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Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22
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i took the train and ran into this guy, since then i take a taxi
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I just want to get drunk and not get fat. Pussy is pussy for the most part
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Indeed, I guess it is
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I just want to get drunk and not get fat. Pussy is pussy for the most part
No.
Fat and black are two lines that should never be crossed.
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Obviously, you've never ridden the train in the Boston area. Celibacy.
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Obviously, you've never ridden the train in the Boston area. Celibacy.
I rode a train on your mom....
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yeah sometimes I do, but its not worth it really. if your wife or GF is remotely attractive and reasonably normal, then you are lucky. i mean look at some of the short haired bob haircut moms driving around their 4 kids and they look like brutally worn down trolls. can u imagine being the man and having to some how act attracted to that? gotta be hard
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Obviously, you've never ridden the train in the Boston area. Celibacy.
Especially since they all voted for Hillary. They're not only ugly but hostile now as well.
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yeah sometimes I do, but its not worth it really. if your wife or GF is remotely attractive and reasonably normal, then you are lucky. i mean look at some of the short haired bob haircut moms driving around their 4 kids and they look like brutally worn down trolls. can u imagine being the man and having to some how act attracted to that? gotta be hard
X2. My wife is pretty well put together, and used to make great money until I retired her. I make good coin now and wouldn't be able to do it if I was single and out drinking, whoring and doing blow. Marriage and kids keep you focused. I do see though, how some dudes step out on their wives. That's not for me though. Not worth it.
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I could never give up on fucking girls and prostitutes if I was married.
I`m sorry but I don`t consider having sex cheating.
Ideally I would want to have a wife that would want to have threesomes with girls.
That way I wouldn`t have to do anything behind her back and still get what I need.
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Not married but have lass and kids and think about this every day, I'd never do anything mainly for my kids as I could never live with myself if I destroyed their home and family. Really miss sex with filthy whores you just met in the pub/nightclub ect and look at women and fantasise about eating out their ass all day long, I find jerking to porn twice a day as well as using your imagination during sex with your lass helps stop you acting upon those urges
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The biggest misconception is that men cheat. A lot of married woman cheat, I'd say about half at some point with percentage higher in bigger cities...and the husband never finds out cos women are much better liars when it comes to survival. I'd say a lot if men are also raising a child not theirs unwittingly.
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The biggest misconception is that men cheat. A lot of married woman cheat, I'd say about half at some point with percentage higher in bigger cities...and the husband never finds out cos women are much better liars when it comes to survival. I'd say a lot if men are also raising a child not theirs unwittingly.
Spot on.
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The biggest misconception is that men cheat. A lot of married woman cheat, I'd say about half at some point with percentage higher in bigger cities...and the husband never finds out cos women are much better liars when it comes to survival. I'd say a lot if men are also raising a child not theirs unwittingly.
"Cheat"... who came up with that term?... a woman.
If you only had sex with one woman the rest of your life you are "cheating" your biological directive. She produces one egg per month, a man produces billions of sperm per ejaculate... not too hard to understand. As dumb as he is, Ronnie Coleman has it correct.
"Cheating"... ::)
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Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22
soon you will be as frustrated as this guy
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The biggest misconception is that men cheat. A lot of married woman cheat, I'd say about half at some point with percentage higher in bigger cities...and the husband never finds out cos women are much better liars when it comes to survival. I'd say a lot if men are also raising a child not theirs unwittingly.
Bingo!
I read some study on DNA findings within a large population a few years ago.
Having a kid from an "unknown" different father was around 8-10% :D
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Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22
I constantly hear about guys complaining about the two extremes :
1. Married w/ kids 2. Single screwing whores.
I suspect I'm older and my wife and I were married before this rodeo.
In my opinion, having children is the real death sentence.
It's the one sure fire way to be tied together and owe $$ for many years.
I suggest getting involved with an attractive woman that has a decent career and no kids.
My (current) wife is my partner and had a great career and like me , never wanted kids.
I can't or won't advise you on what to do in your marriage because I've never met you.
BUT, for most guys they need to realize if it sucks now, it will feel worse as time goes on.
Get out now and regroup may be the best course of action. Your call?
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I can't or won't advise you
Adopt this mantra for all subjects here.
