I get a lot of joy and relaxation hanging out with her and the dogs. She has my coffee and breakfast ready in the morning and dinner ready and night. Old fashioned Christian family. 
Sounds like a loving marriage with a good wife.

My wife and I spend a lot of time together engaged in simple, wholesome activity.
I know it sounds beta, by getbig standards, but we're happy , so wtf.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: loco on July 27, 2016, 11:52:49 AM
Ok, well I have never had any proper long term relationship and believe it is quite possible I may be solitary for the rest of my life - and it doesn't overly bother me - so I'll weigh in here.  First of all, to be clear, I find myself to be quite unattractive and as a result, I can barely stand to be around others.  Everybody has their strengths and that is my weakness and really, it has made me quite the interesting person to know - far more than I reveal here. 

And no, I'm not depressed - I'm wayyy too busy doing shit to worry about that stuff.  You adjust or you die and I am fully adjusted to that adversity.

You can be legitimately happy, but it mostly comes down to what type of person you are and you might require adversity to FULLY come to that point.   I know I did.  I mean, I was always the solitary type (and not someone who easily trusts), but a fucking gigantic owning at the hands of my former best friend really pushed me to eventually let go of all pangs of wanting to be with someone.  That stuff happened I think four years ago and around a year ago, the pangs were completely gone and whilst I met a bunch, no women ever excited me during that time and I've done absolutely nothing to meet any girl in over a year because I'm tired of meeting people who don't come close to me in terms of personality.

But women have never been first priority in my life - I've always been more interested in doing stuff - ie, art, sport etc.   I absolutely fucking despise going anywhere and having to think about my dick.  I'd rather do almost anything than go to a bar to meet women.  It's just not fun, to me.  I'd rather get behind a mic and sing something (not particularly well), paint something (not particularly well) etc.

Whenever I think about what I want to do in life, I am never ever thinking about being with a good woman.  I don't really spend a lot of time just "enjoying life" and when you're with a woman, that's a lot of what you do with them which is hardly bad, but you don't move forwards anything like what you do when you're on your own.

Women, for me - are a quick, post gym jerkoff in the shower and then forgotten for the night.   I'm spending tonight doing exactly what I want to do and if there was a woman, here right now, it'd just be the couch, watching TV and then bang and then bed.

So the TLDR of that is, if you're the type of person who is "ugly hobbies guy".  Absolutely you can get along without women.  ;D

Is this why the rate of teen pregnancy in the USA is at its lowest levels ever?
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Method101 on July 27, 2016, 01:01:18 PM
Maybe it's too late for our civilization, seems like our last hope died with the fall of National Socialism.

Now it's the century of the hedonists, sluts, feminists etc. you name it. How can any American/British veterans of the second world war still be proud of what they did when they see the result which is the handing over of the world over to these people and their puppet masters. The concept that the war was for "freedom" is so laughable and people on this forum still buy it and oppose National Socialism, even the ones who acknowledge all the things mentioned above as severe problems! All these problems are enough alone without even mentioning the total destruction of the white race.

Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Henda on July 27, 2016, 02:09:23 PM
If I ever split up with wor lass I'd never live with a woman again, house is mine so she would be out so wouldn't have to sort a place to live, would walk along to pub every Saturday and try and fuck every dirty old slag in there failing that prostitute off Craigslist every now and again, befriend a fat ugly but nice woman that I can drop my washing off at her place and maybe she come round and tidy the house and if she's lucky give her the pleasure of blowing me. Life could be so perfect
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Parker on July 27, 2016, 02:13:51 PM
Wrong, it's mainly because our governments and the powers that be fought and succeeded to kill off the one ideology that would have created a more ideal natural world.

(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/86/03/13/860313faff843e305aeff1c0b096c3e4.jpg)
(http://spartacus-educational.com/00womenHit4.jpg)


Aren't you a ginger?
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 27, 2016, 02:16:01 PM
jonny no name goes to hotel rooms to let old men suck him off

hardly the actions of a man happy in his own skin

ROFL!
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: johnnynoname on July 27, 2016, 02:17:47 PM
Maybe it's too late for our civilization, seems like our last hope died with the fall of National Socialism.

