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To all getbiggers who have been or are still currently in a relationship, what is the secret to longevity in an intimate relationship (girlfriend, wife, fiance)?
What factors have you identified that has positively contributed to your relationship?
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Relationships have to be deeper than attractions. Having a friendship with your significant other is probably the most important factor.
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Waiting for Howard to reply.
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Trust
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Trying to keep your boyfriend happy, SF?
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Having expectations.
If you have expectations with anyone in life, you will always be dissapointed, hence don't have any expectations.
People spend too much focusing on what others need to bring to the table.
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Having expectations.
If you have expectations with anyone in life, you will always be dissapointed, hence don't have any expectations.
People spend too much focusing on what others need to bring to the table.
Really great advice actually
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Wish I knew.been with my wife 14 years and I'm an asshole.I mean I don't hurt her or anything but I don't go to family functions and basically don't do anything I don't want to which is everything.All guys I meet ask me how I do it and I just say that's how I am,I don't do anything I don't want to.The only holiday I do is xmas day nothing else.I guess I'm a jerk but I laid down how I am at the beginning so she knew what she was in for.She is a wonderful mother and cooks everyday and I basically just work.i laugh when guys say let me ask the boss,I ask no one anything.granted I don't drink or party,I just hit the casino a couple days a week and that's my fun.my wife knows I won't cheat as I truly don't care for women,I can't stand talking with them or listening to them etc...
Basically have no clue.hahah.
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Yes, Goodrum and I started to date 1 month ago.
Has he already given you a size-12 butthole? Is that what this is about? The fear he'll move on to someone else?
No, he doesn't seem to be so shallow. You'll be fine.
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Wish I knew.been with my wife 14 years and I'm an asshole.I mean I don't hurt her or anything but I don't go to family functions and basically don't do anything I don't want to which is everything.All guys I meet ask me how I do it and I just say that's how I am,I don't do anything I don't want to.The only holiday I do is xmas day nothing else.I guess I'm a jerk but I laid down how I am at the beginning so she knew what she was in for.She is a wonderful mother and cooks everyday and I basically just work.i laugh when guys say let me ask the boss,I ask no one anything.granted I don't drink or party,I just hit the casino a couple days a week and that's my fun.my wife knows I won't cheat as I truly don't care for women,I can't stand talking with them or listening to them etc...
Basically have no clue.hahah.
Lol so your advice is find someone who accepts you.
That's good advice. People always think they can change the other person.
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^ Seriously, though. I agree it's good advice to find someone who accepts you. But Princess L's advice pretty much says everything. All the good things come from trust.
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Wish I knew.been with my wife 14 years and I'm an asshole.I mean I don't hurt her or anything but I don't go to family functions and basically don't do anything I don't want to which is everything.All guys I meet ask me how I do it and I just say that's how I am,I don't do anything I don't want to.The only holiday I do is xmas day nothing else.I guess I'm a jerk but I laid down how I am at the beginning so she knew what she was in for.She is a wonderful mother and cooks everyday and I basically just work.i laugh when guys say let me ask the boss,I ask no one anything.granted I don't drink or party,I just hit the casino a couple days a week and that's my fun.my wife knows I won't cheat as I truly don't care for women,I can't stand talking with them or listening to them etc...
Basically have no clue.hahah.
Solid advice! ;D
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Lol so your advice is find someone who accepts you.
That's good advice. People always think they can change the other person.
Yeah hahaha pretty much.
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Doggystyle
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Has he already given you a size-12 butthole? Is that what this is about? The fear he'll move on to someone else?
No, he doesn't seem to be so shallow. You'll be fine.
Thank you for the words of reassurance.
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Thank you for the words of reassurance.
All kidding aside, I hope you find an answer that works.
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Don't be with a bitch
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Yes, Goodrum and I started to date 1 month ago.
First real truth ever spoken on Getbig
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First real truth ever spoken on Getbig
;D ;D ;D
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Is cuddling important in a relationship?
If so, can the guy be the "little spoon?"
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To all getbiggers who have been or are still currently in a relationship, what is the secret to longevity in an intimate relationship (girlfriend, wife, fiance)?
What factors have you identified that has positively contributed to your relationship?
sex to evacuate the pressure from the tension.
the ability to discuss about everything.
girl got compulsive-obsessive disorder, generally about few absurd detail, so be careful on these point and she will let you in peace.
Being pragmatic and not taking care too much about what she's thinking because it's generally too emotional.
Be an asshole sometime then bang her right and hard to apologize.
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You basically do the exact opposite of robcguns. :)
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Married for 31 years and been with her more years. If she is your best friend and have mutual values it goes a long way. It also helps if you quickly get rid of grudges and rely on each other. That crazy intense fake love you feel when you first meet someone will fade. What lasts is real love. As time goes on you will realize the history of your life has her in it on every page. I now understand the cemetery. Go to one and you will find an old person staring and sometimes talking to a headstone. Some bring a folding chair. Don't get me wrong. When a fine thick ass girl walks by I still think damn. I'm human.
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Opinion? Yes, I do. Because I'm single at the moment. If in a relationship, the woman in your life will make sure that you have no opinions.
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My wife and I treat each other very well, we're extremely supportive. I would never do anything to hurt her, wouldn't want to. Which is why I beat and molest other women, not her. Seems to work for us.
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My wife and I treat each other very well, we're extremely supportive. I would never do anything to hurt her, wouldn't want to. Which is why I beat and molest other women, not her. Seems to work for us.
You have an interesting set up. Was it always like that, or did it evolve?
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To all getbiggers who have been or are still currently in a relationship, what is the secret to longevity in an intimate relationship (girlfriend, wife, fiance)?