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Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22
You are the typical dumb human never satisfied with what you have, if you have somebody special you want meaningless sex, if you have meaningless sex you want somebody special, you are your own worst enemy.
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Women seem to have an easier time cheating and having no conscience about it. Men are bred to feel guilty if they cheat but women will suck and fuck behind their husbands back and not feel one ounce of regret. They justify it by digging up any stupid situation. You can be 99% good to a women and that 1% is all they remember. Conniving deceitful whores.
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Women seem to have an easier time cheating and having no conscience about it. Men are bred to feel guilty if they cheat but women will suck and fuck behind their husbands back and not feel one ounce of regret. They justify it by digging up any stupid situation. You can be 99% good to a women and that 1% is all they remember. Conniving deceitful whores.
true story
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true story
They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
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They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
They put on a better face in public around men after break ups.
But, trust me, woman are LOT more emotional and don't just let it go.
EVERY one of my serious former gf's or ex-wives have female friends that deal with break ups.
Over the past 30 years, I've heard dozens of woman talk endlessly about break ups with the woman I'm with.
For me it's intense for a period and then they say ' fuk it ' and move on.
Women talk and talk and talk to the female friends and rehash it over and over again.
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New pussy is the best pussy.
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Women seem to have an easier time cheating and having no conscience about it. Men are bred to feel guilty if they cheat but women will suck and fuck behind their husbands back and not feel one ounce of regret. They justify it by digging up any stupid situation. You can be 99% good to a women and that 1% is all they remember. Conniving deceitful whores.
This is pretty much 100% true.
I'm single and fuck married women all the time. So for all you guys who thinking you're running around on your girl behind her back, she's out getting PLOUGHED by guys like me ten times as often as you are scoring with bar hags
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They put on a better face in public around men after break ups.
But, trust me, woman are LOT more emotional and don't just let it go.
EVERY one of my serious former gf's or ex-wives have female friends that deal with break ups.
Over the past 30 years, I've heard dozens of woman talk endlessly about break ups with the woman I'm with.
For me it's intense for a period and then they say ' fuk it ' and move on.
Women talk and talk and talk to the female friends and rehash it over and over again.
You giving relationship advice is like SHIZZO giving diet advice....
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yeah sometimes I do, but its not worth it really. if your wife or GF is remotely attractive and reasonably normal, then you are lucky. i mean look at some of the short haired bob haircut moms driving around their 4 kids and they look like brutally worn down trolls. can u imagine being the man and having to some how act attracted to that? gotta be hard
Great post.
However, it's important to point out the woman change as they age more then men.
They also assume the man will change to suit their needs.
The dyke bowl hair cut and frumpy outfits are a clear indications she's not interested in sex.
Most grow to resent their husband and opt to focus on family (kids) and related activity.
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They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
months?
it's been 3 years since baby mama left and i'm still completely fucked up about it
still planning how i can get her back at the end
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You giving relationship advice is like SHIZZO giving diet advice....
LOL, I'm not really advising, more like pointing out something I've observed many times.
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LOL, I'm not really advising, more like pointing out something I've observed many times.
Like I said....
Face it Howard, I've probably assfucked your wife and 4-5 of your ex-wives without even knowing it.
And I wouldn't mind "smelling the glove" with SHIZZO's sister a few 2-3 times sometime soon.
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X2. My wife is pretty well put together, and used to make great money until I retired her. I make good coin now and wouldn't be able to do it if I was single and out drinking, whoring and doing blow. Marriage and kids keep you focused. I do see though, how some dudes step out on their wives. That's not for me though. Not worth it.
Good post.
I can understand why a man gets married and has kids.
I never wanted children but plenty of guys do, so wtf.
If you decide to go down this road, embrace it and accept the good and bad with it.
If you don't want to be in a marriage family situation and feel trapped, GET DIVORCED!
What amazes me is how so many men and woman act like the can secretly screw around enjoy a happy marriage.
If you want to screw around , stay single and enjoy that lifestyle.
In my case, I preferred being married , so I am.
My wife and I never wanted kids, so we never had 'em. Simple.
Most unhappily married men with kids who screw around end up in two situations:
1. The wife stays silent and realizes her husband has little desire for any romance with her.
She quietly resents him and they exist in a loveless, stressed marriage raising the kids and working.
