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Title: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Al Doggity on April 17, 2017, 09:05:24 AM
... or if they treat you decently is that all that matters? I mean people always say that you can tell a lot about people by how they treat others, but is that really something most people factor into personal relationships?

(Boring anecdote can be posted as an example if asked. -OP)
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: gym**rat on April 17, 2017, 09:09:56 AM
I rarely judge people how they treat others because then you are going by heresay. There is always 2 sides to it. Unless they treat anyone in my family badly then they die.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: bgm on April 17, 2017, 09:14:31 AM
I rarely judge people how they treat others because then you are going by heresay. There is always 2 sides to it. Unless they treat anyone in my family badly then they die.

Really? It's not heresay when you see it in person...you fucking dope.  ;D
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Zillotch on April 17, 2017, 09:17:03 AM
... or if they treat you decently is that all that matters? I mean people always say that you can tell a lot about people by how they treat others, but is that really something most people factor into personal relationships?

(Boring anecdote can be posted as an example if asked. -OP)

u r a real mentally retarded fucking phaggot.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Al Doggity on April 17, 2017, 09:26:34 AM
u r a real mentally retarded fucking phaggot.


Back at ya!

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Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Al Doggity on April 17, 2017, 09:29:28 AM
I rarely judge people how they treat others because then you are going by heresay. There is always 2 sides to it. Unless they treat anyone in my family badly then they die.

No, like bgm said, witnessing them see someone treat someone badly or inconsiderately. Does it matter to you when you see  take a date out and she treats the waitstaff bad? Or if you visit a friend and he treats his lady like dirt?  People constantly say that so-and-so is a nice person or good people, and objectively, it seems like that's not the case A LOT. But does it really matter?
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Zillotch on April 17, 2017, 09:31:08 AM

Back at ya!

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that animated gif is quite clever for someone with ur level of mental retardation, gee golly  ::)
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: gym**rat on April 17, 2017, 09:55:45 AM
No, like bgm said, witnessing them see someone treat someone badly or inconsiderately. Does it matter to you when you see  take a date out and she treats the waitstaff bad? Or if you visit a friend and he treats his lady like dirt?  People constantly say that so-and-so is a nice person or good people, and objectively, it seems like that's not the case A LOT. But does it really matter?

Where do you specify in your initial post that you witness it. That puts a whole different spin on it.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: gym**rat on April 17, 2017, 09:58:16 AM
Really? It's not heresay when you see it in person...you fucking dope.  ;D

Read my above post biggayman.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Zillotch on April 17, 2017, 10:00:29 AM
Read my above post biggayman.


hahaha... ur profile pic. is that animal rape if the cat enjoys it?
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Al Doggity on April 17, 2017, 10:10:35 AM
Where do you specify in your initial post that you witness it. That puts a whole different spin on it.


I didn't say I specified it. In the initial post, I thought it was obvious that I meant having definitive knowledge about how a person treats others, but I guess it wasn't obvious so the follow-up was meant for clarification.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Zillotch on April 17, 2017, 10:15:46 AM
bottom line: humans r assholes... all of them. self serving little assholes.

some r more aesthetically pleasing than others, which could be considered a type of 'saving grace'.... but they are all assholes.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Tapeworm on April 17, 2017, 03:34:58 PM
Of course.  This is like an obvious wyhi.

Moarlike
Do you judge people by their haircut?
Do you judge people who never have a pen?
Do you judge people who offer you orange juice and then pour a 1/3 of a glass?  Wtf is that?  Yes, by 'I'd like some orange juice' I mean I'd like a glass of orange juice, not just some of a glassful.  Or some novelty juice glass that's like 2 shots.  What are you saving up to be jewish?  Jezus.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on April 17, 2017, 03:47:46 PM
Myself I'm like a mirror, you are okay with me and I'm okay with you. You do me a good turn and I'll do likewise. You displease me and I shall react accordingly.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Irongrip400 on April 17, 2017, 05:53:51 PM
Yes.

I also judge posters based on their avatars. OP loses.  ;D
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: NelsonMuntz on April 17, 2017, 06:03:12 PM
I try to avoid judging people by first impressions partly because I am am nbad at first impressions myself, so I like to see people for what they are over time, and 100% not based on whether I agree with them or not.