What factors have you identified that has positively contributed to your relationship?
Choosing the right partner. Married for nine years together for eleven.
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You have an interesting set up. Was it always like that, or did it evolve?
We were monogamous for the first 10 years, and in an open relationship for 3.5 years now. Don't get me wrong, it's not as great as it sounds. A lot of hard work, constant risk of jealousy and the accompanying marital strife. At a few instances we've discussed divorce. So I'll be the last to promote open marriages, they are iffy at best, and require a lot of openness, honesty and sharing of feelings. Hard for a man.
As Chris Rock once said: 'Relationship? Or new pussy?'
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
That's a brutally honest post. Kudos. Sincerely.
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Having expectations.
If you have expectations with anyone in life, you will always be dissapointed, hence don't have any expectations.
People spend too much focusing on what others need to bring to the table.
100%. I carry around too many expectations in all aspects of my life.
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Is cuddling important in a relationship?
If so, can the guy be the "little spoon?"
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
Wow that's crazy. I would kill everyone in the room lol. Hot as fuck though.
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
It's nice to have Justin Trudeau posting here.
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
Interesting. Not arguing or judging. To each its own. Just curious. Are these men your friends, family, or just strangers? Is there anything in your life you won't share with others, specially strangers?
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
Oh, believe me, I have no desire to explore this - not my thing.
But, I do find the subject interesting, but only in the context of the relationship between the original two, not the open stuff.
Your points are consistent with what i've seen.
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Married for 31 years and been with her more years. If she is your best friend and have mutual values it goes a long way. It also helps if you quickly get rid of grudges and rely on each other. That crazy intense fake love you feel when you first meet someone will fade. What lasts is real love. As time goes on you will realize the history of your life has her in it on every page. I now understand the cemetery. Go to one and you will find an old person staring and sometimes talking to a headstone. Some bring a folding chair. Don't get me wrong. When a fine thick ass girl walks by I still think damn. I'm human.
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Interesting. Not arguing or judging. To each its own. Just curious. Are these men your friends, family, or just strangers? Is there anything in your life you won't share with others, specially strangers?
Only strangers, ideally. They weren't completely random off the street, I did some screening of course. Needed to know I could trust them to know what they were doing. Trust only goes so far, that's why I was present each time, to check on proper condom use etc.
Yes, some things are completely off limits. So perhaps I should have specifically said I feel no sexual jealousy. If I'd catch her being emotionally intimate with someone that would be 2 manslaughter charges. ;) But sexually: if she enjoys herself then why would I disrupt that? She lets me beat and abuse other women, and is happy for me that I can have that release. Again: reciprocity.
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It's nice to have Justin Trudeau posting here.
IIRC he is a cuck. Technically what we do should be termed hotwifing. I don't enjoy the fact that I get sidetracked, I just like seeing her cum. And as I'm fairly dominant I'm not sitting on the couch crying. When the urge hits me I tag in and use her myself. But otherwise I'm fine with telling other dudes how to plug her effectively. Most dudes need coaching. ::)
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That's a brutally honest post. Kudos. Sincerely.
Thanks. Can't pull this off without complete honesty.
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We were monogamous for the first 10 years, and in an open relationship for 3.5 years now. Don't get me wrong, it's not as great as it sounds. A lot of hard work, constant risk of jealousy and the accompanying marital strife. At a few instances we've discussed divorce. So I'll be the last to promote open marriages, they are iffy at best, and require a lot of openness, honesty and sharing of feelings. Hard for a man.
As Chris Rock once said: 'Relationship? Or new pussy?'
Do you still have the jealousy issue? We do the same thing, granted my girlfriend is more homoflexible than bi so her interest in men is minimal. and generally we play together with her picking the girl, but i've found since going "open" (been together 8 open 3) whatever bit of jealousy or distrust has virtually disappeared. Afterall if don't have to lie about being attracted to\wanting to fuck\flirting with another woman. She also has access to any of my social media, our phones are unlocked and she can read every single text i've sent either on the tablet via imessage or on verizon vtext.
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Only strangers, ideally. They weren't completely random off the street, I did some screening of course. Needed to know I could trust them to know what they were doing. Trust only goes so far, that's why I was present each time, to check on proper condom use etc.
Yes, some things are completely off limits. So perhaps I should have specifically said I feel no sexual jealousy. If I'd catch her being emotionally intimate with someone that would be 2 manslaughter charges. ;) But sexually: if she enjoys herself then why would I disrupt that? She lets me beat and abuse other women, and is happy for me that I can have that release. Again: reciprocity.
Ah, quality control. :D
What things are off limits, things you won't share, tooth brush, vehicle, recliner, lawnmower?
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Do you still have the jealousy issue? We do the same thing, granted my girlfriend is more homoflexible than bi so her interest in men is minimal. and generally we play together with her picking the girl, but i've found since going "open" (been together 8 open 3) whatever bit of jealousy or distrust has virtually disappeared. Afterall if don't have to lie about being attracted to\wanting to fuck\flirting with another woman. She also has access to any of my social media, our phones are unlocked and she can read every single text i've sent either on the tablet via imessage or on verizon vtext.
My wife still has a serious problem with jealousy. I'm the first man who hasn't abused her, so I understand how it can feel extremely threatening to her when the only good guy ever is attracted to other women.
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Ah, quality control. :D
What things are off limits, things you won't share, tooth brush, vehicle, recliner, lawnmower?
Fairly strict: never in our home. No relationships, no emotional connection. No anal for her with any man other than me. We keep each other updated about our locations. No guys for me unless she's present too (one of her kinks).