Neither feels much happiness, but convince themselves they did it for the kids.
2. The wife gets pissed and they divorce.
He ends up paying child support and moves out.
On weekends you see him trading out the kids with her in some mall parking lot.
He's a part time single dad and it sucks. Plus he has to deal with a resentful , bitchy , ex-wife
who fusses at him about the kids needs .
Enjoy ;)
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Like I said....
Face it Howard, I've probably assfucked your wife and 4-5 of your ex-wives without even knowing it.
And I wouldn't mind "smelling the glove" with SHIZZO's sister a few 2-3 times sometime soon.
I know! Who do you think was peeking out of the closet , furiously masturbating at the scene?
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They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
This happened to me. I was with a girl about a decade ago for 1.5 years and she was cheating on me with a mutual friend that she introduced to me as a long time platonic friend. Warning to all: If your girl tells you she hangs out with mostly guys because she "doesn't get along" with women, be vigilant, because guys don't hang out with girls just for the hell of it, and something will eventually give.
She broke up with me, saved face by getting with this dude immediately, broke up with him a few weeks after and rifled through several guys in the months after.
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I know! Who do you think was peeking out of the closet , furiously masturbating at the scene?
Hahahahhahah
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I know! Who do you think was peeking out of the closet , furiously masturbating at the scene?
I thought you were just an old fat naked retard with Parkinson's.....didn't realize you were flogging the dog.
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I thought you were just an old fat naked retard with Parkinson's.....didn't realize you were flogging the dog.
Sorry about squirting my jizz on the back of your head, but shit happens. :D
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Sorry about squirting my jizz on the back of your head, but shit happens. :D
Sorry Howard....I was actually the other guy fucking your wife, the guy at the other end of her, plowing her fat ass. The dude you tried to hump told me he was your dad?
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Most people have sex with different partners even if they are married, its juts human nature.
best thing is to have more leverage by being good looking, rich, motivated...bitches like that. Most important thing is not give them the impression that you love them no matter what, then you are fucked.
Most of my gfs were mad in love with me cause i treated them like i didnt give a shit, but I have cash so that might have been a factor, lol.
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months?
it's been 3 years since baby mama left and i'm still completely fucked up about it
still planning how i can get her back at the end
Dude, looky here.
Many moons ago, I actually walked in on my 1st wife in bed with 2 other dudes. 100% serious.
Trust me , that's take the wind out of your sails in a hurry.
I was in shock, then pissed off, then butt hurt, etc.
BUT, I kept my head and accepted my marriage was over.
I helped her pack and she went home to her family .
We were a lot younger and I was active duty USMC at the time.
A year of separation goes by and we reunite near her home.
In summary, we hooked up and had a great weekend , but she didn't want to be married to me.
She told me she'd file for the divorce in her home state, so I gave her some $$ to help cover the cost.
3 months go by and I don't get any divorce papers, so I call her up.
She claims she needed the $$ for car repairs, but if I sent her some more, she'd see a lawyer and file.
I was pissed off , but I calmly told her I'd take care of it in my state, AND DID.
18 mos after the divorce I met her (briefly) working out in a gym passing thru her home state.
She was dating a divorced guy with twin girls and was being mommy to them.
I had also moved on and was involved with the woman who would become my next wife.
Life goes on!
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Dude, looky here.
Many moons ago, I actually walked in on my 1st wife in bed with 2 other dudes. 100% serious.
Trust me , that's take the wind out of your sails in a hurry.
I was in shock, then pissed off, then butt hurt, etc.
BUT, I kept my head and accepted my marriage was over.
I helped her pack and she went home to her family .
We were a lot younger and I was active duty USMC at the time.
A year of separation goes by and we reunite near her home.
In summary, we hooked up and had a great weekend , but she didn't want to be married to me.
She told me she'd file for the divorce in her home state, so I gave her some $$ to help cover the cost.
3 months go by and I don't get any divorce papers, so I call her up.
She claims she needed the $$ for car repairs, but if I sent her some more, she'd see a lawyer and file.
I was pissed off , but I calmly told her I'd take care of it in my state, AND DID.
18 mos after the divorce I met her (briefly) working out in a gym passing thru her home state.