Just a rant but I hate nowadays where people hate each other based on differing opinions, ie big example would be politics. It's just an opinion for fucks sake, who you or I vote for in the end is nobody's fucking business nor should it be, nor should it be taken personal.

Guess that is the main part I hate, people taking shit so personal today
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: tres_taco_combo on April 17, 2017, 06:07:18 PM
Myself I'm like a mirror, you are okay with me and I'm okay with you. You do me a good turn and I'll do likewise. You displease me and I shall react accordingly.


golden rule

treat others the way you wish to be treated
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: gym**rat on April 17, 2017, 06:24:25 PM
Yes.

I also judge posters based on their avatars. OP loses.  ;D

Please don't judge me by mine.  ;D
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Primemuscle on April 17, 2017, 06:27:08 PM
"Heavy"
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Never1AShow on April 17, 2017, 06:33:23 PM
bottom line: humans r assholes... all of them. self serving little assholes.

some r more aesthetically pleasing than others, which could be considered a type of 'saving grace'.... but they are all assholes.

If topic title was changed to Aesthetically Pleasing Assholes, would make 10 pages for sure.

Fudge Ye not, lest Ye be fudged
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: chaos on April 17, 2017, 09:36:45 PM
I judge people by whether or not my dog likes them.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Coach is Back! on April 17, 2017, 09:49:15 PM
... or if they treat you decently is that all that matters? I mean people always say that you can tell a lot about people by how they treat others, but is that really something most people factor into personal relationships?

(Boring anecdote can be posted as an example if asked. -OP)

Shouldn't judge at all but we all do. That being said, yes in most cases but I also judge people by the way they treat me.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: BB on April 17, 2017, 10:39:00 PM
Yes. I judge folks by it if I can get a reasonable bit of full story or I've been around them enough to know how they act usually. It's like the old Frog and The Scorpion fable, chances are that if something has shown itself to be shitty multiple times in the past, it will probably be that way to you too.

I also judge folks on the way they treat most animals too.
 
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Tennisballz on April 17, 2017, 10:48:08 PM
I try to judge people based on how they treat me.  However if someone is just a complete asshole to everyone else around them, I try to avoid them.  Most people are nice, there are just a few sour kunts here and there but the majority are nice.  The problem is that society is structured to isolate all of us to some extent.  As a result we are sort of naturally defensive or guarded around most others, especially those we don't know or those that are way different.  Take the gym for example.  If you start chatting with people here and there, you will end up knowing most everyone at your gym and I bet most of them are pretty cool.  But the first time you walked in you probably thought to yourself "what a bunch of douchebag brahs".  The people that think all humans are automatically shit are generally very isolated people who have severe social issues.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Nirvana on April 18, 2017, 04:12:37 AM
I judge people by the way they treat servers in restaurants.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Simple Simon on April 18, 2017, 04:33:49 AM
I judge people by whether or not my dog likes them.
my dog likes everyone.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: chaos on April 18, 2017, 09:42:24 AM
my dog likes everyone.
What's your excuse then?
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Pray_4_War on April 18, 2017, 09:49:36 AM
I judge men based on their politics.

I judge women by their level of physical attractiveness.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: wes on April 18, 2017, 10:37:37 AM
I go by how people treat me unless of course he`s a 100% asswipe to everyone else.

They`re out there trust me.
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Henda on April 18, 2017, 01:16:19 PM
Unfortunately as society turns to shit, in real life encounters I find it easier to assume others are fucking shitbags unless they show otherwise, far to many ignorant cu nts about these days, I can get along with just about anyone and go out of my way to be polite and respectful to those that deserve this courtesy, someone who shows to be ignorant I will loudly voice my disdain for them, for example coming out of screwfix the other day and rather than let the door close on the fat woman approaching I took the time to hold it and she never acknowledged this so I called her a ignorant fat stinking cu nt
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: wes on April 18, 2017, 01:57:34 PM
:D
Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: Earl1972 on April 18, 2017, 03:16:21 PM
why wouldn't you judge somebody based on how they treat others?

how they treat others is a more accurate view of who they actually are

if they are just nice to you and shit to everybody else, it's out of fear, you have something they want, or you're just as much of a douche as they are

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Title: Re: Do you judge people by the way they treat others...?
Post by: illuminati on April 18, 2017, 04:21:52 PM
Yes.