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My wife still has a serious problem with jealousy. I'm the first man who hasn't abused her, so I understand how it can feel extremely threatening to her when the only good guy ever is attracted to other women.
do you play outside of your wife being there? i find that takes a lot of the jealously away, or have her pick the woman. it's always going to be someone uglier or fatter than she is but helps
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do you play outside of your wife being there? i find that takes a lot of the jealously away, or have her pick the woman. it's always going to be someone uglier or fatter than she is but helps
I have to play without her, she cannot stand the sight of degradation and blood. Together we only do men, she's extremely straight.
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I have to play without her, she cannot stand the sight of degradation and blood. Together we only do men, she's extremely straight.
So you bang dudes?
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So you bang dudes?
Yes, sometimes. But only when my wife is present, need a pussy always. ;D
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Yes, sometimes. But only when my wife is present, need a pussy always. ;D
Ok,serious question as a man who likes the puss,how do you get turned on by a mans hairy ass?i understand if you are just gay and you like men but how could you go from a nice soft woman ass to a hairy man ass?always wondered how a man could be bi,just when comparing the two it seems like a no brainer.
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Ok,serious question as a man who likes the puss,how do you get turned on by a mans hairy ass?i understand if you are just gay and you like men but how could you go from a nice soft woman ass to a hairy man ass?always wondered how a man could be bi,just when comparing the two it seems like a no brainer.
Well, I only take them shaved, so that's one mystery solved. ;)
No idea, to be honest. Men don't feel alien to me, my dick just sees them as imperfect women. If I had to choose I'd always choose a woman. But when both can be enjoyed? Why not...
Most likely it's a dominance thing as well, come to think of it.
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I am similar to robcguns with the exception of being not baldy and far more handsome.
Don't do any housework, don't do affection other than sex, don't go to family get togethers (the odd time I have I find myself despising everyone in the room and vowing never to do it again), I work and she takes care of kids,me and the house, we are happy how it is the only thing she sometimes nags about is the zero affection thing but I'm not doing that shit and she accepts that.
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sex to evacuate the pressure from the tension.
the ability to discuss about everything.
girl got compulsive-obsessive disorder, generally about few absurd detail, so be careful on these point and she will let you in peace.
Being pragmatic and not taking care too much about what she's thinking because it's generally too emotional.
Be an asshole sometime then bang her right and hard to apologize.
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This is the best summary ever. If I had a uni, you would have a PhD. Shit. Those four sentences reminded me of all I have learnt, and apply to my girl.
Respect
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Married for 31 years and been with her more years. If she is your best friend and have mutual values it goes a long way. It also helps if you quickly get rid of grudges and rely on each other. That crazy intense fake love you feel when you first meet someone will fade. What lasts is real love. As time goes on you will realize the history of your life has her in it on every page. I now understand the cemetery. Go to one and you will find an old person staring and sometimes talking to a headstone. Some bring a folding chair. Don't get me wrong. When a fine thick ass girl walks by I still think damn. I'm human.
Great post, my brother.
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Wow, trying to figure out if I should shoot my computer or maybe even gouge my eyes out after reading this thread.
;D ;D ;D
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Wow, trying to figure out if I should shoot my computer or maybe even gouge my eyes out after reading this thread.
;D ;D ;D
This thread was definitely worth starting. :D :D
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I have to play without her, she cannot stand the sight of degradation and blood. Together we only do men, she's extremely straight.
Two questions:
1) So, you enjoy seeing blood during sex?
2) Would you ever consider hooking up with Vince Goodrum, CSN, MFT, HPP, CEO?
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Wow, trying to figure out if I should shoot my computer or maybe even gouge my eyes out after reading this thread.
;D ;D ;D
Hahahahah
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The big problem is reciprocity. Now my wife did some experimenting, but feels no real need to have sex with other men. No need to, when she has a sexual brachiosaur like me. But if she desired to get pounded by a team of dindus, I would not have any moral authority to tell her not to. So be careful when going down this rabbit hole, you may not like what your partner ends up choosing to do.
I'm not jealous. At all. So in our case I could watch (and have watched) her getting pounded by multiple dudes at the same time. If that's not something you can jerk off to, then don't even try an open relationship.
I always thought cuckholding was just a ridiculous fantasy made up by porn shooting companies. No offense.
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Two questions:
1) So, you enjoy seeing blood during sex?
2) Would you ever consider hooking up with Vince Goodrum, CSN, MFT, HPP, CEO?
1) Yes. Blood, welts, bruises, etc. Tears and the look of fear get me off. Although normal sex is also still fun of course.
2) No, I prefer men who lift.
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I always thought cuckholding was just a ridiculous fantasy made up by porn shooting companies. No offense.
Not a cuck, so it does not offend me. But yes, they exist. I actually bulled for a few of such couples.
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I always thought cuckholding was just a ridiculous fantasy made up by porn shooting companies. No offense.
assuming you're in anything close to above average shape, start working out duning old folks ours(9am-noon) eventually some old dude is going to offer you money to fuck his dried up old wife
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Not a cuck, so it does not offend me. But yes, they exist. I actually bulled for a few of such couples.
Why don't you consider yourself a cuck?
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Why don't you consider yourself a cuck?
A cuck gets off on being powerless and humiliated. I am neither. If people think that letting your wife enjoy herself is being a cuck too, then it is clear to me why there are so many unhappy marriages out there.
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A cuck gets off on being powerless and humiliated. I am neither. If people think that letting your wife enjoy herself is being a cuck too, then it is clear to me why there are so many unhappy marriages out there.
People place all the value in the world on genitals when in reality it's just another muscle
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Wow, trying to figure out if I should shoot my computer or maybe even gouge my eyes out after reading this thread.