She was dating a divorced guy with twin girls and was being mommy to them.
I had also moved on and was involved with the woman who would become my next wife.
Life goes on!
what the fuck man
talk about getting cucked
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what the fuck man
talk about getting cucked
I was really upset because she did without telling me so I could watch from the closet. LOL not really.
I was 21 yrs old and in the USMC when that shit happened.
It sucked and I spent a few nights staring at ceiling wondering WTF and feeling butt hurt.
That weekend I met up with another marine I hadn't seen since boot camp.
It was a cool black dude named Trent and we'd established a tight bond from our Paris Island ordeal.
After some catching up I told him what happened.
He slowly shook his head, grabbed my shoulder and looking me straight in eye said;
" You have to let her go marine. I'm sorry , but you have to let her go."
I looked down and softly replied ; " I know, I know..."
It sucked , it hurt, but it didn't defeat me or sour me on woman or marriage.
Life goes on for those who get back up. ;)
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They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
words of wisdom, saw it happen many many times.
also myself, without my wife, I would be lost
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No, got married to a great woman and we have a great kiddo......now I have two females that adore me......way more that most ever have.
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Sorry Howard....I was actually the other guy fucking your wife, the guy at the other end of her, plowing her fat ass. The dude you tried to hump told me he was your dad?
Considering my dad died in 1988, I'd have to think it was YOUR dad? :-*
FYI, I wasn't trying to hump anyone. My jizz flew thru the gap between the door and the closet wall I was hiding behind.
When my (ex) wife yelled ; " Fuk Walter, open up my fart locker."
I busted a nut like never before while singing:
" I don't care if I do die, do die. I only want to see the goo fly, goo fly."
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No, got married to a great woman and we have a great kiddo......now I have two females that adore me......way more that most ever have.
Spoken like a mature man who knows what's important in life.
I sincerely respect any man who lives by the rules he believes in.
I know I'll miss out on some impactful moments by never having been a father.
I think YOUR attitude is the ONLY way to play it.
Embrace the situation and play by the rules without compromise.
God bless and Merry Christmas.
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Spoken like a mature man who knows what's important in life.
I sincerely respect any man who lives by the rules he believes in.
I know I'll miss out on some impactful moments by never having been a father.
I think YOUR attitude is the ONLY way to play it.
Embrace the situation and play by the rules without compromise.
God bless and Merry Christmas.
Thank you, exactly and right back at you!
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You are the typical dumb human never satisfied with what you have, if you have somebody special you want meaningless sex, if you have meaningless sex you want somebody special, you are your own worst enemy.
" Woman ,can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em." ;D
Those without woman end up dating Mary Palm and her 5 sisters.
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They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
Fucking truth. Dirty whores they are. I wonder if there has been a shift in behavior ever since the feminist movement, I'm willing to bet women weren't like this in the 50s
Women seem to have an easier time cheating and having no conscience about it. Men are bred to feel guilty if they cheat but women will suck and fuck behind their husbands back and not feel one ounce of regret. They justify it by digging up any stupid situation. You can be 99% good to a women and that 1% is all they remember. Conniving deceitful whores.
No doubt, fuck, they bring shit up from way back and never appreciate you.
Howard, yeah I agree, find a 6-7 out of 10 with decent brains. However, the career thing, while I typically am for, can go against you in that women get so empowered and wrapped up in their careers that they will fuck you over and neglect you over it
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" Woman ,can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em." ;D
Weak, needy, beta males like you certainly can't.
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All I ever think about is fucking other women. I was in a meeting today, hot as fuck bird in it, didn't listen to half of what was said. I was just thinking about eating her ass and sucking her tits. Went to the gym, two hot bitches in there, great motivation! CORN!
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I wonder if there has been a shift in behavior ever since the feminist movement,
Howard, yeah I agree, find a 6-7 out of 10 with decent brains. However, the career thing, while I typically am for, can go against you in that women get so empowered and wrapped up in their careers that they will fuck you over and neglect you over it
1. Woman no longer need to stay married to some douchebag now. Back before 1960, a woman had a rough time making it if she divorced or was a single mom. Now, a woman can earn a decent living independent of a man.