Now it's the century of the hedonists, sluts, feminists etc. you name it. How can any American/British veterans of the second world war still be proud of what they did when they see the result which is the handing over of the world over to these people and their puppet masters. The concept that the war was for "freedom" is so laughable and people on this forum still buy it and oppose National Socialism, even the ones who acknowledge all the things mentioned above as severe problems! All these problems are enough alone without even mentioning the total destruction of the white race.



I guarantee OP is a young snot nosed kid after reading that because this REEKS of "Look- I just learned some new stuff at my college and now I'm gonna show it off to everyone because I am so SMRT"





Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 27, 2016, 02:59:34 PM
I've spent many years single and many years in relationships. My most fond memories are always from my single years. But as you get older, sometimes having a co-pilot ain't the worse thing in the world. Been with my current girlfriend now just over a year. Been nice to have her around after my surgery in April and again this week being home with a back injury. Without me asking, she got up extra early this week to ensure I have everything I need before she leaves for work. Brings me coffee in bed, ensure my work laptop and phone is within reaching distance, lunch is sitting in the top shelf in the fridge so I don't have to reach down. Rings me every few hours to see how I'm getting on and tidy up when she gets home from work.

Hell, throw in a naked cam session now and again, posting selfies on AttentionWhore-StaGram and I'm living a pro bodybuilder lifestyle!
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: C-BuZz on July 27, 2016, 03:02:07 PM
Where will you find a woman that passionately believe the planet sits on four pillars, the moon is made of cheese, Blacks should be reclassified as Jews and sent back to Israel to live in poverty there instead of living in poverty everywhere else?

What happened to that fat chick you were seeing? The one that enjoyed dancing and posting selfies?

More importantly, where will you find a chick that 100% beleives ronnie was natural just before he turned pro  ???
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 27, 2016, 03:35:55 PM
Wrong, it's mainly because our governments and the powers that be fought and succeeded to kill off the one ideology that would have created a more ideal natural world.

(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/86/03/13/860313faff843e305aeff1c0b096c3e4.jpg)
(http://spartacus-educational.com/00womenHit4.jpg)

Easy to say if you've never experienced the joy of companionship to the level some of us have, I would say there's nothing wrong with trying to attain that because trust me you would be happier than you are now. If you are ugly there are plenty of ugly women in the world too lol.

Not wrong.

Women whoring on social media creates more whores.

Divorce laws/courts also play a big role.

Marriage is a raw deal for a man in today's society, period.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 27, 2016, 03:37:49 PM
Not wrong.

Women whoring on social media creates more whores.

Divorce laws/courts also play a big role.

Marriage is a raw deal for a man in today's society.

They whore because there's a market for attention whores. Stop 'liking' or 'following' or whatever the fuck it's called these days and they'll go away.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: anabolichalo on July 27, 2016, 03:38:15 PM
i'm pretty happy

it takes a while to get used to being lonely

but once you are used to it, it's pretty neato

in fact i now often think that i simply wouldnt find the time for a girlfriend, life is way too busy
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: TuHolmes on July 27, 2016, 04:04:28 PM
They whore because there's a market for attention whores. Stop 'liking' or 'following' or whatever the fuck it's called these days and they'll go away.

^^^
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Mr Anabolic on July 27, 2016, 04:35:06 PM
They whore because there's a market for attention whores. Stop 'liking' or 'following' or whatever the fuck it's called these days and they'll go away.

Good luck with that.  In case you didn't notice, there are multi-page Getbig thread dedicated to these selfie whores.  
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: JackScribber on July 27, 2016, 04:40:32 PM
Good luck with that.  In case you didn't notice, there are multi-page Getbig thread dedicated to these selfie whores.  

Yep.

Well there you go. Even the 'tough' guys on here seem to be obsessed with this sickness.

Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 28, 2016, 03:20:57 PM
i'm pretty happy

it takes a while to get used to being lonely

but once you are used to it, it's pretty neato

in fact i now often think that i simply wouldnt find the time for a girlfriend, life is way too busy

Sounds like you're happy, as is. Stay that way and enjoy life.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: anabolichalo on July 28, 2016, 03:22:09 PM
Sounds like you're happy, as is. Stay that way and enjoy life.
yeah man, i often see dudes in public with their gf's giving them a hard time
this is when i feel blessed and take a deep breath of fresh air thinking about what a wonderful day it is to be single
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 28, 2016, 05:23:06 PM
yeah man, i often see dudes in public with their gf's giving them a hard time
this is when i feel blessed and take a deep breath of fresh air thinking about what a wonderful day it is to be single

Saw the new apt and read about your asshole coworker getting squashed by the container, so you're on a roll.
Enjoy it.