;D ;D ;D
LOL 2x. PHREAK is shockwaving this thread with unexpected details.
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A cuck gets off on being powerless and humiliated. I am neither. If people think that letting your wife enjoy herself is being a cuck too, then it is clear to me why there are so many unhappy marriages out there.
Do you let your wife peg you?
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1) Yes. Blood, welts, bruises, etc. Tears and the look of fear get me off. Although normal sex is also still fun of course.
2) No, I prefer men who lift.
Where do you find these women who want to be beat to a pulp while beeing humped?
This all seems a bit strange to me to be honest.
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Where do you find these women who want to be beat to a pulp while beeing humped?
This all seems a bit strange to me to be honest.
fetlife
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People place all the value in the world on genitals when in reality it's just another muscle
Exactly. It's a strange world where giving my wife a bigger house or more spending money makes me a good man, while giving her more sexual pleasure suddenly makes me less of a man in the eyes of some. I give her more of what she likes, she gives me more of what I like. That's what adults do.
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Do you let your wife peg you?
Why would I?
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don't do anything I don't want to which is everything.
hahaha I want this to be my life motto
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It's nice to have Justin Trudeau posting here.
hahaha
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Where do you find these women who want to be beat to a pulp while beeing humped?
This all seems a bit strange to me to be honest.
Can't beat and fuck at the same time, unfortunately. Working on it. ;D
Normal sites and apps. Residue mentions Fetlife, where I have an account. Hasn't really been good for me, I have more success on Tinder and recently on Whiplr.
Rest assured it still seems strange to me too. Both my own desires and the fact that finding compliant women isn't that difficult. Granted, my wife is cute so I'll stoop to a fatty or old woman for bdsm sometimes. :P
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I am similar to robcguns with the exception of being not baldy and far more handsome.
Don't do any housework, don't do affection other than sex, don't go to family get togethers (the odd time I have I find myself despising everyone in the room and vowing never to do it again), I work and she takes care of kids,me and the house, we are happy how it is the only thing she sometimes nags about is the zero affection thing but I'm not doing that shit and she accepts that.
I'm actually in the same boat but I am the cook in the relationship.
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Can't beat and fuck at the same time, unfortunately. Working on it. ;D
Normal sites and apps. Residue mentions Fetlife, where I have an account. Hasn't really been good for me, I have more success on Tinder and recently on Whiplr.
Rest assured it still seems strange to me too. Both my own desires and the fact that finding compliant women isn't that difficult. Granted, my wife is cute so I'll stoop to a fatty or old woman for bdsm sometimes. :P
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Why would I?
Why wouldn't you?
I don't know one way or another, hence the question.
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Why wouldn't you?
I don't know one way or another, hence the question.
I would not enjoy receiving, she is too submissive to enjoy giving.
Do you get pegged? Why?
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I would not enjoy receiving, she is too submissive to enjoy giving.
Do you get pegged? Why?
Blown away by your honesty and candour.
Now since this is GetBig I have to ask
If you had no choice and had to choose one to bring home
Goodrum or Shizzo?
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Blown away by your honesty and candour.
Now since this is GetBig I have to ask
If you had no choice and had to choose one to bring home
Goodrum or Shizzo?
Damn. Hope option 3 is cyanide?
Shizzo. Alcoholism causes impotence, so he'd just sit there. Vince may be grossly inept, but probably still gets it up, making him a bigger worry.
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I would not enjoy receiving, she is too submissive to enjoy giving.
Do you get pegged? Why?
I do not.
I have never met anyone who engages in this lifestyle, hence the questions.
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Damn. Hope option 3 is cyanide?
Shizzo. Alcoholism causes impotence, so he'd just sit there. Vince may be grossly inept, but probably still gets it up, making him a bigger worry.
Hahahaha
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I do not.
I have never met anyone who engages in this lifestyle, hence the questions.
It's not just one lifestyle. Just because someone is not vanilla doesn't mean they are by default into everything else. There are hundreds of different predilections. It's like saying that because you don't like baseball you must like literally every other sport.
My 'sport' is a mix of dominance, sadism and primal. Others may be into pegging. Still others into age play, CBT, latex, bondage... whatever. Rarely the twain shall meet.
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It's not just one lifestyle. Just because someone is not vanilla doesn't mean they are by default into everything else. There are hundreds of different predilections. It's like saying that because you don't like baseball you must like literally every other sport.
My 'sport' is a mix of dominance, sadism and primal. Others may be into pegging. Still others into age play, CBT, latex, bondage... whatever. Rarely the twain shall meet.
For some reason I just thought of this
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Jesus, this thread took a turn haha. Wow !!
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Damn. Hope option 3 is cyanide?
Shizzo. Alcoholism causes impotence, so he'd just sit there. Vince may be grossly inept, but probably still gets it up, making him a bigger worry.
What would that be (the worry)?
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What would that be (the worry)?
sex nuts and retard strong me thinks
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It's not just one lifestyle. Just because someone is not vanilla doesn't mean they are by default into everything else. There are hundreds of different predilections. It's like saying that because you don't like baseball you must like literally every other sport.
My 'sport' is a mix of dominance, sadism and primal. Others may be into pegging. Still others into age play, CBT, latex, bondage... whatever. Rarely the twain shall meet.
Is it the woman's humiliation?
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sex nuts and retard strong me thinks
I'm trying to figure out if the concern involves his wife -- even though he said she "likes" getting dicked by loose men -- or rather himself getting nailed.
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sex nuts and retard strong me thinks
Hahahah just watched clerks 2 last night.
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It's not just one lifestyle. Just because someone is not vanilla doesn't mean they are by default into everything else. There are hundreds of different predilections. It's like saying that because you don't like baseball you must like literally every other sport.