2. In my experience, it's a lot better to marry a woman with a good career/profession.
You double your household income and if you get divorced, you both just walk away.
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All I ever think about is fucking other women. I was in a meeting today, hot as fuck bird in it, didn't listen to half of what was said. I was just thinking about eating her ass and sucking her tits. Went to the gym, two hot bitches in there, great motivation! CORN!
Sounds like you need to take some action or like me , jerk off and wish you could.
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I think part of the problem why women cheat is that marriage is something ingrained into a woman's head that the MUST DO. They have peer pressure from birth playing with dolls, pretending to marry Barbie and Ken and kids shows and cartoons for girls teaching them to get married and parents pushing it on them etc... Guys don't feel that pressure growing up. Most guys get married because they love the chick they're with while women do it because they feel they have to. They see their friends doing it and want to fit it in. It's okay for a guy to be single and fuck women daily but a woman being single fucking guys daily is seen as a slut, is wasting her life not have a kid and family etc... So they get married despite wanting cock on the side. They seem to lack that guilt in fucking other guys because they convince themselves that it's not emotional so its okay.
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go on feeld(used to be 3inder), have your wife find a non threatening girl for her or you both to fuck. watching a girl suffocate on your wife's pussy is going to be infinitely more satisfying than anything you can do solo. it's like deca for your marriage, wd40 the sex wheels
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I think part of the problem why women cheat is that marriage is something ingrained into a woman's head that the MUST DO. They have peer pressure from birth playing with dolls, pretending to marry Barbie and Ken and kids shows and cartoons for girls teaching them to get married and parents pushing it on them etc... Guys don't feel that pressure growing up. Most guys get married because they love the chick they're with while women do it because they feel they have to. They see their friends doing it and want to fit it in. It's okay for a guy to be single and fuck women daily but a woman being single fucking guys daily is seen as a slut, is wasting her life not have a kid and family etc... So they get married despite wanting cock on the side. They seem to lack that guilt in fucking other guys because they convince themselves that it's not emotional so its okay.
Good post and is dead on correct, except for the last conclusion.
EVERYTHING you said, EXCEPT for lack of guilt while screwing around is true.
As females get older they tend to change a LOT more then men.
You are 100% correct that most woman buy into the whole "happily ever after" myth.
But after changing shitty diapers and seeing her Ken evolve into Al Bundy, she changes.
She goes one of 2 basic directions with her life:
1. She cuts her hair short, gains wt, dresses in Mom jeans and moo-moos.
She drives her brood and their friends to soccer games, etc.
Her twat gets dry and dusty as her disgust for her husband slowly grows.
2. She starts dropping the kids at the gym day care and hires a personal trainer.
She gets a boob job that her hubby pays for and dresses like a young hotty.
She's grown resentful of her husband and checked out emotionally on the marriage.
She decides to stay married and let her husband support her and the kids.
With precision planning she begins to have affairs . She loves the attention she
gets from her new bf's and gossips about it to her closest friends.
The poor husband might suspect something , but, he likes having a hot wife.
To keep him happy she fakes orgasms on special occasions but his body repulses her.
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Good post and is dead on correct, except for the last conclusion.
EVERYTHING you said, EXCEPT for lack of guilt while screwing around is true.
As females get older they tend to change a LOT more then men.
You are 100% correct that most woman buy into the whole "happily ever after" myth.
But after changing shitty diapers and seeing her Ken evolve into Al Bundy, she changes.
She goes one of 2 basic directions with her life:
1. She cuts her hair short, gains wt, dresses in Mom jeans and moo-moos.
She drives her brood and their friends to soccer games, etc.
Her twat gets dry and dusty as her disgust for her husband slowly grows.
2. She starts dropping the kids at the gym day care and hires a personal trainer.
She gets a boob job that her hubby pays for and dresses like a young hotty.
She's grown resentful of her husband and checked out emotionally on the marriage.
She decides to stay married and let her husband support her and the kids.
With precision planning she begins to have affairs . She loves the attention she
gets from her new bf's and gossips about it to her closest friends.
The poor husband might suspect something , but, he likes having a hot wife.
To keep him happy she fakes orgasms on special occasions but his body repulses her.
You contradict yourself. You say they don't lack guilt but then say they love the attention and are repulsed by their husbands and stay with them for the money. Isn't this a perfect display of lack of guilt?