I spent a few single years after my last divorce and enjoyed it.
I worked out, dated and went to bunch of minor league baseball and hockey games.
Believe it or not I "dated" my ex-wife on a regular basis during this time.
I swear to GOD, it was mostly hooking up with a few nice trips added in.
Lived in separate places and kept it casual. It was fun, but felt empty after awhile
Didn't have any desire to get remarried for awhile.

My (current) wife came along and I really enjoyed hanging out with her.
In all modesty I thought she was very pretty, and we had that spark.
BUT, just hanging out with her became the biggest plus.

Now we're loving partners in life. We allow each other enough space to keep things relaxed.
I see too many guys with gf's /wives that are on their ass night and day.
I'd never live like that.

My first wife started nagging me about having kids.
I kept telling her no and she knew how I felt.
She refused to quit , so I divorced her with no regrets.

Nothing more pathetic then some beta pussy who let's his wife talk him into everything .
OR, some dude who bitches about being married but won't move on and get divorced.
I say man up and stick up for yourself.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: TuHolmes on July 28, 2016, 05:24:43 PM
yeah man, i often see dudes in public with their gf's giving them a hard time
this is when i feel blessed and take a deep breath of fresh air thinking about what a wonderful day it is to be single

Never leave that mindset halo.

Even if you are with a woman always keep your happy single mindset.

It will make your life so much better. Even if you have a woman you like and care about, if it doesn't workout, you will not be torn up about it.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Howard on July 28, 2016, 05:31:50 PM
Never leave that mindset halo.

Even if you are with a woman always keep your happy single mindset.

It will make your life so much better. Even if you have a woman you like and care about, if it doesn't workout, you will not be torn up about it.

True in theory, but, you can't help how you feel.
Even the most alpha dude can fall deeply in love with some sweet thing.
Deep rooted emotional attachment is  one the main reasons dudes won't break up easily.

As most here know, I've been divorced a few times for real.
It's no fun , but, it's like some surgical procedure.
It sucks, you feel like shit and it can down right painful for a bit.
BUT, once the healing is over,  you feel better then ever.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: TuHolmes on July 28, 2016, 06:28:55 PM
True in theory, but, you can't help how you feel.
Even the most alpha dude can fall deeply in love with some sweet thing.
Deep rooted emotional attachment is  one the main reasons dudes won't break up easily.

As most here know, I've been divorced a few times for real.
It's no fun , but, it's like some surgical procedure.
It sucks, you feel like shit and it can down right painful for a bit.
BUT, once the healing is over,  you feel better then ever.

I've only been married once. Never again. My girl now is great, but I won't change my single mindset.

We've been together over 3 years and I like how it is.
If she walks, I won't bat an eye, but I'm glad she's around.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: anabolichalo on July 29, 2016, 01:48:10 AM
Never leave that mindset halo.

Even if you are with a woman always keep your happy single mindset.

It will make your life so much better. Even if you have a woman you like and care about, if it doesn't workout, you will not be torn up about it.
yeah mane

sometimes when i feel lonely i stop and think about how much fun i'm having with throwing these weights around like a mini version of my heroes and getting HUGE, HUUUUUUUUUUUUGE!, then i crack myself up thinking about it and realize i am truly indeed blessed
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: drkaje on July 29, 2016, 03:44:00 AM
There's no shortage of women. Someone who can't hook up probably sucks.

Being alone is fine. I enjoy my own company and rarely get bored.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: Tapeworm on July 29, 2016, 04:38:05 AM
No.  You have to marry the next woman who lets you make use of her vag.
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: anabolichalo on July 29, 2016, 04:40:18 AM
when i look at a beautiful woman i think (usually) two things:

1st thing is she is so confident, the thinks she owns the world, she thinks can get anything she wants, treats most men like nobodies

2nd thing is she is probably broke as a joke and just a few years away from hitting the wall

so yeah i dont really have a point here, just some random ideas
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: anabolichalo on July 29, 2016, 04:48:22 AM
bodybuilding means happiness
Title: Re: Can any of you be legitimately happy while alone/single?
Post by: drkaje on July 29, 2016, 05:52:26 AM
bodybuilding means happiness

That's one of the gayest things I've ever read on this site.