My 'sport' is a mix of dominance, sadism and primal. Others may be into pegging. Still others into age play, CBT, latex, bondage... whatever. Rarely the twain shall meet.
Why are you getting so defensive? ??? ??? I obviously know ZERO about this lifestyle, hence the questions to receive clarification.
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Is it the woman's humiliation?
To a large degree yes, but that's not most of it. The power associated with this is enormous, you literally have the power to make or break a woman mentally. I use my powers for good, so I tend to leave them feeling good about themselves. Plenty of positive reinforcement, that sort of thing. This has it's upsides ('binders full of women') but also the downside of rapid emotional attachments forming, which would compromise my marriage. Not from my side of course, but stalking is one of the risks when working on someone's emotions.
So it is the power that attracts me. The power to make them do, say and feel really bad things, and yet have them look at me blissfully afterwards.
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Why are you getting so defensive? ??? ??? I obviously know ZERO about this lifestyle, hence the questions to receive clarification.
I was terse, not defensive. The question was lazy, since in this topic I have been clear about being dominant in anything I do sexually. So the question whether I let myself get pegged isn't a logical one.
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Nah I was thinking of him having to deal with goodrum's super strength and 8 inch kielbasa vs the submissive impotent alcoholic shizzo
That, and a 'no darkies' policy. :D
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To all getbiggers who have been or are still currently in a relationship, what is the secret to longevity in an intimate relationship (girlfriend, wife, fiance)?
What factors have you identified that has positively contributed to your relationship?
Having been in relationships non-stop all my life, these are factors I believe in:
- Keep your identity, pride, career and personal boundaries intact while accommodating your girlfriend in areas that matter to her
- Find a kind girl, a basically good person. Evil women do exist.
- Find a girl who matches you physically. You need to like the way she smells, the ways she touches you, to touch her and of course the sex
- Compatible life goals (children, jobs, education)
- Compatible preferences (entertainment, holidays, food etc)
- Fun and friendship :-)
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I was terse, not defensive. The question was lazy, since in this topic I have been clear about being dominant in anything I do sexually. So the question whether I let myself get pegged isn't a logical one.
I didn't read all your responses. ??? ??? ???
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That, and a 'no darkies' policy. :D
I get the idea of not stopping your wife having receiving pleasure from other guys however standing and jerking in the same room is a little bit off to me. How do you feel and mark your role as THE ALPHA male , by giving proper instructions to other lesser males how to satisfy your female?
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To a large degree yes, but that's not most of it. The power associated with this is enormous, you literally have the power to make or break a woman mentally. I use my powers for good, so I tend to leave them feeling good about themselves. Plenty of positive reinforcement, that sort of thing. This has it's upsides ('binders full of women') but also the downside of rapid emotional attachments forming, which would compromise my marriage. Not from my side of course, but stalking is one of the risks when working on someone's emotions.
So it is the power that attracts me. The power to make them do, say and feel really bad things, and yet have them look at me blissfully afterwards.
This thread delivers. I can relate to that though I wouldn't call myself a sadistic individual. But more and more, I can't enjoy sex if there's not an element of physical violence in it. Slapping on the face and choking have become must-haves. Most women I meet, and I never go through dating sites, actually enjoy it too.
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I get the idea of not stopping your wife having receiving pleasure from other guys however standing and jerking in the same room is a little bit off to me. How do you feel and mark your role as THE ALPHA male , by giving proper instructions to other lesser males how to satisfy your female?
It's just practical to not be too deeply involved in having sex with her when there are other men present. Let's say I'm lying on the bed and she is sucking me off. At that point I can't check whether the guy/s reaming her from behind is/are wearing a condom or not. So it's nothing to do with whether or not I am alpha in that situation, it is purely practical: I don't know these dudes well enough to trust them. But yes, I do tell them what they need to do, so that she enjoys it optimally. And if they don't listen they are out.
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This thread delivers. I can relate to that though I wouldn't call myself a sadistic individual. But more and more, I can't enjoy sex if there's not an element of physical violence in it. Slapping on the face and choking have become must-haves. Most women I meet, and I never go through dating sites, actually enjoy it too.
Indeed surprising how acceptable this is for many women. Was going to say 'most' but I'm sure there's some selection bias going on.
The feedback I get is almost invariably that behaving in a very primal, caveman way makes them feel desired. Lusted for. That they feel they are the only thing on my mind.
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Indeed surprising how acceptable this is for many women. Was going to say 'most' but I'm sure there's some selection bias going on.
The feedback I get is almost invariably that behaving in a very primal, caveman way makes them feel desired. Lusted for. That they feel they are the only thing on my mind.
Of course, a lot of women also wouldn't enjoy it but I guess does things are played at a very primal level as you said. The women I date always tell me that they like the fact I'm not one of these metrosexual guys, not to polished, etc....They still go for basic masculinity or at least what they feel is masculinity. It makes it probably easier to get into those kinds of physical relationships with women who know what they want. A wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time probably.
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Of course, a lot of women also wouldn't enjoy it but I guess does things are played at a very primal level as you said. The women I date always tell me that they like the fact I'm not one of these metrosexual guys, not to polished, etc....They still go for basic masculinity or at least what they feel is masculinity. It makes it probably easier to get into those kinds of physical relationships with women who know what they want. A wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time probably.
You're probably right that a wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time of it. Then the woman expects gentleness and is aghast when she's suddenly borderline raped. With people like us it's always very clear what we have to offer, so if we do pique someone's interest, we're almost sure to score with them.