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You contradict yourself. You say they don't lack guilt but then say they love the attention and are repulsed by their husbands and stay with them for the money. Isn't this a perfect display of lack of guilt?
Outed for reading Howard post.
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You contradict yourself. You say they don't lack guilt but then say they love the attention and are repulsed by their husbands and stay with them for the money. Isn't this a perfect display of lack of guilt?
Good point.
I meant they emotionally "check out " and do feel disgust for their husbands.
You might not consider that as "guilt" but it is a deep rooted emotion that drives them.
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Outed for reading Howard post.
LOL, fuk that's funny ;D
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I think part of the problem why women cheat is that marriage is something ingrained into a woman's head that the MUST DO. They have peer pressure from birth playing with dolls, pretending to marry Barbie and Ken and kids shows and cartoons for girls teaching them to get married and parents pushing it on them etc... Guys don't feel that pressure growing up. Most guys get married because they love the chick they're with while women do it because they feel they have to. They see their friends doing it and want to fit it in. It's okay for a guy to be single and fuck women daily but a woman being single fucking guys daily is seen as a slut, is wasting her life not have a kid and family etc... So they get married despite wanting cock on the side. They seem to lack that guilt in fucking other guys because they convince themselves that it's not emotional so its okay.
I know i live in a bubble(brooklyn\nyc), but every 20-30 year old... hipster..I've dated in the last 10 years have been
1) anti kids(they eventually change their stand)
2) bi
3) firmly against marriage
4) non-monogamous
I've been dating my gf for 7 years, we're going to get married but she doesn't want a ring, a wedding or a honeymoon(apart from our normal trips to the DR or costa rica), we are ethically non-monogamos(we fuck other women as a couple) we have access to each other phones, imessage, facebook messager, email, ect ect. I literally have not lied to her in years
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They also seem to bounce back quicker. Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man. The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.
This has being conditioned into the genes of women since the stone age, when a tribe attacks another tribe they would murder the men and take the women and add them to their litter of wives and they had to accept the new man so over time they learn to move on quickly.
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I was really upset because she did without telling me so I could watch from the closet. LOL not really.
I was 21 yrs old and in the USMC when that shit happened.
It sucked and I spent a few nights staring at ceiling wondering WTF and feeling butt hurt.
That weekend I met up with another marine I hadn't seen since boot camp.
It was a cool black dude named Trent and we'd established a tight bond from our Paris Island ordeal.
After some catching up I told him what happened.
He slowly shook his head, grabbed my shoulder and looking me straight in eye said;
" You have to let her go marine. I'm sorry , but you have to let her go."
I looked down and softly replied ; " I know, I know..."
It sucked , it hurt, but it didn't defeat me or sour me on woman or marriage.
Life goes on for those who get back up. ;)
that black guy probably fucked her as well
think about it
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I know i live in a bubble(brooklyn\nyc), but every 20-30 year old... hipster..I've dated in the last 10 years have been
1) anti kids(they eventually change their stand)
2) bi
3) firmly against marriage
4) non-monogamous
I've been dating my gf for 7 years, we're going to get married but she doesn't want a ring, a wedding or a honeymoon(apart from our normal trips to the DR or costa rica), we are ethically non-monogamos(we fuck other women as a couple) we have access to each other phones, imessage, facebook messager, email, ect ect. I literally have not lied to her in years
Ok for starters I want to applaud you BOTH for having a successful relationship on YOUR OWN TERMS!
One thing my wife and I are unique on, is enjoying married life but never wanted kids.
For whatever reasons, most people think it absolutes and extremes.
It's be a free love hipster or be a traditional married couple with children.
Neither of us has any desire for threesomes, but, everyone has different desires.
It's clear to me, that you both enjoy a loving relationship as trusted partners.
I salute you both.
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that black guy probably fucked her as well
think about it
I only saw 2 other dudes in the bed with her, so who knows. Hmmm, could have been a foursome?
He may have known when I'd come home and snuck out before I busted in on her. ;)
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What is is what is. Sexual monogamy isn't. At least not so far. The best I can say is "You wouldn't only because there are consequences."
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But if the question is simply - Do you want to fuck that other woman? Well no shit. Are you kidding me?