Do you also find it funny to push buttons and see how far you can go? For example, being brutally honest about what you do and don't do, right in the very first 10 minutes of a first encounter? Don't know which reaction I enjoy more... the look of shock and horror (which makes me giggle) or the eyes growing bigger and shinier (which tells me it's go time).
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You're probably right that a wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time of it. Then the woman expects gentleness and is aghast when she's suddenly borderline raped. With people like us it's always very clear what we have to offer, so if we do pique someone's interest, we're almost sure to score with them.
Do you also find it funny to push buttons and see how far you can go? For example, being brutally honest about what you do and don't do, right in the very first 10 minutes of a first encounter? Don't know which reaction I enjoy more... the look of shock and horror (which makes me giggle) or the eyes growing bigger and shinier (which tells me it's go time).
that's lack of oxygen because you have your hands around their throat.
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that's lack of oxygen because you have your hands around their throat.
That comes later. ;D You'd be surprised how many women love to be fucked with a hand or belt around their throat. It's like hair pulling, but better.
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That comes later. ;D You'd be surprised how many women love to be fucked with a hand or belt around their throat. It's like hair pulling, but better.
Id rather not try and find out, I like my freedom....
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Id rather not try and find out, I like my freedom....
there's a thing called 'consent'.
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there's a thing called 'consent'.
trying to explain to the cops the dead woman in the bed consented might prove difficult
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trying to explain to the cops the dead woman in the bed consented might prove difficult
Save your emails and chats. I always do.
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You're probably right that a wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time of it. Then the woman expects gentleness and is aghast when she's suddenly borderline raped. With people like us it's always very clear what we have to offer, so if we do pique someone's interest, we're almost sure to score with them.
Do you also find it funny to push buttons and see how far you can go? For example, being brutally honest about what you do and don't do, right in the very first 10 minutes of a first encounter? Don't know which reaction I enjoy more... the look of shock and horror (which makes me giggle) or the eyes growing bigger and shinier (which tells me it's go time).
Like what we talked about earlier, it depends on the vibe of the conversation from the get go. With some, I like to be very blunt just to see the reaction, knowing that it's very likely she will be shocked. But at least, I know that if I just has turned things differently to get into bed with her, I probably wouldn't have been able to maintain a decent erection. Some, behind the shock, will show more curiosity or excitement than horror. And that's when the fun starts. And sometimes, you just talk to a woman who's smart enough to get what you're into without being vocal about it. And it all becomes implied. Which can be arousing too.
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Save your emails and chats. I always do.
pre-planned pervert of peace
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pre-planned pervert of peace
It's called being careful. Or do you trust any woman?
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It's called being careful. Or do you trust any woman?
only one...
I don't engage in sex with anyone else.
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only one...
I don't engage in sex with anyone else.
Well, that certainly keeps things simple. Good for you if it works for the both of you.
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Well, that certainly keeps things simple. Good for you if it works for the both of you.
Phreak, if you had to choose one getbigger to join, which getbigger would you choose?
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Phreak, if you had to choose one getbigger to join, which getbigger would you choose?
Someone big, hairy, not ripped, at least 6' and straight. Not a plethora of choice. Man of Steel would be very respectful to my wife and me. Fortress, because I agree with his world view, giving us some topics for pillow talk. ;D
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Someone big, hairy, not ripped, at least 6' and straight. Not a plethora of choice. Man of Steel would be very respectful to my wife and me. Fortress, because I agree with his world view, giving us some topics for pillow talk. ;D
Falcon would be a good choice.
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Falcon would be a good choice.
are you sure phreak's girlfriend can handle the falcon's anaconda of a c0ck?
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are you sure phreak's girlfriend can handle the falcon's anaconda of a c0ck?
No, she most definitely cannot! :D Quite a shallow girl.
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Someone big, hairy, not ripped, at least 6' and straight. Not a plethora of choice. Man of Steel would be very respectful to my wife and me. Fortress, because I agree with his world view, giving us some topics for pillow talk. ;D
Not shizzo? ;D
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No, she most definitely cannot! :D Quite a shallow girl.
so if another dude sexes your wife is there a strong urge in you to take her harder and stronger to show that you are the best?
just curious how much narcissism is within you ;D
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That, and a 'no darkies' policy. :D
But what if she told you she'd like to get banged by a black guy (or three, or five)?
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But what if she told you she'd like to get banged by a black guy (or three, or five)?
This topic has already been addressed. Please re-read the thread as to not waste phreaks invaluable time he is bestowing on us.
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Of course, a lot of women also wouldn't enjoy it but I guess does things are played at a very primal level as you said. The women I date always tell me that they like the fact I'm not one of these metrosexual guys, not to polished, etc....They still go for basic masculinity or at least what they feel is masculinity. It makes it probably easier to get into those kinds of physical relationships with women who know what they want. A wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time probably.
The "Trump Factor".
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This topic has already been addressed. Please re-read the thread as to not waste phreaks invaluable time he is bestowing on us.
Perhaps I missed whether his sense of racism is more authentic than his attachment to his wife. But the answer seems clear, lol.
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Phreak, if you had to choose one getbigger to join, which getbigger would you choose?
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so if another dude sexes your wife is there a strong urge in you to take her harder and stronger to show that you are the best?
just curious how much narcissism is within you ;D
So much narcissism... I never even doubt I'm the best. ;) Ic someone is fucking her wrong I'll step in. If someone is fucking her right, I'm happy cheerleading.
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Perhaps I missed whether his sense of racism is more authentic than his attachment to his wife. But the answer seems clear, lol.
Racism is mostly a joke. ;D Best dicking she's ever bad was with me and a black kid tag teaming her. Dude only did crossfit and was already wide as fuck. Should have started lifting for real, could be the next Orville Burke.