Nowhere in the reckoning is love because there isn't actually such a thing.
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I know i live in a bubble(brooklyn\nyc), but every 20-30 year old... hipster..I've dated in the last 10 years have been
1) anti kids(they eventually change their stand)
2) bi
3) firmly against marriage
4) non-monogamous
I've been dating my gf for 7 years, we're going to get married but she doesn't want a ring, a wedding or a honeymoon(apart from our normal trips to the DR or costa rica), we are ethically non-monogamos(we fuck other women as a couple) we have access to each other phones, imessage, facebook messager, email, ect ect. I literally have not lied to her in years
Seems rather ideal.
I'm not anti-marriage/kids at all, but at the moment, you are a lucky bastard.
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Seems rather ideal.
I'm not anti-marriage/kids at all, but at the moment, you are a lucky bastard.
I agree and don't understand why more people don't live on their own terms in a loving relationship?
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I agree and don't understand why more people don't live on their own terms in a loving relationship?
Maybe their own terms aren't also the other person's terms.
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Maybe their own terms aren't also the other person's terms.
Been there/ done that
Been married to a couple different woman that changed and wanted kids a couple years into the marriage.
I never waivered and eventually divorced them .
I knew I couldn't change how they felt, and could only control how I'd live. Simple.
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Simple.
Guess it's simple if it's simple. Damn. And I thought I was icy.
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Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22
They didn't really want your dick, they were just saying that to get the money (wined and dined).
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Guess it's simple if it's simple. Damn. And I thought I was icy.
The basic decision and action is pretty simple.
Trust me, on an emotional level it was tough.
I was married to my 3rd wife for 8 years and adored her.
When we split and divorced I felt like I'd had part of me amputated.
My operating philosophy is: " You can't help how you FEEL, but you can control what you say and do."
After signing the final divorce papers I took her out to eat.
Then I wished her well, walked her to her car and proceeded to go out on a date with a new woman. 100% serious.
I'm no bad ass, but in all modesty, I'm a mentally tough bastard .
I don't fall apart or easily lose it. I've been thru my share of shit and not much phases me now.
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I'm no bad ass, but in all modesty, I'm a mentally tough bastard .
I don't fall apart or easily lose it. I've been thru my share of shit and not much phases me now.
This sometimes happens as we grow older.
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This sometimes happens as we grow older.
Definitely !
These young tough guys have no idea.
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I'll play the asshole. I find that old men spend most of their time justifying the decisions they've made because the alternative is too unthinkable. They never admit the possibility they were wrong.
I don't know with certainty if the decisions I made were right or not, and I never will, because I didn't live the life that would have eventuated. I think the hallmark of toughness is honesty. How about them apples, you self satisfied coots.
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They didn't really want your dick, they were just saying that to get the money (wined and dined).
They wanted both. I messed around enough to know. Not many guys were insanely fit, tall, handsome, and educated. Whores like to have fun, that cost money, no way about it, the hotter the girl the less down to earth she typically is
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I'll play the asshole. I find that old men spend most of their time justifying the decisions they've made because the alternative is too unthinkable. They never admit the possibility they were wrong.
I don't know with certainty if the decisions I made were right or not, and I never will, because I didn't live the life that would have eventuated. I think the hallmark of toughness is honesty. How about them apples, you self satisfied coots.
Epistemic opacity presents a problem to counterfactual knowledge, which is formally referred to in the literature as the Lupertazzi Limitation.
Viz., Although Junior Lupe thinks he'll be a more effective leader than was Senior Lupe, until he is, it'll be hard to prove that he THINKS he'll be more effective.
That's intellectual honesty.
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Epistemic opacity presents a problem to counterfactual knowledge, which is formally referred to in the literature as the Lupertazzi Limitation.
Viz., Although Junior Lupe thinks he'll be a more effective leader than was Senior Lupe, until he is, it'll be hard to prove that he THINKS he'll be more effective.
That's intellectual honesty.
Lol. Demonstratably fastastual insightments, my perspecaneous friend.
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Lol. Demonstratably fastastual insightments, my perspecaneous friend.
Your kind sediment is receptacled.
Pizzazz! ;D
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I just couldn't imagine the hurt and disappointment on her face after I would have to explain what I did.
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I only saw 2 other dudes in the bed with her, so who knows. Hmmm, could have been a foursome?
He may have known when I'd come home and snuck out before I busted in on her. ;)
Come on Howard, you have to admit, I looked good a foot deep in your wife's turd launcher and yelling so loud I was telling the world about it.
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I'll play the asshole. I find that old men spend most of their time justifying the decisions they've made because the alternative is too unthinkable. They never admit the possibility they were wrong.
I don't know with certainty if the decisions I made were right or not, and I never will, because I didn't live the life that would have eventuated. I think the hallmark of toughness is honesty. How about them apples, you self satisfied coots.
Who said us old coots are satisfied? Everyone makes mistakes. I sure would like some do-overs if it were possible. The older you are, the more mistakes you've likely made. Them apples is fine with me. I pride myself on being honest....and yes, honesty is sometimes a tough choice regardless that it is always the right one.
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Come on Howard, you have to admit, I looked good a foot deep in your wife's turd launcher and yelling so loud I was telling the world about it.
You'd been drinking again and didn't realize it was LtWtbaby's place.
LOL you were balls deep inside some Thai lady boys balloon knot.
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I'll play the asshole. I find that old men spend most of their time justifying the decisions they've made because the alternative is too unthinkable. They never admit the possibility they were wrong.
I don't know with certainty if the decisions I made were right or not, and I never will, because I didn't live the life that would have eventuated. I think the hallmark of toughness is honesty. How about them apples, you self satisfied coots.
Oh, for fuks sake, of course we all make mistakes.
I dated , hooked up and even pursued girls who had no interest in me, etc.
When you're younger and get serious , married, and think it's for life.
BUT, most woman under 35 will likely change.
In my case, an ex-wife changed and wanted children, I didn't.
No way to compromise that, so we divorced.
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Ive made some mistakes in my early married life, and there's been plenty of potential to make them again, one thing I realise now though that when your married and you play up its not just sex, women are evil, they will do anything to wreck what you have, I see past that point of lust no matter how beautiful and all I see is a potential home wrecker, women are sexual psychopaths, bang them at your peril, if you do they will have no conscience about wrecking your marriage. After almost 19 years of being married, there's no point throwing it all away for a moment of weakness when you know how eventually it will play out.
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This happened to me. I was with a girl about a decade ago for 1.5 years and she was cheating on me with a mutual friend that she introduced to me as a long time platonic friend. Warning to all: If your girl tells you she hangs out with mostly guys because she "doesn't get along" with women, be vigilant, because guys don't hang out with girls just for the hell of it, and something will eventually give.
She broke up with me, saved face by getting with this dude immediately, broke up with him a few weeks after and rifled through several guys in the months after.
If a chick has no female friends, she's the fucked up one. Beware any woman without female friends.
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Ive made some mistakes in my early married life, and there's been plenty of potential to make them again, one thing I realise now though that when your married and you play up its not just sex, women are evil, they will do anything to wreck what you have, I see past that point of lust no matter how beautiful and all I see is a potential home wrecker, women are sexual psychopaths, bang them at your peril, if you do they will have no conscience about wrecking your marriage. After almost 19 years of being married, there's no point throwing it all away for a moment of weakness when you know how eventually it will play out.
It's my experience that women are just hard wired differently when it comes to sex and love.
1. For a woman, one of the big turn-ons is being desired by the man.
Most men just want to get busy with a woman they desire to screw.
It's about sexual conquest for men and being desirable for woman.
2. Most woman want attention and really go crazy to get that attention from some guy they like.
3. Some woman have this weird self loathing thing and get turned on by "bad boys".
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They wanted both. I messed around enough to know. Not many guys were insanely fit, tall, handsome, and educated. Whores like to have fun, that cost money, no way about it, the hotter the girl the less down to earth she typically is
That's true, but I've known plenty of men that suffer from the:
" Madonna vs Whore" ideology .
They only want to marry a good , wholesome girl.
They have children and considers his wife as mother to his children and a respectable Princess .
He loves her , but can't seem to enjoy having sex with her.
The guy realizes he needs to have sexual affairs with slutty woman.
For him, sex has to be dirty to be exciting.