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So much narcissism... I never even doubt I'm the best. ;) Ic someone is fucking her wrong I'll step in. If someone is fucking her right, I'm happy cheerleading.
good stuff :)
I tried to use my Norway bud to set up a dp for us since he was an outgoing guy who could easily talk to females
thing is none of the women he picked up were hot enough for me as I am VERY VERY VERY PICKY
hell even when I was stinking drunk my standards were still ultra high
and when I say hot enough for a fuck I'm not talking pretty attractive face I'm talking sexy tight firm bubble ass
I am ASS OBSESSED and my x-wifey even nick named me Mr. Asses Lover lol
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good stuff :)
I tried to use my Norway bud to set up a dp for us since he was an outgoing guy who could easily talk to females
thing is none of the women he picked up were hot enough for me as I am VERY VERY VERY PICKY
hell even when I was stinking drunk my standards were still ultra high
and when I say hot enough for a fuck I'm not talking pretty attractive face I'm talking sexy tight firm bubble ass
I am ASS OBSESSED and my x-wifey even nick named me Mr. Asses Lover lol
can someone dig out that pic of him with the girl ironmeister turned into Stephen Hawkins?
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can someone dig out that pic of him with the girl ironmeister turned into Stephen Hawkins?
I've seen your wife pic thanks to a little birdy here, so I wouldn't talk chief ;)
but don't worry I won't post the pic coz that's not my character
and speaking of that, have I ever posted a shopped or unflattering pic of anyone? NO I HAVE NOT
coz that's behaviour for pussies
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I've seen your wife pic thanks to a little birdy here, so I wouldn't talk chief ;)
but don't worry I won't post the pic coz that's not my character
and speaking of that, have I ever posted a shopped or unflattering pic of anyone? NO I HAVE NOT
coz that's behaviour for pussies
my other half is very attractive thanks, there are no "little birdies" here, no one has ever PMd you, why would they?
By the way, the way that post is written reeks of someone else.
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Wish I knew.been with my wife 14 years and I'm an asshole.I mean I don't hurt her or anything but I don't go to family functions and basically don't do anything I don't want to which is everything.All guys I meet ask me how I do it and I just say that's how I am,I don't do anything I don't want to.The only holiday I do is xmas day nothing else.I guess I'm a jerk but I laid down how I am at the beginning so she knew what she was in for.She is a wonderful mother and cooks everyday and I basically just work.i laugh when guys say let me ask the boss,I ask no one anything.granted I don't drink or party,I just hit the casino a couple days a week and that's my fun.my wife knows I won't cheat as I truly don't care for women,I can't stand talking with them or listening to them etc...
Basically have no clue.hahah.
For everybody who is bothered by this post, what they are forgetting is that it is quite possible that his wife would not respect a man who did display too much of what he says he lacks. Some women just simply cannot be treated that well. They want the caveman.
I learned this the hard way.
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my other half is very attractive thanks, there are no "little birdies" here, no one has ever PMd you, why would they?
By the way, the way that post is written reeks of someone else.
sure they haven't, sure thing ;)
anyways, I've told you already for the hundredth time that I am more confident and self assured than I used to be thanks to my boxing lessons
I stood my ground and took heavyweight shots from a fella who has 15 years experience for 3 long rounds of 5-8 minutes
after that spar he gave me one of the best comps i ever got which was "you are a brave guy"
I knew I was quick and athletic but I was surprised to find out that I can take punches and that I got a good hard punch myself
ask njflrx, as he saw my after spar pic and we all no nj is no liar
yes dumbass, people can and do change
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For everybody who is bothered by this post, what they are forgetting is that it is quite possible that his wife would not respect a man who did display too much of what he says he lacks. Some women just simply cannot be treated that well. They want the caveman.
I learned this the hard way.
This is the same man who gave her the third degree on whether or not she ever slept with any black or Hispanic men.
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This is the same man who gave her the third degree on whether or not she ever slept with any black or Hispanic men.
Sounds about right.
The particular caveman that rained on my parade is a card carrying member of the white power movement :)
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sure they haven't, sure thing ;)
anyways, I've told you already for the hundredth time that I am more confident and self assured than I used to be thanks to my boxing lessons
I stood my ground and took heavyweight shots from a fella who has 15 years experience for 3 long rounds of 5-8 minutes
after that spar he gave me one of the best comps i ever got which was "you are a brave guy"
I knew I was quick and athletic but I was surprised to find out that I can take punches and that I got a good hard punch myself
ask njflrx, as he saw my after spar pic and we all no nj is no liar
yes dumbass, people can and do change
i once had a rabbit called kicker, he was a lovely shade of brown, everyone liked him.
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I no you say it about being strong and powerful to show you air in charge but no need to stick youself in man but hole to show tthat. that is exuse to be poof but say not poof when really are but it is ok
Racism is mostly a joke. ;D Best dicking she's ever bad was with me and a black kid tag teaming her. Dude only did crossfit and was already wide as fuck. Should have started lifting for real, could be the next Orville Burke.
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I no you say it about being strong and powerful to show you air in charge but no need to stick youself in man but hole to show tthat. that is exuse to be poof but say not poof when really are but it is ok
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if he's not trolling and that really is hhis natural writing style then I got him pegged as some kind of aAsian like gaywon and sucksfags1900times
pity about the small tinyass rice dicks
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Racism is mostly a joke. ;D Best dicking she's ever bad was with me and a black kid tag teaming her. Dude only did crossfit and was already wide as fuck. Should have started lifting for real, could be the next Orville Burke.
This post just ruined this whole thread.
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if he's not trolling and that really is hhis natural writing style then I got him pegged as some kind of aAsian like gaywon and sucksfags1900times
pity about the small tinyass rice dicks
Interesting choice of words...
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lol at morons thinking I am asian haha lol
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does not maatter if asain, pale,black,poof,no poof,brown,big,small does not make a difrece just lift weigths be happy do what you want. everything not same for eveyrone else you may like but he may not but that is ok so no worrying
lol at morons thinking I am asian haha lol
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Racism is mostly a joke. ;D Best dicking she's ever bad was with me and a black kid tag teaming her. Dude only did crossfit and was already wide as fuck. Should have started lifting for real, could be the next Orville Burke.
Looks like some of the guys on this thread would've loved giving her a spell during that. :-X
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Racism is mostly a joke. ;D Best dicking she's ever bad was with me and a black kid tag teaming her. Dude only did crossfit and was already wide as fuck. Should have started lifting for real, could be the next Orville Burke.
so one in anus, and another man in pussy?
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This is the same man who gave her the third degree on whether or not she ever slept with any black or Hispanic men.
What is wrong with that?my beliefs and choices,no?
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so one in anus, and another man in pussy?
No, just alternating in her pussy, sometimes a bit of spitroasting.
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lol at morons thinking I am asian haha lol
Got chop suey, blo?
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What is wrong with that?my beliefs and choices,no?
Who cares if she did or didn't? You do. You can't see beyond that. And chances are you are no better than the black men you go on about. You have no real beliefs.
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Who cares if she did or didn't? You do. You can't see beyond that. And chances are you are no better than the black men you go on about. You have no real beliefs.
just curious dude
does it or would it piss you off seeing a white dude bang and nail a sexy ass black click good and hard?
I remember seeing an interracial gang bang where 3 black dudes nailed this nice assed Russian girl
2 were big "bodybuilder" types and one was a fit athletic "twink" and the twinkish guy gave it to her the best pounding and nailing her with great power and most importantly STAMINA 8)
those other 2 bodybuilder types gasses out rather easily and couldn't continue the hard nailing the twink did lol
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Got chop suey, blo?
Strange how people think I am asian lol. Morons haha lol
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Strange how people think I am asian lol. Morons haha lol
Try to be authentic blo; it's 'molons', not 'morons' :D
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Odd how slapping around/choking bloody women is considered "dominant". I consider that behavior bordering on psychopathic.
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Odd how slapping around/choking bloody women is considered "dominant". I consider that behavior bordering on psychopathic.
its only dominant when you ignore the "safe word"
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Who cares if she did or didn't? You do. You can't see beyond that. And chances are you are no better than the black men you go on about. You have no real beliefs.
To me it's disgusting and that is my choice to think that.I am better,as I support my family,I don't get free healthcare,I don't get welfare or food stamps,I wear a belt,I can speak English correctly,I don't do drive bys,I don't rape and murder,I don't sell drugs.Think I covered why I'm better.
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just curious dude
does it or would it piss you off seeing a white dude bang and nail a sexy ass black click good and hard?
I remember seeing an interracial gang bang where 3 black dudes nailed this nice assed Russian girl
2 were big "bodybuilder" types and one was a fit athletic "twink" and the twinkish guy gave it to her the best pounding and nailing her with great power and most importantly STAMINA 8)
those other 2 bodybuilder types gasses out rather easily and couldn't continue the hard nailing the twink did lol
I know this was to Parker but I can't stand seeing any black white mixing.It fucking grosses me out.
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To me it's disgusting and that is my choice to think that.I am better,as I support my family,I don't get free healthcare,I don't get welfare or food stamps,I wear a belt,I can speak English correctly,I don't do drive bys,I don't rape and murder,I don't sell drugs.Think I covered why I'm better.
I bet you can't dunk a basketball.
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I bet you can't dunk a basketball.
Hahaha you got me
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I know this was to Parker but I can't stand seeing any black white mixing.It fucking grosses me out.
not even seeing a white man fuck the living shut out of a super hot ass black girl?
seeing as ching chong sucksfags1900 is just an asian turd then he has no relevance within this discussion except when white or black men dominate asian sluts
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To me it's disgusting and that is my choice to think that.I am better,as I support my family,I don't get free healthcare,I don't get welfare or food stamps,I wear a belt,I can speak English correctly,I don't do drive bys,I don't rape and murder,I don't sell drugs.Think I covered why I'm better.
But you are not. If you must look down on other people, it shows the level you really are on. Because a lot of white folks are on assistant than you realize (you probably know them). Especially Social Security disability---when they have no real disability. And given your profession, home improvement, construction, you already know that there is a high amount of drug usage. It's always the ones who want to point what others do and that they are "not like that", to keep the attention off of them.
The woman who deals with you must have some serious low self esteem. And I willing to bet you have a lot more in common with Trey on the block, especially when he has some "additives" for training.
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its only dominant when you ignore the "safe word"
Wonder if Phreak will inform us of any other practices.
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But you are not. If you must look down on other people, it shows the level you really are on. Because a lot of white folks are on assistant than you realize (you probably know them). Especially Social Security disability---when they have no real disability. And given your profession, home improvement, construction, you already know that there is a high amount of drug usage. It's always the ones who want to point what others do and that they are "not like that", to keep the attention off of them.
The woman who deals with you must have some serious low self esteem. And I willing to bet you have a lot more in common with Trey on the block, especially when he has some "additives" for training.
Proud white man and you blacks can't handle that.I have nothing in common with anyone named trey on the block.I do no drugs and don't drink.I have no issues.I believe blacks and whites should be separated and that's that.I find no use for blacks and to me are the problem with the word today.i don't need to keep attention off myself as I don't do anything illegal same cant be said for most black people if not all.
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Phreak, any other stories for us?